More like the guys are the ones sending out resumes, and the ladies are the ones receiving the resumes and picking the x amount of candidates to interview.
This is literally the same people lmao. Men hunted and gathered, women just ordered them around. Nothings changed, except now you can't club em over the head. Thanks Obama 🙄
Hey people who hunt food get to choose what food they want. It’s so much harder getting food ordered cause it may not be exactly what you want. You may have just wasted 2 hours on food you probably wouldn’t have picked out of a crowd
imagine being loved just for being born female... every man in the world, has to work really fking hard to get atleast some love or acception from their surroundings
The worst part of this is that it’s true, and yet, it still feels like one of the big messages out there is that you SHOULDN’T try too hard. That’s cringe, that’s attention seeking, that’s fragile masculinity, that’s: insert whatever term (weirdly they come from all over the political spectrum too)
Men has to work to raise their value and be loved, and if something happen and they can’t provide anymore ... They get divorced. Men are not loved unconditionally, they are loved only based on what they can provide
@@rmr5563 Thanks I really appreciate it, you seems like a nice person and really wish everyone were as human as you, sadly our society think otherwise. Everyone should be loved equally and unconditionally but it seems it will never happen
@@saftigebadewanne5650 Yeah, the edit looks like: Men: starving and hunting Women: looking at the menu (for too long) deciding what they want as their main meal and sides
I think she is describing rapists. "you pick the girl you want, and pursue her" Well, yes! It's really easy if you don't bother with trivial things, like consent.
So true. Which makes it a very hard topic to discuss without people getting defensive or gaslighting each other. I think being self aware enough to acknowledge your privileges in life is the only way to have a good faith discussion on the issue. It also is worth saying that men do have certain privileges in the dating scene, as do women. Things aren't so black and white as women lazy, men resourceful. Its about playing to one's strengths.
There are certain privileges women have, but just with the bar scenario. I know 1 male friend who had his drink drugged, by another man, and just about all my female friends have had a drink drugged and luckily someone saw it, or they only took a small sip and tasted it.
15:25 We don’t want sympathy, we just want recognition. Notice what we go through. We are happy to pull the weight and burden of the world as long as others stop acting like we don’t exist, or worse when others vilify us for the act. Men are incredibly easy to please, a thank you or just a greeting makes our day.
Exactly. You have 95% of all women chasing 5% of the HVM (high value men). The rest of us are invisible. Women want guys with the 6's - 6 foot tall, 6 figure income, 6 pack and 6 inches.
@@briankulesz9410 I agree. This makes me love that fact that I purposely go for the opposite. Except for the 6 figures, 25K to 120K is my range. I much prefer short men because his options are limited to a particular group of women. The "exceptional desired short men" is making over 6 figures, has swag/charm or other super desired features like hazel green eyes or dimples. I avoid those types of short men. With tall men, I'll make an exception if he's a nerd, geek or dork. Otherwise, I avoid tall men from past experience.
“Men go through this incredibly healthy exercise of choosing women” No, we run around aimlessly giving attention to a lot of girls with the hopes well land maybe 1 out of the 50 in a day
Just don't give them attention lmao Don't stick around with a woman if you see she isn't interested or she'll think she has someone they can settle with after sleeping around for a while
@@tbnrnilloc2658 Honestly, just don't go on starving rampage, just be yourself, chill, and have fun. If you see a girl you're interested in, and think you can vibe well, strike up a conversation and just be how you always be because being something else is taxing in a lot of ways, if she likes you, jackpot. If not, you're still having fun. Just, don't take things seriously
I fully agree with this. I even have an example from my life. My mom has been sleeping with multiple men while my dad can’t find a single person to go out on a date with. Not a single person will go out on a date with my dad. My mom just chooses whoever she likes the most from the people chasing her and sleeps with them. It angrys me so much.
My heart goes out to your dad . It's been 14yrs since I was last with a female. It's very hard for the older crowd, we know what we want . Traditional and loyalty and honesty.
I'm a combat vet, (13 years USMC), I have a high paying job on the security team of one of the big 3 TV networks, own 2 homes, 2 vehicles (Car and a boat), I'm about a 6 in terms of facial attractiveness and a 10 in physique. Hit the gym religiously. I'm 6'4" and weight just under 265lbs, so I'm a big, burly, dude. Downside is I suffered a stroke in 2015 at 35...so some of my facial movement is impaired. Despite ALL that I bring to the table, I'm still on the outside looking in with women. For ever 20 I approach I'll get MAYBE 2 who can look beyond my disability. But dating is easier for me? Miss me with that nonsense, lady.
I feel ya bro. Im sorry to hear you had a stroke so young. Im glad you made it through. I had a PE and a series of mini strokes at age 32. Im 6'7" and 275 lbs of fairly fit human being. Not exactly six pack abs but not fat either. Ive been lucky with the ladies from day one. Always had a chickadee lookin at me. Never had money i had to work my fingers to the bone just to live hand to mouth. The last couple of years have been pretty tough. My body was wrecked by cardiovascular damage. My blood pressure went from an average 110/65 to 150/85 and my resting heart rate is now 90+ when i used to be a metrinome at 60bpm. And my brother just died of similar complications due to blood clots at age 39. Even with constant medical intervention, the death i narrowly escaped could happen at any moment. One day I'll be tired. So ill sit down and just never get up again.
Out of curiosity. What is the age range you are pursuing in women? Because if my math is right you are in your 40s. And the younger women u pursue the more rejection you will get. It's not really your disability. Older women "aka in late 20s early 30s" will DEFINITELY overlook the disability factor.
Bud you kinda sounded like you were bragging about your financial situation NGL, but yeah eating isn't easy, especially for some like me whos only 5'11 and still can't find a permanent job, just temp
Thanks for sharing your story bro. It helps prove our point. Men have it hard but society tells us we don't. P.S I'm not saying women don't have it hard. I'm saying men have it hard as well.
As far as pursuing women goes I get rejected by every woman except the ones who approach me and the ones who approach me only want sex. Dating is one of the most depressing experiences of my life.
Damn bro, I feel ya. Recently got out of 6 year relationship and back to this vicious cycle. And those saying it'll get better are just twisting the knife around inside...it doesn't get better. If yer lucky, someone does come around; for a while. Then you are older and options even less. Gets to the point best ya can hope for is a casual, unfullfilling hook-up. The list of people I have known who have gone their grave and it never got better, keeps growing.
Imagine these 2 scenarios: Scenario 1: A really hungry person sits at a large table with a buffet of various foods in front of them. They need to pick out what they want to eat. Then they eat. Scenario 2: A really hungry person is in the woods with a knife. They need to choose what they want to pursue: deer, rabbit, squirrel, etc. Then they need to find it, kill it, and cook it. Then they eat. Who has it easier?
The only girls I've dated approached me first. I've gotten rejected every single time I've made the first move. I'm getting better at handling rejection though.
The only person that would ever say men have it easier dating currently is someone who has never actually tried to ask someone out. I bet she has never actually just gone up to any random guy and given them a compliment out of the blue. Edited for grammar.
She will when that post 30 wall mangles her youth lmao. Her next video will be "why are men not dating me?" Followed by "all men are trash and here's why you should cheat." And finally ending with "I'm 50, have cats and don't need no man." This is a typical trope with feminists. They ride the CC and then cry no one will marry someone who has a triple digit body count and had more abortions than fingers lmao
@Mr D Yeah, in high school I had a friend get labled a creep after he asked a girl out and she rejected him, her friends then spread that label around for a bit and he didn't come back to school for about a week. I felt really bad forhim because the girl he asked out did kind of like him but she was already dating someone else. Sad shit to see.
They were told no, I've told a girl no before and everyone looked at me like the bad guy(even tho I told EVERYONE I didn't like her like that). We were good friends and I left school that year, came back two years later and she really said "I don't know why I liked you or wanted to date you" thats was not a good year for my self esteem for many reasons
@@thebelowaveragesaibamen3286 she wanted you because she knew you better than any man, and because you didn't make a move on her all that time. playing hard to get and refusing women actually makes them lose their mind. some will compensate by distancing from you, others will start pursuing you like crazy. eventually a sane woman will come back to her senses though, and leave it be. its her fault that she will now pick a stranger that she has to gamble with though.
@@thebelowaveragesaibamen3286 I've had this same situation happen before as well I told a girl that liked me that I wasn't intrested and that I just wanted to be friends and I lost like 2 other friends because I told her no I mean what was I gonna do cave in and date somebody that I really didn't have feelings for and then break their heart when they find out that I just am not really intrested midway through the relationship?
@@calijack2006 *yes* apparently If there's one thing that makes me feel bad is telling someone no when they say the like me, personally no one has told me no because I don't take my own dating advice (like telling the person you like that you have feelings for them)
Hold up, did you refer to him as Krillin? Lmao!!!! This is my first time viewing one of his videos, so I'm unsure if that's a running alias for him but, that was hilarious.
I was in middle school and dated different girl every 3 weeks. Like I started by dating someone 6/10 made my way up to 9's and 10's. But one time this high 9 broke up with me by telling her friends to tell me during high school football game. Turned out it was one guy I was cool with on middle school football team. . I walked home crying my eyes out because I actually liked this one. It was karma. Not even 2 mins I started walking home flash flood appeared and rained out game. So mom was on her way to pick me up when she found me walking in rain. After she took me home, I was sitting in bed at 7pm and mom poked her head in and asked if I cut myself. It still pissed me off thinking I would do that over thot. When we went back to school, the guy who took my girl didn't know we were dating and broke up with her and apologized to me. I still have lots respect for him. Even tho we weren't friends or homies. That was my first experience with bro code.
"Healthy exercise" It takes a toll on guys mentally, when every girl he tries to date rejects him. Especially if you've known someone for years, and that girl enters a physical relationship with someone else after a month. Guys are starved for girls to accept them. To have someone close to hold. To have someone to turn to when everyone else turns their backs to them. Myself very much included. Life is hard, and I'm lost.
I agree man iv been hurt and shut down so many times and im scared to ask the girl that iv been friends with almost her entire life if she would like to go on a date and start dating cause of how much iv been shut down
@@killjoy2249 From personal experience, you have nothing to lose if you tell her you like her. Either she rejects you, and you're still friends. Or you never ask her, and you have to live with her being with someone else. The positive, is the chance that she will accept you. "You regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did do."
@@isaac2987 I would like to add that while there's not much to lose physically if you tell a girl you like her, that doesn't mean you're not losing anything. Asking a girl out leaves you vulnerable to be rejected. Your identity is on the line with this one. You're saying "I'm a good guy!" But if she says no, then MAYBE you're not good enough. You don't know for sure if it's you or her, and that will mess with your mind quite a bit. That's why @kill joy224 became afraid of asking girls out--being shut down for so many times will kill your confidence. So what should you do? Personally, I have no clue what the right answer is. But I feel that a combination of @Isaac's "move pass your fear and try asking her out" and working on improving yourself is somewhere on the right track. You can't expect to just win someone over simply by being brave enough to ask them out, especially if there are clear things about you that are undesirable. So work on yourself, make you more desirable; that will improve your self-esteem as well. And when you're on the roll with your self-improvement, maybe ask her out. You might still be rejected, but the odds of success is definitely better, and your new self-esteem will cushion more of the blow. Maybe it'll be more bearable this time, if it doesn't work out. Just some thoughts.
You know damn good and well there are people out there on this earth who would jump that Predator's bones the moment he turned up with flowers and a box of chocolate
I mean they are technically IG models if all they do is wear promoted clothing from brands for other girls to go buy and wear while making money for it. The thing is, a lot of these girls don’t actually be doing that and think because they show ass or do onlyfans they can call themselves a model or IG model.
Hey man, I just wanted to say thanks for your videos. I've had a really rough time lately, I'm getting ready to go through a divorce out of a toxic relationship. It helps to feel like I'm not crazy for feeling like I've been played, cause the gaslighting was very real.
For women: dating is like shopping at a outlet For men: dating is like shopping on a back alley shady website you might pick something out and it’ll take your money but there’s no guarantee it’s coming to you.
@@skyekingmc this one is true both side, but when the tablet is full it's easy to avoid this pick, when you have 2 product on the tablette you try one anyway and get your life ruined, at least you get a bite in the cake, but now you have to past the next few year curing your diabete...
While this is true, it's quite a bit of nitpick. This may came out very offensive to some people but if you're an ugly women, that's it, you're done, and this is something they have no control over. For men, genetics and age are a far less of an issue, women needs to get their life in order pretty much by the age of 35, while most men arrives at their "golden age" of career by the age of 45-55. This is a harsh statistics to hear, but that's just how it is, at least since the dawn of time (it's actually much harsher a few decades ago where most women got until the age of 25 or their chances of having a family goes down dramatically). Even in the most extreme case where one's an ugly fat man, if he lead a successful life making 6 figures a year, girls would flock over him in no time, at worst he'll marry a golddigger, but who cares, a lot of billionaires don't. In contrary, no one wants to marry a old fat widow with 5 kids.
@@nicoinformatics there's a lot of man who would date ugly woman, it just happen that often their personnality is ugly too, they lie and they cheat because they're insecure, they start to think you must be desesperate to be with them, so they don't respect you, of course not all of them are like this, but that's the experience i got with ugly woman with kid
I see she says," society says" or "women were taught". I was taught christophrr Columbus discovered America. But we all know that's not right. Just cause you was taught something doesn't mean you can't have a mind of your own.
Blaming things on society is a way of not taking responsibility for their actions. Society has said many things and when women didn’t like it, they fought and got what they wanted. If they really wanted the same options as men, they would fight to be the ones that approach. Approaching is difficult, scary, unpleasant sometimes and can be emotionally exhausting. Women DON’T want to approach and won’t unless they guy is way out of their league.
@@kimmmimemwest1895 Nothing is unpleasant about talking to a woman generally. But approaching a complete stranger and offering yourself as a potential partner is difficult and potentially painful. It is the same as a woman approaching a man.
@@eznosnopes5276 lol no its not the same .. And why is is difficult to talk to strange women ... Women are humans too .. What do you think will happen ?
"The people that matter to me the most did the most rejecting to me" (16:25) Well spoken words, bro, thx alot for that. I can relate to this at all! Same for me. Mark my words - your past may catch you some day and may or may not mess up your life eventually. So keep working on yourself to handle it or even to learn to do it.
Plus shes good looking but you can tell shes older than the women shes trying to compete with. The caliber of men SHE THINKS she deserves arent looking for her. They're looking for her at age 25 with no kids. Her problem is that in her prime she wasnt looking for Mr Right but Mr Right Now. Her standards have always been unrealistic. And thats not entirely her fault. Shes probably been put on a pedestal by average men her whole life. Lol men shed never look twice at. Men who are invisible to her unless she needs another ego boost injection.
This woman actually saying it’s harder for a woman to choose between the guys that have approached than for a man to work up the confidence and skill to approach a woman. Someone cry for this poor poor wahmens.
The average woman sees average man invisible all they want is the top percent you'd had no chance at all its like winning the lottery but that's ok because you can focus on yourself being single is not always the worse thing
As a guy, you could go through your entire life without ever going on a date or having a girlfriend if you’re too nervous to talk to women or have never approached one.
@@mufmager yeah and im almost 19, the last time i had a girlfriend was when i was 14 back in School and that only lasted two weeks, but School was still an easyer Time considering i even could connect with girls, now im Working at a Company where only men work and besides that i have a few friends, and the only 2 girls i have to do with are friends so theres that.
To make a comparison, which is more discouraging? Being an employer looking for an employee where you just have to look at resumes, or being the employee applicant that he's having to pass out resumes to possible employers hoping one of them will contact you back? Edit parts for voice to text flubs.
I used to get rather depressed from being rejected. Eventually, I contemplated whether it was worth it all. The conclusion I came to is that it is not. So I stopped pursuing women all together and my mental health improved quite a lot as a result. So now I have been alone for my entire adult life and I do not regret a thing. My life is quite peaceful, with very little stress. My advice, to anyone who cares for it, learn to be content with being alone. Life is much easier and far more peaceful that way.
I'm 22. Been a lone wolf all my life and I stopped pursuing women at 18 and learn to live my life first than desperately searching women. You may not agree with me, but I believe that waiting is the right thing to do as I don't like to rush things. Relationships in general are fickle. And it's pretty hard to find people to stick by you, be it friendships or relationships. It all takes that spiritual connection and understanding that two individuals have to really understand and bond with one another. PS: If you read this comment, thank you 😀
@@ARTDEVGRU247 does he really have a choice? He constantly get rejected. It sends a message to someone who constantly persue but never get the girl the idea that they aren't good enough for women.
This is why I'm a fan of casual interactions and conversations when I meet someone. No expectations, no pressure to "put the best foot forward," no stressing over if the other person likes you or not, and if in the course of these casual conversations, you learn things about each other that deem you incompatible, then there's also no "time wasted."
First girl I fell in love with. I confessed my love to and she ridiculed me and told the entire school about it, which made me a laughing stock. It took me years to actually get the courage to fall in love with someone again. That one didn't turn out great either though as she ended up sleeping with a now ex friend of ours. I still really want to find someone but basically even the thought of putting myself out there again hurts both my heart and my mind. So yeah men OBVIOUSLY have it easier with dating...
The social rules you’re expected to live by are decided by the people around you. So it’s not “society” that says men must pursue women, it’s women who decide that.
Aba and Preach got butt hurt that she made that video. They should be grateful that Ana at least figured something out and apologized for being part of the problem
many dating experts will explain that most women that can’t find a man their expectations are not just ridiculous their standards are not just high they are insane. There is a beautiful irony in women complaining about the problems they cause
Men don’t do things women want and complain about why they are single. Paying for the first date and making reservations drastically increases the odds of every aspect of dating.
@Steve haha im only 26 never tried dating and rejected all women so far and somehow im already engaged to a wealthy woman 😂😂😂 dont ask me how that happend its a long story 😂
Can we also just point out the fact that when a guy gets a girlfriend his family congratulations him and welcomes her with open arms, but when a girl gets a boyfriend her family (Especially the dad) asks him all these questions and is so much more skeptical to except him lol
Typically that has been the case with me but my current gf's family wasnt like that. The liked my personality and accepted me right away. Not because of me or anything. They was just happy to find out she actually WASNT lesbian. Yep pretty funny. First time I didnt have to go through the "meeting her family" drama.
“ it’s not worth your money and time. Just stop going after girls. Get drinks lots of them and just busy yourself” this was the best advice I’ve ever heard in my life. It’s from Lemmy from motorhead. I stopped caring about girls and going after them because it’s just too much and I don’t wanna be a part of this society. Love is not like that and if it’s like that it’s wrong and I don’t want it. I just drink, go to work , play video games and do everything to keep myself busy. It wasn’t easy to kill the urge but I did it and I’m proud. Yeah no one wants to be alone and live alone but I don’t have any other choice. If you have someone good for you treasure it as much as you can. My grandpa always said sometime losing is more peaceful than winning. With girls today dying alone and virgin is more peaceful than wasting your time and money on girls. Good women exist ? Okay but I don’t wanna waste my life and time and looking for someone that may and may not be there in the first place. I’m ready to die alone and be forgotten. It’s peaceful. Have a nice day.
The fact that she uses the term “looking thru all their options” in reference to men shows how delusional and out of touch she is about men’s experiences in dating. What she says about wasting 2 weeks to get to know a guy shows how little respect women have for men’s time.
Just been through that. 2 weeks of writing A4 letter sized messages in Whatsapp daily and one meet-up. We talk flirting, long honest exchanges about society, personal life and so much more. Full on emotional investment, further writing after that and suddenly she hits me with the "Let's be friends" stuff. Told her that was no option and after asking her what her deal was repeatedly it turns out "I'm not her type"... ... I have unedited, recent full-body pictures on Tinder and she definitely saw those... By the by. In my last sentence of this post I originally wrote an unflattering 4 letter word related to intelligence and that I attribute it to the ladies. Immediately post deleted. Now that's true privilege. Can't even insult those people in a meaningless digital message.
Distrust between men and women is almost at its peak. I even hear married men express doubts about whether their wife loves them. Sucks to be us. Let me be clear, many men express doubts about whether or not the woman who chose to marry him actually love him. Woman are not so loving as media/culture portray. I know my bro has my back, no question, and I am sometimes surprised if she doesn't change the locks. Let's just be lonely together, folks.
You aint lie... Men go against our instincts when we are in love... We trust until it hurts... Nobody wants to be vulnerable especially men who taught not to cry.
As someone who is rarely finding women who give me the time of day and actually fit more than 2-3 of my, let's say, 10 preferred criteria, this hurts. This chick is nuts.
I work as a door man / security gaurd for clubs, I've seen the rare occasion when women have actively pursued me and it just comes across as gross or perverse. None of them actually knew how to hold a conversation or how to get my attention without using their bodies or sexual gestures. And when all of that failed they would comment on how embarrassing it is to be rejected, even after that they still don't know how hard it is for us to actually have to meet a criteria for them to even consider dating us, whereas all they have to do is be born female
I have never responded poorly to rejection. I had already prepared myself for it since it's an inevitability. However I have had many situations where I'd reject a girl and they would just hurl curses my way. Calling me gay, ugly and the list goes on, and it had a few cases of guys behaving the same way when I rejected them. The most unreasonable reaction I got was from a woman at a restaurant/bar that my friends and I went to. She started off with the typical downplay and insults, but that quickly escalated the more I ignored her. She had started screaming and would push or grab me whenever I tried to get away from her. The owner came out before it got worst and removed her from the bar. So yeah that's about it.
Low-key half of them aren't I low-key find that some 5-7s while a fat or skinny girl wants rich Bruce Wayne Tyrone the gang banger or Chad the drinker like bruh they ain't even a 8 and a 8/10 is pretty good
Bruh there is no "league" haha look around at these women, talk to them. they choose their partners like they're NPCs on Skyrim. 😂 Half of them aren't happy and don't know what they want. They don't know how to be happy were just in a digital age where you only have to appear happy, that is until it catches up to you.
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 from his perspective I think he's talking about how he is treated differently by majority of women...it could be part of his self esteem issue but you would've experience rejection by a girl once in your life who seemed to be the same level as you but she doesn't even look your way in a romance sense
@@bwestacado9643 so quirky that you hate humans 😑. I know hes talking about a bunch of women I was making fun that he came to that conclusion just because dudes "dont have as much options as women." Harems are everyone's fantasy (bl readers, lolicons, futa lovers) not some side effect of men getting rejected
@@bwestacado9643 you prolly get this a lot but if you stand on a highway in just the right position, you can go into comatose and not have to deal with society. You might die but I think no one would care
brutal truth is SHE can have any man she wants, if she asked 10 single guys to date her each of those 10 men would say HELL YES, now same situation a man asks 10 women to date him only 1 of those 10 women "MIGHT" say yes thats a "might" its absolutely possible all 10 would say NO to him.
These days woman only want these things: Muscular guys Rich guys Socially skilled experts Tall guys (All of these must be together, it's not enough by just being tall I prove myself that as a 6'3 guy)
I have been regected by my family mother father siblings cusons and friends during my youth as well, and to hear you openly say that is admirable and inspiring. some things are hard to let go of, and i dont even realize how much it has effected me yet. Thank you
@@jacobjohnson9115 Of course it is, all government healthcare is a joke, the Us army proves that fast asf lol. they get to tell you who you see, what you get to do operations wise, and what they cover or not even in the army. So yeah.
My dating career shows a correlation: - At the start: Trying to date, failing, being depressed. - In the middle: Putting in a bit of effort, failing, getting a bit down. - Near the end: Putting in basically no effort, failing, not really being bothered. - At the end: Stopped dating completely, 2 years later, feeling great, having lots of cool hobbies and nice friends. I know I'm a catch, but at this point I can't be bothered to put myself out there to picky women. Dating isn't for me, I'm not physically attractive enough.
Exactly what I’ve done. I use to want a gf so bad but after a few relationships and rejections I realized it’s a lot more work and kinda stressful sometimes. I’m living my best life single with no one and couldn’t be happier
Seeing as I haven’t had any kind of romantic stuff with a girl ever since the 6th grade and I’m nearly 22 along with highly doubting I’d be a good partner to begin with, this woman just rubs battery acid right into the wound.
Aye man, you are who you are. It ain't about being a good partner, for a lot of people you won't be. But for ALOT of people you'll be perfect. Find a significant other that appreciates and respects the kind of partner you are. Keep your chin up playboy.
It’s the difference between going out EVERYDAY, trying to find your next meal, and just being able to open up your fridge or cabinets and choose whatever you want to eat. I’ll bet her idea of “pursuing” a man is giving him a look.
Been following Roman army for a while I haven’t agreed with every single thing she said, but I do like that she doesn’t just make a simple point about whatever she’s saying she goes into detail to make sure her point is absolutely understood
I use to think the same thing til I met my wife I was unemployed with 2 kids when we met and didn't think of trying to get with her because of that but she still pursed me. Been married 10 years now.
@@devouring_one You are talking about the exception not the rule, most guys will never meet a woman that doesn't care about material wealth like you did.
She’s probably only watched Harem anime and took it was accurate depiction of real life dating. Although, I have to say, harem anime dating depiction is more accurate than hers, because the guy is usually oblivious for 90% of the entire show.
@@revolvingworld2676 that I can agree on, however most times guys hate rejection and most times they do not know weather the girl that likes them is actually interested in them or is just being nice. So they don't take that chance in order not to look like a weirdo.
@@revolvingworld2676 I wouldn't say it's either for a guy. You have to understand how females who are comfortable with male friends are vs a female who likes them and is trying to hint it obviously. Sometimes it's beyond obvious, like say something sexual. But example, a girl can be acting flirty and you don't know how she interacts with others. Some girls are just flirts in general so you don't know if she's interested. But you don't wanna look like a piece of trash or misunderstand the situation and go for it to find out you're just a bro. I've gotten more rejections in those situations than successes and that's the same with the general male unless he's just one of those really attractive guys every girl generally loves. Most see it and just think it's better to play it safe. Don't wanna get rejected and possibly ruin a friendship over a misunderstanding lol
@@iKickBullies Oh trust me I know. Thats why I said act, because most guys are pretty cautious, and girls are cautious in general too, usually waiting for the guy to make a move. I cant really detect subtle flirting either tbh. A funny situation is if 2 people like each other but they try to wait until the other asks them out. I use to be like that in highschool, but in college I just ask them out, less work. I obviously know its different and more difficult for guys, but I've never been asked out so I dont know how I would reject someone.
@@revolvingworld2676 that's fair when you out it like that. 100% with you on that. I've had that funny situation which is what changed how I deal with it myself lol. Me and one girl were friends and were interested in each other and when I told her some girl I barely know pulled an advance, her jealous side came out for a moment and that's when I was 100% sure. But she took such offense to someone else trying to get with me that I rejected respectfully, that somehow I did something to her in her eyes. Since then I was like, just be straight up or it'll never be nothing because I can easily avoid mixups with not worrying about none of that extra stuff
This is one of the best Reaction(?) Channels I have ever seen because he doesnt just laugh every two minutes and say like 5 words a video he actually actively talks to the point that its longer than the video he reacts to sometimes
@@Lero_Po Flew so far over his head it reached the imaginary aliens before falling down from magic land and landing right in front of him, him picking it up, and reading it upside down.
"He gotta shoot his shot with a whole lot of females." Which is all good until the one who decides to hang out with you somehow finds out that you were talking to or trying to talk to multiple girls while talking to her and goes full Karen because now you're considered a player to chicks haha.
Ironically women are either turned on by the competition (don't want to lose a guy to another woman) or turned off (the guy isn't high enough value to bother with if he's a player). Depends on if she thinks she's 'settling' for the guy.
And isnt it funny how women go gaga over the dude who treats them like shit and then leaves them. They establish unreasonable value on some guy whos obviously trash and then never get over it. I had 2 serious girlfriends that were this way. And the woman im with now was gaga over this wannabe thug for like 6 years before she wisened up. First girl never got over this douchebag and after we broke up she was fing him on the side with her new bf and she called me to come rescue her and her daughter when he was having a drug fueled tirade threatening her and her kid. Mf made himself scarce when he heard i was coming to cave his dumb head in ( for her daughters sake) second girl couldnt get over her ex husband even though he cheated on her, impregnated another woman. Bought a GTR on her credit and didnt pay the note and left her home alone all the time. She got with me to show off to him that she could catch a good guy with some dough and looks. Then proceeded to treat me like ass and then got upset when i left her. She STILL says shes in love with me and wishes we could work out but has no desire to treat me well. It took years but i found a girl who appreciates me and doesnt miss some other douche, at least not anymore now that shes grown up a bit. I dont miss any of my exes. And all of them were lookers. There is a reason they are my past and not my present nor future.
This is so fucking true, men try to get the girl that they like and they say no, we are the ones that are asking the girl thinking that they would say yes and fearing for them saying no.
Man, I can relate to some of your points. Like I met 2 girls. Girl 1 was cool and we had a lot in common, I contacted her and she responded only to ghost me on the next message whilst Girl 2 just straight up said "Look, I'm doing this and for those reasons, we won't be able to go out" the reason was justified and I have more respect for a girl that will tell me no than someone who will ghost me right after she says yay lets hang out!
When it comes to conversations women can say pretty much anything they want to and it wouldn’t hardly phase a man, but anything a guy says he has to calculate very carefully because it could go wrong in an instant. Women: *Walk on Pack Ice* Men: *Walk on Ice that is so thin it cracks every time you take a step*
I can tell from experience. When I talk to a girl, I'm honestly many times interested in what they talk about and I share my opinion about it. Sometimes I might not be that much interested in that topic, but I still share my opinion. Though, when it gets to me starting a conversation about something that might not be interesting to the girl, she will act uninterested and she'll show it by lack of words. In most cases they'll be like "well, okay" or "uhm, okay". Y'know, they won't share their thought unless it's a topic that's interesting to them. Of course, this doesn't apply to every girl. My best friend who's a girl, likes to talk about everything, even about the things she's not fully interested in. BUT, the majority of girls won't express any opinion (or at least trying to keep the conversation) unless it's something that they're interested in.
I remember getting rejected by all of the girls I asked out during elementary, middle school, high school, and college. Yes, my group of friend did try to help me but to no avail. I guess I didn't fit whatever they were looking for. I did however finally dated only once while in college and she was definitely wife material. Unfortunately things didn't work out as we both had thought and we broke up (Heart burn levels were through the roof for me LOL because we both really did cared and love each other). It's been nearly a decade of no dates or hook ups which doesn't bother me one bit. I do think I may have found someone I do want to date. I like to think I avoided a lot of headaches because I do know guys that are on their 3rd or 4th wife that have multiple baby mamas.
15:00-17:00 Man i've felt like that my entire life, it's a fucking relief to hear someone talking about this truth, and it doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl, rejection can destroy you internally in a lot of ways.
After her 2nd point she made...I have to disagree with her. However I'm no knockout drop dead beauty I'm just a regular woman and my experiences are not the same as her examples!!
@Josh Morgan Because of what you see in magazines, movies, and tv shows. What is pushed and embedded in to young girls is if you want to be happy and get a man you have to look a certain way or else you will be alone and unhappy. For a long time now I realized that whats being pushed is a false narrative...not all women know that unfortunately
Some women don’t even put themselves in situations where they are approachable or put themselves where men can get to know them and see their inner beauty. A guy is expected to parachute in to their living room and just be 100% invested in them.
I agree with you. I went with many women until Mrs right knocked on my door. We’ve been together now for 16 years, married for 10 years this September.
My favorite thing to do for my female friends is this: imagine a world where the only ACCEPTABLE kind of girl looks and money wise are the Beyonce's and Tori Kelly's of the world, AND they would have to try and talk to guys FIRST and even THEY would get brushed off probably 25-50% of the time. I use this as an analogy after reading a few dating profiles where their shopping list had someone like Chris Hemsworth BARELY qualify their demands.
i was with my ex-wife from 23 to 31. i've tried dating on and off since and am now 37. still waiting for one to be serious about having something with me, rather than play games or compare me to an ex... dating is more stressful to me now than it ever was when i was in my 20's
That one line “I pursue six because I know I’m lucky if I get one” That alone explains why guys have to talk to more girls and girls get mad when guys talk to more than one girl. But want guys to ignore the skeletons of all the guys hitting her up still.
i’ve been told it’s a numbers game, i guess it’s like fishing.....if you only use one fishing pole, your chances of catching a fish is pretty slim but if you have 100 fishing poles setup your chances increased significantly and it also helps immensely have something they want attached to the hook.....an empty hook isn’t going to win you any awards.
@@gwf82 that's a good point but granted evidently it's okay to "we are women and sometimes we want chaos in our lives it's okay" was a reply to a chick on twitter saying she was gonna go after car guys and white dudes after she got screwed over dating a drug dealer with 4 kids AFTER she left in her words "a good boyfriend". People's common sense is just a bottomless pit with some people.
I haven't actually dated or pursued anyone, so I am a young and inexperienced guy and may be wrong, but I actually was put off by this statement to (that the YTer said). I can see why a man might want to do that, but it feels like if you do that, then you aren't as invested in that person as you could be. Its like splitting a chocolate bar with friends. You could split it into 2, and both you and the other gets half, or you can split it with a ton of friends, leaving you with a number of different sizes or amounts. One might get more than another. You might get less than them. Anyway you cut it, it wont be as even as the 50/50. There is also the social implementations that come with that being that it just feels dirty, to both the man and the woman, when the man is dating you, but also has another woman on his list. It wouldn't be so bad if it was just one or two and it wasn't a common (or even uncommon sometimes) thing, but actively pursuing 6 women leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I personally don't want to date a woman if she said she is also dating 5 other men.
Thank you brother for sticking up for Roma Army. I get tired of people talking about her personal life or her past instead of talking about the positive messages concerning men that she is putting out there. Like you said, "separate the message from the messenger".
Ofc we have it "easier" bc we're the only ones paying hundreds of dollars while you just be full and go home just to leave us on read and look for someone else.
I empathize and am sorry to hear people have hurt you. You’re not alone. Just gotta take it one day at a time. It’s not necessarily easier but it’s better to focus on yourself until you find a good one. We’re all at the crap restaurant communally eating shite sandwiches 👍💙
The girl who made the ridiculous claim is only saying that because the fboys are starting to ignore her and she's mad her options are getting worse. It's really just the wall that she's mad at
Yeah, but nobody will be excited at 55 anymore to get into some shit. Women have all the leverage when it matters. When you're young and able to enjoy all of it, when you're full of life, energy and don't have damaged nerve endings yet. I'm 30 and already I feel dead inside often enough. I don't even want to contemplate how it is for the older gentlemen. Not to forget that the age women and men now start "dating seriously" at, their family should have long been established already. Do you see how this is all part of a plan to depopulate?
I absolutely love Chloe Roma and all her views, stances, and insights! I'm really glad there's a WOMAN out there stirring the pot and bringing these issues men face to light. It opens up the the door for discussions that we all know need to be had but haven't or aren't necessarily having them like we should. The fact that not only is Chloe a woman but the she herself has been through some shit where she could just as easily turned on men yet she still is able to rise above her personal hardships and experiences to speak up and advocate for us men is amazing and I'm thankful to finally have a woman stepping up and fighting with and for us!
My thought is, has anyone ever thought about, the idea that maybe the men that blow up at women when they get rejected are angry at them because we really aren't introduced to feeling other emotions at a younger age and it's their default response to certain things
It's the fear of rejection I've yet to learn the art of not giving a shit and not taking life too seriously where I'll not get sad over the most trivial things But hey maybe I'll be able to finish college and move onto the boring life of paying taxes and dying old
No disrespect from me, just sharing my perspective after reading everyone else's. I'm like an average looking asian dude who's only 5'7(mid if I'm being honest). I get approached by women here and there occasionally and I do a fair bit of chasing. Even after training myself in confidence and knowing what to say and do, there are certain values women will still stubbornly stand by no matter what. When you're a younger male, the dating and messing around life is pretty fun. But once you just hit 18, I'd just recommend focusing on yourself and your career. You guys will feel lonely for a good month and then after that you can live. Best of luck to anyone chasing though, it is a hard path.
As a wise man once said " Dating is like a job interview for a man and for women it's like they're shopping "
Post who said that big dawg major key
Realest shit I've read today
Shopping where the store covers the cost lol
Shopping but the men pay
More like the guys are the ones sending out resumes, and the ladies are the ones receiving the resumes and picking the x amount of candidates to interview.
This is like saying people who had to hunt for food had it easier than the people who order delivery. Wtf
Well said!
This is literally the same people lmao. Men hunted and gathered, women just ordered them around. Nothings changed, except now you can't club em over the head. Thanks Obama 🙄
Hey people who hunt food get to choose what food they want. It’s so much harder getting food ordered cause it may not be exactly what you want. You may have just wasted 2 hours on food you probably wouldn’t have picked out of a crowd
Well fucking said!
@@aidanz6350 The plight of "plus sized" people is so underappreciated.
Women: "Ugh, none of these men are good enough for me."
Men: "At least you can use plurals."
Me: *enters a school*
Also me: "I didn't know this was a all boy school"
@@demonslayer9409 welcome to the done with life club
thanks for the insight Zeus, King of Olympus
Ouch 😄
imagine being loved just for being born female...
every man in the world, has to work really fking hard to get atleast some love or acception from their surroundings
Might just be the truest thing I have heard today
The worst part of this is that it’s true, and yet, it still feels like one of the big messages out there is that you SHOULDN’T try too hard. That’s cringe, that’s attention seeking, that’s fragile masculinity, that’s: insert whatever term (weirdly they come from all over the political spectrum too)
Men has to work to raise their value and be loved, and if something happen and they can’t provide anymore ... They get divorced. Men are not loved unconditionally, they are loved only based on what they can provide
Yah its not hard to be liked as a girl, all you gota do its not be a asshole and even then they still liked.
@@rmr5563 Thanks I really appreciate it, you seems like a nice person and really wish everyone were as human as you, sadly our society think otherwise. Everyone should be loved equally and unconditionally but it seems it will never happen
Men: starving and hunting
Women : looking at the menu deciding what they want as their main meal and sides
Some starve from that as well though 😂
Don’t be *that* picky, girls lol
@@saftigebadewanne5650 Yeah, the edit looks like:
Men: starving and hunting
Women: looking at the menu (for too long) deciding what they want as their main meal and sides
Unga bubga no likey
Well said!!
@@oritsejolomiokirika9913 until she hit the wall 😂💀😂 then its hurry up and buy!
I think she is describing rapists.
"you pick the girl you want, and pursue her"
Well, yes! It's really easy if you don't bother with trivial things, like consent.
If for her all men are rapists, then yeah i understand.
Underrated comment
_We could be together but you keep escaping..._
The execution in this joke was top notch
@@jarrod752 🤣
"Privilege is invisible to those who have it."
So true. Which makes it a very hard topic to discuss without people getting defensive or gaslighting each other. I think being self aware enough to acknowledge your privileges in life is the only way to have a good faith discussion on the issue. It also is worth saying that men do have certain privileges in the dating scene, as do women. Things aren't so black and white as women lazy, men resourceful. Its about playing to one's strengths.
Myron
Myron
Shocking! A privileged black male espousing platitudes on his vain Instagram account. GTFO! Sick and tired of all you whining about privilege.
There are certain privileges women have, but just with the bar scenario. I know 1 male friend who had his drink drugged, by another man, and just about all my female friends have had a drink drugged and luckily someone saw it, or they only took a small sip and tasted it.
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We don’t want sympathy, we just want recognition. Notice what we go through. We are happy to pull the weight and burden of the world as long as others stop acting like we don’t exist, or worse when others vilify us for the act. Men are incredibly easy to please, a thank you or just a greeting makes our day.
90% of men: *struggling to get the time of day of a woman*
Harem Protagonists: I see no issue
Facts
Exactly. You have 95% of all women chasing 5% of the HVM (high value men). The rest of us are invisible. Women want guys with the 6's - 6 foot tall, 6 figure income, 6 pack and 6 inches.
@@briankulesz9410 I think you meant 9 inches. But yes.
Harem Protagonists: *also holding tissues for the 90%*
@@briankulesz9410 I agree. This makes me love that fact that I purposely go for the opposite. Except for the 6 figures, 25K to 120K is my range. I much prefer short men because his options are limited to a particular group of women. The "exceptional desired short men" is making over 6 figures, has swag/charm or other super desired features like hazel green eyes or dimples. I avoid those types of short men. With tall men, I'll make an exception if he's a nerd, geek or dork. Otherwise, I avoid tall men from past experience.
"Human beings like to be pursued!"
Me: "starts pursing random female"
FBI: why don't you have a seat over here
Might wanna try a human your age lol
I'm worried why the FBI had to get involved Instead of the cops
Hold up
Dang it, you made that joke before me :D
😂
“Men go through this incredibly healthy exercise of choosing women”
No, we run around aimlessly giving attention to a lot of girls with the hopes well land maybe 1 out of the 50 in a day
"You're a real good friend to me and I don't want to mess that up."
That’s called being a simp bro girls don’t want a pet that does whatever they say they want a man
@@JBSkits123 yea I don’t have this worded all the way correctly
Just don't give them attention lmao
Don't stick around with a woman if you see she isn't interested or she'll think she has someone they can settle with after sleeping around for a while
@@tbnrnilloc2658 Honestly, just don't go on starving rampage, just be yourself, chill, and have fun. If you see a girl you're interested in, and think you can vibe well, strike up a conversation and just be how you always be because being something else is taxing in a lot of ways, if she likes you, jackpot. If not, you're still having fun. Just, don't take things seriously
I fully agree with this. I even have an example from my life. My mom has been sleeping with multiple men while my dad can’t find a single person to go out on a date with. Not a single person will go out on a date with my dad. My mom just chooses whoever she likes the most from the people chasing her and sleeps with them. It angrys me so much.
My heart goes out to your dad . It's been 14yrs since I was last with a female. It's very hard for the older crowd, we know what we want . Traditional and loyalty and honesty.
I'm a combat vet, (13 years USMC), I have a high paying job on the security team of one of the big 3 TV networks, own 2 homes, 2 vehicles (Car and a boat), I'm about a 6 in terms of facial attractiveness and a 10 in physique. Hit the gym religiously. I'm 6'4" and weight just under 265lbs, so I'm a big, burly, dude. Downside is I suffered a stroke in 2015 at 35...so some of my facial movement is impaired. Despite ALL that I bring to the table, I'm still on the outside looking in with women. For ever 20 I approach I'll get MAYBE 2 who can look beyond my disability. But dating is easier for me?
Miss me with that nonsense, lady.
I feel ya bro. Im sorry to hear you had a stroke so young. Im glad you made it through. I had a PE and a series of mini strokes at age 32. Im 6'7" and 275 lbs of fairly fit human being. Not exactly six pack abs but not fat either. Ive been lucky with the ladies from day one. Always had a chickadee lookin at me. Never had money i had to work my fingers to the bone just to live hand to mouth. The last couple of years have been pretty tough. My body was wrecked by cardiovascular damage. My blood pressure went from an average 110/65 to 150/85 and my resting heart rate is now 90+ when i used to be a metrinome at 60bpm. And my brother just died of similar complications due to blood clots at age 39. Even with constant medical intervention, the death i narrowly escaped could happen at any moment. One day I'll be tired. So ill sit down and just never get up again.
Out of curiosity. What is the age range you are pursuing in women? Because if my math is right you are in your 40s. And the younger women u pursue the more rejection you will get. It's not really your disability. Older women "aka in late 20s early 30s" will DEFINITELY overlook the disability factor.
@@dq8330 u have no idea.none. why don't u tell us next what the homosexual expirience is like
Bud you kinda sounded like you were bragging about your financial situation NGL, but yeah eating isn't easy, especially for some like me whos only 5'11 and still can't find a permanent job, just temp
Thanks for sharing your story bro. It helps prove our point. Men have it hard but society tells us we don't. P.S I'm not saying women don't have it hard. I'm saying men have it hard as well.
As far as pursuing women goes I get rejected by every woman except the ones who approach me and the ones who approach me only want sex. Dating is one of the most depressing experiences of my life.
Hey it will get better one day, keep you head up buddy!
Dang bro… that hit hard…
Same here bro. It'll get better, it has to cause it's already shitty
Exact same experience for me dude 😆
Damn bro, I feel ya. Recently got out of 6 year relationship and back to this vicious cycle. And those saying it'll get better are just twisting the knife around inside...it doesn't get better. If yer lucky, someone does come around; for a while. Then you are older and options even less. Gets to the point best ya can hope for is a casual, unfullfilling hook-up. The list of people I have known who have gone their grave and it never got better, keeps growing.
Imagine these 2 scenarios:
Scenario 1: A really hungry person sits at a large table with a buffet of various foods in front of them. They need to pick out what they want to eat. Then they eat.
Scenario 2: A really hungry person is in the woods with a knife. They need to choose what they want to pursue: deer, rabbit, squirrel, etc. Then they need to find it, kill it, and cook it. Then they eat.
Who has it easier?
Scenario 2 because you don’t know who cooked the food in scenario 1 🤣
The first one obviously lol
But the person in scenerio 2 gets to go through this incredibly healthy exercise of chasing and hopefully catching their prey.
@@ELSHELL if he fails in his hunt,he is fatigued with his hunger only increasing
Scenario 2 because there's no wahmen nagging him
The only girls I've dated approached me first. I've gotten rejected every single time I've made the first move. I'm getting better at handling rejection though.
The only person that would ever say men have it easier dating currently is someone who has never actually tried to ask someone out. I bet she has never actually just gone up to any random guy and given them a compliment out of the blue.
Edited for grammar.
She probably assumes that the same guy that complimented her is automatically interested.
She will when that post 30 wall mangles her youth lmao. Her next video will be "why are men not dating me?" Followed by "all men are trash and here's why you should cheat." And finally ending with "I'm 50, have cats and don't need no man." This is a typical trope with feminists. They ride the CC and then cry no one will marry someone who has a triple digit body count and had more abortions than fingers lmao
@Mr D Yeah, in high school I had a friend get labled a creep after he asked a girl out and she rejected him, her friends then spread that label around for a bit and he didn't come back to school for about a week. I felt really bad forhim because the girl he asked out did kind of like him but she was already dating someone else. Sad shit to see.
just a little thing you must understand about most of the guys nowadays: if you give them an compliment, you already have done 90% of the work...
@@jeffreyschneider2800 Right? That's all it takes to get me to start thinking about you
Women are choosing, men are just hoping to be chosen. How can somebody say dating is easier for men? Its ridiculous😂
They were told no, I've told a girl no before and everyone looked at me like the bad guy(even tho I told EVERYONE I didn't like her like that). We were good friends and I left school that year, came back two years later and she really said "I don't know why I liked you or wanted to date you" thats was not a good year for my self esteem for many reasons
@@thebelowaveragesaibamen3286 she wanted you because she knew you better than any man, and because you didn't make a move on her all that time.
playing hard to get and refusing women actually makes them lose their mind. some will compensate by distancing from you, others will start pursuing you like crazy.
eventually a sane woman will come back to her senses though, and leave it be.
its her fault that she will now pick a stranger that she has to gamble with though.
@@aztekenen1 i told her and the WHOLE class I didn't like her multiple time through out the whole year. I guess she just didn't believe it
@@thebelowaveragesaibamen3286 I've had this same situation happen before as well I told a girl that liked me that I wasn't intrested and that I just wanted to be friends and I lost like 2 other friends because I told her no I mean what was I gonna do cave in and date somebody that I really didn't have feelings for and then break their heart when they find out that I just am not really intrested midway through the relationship?
@@calijack2006 *yes* apparently
If there's one thing that makes me feel bad is telling someone no when they say the like me, personally no one has told me no because I don't take my own dating advice (like telling the person you like that you have feelings for them)
Krillin summed up the dating experience perfectly:
I feel like a man dying of thirst watching another man drown…
Highly underrated comment
Hold up, did you refer to him as Krillin? Lmao!!!! This is my first time viewing one of his videos, so I'm unsure if that's a running alias for him but, that was hilarious.
@@Xmanonly thé person below me is smarter than me
@zaycy thats why I thought it was funny.. The OP referring to him as Krillin.
@@Xmanonly No. I’m quoting a line Krillin said in Dragonball Z Abridged.
I was in middle school and dated different girl every 3 weeks. Like I started by dating someone 6/10 made my way up to 9's and 10's. But one time this high 9 broke up with me by telling her friends to tell me during high school football game. Turned out it was one guy I was cool with on middle school football team. . I walked home crying my eyes out because I actually liked this one. It was karma. Not even 2 mins I started walking home flash flood appeared and rained out game. So mom was on her way to pick me up when she found me walking in rain. After she took me home, I was sitting in bed at 7pm and mom poked her head in and asked if I cut myself. It still pissed me off thinking I would do that over thot. When we went back to school, the guy who took my girl didn't know we were dating and broke up with her and apologized to me. I still have lots respect for him. Even tho we weren't friends or homies. That was my first experience with bro code.
"Healthy exercise" It takes a toll on guys mentally, when every girl he tries to date rejects him. Especially if you've known someone for years, and that girl enters a physical relationship with someone else after a month. Guys are starved for girls to accept them. To have someone close to hold. To have someone to turn to when everyone else turns their backs to them. Myself very much included. Life is hard, and I'm lost.
I agree man iv been hurt and shut down so many times and im scared to ask the girl that iv been friends with almost her entire life if she would like to go on a date and start dating cause of how much iv been shut down
@@killjoy2249 From personal experience, you have nothing to lose if you tell her you like her. Either she rejects you, and you're still friends. Or you never ask her, and you have to live with her being with someone else. The positive, is the chance that she will accept you. "You regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did do."
@@isaac2987 I would like to add that while there's not much to lose physically if you tell a girl you like her, that doesn't mean you're not losing anything. Asking a girl out leaves you vulnerable to be rejected. Your identity is on the line with this one. You're saying "I'm a good guy!" But if she says no, then MAYBE you're not good enough. You don't know for sure if it's you or her, and that will mess with your mind quite a bit. That's why @kill joy224 became afraid of asking girls out--being shut down for so many times will kill your confidence.
So what should you do? Personally, I have no clue what the right answer is. But I feel that a combination of @Isaac's "move pass your fear and try asking her out" and working on improving yourself is somewhere on the right track. You can't expect to just win someone over simply by being brave enough to ask them out, especially if there are clear things about you that are undesirable. So work on yourself, make you more desirable; that will improve your self-esteem as well. And when you're on the roll with your self-improvement, maybe ask her out. You might still be rejected, but the odds of success is definitely better, and your new self-esteem will cushion more of the blow. Maybe it'll be more bearable this time, if it doesn't work out.
Just some thoughts.
Totally agree with you, pretty much in same boat
@@isaac2987 from personal experience I can tell you that being “friends” with a girl who rejected you is one of the worst things you can do.
"Human beings like to be pursued!"
The Predator: They do?
Stalkers: interesting
I know I’m not trippin?😂
You know damn good and well there are people out there on this earth who would jump that Predator's bones the moment he turned up with flowers and a box of chocolate
@@dontmindme1681 terrible day to have an imagination
@@BoTheJo My work here is done
"Instagram models" still makes me laugh since whoever started that "profession"
I mean they are technically IG models if all they do is wear promoted clothing from brands for other girls to go buy and wear while making money for it.
The thing is, a lot of these girls don’t actually be doing that and think because they show ass or do onlyfans they can call themselves a model or IG model.
As a Call of Duty soldier I understand what they go through 😂
mustve started with IG my dude 😂
You should check the numbers. A lot of those women are making model money and have corporate sponsorship.
Just as original as youtubed naked yoga.
Hey man, I just wanted to say thanks for your videos. I've had a really rough time lately, I'm getting ready to go through a divorce out of a toxic relationship. It helps to feel like I'm not crazy for feeling like I've been played, cause the gaslighting was very real.
For women: dating is like shopping at a outlet
For men: dating is like shopping on a back alley shady website you might pick something out and it’ll take your money but there’s no guarantee it’s coming to you.
or you pick the wrong one and your life gets ruined
@@skyekingmc this one is true both side, but when the tablet is full it's easy to avoid this pick, when you have 2 product on the tablette you try one anyway and get your life ruined, at least you get a bite in the cake, but now you have to past the next few year curing your diabete...
While this is true, it's quite a bit of nitpick.
This may came out very offensive to some people but if you're an ugly women, that's it, you're done, and this is something they have no control over. For men, genetics and age are a far less of an issue, women needs to get their life in order pretty much by the age of 35, while most men arrives at their "golden age" of career by the age of 45-55. This is a harsh statistics to hear, but that's just how it is, at least since the dawn of time (it's actually much harsher a few decades ago where most women got until the age of 25 or their chances of having a family goes down dramatically).
Even in the most extreme case where one's an ugly fat man, if he lead a successful life making 6 figures a year, girls would flock over him in no time, at worst he'll marry a golddigger, but who cares, a lot of billionaires don't. In contrary, no one wants to marry a old fat widow with 5 kids.
@@nicoinformatics there's a lot of man who would date ugly woman, it just happen that often their personnality is ugly too, they lie and they cheat because they're insecure, they start to think you must be desesperate to be with them, so they don't respect you, of course not all of them are like this, but that's the experience i got with ugly woman with kid
Shopping at the black market 🤣💀🤣
I see she says," society says" or "women were taught". I was taught christophrr Columbus discovered America. But we all know that's not right. Just cause you was taught something doesn't mean you can't have a mind of your own.
Blaming things on society is a way of not taking responsibility for their actions. Society has said many things and when women didn’t like it, they fought and got what they wanted.
If they really wanted the same options as men, they would fight to be the ones that approach. Approaching is difficult, scary, unpleasant sometimes and can be emotionally exhausting. Women DON’T want to approach and won’t unless they guy is way out of their league.
But what you're taught because part of your own mind
@@eznosnopes5276 whats so difficult scary unpleasant and exhausting about simply talking to a woman ?
@@kimmmimemwest1895 Nothing is unpleasant about talking to a woman generally. But approaching a complete stranger and offering yourself as a potential partner is difficult and potentially painful. It is the same as a woman approaching a man.
@@eznosnopes5276 lol no its not the same .. And why is is difficult to talk to strange women ... Women are humans too .. What do you think will happen ?
Men: "There are plenty of other fish in the sea bro."
Women: "I am just gonna throw chum in water and get me a big one."
"The people that matter to me the most did the most rejecting to me" (16:25) Well spoken words, bro, thx alot for that. I can relate to this at all! Same for me. Mark my words - your past may catch you some day and may or may not mess up your life eventually. So keep working on yourself to handle it or even to learn to do it.
She’s talking about the dude she likes that don’t like her cause he’s getting a lot of other chicks . So basically she’s mad at one man lol .
Plus shes good looking but you can tell shes older than the women shes trying to compete with. The caliber of men SHE THINKS she deserves arent looking for her. They're looking for her at age 25 with no kids. Her problem is that in her prime she wasnt looking for Mr Right but Mr Right Now. Her standards have always been unrealistic. And thats not entirely her fault. Shes probably been put on a pedestal by average men her whole life. Lol men shed never look twice at. Men who are invisible to her unless she needs another ego boost injection.
@@projectblack2462 this! Spot on!
@@projectblack2462 She's good looking ? Lmao !! Just imagine her face without fake-up and you'll realise what a gorgeous queen she is.
@@chayandas1521 She isn't bad looking, but the other one looks much better imo + she isn't functionally braindead, so there's that.
A rotten additive ruins a pretty face
This is why I don't really look for relationships. I'd rather it develop naturally to avoid feeling like I'm on a McDonald's menu.
Nicely said. Same goes for me.
well said
Been telling myself this for a long time.
Still single..
Relationships are natural too
Stick to your purpose bro until you find the right girl
This woman actually saying it’s harder for a woman to choose between the guys that have approached than for a man to work up the confidence and skill to approach a woman. Someone cry for this poor poor wahmens.
boo hoo 😂😂😂😂
Hey Man , Thanx for always Backing Chloe !! She's 1 of the few rational woman on Utube on Men's side + deserves all our support !
These women out here have no idea what dating is like for the average man.
The average man does not exist to some of these women.
The average woman sees average man invisible all they want is the top percent you'd had no chance at all its like winning the lottery but that's ok because you can focus on yourself being single is not always the worse thing
They also hate when the average man gets famous before they do and realizes they're above average and moved past them.
Na, just the 2 moron women this man featured.
@@patriciairwin9491 No. It's all women.
As a guy, you could go through your entire life without ever going on a date or having a girlfriend if you’re too nervous to talk to women or have never approached one.
Not even that. You’re not guaranteed a girl if you keep approaching girls
Forest I got lucky with my first because she approached me, but that don’t count because turns out she was a hoe. Airs been a long drought since
This is true but at the same time I have seen women throw themselves at complete idiots.
Hints the reason I say, Women in general are not trustworthy at all?
@@realamericannegro977 I would love to find those women.
She said it's easier to hunt than to go to the grocery store.
Not even going to the store. More like ordering takeaway
@@stonedhylian4203 Not even ordering takeaway. She just gets stuff showing up at her door.
Those checkout lines are the jungle
@@St4rQu3st yeah delivery men, who run to houses at fucking mach 7 trying to get someone to buy their food lol.
Not even food delivery, It's spoon-feeding.
Thanks brother. We appreciate both you and Roma.
Her: "Men have it way easier in dating!"
Me, who still doesn't have a GF: (laughs in shy)
Oh, right..... so why didnt i get a date with a girl in 5 Years?
@@thepriestpucci4988 I'm almost 20 and never had a girlfriend in real life, they were always online dates that ended up wrong
@@mufmager yeah and im almost 19, the last time i had a girlfriend was when i was 14 back in School and that only lasted two weeks, but School was still an easyer Time considering i even could connect with girls, now im Working at a Company where only men work and besides that i have a few friends, and the only 2 girls i have to do with are friends so theres that.
@@mufmager Dude you're only 20...you still got time!
Is what people told me ten years ago...
@@trashaimgamer7822 wow that removed all of my hopes
To make a comparison, which is more discouraging? Being an employer looking for an employee where you just have to look at resumes, or being the employee applicant that he's having to pass out resumes to possible employers hoping one of them will contact you back?
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Perfect analogy.
Well said
I think this is the best comparison I have seen on this topic
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As someone who struggled for 5 years to get one job, yeah the analogy hits.
I used to get rather depressed from being rejected. Eventually, I contemplated whether it was worth it all. The conclusion I came to is that it is not. So I stopped pursuing women all together and my mental health improved quite a lot as a result. So now I have been alone for my entire adult life and I do not regret a thing. My life is quite peaceful, with very little stress. My advice, to anyone who cares for it, learn to be content with being alone. Life is much easier and far more peaceful that way.
I'm 22. Been a lone wolf all my life and I stopped pursuing women at 18 and learn to live my life first than desperately searching women. You may not agree with me, but I believe that waiting is the right thing to do as I don't like to rush things. Relationships in general are fickle. And it's pretty hard to find people to stick by you, be it friendships or relationships. It all takes that spiritual connection and understanding that two individuals have to really understand and bond with one another.
PS: If you read this comment, thank you 😀
So you wanna be alone forever?
@@ARTDEVGRU247 Basically, yes.
@@Luesatora really?
@@ARTDEVGRU247 does he really have a choice? He constantly get rejected. It sends a message to someone who constantly persue but never get the girl the idea that they aren't good enough for women.
This is why I'm a fan of casual interactions and conversations when I meet someone. No expectations, no pressure to "put the best foot forward," no stressing over if the other person likes you or not, and if in the course of these casual conversations, you learn things about each other that deem you incompatible, then there's also no "time wasted."
First girl I fell in love with. I confessed my love to and she ridiculed me and told the entire school about it, which made me a laughing stock.
It took me years to actually get the courage to fall in love with someone again. That one didn't turn out great either though as she ended up sleeping with a now ex friend of ours.
I still really want to find someone but basically even the thought of putting myself out there again hurts both my heart and my mind. So yeah men OBVIOUSLY have it easier with dating...
Yeah because feelings are definitely something that you can do something about. You dodged a bullet bro.
You really need to give up the romantic brainwashing. Research the "soulmate myth" or "oneitis".
Both those people you mentioned suck. I personally haven't ever tried dating, but tbh I don't really care.
You didn't "fall in love" you adored her there's a difference. Love is different from infatuation
@@Luthoran what is love then
This woman apparently has such a limited view on women that she thinks they can't pursue men they like.
Constant rejection is the most unhealthy feeling I have ever felt, this woman has no idea about anything she is saying
Thanks!
The social rules you’re expected to live by are decided by the people around you. So it’s not “society” that says men must pursue women, it’s women who decide that.
Biology plays a part too
You should watch Anna Akana's video called "Dating Women made me understand men" I'm curious what your thoughts would be on that
YES!
thank you for saying it
Aba and Preach got butt hurt that she made that video. They should be grateful that Ana at least figured something out and apologized for being part of the problem
@@ghost245353 wait why were they butt hurt from her making that video?
@@ghost245353 to be honest, I see their point. I wouldn't say butthurt though. I'd call it frustration
many dating experts will explain that most women that can’t find a man their expectations are not just ridiculous their standards are not just high they are insane.
There is a beautiful irony in women complaining about the problems they cause
That's why i don't date down but up.
Men don’t do things women want and complain about why they are single. Paying for the first date and making reservations drastically increases the odds of every aspect of dating.
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Young man great positive content. Well needed. GOD is separating the wheat from the tare.
We don't get to choose. We are forced to either settle or strike it rich through sheer romantic luck.
Facts. Undeniable facts.
might as Well play the lottery better chances then getting a girlfriend and keeping her
I haven't dated in 10 years. I have never been more insulted in my entire life.
@Steve ayy Steve whassup
@Steve haha im only 26 never tried dating and rejected all women so far and somehow im already engaged to a wealthy woman 😂😂😂 dont ask me how that happend its a long story 😂
@@TheRealSephiroth sounds like a fairytale come true, i guess being carefree does have its perks
I haven't tried dating, nor do I really care. I'll be 18 next year.
@@-ClerzZ- yeah dating doesn't seem worth it.
Can we also just point out the fact that when a guy gets a girlfriend his family congratulations him and welcomes her with open arms, but when a girl gets a boyfriend her family (Especially the dad) asks him all these questions and is so much more skeptical to except him lol
My girlfriend's dad just assumed I was a sexual predator before I met him lol. Now we're cool tho
This..... this right here is 100 percent true.
except for my mother, she just alienates any girl that could potentially be a girlfriend of mine
2 months later her dad is your boy
Typically that has been the case with me but my current gf's family wasnt like that. The liked my personality and accepted me right away. Not because of me or anything. They was just happy to find out she actually WASNT lesbian. Yep pretty funny. First time I didnt have to go through the "meeting her family" drama.
“ it’s not worth your money and time. Just stop going after girls. Get drinks lots of them and just busy yourself” this was the best advice I’ve ever heard in my life. It’s from Lemmy from motorhead. I stopped caring about girls and going after them because it’s just too much and I don’t wanna be a part of this society. Love is not like that and if it’s like that it’s wrong and I don’t want it. I just drink, go to work , play video games and do everything to keep myself busy. It wasn’t easy to kill the urge but I did it and I’m proud. Yeah no one wants to be alone and live alone but I don’t have any other choice. If you have someone good for you treasure it as much as you can. My grandpa always said sometime losing is more peaceful than winning. With girls today dying alone and virgin is more peaceful than wasting your time and money on girls. Good women exist ? Okay but I don’t wanna waste my life and time and looking for someone that may and may not be there in the first place. I’m ready to die alone and be forgotten. It’s peaceful. Have a nice day.
The fact that she uses the term “looking thru all their options” in reference to men shows how delusional and out of touch she is about men’s experiences in dating. What she says about wasting 2 weeks to get to know a guy shows how little respect women have for men’s time.
Just imagine how much time that guy wasted with her and other women just for the desperate hope that just one will be nice and at a minimum a friend.
Just been through that.
2 weeks of writing A4 letter sized messages in Whatsapp daily and one meet-up.
We talk flirting, long honest exchanges about society, personal life and so much more.
Full on emotional investment, further writing after that and suddenly she hits me with the "Let's be friends" stuff.
Told her that was no option and after asking her what her deal was repeatedly it turns out "I'm not her type"...
...
I have unedited, recent full-body pictures on Tinder and she definitely saw those...
By the by.
In my last sentence of this post I originally wrote an unflattering 4 letter word related to intelligence and that I attribute it to the ladies. Immediately post deleted.
Now that's true privilege. Can't even insult those people in a meaningless digital message.
Distrust between men and women is almost at its peak. I even hear married men express doubts about whether their wife loves them. Sucks to be us. Let me be clear, many men express doubts about whether or not the woman who chose to marry him actually love him. Woman are not so loving as media/culture portray. I know my bro has my back, no question, and I am sometimes surprised if she doesn't change the locks. Let's just be lonely together, folks.
You aint lie... Men go against our instincts when we are in love... We trust until it hurts... Nobody wants to be vulnerable especially men who taught not to cry.
"Being alone is better than being around those who make you feel alone." - Quote from some Facebook meme claiming to be a quote from Robin Williams.
As someone who is rarely finding women who give me the time of day and actually fit more than 2-3 of my, let's say, 10 preferred criteria, this hurts. This chick is nuts.
I work as a door man / security gaurd for clubs, I've seen the rare occasion when women have actively pursued me and it just comes across as gross or perverse. None of them actually knew how to hold a conversation or how to get my attention without using their bodies or sexual gestures. And when all of that failed they would comment on how embarrassing it is to be rejected, even after that they still don't know how hard it is for us to actually have to meet a criteria for them to even consider dating us, whereas all they have to do is be born female
I have never responded poorly to rejection. I had already prepared myself for it since it's an inevitability. However I have had many situations where I'd reject a girl and they would just hurl curses my way. Calling me gay, ugly and the list goes on, and it had a few cases of guys behaving the same way when I rejected them. The most unreasonable reaction I got was from a woman at a restaurant/bar that my friends and I went to. She started off with the typical downplay and insults, but that quickly escalated the more I ignored her. She had started screaming and would push or grab me whenever I tried to get away from her. The owner came out before it got worst and removed her from the bar. So yeah that's about it.
Literally as a man, I feel so unconfident with myself because of women that I feel that every woman I look at I feel like I’m out of their league
I feel you bro 😢
Low-key half of them aren't I low-key find that some 5-7s while a fat or skinny girl wants rich Bruce Wayne Tyrone the gang banger or Chad the drinker like bruh they ain't even a 8 and a 8/10 is pretty good
Preach
Bruh there is no "league" haha look around at these women, talk to them. they choose their partners like they're NPCs on Skyrim. 😂 Half of them aren't happy and don't know what they want. They don't know how to be happy were just in a digital age where you only have to appear happy, that is until it catches up to you.
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 from his perspective I think he's talking about how he is treated differently by majority of women...it could be part of his self esteem issue but you would've experience rejection by a girl once in your life who seemed to be the same level as you but she doesn't even look your way in a romance sense
"They don't usually have that experience, because they're not used to putting themselves out there" Truest shit ever
No wonder the Harem genre in anime is a thing, I can see why it's appealing
Ye a harem of men is nice :p. Lots of bl readers enjoy those type of stories
@@jaden3997 He's talking about women to 1 man. Not a single straight man wants to watch a bunch of dudes and 1 girl. So dumb
I'm also into isekai. Getting sent to another world has been my fantasy since I was 5. I still yearn to not be near humans
@@bwestacado9643 so quirky that you hate humans 😑. I know hes talking about a bunch of women I was making fun that he came to that conclusion just because dudes "dont have as much options as women." Harems are everyone's fantasy (bl readers, lolicons, futa lovers) not some side effect of men getting rejected
@@bwestacado9643 you prolly get this a lot but if you stand on a highway in just the right position, you can go into comatose and not have to deal with society. You might die but I think no one would care
Respect for saying that. People are mostly concentrated in your belief, political view than the topic at hand.
brutal truth is SHE can have any man she wants, if she asked 10 single guys to date her each of those 10 men would say HELL YES, now same situation a man asks 10 women to date him only 1 of those 10 women "MIGHT" say yes thats a "might" its absolutely possible all 10 would say NO to him.
These days woman only want these things:
Muscular guys
Rich guys
Socially skilled experts
Tall guys
(All of these must be together, it's not enough by just being tall I prove myself that as a 6'3 guy)
Also no disabilities allowed.
Why is every guy on TH-cam 6’ 3?
@@mufmager oof tuff 🥲
@@kevinhedman2314 idk I was 6’0 at 13
And I prove the socially skilled expert one. (well, maybe not expert, but still). I'm not tall (5'7"), not muscular and definitly not rich.
I have been regected by my family mother father siblings cusons and friends during my youth as well, and to hear you openly say that is admirable and inspiring. some things are hard to let go of, and i dont even realize how much it has effected me yet. Thank you
The grand algorithm brought you to me today. Very good take on the scene and Roma is a gem.
My old therapist actually had the same mentality as the ignorant chick in the tik tok 🤦🏻♂️
I see why she's not your therapist anymore
@Josh Morgan well I didn’t really get to choose at that time 😂😂 NYS health care system is a joke
Next time, no therapist. Waste of money. Smoke a joint instead, cheaper and does more for you 🙃🤣
@@jacobjohnson9115 Of course it is, all government healthcare is a joke, the Us army proves that fast asf lol. they get to tell you who you see, what you get to do operations wise, and what they cover or not even in the army. So yeah.
All men need is money ... Whats hard about that ?
My dating career shows a correlation:
- At the start: Trying to date, failing, being depressed.
- In the middle: Putting in a bit of effort, failing, getting a bit down.
- Near the end: Putting in basically no effort, failing, not really being bothered.
- At the end: Stopped dating completely, 2 years later, feeling great, having lots of cool hobbies and nice friends. I know I'm a catch, but at this point I can't be bothered to put myself out there to picky women. Dating isn't for me, I'm not physically attractive enough.
Exactly what I’ve done. I use to want a gf so bad but after a few relationships and rejections I realized it’s a lot more work and kinda stressful sometimes. I’m living my best life single with no one and couldn’t be happier
Seeing as I haven’t had any kind of romantic stuff with a girl ever since the 6th grade and I’m nearly 22 along with highly doubting I’d be a good partner to begin with, this woman just rubs battery acid right into the wound.
Aye man, you are who you are. It ain't about being a good partner, for a lot of people you won't be. But for ALOT of people you'll be perfect. Find a significant other that appreciates and respects the kind of partner you are. Keep your chin up playboy.
The J.J Jamison laugh “what? Are you serious” meme would fit well here.
If men had it easier, I wouldn’t still be single my entire life
Count your blessings!
I'm nearly 18 and never once been approached.
@@-ClerzZ- relatable
@@-ClerzZ- Don't worry im gonna be 20 soon, and I never had a girlfriend so I don't even know how to kiss or hug lol, that must be weird.
@@mufmager same here 😅
It’s the difference between going out EVERYDAY, trying to find your next meal, and just being able to open up your fridge or cabinets and choose whatever you want to eat.
I’ll bet her idea of “pursuing” a man is giving him a look.
Sending "signals" is pursuit to them.
Been following Roman army for a while I haven’t agreed with every single thing she said, but I do like that she doesn’t just make a simple point about whatever she’s saying she goes into detail to make sure her point is absolutely understood
The only reason why a woman would pursue a guy is if he has money/competition.
Dude it's not always that, there are some nice ones who are not like this.
I use to think the same thing til I met my wife I was unemployed with 2 kids when we met and didn't think of trying to get with her because of that but she still pursed me. Been married 10 years now.
The guy would have to have it all, looks, money, and personality
@@devouring_one You are talking about the exception not the rule, most guys will never meet a woman that doesn't care about material wealth like you did.
How many more accounts are you gonna make
She believes mens "time" is worthless.
She’s probably only watched Harem anime and took it was accurate depiction of real life dating.
Although, I have to say, harem anime dating depiction is more accurate than hers, because the guy is usually oblivious for 90% of the entire show.
As a girl I can tell you most guys in real life are oblivious or at least ACT oblivious. So at least thats one thing thats accurate.
@@revolvingworld2676 that I can agree on, however most times guys hate rejection and most times they do not know weather the girl that likes them is actually interested in them or is just being nice. So they don't take that chance in order not to look like a weirdo.
@@revolvingworld2676 I wouldn't say it's either for a guy. You have to understand how females who are comfortable with male friends are vs a female who likes them and is trying to hint it obviously. Sometimes it's beyond obvious, like say something sexual. But example, a girl can be acting flirty and you don't know how she interacts with others. Some girls are just flirts in general so you don't know if she's interested. But you don't wanna look like a piece of trash or misunderstand the situation and go for it to find out you're just a bro. I've gotten more rejections in those situations than successes and that's the same with the general male unless he's just one of those really attractive guys every girl generally loves. Most see it and just think it's better to play it safe. Don't wanna get rejected and possibly ruin a friendship over a misunderstanding lol
@@iKickBullies
Oh trust me I know. Thats why I said act, because most guys are pretty cautious, and girls are cautious in general too, usually waiting for the guy to make a move. I cant really detect subtle flirting either tbh.
A funny situation is if 2 people like each other but they try to wait until the other asks them out.
I use to be like that in highschool, but in college I just ask them out, less work. I obviously know its different and more difficult for guys, but I've never been asked out so I dont know how I would reject someone.
@@revolvingworld2676 that's fair when you out it like that. 100% with you on that. I've had that funny situation which is what changed how I deal with it myself lol. Me and one girl were friends and were interested in each other and when I told her some girl I barely know pulled an advance, her jealous side came out for a moment and that's when I was 100% sure. But she took such offense to someone else trying to get with me that I rejected respectfully, that somehow I did something to her in her eyes. Since then I was like, just be straight up or it'll never be nothing because I can easily avoid mixups with not worrying about none of that extra stuff
This is one of the best Reaction(?) Channels I have ever seen because he doesnt just laugh every two minutes and say like 5 words a video he actually actively talks to the point that its longer than the video he reacts to sometimes
"Human beings like being pursued."
That's what our alien overlords took from this video.
@J Man yes
@J Man idk about you but if I'm alone in the middle of the night I do not want to be pursued
@J Man That joke flew so far over your head that you didn't even realize what it was
@@Lero_Po Flew so far over his head it reached the imaginary aliens before falling down from magic land and landing right in front of him, him picking it up, and reading it upside down.
"He gotta shoot his shot with a whole lot of females." Which is all good until the one who decides to hang out with you somehow finds out that you were talking to or trying to talk to multiple girls while talking to her and goes full Karen because now you're considered a player to chicks haha.
Ironically women are either turned on by the competition (don't want to lose a guy to another woman) or turned off (the guy isn't high enough value to bother with if he's a player).
Depends on if she thinks she's 'settling' for the guy.
And isnt it funny how women go gaga over the dude who treats them like shit and then leaves them. They establish unreasonable value on some guy whos obviously trash and then never get over it. I had 2 serious girlfriends that were this way. And the woman im with now was gaga over this wannabe thug for like 6 years before she wisened up. First girl never got over this douchebag and after we broke up she was fing him on the side with her new bf and she called me to come rescue her and her daughter when he was having a drug fueled tirade threatening her and her kid. Mf made himself scarce when he heard i was coming to cave his dumb head in ( for her daughters sake) second girl couldnt get over her ex husband even though he cheated on her, impregnated another woman. Bought a GTR on her credit and didnt pay the note and left her home alone all the time. She got with me to show off to him that she could catch a good guy with some dough and looks. Then proceeded to treat me like ass and then got upset when i left her. She STILL says shes in love with me and wishes we could work out but has no desire to treat me well.
It took years but i found a girl who appreciates me and doesnt miss some other douche, at least not anymore now that shes grown up a bit.
I dont miss any of my exes. And all of them were lookers. There is a reason they are my past and not my present nor future.
This is so fucking true, men try to get the girl that they like and they say no, we are the ones that are asking the girl thinking that they would say yes and fearing for them saying no.
Man, I can relate to some of your points. Like I met 2 girls.
Girl 1 was cool and we had a lot in common, I contacted her and she responded only to ghost me on the next message whilst Girl 2 just straight up said "Look, I'm doing this and for those reasons, we won't be able to go out" the reason was justified and I have more respect for a girl that will tell me no than someone who will ghost me right after she says yay lets hang out!
When it comes to conversations women can say pretty much anything they want to and it wouldn’t hardly phase a man, but anything a guy says he has to calculate very carefully because it could go wrong in an instant.
Women: *Walk on Pack Ice*
Men: *Walk on Ice that is so thin it cracks every time you take a step*
Better be ready to dance! Bob and weave!
Yep its extremely stressful dealing with them. They you have all the crazy randomness from cock blockers and other bs
I can tell from experience. When I talk to a girl, I'm honestly many times interested in what they talk about and I share my opinion about it. Sometimes I might not be that much interested in that topic, but I still share my opinion. Though, when it gets to me starting a conversation about something that might not be interesting to the girl, she will act uninterested and she'll show it by lack of words. In most cases they'll be like "well, okay" or "uhm, okay". Y'know, they won't share their thought unless it's a topic that's interesting to them. Of course, this doesn't apply to every girl. My best friend who's a girl, likes to talk about everything, even about the things she's not fully interested in. BUT, the majority of girls won't express any opinion (or at least trying to keep the conversation) unless it's something that they're interested in.
I remember getting rejected by all of the girls I asked out during elementary, middle school, high school, and college. Yes, my group of friend did try to help me but to no avail. I guess I didn't fit whatever they were looking for. I did however finally dated only once while in college and she was definitely wife material. Unfortunately things didn't work out as we both had thought and we broke up (Heart burn levels were through the roof for me LOL because we both really did cared and love each other).
It's been nearly a decade of no dates or hook ups which doesn't bother me one bit. I do think I may have found someone I do want to date. I like to think I avoided a lot of headaches because I do know guys that are on their 3rd or 4th wife that have multiple baby mamas.
Go back to the girls that rejected 6ou in high school. They are all divorced single moms now.
@@neilhosler9001 i rather not b/c i dont care about them nor should i waste my time with them
@@keepitsimple003 Got me laid alot when I was a young guy;)
The hardest rejection I had to swallow when tryin to shoot my shot. Was gettin laughed at like I was a joke.
Oh man, the comments to this video makes me happy to know of the amount of intlligent and humorous people.
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Man i've felt like that my entire life, it's a fucking relief to hear someone talking about this truth, and it doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl, rejection can destroy you internally in a lot of ways.
After her 2nd point she made...I have to disagree with her. However I'm no knockout drop dead beauty I'm just a regular woman and my experiences are not the same as her examples!!
That’s what I was thinking too, women have the option to just sit and wait but what if no men is Approaching you? Then what?
@@Ivan-xk4uy If women aren’t getting approached they can always go on Tinder and have 400 matches in a couple of days.
@Josh Morgan Because of what you see in magazines, movies, and tv shows. What is pushed and embedded in to young girls is if you want to be happy and get a man you have to look a certain way or else you will be alone and unhappy. For a long time now I realized that whats being pushed is a false narrative...not all women know that unfortunately
Some women don’t even put themselves in situations where they are approachable or put themselves where men can get to know them and see their inner beauty.
A guy is expected to parachute in to their living room and just be 100% invested in them.
....is that Jeffrey Dean Morgan in your pfp? 😍
I agree with you. I went with many women until Mrs right knocked on my door.
We’ve been together now for 16 years, married for 10 years this September.
Congrats
@@jayebogar. Thanks
@@timglennon6814 hope ur marriage lasts forever
Please keep doing what you are doing u speak the truth bro have a blessed day
My favorite thing to do for my female friends is this: imagine a world where the only ACCEPTABLE kind of girl looks and money wise are the Beyonce's and Tori Kelly's of the world, AND they would have to try and talk to guys FIRST and even THEY would get brushed off probably 25-50% of the time.
I use this as an analogy after reading a few dating profiles where their shopping list had someone like Chris Hemsworth BARELY qualify their demands.
i was with my ex-wife from 23 to 31. i've tried dating on and off since and am now 37. still waiting for one to be serious about having something with me, rather than play games or compare me to an ex... dating is more stressful to me now than it ever was when i was in my 20's
That one line “I pursue six because I know I’m lucky if I get one”
That alone explains why guys have to talk to more girls and girls get mad when guys talk to more than one girl.
But want guys to ignore the skeletons of all the guys hitting her up still.
i’ve been told it’s a numbers game, i guess it’s like fishing.....if you only use one fishing pole, your chances of catching a fish is pretty slim but if you have 100 fishing poles setup your chances increased significantly and it also helps immensely have something they want attached to the hook.....an empty hook isn’t going to win you any awards.
@@gwf82 that's a good point but granted evidently it's okay to "we are women and sometimes we want chaos in our lives it's okay" was a reply to a chick on twitter saying she was gonna go after car guys and white dudes after she got screwed over dating a drug dealer with 4 kids AFTER she left in her words "a good boyfriend". People's common sense is just a bottomless pit with some people.
This is hella true. Gotta keep every door open
I haven't actually dated or pursued anyone, so I am a young and inexperienced guy and may be wrong, but I actually was put off by this statement to (that the YTer said). I can see why a man might want to do that, but it feels like if you do that, then you aren't as invested in that person as you could be. Its like splitting a chocolate bar with friends. You could split it into 2, and both you and the other gets half, or you can split it with a ton of friends, leaving you with a number of different sizes or amounts. One might get more than another. You might get less than them. Anyway you cut it, it wont be as even as the 50/50. There is also the social implementations that come with that being that it just feels dirty, to both the man and the woman, when the man is dating you, but also has another woman on his list. It wouldn't be so bad if it was just one or two and it wasn't a common (or even uncommon sometimes) thing, but actively pursuing 6 women leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I personally don't want to date a woman if she said she is also dating 5 other men.
Thank you brother for sticking up for Roma Army. I get tired of people talking about her personal life or her past instead of talking about the positive messages concerning men that she is putting out there. Like you said, "separate the message from the messenger".
Ofc we have it "easier" bc we're the only ones paying hundreds of dollars while you just be full and go home just to leave us on read and look for someone else.
I know this feeling first hand.
I empathize and am sorry to hear people have hurt you. You’re not alone. Just gotta take it one day at a time. It’s not necessarily easier but it’s better to focus on yourself until you find a good one. We’re all at the crap restaurant communally eating shite sandwiches 👍💙
@@torque244 damn that just lifted me up. Thx 😁 now I wanna cry of joy
@@mrblack20052 I'm right there with you, brother.
Age is the real play here. Men has the advantage the older he gets; Women has it when they are younger.
The girl who made the ridiculous claim is only saying that because the fboys are starting to ignore her and she's mad her options are getting worse. It's really just the wall that she's mad at
Yeah, but nobody will be excited at 55 anymore to get into some shit.
Women have all the leverage when it matters. When you're young and able to enjoy all of it, when you're full of life, energy and don't have damaged nerve endings yet.
I'm 30 and already I feel dead inside often enough. I don't even want to contemplate how it is for the older gentlemen.
Not to forget that the age women and men now start "dating seriously" at, their family should have long been established already.
Do you see how this is all part of a plan to depopulate?
whoever disliked this video (purposefully) needs a little chat with God
i would like to take them to see god cuz they need to check their brain asap
I absolutely love Chloe Roma and all her views, stances, and insights! I'm really glad there's a WOMAN out there stirring the pot and bringing these issues men face to light. It opens up the the door for discussions that we all know need to be had but haven't or aren't necessarily having them like we should. The fact that not only is Chloe a woman but the she herself has been through some shit where she could just as easily turned on men yet she still is able to rise above her personal hardships and experiences to speak up and advocate for us men is amazing and I'm thankful to finally have a woman stepping up and fighting with and for us!
My thought is, has anyone ever thought about, the idea that maybe the men that blow up at women when they get rejected are angry at them because we really aren't introduced to feeling other emotions at a younger age and it's their default response to certain things
It's the fear of rejection
I've yet to learn the art of not giving a shit and not taking life too seriously where I'll not get sad over the most trivial things
But hey maybe I'll be able to finish college and move onto the boring life of paying taxes and dying old
Yah....I'm an old dude and never seen that happen
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“Make It Make Sense” - put it on a shirt
No disrespect from me, just sharing my perspective after reading everyone else's. I'm like an average looking asian dude who's only 5'7(mid if I'm being honest). I get approached by women here and there occasionally and I do a fair bit of chasing. Even after training myself in confidence and knowing what to say and do, there are certain values women will still stubbornly stand by no matter what. When you're a younger male, the dating and messing around life is pretty fun. But once you just hit 18, I'd just recommend focusing on yourself and your career. You guys will feel lonely for a good month and then after that you can live. Best of luck to anyone chasing though, it is a hard path.
Thank you for your uplifting 🙏 comments for ROMA ARMY bro. I feel the EXACT SAME 💯 WAY!!!!
it's more like hunting with a bow that can't hit it's target untill your prey says u know what? ok.