This happened to me to in 8th grade I broke up with her and later i learned, she said i TOUCHED HER which I didn't do anything with her Luckily my peers,teachers and mother knew i wasn't that kind of person Which messed me up for a little bit and terrifies me about the subject of dating and marriage
Remember when they thought johnny Depp was abusing amber heard they were all over the story but soon as it came out that it was the other way around they stopped covering the story completely
I drag these media companies for that shit on Twitter. Everybody notices. Really good example. I hate to say it about anybody but I'm glad Johnny went through it with such a gorgeous girl like her because we were able to expose the lies and how it works. It took those two beautiful people for people to start paying attention. She barely did anything to Johnny but technically it is abuse. She wanted to bring it up now she's going to pay for it. I'm sure he would have lived with it just like all of us men are told to live with it but she's the one who made it publicly. I don't feel bad for Johnny the guys filthy rich and he basically want a public bickering argument over a scratch and a slap. He didn't want this either but I'm so glad she's exposed
@@Meilk27I think we disagree about that imo throwing things at people attacking them and gaslighting him when they bring it up sounds like abuse to me and not barely anything she even admitted to punching him on several occasions but I guess we see things but if that's how you feel that's cool I guess
@@nottodayimbusy7146 I'm not saying it's not a big deal and the grand scheme of things in a relationship those types of things are toxic in the relationship is irredeemably screwed, I'm just saying once it stops hurting it's really not that big of a deal anymore unless you're someone that carries emotional scars getting slapped by a woman isn't life changing not to me anyway
@@Meilk27 I was pointing out that abuse come in many forms not just physical my apologies if it was unclear and I wholeheartedly disagree with that last part I think we just see things a little differently and that's fine but as a person who has been through something similar in my life I'm a little bias I guess
“It’s not that she will, it’s that she CAN.” It’s the existence of the possibility that a woman can financially ruin you in divorce is more than enough to keep men from marrying. It’s foolish to enter into a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
I agree it's the possibility is that really scares many men. Especially because many women know they have that potential leverage. As men, we have to be very careful with who the women we interact with and how we interact with them.
@10 what good will a prenup do when all it takes to get one thrown out is to say “he said he wouldn’t marry me unless I signed it, so I signed it under duress?” Also majority of women take offense to being asked to sign a prenup and will usually try to guilt trip their way out of signing it. Prenups are pointless. Not getting married is far more effective than a prenup.
As a lesbian, I know exactly why. Women can be just as evil or as good as men, absolutely. And in my experience dating women, in all the years prior to my coming out when I was with men, I was never treated so badly, never lied to so blatantly, never abused so frequently in every single way you can name….as I have been in two and a half years of dating other women. And I dated a few baddie men too. I have now been single by choice for a year with no immediate plans to date anytime soon, despite feeling lonely. Because I would much rather cry from loneliness than have to cry and recover from yet another awful relationship. I’m hoping on this channel, I won’t get censored as I was in telling this truth on others. Men and women are human beings, and there are good ones and bad ones either way. In my experience, it has been women who have made me prefer to remain alone.
As trans man, I was living in as woman and now I’m living in as man. I know what women are capable of and how cruel they are. I ain’t saying that men ain’t capable of or be cruel, they can. But women are doing it better because of how society see women. But, I never been so scared to be in a relationship with a woman, to feel so insecure to be real me in front of them, that I have to pretend to be something that I’m not because I’m scared I’m not good enough or they will hurt me or leave me for doing something I love (e.g. art, gaming, reading books or comics, etc). I want to be in a relationship and to begin a happy ending but with this hookup culture and this gender war and “I’m a baddie” mentality is scaring me to be in a relationship with anyone. It’s pushing me away and I think I will end up alone, which makes me depressed and sad.
Lol mabey Ur just picking the wrong people just because Ur taste In partners is bad doesn't make anyone of either of those sexs bad for it, Ur an idiot look inwards before u keen blaming everyone around u if every single relationship goes sour mabey it's time to Start looking towards urself and stop blaming everyone else hey
Same here. Where I live, arranged marriage is a thing. My family has been pressuring me to get married. Bringing up the top at every chance they get. Makes me not want to be around them. I've been the happiest being single and not having to deal with any drama.
I had two cops back home tell me that if my ex wife hit me again to defend myself and lay her out. Straight up. Never had to, that stopped that real fast when she figured out they didn't have her back anymore.
Your point about women constantly telling you when you were younger things like "Oh i wish i was your age" etc. really hit me. Never thought of it that way but yeah, I was told the same crap growing up. To turn it around and imagine a man saying that to a little girl is just insane. Glad you pointed that out.
Had a girl tell me she was on birth control and I could leave the seed in. I declined and I found out she was pregnant eight months later by another man...smh
If they're on birth control, make them show proof. Cords especially (minimum to 3 years after applying), have medical cards with information to tell when is their next appointment. I know this because I've used cord, and it has worked very well with dealing semen so far. Always carry on condoms just in case. It's not about not trusting someone, it's about loving them by protecting them, and in turn, protecting you.
"Women tend to fight for equality when it's a benefit to them.. Only.." Amen brother!! No truer words have ever been spoken!! I am a woman, but not a Feminist.. And that, right there, is precisely WHY!!
A professor I had in college had a very storied past. Of all the stories he told us; the one that always stuck out to me was the one where he was arrested for assaulting his then girlfriend. This man was at least 6ft in height and had tats up at least one arm, and his gf was like a little over half his size and came from a wealthy family, but she also had severe emotional issues. These issues came to a head one night and she stabbed him in the back with a skewering fork; one of those two-pronged things that are as long as a child's arm! She did this to him as he was trying to leave the house because he knew exactly how dangerous the situation was for both of them! He shoved her away, she hit her head on the wall and was out cold. HE calls the police and tells them everything that's happened, he waits with her until she regains consciousness, and is the one to greed the police, WITH THE FUCKING GIANT FORK STILL IN HIS BACK! They take one look at the situation and immediately put him in handcuffs; despite the gf owning up to the fact that she instigated the events, assaulted him first, and her injuries were accidental! I understand the idea of neutralizing the perceived greater threat; but... really?!
"I yearn for true gender equality, i have no patience for one who talks about female privilege when it suits them, and then complains about someone "not being a man" when it's convenient" -Satou Kazuma
Guys, you NEED to dig deeper on her. She is manipulating you. A woman who pretends to be for men's rights and then uses said men is called a Chameleon. See Think Before You Sleep video on her and then go down the rabbit hole.. ITS BAD!
@@honorafox4709 She is indeed a chameleon. She's just jumping on the red pill bandwagon and making money off simps. She is everything she claims to he against. She's a fraud and a manipulator. The tattoo should be a dead giveaway.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend because she slept over, we slept in the same bed. It was her idea, I was prepping the couch for myself and had given her my bed and she said I "shouldn't be silly" and invited me next to her. The might was rather meh, we cuddled for a few hours and fell asleep. Few days later she texts me and says I "crossed a line" by sleeping next to her. Immediately I broke up with her because that's a major red flag right there
I have a similar story but when I was dating. This girl was giving me all the signs she is into me but when I was giving her physical intimacy she started texting me after that actually she didn' t like it. Soooo..... I ran for the hills.
Im a victim of a physically abusive relationship with an ex. The police got called and they looked at her and asked if she wanted to press charges on me. All the while I’m standing there with knots on my head and my glasses broken and on the floor across the room. I love Roma for her speaking out for us men because Lord knows we can't express ourselves like women can.
my friend had an ex wife slice his arm wide open, needed both internal and external stitches because it was so deep (thankfully she didn't hit an artery, but it was close). He was taking all the sharp objects out of the house because she had been cutting herself. She flipped shit and attacked him to get the knives back to continue cutting herself, and then slashed his arm open because he wasn't giving her the knives. While he is getting loaded into the ambulance, the police placed a handcuff on his uninjured arm and rode into the hospital with him because they decided to arrest him (washington is a mandatory arrest made in domestic violence calls state) and his wife wasnt mentally able to make decisions. They just arrested my friend because she had self inflicted cut marks on her wrists... despite his whole arm being sliced wide open. He spent most the night in the ER, then they took him to jail until they released him in the afternoon the next day.
A friend of mine when he was 17 got into an argument with his girlfriend. Mind you, he is a small dude and she was significantly larger than him. She started hitting him. He pushed her away and she fell. Despite the witnesses saying she was hitting him first and he was just defending himself, he was the one who spent the night in jail, had a restraining order placed on him, and was forced to go to (and pay for) anger management classes.
@@immew8249 No definitely worry, don't leave it to Karma. Leaving it alone is why we're where we are with inequal social justice for men. Talking about it like he did in this video and getting involved is how you can bring attention to the subject.
@@cokedupcat because those tactics work. ...the reason things are the way they are now is because they were ignored or given "those parts" of society to do with as they want. Now the poison they've spread is destroying the whole thing.
Never been afraid of women but I've learned over the years to not go out of my way to chase after someone that doesn't mirror my intentions, effort or emotions. I've learned to treat them no different than any other random male. If you initially treat them like they're irrelevant you'll find the few out there that will make an obvious effort to show their interest in you. Focus on bettering yourself and you'll 100% do better on your own rather than being anchored down by an emotional support crutch that you're constantly and subconsciously making exceptions for out of your own fear of loneliness and insecurity.
Love this girl. She says what I have been saying for ages. Watched my sisters and mom destroy and rob every man they been with and they think they deserve his crap.
The reason I never followed movements like believe women is because I know if you want to ruin a man's life accuse him of some sort of assault. I know someone who was accused of rape. This girl almost had him in jail but couldn't keep her story straight in the end. When they asked her for the truth she said he "raped me with his eyes"
A friend of mine spent a week in jail before he was released when an ex accused him. Thankfully his lawyer was damn good at his job and got him cleared.
I was at the park with my nephew 2 weeks ago, and a woman came up and said: "ooh look at him, he's gonna break a lot of hearts." then turned to him and said .... TO HIM.... "just you wait, when you are 18 , mmm, imma be all over you" then she walked away yelling back " save him for me".... he is 7 years old... now. think of this situation but in reverse... if a man had said that to a 7 year old girl... he wouldn't have walked away on his own, noooo, the police would have dragged him away. as you said: they only want equality when its convenient for them.
Yep I was just talking about this with some friends. Like women will commit on a male child and even call him sexy and say how he's her little boyfriend and nobody cares however if it was the other way around it would be a case on that man after he got stomped out by everybody in the vicinity.
This is not your story, your nephew doesnt exist, your just bullshitting people with a lying ass comment.. that same story was told by a comedian or something.. i remember that same shit being said the same way... create your own memories there hoss.. life sucks but at least you can have your own..
@@Z-Ack i know which comedian your talking about, and i know that story, i was watching it thinking, he has a point there, because at the time i'm embarrassed to admit but i didnt think much of it. yet when that comedian put it like that my eyes opened about how f'ed up that situation was. i am sorry if i offended you and gave you the idea/feeling that i stole this story. It was not my intention to do so. and i hope you have a great day.
Grown women used to flirt like that with me throughout my childhood. When I was a preteen, one of my mother’s friends said something inappropriate to me in front of her. She checked her ass. I thought my mom was overreacting then. Now I understand.
I started watching her content recently, & she has opened my eyes to a lot of things. Not to mention conforming things I believed already, & it is nice to hear a man's P.O.V.
@Edward Smith Fair enough, but you were the one that said nobody was, I just wanted to make it known that there are more than a few speaking against marriage or co-habitation. Good luck, and be careful, they truly can ruin your life.
I've been sexually assaulted by a woman who was suppose to be my mom's friend, who babysat me often cause my dad was on base and my mom was at work. I told my parents she was touching me in places she wasn't suppose too. My mom called the police and they didn't do a damned thing to this woman! They questioned her, she said I was a liar and my parents told me to say that. And before the end of the investigation, woman moved out. No idea where she went, she packed her things took her kids and left. My mom said I'd probably need counseling and one of the investigators told her. "ehh he'll be fine."
Great job from your parents thought They did their job unlike some who would have brushed it off saying you re lying or that it s ok Glad to hear you got backed up and could get help
@@teezus2036 It's more of they know even if they arrest the female in question would just be a waste of time, because the courts favor women, why do you think crackhead mom's get the child all the time, cause women are favored in courts
@@mellar5864 no it ain't. Why is anyone else entitled to a lifestyle. You get what you brought in and/or what you need to survive. Nothing more. Also if you want child support show me where the money is going. Especially if you dont have a job, plain and simple.
@@nicholasroach880 then what about the money earned during the relationship, what if somebody decided to abandon their career for their kids, while the other one kept working? Your idea is not only simplistic it's also just as egoistic and arrogant as the people you criticize.
@@mellar5864 Dude the current system is one solution for all lol. It's just also a really shitty, one sided solution. At least @Mamatimez3 M's solution is better than the current one. (although it *doesn't* mention what to do with money earned during the relationship... probably just split that down the middle imo. Or judge's discretion. ) Sure there could be a better solution, but that doesn't mean we should stick with the current shitty one until an even better one is thought of lol
They can not only take away your house, your money, etc. They can literally take your freedom away with false accusations and send you to prison for years.
Or they can accuse you of something you actually did but won’t admit to and you’ll get in trouble for that as you should you act like all these men who have to pay child support or who have it unfair don’t deserve the circumstances I bet at least half do
Not just your property and your freedom but they can also take your kids and your ability to become employed and they can even release smear campaigns to your entire friends and family who automatically believe them and share their post for all to see. Hell they might even make songs about you being an "abuser" and there's no recourse whatsoever for any of this.
@@dakotamabry1645 I think it suffice to say that it is dead wrong of any sexual encounter with a child whether a boy or a girl. This channel is about giving light of what men go through, and a damned refreshing view.
Im facing 2 years for being attacked by my ex in my home and I didn't fight back. I called 911 and I'm charged with domestic violence. I've never been in trouble before. I spent 6 years in the army and was honorable discharged
Same thing happend to me also as a Amry veteran medically retired out honorably at 100% P&T I moved up to Alaska with my fiancée And was swated by the upstairs neighbor on a false call And the troopers didn't believe my fiancée when she claimed nothing happend claiming to me that here in Alaska d.v. is so high they can't allow and justify why by then arresting you in your home based on an anonymous call when it was proven the woman had a bad history with my girl The troopers still charged me took me to jail And the arraignment trial judge saw my spotless back ground let me go on bail Even mentioned hearing where the troopers ignored my girls responses of denying that their assumptions that I had physically assualted her multiple times on audio recording because Alaskan state troopers atleast from their mouths said they did not have to wear body cams, only audio recording devices Who also denied reading me Miranda rights, my phone call, and told me due to covid I was denied the oppertunity a fair and speedy trial Apon having to "attend" court via teleconference apon my trial The judge would not hear my side before asking me how I plead My attorney advised a plea deal based on ... not sure how, seeing as everything was based on hear say With the supposed victim siding with me But the legal system ran with this and tried to charge me with something and it fell to a "fear of" I think it's because we are veterans dn they are trying to stick us with smears so we can loose our second amendment rights being that desperate to tell me if I didn't take the plea deal I would be thrown in prison with a felony charge for the hear say is what they pushed me with against to then throw out a plea deal With no evidence a purported victim who is on audio recording denying any accounts and ability of being one after seeing them come in guns drawn based on hear say from the upstairs neighbor who hated my girl after the last argument they had So I lost faith in our government and recognize they are doing it to you Mine happend in January of 2021
I absolutely hate the "I'm the mom" argument. As a father, it is absolutely insulting to hear that argument. I do anything and everything for my.son and yet I'll still hear that argument as if I never do anything or that what I do doesn't mean anything because I carry him for 9 months. No I didn't, I will just take care of him and do everything for him for the next 18 years and even after he is 18 I'll always be there for him. How does all that get negated and it's all over the "well I carried him for 9 months. "
I feel you on EVERY level of that. I got 3kids...2 with the epitome of a toxic baby mama. hit me with the long term ease into it Bait amd switch. my fault for slipping but she straight up uses our kids as a paycheck and excuse to be a cunt
I paid for my Son always, not just child support but whatever he needed. He moved in with me full time at 13 and when I asked his Mom for support she laughed and said I would never see a penny from her. All good, I never expected anything just wanted to hear what I already knew. Some women are taught from a young age " What' yours is mine and whats mine is mine "
Agree with you but not all women that’s some women and I feel some women should feel ashamed of themselves for what they do men period that’s not the way to teach girls 👧 I’m a mom my self I wound never teach my daughter that
Reverse the roles and you lose your freedom, your driver's license, the right to vote, future income tax returns, left testicle, a pice of your soul, ability to date again.....
Ah I heard that only works when you’ve been married for a long time. Also I tend to heard it from old ppl, older couples, those that have been married for over 30 years. It doesn’t apply to divorce or kids or anything
During college I worked at the local boys and girls club during the summer and I loved it. The kids liked me because I still embrace my inner child while also having dad mode. The kids loved to hang on me and try to dogpile on me (things kids do), also some of the younger students would grab my hand when Crossing the street, they would do this with with most the staff. I was pulled into the office and told I couldn't behave this way and if the kids tried to engage in these behavior I had to tell them no. I was the only one talked to... Because I was male so it was seen as creepy while my female staff it was natural for them. Men can take care of kids and interact with them without it being sexual or creepy. For some of those kids I know I was the first male to interact with them in a non-serious and positive way.
Great story man! Single dad here! That's some B's man because kids LOVE that kinda play!! Not only did they make you out to be creepy they broke all of those kids hearts!! Unfukinbeilvable!! Stay strong brother.
This was exactly why I never volunteered. I am the same way with kids. They have always gravitated towards me because i embrace my inner child and i get down on their level. It shows you have a high emotional IQ. I have my own son now and I still am very weary in public about showing affection because it only takes one accusation. I also know men that have had this happen to them and they completely shut down their emotions because of it. I was always careful when watching my niece when I was younger. She absolutely loved to climb all over me and play and I had to shut it down. Its sad that people do not understand that we can be even more affectionate than some women towards kids but we get looked at as being creepy.
I'm sorry this happened. And your absolutely right. Women can get away with this then when a guy does it it all of sudden come from a place of creepy or perverted. Why? It just isn't ok. It is time for the conversations to change and things we teach our kids too needs to change. Gender roles and stuff need to be done away with and accept that both men and women can be equally good and should be treated the same . No more double standards.
I full support and am a proud supporter of the RomaArmy hints the badge. She really finds ways to help and inspired me with what I do even tho I try to focus on low key counseling for our veterans and men she really has the platform to help! Her only haters are jealous women. Thanks for giving her some feedback positively. Most me do but still yet, thank you! I'm new to your channel buy you have a new subscriber from Ga!
“Women tend to fight for equality when it’s beneficial to them only.” Man if I haven’t said that so many times. I like the content. Subbed (Edited: Did not expect my comment to get this many likes. Thank you all.🖤)
Same. I've had this argument with many women. I only treat the women in my life, who act like women, like women. The others get mad when I don't open the door, or refuse to help them fix shit etc. I'm like you wanted to be equal. I wouldn't help a dude with that so ..
This is why discernment in choosing women is important. It may take a long time but there are small percentage women who live on morals and characters. However, we still have to be careful because they have social leverage in certain aspects of life.
@@christianconsciousness I mostly agree but it's not that there few women that have morals it's just that in social media and generally in the publics eye the the eyes go to the people not only women that don't have morals, irl I have the pleasure of getting to know some incredible people, and as for the other just try not to associate with them and it will be fine I might have gone a little of topic but there are many good people out there and don't worry you most likely already know them but you yourself must be a good person to see them
Never heard of this woman before, but she is speaking the truth. Glad to see other women recognize the problems facing men and not mocking them in the process.
@uncle rico She is and she isn't. After having done some digging, I'm aware that she's echoing a lot of the same talking points as other channels do. Regardless of the fact that she's not REALLY give her own opinion, and is likely putting on a front, nothing she's saying is actually incorrect.
@uncle rico True, she was exposed. Keep in mind tho that women like that do exist. I'm a girl myself and I honestly don't give an f about having a platform or clout, but I still almost completely agree with MRAs like 'Think before you sleep' is. I am also actively against modern feminism as i think it is destroying not only men, but women as well.
This is all so true. These two folks are literally backing up everything I have gone through and what I'm still dealing with to this very day. So now I know I'm not crazy. Daddy loves you baby girl. RomaArmy you are the best.
"Women only want equality when it's beneficial to them." Here in the UK, we have these psychotic women in Parliament. This statement was proven a few years ago, during a debate about increasing the retirement/pension age for women to the same age that men have to be before they can claim their pension. One Scottish female MP (Mhairi Black) complained that "this was not about equality ... blah blah." She hated the notion of women being treated the same as men when they weren't benefitting from it.
Wait, I guess I don't get it. In the UK women get to claim government retirement, umm what do they call it "pensioner" person? at a younger age then men? In the USA it's called social security and you get it at the same age, they a few years upped the age as folks are living longer. Used to be 65, now its 67. But the UK women get to claim the government dole younger before men? That should be reversed in truth, women live longer then men, men work themselves to death sooner, a certain amount don't even make it to retirement, when they do get it, they get it for shorter period before they die. Per Capita to be "equal" they should get it later to be an equal drain on public resources.
@@mattstorey7256 Yep. You understood it. And yes, you are probably right. It used to be that women get it at 60, whereas men get it at 65. Things have been pushed upwards slightly, like in the US. My state pension age is 67. It does look like they have been equalised as the government's online pension age checker doesn't ask if you're male or female.
It's the same as this trans feminist they cry about the word man woman because they are born different but they want that people call them trans man or trans woman.
@@selena5947 because if they only fight for equality when it is convenient for them they need a dictionary for term equality. They fight for their interests , not equality, if u want equality u want equality ..period.Not just when it favors you.
“Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” Gives me a deeper meaning nowadays. I actually respect all the players in this later life. Teaching my 3 boyz how to think 10 moves ahead and no nonsense attitude. Remember, we can be 80 and still bust a “NUT” and if we take care of ourselves, we become fine wine.
I got the snip when I turned 18 cause I don't want kids, I've lost several G/F's when they tried to tell me that they were pregnant by me lol I even check with the doctors every few years to make sure it is still working...
Nice way to know that they were cheating on you when they come to you crying they are pregnant and its all your fault, then plot twist, you are infertile xD
Lucky you as a guy being allowed to do that at 18. respect for making the call to do it AND making sure it worked! But I will STILL not trust vasectomies or a guy who says he's had one. Learnt that the hard way. I risked trusting a new guy after I'd left a long term abusive relationship. Big mistake, especially as we worked together. new guy said he had a vasectomy (which was perfect for me- NEITHER of us wanted kids)..... but then he broke up with me and later that same night I found out I was pregnant..... at 38. Because HE DIDNT CHECK IT WORKED. I had a breakdown for the next 3 years. He knew I still loved him and he used that to get more sex the next year. He's dated others at work since and still with someone i used to work with. Class act.
I’ve heard of men who got abused by their wife, had video, audio, physical, mental, and witness evidence, and still lost in court and got jailed I’ve also heard of a 7 year old who got sexually assaulted and raped by a woman well in her 20s and lost in court because he “should’ve been able to overpower her”
Buddy got arrested for domestic assault because his girlfriend hurt her hand punching him in the face had witnesses on his side and still lose was told he should of ran away before she hit him
I been with my boyfriend for all most 16 years and we have a son and I don't care to get married I'm happy just being us the way we are. Love your videos
@@SandTguy it's called common law marriage and idk it depends on the state. It's changed in mine but it used to be if you were together 7 years you were basically married. I know this from asking my divorced grandparents why not get married with the people they were with after their divorce? and they said they basically were because of that. Idk what it is now tho but it did change. I think it's basically non existent now but I could be wrong
@@guicaldo7164 meh I'm fine with getting married like I refused when I was younger cause I wasn't ready but now I am. It's just affording it now cause we want to make the memories, celebrate life and etc with it but then again we have had alot of death and etc expierences that made us grow up and look at things differently where my fiance is the one wants it even more than me. Idk I just feel like others against it haven't had the greatest relationships, ain't ready for commitment and need to grow up more. Which nothing is wrong with that cause I'd rather people get married and really mean it from both sides and already basically have been living married just fine than a shot gun wedding and etc.
@@constantine9142 You can have all that and not waste their time getting married. Marriage means nothing. I know so many relationships where they aren't married but have outlasted more marriages that ended into divorces. These unmarried couples are lot happier, yes they have kids. They known each other either from high school or from work. Some skipped marriage simply because it's expensive or it's a waste of time. Trust, loyalty, love, commitment, it's all there and marriage is non-existent. I don't agree with the whole, "had a crappy relationship, scared of commitment etc", the typical crap people love to say because apparently they know alot but one of those is probably right, but it's more like they wised up, marriage isn't what it once was many years ago. It's lost it's meaning. We got prenups and manipulative people (mostly women) who take advantage of this to earn greater "rewards". If marriage is your thing, then sure whatever but don't act like you have the manual to what a happy love life is and should be cuz you don't.
@@J0kerHecz dude usually it is and you'd be surprised in those "happy" unmarried couples how many girls and etc are sad they ain't married yet. Like yeah if they already were married to someone else and it didn't work out they usually won't do it again till years later cause they usually learn from their mistakes but I hate to break it to you many who were never married despite being with one person for years is lying and actually want it or not ready yet and will sooner or later. Idk what to tell you about your denial except get some therapy and date better people. I grew up with divorces and marriages that never ended and been with the same man since I was 17 and not to mention my friends that are idiots that talk like you are usually the ones that date ex junkies and etc and when they obviously get screwed have the audicity to be bitter and blame all women when the decent ones warned them!! lol. Like even my several millionaire uncle is married and happy. His wife and then are a team yet you can't do that? Lol and blame gold diggers gtoh
I always wanted a pre nup. Went through at least a dozen women who were obviously gold diggers. Then I met my wife. After 4 years of dating, I knew I didn't need one with her. So far, all is good, we still love each other to death. Been married for 9 years. Hope things stay this way!
It's generally a good idea to sign one if you have significant savings/assets. Even with one, it's not guaranteed protection, but it's certainly better than nothing. As far as alimony and divorce settlements go, I have mixed feelings....If it's a situation where a couple is together for 20 years, and the woman is staying at home, taking care of the kids and doing housework, thereby allowing the man to make a lot more money than he would otherwise, then I could see where it'd be fair for him to pay her after a divorce - at least some of the money that he earned *during* the marriage - since she wasn't accumulating work experience and advancing in her career during that time. But if a girl marries a guy who's already rich, stays with him for a very short time, and then tries to take half his money, then that's nothing but a pure scam!
My husband got married at 18 because his girlfriend got pregnant. He lived in misery and she cheated on him constantly while he was at work. Back then everyone didn't have cell phones. He fell off a house at work and broke his leg. He couldn't get her to answer the house phone all day. She finally showed up late to pick him up, six hours after he fell. When they finally divorced the judge told him to make sure he kept up the lifestyle she had become accustomed to while married to him. She was also granted custody of the baby. He was scared to marry me because of this. We are going on 18 years together and still happy. She is on her 20th man and still miserable and drunk.
Scenario’s like this are so messed up because it’s like nothing he could do he clearly was & still is a good soul & she prob had plans of screwing him over smh , I’m glad y’all marriage is going well hopefully y’all keep elevating 🦾🖤
When I divorced my first wife years ago I was told by the judge he didn’t care if I had to work 3 jobs to support her that’s what I was to do! We’ll found out she had dropped my son at her parents and was getting the money I was paying before her parents got it! You can’t make up this kind of bs!!!
This video reminded me of an incident I witnessed when I was probably 15/16? I had a friend, a great friend. He was respectful to people, both boys and girls. He had a female buddy, they always hang out together because they were both from band club. One day, out of literally nowhere, the girl files a police report that my friend had groped her in school. The scenario was that, they were both in line to buy some food in a canteen. My friend had apparently groped her butt while he was behind her. Now usually if didn't know my friend well enough I might have believed it, but I also knew the girl a little to think that she wouldn't say something like that. Turns out after asking my friend what had happen, it shocked me. The thing is, on the day that "incident" had happened, I was literally with my friend through out the whole time. We were from the same class, went to the stall together, got in the queue and I was in front of him. The girl was like 3 people behind my friend. So in the end after an investigation by the police. They found out that the girl lied and it was an idea given to her by a guy she was dating, because she had an arguement with my friend regarding something trivial and wanted to get back at him. Throughout the whole investigation, which lasted 3 weeks. The whole school found out about it, and the guy literally could not even walk without getting a look of disgust from everyone that didn't know him. Especially from teachers and juniors. But when it all ended, no one came to apologise, the girl got away scot-free and my friend just got scarred with the title of randomly groping a girl that he thought was his best friend.
I had a female freind and we were really close but I never had that kind of feelings to her your know someday she came to me and asked me on a date and told her I dont wanna lose what we have but suddenly she started kissing me I immediately stopped her and ran next thing I know she used to police for assaulting her and sincere I had no proof and she was a female I went to jail for 6 months and I was just 16 this happened 1 year ago now everyone hates me in my town And WOMEN are the victims here😂
Had this sort of happen at work. I arrived on time one morning and we had a new female sub manager. When she started giving me a hard time I told her I was getting ready to start the day and she goes off on me. Runs into the office of the manager and tells him I chased her around the work area and was cussing her out. Despite having 15 cameras watching me doing nothing they still tried to write me up and threaten me. I quit that day.
I was afraid of women in my 20s because my mom was a horribly abusive narcissist and should never have been allowed to raise myself and my brother. She ruined me and made me terrified of women. Luckily therapy helped me and I am much better now and found an amazing woman who loves me and is very supportive. My mom also wanted me to be self sufficient so even though she was abusive, she taught me a lot about taking care of a home, etc. I'm a near and clean freak and am always cleaning the house and organizing even to this day, at 52. Im happy that the woman I found is down to earth, we get along perfectly. Don't even have those stupid equality conversations. Honestly thought men are looked at so poorly when it comes to marriage that I have no interest. I have a life partner but not interested in marriage. It's nothing but a govt institution. A partnership should have nothing to do with a gov't institution.
50% of marriages each year, not just half over a lifetime. Men who marry once on average marry two more times. If you marry under 25 your chances of having a 10th anniversary are less than 5%. 6/10 men anonymously report they are physically abused in their relationship, don't report it because they are afraid of their partner leaving, being taken into custody in reverse uno, afraid of loosing parental rights, or more severe abuse. 8/10 report emotional abuse. 3/5 state they have developed depression and most therapists agree its due to a lack of autonomy and unrealistic expectations in their marriage.
Boy I got a story to share. It's a story that happened between my son's mom and I. In 2012 I got my son's mom pregnant. She took him away from me when she was 5 months pregnant with him. I kept trying to contact her on her phone and her mom's phone. No response. I went over to their apartment so I can see how my baby(my son) is doing and also to see how she was doing. No response also. Fast forward to 2014 I find her and she EXPECTS me to react like everything is fine and this and that. Which I did. When I first met my son, it was my favorite moment in life because when he saw me he immediately knew I was his dad and without hesitation he ran as quick(not that quick) as possible to give me the biggest and best hug I ever had. His mom and I got back together but only last 4 months because she slowly but shortly was trying to take time away from me seeing my son. I can now say, looking back, my son's mom and her mom(my son's other grandma) were planning and hoping it aggravated me(which it did) to the point that I'll get physical with my son's mom. I didn't because I have never lay hands on a female and never will. She called a "break" between her and I(which I don't believe there's any breaks in the relationship) and for me it wasn't a break, it was break up. This happened on October 2014. On November 2014, a sheriff comes knocking at my door to serve me restraining order papers from my son's mom. Before the Sheriff handed me the papers he looked at then looked back at the papers then laughed and gave me the papers because what he read on the papers didn't match with how I look. To sum up the restraining order papers, she and her mom wrote that I took my son away from her 3 times. And that I was violent. Nothing but pure bs they wrote. The court date was on December. They expected me not to respond or fight back. Knowing that feeling that she had took my son away 1 time already, I wasn't going to let it happen a 2nd time because had a great father and son relationship with my son. My love for him couldn't and wouldn't let his mom to complete a 2nd take away. So I filed for joint custody. A friend of the family tried to serve them the papers but they wouldn't answer the door. So when it was the day to go to court to fight her restraining order case, the case was the last case because she still wasn't an adult she was 17 and I was 18. When the judge read the case and told my son's mom to explain her case, she began to tell lie after lie after lie. As she was explaining her case, the Judge glanced my way a couple times and was paying attention to my body language. He then cut her off, and asked her where's the proof. Proof because she was saying I was being physical, which was a lie. And she stayed quietly shocked because she knew the Judge picked up on her lies. Then her mom jumps in and says I was abusive. The Judge took another glance my way, chuckled and then asked a 2nd time where's the proof. Without proof I can't grant you your case. He then commented how my appearance and what was written on the restraining order papers didn't add up. He dismissed her case and before closing it he asked if anyone has a question. I quickly raise my hand, the Judge says, Yes? And then I told him that I have a case myself. I gave his assistant the case number to my Joint Custody case. She found it. The Judge then granted me Joint Custody of my son. For every Saturday she has to go drop off my son at my apartment. After the judge granted my case, my son's mom and her mom knew that they lost and I won because I presented facts. So they went to go file for child surpport. Thinking that I was going to be okay with that. Guess again, I wasn't because on her restraining order papers she CLEARLY wrote that she doesn't want ANY financial support from me in ANY WAY. So I went down to the child support department and presented the restraining order papers where my son's mom CLEARLY wrote she doesn't want any financial support from me. I also told them that I wasn't working(I was but I wasn't going to tell pay a dime that 2 face.) The lady that helped me at the child support department understood what was going on but didn't know what to do. She went to the back to go talk to a lawyer to see what she can say to me. 5 mins later she came back and said that they see what my son's mom is doing. Since I didn't work, I didn't have to pay her because I had no job, but once I get a job I had to go report it to the child support department and begin the process of me paying her child support. 7 years later, 2021, I still have no "job" and she still ain't receiving a dime from me.
Don't be disheartened. I always wanted a family, but never wanted to get married or settle down. But i did find one that i thought was worth the risk. She is actually traditional and believes how i beleive and us great mother. It was worth the risk. Figure out the red flags and avoid those women. Also one word of advice... the worst thing you can do to a woman is let her be bored. Boredom will kill a relationship.
I found her by accident months ago, I have to be honest, it’s nice to hear a woman stand up and speak for us instead of making excuses for women’s behavior
@@the1017M Roma, AKA Christina Efram has a very long and dark history of gang activity and drug use. She has swindled a lot of good people, the worst case being scamming a woman who's son was murdered. (#JusticeforJari) She gave the woman the impression that she would help raise money for the woman's son's funeral costs by starting a Facebook petition, which lead a lot of people to donate to Roma's "Petition" instead of the legitimate GoFundMe for the funeral. The poor lady never got the money and when she FINALLY confronted Roma about it, Roma blessed her out and blocked her. There's a lot of bad things Christina has done and honestly I couldn't list them all here. I highly recommend starting at this video and after that start looking into it more. th-cam.com/video/b1gK0Yrp9aI/w-d-xo.html Believe me or the other multiple people trying to warn others or not, just please be CAREFUL with this woman.
I never go along with the shaming labels the females often spew, "Men are Afraid..." No. Men are not afraid, ladies. Men are being smart. Big difference.
@@Beatles.lassie If you listen carefully to the words she uses, she's very covert. But I am pretty sure her motivations are not so pure. Be very careful when a female tries to play advocate or acts as an ally to Men. Usually there's a reason behind it.
Unless you get a woman like me. If I have to leave someone, I don't want anything from them other than a clean break. Nothing to tie me to them whatsoever. It's a break up, not a take up.
Literally. Made sure I could survive alone since I was 19. I'm pansexual and have been treated badly by both. Staying tf away from everyone from now on. 🤣✌
She's full of crap, she just parrots some MRA stuff she heard online. She never offers any advice on how to spot red flags or protect yourself from such things as men. She's just using lonely guys to simp for her.
@@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle every single other thing on the Internet is parroted one way or another also there’s other channels that offer advice on how to protect yourself from men. Go there if that’s what you’re looking for. she’s speaking on behalf of men that aren’t heard. can’t you just let them have this one? damn 🙄
@@moontiddiez33 1) I am happily married so I don't need "protection". 2) I will let them have it, when they are not being leeched by obvious fraud. What exact "advice" is she offering to men? She is neither amazing or "humbling", she is just telling lonely and desperate guys what they want to hear so they can pay for her patreon. I wasn't born 16 years ago.
@@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle how about the men and hat aren’t just desperate and lonely? How about the men that actually feel like they are categorized based on the past experiences of the female they’re dealing with?? Okay so you have some issues. You feel that needs to be addressed good for you. But who’s listening to the men hmmm??? Good for you for finding a husband that suits YOUR standards. Ig you don’t need an input anymore right? But you choose to have an input cause you know there’s still debate around all this. So my thing is-have a benefit of the doubt for the men that ARE making progress and ARE doing good for women but still feel injustice.
@@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle sorry you have such a negative input but girl. Don’t go belittling women just because they’re standing up for the opposite sex.cause that’s what feminism is about. Equality. Not who can do it better. Humble yourself.
I was watching a group of women being interviewed about there taste in men. When I heard figures, I had no idea what they meant. I’m a junior in high school and I didn’t even know what it meant. I found out (kind of) but it felt wrong.
love Roma - wow man, u str8 opened my EYES just now around 10-11 minutes, spittin truth about how grown women too often speak about and to young boys; it’s so true.
WHAT!? That's scary because I have had sex with a lot of girls that ask to be choked or thrown around or even slapped. Imagine if they withdrew consent after...
Had it happen to me a few years back. Luckily I had a few friends around that that party that were able to call bullshit on most of her story. She had been on me all night and I wasn't interested till I was drunk but when her boyfriend found out she said I raped her and luckily just about everyone at that party corrected it and said she pretty much raped me because I didn't want anything to do with her till I was drunk as hell and got tired of her advances.
@@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer the cops started interview but that same day everyone knew she lied so that her boyfriend wouldn't be mad at her and she went and had the charges dropped and all I wanted was a restraining order to keep her the fuck away from me after that.
Idk what prenuptial itself the word like why'd they name it that way cause marriage insurance sounds rude or something cause it makes more sense and it being name that I guarentee more people would use it.
You have a very wise mother, she knew even way back then the power girls had over young men and boys was not something you fool around with. Kudos to her.
Homie was going through a divorce recently, and was really broken about it, till he heard his ex wife talking shit about how, with his financial status, she'll still be set after the divorce. Apparently, he gave her and her lawyer a legal-binding contract that if she receives a percentage of his property, he gains full custody of both of their children...I don't know how it ALL went down, but he seems way happier now and so do the kids.
@@ArtisChronicles , I find its usually men who don't want their children, considering they usually leave when they find out she is pregnant. I have heard of men forcing their wives/girlfriends on birth control to. Its so sad. I am happy to be blessed with a good man.
@@ArtisChronicles , And all your porn you subscribed to is a disgrace to women. Obvious you're a woman hater. No woman wants kids with you. You should rephrase your comment.
@@icumi5981 Activists for men's rights are shamed and removed from public discourse. Men have no voice aside from odd girl here and there. The moment Deep's case took a turn in his favor it was removed from MSM, for instance. No one asked Chris Brown for his side of the story or talked about police reports once they went public. Most of my friends suffered through some kind of what would be called sexual harassment or rape if they were girls. I did too. My neighbor was beaten on a daily basis by his wife. Law didn't care. My close friend became an alcoholic in his mid-twenties since his options were either to divorce and lose children or stay with an abusive partner. Society doesn't give a shit about men's issues or as we say here "beat the horse that pulls".
I saw a video of a guy yelling outside a abortion clinic because he wanted the child but she didn't and he was devastated and he didn't get any sympathy from anyone
That’s honestly horrible, it takes 2 make a child. The very least that could’ve happened was that they both could’ve had a conversation and talked it through. Her body her choice yeah but he’s also the biological father. Things are seriously getting out of hand.
@@ashez5584 no its not. Child birth is not easy and has the power to ruin a womans body or even kill her. Yes it is her choice because just pushing the baby out aint the hardest part.
We should start normalizing these kinds of talks and make them more publicly wide-spread. There's no excuse for everyone *not* to be on the same page at this point, just because they're uncomfortable.
True, initially, but, only one would be charged due to that a primary aggressor must be established before trial .That is determined by the history of both parties involved; the type of crime perpetrated (felony always trump misdemeanors); the degree of injuries, etc.
@@CarlosMonagas Or one of them fabricates injuries. Like that one video of the woman beating herself with a meat mallet to create bruises. I think she even says on camera that she's intending to file a false report on her boyfriend.
You can sometimes, thats what you call souls mates i guess, its rare in these times. Everything is shallow and stressful, manipulative and blah blah blah, chaos. Finding "the one" is damn hard these days, 50% of marriages end in divorce, imagine how many that seperated that didnt actually divorce, or ones that are still married but hate each other and just think its normal or dont wanna deal with the system. Lots of variables.
@@coryclark5442 Yep, I was married to someone who had a disability and guess what? He divorced me not the other way around..smh. It's all good now but to know that people don't take their vows seriously makes me wonder why do we even need to get married.
@@Just_Taneise the marriage system needs a rework. Im sorry you had to go through that, i recently lost a 6 year relationship i thought would last forever, thought i found the one and so on. Now it all just feels empty and painful.
@@johnrose2993 i dont even wanna think about how angry i would be in that scenario, just try to focus on the idea that she wasnt the right one, there will be someone better
Sad thing is when situations like this never appear on the news or any documentary’s few people know what’s happening and when few people know what’s happening and men and women start protesting and the protest come on the news then they’ll wonder where this is coming from and since they don’t know what’s happening they’ll just assume that they are just an anti-feminist sexist group that hates women so even if we protested we might still make a bad first impression 😕
These are things that held me back for a long time. I was single well into my 40s. Had nothing to do with my family life growing up, it was great. But had everything to do with things I’ve heard and witnessed around me as I entered adulthood. I did have a few relationships, but only a few. I was afraid of a woman messing up my life in a number of ways. I am happy to say that I did meet, and am married to, a really wonderful woman.
It’s definitely understandable why men would be scared. I’m glad you found a great women who treats you right! Good people are hard to find these days.
@@cancelthis3891 Because her heart isn’t in the right place. She’s not doing what she does because she’s a committed mra or wants to fix the problems we face, but because she knows guys really want to hear this come from a woman and so will support her just cause of that. Just from watching her videos alone, you can see signs she’s not capable of teaching others how they should be thinking and acting. It’s irresponsible of her to be teaching others when she hasn’t worked on herself. And if her own videos aren’t enough, she’s been challenged by other RPs and she just folds like a lawn chair. She does all the things she criticizes other women for doing when she gets criticized and can’t come up with a defense. I’m not pissing on her because I hate women or something or don’t believe that women mra’s exist, but because this particular one is extremely popular and not what she claims.
@@QixTheDS ok, I get your opinion. However, I'm a woman who has thought along the same lines for a very long time and up until I started finding women like Roma, I didn't really know how to express it to other women. I may not agree with everything these women say and think, and she sure has her own strong opinions on a lot of thinks, but I don't really see that as a reason to say she's only doing this for mens attention and views. A lot of women watch her content as well. She's done charity work for mens right organizations and tries the best she can to educate people on why mens mental health matters - but as women we can only understand our own interpretation. We aren't going to be 100% right or accurate. She's a commentator, not a reporter or fact checker. In that instance, I give her some slack. But to each their own. I'm not going to sit here and tell you one way or another on who you feel can speak to what you go through. Maybe some men here can actually relate to what she touches on and others don't. I know some men feel like Roma makes them out to seem soft or victimized. I won't say it doesn't come across that way sometimes either, but I don't believe she means it that way.
As a guy, yes, it is very risky getting married. She can take half your life earnings, the home that you may still be paying off. If you had kids, you will be paying a lot for 18 years and you may barely get to see them and she will probably try to make them hate/resent you. Then you have to find somewhere else to live with the peanuts that you have left...
Especially for the men who worked hard for years to build up their assets. If a man or woman decides to get married a lot of important conversations must be brought up to ensure both individuals are on the same page.
@Doom Guy, that's exactly what happened to my brother. He was married and has kids. She took the house, land, kids, the new car. My brother worked so hard to earn all that.
I never knew / understood how bad or scary it is for men until I became a mother of a son. As a mother of a 14yr old son going into high school these are my worries. I try to tell my son as much as I know, however these little girls are something else! I tell him never be alone with a girl / have witnesses, keep his hands to himself & ALWAYS ask for permission. It’s awful!
Girls now are SO MUCH worse than they were say 20 years ago. They've been taught they can get money for getting pregnant, money and sympathy for lying about a guy and fame and money if they spread those lies as fact and "advocate for other women". It's a truly terrifying time for boys to grow up in and i'm glad i don't have to but hate that my son does. he is only 6 right now. By the time he starts dating i am literally TERRIFIED of how that scene will be.
My daughter is only 8 but I am doing my best to raise her to be respectable woman to be a lady. I can’t imagine how hard it is to be a mother of sons right now.
Happened to my brother. He had to go to court to prove his innocence as a minor in high school. Luckily there were cameras in the hallway to prove his innocence to say that he didn't sexually assault the person. He is too trusting of people which gets him burned.
@@NotExplicable Hope he’s okay! Makes me worry about one of my friends at another school. He was a shy and sweet guy. I don’t know how he is now but I really hope he’s okay.
That "truth or dare" moment hit me in middle school too. It made me realize that different things are seen as acceptable based on their attraction to you. When I did something I got giggles and playful reactions but when my homeboy tried he got reported, suspended, sent to alt school, and nearly got him put on the *ex offender list at the age of 12 (by one of the girls i did the same thing to mind you). I felt horrible because I knew he was trying to be like me.
Thats literally normal for anyone... no one really wants someone they have no attraction to touching them inappropriately. I see men freak out abt it all the time, theres a video of a group of boys throwing a girl in the dumpster bc she asked for their friends number.
@@cremepuffle that's a fucked up way for anybody to be treated, especially a group of boys all ganging up on one girl, and she could have been seriously hurt. If she had been sliced by a broken bottle, or stuck by some drug addicts HIV+ needle, attacked by a rabid racoon in the dumpster, they wouldn't have thought that shit was funny when the parents' call the cops. I hope she wasn't physically hurt, but I'm sure she was humiliated.
@@EternalVirgin Men are adult humans, a species with emotions. They are just able to control their emotions, because yes you can do that, and live without being slaves to them
That's how you know what they were really after. I knew a female who marries and divorces every three years just to take half his shit including the guy's retirement as I heard her bragging about it to my sister at my cousin's birthday party, in which she said she's been married seven times.......Yikes!!!!
I'm afraid of women because my mom was really abusive when she was angry, especially when she was angry at someone like her boss, someone she couldn't hurt. It doesn't help that every relationship I've been in has been abusive, one of my exes stabbed me in the shoulder 6 times, she was going for my throat.
@@customurl4869 yes. I'm getting counseling and hopefully one day I be able to have a fulfilling relationship with a woman, but as it stands I'm incredibly uncomfortable around them. I know all women aren't abusive but for some reason subconsciously I'm drawn to women who are abusive.
@MikeProductions1000 not much more than other kids in her era. She was born in the 1950s, her parents all ways worked, and they were poor, so from age 5 she was expected to take care of her siblings. Also by age 8 she had to start meal prep for my grandmother so by the time my grandfather got home at 7, they could have dinner. Needless to say she didn't have a childhood. It had an effect on her development for sure. She gets defensive at even the slightest criticism. She thinks of other people (including me) only in reference to herself, if I almost hurt myself doing something dumb she'd say "think of what people would think of me if I let something happen to you." She is incredibly paranoid of "them," she told me from a very young age "don't every trust people because if given the chance they would kill you to benefit themselves." When I hit puberty she gave me "vitamins" that were actually her estrogen. At any rate I know my mom has a lot of trauma and is unhealthy. I don't blame her for her behavior, and I've forgiven her for what she has done, and I definitely have an unhealthy relationship with her... But she's still my mom, and I still love her... Anyway sorry for the life story.
@MikeProductions1000 definitely. But I genuinely believe it makes us stronger for it. I'm tenacious and compassionate because of the experiences I've had, and I try my best to understand the motivations of people. I wouldn't be this way if I had a "normal" childhood, at least not to the extent that I am.
As Chris Rock said, “ insurance should be called in case shit, you get it in case shit happens.” A prenup is just insurance for “ in case shit happens.”
@@earlwarner4404 yep, prenups are pretty much useless. All they have to do is say that the woman signed it under duress and that the man threatened that he wouldn't marry her if she didn't sign it and they'll overturn it.
If i was to sign such a thing ( in case ) it would be : what is mine, is mine, what is your stay yours, what is our can be split by mean of need, if i have a tv and not him but we bought one together he can have it or exchange with mine... etc
It can be her body her choice. But if she decides to follow through with it she get to take care of her baby on her own that a real 50 choice for both parties.
@ yeah she is simping for men. both sides piss me off why can't people just be people u know I love women and men (not that way lmao) let's all be happy. Both genders have contributed so much to society and have caused it pain we need to respect one another. Same thing wit different colors and religions
Modern marriage is nothing more than a contract between two people recorded and enforced by the courts. Yep we don’t treat it that way for some reason.
Not everyone sees it that way. Me and my hubby don't. If you find the right person you want to bring your loved ones together and celebrate your love, share the same last name and etc. But hey what do I know right? Me and hubby have been together 15 years and our parents are still married, our siblings are still married, and etc and no one is cheating on each other or other bullshit.
@@justiceadams6623 yeah I know it's a rare thing but it took work, communication, admitting your wrongs and making it right, respect, no cheating, and etc. We've been together since I was 17 and him 21 and we don't know anyone who's lasted as long as us and we even had our first kid before I was 20 years old and struggled with money. So we can proudly say we did everything ourselves with no bullshit. This chick rubs me the wrong way, the more I look the more I see contradictions and what not while trying to please the red pill guy demographic. She definitely needs looking into her past I bet. Her advice on this other video I found her on is what me and hubby would talk shit on if we overheard at bedtime at night and laugh alone. But yeahhhhh I'm done with it. I just hope others find someone else to listen to and leave this channel in the dust cause this ain't it.
@@constantine9142 About how someone sees it. That’s just a simple fact of the matter. You can feel however you want, but marriage is technically an in reality reality a contract between two individuals recorded, overseen and enforced by the system. And if it goes south, men 99% of the time are the ones that lose out. And most men will agree, there is little to nothing in it for men. We benefit very little. If there’s a divorce, most of the time men lose homes, family, end up paying more child-support then a car payment or even a mortgage. They honestly really very little in marriage that benefits men. Especially if it goes south. So it’s not about how you see it, it’s just a fact. Now few people nowadays are lucky enough to find somebody that they don’t have problems with and they will never experience the aforementioned issues and I always hope the best for everybody. But statistically the odds are against everybody, especially in today’s day and age.
9:28 Her body her choice right? Well, my wallet my choice? Wages = time spent working = life spent working = your life force. Pay for child you didn't want for 18 years plus having to deal with all the drama... If she wants to keep it then yeah her body her choice but a man shouldn't have to pay then.
@@sherelnzuza5447 Yeah, no shit use protection if you don't want it. Did you think what you said was clever? What you said was common sense. Thanks for pointing out the obvious. Guess the sky is blue too right?
@@sherelnzuza5447 there are 20+ forms of contraceptive specifically for women. Men have condoms. Seriously, you say that, but your dumb ass would lie and tell him you were on the pill.
Women have more ways to prevent pregnancy. Man's protection can be destroyed with a single blade. This is why I want to stress this to women: Don't be afraid of going to hospital gynecologist to get contraceptive tohelp you contain safety. It might even help lift period pain that you have (endometriosis, lack of pain reducing hormone progesterone etc.). I met a doctor professor when I got my first long term contraceptive and it inspired me to become a nurse and share information about importance of these miracles.
Roma even after being abused as a child and being seriously assaulted by her ex calls out the unjust actions on both sides and isn't afraid to speak her mind on it.
Women like this actually make me want to sit down and have a conversation about their struggles more because she’s willing to acknowledge that we have them as well. We should be going to the table like this with politics, race, and all other major issues where you take the side of the opposition ensure that you understand their point of you and then that person will actually be willing to hear what you have to say in return.
She is willing to admit it, so she can get paid for it. She admitted she doesn't give a shit about mra just about the money it makes her. There are women out there really fighting for men's rights. Making tiktoks linking to your Patreon which you use as an (expensive at that) onlyfans, to exploit men in the exact same way she calls others out for, well that doesn't do shit. It's no wonder men get manipulated all the time if you can't even see that
@Jessica L please don't go into the army before realising the amount of genocide and death they cause to civilian farmers worldwide. The military is one of the most disgusting institutions, don't join it. I've gone through something similar and you're better off getting out of there without tieing yourself down to a new abuser. Named whatever the hell your bunkmates and drill sergeant will be called. You can work on your own, you will improve when you are no longer influenced by their negativity. Finding a job and housing will do you way more good than pushing yourself into a rigid structure without respite to deal with the obvious trauma parents like that cause. It'll take a few years but you'll catch up. I'm 23 now and I started around 18 with looking. I've been out of there for two years and I am finally catching up with my peers in terms of social skills, which thanks to having an non-human mother (as described by a psychologist after attempting to talk with her about the abuse), have been quite lacking. Please save yourself by getting out of there but don't make your situation worse by joining the largest group of scum on the planet.
I spent months in jail for something I did not do. I lost my job and my car. I was released only because I was able to prove that I was in a different city working, it’s a 2 hour commute just to get to work but the police didn’t want to hear that the night I was taken to jail. My clock ins and security cámara proved me right and I had already been working 4 hours by the time the alleged events happened. The entire time I was in jail, the only thing I could think of was “I can’t believe I’m in jail for something I did not do” it turns out she was cheating on me and sending me to jail was his idea.
It's a fckn joke hey it's like evidence these days doesn't exist. Idiots just take anyone on there word cuase there to gutless to do there real job and afraid or the media if they turn out to be wrong but guess what it's there fuckn job to investigate not just prosecute. Society these days is fuckn disgusting
@@Tommieboy2009 of course they didn’t. I dont understand why the justice system is so broken when it comes to women’s accusations. It’s not guilty until proven innocent. It’s a guilty even if you’re proven innocent. It’s a lose-lose for men
@@AdamW-eo2yq - She never got any jail time or any kind of punishment. I wish she knew what I went through while in jail. Words can’t explain. I just wish she knew.
Love this girl, been watching her for a while. She's blunt, brazen and on the nose and I love her tattoos. Nice one for bringing more attention to her, she's great.
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These cases are 98% BLACK RELATIONSHIPS.. this is why black women are single with a gang load of kids..
Attachment Leads to Suffering! Marriage is a scam Love doesn't need a "contract" (marriage license) there is your first RED FLAG! ...So Don't Do It!
If attachment and or sexualities were described using doors, modern society is why I became a wall
This happened to me to in 8th grade I broke up with her and later i learned, she said i TOUCHED HER which I didn't do anything with her
Luckily my peers,teachers and mother knew i wasn't that kind of person
Which messed me up for a little bit and terrifies me about the subject of dating and marriage
I thought this was I Rick role lol
Remember when they thought johnny Depp was abusing amber heard they were all over the story but soon as it came out that it was the other way around they stopped covering the story completely
Fact
I drag these media companies for that shit on Twitter. Everybody notices. Really good example. I hate to say it about anybody but I'm glad Johnny went through it with such a gorgeous girl like her because we were able to expose the lies and how it works. It took those two beautiful people for people to start paying attention.
She barely did anything to Johnny but technically it is abuse. She wanted to bring it up now she's going to pay for it. I'm sure he would have lived with it just like all of us men are told to live with it but she's the one who made it publicly. I don't feel bad for Johnny the guys filthy rich and he basically want a public bickering argument over a scratch and a slap. He didn't want this either but I'm so glad she's exposed
@@Meilk27I think we disagree about that imo throwing things at people attacking them and gaslighting him when they bring it up sounds like abuse to me and not barely anything she even admitted to punching him on several occasions but I guess we see things but if that's how you feel that's cool I guess
@@nottodayimbusy7146 I'm not saying it's not a big deal and the grand scheme of things in a relationship those types of things are toxic in the relationship is irredeemably screwed, I'm just saying once it stops hurting it's really not that big of a deal anymore unless you're someone that carries emotional scars getting slapped by a woman isn't life changing not to me anyway
@@Meilk27 I was pointing out that abuse come in many forms not just physical my apologies if it was unclear and I wholeheartedly disagree with that last part I think we just see things a little differently and that's fine but as a person who has been through something similar in my life I'm a little bias I guess
''Women tend to fight for equality when it beneficial to them' FACTS!
That's not equality. That's favoritism. They want favoritism.
Funny how they complain a lot about wage gap, but only for CEO's positions xD
They're not fighting for equaliy. They're fighting for dominance.
@@tahseti1113 facts
@@joshuaottley7902 Baby: F... F...
Mother: Oh my God they're about to say Feminism
Baby: Favouritism
Father: Right as always Honey.
“It’s not that she will, it’s that she CAN.” It’s the existence of the possibility that a woman can financially ruin you in divorce is more than enough to keep men from marrying. It’s foolish to enter into a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
In Canada you don't even have to get married. The moment they live with you it's common law and they can take your shit if they really want -_-
I agree it's the possibility is that really scares many men. Especially because many women know they have that potential leverage. As men, we have to be very careful with who the women we interact with and how we interact with them.
@10 while I agree with the logic good luck enforcing that when things go south. Especially after a kid is involved.
@10 what good will a prenup do when all it takes to get one thrown out is to say “he said he wouldn’t marry me unless I signed it, so I signed it under duress?” Also majority of women take offense to being asked to sign a prenup and will usually try to guilt trip their way out of signing it. Prenups are pointless. Not getting married is far more effective than a prenup.
Lmfaooo payback baby. Wherever the pendulum swings it’s gonna come swinging right back.
As a lesbian, I know exactly why. Women can be just as evil or as good as men, absolutely. And in my experience dating women, in all the years prior to my coming out when I was with men, I was never treated so badly, never lied to so blatantly, never abused so frequently in every single way you can name….as I have been in two and a half years of dating other women. And I dated a few baddie men too. I have now been single by choice for a year with no immediate plans to date anytime soon, despite feeling lonely. Because I would much rather cry from loneliness than have to cry and recover from yet another awful relationship. I’m hoping on this channel, I won’t get censored as I was in telling this truth on others. Men and women are human beings, and there are good ones and bad ones either way. In my experience, it has been women who have made me prefer to remain alone.
As trans man, I was living in as woman and now I’m living in as man.
I know what women are capable of and how cruel they are. I ain’t saying that men ain’t capable of or be cruel, they can. But women are doing it better because of how society see women.
But, I never been so scared to be in a relationship with a woman, to feel so insecure to be real me in front of them, that I have to pretend to be something that I’m not because I’m scared I’m not good enough or they will hurt me or leave me for doing something I love (e.g. art, gaming, reading books or comics, etc). I want to be in a relationship and to begin a happy ending but with this hookup culture and this gender war and “I’m a baddie” mentality is scaring me to be in a relationship with anyone. It’s pushing me away and I think I will end up alone, which makes me depressed and sad.
As Evil As Men.?
Lol mabey Ur just picking the wrong people just because Ur taste In partners is bad doesn't make anyone of either of those sexs bad for it, Ur an idiot look inwards before u keen blaming everyone around u if every single relationship goes sour mabey it's time to Start looking towards urself and stop blaming everyone else hey
Very well said.
There is an old saying. Better to be alone then be with bad company. Good luck on ur journey in finding love and peace
Honestly growing up In today's society I don't ever wanna get married
Same here
Same
Same
I feel you on that one.
Same here. Where I live, arranged marriage is a thing. My family has been pressuring me to get married. Bringing up the top at every chance they get. Makes me not want to be around them. I've been the happiest being single and not having to deal with any drama.
I had two cops back home tell me that if my ex wife hit me again to defend myself and lay her out. Straight up. Never had to, that stopped that real fast when she figured out they didn't have her back anymore.
Glad to see not ALL cops are total morons.
Good thing you didn't do it cuz you would of been a fool to trust the word of a cop.
@@nickcompton5981 so true.. he hit her he gonna say bye bye to society n chill in a 9 by 9
Good 👍.
Bro they were fixing to come back and make an arrest. Which would have been you if you laid her out. They did not have your back on that one.
The saddest part is that the kids are now being used as weapons...
They're also being used as leverage.
Yea, if a man gets rapped and the woman gets a child then he has to pay for child support which is really dumb
"now"? This has been the case since the dawn of suffrage and divorce laws...
Mother's lowering their salary to have the father pay more is a common problem in Judge Judy and Family Court it seems
Now!!! We’re the hell you been it’s been like that for decades.
Your point about women constantly telling you when you were younger things like "Oh i wish i was your age" etc. really hit me. Never thought of it that way but yeah, I was told the same crap growing up. To turn it around and imagine a man saying that to a little girl is just insane. Glad you pointed that out.
Funny how it's only insane when you view a man doing it. Says a lot about the way men are perceived these days, it's sad.
Bruh.. same. 😮
I thought it was a compliment but now you guys bring it up it was down right creepy in hindsight
Had a girl tell me she was on birth control and I could leave the seed in. I declined and I found out she was pregnant eight months later by another man...smh
nice dodge bro!
Neo would be proud
Omg, she is freaking terrible 🥴
top 10 anime dodges that were replicated in real life
If they're on birth control, make them show proof. Cords especially (minimum to 3 years after applying), have medical cards with information to tell when is their next appointment. I know this because I've used cord, and it has worked very well with dealing semen so far.
Always carry on condoms just in case. It's not about not trusting someone, it's about loving them by protecting them, and in turn, protecting you.
"Women tend to fight for equality when it's a benefit to them.. Only.." Amen brother!! No truer words have ever been spoken!! I am a woman, but not a Feminist.. And that, right there, is precisely WHY!!
The US women's soccer team tells us all we need to know about the truth of current day feminism.
Preach girl! Those women don't want equality. They want superiority which is the truest example of irony in itself!
@@zeroremnant4477 hypocrisy, not irony.
I can't recall where i heard this, but "falling in love is showing someone the worst way to hurt you and hoping they never will"
Now.... that's deep 😳
I heard it as "to love someone is giving that person the ability to destroy you and praying they never do". And it was a man that told me that.
@@williampresley4945 *nod*
Thats free game right there bro .. we gotta protect ourself
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A professor I had in college had a very storied past. Of all the stories he told us; the one that always stuck out to me was the one where he was arrested for assaulting his then girlfriend. This man was at least 6ft in height and had tats up at least one arm, and his gf was like a little over half his size and came from a wealthy family, but she also had severe emotional issues. These issues came to a head one night and she stabbed him in the back with a skewering fork; one of those two-pronged things that are as long as a child's arm! She did this to him as he was trying to leave the house because he knew exactly how dangerous the situation was for both of them! He shoved her away, she hit her head on the wall and was out cold. HE calls the police and tells them everything that's happened, he waits with her until she regains consciousness, and is the one to greed the police, WITH THE FUCKING GIANT FORK STILL IN HIS BACK! They take one look at the situation and immediately put him in handcuffs; despite the gf owning up to the fact that she instigated the events, assaulted him first, and her injuries were accidental!
I understand the idea of neutralizing the perceived greater threat; but... really?!
At this point, the man can literally be DEAD, and they’ll still put him in handcuffs and not the woman who’s literally covered in blood.
Shout out to all the beautiful women who aren’t crazy 💯
If there’s any left 😔
@@ALJ9000 they are out there don't lose hope ^_^
Me being logical and not entitled love without anything in return. 🖤
If it still any😔
@@Skyra-1992 tiktok, snapchat, Instagram, onlyfans, and liberals ruin that.
"I yearn for true gender equality, i have no patience for one who talks about female privilege when it suits them, and then complains about someone "not being a man" when it's convenient"
-Satou Kazuma
A true man of culture 👏
Indeed 🙏🏾
Lord kazuma
You are indeed cultured. Konosuba 😖😩
Kazuma-sama 🤘
I’ve seen some of her content. She’s not afraid to say it like it is.
It's not "saying it how it is". Its called the truth.
Guys, you NEED to dig deeper on her. She is manipulating you. A woman who pretends to be for men's rights and then uses said men is called a Chameleon. See Think Before You Sleep video on her and then go down the rabbit hole.. ITS BAD!
@@honorafox4709 that neck tattoo was a huge red flag for me lol
@@honorafox4709 She is indeed a chameleon. She's just jumping on the red pill bandwagon and making money off simps. She is everything she claims to he against. She's a fraud and a manipulator. The tattoo should be a dead giveaway.
@@Grandmaster_Sub-Zero Does her tattoo have a meaning?
I love that woman Chloe …
Most women can’t handle the truth she speaks!!
I recently broke up with my girlfriend because she slept over, we slept in the same bed. It was her idea, I was prepping the couch for myself and had given her my bed and she said I "shouldn't be silly" and invited me next to her. The might was rather meh, we cuddled for a few hours and fell asleep. Few days later she texts me and says I "crossed a line" by sleeping next to her. Immediately I broke up with her because that's a major red flag right there
That’s crazy, how tf is your own gf gonna complain about something couples do on the regular?
I have a similar story but when I was dating. This girl was giving me all the signs she is into me but when I was giving her physical intimacy she started texting me after that actually she didn' t like it. Soooo..... I ran for the hills.
You're a smart man.
Get a lawyer ASAP, just in case she makes up a lie
Stay up king! Find yourself happiness
Im a victim of a physically abusive relationship with an ex. The police got called and they looked at her and asked if she wanted to press charges on me. All the while I’m standing there with knots on my head and my glasses broken and on the floor across the room. I love Roma for her speaking out for us men because Lord knows we can't express ourselves like women can.
my friend had an ex wife slice his arm wide open, needed both internal and external stitches because it was so deep (thankfully she didn't hit an artery, but it was close). He was taking all the sharp objects out of the house because she had been cutting herself. She flipped shit and attacked him to get the knives back to continue cutting herself, and then slashed his arm open because he wasn't giving her the knives.
While he is getting loaded into the ambulance, the police placed a handcuff on his uninjured arm and rode into the hospital with him because they decided to arrest him (washington is a mandatory arrest made in domestic violence calls state) and his wife wasnt mentally able to make decisions. They just arrested my friend because she had self inflicted cut marks on her wrists... despite his whole arm being sliced wide open. He spent most the night in the ER, then they took him to jail until they released him in the afternoon the next day.
Yeah. That is pretty shitty. Considering men getting caint, and that serpent all up in yesterday. So....
I am so sorry that happened to you! That’s never ok. I hope you are treated better currently and in the future by everyone.
When you say "like woman express themselves" you mean lie right
@@Culvey waaay jacked up! Poor man suffered hell!
A friend of mine when he was 17 got into an argument with his girlfriend. Mind you, he is a small dude and she was significantly larger than him. She started hitting him. He pushed her away and she fell. Despite the witnesses saying she was hitting him first and he was just defending himself, he was the one who spent the night in jail, had a restraining order placed on him, and was forced to go to (and pay for) anger management classes.
😲😲😲WOW
That’s some bull bruh don’t worry karma gonna come back to her this system is currupted man
@@immew8249 No definitely worry, don't leave it to Karma. Leaving it alone is why we're where we are with inequal social justice for men. Talking about it like he did in this video and getting involved is how you can bring attention to the subject.
@@immew8249 GD I sound like a demo liberal
@@cokedupcat because those tactics work. ...the reason things are the way they are now is because they were ignored or given "those parts" of society to do with as they want. Now the poison they've spread is destroying the whole thing.
Never been afraid of women but I've learned over the years to not go out of my way to chase after someone that doesn't mirror my intentions, effort or emotions. I've learned to treat them no different than any other random male. If you initially treat them like they're irrelevant you'll find the few out there that will make an obvious effort to show their interest in you. Focus on bettering yourself and you'll 100% do better on your own rather than being anchored down by an emotional support crutch that you're constantly and subconsciously making exceptions for out of your own fear of loneliness and insecurity.
Love this girl. She says what I have been saying for ages. Watched my sisters and mom destroy and rob every man they been with and they think they deserve his crap.
I’m fully scared now 😲
Luv u too
Did I read that right? 😲
She is that lady. She is a train wreck. She's just repeating what she tells John's at the strip club.
She's a chameleon draining her army of simps while giving them "girl on your side exerience".
Same OnlyFans, just from a bit different angle
The reason I never followed movements like believe women is because I know if you want to ruin a man's life accuse him of some sort of assault. I know someone who was accused of rape. This girl almost had him in jail but couldn't keep her story straight in the end. When they asked her for the truth she said he "raped me with his eyes"
With his eyes she says,
A logical answer her brain says
WTF HOW DUMB IS THIS WOMAN?!
@@omartn4682 You'd be surprised 😂
🏃🏾♀️ 👀👨🏿💻 🚓🚓
A friend of mine spent a week in jail before he was released when an ex accused him. Thankfully his lawyer was damn good at his job and got him cleared.
I was at the park with my nephew 2 weeks ago, and a woman came up and said: "ooh look at him, he's gonna break a lot of hearts." then turned to him and said .... TO HIM.... "just you wait, when you are 18 , mmm, imma be all over you" then she walked away yelling back " save him for me"....
he is 7 years old... now. think of this situation but in reverse... if a man had said that to a 7 year old girl... he wouldn't have walked away on his own, noooo, the police would have dragged him away.
as you said: they only want equality when its convenient for them.
Yep I was just talking about this with some friends. Like women will commit on a male child and even call him sexy and say how he's her little boyfriend and nobody cares however if it was the other way around it would be a case on that man after he got stomped out by everybody in the vicinity.
This is not your story, your nephew doesnt exist, your just bullshitting people with a lying ass comment.. that same story was told by a comedian or something.. i remember that same shit being said the same way... create your own memories there hoss.. life sucks but at least you can have your own..
@@Z-Ack i know which comedian your talking about, and i know that story, i was watching it thinking, he has a point there, because at the time i'm embarrassed to admit but i didnt think much of it. yet when that comedian put it like that my eyes opened about how f'ed up that situation was. i am sorry if i offended you and gave you the idea/feeling that i stole this story. It was not my intention to do so. and i hope you have a great day.
Grown women used to flirt like that with me throughout my childhood. When I was a preteen, one of my mother’s friends said something inappropriate to me in front of her. She checked her ass. I thought my mom was overreacting then. Now I understand.
I'm sure this situation has happened more then once 😂 it doesn't mean he's stole the story.
I started watching her content recently, & she has opened my eyes to a lot of things. Not to mention conforming things I believed already, & it is nice to hear a man's P.O.V.
I was supposed to get married 4 years ago, but instead got dumped before the wedding. Dodged a bullet right there tbh
@Edward Smith I think that if they are willing to just walk out before they got married then they will definitely want to while married.
@Edward Smith Not true, there are lots of people saying don't marry, with some women included.
I guess
@Edward Smith Fair enough, but you were the one that said nobody was, I just wanted to make it known that there are more than a few speaking against marriage or co-habitation. Good luck, and be careful, they truly can ruin your life.
Coming from a married man I say count your blessings!
I've been sexually assaulted by a woman who was suppose to be my mom's friend, who babysat me often cause my dad was on base and my mom was at work. I told my parents she was touching me in places she wasn't suppose too. My mom called the police and they didn't do a damned thing to this woman! They questioned her, she said I was a liar and my parents told me to say that. And before the end of the investigation, woman moved out. No idea where she went, she packed her things took her kids and left. My mom said I'd probably need counseling and one of the investigators told her. "ehh he'll be fine."
Police are Simps nowadays
I hope you're doing well
@Melissa OestreichI am going to therapy and such so I am getting help
Great job from your parents thought
They did their job unlike some who would have brushed it off saying you re lying or that it s ok
Glad to hear you got backed up and could get help
@@teezus2036 It's more of they know even if they arrest the female in question would just be a waste of time, because the courts favor women, why do you think crackhead mom's get the child all the time, cause women are favored in courts
@@samuraispeltwrong so society is a simp
I think when 2 people get married or even date....if theres a split you should leave with what you came into the relationship with
Way too simplistic.
@@mellar5864 no it ain't. Why is anyone else entitled to a lifestyle. You get what you brought in and/or what you need to survive. Nothing more. Also if you want child support show me where the money is going. Especially if you dont have a job, plain and simple.
@@nicholasroach880 then what about the money earned during the relationship, what if somebody decided to abandon their career for their kids, while the other one kept working?
Your idea is not only simplistic it's also just as egoistic and arrogant as the people you criticize.
@@nicholasroach880 there are so many possible szenarios yet somehow you decide to use one solution for all of them.
@@mellar5864 Dude the current system is one solution for all lol. It's just also a really shitty, one sided solution. At least @Mamatimez3 M's solution is better than the current one. (although it *doesn't* mention what to do with money earned during the relationship... probably just split that down the middle imo. Or judge's discretion. ) Sure there could be a better solution, but that doesn't mean we should stick with the current shitty one until an even better one is thought of lol
She left the most relevant issue of the current time, afraid of getting hit with a false accusation
They can not only take away your house, your money, etc. They can literally take your freedom away with false accusations and send you to prison for years.
Exactly 💯
Or they can accuse you of something you actually did but won’t admit to and you’ll get in trouble for that as you should you act like all these men who have to pay child support or who have it unfair don’t deserve the circumstances I bet at least half do
@@womenwhowantmenbackakawwwm8232 What?
@@womenwhowantmenbackakawwwm8232 Do me a favor, please stfu
Not just your property and your freedom but they can also take your kids and your ability to become employed and they can even release smear campaigns to your entire friends and family who automatically believe them and share their post for all to see. Hell they might even make songs about you being an "abuser" and there's no recourse whatsoever for any of this.
Her body, her choice. My wallet, my choice.
Women be like my body my choice your wallet my choice
Do you really want decide over a Woman Body?
She can choose to do what she wants with her body, doesn't mean I have to pay for it.
Your friends story might be bs..... you won't get actual jail time unless there was some damage done....
Hell yea
But if a man said that to a 5 year old little girl...society would be all over that! But "it's ok" for women to say things like this to little boys 🙄
Bruh I've been thinking the same thing
Yep, I've had that starting at the age of 7 all the way to 14, and always felt like I was nothing more than a piece of meat or their bank after that.
I find it so disgusting when women say shit like that to boys. Makes me wanna barge in and say "Pedophile much?'
Not true their is a very high statistics of unsolicited sexual encounters that girls face at a young age , and I have personally experienced it.
@@dakotamabry1645 I think it suffice to say that it is dead wrong of any sexual encounter with a child whether a boy or a girl. This channel is about giving light of what men go through, and a damned refreshing view.
Im facing 2 years for being attacked by my ex in my home and I didn't fight back. I called 911 and I'm charged with domestic violence. I've never been in trouble before. I spent 6 years in the army and was honorable discharged
Same thing happend to me also
as a Amry veteran medically retired out honorably at 100% P&T
I moved up to Alaska with my fiancée
And was swated by the upstairs neighbor on a false call
And the troopers didn't believe my fiancée when she claimed nothing happend claiming to me that here in Alaska d.v. is so high they can't allow and justify why by then arresting you in your home based on an anonymous call when it was proven the woman had a bad history with my girl
The troopers still charged me took me to jail
And the arraignment trial judge saw my spotless back ground let me go on bail
Even mentioned hearing where the troopers ignored my girls responses of denying that their assumptions that I had physically assualted her multiple times on audio recording because Alaskan state troopers atleast from their mouths said they did not have to wear body cams, only audio recording devices
Who also denied reading me Miranda rights, my phone call, and told me due to covid I was denied the oppertunity a fair and speedy trial
Apon having to "attend" court via teleconference apon my trial
The judge would not hear my side before asking me how I plead
My attorney advised a plea deal based on ... not sure how, seeing as everything was based on hear say
With the supposed victim siding with me
But the legal system ran with this and tried to charge me with something and it fell to a "fear of"
I think it's because we are veterans dn they are trying to stick us with smears so we can loose our second amendment rights being that desperate to tell me if I didn't take the plea deal I would be thrown in prison with a felony charge for the hear say is what they pushed me with against to then throw out a plea deal
With no evidence a purported victim who is on audio recording denying any accounts and ability of being one after seeing them come in guns drawn based on hear say from the upstairs neighbor who hated my girl after the last argument they had
So I lost faith in our government and recognize they are doing it to you
Mine happend in January of 2021
I absolutely hate the "I'm the mom" argument. As a father, it is absolutely insulting to hear that argument. I do anything and everything for my.son and yet I'll still hear that argument as if I never do anything or that what I do doesn't mean anything because I carry him for 9 months. No I didn't, I will just take care of him and do everything for him for the next 18 years and even after he is 18 I'll always be there for him. How does all that get negated and it's all over the "well I carried him for 9 months. "
I feel you on EVERY level of that. I got 3kids...2 with the epitome of a toxic baby mama. hit me with the long term ease into it Bait amd switch. my fault for slipping but she straight up uses our kids as a paycheck and excuse to be a cunt
She carries him for nine months? You carry them both for two decades. Get on that, "Mom". You're clearly not doing enough.
@@williambell3893 I wish you the best bro
@@spoopbagoot4628 no worries. no one lives forever 😁
@@chriswedemann8599 Females giving birth isnt much of a burden its their privlige what drugs are you on?
I paid for my Son always, not just child support but whatever he needed. He moved in with me full time at 13 and when I asked his Mom for support she laughed and said I would never see a penny from her. All good, I never expected anything just wanted to hear what I already knew. Some women are taught from a young age " What' yours is mine and whats mine is mine "
Agree with you but not all women that’s some women and I feel some women should feel ashamed of themselves for what they do men period that’s not the way to teach girls 👧 I’m a mom my self I wound never teach my daughter that
Reverse the roles and you lose your freedom, your driver's license, the right to vote, future income tax returns, left testicle, a pice of your soul, ability to date again.....
@@dunamisespada7289 some? You mean the grand majority
@@pickyscavenger3525 If you've had kids with that many women that you KNOW for sure that the majority are like that then you sir are the problem.
Ah I heard that only works when you’ve been married for a long time. Also I tend to heard it from old ppl, older couples, those that have been married for over 30 years. It doesn’t apply to divorce or kids or anything
During college I worked at the local boys and girls club during the summer and I loved it. The kids liked me because I still embrace my inner child while also having dad mode. The kids loved to hang on me and try to dogpile on me (things kids do), also some of the younger students would grab my hand when Crossing the street, they would do this with with most the staff. I was pulled into the office and told I couldn't behave this way and if the kids tried to engage in these behavior I had to tell them no. I was the only one talked to... Because I was male so it was seen as creepy while my female staff it was natural for them. Men can take care of kids and interact with them without it being sexual or creepy. For some of those kids I know I was the first male to interact with them in a non-serious and positive way.
Great story man! Single dad here! That's some B's man because kids LOVE that kinda play!! Not only did they make you out to be creepy they broke all of those kids hearts!! Unfukinbeilvable!! Stay strong brother.
This was exactly why I never volunteered. I am the same way with kids. They have always gravitated towards me because i embrace my inner child and i get down on their level. It shows you have a high emotional IQ. I have my own son now and I still am very weary in public about showing affection because it only takes one accusation. I also know men that have had this happen to them and they completely shut down their emotions because of it. I was always careful when watching my niece when I was younger. She absolutely loved to climb all over me and play and I had to shut it down. Its sad that people do not understand that we can be even more affectionate than some women towards kids but we get looked at as being creepy.
You should file for discrimination.
That sounds quite a bit like the MJ allegations.
I'm sorry this happened. And your absolutely right. Women can get away with this then when a guy does it it all of sudden come from a place of creepy or perverted. Why? It just isn't ok. It is time for the conversations to change and things we teach our kids too needs to change. Gender roles and stuff need to be done away with and accept that both men and women can be equally good and should be treated the same . No more double standards.
I full support and am a proud supporter of the RomaArmy hints the badge. She really finds ways to help and inspired me with what I do even tho I try to focus on low key counseling for our veterans and men she really has the platform to help! Her only haters are jealous women. Thanks for giving her some feedback positively. Most me do but still yet, thank you! I'm new to your channel buy you have a new subscriber from Ga!
“Women tend to fight for equality when it’s beneficial to them only.” Man if I haven’t said that so many times. I like the content. Subbed
(Edited: Did not expect my comment to get this many likes. Thank you all.🖤)
I completely agree with the statement lol
@Antione King ]0lpppll]
That's humans in general tbh. We usually don't care about the issues that affect others but not us
Damn, never thought of it like that this comment changed my perspective on this, thank you
Same. I've had this argument with many women. I only treat the women in my life, who act like women, like women.
The others get mad when I don't open the door, or refuse to help them fix shit etc. I'm like you wanted to be equal. I wouldn't help a dude with that so ..
Facts right here, the way my own mother talks about men scares me to be honest, these women don't care if you burn alive
This is why discernment in choosing women is important. It may take a long time but there are small percentage women who live on morals and characters. However, we still have to be careful because they have social leverage in certain aspects of life.
@@christianconsciousness certain, definitely not the majority. And more people, not just women, have decent morals and values than you think.
GET ME OFF THIS HELLISH ROCK
We are eldians and we will get attacked by the women nation they will KILL US ALL ON PARADIS
@@christianconsciousness I mostly agree but it's not that there few women that have morals it's just that in social media and generally in the publics eye the the eyes go to the people not only women that don't have morals, irl I have the pleasure of getting to know some incredible people, and as for the other just try not to associate with them and it will be fine I might have gone a little of topic but there are many good people out there and don't worry you most likely already know them but you yourself must be a good person to see them
Never heard of this woman before, but she is speaking the truth.
Glad to see other women recognize the problems facing men and not mocking them in the process.
@uncle rico She is and she isn't. After having done some digging, I'm aware that she's echoing a lot of the same talking points as other channels do.
Regardless of the fact that she's not REALLY give her own opinion, and is likely putting on a front, nothing she's saying is actually incorrect.
@uncle rico Why would they help if it could possibly cause them to lose power? I’d say to trust none.
@uncle rico this.
@uncle rico True, she was exposed. Keep in mind tho that women like that do exist. I'm a girl myself and I honestly don't give an f about having a platform or clout, but I still almost completely agree with MRAs like 'Think before you sleep' is. I am also actively against modern feminism as i think it is destroying not only men, but women as well.
This is all so true. These two folks are literally backing up everything I have gone through and what I'm still dealing with to this very day. So now I know I'm not crazy. Daddy loves you baby girl.
RomaArmy you are the best.
"Women only want equality when it's beneficial to them." Here in the UK, we have these psychotic women in Parliament. This statement was proven a few years ago, during a debate about increasing the retirement/pension age for women to the same age that men have to be before they can claim their pension. One Scottish female MP (Mhairi Black) complained that "this was not about equality ... blah blah." She hated the notion of women being treated the same as men when they weren't benefitting from it.
Per the usual
Same one who has a cocaine addiction and takes drag queens into primary schools for sex ed talks, yep I know her.
Then it shouldve been flipped, lower the retirement age of men to the same as women.
Wait, I guess I don't get it. In the UK women get to claim government retirement, umm what do they call it "pensioner" person? at a younger age then men? In the USA it's called social security and you get it at the same age, they a few years upped the age as folks are living longer. Used to be 65, now its 67.
But the UK women get to claim the government dole younger before men? That should be reversed in truth, women live longer then men, men work themselves to death sooner, a certain amount don't even make it to retirement, when they do get it, they get it for shorter period before they die. Per Capita to be "equal" they should get it later to be an equal drain on public resources.
@@mattstorey7256 Yep. You understood it. And yes, you are probably right. It used to be that women get it at 60, whereas men get it at 65. Things have been pushed upwards slightly, like in the US. My state pension age is 67. It does look like they have been equalised as the government's online pension age checker doesn't ask if you're male or female.
“ I deserve half of everything you have” What! Hahah 😂
"Here's half of my existential doubts and half of my depression, enjoy!" lol
classic entitlement.
I've heard: “Whats mine is mine, and what's yours is mine.” You better believe it.
“Women fight for equality only when it’s beneficial to them”
Yes, this! This is so true and I hate it.
Exactly the problem
It's the same as this trans feminist they cry about the word man woman because they are born different but they want that people call them trans man or trans woman.
INCLUDING this woman he's talking about
I read this comment exactly the same time he said it LoL 😜
@@selena5947 because if they only fight for equality when it is convenient for them they need a dictionary for term equality. They fight for their interests , not equality, if u want equality u want equality ..period.Not just when it favors you.
“Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” Gives me a deeper meaning nowadays. I actually respect all the players in this later life. Teaching my 3 boyz how to think 10 moves ahead and no nonsense attitude. Remember, we can be 80 and still bust a “NUT” and if we take care of ourselves, we become fine wine.
I got the snip when I turned 18 cause I don't want kids, I've lost several G/F's when they tried to tell me that they were pregnant by me lol I even check with the doctors every few years to make sure it is still working...
Nice way to know that they were cheating on you when they come to you crying they are pregnant and its all your fault, then plot twist, you are infertile xD
Lucky you as a guy being allowed to do that at 18. respect for making the call to do it AND making sure it worked!
But I will STILL not trust vasectomies or a guy who says he's had one. Learnt that the hard way.
I risked trusting a new guy after I'd left a long term abusive relationship. Big mistake, especially as we worked together. new guy said he had a vasectomy (which was perfect for me- NEITHER of us wanted kids)..... but then he broke up with me and later that same night I found out I was pregnant..... at 38. Because HE DIDNT CHECK IT WORKED.
I had a breakdown for the next 3 years. He knew I still loved him and he used that to get more sex the next year. He's dated others at work since and still with someone i used to work with. Class act.
I’ve been considering on getting a vasectomy as well, since I have no desire to have kids...like whatsoever...
My cousin sold her eggs, put herself through college, bought her own house. Being child free is amazing 👏. YOUR life is YOURS to live, no one else's.
@@jenniferbates2811 , until you're 30, and you realize you want family instead of money.
I’ve heard of men who got abused by their wife, had video, audio, physical, mental, and witness evidence, and still lost in court and got jailed
I’ve also heard of a 7 year old who got sexually assaulted and raped by a woman well in her 20s and lost in court because he “should’ve been able to overpower her”
Buddy got arrested for domestic assault because his girlfriend hurt her hand punching him in the face had witnesses on his side and still lose was told he should of ran away before she hit him
honestly these are the only people in life that I would be happy to see them die homeless the unfair feminists that get away with stuff
I been with my boyfriend for all most 16 years and we have a son and I don't care to get married I'm happy just being us the way we are. Love your videos
@@SandTguy it's called common law marriage and idk it depends on the state. It's changed in mine but it used to be if you were together 7 years you were basically married. I know this from asking my divorced grandparents why not get married with the people they were with after their divorce? and they said they basically were because of that. Idk what it is now tho but it did change. I think it's basically non existent now but I could be wrong
Always happy to have allies on the other side!
@@guicaldo7164 meh I'm fine with getting married like I refused when I was younger cause I wasn't ready but now I am. It's just affording it now cause we want to make the memories, celebrate life and etc with it but then again we have had alot of death and etc expierences that made us grow up and look at things differently where my fiance is the one wants it even more than me. Idk I just feel like others against it haven't had the greatest relationships, ain't ready for commitment and need to grow up more. Which nothing is wrong with that cause I'd rather people get married and really mean it from both sides and already basically have been living married just fine than a shot gun wedding and etc.
@@constantine9142 You can have all that and not waste their time getting married. Marriage means nothing. I know so many relationships where they aren't married but have outlasted more marriages that ended into divorces. These unmarried couples are lot happier, yes they have kids. They known each other either from high school or from work. Some skipped marriage simply because it's expensive or it's a waste of time. Trust, loyalty, love, commitment, it's all there and marriage is non-existent. I don't agree with the whole, "had a crappy relationship, scared of commitment etc", the typical crap people love to say because apparently they know alot but one of those is probably right, but it's more like they wised up, marriage isn't what it once was many years ago. It's lost it's meaning. We got prenups and manipulative people (mostly women) who take advantage of this to earn greater "rewards". If marriage is your thing, then sure whatever but don't act like you have the manual to what a happy love life is and should be cuz you don't.
@@J0kerHecz dude usually it is and you'd be surprised in those "happy" unmarried couples how many girls and etc are sad they ain't married yet. Like yeah if they already were married to someone else and it didn't work out they usually won't do it again till years later cause they usually learn from their mistakes but I hate to break it to you many who were never married despite being with one person for years is lying and actually want it or not ready yet and will sooner or later. Idk what to tell you about your denial except get some therapy and date better people. I grew up with divorces and marriages that never ended and been with the same man since I was 17 and not to mention my friends that are idiots that talk like you are usually the ones that date ex junkies and etc and when they obviously get screwed have the audicity to be bitter and blame all women when the decent ones warned them!! lol. Like even my several millionaire uncle is married and happy. His wife and then are a team yet you can't do that? Lol and blame gold diggers gtoh
I always wanted a pre nup. Went through at least a dozen women who were obviously gold diggers. Then I met my wife. After 4 years of dating, I knew I didn't need one with her. So far, all is good, we still love each other to death. Been married for 9 years. Hope things stay this way!
It's generally a good idea to sign one if you have significant savings/assets. Even with one, it's not guaranteed protection, but it's certainly better than nothing.
As far as alimony and divorce settlements go, I have mixed feelings....If it's a situation where a couple is together for 20 years, and the woman is staying at home, taking care of the kids and doing housework, thereby allowing the man to make a lot more money than he would otherwise, then I could see where it'd be fair for him to pay her after a divorce - at least some of the money that he earned *during* the marriage - since she wasn't accumulating work experience and advancing in her career during that time. But if a girl marries a guy who's already rich, stays with him for a very short time, and then tries to take half his money, then that's nothing but a pure scam!
My husband got married at 18 because his girlfriend got pregnant. He lived in misery and she cheated on him constantly while he was at work. Back then everyone didn't have cell phones. He fell off a house at work and broke his leg. He couldn't get her to answer the house phone all day. She finally showed up late to pick him up, six hours after he fell. When they finally divorced the judge told him to make sure he kept up the lifestyle she had become accustomed to while married to him. She was also granted custody of the baby. He was scared to marry me because of this. We are going on 18 years together and still happy. She is on her 20th man and still miserable and drunk.
Scenario’s like this are so messed up because it’s like nothing he could do he clearly was & still is a good soul & she prob had plans of screwing him over smh , I’m glad y’all marriage is going well hopefully y’all keep elevating 🦾🖤
What happened to their child?
This happened to my husband too. Was with her for 11 yrs, got married at 19 and she left him and took everything including his dogs.
When I divorced my first wife years ago I was told by the judge he didn’t care if I had to work 3 jobs to support her that’s what I was to do! We’ll found out she had dropped my son at her parents and was getting the money I was paying before her parents got it! You can’t make up this kind of bs!!!
@@johnparkerreed5712 Wow. 😶
This video reminded me of an incident I witnessed when I was probably 15/16?
I had a friend, a great friend. He was respectful to people, both boys and girls. He had a female buddy, they always hang out together because they were both from band club. One day, out of literally nowhere, the girl files a police report that my friend had groped her in school.
The scenario was that, they were both in line to buy some food in a canteen. My friend had apparently groped her butt while he was behind her.
Now usually if didn't know my friend well enough I might have believed it, but I also knew the girl a little to think that she wouldn't say something like that.
Turns out after asking my friend what had happen, it shocked me. The thing is, on the day that "incident" had happened, I was literally with my friend through out the whole time. We were from the same class, went to the stall together, got in the queue and I was in front of him. The girl was like 3 people behind my friend. So in the end after an investigation by the police.
They found out that the girl lied and it was an idea given to her by a guy she was dating, because she had an arguement with my friend regarding something trivial and wanted to get back at him.
Throughout the whole investigation, which lasted 3 weeks. The whole school found out about it, and the guy literally could not even walk without getting a look of disgust from everyone that didn't know him. Especially from teachers and juniors. But when it all ended, no one came to apologise, the girl got away scot-free and my friend just got scarred with the title of randomly groping a girl that he thought was his best friend.
I had a female freind and we were really close but I never had that kind of feelings to her your know someday she came to me and asked me on a date and told her I dont wanna lose what we have but suddenly she started kissing me I immediately stopped her and ran next thing I know she used to police for assaulting her and sincere I had no proof and she was a female I went to jail for 6 months and I was just 16 this happened 1 year ago now everyone hates me in my town
And WOMEN are the victims here😂
@@samnorouzi8852 so what would be the solution oh, so this never happens to any man
@@johnbingaman3645 honestly mate I don't know but I hope this never happens to anyone else
@hello thank you mate❤
@hello civil suit dude. Sue her for everything she has.
Had this sort of happen at work. I arrived on time one morning and we had a new female sub manager. When she started giving me a hard time I told her I was getting ready to start the day and she goes off on me. Runs into the office of the manager and tells him I chased her around the work area and was cussing her out. Despite having 15 cameras watching me doing nothing they still tried to write me up and threaten me. I quit that day.
I was afraid of women in my 20s because my mom was a horribly abusive narcissist and should never have been allowed to raise myself and my brother. She ruined me and made me terrified of women.
Luckily therapy helped me and I am much better now and found an amazing woman who loves me and is very supportive.
My mom also wanted me to be self sufficient so even though she was abusive, she taught me a lot about taking care of a home, etc. I'm a near and clean freak and am always cleaning the house and organizing even to this day, at 52.
Im happy that the woman I found is down to earth, we get along perfectly. Don't even have those stupid equality conversations.
Honestly thought men are looked at so poorly when it comes to marriage that I have no interest. I have a life partner but not interested in marriage. It's nothing but a govt institution. A partnership should have nothing to do with a gov't institution.
50% of marriages each year, not just half over a lifetime. Men who marry once on average marry two more times. If you marry under 25 your chances of having a 10th anniversary are less than 5%. 6/10 men anonymously report they are physically abused in their relationship, don't report it because they are afraid of their partner leaving, being taken into custody in reverse uno, afraid of loosing parental rights, or more severe abuse. 8/10 report emotional abuse. 3/5 state they have developed depression and most therapists agree its due to a lack of autonomy and unrealistic expectations in their marriage.
Straight blunt fact's that need to be passed around bud.
Boy I got a story to share.
It's a story that happened between my son's mom and I.
In 2012 I got my son's mom pregnant. She took him away from me when she was 5 months pregnant with him. I kept trying to contact her on her phone and her mom's phone. No response. I went over to their apartment so I can see how my baby(my son) is doing and also to see how she was doing. No response also.
Fast forward to 2014 I find her and she EXPECTS me to react like everything is fine and this and that. Which I did.
When I first met my son, it was my favorite moment in life because when he saw me he immediately knew I was his dad and without hesitation he ran as quick(not that quick) as possible to give me the biggest and best hug I ever had.
His mom and I got back together but only last 4 months because she slowly but shortly was trying to take time away from me seeing my son. I can now say, looking back, my son's mom and her mom(my son's other grandma) were planning and hoping it aggravated me(which it did) to the point that I'll get physical with my son's mom. I didn't because I have never lay hands on a female and never will.
She called a "break" between her and I(which I don't believe there's any breaks in the relationship) and for me it wasn't a break, it was break up. This happened on October 2014. On November 2014, a sheriff comes knocking at my door to serve me restraining order papers from my son's mom. Before the Sheriff handed me the papers he looked at then looked back at the papers then laughed and gave me the papers because what he read on the papers didn't match with how I look.
To sum up the restraining order papers, she and her mom wrote that I took my son away from her 3 times. And that I was violent. Nothing but pure bs they wrote. The court date was on December.
They expected me not to respond or fight back.
Knowing that feeling that she had took my son away 1 time already, I wasn't going to let it happen a 2nd time because had a great father and son relationship with my son. My love for him couldn't and wouldn't let his mom to complete a 2nd take away.
So I filed for joint custody.
A friend of the family tried to serve them the papers but they wouldn't answer the door. So when it was the day to go to court to fight her restraining order case, the case was the last case because she still wasn't an adult she was 17 and I was 18. When the judge read the case and told my son's mom to explain her case, she began to tell lie after lie after lie. As she was explaining her case, the Judge glanced my way a couple times and was paying attention to my body language. He then cut her off, and asked her where's the proof. Proof because she was saying I was being physical, which was a lie. And she stayed quietly shocked because she knew the Judge picked up on her lies. Then her mom jumps in and says I was abusive. The Judge took another glance my way, chuckled and then asked a 2nd time where's the proof. Without proof I can't grant you your case. He then commented how my appearance and what was written on the restraining order papers didn't add up.
He dismissed her case and before closing it he asked if anyone has a question. I quickly raise my hand, the Judge says, Yes? And then I told him that I have a case myself. I gave his assistant the case number to my Joint Custody case. She found it. The Judge then granted me Joint Custody of my son. For every Saturday she has to go drop off my son at my apartment.
After the judge granted my case, my son's mom and her mom knew that they lost and I won because I presented facts. So they went to go file for child surpport.
Thinking that I was going to be okay with that. Guess again, I wasn't because on her restraining order papers she CLEARLY wrote that she doesn't want ANY financial support from me in ANY WAY.
So I went down to the child support department and presented the restraining order papers where my son's mom CLEARLY wrote she doesn't want any financial support from me. I also told them that I wasn't working(I was but I wasn't going to tell pay a dime that 2 face.) The lady that helped me at the child support department understood what was going on but didn't know what to do. She went to the back to go talk to a lawyer to see what she can say to me. 5 mins later she came back and said that they see what my son's mom is doing. Since I didn't work, I didn't have to pay her because I had no job, but once I get a job I had to go report it to the child support department and begin the process of me paying her child support.
7 years later, 2021, I still have no "job" and she still ain't receiving a dime from me.
@@unknowninfinite8081 lmao, your a legend man, I still hole you find a great women.
@@unknowninfinite8081 raise your son well king.
Well, I haven't reported it but I'm definitely one of the 8/10 emotionally abused. Oh, and the 3/5 with depression developed too.
crazy women's logic: what mine is, is MINE and what yours is, is also MINE
also was used as a joke in a chilean program
The fuckin audacity they have to think/say shit like that
This reminds me of the scene from Finding Nemo where the seagulls continuously screech, "MINE, MINE, MINE" 😂
The one really good reason not to get married.
It’s not crazy logic….It’s Pure Selfishness and entitlement.
As someone that wants a family in the future stories like this always disheartened me
Don't be disheartened. I always wanted a family, but never wanted to get married or settle down. But i did find one that i thought was worth the risk. She is actually traditional and believes how i beleive and us great mother. It was worth the risk. Figure out the red flags and avoid those women. Also one word of advice... the worst thing you can do to a woman is let her be bored. Boredom will kill a relationship.
@@repentorperish1386 how exactly would you keep her from being bored then bc that seems to be something nobody specifies
Stay single don't do it !!!!!!!
It just shows reality. It doesn't mean love, trust, family, or long lasting relationships aren't true.
@@ClarkGraham By knowing the person and just doing things besides sitting at home watching youtube LOL
I just started following her and I gotta say she's spot on. I've listened to several of her post and she is absolutely amazing.
I found her by accident months ago, I have to be honest, it’s nice to hear a woman stand up and speak for us instead of making excuses for women’s behavior
Same.
*Return of the Men* Tiktoks is how I found her.
You found Roma Army!! I wanna see more reactions from you reacting to her content! It works both ways!
@@zahravonx4210 BEWARE, my friend. She is NOT what she makes herself out to be. Dig a bit deeper and you'll see what I mean.
@@honorafox4709 truth hurts don't it 🤣
@@honorafox4709 huh
@@honorafox4709 What do you mean?
@@the1017M Roma, AKA Christina Efram has a very long and dark history of gang activity and drug use. She has swindled a lot of good people, the worst case being scamming a woman who's son was murdered. (#JusticeforJari) She gave the woman the impression that she would help raise money for the woman's son's funeral costs by starting a Facebook petition, which lead a lot of people to donate to Roma's "Petition" instead of the legitimate GoFundMe for the funeral. The poor lady never got the money and when she FINALLY confronted Roma about it, Roma blessed her out and blocked her.
There's a lot of bad things Christina has done and honestly I couldn't list them all here. I highly recommend starting at this video and after that start looking into it more.
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Believe me or the other multiple people trying to warn others or not, just please be CAREFUL with this woman.
I never go along with the shaming labels the females often spew, "Men are Afraid..."
No. Men are not afraid, ladies. Men are being smart.
Big difference.
She’s standing up for men though. She’s not calling men pussies or anything?
@@Beatles.lassie If you listen carefully to the words she uses, she's very covert. But I am pretty sure her motivations are not so pure. Be very careful when a female tries to play advocate or acts as an ally to Men. Usually there's a reason behind it.
@@repealthe19th61 yes I get what you're saying. I watched another video after this and realised I was wrong. X
I see you also picked up on the nuances.
@@repealthe19th61 yep a chameleon. Think before you sleep talked about her.
Thank you for giving this perspective long overdue air time. BRAVO!
Unless you get a woman like me. If I have to leave someone, I don't want anything from them other than a clean break. Nothing to tie me to them whatsoever. It's a break up, not a take up.
Word
Literally. Made sure I could survive alone since I was 19. I'm pansexual and have been treated badly by both. Staying tf away from everyone from now on. 🤣✌
@Julio Cesar hate to break it to you, but men do this too. I've literally just left one a week ago ✌
@Julio Cesar but thats why I said I'm staying tf away from eeeeeveryone from now on lol
@Julio Cesar yeeeah I've never been stupid enough to get married, thank goodness 🤣🤣🤣✌❤✨
This lady is amazing and very humbling. She makes you realize you shouldn’t be privileged. You should be equal.
She's full of crap, she just parrots some MRA stuff she heard online. She never offers any advice on how to spot red flags or protect yourself from such things as men. She's just using lonely guys to simp for her.
@@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle every single other thing on the Internet is parroted one way or another also there’s other channels that offer advice on how to protect yourself from men. Go there if that’s what you’re looking for. she’s speaking on behalf of men that aren’t heard. can’t you just let them have this one? damn 🙄
@@moontiddiez33 1) I am happily married so I don't need "protection".
2) I will let them have it, when they are not being leeched by obvious fraud. What exact "advice" is she offering to men?
She is neither amazing or "humbling", she is just telling lonely and desperate guys what they want to hear so they can pay for her patreon.
I wasn't born 16 years ago.
@@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle how about the men and hat aren’t just desperate and lonely? How about the men that actually feel like they are categorized based on the past experiences of the female they’re dealing with?? Okay so you have some issues. You feel that needs to be addressed good for you. But who’s listening to the men hmmm??? Good for you for finding a husband that suits YOUR standards. Ig you don’t need an input anymore right? But you choose to have an input cause you know there’s still debate around all this. So my thing is-have a benefit of the doubt for the men that ARE making progress and ARE doing good for women but still feel injustice.
@@J.J.Jameson_of_Daily_Bugle sorry you have such a negative input but girl. Don’t go belittling women just because they’re standing up for the opposite sex.cause that’s what feminism is about. Equality. Not who can do it better. Humble yourself.
whenever my hormones tell me "come on get a girlfriend", I watch videos like this to stay rational and see how toxic they are
I was watching a group of women being interviewed about there taste in men. When I heard figures, I had no idea what they meant. I’m a junior in high school and I didn’t even know what it meant. I found out (kind of) but it felt wrong.
Just gotta have that post-nut clarity
Nah... not all, but not little too there is many but there is also many good woman. Just choose wisely
@@gashchannel334 nah there is no hope left
@@m.hoffman2889 man... your mom is also a woman... what you going to say that to her?
love Roma - wow man, u str8 opened my EYES just now around 10-11 minutes, spittin truth about how grown women too often speak about and to young boys; it’s so true.
Only demons demand you not consider possible consequences of your actions.
Don’t be demons people.
As a demon I'm gonna tell u yes u right we do cause that but human always do stuff they shouldn't
*loads super shotgun*
I just cant understand your sentence only demons demand (you not consider) (possible.... Wtf ...!!!
It is indeed a fact that women are allowed to withdraw consent after the fact.
Stay woke Kings.
WHAT!? That's scary because I have had sex with a lot of girls that ask to be choked or thrown around or even slapped. Imagine if they withdrew consent after...
Had it happen to me a few years back. Luckily I had a few friends around that that party that were able to call bullshit on most of her story. She had been on me all night and I wasn't interested till I was drunk but when her boyfriend found out she said I raped her and luckily just about everyone at that party corrected it and said she pretty much raped me because I didn't want anything to do with her till I was drunk as hell and got tired of her advances.
@@Xparkman30 i hope you attempted to counter sue for defamation
@@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer the cops started interview but that same day everyone knew she lied so that her boyfriend wouldn't be mad at her and she went and had the charges dropped and all I wanted was a restraining order to keep her the fuck away from me after that.
Signed agreement and video proof of her saying she consents to what's about to transpire ... And then y'all commence.
SO WE CAN OFFICIALLY CHANGE PRE-NUPTIAL TO “MARRIAGE INSURANCE”!!
The best protection is to never get married can't beat that 💯👌.
a judge can use loopholes to break the prenup you're better off just not getting married
@@jimbothegymbro7086 Yeah, signed under duress is an excuse. It has to be a very official arrangement and not rushed.
Don't want to upvote because that number's nice, but I kinda agree. Though, I wouldn't call it "marriage insurance", but "divorce insurance".
Idk what prenuptial itself the word like why'd they name it that way cause marriage insurance sounds rude or something cause it makes more sense and it being name that I guarentee more people would use it.
You have a very wise mother, she knew even way back then the power girls had over young men and boys was not something you fool around with. Kudos to her.
Homie was going through a divorce recently, and was really broken about it, till he heard his ex wife talking shit about how, with his financial status, she'll still be set after the divorce. Apparently, he gave her and her lawyer a legal-binding contract that if she receives a percentage of his property, he gains full custody of both of their children...I don't know how it ALL went down, but he seems way happier now and so do the kids.
Wow, she doesn't want her kids huh... great woman.
Bless him and his kids. Money grubbing women man, can't stand them.
@@patriciairwin9491 that's usually how it really goes.
@@ArtisChronicles , I find its usually men who don't want their children, considering they usually leave when they find out she is pregnant. I have heard of men forcing their wives/girlfriends on birth control to. Its so sad. I am happy to be blessed with a good man.
@@ArtisChronicles , And all your porn you subscribed to is a disgrace to women. Obvious you're a woman hater. No woman wants kids with you. You should rephrase your comment.
Quiet sad when men issues are only considered when it's told by a woman...
Elaborate :)
Sometimes.
@@icumi5981 Activists for men's rights are shamed and removed from public discourse. Men have no voice aside from odd girl here and there. The moment Deep's case took a turn in his favor it was removed from MSM, for instance. No one asked Chris Brown for his side of the story or talked about police reports once they went public. Most of my friends suffered through some kind of what would be called sexual harassment or rape if they were girls. I did too. My neighbor was beaten on a daily basis by his wife. Law didn't care. My close friend became an alcoholic in his mid-twenties since his options were either to divorce and lose children or stay with an abusive partner. Society doesn't give a shit about men's issues or as we say here "beat the horse that pulls".
Ouch just ouch
@@DarkThagan sorry you went through that. I wish the best for your loved ones.
I saw a video of a guy yelling outside a abortion clinic because he wanted the child but she didn't and he was devastated and he didn't get any sympathy from anyone
That’s honestly horrible, it takes 2 make a child. The very least that could’ve happened was that they both could’ve had a conversation and talked it through. Her body her choice yeah but he’s also the biological father. Things are seriously getting out of hand.
@@ashez5584 no its not. Child birth is not easy and has the power to ruin a womans body or even kill her. Yes it is her choice because just pushing the baby out aint the hardest part.
@@cremepuffle they should of had protection
@@cremepuffle Most selfish comment ever
We should start normalizing these kinds of talks and make them more publicly wide-spread. There's no excuse for everyone *not* to be on the same page at this point, just because they're uncomfortable.
In NY at least, both parties can press charges on each other. But NOBODY should be putting hands on anybody except in a loving way.
True, initially, but, only one would be charged due to that a primary aggressor must be established before trial .That is determined by the history of both parties involved; the type of crime perpetrated (felony always trump misdemeanors); the degree of injuries, etc.
@@csb315 not in most states
Or they into that kinda shit. I've met a few that like that really rough stuff. It is what it is.
@@CarlosMonagas Or one of them fabricates injuries. Like that one video of the woman beating herself with a meat mallet to create bruises. I think she even says on camera that she's intending to file a false report on her boyfriend.
Yeah but who will take the guy's side? Never.
You can go into a relationship with a “death do us part” but you can’t know the depth of emotion of the other person.
You can sometimes, thats what you call souls mates i guess, its rare in these times. Everything is shallow and stressful, manipulative and blah blah blah, chaos. Finding "the one" is damn hard these days, 50% of marriages end in divorce, imagine how many that seperated that didnt actually divorce, or ones that are still married but hate each other and just think its normal or dont wanna deal with the system. Lots of variables.
@@coryclark5442 Yep, I was married to someone who had a disability and guess what? He divorced me not the other way around..smh. It's all good now but to know that people don't take their vows seriously makes me wonder why do we even need to get married.
@@Just_Taneise the marriage system needs a rework. Im sorry you had to go through that, i recently lost a 6 year relationship i thought would last forever, thought i found the one and so on. Now it all just feels empty and painful.
@@coryclark5442 that is me rn. My wife of 7 years is leaving. And shes the one who cheated
@@johnrose2993 i dont even wanna think about how angry i would be in that scenario, just try to focus on the idea that she wasnt the right one, there will be someone better
Damn dude this hits home for me I spent 7 months in jail for something I didn’t do haven’t seen my son in years 😭💔
God Bless ... Thats terrible Bro
Sorry you had to go through that
Sad thing is when situations like this never appear on the news or any documentary’s few people know what’s happening and when few people know what’s happening and men and women start protesting and the protest come on the news then they’ll wonder where this is coming from and since they don’t know what’s happening they’ll just assume that they are just an anti-feminist sexist group that hates women so even if we protested we might still make a bad first impression 😕
Bro, the car insurance analogy was perfect. I'm useing that for sure. Thanks
These are things that held me back for a long time. I was single well into my 40s. Had nothing to do with my family life growing up, it was great. But had everything to do with things I’ve heard and witnessed around me as I entered adulthood. I did have a few relationships, but only a few. I was afraid of a woman messing up my life in a number of ways.
I am happy to say that I did meet, and am married to, a really wonderful woman.
too REDACTED tru
It’s definitely understandable why men would be scared. I’m glad you found a great women who treats you right! Good people are hard to find these days.
I freaking love Roma. She's amazing and her heart is always in the right place. We need more women like her!
No it’s not
@@QixTheDS why do you say that?
@@cancelthis3891 Because her heart isn’t in the right place. She’s not doing what she does because she’s a committed mra or wants to fix the problems we face, but because she knows guys really want to hear this come from a woman and so will support her just cause of that.
Just from watching her videos alone, you can see signs she’s not capable of teaching others how they should be thinking and acting. It’s irresponsible of her to be teaching others when she hasn’t worked on herself. And if her own videos aren’t enough, she’s been challenged by other RPs and she just folds like a lawn chair. She does all the things she criticizes other women for doing when she gets criticized and can’t come up with a defense.
I’m not pissing on her because I hate women or something or don’t believe that women mra’s exist, but because this particular one is extremely popular and not what she claims.
@@QixTheDS ok, I get your opinion. However, I'm a woman who has thought along the same lines for a very long time and up until I started finding women like Roma, I didn't really know how to express it to other women. I may not agree with everything these women say and think, and she sure has her own strong opinions on a lot of thinks, but I don't really see that as a reason to say she's only doing this for mens attention and views. A lot of women watch her content as well. She's done charity work for mens right organizations and tries the best she can to educate people on why mens mental health matters - but as women we can only understand our own interpretation. We aren't going to be 100% right or accurate. She's a commentator, not a reporter or fact checker. In that instance, I give her some slack. But to each their own. I'm not going to sit here and tell you one way or another on who you feel can speak to what you go through.
Maybe some men here can actually relate to what she touches on and others don't. I know some men feel like Roma makes them out to seem soft or victimized. I won't say it doesn't come across that way sometimes either, but I don't believe she means it that way.
I read the replies and I agree with @@cancelthis3891
As a guy, yes, it is very risky getting married. She can take half your life earnings, the home that you may still be paying off. If you had kids, you will be paying a lot for 18 years and you may barely get to see them and she will probably try to make them hate/resent you. Then you have to find somewhere else to live with the peanuts that you have left...
Especially for the men who worked hard for years to build up their assets. If a man or woman decides to get married a lot of important conversations must be brought up to ensure both individuals are on the same page.
@Doom Guy, that's exactly what happened to my brother. He was married and has kids. She took the house, land, kids, the new car. My brother worked so hard to earn all that.
@@eal5023 Sorry to hear that. Hope things improve
It's all in your head Luigi. We men are the devils and women are the angels
Had to agree with you when you said her body her choice! Liked the video cause of that
I never knew / understood how bad or scary it is for men until I became a mother of a son. As a mother of a 14yr old son going into high school these are my worries. I try to tell my son as much as I know, however these little girls are something else! I tell him never be alone with a girl / have witnesses, keep his hands to himself & ALWAYS ask for permission. It’s awful!
Girls now are SO MUCH worse than they were say 20 years ago. They've been taught they can get money for getting pregnant, money and sympathy for lying about a guy and fame and money if they spread those lies as fact and "advocate for other women". It's a truly terrifying time for boys to grow up in and i'm glad i don't have to but hate that my son does. he is only 6 right now. By the time he starts dating i am literally TERRIFIED of how that scene will be.
My daughter is only 8 but I am doing my best to raise her to be respectable woman to be a lady. I can’t imagine how hard it is to be a mother of sons right now.
Happened to my brother. He had to go to court to prove his innocence as a minor in high school. Luckily there were cameras in the hallway to prove his innocence to say that he didn't sexually assault the person. He is too trusting of people which gets him burned.
@mattrardin backagain , I wasn't involved much. I was in college at the time while he was in high school, but probably not.
@@NotExplicable Hope he’s okay! Makes me worry about one of my friends at another school. He was a shy and sweet guy. I don’t know how he is now but I really hope he’s okay.
That "truth or dare" moment hit me in middle school too. It made me realize that different things are seen as acceptable based on their attraction to you. When I did something I got giggles and playful reactions but when my homeboy tried he got reported, suspended, sent to alt school, and nearly got him put on the *ex offender list at the age of 12 (by one of the girls i did the same thing to mind you). I felt horrible because I knew he was trying to be like me.
Thats literally normal for anyone... no one really wants someone they have no attraction to touching them inappropriately. I see men freak out abt it all the time, theres a video of a group of boys throwing a girl in the dumpster bc she asked for their friends number.
@@cremepuffle that's a fucked up way for anybody to be treated, especially a group of boys all ganging up on one girl, and she could have been seriously hurt. If she had been sliced by a broken bottle, or stuck by some drug addicts HIV+ needle, attacked by a rabid racoon in the dumpster, they wouldn't have thought that shit was funny when the parents' call the cops. I hope she wasn't physically hurt, but I'm sure she was humiliated.
@Phillip Ramos are you saying we don't have emotions?
@@EternalVirgin no his saying a teeneger is not a man
A man is an adult male
@@EternalVirgin Men are adult humans, a species with emotions. They are just able to control their emotions, because yes you can do that, and live without being slaves to them
Thank you for sharing this content, keep up the the good work.
If you ever plan to marry someone that has a problem with a pre-nup RUN!
That's how you know what they were really after. I knew a female who marries and divorces every three years just to take half his shit including the guy's retirement as I heard her bragging about it to my sister at my cousin's birthday party, in which she said she's been married seven times.......Yikes!!!!
@@justine8398 🤦🏾♂️ That’s crazy
I almost married a dude that freaked out when I asked for a prenup. Total gold digger, bullet dodged, but it was still a hard lesson
Those are useless. They can just claim they signed them under distress
@Broken Lord This
"She told me what not to do, but never what I should do" I felt that
I'm afraid of women because my mom was really abusive when she was angry, especially when she was angry at someone like her boss, someone she couldn't hurt. It doesn't help that every relationship I've been in has been abusive, one of my exes stabbed me in the shoulder 6 times, she was going for my throat.
Bro you ok?
@@customurl4869 yes. I'm getting counseling and hopefully one day I be able to have a fulfilling relationship with a woman, but as it stands I'm incredibly uncomfortable around them. I know all women aren't abusive but for some reason subconsciously I'm drawn to women who are abusive.
@MikeProductions1000 not much more than other kids in her era. She was born in the 1950s, her parents all ways worked, and they were poor, so from age 5 she was expected to take care of her siblings. Also by age 8 she had to start meal prep for my grandmother so by the time my grandfather got home at 7, they could have dinner. Needless to say she didn't have a childhood. It had an effect on her development for sure. She gets defensive at even the slightest criticism. She thinks of other people (including me) only in reference to herself, if I almost hurt myself doing something dumb she'd say "think of what people would think of me if I let something happen to you." She is incredibly paranoid of "them," she told me from a very young age "don't every trust people because if given the chance they would kill you to benefit themselves." When I hit puberty she gave me "vitamins" that were actually her estrogen. At any rate I know my mom has a lot of trauma and is unhealthy. I don't blame her for her behavior, and I've forgiven her for what she has done, and I definitely have an unhealthy relationship with her... But she's still my mom, and I still love her...
Anyway sorry for the life story.
@MikeProductions1000 definitely. But I genuinely believe it makes us stronger for it. I'm tenacious and compassionate because of the experiences I've had, and I try my best to understand the motivations of people. I wouldn't be this way if I had a "normal" childhood, at least not to the extent that I am.
Huggles 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
As Chris Rock said, “ insurance should be called in case shit, you get it in case shit happens.”
A prenup is just insurance for “ in case shit happens.”
You are not aware of how those have been overturned a lot in court..... you may want to look into that.
@@earlwarner4404 yep, prenups are pretty much useless. All they have to do is say that the woman signed it under duress and that the man threatened that he wouldn't marry her if she didn't sign it and they'll overturn it.
If i was to sign such a thing ( in case ) it would be : what is mine, is mine, what is your stay yours, what is our can be split by mean of need, if i have a tv and not him but we bought one together he can have it or exchange with mine... etc
@@meloup3433 I believe that’s how it should be
Bro the best prenup is to not get married anything else can wind up in the courts.
"Her body, her choice" and the baby is what, a Volkswagen?
This argument is intellectually dishonest.
When was the last time you heared intellectual honesty from a feminist?
@@KT-pv3kl I know right.
It can be her body her choice. But if she decides to follow through with it she get to take care of her baby on her own that a real 50 choice for both parties.
If she gets to say her body her choice i get to say my body my choice. If I don't want kids I can walk right. Sit back and watch them freak.
Dehumanizing more than dishonest
My wife of 15 years does not like ROMA ARMY! soooooo! I watch her everyday! And on a loud speaker! Go ROMA ARMY!
Damn bro u been in a toxic relationship for that long? U must be so damn suppressed and depressed. My condolences
@@boebie5052 I mean with a name like douche... assuming she has the last name too... 😂😂😂 yeah they will be toxic to one another
@@thajester6710 It's just the Douche thing to do
she's garbage is why she does not like that crybaby.
@ yeah she is simping for men. both sides piss me off why can't people just be people u know I love women and men (not that way lmao) let's all be happy. Both genders have contributed so much to society and have caused it pain we need to respect one another. Same thing wit different colors and religions
Thank you brother! Well said!
Modern marriage is nothing more than a contract between two people recorded and enforced by the courts. Yep we don’t treat it that way for some reason.
Sad
Not everyone sees it that way. Me and my hubby don't. If you find the right person you want to bring your loved ones together and celebrate your love, share the same last name and etc.
But hey what do I know right? Me and hubby have been together 15 years and our parents are still married, our siblings are still married, and etc and no one is cheating on each other or other bullshit.
@@constantine9142 im glad to see a healthy realationship
@@justiceadams6623 yeah I know it's a rare thing but it took work, communication, admitting your wrongs and making it right, respect, no cheating, and etc.
We've been together since I was 17 and him 21 and we don't know anyone who's lasted as long as us and we even had our first kid before I was 20 years old and struggled with money. So we can proudly say we did everything ourselves with no bullshit.
This chick rubs me the wrong way, the more I look the more I see contradictions and what not while trying to please the red pill guy demographic. She definitely needs looking into her past I bet.
Her advice on this other video I found her on is what me and hubby would talk shit on if we overheard at bedtime at night and laugh alone. But yeahhhhh I'm done with it. I just hope others find someone else to listen to and leave this channel in the dust cause this ain't it.
@@constantine9142 About how someone sees it. That’s just a simple fact of the matter. You can feel however you want, but marriage is technically an in reality reality a contract between two individuals recorded, overseen and enforced by the system. And if it goes south, men 99% of the time are the ones that lose out. And most men will agree, there is little to nothing in it for men. We benefit very little. If there’s a divorce, most of the time men lose homes, family, end up paying more child-support then a car payment or even a mortgage. They honestly really very little in marriage that benefits men. Especially if it goes south. So it’s not about how you see it, it’s just a fact.
Now few people nowadays are lucky enough to find somebody that they don’t have problems with and they will never experience the aforementioned issues and I always hope the best for everybody. But statistically the odds are against everybody, especially in today’s day and age.
Prenup is like a marriage insurance. Nice my man. I also have heard though that divorces can now obliterate a prenup. kinda scary there.
@Phillip Ramos a judge can throw out a prenup with no reason needed
@@sashagray3513 good reason to just not get married.
@@scottvermiliion927 true
9:28 Her body her choice right? Well, my wallet my choice? Wages = time spent working = life spent working = your life force. Pay for child you didn't want for 18 years plus having to deal with all the drama... If she wants to keep it then yeah her body her choice but a man shouldn't have to pay then.
What do you mean pay for a child you didn't want? Use proctetion if you don't want a child just saying
@@sherelnzuza5447 Yeah, no shit use protection if you don't want it. Did you think what you said was clever? What you said was common sense. Thanks for pointing out the obvious. Guess the sky is blue too right?
@@sherelnzuza5447 protection doesn't always work and mistakes occur
@@sherelnzuza5447 there are 20+ forms of contraceptive specifically for women. Men have condoms. Seriously, you say that, but your dumb ass would lie and tell him you were on the pill.
Women have more ways to prevent pregnancy. Man's protection can be destroyed with a single blade.
This is why I want to stress this to women: Don't be afraid of going to hospital gynecologist to get contraceptive tohelp you contain safety. It might even help lift period pain that you have (endometriosis, lack of pain reducing hormone progesterone etc.). I met a doctor professor when I got my first long term contraceptive and it inspired me to become a nurse and share information about importance of these miracles.
I'm sorry you went thru that stuff Brother. Love you man. Wish I could find a woman like this.
Roma even after being abused as a child and being seriously assaulted by her ex calls out the unjust actions on both sides and isn't afraid to speak her mind on it.
Women like this actually make me want to sit down and have a conversation about their struggles more because she’s willing to acknowledge that we have them as well. We should be going to the table like this with politics, race, and all other major issues where you take the side of the opposition ensure that you understand their point of you and then that person will actually be willing to hear what you have to say in return.
She is willing to admit it, so she can get paid for it. She admitted she doesn't give a shit about mra just about the money it makes her. There are women out there really fighting for men's rights. Making tiktoks linking to your Patreon which you use as an (expensive at that) onlyfans, to exploit men in the exact same way she calls others out for, well that doesn't do shit.
It's no wonder men get manipulated all the time if you can't even see that
@Jessica L please don't go into the army before realising the amount of genocide and death they cause to civilian farmers worldwide. The military is one of the most disgusting institutions, don't join it.
I've gone through something similar and you're better off getting out of there without tieing yourself down to a new abuser. Named whatever the hell your bunkmates and drill sergeant will be called. You can work on your own, you will improve when you are no longer influenced by their negativity. Finding a job and housing will do you way more good than pushing yourself into a rigid structure without respite to deal with the obvious trauma parents like that cause.
It'll take a few years but you'll catch up. I'm 23 now and I started around 18 with looking. I've been out of there for two years and I am finally catching up with my peers in terms of social skills, which thanks to having an non-human mother (as described by a psychologist after attempting to talk with her about the abuse), have been quite lacking. Please save yourself by getting out of there but don't make your situation worse by joining the largest group of scum on the planet.
I spent months in jail for something I did not do. I lost my job and my car. I was released only because I was able to prove that I was in a different city working, it’s a 2 hour commute just to get to work but the police didn’t want to hear that the night I was taken to jail. My clock ins and security cámara proved me right and I had already been working 4 hours by the time the alleged events happened. The entire time I was in jail, the only thing I could think of was “I can’t believe I’m in jail for something I did not do” it turns out she was cheating on me and sending me to jail was his idea.
It's a fckn joke hey it's like evidence these days doesn't exist. Idiots just take anyone on there word cuase there to gutless to do there real job and afraid or the media if they turn out to be wrong but guess what it's there fuckn job to investigate not just prosecute. Society these days is fuckn disgusting
I hope they got punished...
@@Tommieboy2009 of course they didn’t.
I dont understand why the justice system is so broken when it comes to women’s accusations. It’s not guilty until proven innocent. It’s a guilty even if you’re proven innocent.
It’s a lose-lose for men
thats harsh... they will get theirs in due time
@@AdamW-eo2yq - She never got any jail time or any kind of punishment. I wish she knew what I went through while in jail. Words can’t explain. I just wish she knew.
Love this girl, been watching her for a while. She's blunt, brazen and on the nose and I love her tattoos. Nice one for bringing more attention to her, she's great.