Remember you guys I’m not saying that you should cheat I would never tell you that. But to be a man that is viewed as someone who has options is to be considered a man of value.
Just think of it this way: if someone can lie to you - they can cheat you. If someone can lie and cheat - they can steal. If someone can lie, cheat, steal - they can betray. The prisons are full of people who lie, cheat, steal, betray, and ultimately kill. It happens every day - be careful of who you let into your life.
@Chan Smith that can only backfire with a woman who is extremely insecure. If the man just like my friend I was talking about in this video shows the woman that he is only for her then even though she sees and knows that he has options. She will have nothing to worry about Because at the end of the day he chose her just like my friend. And they are happily married and working on having a kid
Well any adult (male or female) that needs antics and attracts those who like antics get what they deserve. At some point you have to grow up and know who you are and what you want. Anyone that doesn't fit what you are looking for, say good luck in life and keep it moving. Just ADULT, not talking pills or catch phrases just ADULT damn!
They’re boring because they don’t know what entertains them. That’s why they bring up being spontaneous. They can’t think of something that’s fun besides someone doing something for them.
It’s crazy how a lot of women aren’t interested in you until they see that you’re taken or they know that other women want you. But let a man be single, and it’s crickets…
It's because it shows them that a guy has value I guess. They see another woman is interested so it in turn makes them interested. Psychology 😂 I feel like if a dude is being friendzoned he should just tell the chick he's got a girlfriend and talk about how great the relationship is. Then maybe she'll become interested haha. Sure, It isn't guaranteed to work and most likely won't but there's a chance. More chance than if the dude does nothing and continues to be essentially ignored.
@@rahimi4762 They do because they have seen that all their life. They want to be relatable so bad they love the drama they like the attention that they will get if they run to the Internet and say that you cheated on them. They are also submissive by nature and being submissive in today’s society means that you get playedand you get bitched out. No surprise this is what there excepting.
Not saying they're all just pieces of meat but I've had much better results treating them as just pieces of meat. My results are a little skewed tho as I'm not looking for a partner anymore so much as a convenient body. Guess this is part of that societal collapse spiral where bad leads to worse.
Nah fam! I'm staying loyal to my woman. She treats me right so making my girl think I'd cheat on her with some other chick ain't happening. If she don't treat me the way I treat her, I'll move on faster than a Ferrari. But she does treat me right so I'm not worried.
I agree these chicks are crazy. I’d rather leave a situation before unnecessarily hurting someone’s feelings because I wasn’t being honest with how I truly felt. That would be toxic and irresponsible.
I’d say it’s not necessarily letting her know you’d cheat but her being aware that you could bag another chick if you wanted to… If that makes any sense to you.
As a guy trying to loose weight i lost all interest in relationships after my first girlfriend after i graduated.Did me so wrong made me wake up screw a relationship im going for that money and to fix my health.I need myself before anyone else.
@Retired MGTOW Every single woman in the world could do that if she wanted to. So I'm just supposed to not have a relationship with a girl I legit trust. She already richer than me. Made the first move. Has been nothing but great to me. I ain't God. I don't know what might happen in 5 years. I can only guess from the facts I have and all facts state she's a keeper.
No, i don't think so. They were talking about spontaneity. Someone who is very spontaneous is usually a more impulsive person. More impulsive people think less and do things that are "exciting" more. They also cheat more. Doesn't mean that all spontaneous people are unfaithful though, just a tendency. Sometimes it comes with money too. Someone who has enough money to get on a plane on a moment's notice is more probably to travel and do things on a moment's notice. And people with money like that are often sought after by some women, making cheating more common
The irony is that modern W’s will convey and display all the signs that they want ongoing, constant loyalty & commitment, but a lot of them inherently get bored because they’re social beings. They thrive on the emotional rollercoaster that is the ups and downs of a relationship otherwise... they get bored 🤷🏾♂️ 80% divorce initiation by them is for a reason. “I’m not happy”
Yeah this is not the mentality of all women. This is the mental capacity of those women who think they are the “hottest most beautiful, your lucky if I look at you” types. They think they are worth way more than they are bc of just looks.
Exactly. This is insane to me. I feel like as men we need to stop buying into this dysfunction of being valued on a surface level. If our value is in how much women we can pull or what we got in that account etc then what are we without those things? A real woman sees the real value beyond those things and we need to stop wasting time on the ones that don't
@@lonnie008 it wasn’t specifically saying sexually, they said boring in general bc they want to always be taken places and doing things. They are used to dudes handing them whatever they want and that’s not all women, just those that think they are gods gift bc of looks
What the hell do they mean by boring ? Cause im a bit confused usually its the pretty/attractive girls that are hella boring. We got to carry the whole relationship and if we don't cheat we are boring what the actual F. These girls are crazy they don't want good men they want drama.
@@MACA_Zeon Men aren't clowns. If a woman isn't sensible enough to find ways to entertain herself and constantly seeks that from men she's needy to the point where she's a waste of time. If she wants constant entertainment she can go read a book or go for a walk. Since when have men devolved to be womens' playthings?
@@MACA_Zeon Assuming and making educated guesses are two different things. When a person assumes they make an ass out of themselves and other people. A hypothesis is an educated guess. If that's hypothetically speaking, i suppose you would have a point. With that having been said, men don't have to assume anything. No men don't have to be women's play things.
One time my wife then girl friend said to me you dont even realize when woman like you and i was like yeaah which one point her out she started laughing now she wasnt talking about her self she was talking about other woman and i admit im not very observant ,i simped hard in my early 20s for this chick and she broke my heart the simp died with the broken heart its a lot easier to get woman if you dont care if they come or go. i look back and miss the innocence of the simp i used to be but he is gone forever.
I don't understand what you are saying? Are you saying your wife, when she was just your girlfriend, used to tell you that chicks stared at you all then time? Then bring up an ex girlfriend of yours, that you simped for, and because of her you stopped caring if women came or went in your life? Which is the reason your wife would tell you that? Am I right? Cause I kinda don't get what you are getting at here.
@@TheYoSongMan Your close i should of started with the simping part first that happened in my early 20s im 56 now and i was referring to my current wife that when we were dating she said that i dont notice when woman look at me but thats because im not the most observant person you will ever meet,had nothing to do with my dateing stradegy i was basically saying that simping didnt work for me so i just stopped doing it and i notice i had much better results with woman ,ive been married 7 years to my current wife we started dateing when i was 42, i hope that clears it up
@@zziinn333 Gotcha. Yeah. That makes sense. Simping doesn't work for anyone. I'm glad you got out of that phase. And I'm glad to have never been one ever myself.
I know there are a lot of women like this out there but I'd say a vast majority of women would disagree with the women on the podcast. If you stay away from the basic women, I don't think this would be an issue.
When he meant “OPTIONS” it not necessarily about having a rotation of women, it’s about having things in your life that make u busy like ur hobbies, ur purpose and etc. PUT YOURSELF FIRST NOT WOMEN!!!
I made a tiktok about this and that women who label us men "boring" arent built for relationship because if shawty can not enjoy peace, then shawty is not built for something beautiful but devilish intentions. I have spontaneous moments like if I was bored and hear that something going on that night I'll be down but I more so like planning things out so that I have the funds to do it. Like me, I don't want somebody that's too much of a homebody but I dont want somebody too spontaneous who wants to go out 24/7. That right balance and that's what they women need to realize that Being a cheater does not make you a exciting person because these women don't really at a moment notice, Do gonna bounce on shawty and shes gonna be looking stupid because she thought he was exciting yet the loyal dude is boring. WACK LMAO
So cheating is the fun part the relationship? So this boring guy as you say, you two do everything together…trips, dining, or whatever else! What else do you want? FEMALES LOVE DRAMA!
This crazy because these girls believe that in order to be spontaneous and fun you have to cheat. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ wow. I’ve been spontaneous with my girl for the entire time we’ve been together and she or I have never cheated. We play games, random outings, random traveling, jokes at each other and a whole bunch of other things that make our relationship happy and fun. Also I don’t have time to cheat because I’m to busy focusing all my time on myself and my girl, making sure she’s happy and myself.
@Vienna Sausage Every woman I've been with has elements of these 'hoes'. I really want to believe you, but I've found that for every woman I've personally known kindness, decency and understanding are huge turnoffs. The only exception to the rule was when I was in church, and even there so many women wanted the bad boys first. She may not speak for you, but there are plenty of women saying these same things in not so many words. EDIT: I have kept asking "Why is she with him when he's an asshole?" over and over and over again my entire life. Only TRP gave me a decent explanation. And you're telling me it's a lie?
Women are beginning to realize all men always have options, namely two: to be with them or with no one. They only see things from their own "I need a man at all times" perspective.
Women like being in competition with each other, especially the attractive ones, and the reason they prefer a cheater over a non cheater is that they love the thrill of competition they're addicted to it, and if a guy doesn't have the ability to cheat on them, then he's automatically deemed low value and she doesn't have to compete to keep him, therefore making relationship as they say "boring"
What the heck am I watching...... are these women serious!!!! I feel you can have fun with a good, honest man. Why would want someone who cheats that is beyond dumb maybe I'm boring idk
These days it is pointless to look for a relationship.. it's best to work on yourself and life will sort out the rest.. be patient because you will rush yourself into hell
I’ve been cheated on in every relationship I’ve been in. I’ve been told I’m too boring, too safe, had an ex break up with me because I never argued with her… nor was a pushover or soft but acted like an adult and talked it out instead of yelling and screaming and cussing each other out over any and everything, I’m too attentive (good morning texts, random thinking of you texts and calls through the day, sneaking texts at work, remembering dates and events that were important to her… etc). Apparently all of these are bad things to do if you want a relationship to last or not have your S O looking elsewhere
i wouldnt want other women to want my man and trust me most women feel the same way most women r very insecure self conscious and jealous i dont know any women in my life who would be attracted to a guy who has options and women drooling over him its the opposite of attractive
I’ve said this to plenty of my guys, women don’t want a dude who doesn’t pull females….I couldn’t understand that for the life of me. Until I turned my savage up
This is actually nothing new! I’m Gen X and I believe this is something that started mostly in my generation. This typically is how younger women think. Especially the party girl type or women heavy in the hip hop culture. When they say boring, they’re saying they need some type of dysfunction to keep them on edge. It’s emotionally stimulating to them! It also ties into them wanting who’s wanted. This is why I always say that high school through most of your 20’s is the hardest years for an average man trying to date. They just don’t have what it takes to get multiple women……..YET!
I'm sick watching this video it makes a faithful girl like me want to puke I got a man right now that is romantic loyal and is the best relationship I've ever had my man is working towards his goals works out basically does causal things that these girls would look at as boring seeing this makes me happy I got the man I got
I feel like this is basically the “popular guy theory” we’re everybody wants him because they have to fight for his attention.To me I rather be solid with someone who doesn’t need outside presence to be a good woman.Its boring because one of you have no personality or just high expectations.
These woman want to feel like they are winning the prize .. there are other ways to make her see and feel like she fought for you and won without cheating
Going up in a single mom household, I was not brought up, nor prepared for women like this. Matter of fact, I was taught the exact difference. Buying flowers, opening doors, being respectful makes me a "Suber Simp"
ayo dont really have anthing else to say but... just... thank you man, really... keep that up! Even tho Im in a relationship since over 2 years now, Im not forgetting this side and still am concerned about how people think, and your channel is just what I need bro
I gotta make it clear that that’s not the case for every female. The first guy I fell in love with had a gf without me knowing. My whole perspective of him changed when I found out. I kept my distance and told him to get his shit together and choose. The sex became less enjoyable because I didn’t trust him afterwards, the conversations got small and awkward and so on. I realised that he had a lot of options and wasn’t very committed to his relationships, and that slowly but surely made my feelings go away and I decided to cut him off. So don’t think having a lot of options always makes females attracted to you, cause in my case it was the complete opposite.
I hear what you saying and the greatest thing I've learned is knowing your worth. Cause when you know your worth you ain't gotta flex your worth will speak for itself.
This is why I’m glad I’m with the girl I’m with now as watching anime and playing video games together is enough for her. “Her words not mine”. And honestly that’s completely fine with me as we can always do something that’s more spontaneous another time. And where I’m from not to many girls are like that.
@@12th.jahlil you right, but I already accounted for that; when i said “If I want to go do something else she’s usually completely fine with it.” For example for my 21 birthday I invited her to go paintball shooting with me as that was some I didn’t do in a long time and she, from what I saw, enjoyed it.
Sounds like a toxic or manipulative relationship to me. So, don't be your true self if you're stable, boring, and have simple hobbies. We must be someone else, step outside our comfort zone, and change our lifestyle just to please a woman who wants a man that has other women.
It’s not about being Anyone else other than who you are. Doing things out of your comfort zone is something we all should be doing, that’s where growth occurs. You can’t grow if you’re staying with your comfort zone. Keeping a relationship fun and interesting is the opposite of being boring. That’s simply what I’m saying
@@userfriendly4612 exactly like Fock em I’m gonna be myself… if you don’t like me tough, there’s 3 billion women on this planet one of them will like my boring ass
That's why in the old days, fathers chose the husband. Women aren't smart about selecting good men. Most guys I know today would rather work OT than waste time with women, adding value rather than waste..
Story time. Had an ex that I met when I was in my rotation days. She was the only one who didn't know I had other girls. She wanted me so bad after I got exposed. I later cut off all the other girls, like she asked me to. What did she do? Cheat on me with the type of guy she asked me to stop being. A guy with the sauce and multiple girls. I was like "TF?" back then but it makes perfect sense now.
Most of these dudes these women are chasing are bums with no money which equals boring. I see guys with money, hobbies and travel turned down for toxic excitement
This is exactly what I've been saying. I would treat a woman like a straight up queen & they don't appreciate it. Every time they end up cheating on me with some worthless guy that treats them like trash. I have given up on trying to get in another relationship.
Thanks there was a lot of wisdom in this video…I’m a married guy but I realized I’m freaking bored as hell. I’m not saying I want to get out and cheat…I love my wife & kids…they mean everything to me but I miss doing shit I did when I was single….I miss guys trips and hiking and getting up and going to an art museum or a car show….or even just traveling on a day trip to go to a restaurant I saw on tv in another city.
Trust me, any girl thats WORTH it, DON'T want cheaters! Only toxic/immature girls want toxic men. Good men are so valued by good women! Both may be rare but we are here!
I've just given up on the reality of me being in a relationship. I'm grinding on my shit yet I feel as if I'm a ghost my life. I hate it. I wonder what it's like being born with value. Being an average guy sucks ass.
Fun and spontaneous gets boring over time, then you're stuck trying to grab the ones you missed cause they were "boring" but now they are taken. Being faithful is what you want long term but "fun" is what looks attractive right now but has a short shelf life
This some young girl shit. These broads don't even know/love themselves frfr. Real women are done with the lies and the game playing. Me personally, I love my "boring", dependable, faithful man, and I'm gonna always give him it right back!
@@Ticketman99 that's not what I meant, but I can see how it reads. What I meant to say is that we over that shit in general. I think most good women have been played by a man with bad intentions at some point, and vice versa.
@@motherinmaat6947 My point is that, throughout constantly repeating history(and even right now), we're always shown what happens when you "play games". It's not rocket science to not make the same "mistakes" over and over again. So, to rephrase; no. Playing. Games. From. Day. One. Don't need to be "over" things you never done. Yeesh.
@@JL-et2nh Well, in all fairness you can say the same thing about men, and you should be able to ask to be treated right regardless of what life stage you're in because we're human beings, ECT ECT...but I understand what you mean. Honestly I think if a woman is 35 before she "figures it out", then that alone is a huge red flag. Who figures out how to be a decent human being at 35?? Makes me think at that point its just a show and they're just switching up their tactics to try and salvage something out of life before its completly too late and no one loves them but their cats!😆
When me and my girl go out she notices the same thing. I'm oblivious to it. She talks about how bitter and jealous they look at us. They hate that they can't grab your attention from your woman.
I believe this is a byproduct of hypergamy. Cheating can, at times, be a demonstration of higher value. You’re showing you have options so If she wants you she needs to step up. That’s toxic though
The Result of Thinking With Emotions... Just when I thought the dysfunction couldn't get any worse there's a woman that comes in like, *"Hold my whiteclaw..."* SMH
Im at 3min in and hearing women talk like that just makes me feel like it's objectively smart to not get in any type of a serious relationship. I've been single for a few months now and starting to enjoy it more and more
I don’t think this would apply in a respectable marriage…loyalty should come from both ends regardless of what gender you are. What you want from a relationship is what you should give so that you have the ability to require the same -reciprocity
I think it depends on the type of girls you like. If you in to the nerdy type’s you fine tho and dont need to worry about them thinking like this. But if you in to the girls with actual character you wil get shit like this. Im cursed enough to fall for girls with character and im boring some times. I been through lots of these types that run back to guys that dont even have decent jobs. I cant really blaim them tho. I work come home and rest on repeat 🔂 i dont have cops running after me or different baby mamas wanting to kill me for attention so she could be jealous about.. i would never understand womans mindset but one thing is for sure. I know that love aint for me im not build for that. These women showed me that for years now🤣, so i just enjoy the ride make sure i dont have any regrets everytime and see when next one wil come and that on repeat 🔂
What makes these girls have personality to you? Being loud and opinionated? And what makes nerdy chicks boring to you? Honestly these girls are promiscuous so they like men who are also promiscuous. They just use "boring" as an excuse when they need to cheat
Those will be the same women crying about why they can’t find a good man who will love them unconditionally. But truth is, those thots are best for sleepovers.
I can’t be with cheater cause I don’t want to get hurt and get an std and drama. I want a man that treat me like i am the only woman. Loyal men at kings and not boring cause is about connecting in a level that no one else that could.
It always annoys me when I hear the whole nonsense of "I don't want a boring man". Wtf does that mean? You want constant drama, strife and instability? Because the truth is, life is boring. Peace is boring. Prosperity is boring. A good life is very often boring....AND THAT'S NOT A BAD THING.
hey my man. i found your other channel about half a year ago. your reactions to metal music and ghost videos made time in lockdown way better!thanks a lot for that! and now i found this channel. you gave me good advise for my future life man. i always struggled with depression and low self esteem, butpeople like you always find the right words, to give courage. you are bringing so much joy to so many people! never forget that! cheers to you from germany :)
Smh yep stay single I ain't trying to fool with it anymore I rather have female friends than to be wasting my health time and peace simping chasing after women for love or sex just to get friendzoned or rejected
Disrespect is exciting. What did y’all fight for feminism for. I don’t want to hear crying from these women. Another single mother and she could of chose better
Remember you guys I’m not saying that you should cheat I would never tell you that. But to be a man that is viewed as someone who has options is to be considered a man of value.
Just think of it this way: if someone can lie to you - they can cheat you. If someone can lie and cheat - they can steal. If someone can lie, cheat, steal - they can betray. The prisons are full of people who lie, cheat, steal, betray, and ultimately kill. It happens every day - be careful of who you let into your life.
@Chan Smith that can only backfire with a woman who is extremely insecure. If the man just like my friend I was talking about in this video shows the woman that he is only for her then even though she sees and knows that he has options. She will have nothing to worry about Because at the end of the day he chose her just like my friend. And they are happily married and working on having a kid
Well any adult (male or female) that needs antics and attracts those who like antics get what they deserve. At some point you have to grow up and know who you are and what you want. Anyone that doesn't fit what you are looking for, say good luck in life and keep it moving.
Just ADULT, not talking pills or catch phrases just ADULT damn!
As long as I c value in that man idc how the world views value. Especially a bimbo online.
@@ADifferentPerspective so why do alot of attractive women have insecuritys?is it a defensive tactic so to speak
Im tired of people calling a faithful man boring just because you enjoy toxic behavior. Find another word because boring isn't it!
Exactly
These type of people arent smart...theyre all pure hype.
Big facts. Got me thinking about life like damn, am I boring? I mean I like to do fun shxt but I don't cheat. WTF? Lmao
@@genetikz2010 I girl cheated on ppl bescuse she said I was too boring like wtf
@@JACQUEZ23 smh. Toxic is fun apparently.
“I don’t wanna be with a boring man” but they themselves are boring
Exactly
With a simple vocabulary too. These women on the show aren’t wife material. Instathot types only.
Seriously 🤦♂️ these broads look more basic than plastic utensils from the dollar store
Facts.. partying all the time and have nothing to talk about but money and fancy things is boring as hell..
They’re boring because they don’t know what entertains them. That’s why they bring up being spontaneous. They can’t think of something that’s fun besides someone doing something for them.
It’s crazy how a lot of women aren’t interested in you until they see that you’re taken or they know that other women want you. But let a man be single, and it’s crickets…
It's because it shows them that a guy has value I guess.
They see another woman is interested so it in turn makes them interested. Psychology 😂
I feel like if a dude is being friendzoned he should just tell the chick he's got a girlfriend and talk about how great the relationship is.
Then maybe she'll become interested haha.
Sure, It isn't guaranteed to work and most likely won't but there's a chance.
More chance than if the dude does nothing and continues to be essentially ignored.
It’s almost like they want to be played and disrespected. It’s feminism subconsciously so they can be single mothers
@@rahimi4762 They do because they have seen that all their life. They want to be relatable so bad they love the drama they like the attention that they will get if they run to the Internet and say that you cheated on them. They are also submissive by nature and being submissive in today’s society means that you get playedand you get bitched out. No surprise this is what there excepting.
Not saying they're all just pieces of meat but I've had much better results treating them as just pieces of meat. My results are a little skewed tho as I'm not looking for a partner anymore so much as a convenient body. Guess this is part of that societal collapse spiral where bad leads to worse.
This is all to their detriment.
Nah fam! I'm staying loyal to my woman. She treats me right so making my girl think I'd cheat on her with some other chick ain't happening. If she don't treat me the way I treat her, I'll move on faster than a Ferrari. But she does treat me right so I'm not worried.
I agree these chicks are crazy. I’d rather leave a situation before unnecessarily hurting someone’s feelings because I wasn’t being honest with how I truly felt. That would be toxic and irresponsible.
I’d say it’s not necessarily letting her know you’d cheat but her being aware that you could bag another chick if you wanted to… If that makes any sense to you.
I'm glad to hear you say that and I'm sure that's why she loves and takes care of you!!
As a guy trying to loose weight i lost all interest in relationships after my first girlfriend after i graduated.Did me so wrong made me wake up screw a relationship im going for that money and to fix my health.I need myself before anyone else.
@Retired MGTOW Every single woman in the world could do that if she wanted to. So I'm just supposed to not have a relationship with a girl I legit trust. She already richer than me. Made the first move. Has been nothing but great to me. I ain't God. I don't know what might happen in 5 years. I can only guess from the facts I have and all facts state she's a keeper.
I swear morals have died like straight up DED!
I prefer someone who is faithful to me
Facts
Preach
Yea but your thinking with Logic. Girls don't do that. 🤷🏾♂️
@@genetikz2010 men and women are different. The toxic side of biology of man and woman is different as well
That’s boring according to them 🤦🏾♂️
soo do they confuse "boring" with loyal? cause they want a "man" who would cheat over a loyal "boring" one
No, i don't think so. They were talking about spontaneity.
Someone who is very spontaneous is usually a more impulsive person. More impulsive people think less and do things that are "exciting" more. They also cheat more.
Doesn't mean that all spontaneous people are unfaithful though, just a tendency.
Sometimes it comes with money too.
Someone who has enough money to get on a plane on a moment's notice is more probably to travel and do things on a moment's notice. And people with money like that are often sought after by some women, making cheating more common
@@jaredorozco3188 Not an excuse
The irony is that modern W’s will convey and display all the signs that they want ongoing, constant loyalty & commitment, but a lot of them inherently get bored because they’re social beings. They thrive on the emotional rollercoaster that is the ups and downs of a relationship otherwise... they get bored 🤷🏾♂️
80% divorce initiation by them is for a reason. “I’m not happy”
They just dumb
These girls don’t even know what boring means, they say they don’t want a boring man but in reality they be the most boring people in the world
Not me ..prefer truth and honesty and faithful!!!
You loyal
Prove it. Receipts, GPS, whatever.
Prove. It.
The level of ignorance in these toddlers masquerading as adult women is unbelievable. I wish somebody had raised her 😕
Exactly, Fresh and Fit or whatever their names are had to have screened for remedial dumb socially dumb broads.
Yeah this is not the mentality of all women. This is the mental capacity of those women who think they are the “hottest most beautiful, your lucky if I look at you” types. They think they are worth way more than they are bc of just looks.
@@Disturbd_76 All women want a man that can arouse them sexually... boring=zero arousal
Exactly. This is insane to me. I feel like as men we need to stop buying into this dysfunction of being valued on a surface level. If our value is in how much women we can pull or what we got in that account etc then what are we without those things? A real woman sees the real value beyond those things and we need to stop wasting time on the ones that don't
@@lonnie008 it wasn’t specifically saying sexually, they said boring in general bc they want to always be taken places and doing things. They are used to dudes handing them whatever they want and that’s not all women, just those that think they are gods gift bc of looks
This sounds like the mindset of little girls than grown women
Girl 1: "I don't want to play with legos"
Girls 2 & 3: "I'll play with the legos then..."
Girl 1, shrieking: "GIVE ME BACK MY LEGOSSSSSSSSSSSS!"
Lol it’s not
Yup
What the hell do they mean by boring ? Cause im a bit confused usually its the pretty/attractive girls that are hella boring. We got to carry the whole relationship and if we don't cheat we are boring what the actual F. These girls are crazy they don't want good men they want drama.
Western women are considered bottom tier for a reason.
That’s the thing, you have to assume and make educated guess with woman, by observation and other things
They don’t know bruh it’s like when they say they need someone a lil street
@@MACA_Zeon Men aren't clowns. If a woman isn't sensible enough to find ways to entertain herself and constantly seeks that from men she's needy to the point where she's a waste of time. If she wants constant entertainment she can go read a book or go for a walk. Since when have men devolved to be womens' playthings?
@@MACA_Zeon Assuming and making educated guesses are two different things. When a person assumes they make an ass out of themselves and other people. A hypothesis is an educated guess. If that's hypothetically speaking, i suppose you would have a point. With that having been said, men don't have to assume anything. No men don't have to be women's play things.
I don’t consider loyal as boring.The bottom line is I want something who is faithful period.
One time my wife then girl friend said to me you dont even realize when woman like you and i was like yeaah which one point her out she started laughing now she wasnt talking about her self she was talking about other woman and i admit im not very observant ,i simped hard in my early 20s for this chick and she broke my heart the simp died with the broken heart its a lot easier to get woman if you dont care if they come or go. i look back and miss the innocence of the simp i used to be but he is gone forever.
Felt that
I don't understand what you are saying? Are you saying your wife, when she was just your girlfriend, used to tell you that chicks stared at you all then time? Then bring up an ex girlfriend of yours, that you simped for, and because of her you stopped caring if women came or went in your life? Which is the reason your wife would tell you that? Am I right? Cause I kinda don't get what you are getting at here.
@@TheYoSongMan Your close i should of started with the simping part first that happened in my early 20s im 56 now and i was referring to my current wife that when we were dating she said that i dont notice when woman look at me but thats because im not the most observant person you will ever meet,had nothing to do with my dateing stradegy i was basically saying that simping didnt work for me so i just stopped doing it and i notice i had much better results with woman ,ive been married 7 years to my current wife we started dateing when i was 42, i hope that clears it up
@@zziinn333 Gotcha. Yeah. That makes sense. Simping doesn't work for anyone. I'm glad you got out of that phase. And I'm glad to have never been one ever myself.
@@TheYoSongMan i hear you.
I know there are a lot of women like this out there but I'd say a vast majority of women would disagree with the women on the podcast. If you stay away from the basic women, I don't think this would be an issue.
When he meant “OPTIONS” it not necessarily about having a rotation of women, it’s about having things in your life that make u busy like ur hobbies, ur purpose and etc.
PUT YOURSELF FIRST NOT WOMEN!!!
She couldn't say "Spontaneity" and that was all I needed to know about her.
Yep 😆 i was like who tf js this?
Lol my first thought was "bye felicia"
I made a tiktok about this and that women who label us men "boring" arent built for relationship because if shawty can not enjoy peace, then shawty is not built for something beautiful but devilish intentions.
I have spontaneous moments like if I was bored and hear that something going on that night I'll be down but I more so like planning things out so that I have the funds to do it.
Like me, I don't want somebody that's too much of a homebody but I dont want somebody too spontaneous who wants to go out 24/7.
That right balance and that's what they women need to realize that Being a cheater does not make you a exciting person because these women don't really at a moment notice,
Do gonna bounce on shawty and shes gonna be looking stupid because she thought he was exciting yet the loyal dude is boring.
WACK LMAO
To be honest, those girls at the beginning of the video are good for hookups at best
Exactly 💯
Naa they are good for to spit on on you’re way to a hookup
Even then they probably carrying a "friend" below the belt.
So cheating is the fun part the relationship? So this boring guy as you say, you two do everything together…trips, dining, or whatever else! What else do you want? FEMALES LOVE DRAMA!
This crazy because these girls believe that in order to be spontaneous and fun you have to cheat. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ wow. I’ve been spontaneous with my girl for the entire time we’ve been together and she or I have never cheated. We play games, random outings, random traveling, jokes at each other and a whole bunch of other things that make our relationship happy and fun. Also I don’t have time to cheat because I’m to busy focusing all my time on myself and my girl, making sure she’s happy and myself.
This girl does NOT speak for all of us! My husband of 14 years has never cheated and if he did I would leave him before dark that day.
I'm glad
Same!
And regret it for the next 14 years. Did you watch the whole video?
I completely agree!!
@Vienna Sausage Every woman I've been with has elements of these 'hoes'. I really want to believe you, but I've found that for every woman I've personally known kindness, decency and understanding are huge turnoffs. The only exception to the rule was when I was in church, and even there so many women wanted the bad boys first. She may not speak for you, but there are plenty of women saying these same things in not so many words.
EDIT: I have kept asking "Why is she with him when he's an asshole?" over and over and over again my entire life. Only TRP gave me a decent explanation. And you're telling me it's a lie?
My solution is walkin away imma juss stay single foreva I ain't gettin within 6 feet of these demons
Since when did stable become boring? 👀 I'm confused.
It's only boring for those who like inestability and mindless drama.
Since you not slanging drugs running from 12 got hella baby mama you boring 🙄
Since the value of relationships and marriage has gone down
Mindless drones think that way, fam. Mindless drones.
Probably since the internet became functional. But I can see a generation of women who will be paying for men company later in their life.
A man's weakness is the facade of his strength.
A woman's strength is the facade of her weakness.
You are an angel.
Love from India.
WTF?!
Wait, I'm supposed to look like I have "options"?
Doesn't that make the very nature of relationships pointless?
Yup this is why a lot of guys don't get in to a relationship
@@core_da2 Welp, hookers it is
@@Ticketman99 yup
@@Ticketman99 yup, been doing that but only occasionally.
Women are beginning to realize all men always have options, namely two: to be with them or with no one. They only see things from their own "I need a man at all times" perspective.
Yeah, women find Men other women want attractive. Even if they're pieces of crap.
Decent men don't stand a chance against that.
Facts unfortunately
Women like being in competition with each other, especially the attractive ones, and the reason they prefer a cheater over a non cheater is that they love the thrill of competition they're addicted to it, and if a guy doesn't have the ability to cheat on them, then he's automatically deemed low value and she doesn't have to compete to keep him, therefore making relationship as they say "boring"
Y’all be attracting some serious disturbing women. You are what you attract fam
They want what they can't have. Grass is greener on the other side
What the heck am I watching...... are these women serious!!!! I feel you can have fun with a good, honest man. Why would want someone who cheats that is beyond dumb maybe I'm boring idk
These days it is pointless to look for a relationship.. it's best to work on yourself and life will sort out the rest.. be patient because you will rush yourself into hell
I’ve been cheated on in every relationship I’ve been in. I’ve been told I’m too boring, too safe, had an ex break up with me because I never argued with her… nor was a pushover or soft but acted like an adult and talked it out instead of yelling and screaming and cussing each other out over any and everything, I’m too attentive (good morning texts, random thinking of you texts and calls through the day, sneaking texts at work, remembering dates and events that were important to her… etc). Apparently all of these are bad things to do if you want a relationship to last or not have your S O looking elsewhere
I’m stay loyal to my self. I’m not going wast my time with fake love.
Stay Solid even if they Fake 💯
Just being mysterious and consistently inconsistent is a long way to not being boring, be a person you yourself would be interested in
The thing is mystery fades. At some point you're going to know somebody if you're long enough with them.
They wanna know he got options.
My ex said to me if other women didn't want me she would likely not look my way.
I hope that is one of the reasons she is an ex.
@@xDarkAngelxc yup
i wouldnt want other women to want my man and trust me most women feel the same way most women r very insecure self conscious and jealous i dont know any women in my life who would be attracted to a guy who has options and women drooling over him its the opposite of attractive
I’ve said this to plenty of my guys, women don’t want a dude who doesn’t pull females….I couldn’t understand that for the life of me. Until I turned my savage up
This is actually nothing new! I’m Gen X and I believe this is something that started mostly in my generation. This typically is how younger women think. Especially the party girl type or women heavy in the hip hop culture. When they say boring, they’re saying they need some type of dysfunction to keep them on edge. It’s emotionally stimulating to them! It also ties into them wanting who’s wanted. This is why I always say that high school through most of your 20’s is the hardest years for an average man trying to date. They just don’t have what it takes to get multiple women……..YET!
It's girls like this that make it hard for guys for sure, and also us women that actually have dignity and values. It's awful!
Glad you understand, it's not easy out here, lol
Sucks for both sexes
I'm sick watching this video it makes a faithful girl like me want to puke I got a man right now that is romantic loyal and is the best relationship I've ever had my man is working towards his goals works out basically does causal things that these girls would look at as boring seeing this makes me happy I got the man I got
I feel like this is basically the “popular guy theory” we’re everybody wants him because they have to fight for his attention.To me I rather be solid with someone who doesn’t need outside presence to be a good woman.Its boring because one of you have no personality or just high expectations.
Yeah, which applies to high school adolescent thinking. This is not for mature, normal adults who wouldn’t even waste their time with such toxicity
These woman want to feel like they are winning the prize .. there are other ways to make her see and feel like she fought for you and won without cheating
This makes me lose faith in humanity. But you're 100% right. Work on yourself more. Put yourself first
Exactly. Live life to the fullest and die as old man without any regrets.
Going up in a single mom household, I was not brought up, nor prepared for women like this. Matter of fact, I was taught the exact difference. Buying flowers, opening doors, being respectful makes me a "Suber Simp"
lol Suber.
Some want the partner to cheat so they have an excuse to cheat
True, but also even if they have a partner that doesn't cheat they'll still cheat.
@@KM-lc6hj facta but if they can cath the partner first they will use that as a scape goat if they ever get caught themself.
🤬That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard 🤣
@@raizoozunu5571 oh really foh
They want the partner to cheat because they're already cheating and don't wanna feel guilty
ayo dont really have anthing else to say but... just... thank you man, really... keep that up! Even tho Im in a relationship since over 2 years now, Im not forgetting this side and still am concerned about how people think, and your channel is just what I need bro
This is why we should stay as free agent and just hit it and quit it.
Rollo there with his arms crossed, going "yup... yup... mmm hmm... yeah, that's about right..."
At this point … I just keep emotions out of it and play the game and it works.
My man ain’t wrong in this video and his boy knew what was up too. That’s how ya gots to be with the young ones.
I gotta make it clear that that’s not the case for every female. The first guy I fell in love with had a gf without me knowing. My whole perspective of him changed when I found out. I kept my distance and told him to get his shit together and choose.
The sex became less enjoyable because I didn’t trust him afterwards, the conversations got small and awkward and so on. I realised that he had a lot of options and wasn’t very committed to his relationships, and that slowly but surely made my feelings go away and I decided to cut him off. So don’t think having a lot of options always makes females attracted to you, cause in my case it was the complete opposite.
I hear what you saying and the greatest thing I've learned is knowing your worth. Cause when you know your worth you ain't gotta flex your worth will speak for itself.
I got too much goin on, as is, to involve multiple drama's into the mix.
I Seconds this
Modern women need to understand it’s not BORING it’s STABILITY but that’s why the juice is not worth the squeeze anymore
This is why I’m glad I’m with the girl I’m with now as watching anime and playing video games together is enough for her. “Her words not mine”. And honestly that’s completely fine with me as we can always do something that’s more spontaneous another time. And where I’m from not to many girls are like that.
@Phuk Mei well I’m 21 and she’s 18, so thanks I’ll keep that in mind considering I’m getting ready to go to boot camp for the Airforce.
Gg bro thats not a very good potential ending to your story. Anime wont be enough for her in her 20’s@@rabbittherabbit
@@12th.jahlil you right, but I already accounted for that; when i said “If I want to go do something else she’s usually completely fine with it.” For example for my 21 birthday I invited her to go paintball shooting with me as that was some I didn’t do in a long time and she, from what I saw, enjoyed it.
Sounds like a toxic or manipulative relationship to me. So, don't be your true self if you're stable, boring, and have simple hobbies. We must be someone else, step outside our comfort zone, and change our lifestyle just to please a woman who wants a man that has other women.
It’s not about being Anyone else other than who you are. Doing things out of your comfort zone is something we all should be doing, that’s where growth occurs. You can’t grow if you’re staying with your comfort zone. Keeping a relationship fun and interesting is the opposite of being boring. That’s simply what I’m saying
@@ADifferentPerspective I understand your point of view but I feel like it's saying, you're not good enough if you don't change your way of life.
@@userfriendly4612 yea fr
@@userfriendly4612 exactly like Fock em I’m gonna be myself… if you don’t like me tough, there’s 3 billion women on this planet one of them will like my boring ass
That's why in the old days, fathers chose the husband. Women aren't smart about selecting good men. Most guys I know today would rather work OT than waste time with women, adding value rather than waste..
“I don’t want to be with a boring man. Because if he’s boring, I’m going to cheat on him”. DISGUSTING. Absolutely disgusting behavior
I would never trade my values for a woman. I would never advise to do it either.
If you are not the cheating kind of guy, be true to yourself
Story time. Had an ex that I met when I was in my rotation days. She was the only one who didn't know I had other girls. She wanted me so bad after I got exposed. I later cut off all the other girls, like she asked me to. What did she do? Cheat on me with the type of guy she asked me to stop being. A guy with the sauce and multiple girls. I was like "TF?" back then but it makes perfect sense now.
Most of these dudes these women are chasing are bums with no money which equals boring. I see guys with money, hobbies and travel turned down for toxic excitement
All the better for them. They don't have to worry about toxic thots divorcing them and taking half.
Wow.. Just wow. This truth is crazy. Good info to know. Good video
This is exactly what I've been saying. I would treat a woman like a straight up queen & they don't appreciate it. Every time they end up cheating on me with some worthless guy that treats them like trash. I have given up on trying to get in another relationship.
Work on yourself. The rest will eventually fall into place.
Thanks there was a lot of wisdom in this video…I’m a married guy but I realized I’m freaking bored as hell. I’m not saying I want to get out and cheat…I love my wife & kids…they mean everything to me but I miss doing shit I did when I was single….I miss guys trips and hiking and getting up and going to an art museum or a car show….or even just traveling on a day trip to go to a restaurant I saw on tv in another city.
These are the types of women who are literally happy being sad
Trust me, any girl thats WORTH it, DON'T want cheaters! Only toxic/immature girls want toxic men. Good men are so valued by good women! Both may be rare but we are here!
I've just given up on the reality of me being in a relationship. I'm grinding on my shit yet I feel as if I'm a ghost my life. I hate it. I wonder what it's like being born with value. Being an average guy sucks ass.
Fun and spontaneous gets boring over time, then you're stuck trying to grab the ones you missed cause they were "boring" but now they are taken.
Being faithful is what you want long term but "fun" is what looks attractive right now but has a short shelf life
This some young girl shit. These broads don't even know/love themselves frfr. Real women are done with the lies and the game playing. Me personally, I love my "boring", dependable, faithful man, and I'm gonna always give him it right back!
"real women" shouldn't play games to begin with.
@@Ticketman99 that's not what I meant, but I can see how it reads. What I meant to say is that we over that shit in general. I think most good women have been played by a man with bad intentions at some point, and vice versa.
@@motherinmaat6947 My point is that, throughout constantly repeating history(and even right now), we're always shown what happens when you "play games".
It's not rocket science to not make the same "mistakes" over and over again.
So, to rephrase; no. Playing. Games. From. Day. One. Don't need to be "over" things you never done.
Yeesh.
But why does it take till their 35+ to get it though lol then expect someone to treat you good
@@JL-et2nh Well, in all fairness you can say the same thing about men, and you should be able to ask to be treated right regardless of what life stage you're in because we're human beings, ECT ECT...but I understand what you mean. Honestly I think if a woman is 35 before she "figures it out", then that alone is a huge red flag. Who figures out how to be a decent human being at 35?? Makes me think at that point its just a show and they're just switching up their tactics to try and salvage something out of life before its completly too late and no one loves them but their cats!😆
This is exactly what I needed.
Boring code for nice nowadays
Decent, stable, genuine, loyal, affectionate
@@ernestocalderon3453 yeah sad I wish I knew this before I started dating
@@lavondavis6522 if a female mistreats you for having good qualities leave her alone,
When me and my girl go out she notices the same thing. I'm oblivious to it. She talks about how bitter and jealous they look at us. They hate that they can't grab your attention from your woman.
I believe this is a byproduct of hypergamy. Cheating can, at times, be a demonstration of higher value. You’re showing you have options so If she wants you she needs to step up. That’s toxic though
Options are everything. Work on yourself, but know to always have a plan B, C, D, E, F... you get the message.
The Result of Thinking With Emotions... Just when I thought the dysfunction couldn't get any worse there's a woman that comes in like, *"Hold my whiteclaw..."* SMH
I’m obsessed with this channel. Keep it up man
Im at 3min in and hearing women talk like that just makes me feel like it's objectively smart to not get in any type of a serious relationship. I've been single for a few months now and starting to enjoy it more and more
I don’t think this would apply in a respectable marriage…loyalty should come from both ends regardless of what gender you are. What you want from a relationship is what you should give so that you have the ability to require the same -reciprocity
I love the internet lol exposing everything
Nice work
Welp I’m staying single forever
These women need therapy. This has to be the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Why would you want to be cheated on?
I think it depends on the type of girls you like. If you in to the nerdy type’s you fine tho and dont need to worry about them thinking like this. But if you in to the girls with actual character you wil get shit like this. Im cursed enough to fall for girls with character and im boring some times. I been through lots of these types that run back to guys that dont even have decent jobs. I cant really blaim them tho. I work come home and rest on repeat 🔂 i dont have cops running after me or different baby mamas wanting to kill me for attention so she could be jealous about.. i would never understand womans mindset but one thing is for sure. I know that love aint for me im not build for that. These women showed me that for years now🤣, so i just enjoy the ride make sure i dont have any regrets everytime and see when next one wil come and that on repeat 🔂
What makes these girls have personality to you? Being loud and opinionated? And what makes nerdy chicks boring to you? Honestly these girls are promiscuous so they like men who are also promiscuous. They just use "boring" as an excuse when they need to cheat
I heard it said that when somebody has you everybody wants you but when no one has you nobody wants you. I have seen this so many times over the years
Those will be the same women crying about why they can’t find a good man who will love them unconditionally. But truth is, those thots are best for sleepovers.
This is 1 of the best Videos I've ever seen 🔥
I really can’t make any logical understanding here. Just in awe
Great video. Love the energy and enthusiasm.
I can’t be with cheater cause I don’t want to get hurt and get an std and drama. I want a man that treat me like i am the only woman. Loyal men at kings and not boring cause is about connecting in a level that no one else that could.
Cap
Majority of women move the total opposite tho.
Brother that is the biggest jewel I’ve ever heard in men’s content. What women want from men benefit men more than women.
It always annoys me when I hear the whole nonsense of "I don't want a boring man". Wtf does that mean? You want constant drama, strife and instability? Because the truth is, life is boring. Peace is boring. Prosperity is boring. A good life is very often boring....AND THAT'S NOT A BAD THING.
Ngl I needed this bro.
And then they turn 30-35 and the “exciting” men start to permanently ignore them. Then they complain there are no geed men
Steph is 🥶
hey my man. i found your other channel about half a year ago. your reactions to metal music and ghost videos made time in lockdown way better!thanks a lot for that!
and now i found this channel. you gave me good advise for my future life man.
i always struggled with depression and low self esteem, butpeople like you always find the right words, to give courage. you are bringing so much joy to so many people! never forget that!
cheers to you from germany :)
Smh yep stay single I ain't trying to fool with it anymore I rather have female friends than to be wasting my health time and peace simping chasing after women for love or sex just to get friendzoned or rejected
I’ve been married for 15 years and it started because we were friends and I started pursuing other women and she realized she could lose me…
Disrespect is exciting. What did y’all fight for feminism for. I don’t want to hear crying from these women. Another single mother and she could of chose better
Righf
This is what I understood from the start of the video. “It’s exciting to get cheated on” and “it’s boring to date loyal men”
These millenial kids are wilding!
Bruh in a few years they’ll look back and see how dead wrong they were
Women☕
Well damn... this shit is depressing
I have dead ass had a girl tell me I didn't have enough side chicks to be with her. Like what? Honestly what?
Let's see where these girls are in 30 years bet they all alone...who want to put sum up?
You are speaking facts