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Mwikali, I wish you had asked her to talk about the red flags she saw and ignored or 'painted over' as she says, before walking down the aisle. Not the bad omens on her wedding day.
OMG! THIS IS MY LONG LOST FRIEND BARBARA!! 😱😱 WHAAAAAT? BARBS, NI MIMI YOUR "BEST BUDDY IN FASHOO.. now in UK" (yes you've guessed right)... Waat? U got married ata sikujua... i need to reach out like juzi... wooi Wajiro!... i love u mama, pole sana! Such things just dont happen to innocent Godly people like u! how??
Truth, I was married to a pastor.... Did he not abuse me, isolated me from my friends and family, it only lasted 3 years but it felt like 300 years of running from one family to another
I ignored the voice saying No on my wedding day too....and lived to regret decades after. I always say animals have an instinct and they don't wait for a second chance to confirm..... they trust their instincts..... we humans ignore the inner voice until it's too late.
To be fair, we are taught to ignore our instincts and rationalize things. If you have children, train them that their instincts are there to serve one purpose: To protect them.
@@rethabilesenoge7736 Did your husband cheat? If yes, you can get a divorce. If no, you can still separate. You will need to plan how to leave that man without making it obvious and getting money for yourself without him knowing. First things first, you need to accept and be at peace with your situation. Mourn for what you have lost- your time, dreams, hope for a good and long marriage etc. Secondly, raise your self esteem. This will remind you that you are valuable as a person. Marriage did not make you valuable. Divorce/separation will not make you less valuable or useless. Thirdly, reassure yourself over and over that you matter; that you are not worthless, you are not hopeless and you are not helpless. You may feel like that but it is not permanent. Feelings are never permanent. Fourthly, check your pride. You may start to feel good and be tempted to start being proud or lush out or behave arrogantly towards him. Do not. That is the easiest way to spoil your plans and to get noticed. Finally, after you have done everything you need to do, leave. When you are at a safe distance, at a safe place, tell him about the divorce or separation. (If he is wealthier than your family or you have a family that will not accept your plans or they will cajole/threaten/guilt trip you to stay married, do not go to your family nor tell them where you are.) PS: During this time, a lot of pain and hurt will be experienced. You may be called selfish, inconsiderate, uncompassionate etc. You may be insulted, told you need to hang in there, given examples of people who were going through what you were going and did not divorce/separate etc. Prepare yourself for these responses from your family, his family and him. Also, manipulation through sit downs and reminiscing the "good times" will be used. You may be guilted about "throwing away the marriage after years of marriage. Do not feel guilty when you are not in the wrong. Do not agree to meet ups with your family *no matter what*. Do not agree to see your mother or aunts or your favorite in law etc. These are grounds for ambush. You may need to change your number. If it is a hostile situation, you may need to change your appearance- how you dress etc.) This will be a long tiring journey but you are worth it!! All the best.
@@rethabilesenoge7736 Oooh dear please relax your minds, people talk but what does God says matters, if you are a Christian please keep your faith to God have hope for better its only God that changes situation, marriage is attacked spiritually not physical so depth calls unto depth Love creates love, hate creates hate, change the way you see things relax your minds in the thoughts of the holy Spirit and a way shall be paved. JESUS CHRIST IS LORD
OMG! Now this is kama vindu, what what? My joy is that the lady has made peace with herself. Keep praying my dear your faith is on another level. And.. isn't she pretty y'all?
I can relate to her. My wedding is 99.9% similar to yours. I had all the time to walk out, but ignored all that and ended up in tears for 4 years.....glad its all gone and God is a forgiving God, a God of second chances.
Why am I loving her 😩😩😩😩😩😩 I cry and laugh at the same time. each time she gets emotional I 😢😢 and when she bursts the laughter i am 😂😂😂😂😂😂 dead. Love you popote ulipo darls ❤️
I had such an experience in my past relationship. The Holy spirit really warned me 😂😂 all the red flags were everywhere. But Mimi ni nani....but God is merciful. He has given me another chance. I am keenly looking out for His direction
Watch out,"redflags" as u commonly refer to opposing interests will always be anywhere u will go unless one gets married to oneself to be completely in sync. Otherwise,u introduce somebody else in ur life, prepare to accommodate and make necessary compromises. But as long as u set urselves as standards against which partners should measure,u r not about to settle!!
But that is the essence of marriage--patience, persistence,accommodation and compromise. U can't paint pictures of women as being flawless beings looking out for "redflags--flaws" in men and expect marriages to work it ways. U should be concentrating on how our mothers have been able to hold their marriages long enough to receive us back from failed marriages execusing ourselves by pretexts of "redflags"!! Too much text book approach than common sense!!
But that is the essence of marriage--patience, persistence,accommodation and compromise. U can't paint pictures of women as being flawless beings looking out for "redflags--flaws" in men and expect marriages to work it ways. U should be concentrating on how our mothers have been able to hold their marriages long enough to receive us back from failed marriages execusing ourselves by pretexts of "redflags"!! Too much text book approach than common sense!!
Marriage,like driving has a lot to do with navigation. So many things to avoid, prevent, accommodate,compromise if it has to work! Lakini nyinyi mnathani ya kwamba it has to be about you--u have introduced a lot of activism into marriage and forgotten what makes marriages work!!
I agree 💯. If you can't stand the Red flags before a relationship......No amount of miracle will make you accept them later or make them change for you
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This is my story but a bit different. Dealing with a narcissist psychopath is emotionaly and physically draining. I believe someone will see my worth someday
Before someone sees your worth, learn to see it yourself. I have found my worth in Christ. Once you see how valuable you are to the Lord, you are unstoppable. Read Isaiah 54:5 and following.
How have u arrived at describing him as a narcissist or psychopath with just one side as given by the author? U should be knowing that the author related with the said man before the eventual wedding and in the process behaving in a manner that didn't necessitate that narcist tendencies she describes. What could have happened in between there now that u lack the man's side of the story? Don't view ur husband through this cognitive filter if u want to stay married. Work on ur marriage without making urself the standard against which ur partner has to conform. A real marriage material person has no business with unnecessary sensitivity to trivialities. A real one transcends,ignores,accommodates ,makes compromises as they cultivate their marriage. Let anybody here tell us how disappointed they r in seeing their parents in their 60s or 70s still married and aging together before we glorify failed marriages. Childish. Marriage is unity of diverse interest and how well we navigate through not an issue one brings one's sensitivity into. Ohhh ameniambia hivo ,ok inamaanisha... Ohhh amefanya hivi,ok inamaanisha... Kwenda uko. Work on marriages.
@@carolinemwazi5583 U choose marriage to a partner or liberation fights(feminism) and thereby activism against them! Don't confuse the world and mislead millions of people that marriage is impossible. Avoid cascading individual confusion about marriage to the rest of the world. Only confuse urself and individually feel the pain!
So inspiring n bubbly indeed I just love her fr free please mwikali bring her back we are waiting.😘🤗 N good job mwikali over there u such good listener.
what a story?very educative and an eye opener to many,,she is soo strong ,she is agreat woman ,,bring her back for part two.....waiting...pray for her that may God continue keeping her safe even beyond delivery time,shes blessed
Guuuuuys please add subtitles for us as well. I love this show(I also just looooove Kenya), but I lose some of the big moments in the conversation because I don't understand what's being said. Pretty please consider it 🙏🏾. Your topics are so interesting I don't want to lose out on anything. Love you😘
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So sad, we should learn to stand alone even in the church... Christ should be the only role model to us Christians. He is the only one who searches and knows our hearts
Listening to this story in the background as I work from home in Canada. She is so funny omg, I am dying of laughter and yet the story is so sad. Part 2 please!
Reverend Barbara... My spiritual sister.. powerful woman of God 🙏🏾 you teach me Faith. I always know you to be the strongest... Kweli ulipitia but who is God 🙏🏾
Part 2 waiting...... My dear sister never knew the story and every time we meet hug, laugh and am shocked and at the same time thank God because your testimony is speaking.
I knew this lady Pastor back then she was like the prettiest lady I wish you could all see her not pregnant beautiful gorgeous woman. So sorry that she went through so much. Grateful that she survived. Glory to God that she's about to be blessed with a baby. The God of wonders has done it for her. Incase you are reading comments And are going through a rough time, God is about to shift you. In Jesus name!
I have experienced instances where I could not look into the eyes of an enraged person. It almost felt like I was looking straight in the eyes of a demon.
So sad that men of the cloth are associated with such brutality. I agree with you that young people should look out for the red flags because underneath the cloth is still a man. Watched both episodes & glad you still have a smile & advocate for marriage even after divorce. I am a Pastor's wife & know firsthand that marriage works when with the right person. God bless you & your ministry
I like how she's laughing at herself🤣she's hilarious. We thank God that you left in one piece🙏God is always speaking to them that are sincere in heart and deligently seek Him, but we never listen unfortunately.
That is huge. If you're engaged or dating. Don't paint red flags. DO NOT. So, so true! I have experienced the turn around too - where the people you go to for help gang up with your abuser against you. They are manipulative covert narcissists. At the end of the day, God is your only ally - and good people not fooled by the smart looking, impressive exterior. Indeed God protects and keeps even in the darkest times. Always there for us - even in our not so smart choices.
I love this lady the way she is narrating her story and making fun of it💕💕grate sense of humour...... . keep smile coz you are beautiful and I can tell you have a grate heart💗💗
Call me crazy but rather than become paranoid ... I think Barbara went through this for the purpose of that book being birthed ... It's key to not ignore red flags though ... Trust me ... I'm engaged and I have no clue if what I say 'naah' to are red flags sometimes ... The first marriage I witnessed (my parents) was abusive and I don't want 😕... I'm trusting God through and through and calling things out immediately I notice and gauging ... working qith him and trying to soberly see if we are on the same page ...
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Mwikali, I wish you had asked her to talk about the red flags she saw and ignored or 'painted over' as she says, before walking down the aisle.
Not the bad omens on her wedding day.
Aaaa
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OMG! THIS IS MY LONG LOST FRIEND BARBARA!! 😱😱 WHAAAAAT? BARBS, NI MIMI YOUR "BEST BUDDY IN FASHOO.. now in UK" (yes you've guessed right)... Waat? U got married ata sikujua... i need to reach out like juzi... wooi Wajiro!... i love u mama, pole sana! Such things just dont happen to innocent Godly people like u! how??
I just like the way she is laughing at herself. She has been healed thank God!!
Exactly. this is the best part of the interview. She has healed and is helping people... what a wonderful soul
@@raychelleinjete4024 00ĺ⁰
From stories I have heard, most church and over saved guys are abusive and very misogynistic. Church girls take care.
Can't agree more😭🤮
Couldn't agree more...
Very true
Truth, I was married to a pastor.... Did he not abuse me, isolated me from my friends and family, it only lasted 3 years but it felt like 300 years of running from one family to another
@@zinhlesibeko2329 I am so sorry you went through that but I am glad you got out.
Her Guardian Angel deserves a RAISE, he was working Overtime on her wedding day.
You wouldn't have said it better...
😌😌
True
I second you
Wee... I should hire him too!!!
I ignored the voice saying No on my wedding day too....and lived to regret decades after.
I always say animals have an instinct and they don't wait for a second chance to confirm..... they trust their instincts..... we humans ignore the inner voice until it's too late.
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To be fair, we are taught to ignore our instincts and rationalize things.
If you have children, train them that their instincts are there to serve one purpose: To protect them.
I am currently in the same position, I don't know what to do
@@rethabilesenoge7736 Did your husband cheat? If yes, you can get a divorce. If no, you can still separate. You will need to plan how to leave that man without making it obvious and getting money for yourself without him knowing.
First things first, you need to accept and be at peace with your situation. Mourn for what you have lost- your time, dreams, hope for a good and long marriage etc.
Secondly, raise your self esteem. This will remind you that you are valuable as a person. Marriage did not make you valuable. Divorce/separation will not make you less valuable or useless.
Thirdly, reassure yourself over and over that you matter; that you are not worthless, you are not hopeless and you are not helpless. You may feel like that but it is not permanent. Feelings are never permanent.
Fourthly, check your pride. You may start to feel good and be tempted to start being proud or lush out or behave arrogantly towards him. Do not. That is the easiest way to spoil your plans and to get noticed.
Finally, after you have done everything you need to do, leave. When you are at a safe distance, at a safe place, tell him about the divorce or separation. (If he is wealthier than your family or you have a family that will not accept your plans or they will cajole/threaten/guilt trip you to stay married, do not go to your family nor tell them where you are.)
PS: During this time, a lot of pain and hurt will be experienced. You may be called selfish, inconsiderate, uncompassionate etc. You may be insulted, told you need to hang in there, given examples of people who were going through what you were going and did not divorce/separate etc. Prepare yourself for these responses from your family, his family and him. Also, manipulation through sit downs and reminiscing the "good times" will be used. You may be guilted about "throwing away the marriage after years of marriage. Do not feel guilty when you are not in the wrong. Do not agree to meet ups with your family *no matter what*. Do not agree to see your mother or aunts or your favorite in law etc. These are grounds for ambush. You may need to change your number. If it is a hostile situation, you may need to change your appearance- how you dress etc.)
This will be a long tiring journey but you are worth it!! All the best.
@@rethabilesenoge7736 Oooh dear please relax your minds, people talk but what does God says matters, if you are a Christian please keep your faith to God have hope for better its only God that changes situation, marriage is attacked spiritually not physical so depth calls unto depth Love creates love, hate creates hate, change the way you see things relax your minds in the thoughts of the holy Spirit and a way shall be paved. JESUS CHRIST IS LORD
This lady is narrating this sad story in a hilarious way aki you are a strong lady
Was wondering why she is laughing🙄
Been a pastor's kid I have seen it all. Am sorry but I am glad you healed.
😢Hugs girl.. We Pk's we see it all
OMG! Now this is kama vindu, what what? My joy is that the lady has made peace with herself. Keep praying my dear your faith is on another level. And.. isn't she pretty y'all?
I can relate to her. My wedding is 99.9% similar to yours. I had all the time to walk out, but ignored all that and ended up in tears for 4 years.....glad its all gone and God is a forgiving God, a God of second chances.
Oh no. Sorry. May God's peace and joy locate you
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@Jay Bee oh no😳😳😳
@Jay Bee Jesu, 😭😭😭😭and here I am sitting, thinking married people are more blessed and favoured. Thank u God. M learning
Why am I loving her 😩😩😩😩😩😩 I cry and laugh at the same time. each time she gets emotional I 😢😢 and when she bursts the laughter i am 😂😂😂😂😂😂 dead. Love you popote ulipo darls ❤️
I love her voice and story telling skills
May we never ignore the leading of His Holy Spirit. Lord have mercy. 🙏🏽
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Amen
Amen
I had such an experience in my past relationship. The Holy spirit really warned me 😂😂 all the red flags were everywhere. But Mimi ni nani....but God is merciful. He has given me another chance. I am keenly looking out for His direction
Watch out,"redflags" as u commonly refer to opposing interests will always be anywhere u will go unless one gets married to oneself to be completely in sync. Otherwise,u introduce somebody else in ur life, prepare to accommodate and make necessary compromises. But as long as u set urselves as standards against which partners should measure,u r not about to settle!!
@@wodeyaeric5351 yes because people marry not out of love but expectations thats why many divorces
Mwikali this lady is hilarious. She is completely healed! And her laughter is infectious
She's not healed yet. She's crying.
True
Bdo.....nt yet healed....
Ngai! Lord speak loudly so that we may hear you above and beyond our humanly plans and wants
I don't know what I am feeling right now after watching this. Oh God help us, You created us.
Ignoring the red flags just because you want to see the best in people will cost you someday
But that is the essence of marriage--patience, persistence,accommodation and compromise. U can't paint pictures of women as being flawless beings looking out for "redflags--flaws" in men and expect marriages to work it ways. U should be concentrating on how our mothers have been able to hold their marriages long enough to receive us back from failed marriages execusing ourselves by pretexts of "redflags"!! Too much text book approach than common sense!!
But that is the essence of marriage--patience, persistence,accommodation and compromise. U can't paint pictures of women as being flawless beings looking out for "redflags--flaws" in men and expect marriages to work it ways. U should be concentrating on how our mothers have been able to hold their marriages long enough to receive us back from failed marriages execusing ourselves by pretexts of "redflags"!! Too much text book approach than common sense!!
Marriage,like driving has a lot to do with navigation. So many things to avoid, prevent, accommodate,compromise if it has to work! Lakini nyinyi mnathani ya kwamba it has to be about you--u have introduced a lot of activism into marriage and forgotten what makes marriages work!!
I agree 💯. If you can't stand the Red flags before a relationship......No amount of miracle will make you accept them later or make them change for you
This is the story of so many women who marry that saved man of god. It breaks my heart.
Exactly and many are still trapped in death trap marriages to save their images...
Omg 🙆♀️ why didn't anyone told me to come in with porcorns n enjoy this movie?🤷♀️🤷♀️ Jeez!!!🤦♀️this is a whole 2hrs movie mazee...we want part 2 pls 🙏...🤔😪
Please bring her back. She is lovely. I love her
This is my story but a bit different. Dealing with a narcissist psychopath is emotionaly and physically draining. I believe someone will see my worth someday
Amen
Before someone sees your worth, learn to see it yourself. I have found my worth in Christ. Once you see how valuable you are to the Lord, you are unstoppable. Read Isaiah 54:5 and following.
How have u arrived at describing him as a narcissist or psychopath with just one side as given by the author? U should be knowing that the author related with the said man before the eventual wedding and in the process behaving in a manner that didn't necessitate that narcist tendencies she describes. What could have happened in between there now that u lack the man's side of the story? Don't view ur husband through this cognitive filter if u want to stay married. Work on ur marriage without making urself the standard against which ur partner has to conform. A real marriage material person has no business with unnecessary sensitivity to trivialities. A real one transcends,ignores,accommodates ,makes compromises as they cultivate their marriage. Let anybody here tell us how disappointed they r in seeing their parents in their 60s or 70s still married and aging together before we glorify failed marriages. Childish. Marriage is unity of diverse interest and how well we navigate through not an issue one brings one's sensitivity into. Ohhh ameniambia hivo ,ok inamaanisha... Ohhh amefanya hivi,ok inamaanisha... Kwenda uko. Work on marriages.
@@carolinemwazi5583 U choose marriage to a partner or liberation fights(feminism) and thereby activism against them! Don't confuse the world and mislead millions of people that marriage is impossible. Avoid cascading individual confusion about marriage to the rest of the world. Only confuse urself and individually feel the pain!
Virginia,u mean u experienced the same thing😭
So inspiring n bubbly indeed I just love her fr free please mwikali bring her back we are waiting.😘🤗 N good job mwikali over there u such good listener.
I say.....SCATTER!I will not die in the hands of men.....hahahaaa...aki Grace be a comedian...I love your voice n way of expression.
😂🤣😂
So it's not only me who heard scaaaateeeer
Scatter greek word
Dear Lord! Speechless.. Thanks to God He is always there for His children
She is an excellent story teller
I love the fact that she is a woman of faith and God has not abandoned her
This girl’s storytelling is on a whole other level.
Anafaa ku collaborate na Mkurugenzi🤣🤣🤣
Ikr
More like 'lady' not 'girl'
@@lavenderflowers1075 - saaaalty!!!
what a story?very educative and an eye opener to many,,she is soo strong ,she is agreat woman ,,bring her back for part two.....waiting...pray for her that may God continue keeping her safe even beyond delivery time,shes blessed
Aaaamen
Guuuuuys please add subtitles for us as well. I love this show(I also just looooove Kenya), but I lose some of the big moments in the conversation because I don't understand what's being said. Pretty please consider it 🙏🏾. Your topics are so interesting I don't want to lose out on anything. Love you😘
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@@winniemutuku8346 Oh yes konje! I totally forgot TH-cam has that feature 🙈. Thank you sisi.
Cc doesn't help
@@rethabilesenoge7736 ooh sorry
@@rethabilesenoge7736 Eish ja it doesn't because it doesn't interpret the Shona into English.
Waa hapo... ninge enda solo honeymoon and enjoy my own company😔😏 but huko ni disaster.. Jameni.... Aki hapana hypocrisy kanisani mingi sana..😭😭😭.Mungu weee praise n worship now... Aki God is angry things happening in churches
So sad, we should learn to stand alone even in the church... Christ should be the only role model to us Christians. He is the only one who searches and knows our hearts
You have spoken my mind👍
same😏😏
I'm coming from part 2. She deserved to take her time to tell her story. ❤️
When you see her laughing, she has healed.
I love her ability to laugh over all this!
God is good!
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Kabisaaa
She is a good story teller I followed to the end.
I know right
May God helps to listen to the instinct voice and may He guide our ways
Listening to this story in the background as I work from home in Canada. She is so funny omg, I am dying of laughter and yet the story is so sad. Part 2 please!
Wow... It's my dream to work in Canada someday.... May God help me
Where are you Sofia. I'm in Alberta.
@@winniemutuku8346 Toronto! Where in AB?
Bring this lady again for a part 2 to finish her story. She is very interesting
I listened to this lady while being interviewed by Monica Kagoni it's quite hilarious can't mind listen once and again
Funny & strong gal, I just loved her, I love how she narrate her story
Not bad at all the experience gave her a new topic to continue her career as an author
I have shared this amazing beautiful humble show....ladies.... don't wait to see a miracle from a monster. Flee as fast. Moyowangu Tu.
Reverend Barbara... My spiritual sister.. powerful woman of God 🙏🏾 you teach me Faith. I always know you to be the strongest... Kweli ulipitia but who is God 🙏🏾
I tell people ask God the person you with is the person you meant to be with!
God always tells you youjusthappen to listen to him!
So true
How you know He answered
@@thidekatithe2756 i also wanna know
Part 2 waiting...... My dear sister never knew the story and every time we meet hug, laugh and am shocked and at the same time thank God because your testimony is speaking.
Miriam,huyu ni wa wpi
Her laughter is so interesting,it makes the story juicy
Not as interesting as it is mischievous!!
There is so much that's not being told to make for an innocent victim!!
This story is so sad, I pray no woman ever goes through this.
Ameen
I'm going through it now with four kids it is so hard my faith is waning
Please don't ignore the red flags. She is 100% accurate.
l like this woman just the way she talks about her experience
But Kuna good marriages too. I think we should seek God for his approval.
Watch part 2
I knew this lady Pastor back then she was like the prettiest lady I wish you could all see her not pregnant beautiful gorgeous woman. So sorry that she went through so much. Grateful that she survived. Glory to God that she's about to be blessed with a baby. The God of wonders has done it for her. Incase you are reading comments And are going through a rough time, God is about to shift you. In Jesus name!
Amen
Amen
Amen
Awwwwww.
God bless you!!!
Amen
Why would someone divorce such a nice lady,she is story teller
Wow this story is almost like mine although I stayed in for 22 years. My wedding day was also full of drama but I also painted white.
22years and divorced sorry dia
she is a really good storyteller!
Thanks for the lesson
Woooooow! Real Angels like that's Amazing. Glory to Jesus Christ!
I love her energy.I am going to buy that book! God loves you.I admire to see angels as well
Thank you.
Kindly order the books through 0700002797. Thanks
Haibo. That part she said "uko ni wapi nilijileta" struck me 😭 Aw Barbara, take heart dear
🤣🤣it's hilarious and educative at the same time
I have experienced instances where I could not look into the eyes of an enraged person. It almost felt like I was looking straight in the eyes of a demon.
Please bring her back... We need to hear more of the story..
Powerful story so far..eagerly waiting for part 2.
Powerful story I really was encouraged
Waiting from the Lord is not easy, it needs patience and a lot of it!!!!.... God help all the ladies waiting from you meet the right men from you
Looking forward to part 2
So sad that men of the cloth are associated with such brutality. I agree with you that young people should look out for the red flags because underneath the cloth is still a man. Watched both episodes & glad you still have a smile & advocate for marriage even after divorce. I am a Pastor's wife & know firsthand that marriage works when with the right person. God bless you & your ministry
Aaaamen
Am sorry you went through that, I can feel the pain in her voice, woie
But she's strong enough to even afford to laugh 😁
We need this lady back....
Aki si Mungu tuh anipatie chance ya kupendwa na dem mrembooo hiii design aki....l can be the man there has ever been promise....
Start being nice now and to people around you...don't wait for a lady for you to be nice...May God hear your prayers.
Awww
May God hear your cry
God was preventing the wedding from taking place..All these are signs.. The caterers kid got sick, the gowns got switched etc..
God is faithful you made it out, and He will keep you safe. He loves and will bless you abundantly
I like how she's laughing at herself🤣she's hilarious. We thank God that you left in one piece🙏God is always speaking to them that are sincere in heart and deligently seek Him, but we never listen unfortunately.
She really likes colour. I can visualise the Runda home in the village.
Never ignore the red flags .Amen
Wow...Mwikali we are waiting for part 2 pleaseeeee....
I love the way she narrates her story
Waaah, what an interesting story. Mungu tusaidie sisi wamama.
Interesting interview right here !
Haki hii ni funnysad story. Storyteller ni wa nguvu n she is very beautiful.
This Barbra is just funny😂😂😂😂. An emotional story but a very funny story.
Waaa,,, part 2 please so encouraging n touching
Waaah.... deep! Really deeeep....Girl I wish you the very best in life
You are so fun mum. You look so healed.
I just love how she's telling the story.shes great oo.acha niende kwa part 2
i love this lady she is narrating confidentily
That is huge. If you're engaged or dating. Don't paint red flags. DO NOT. So, so true! I have experienced the turn around too - where the people you go to for help gang up with your abuser against you. They are manipulative covert narcissists. At the end of the day, God is your only ally - and good people not fooled by the smart looking, impressive exterior. Indeed God protects and keeps even in the darkest times. Always there for us - even in our not so smart choices.
This girl is a strong woman,more grace in your life
Our morhers' generation are the real strong ladies. This one of ours is of somewhat shaky ones!!
Can't wait for part two
Interesting story teller and funny lady.
I love this lady the way she is narrating her story and making fun of it💕💕grate sense of humour...... . keep smile coz you are beautiful and I can tell you have a grate heart💗💗
I really laughed at " saa hiyo mgomgo imegongwa!!!!
Great story teller wow Aki part 2 please
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA That part of "he muted my microphone" Sijawahi cheka hivo haki, her laughter is something else.
I can relate to her story. Wow!!!
Grace take your story to tuko talks with Lynn Ngugi, you will have all the time to tell us all
A good one though started with part 2. I love this show but soon I'll need google to interprete some parts 🤔🤔
Part 2 please.Our God is wonderful.
Aki she is so cute 🥰❤️ n a good story teller
Sending you all love...❤❤ from 🇿🇦
Barbara, u r such an amazing woman. We thank God for protecting u...heish!
Aaaamen
Call me crazy but rather than become paranoid ... I think Barbara went through this for the purpose of that book being birthed ... It's key to not ignore red flags though ... Trust me ... I'm engaged and I have no clue if what I say 'naah' to are red flags sometimes ... The first marriage I witnessed (my parents) was abusive and I don't want 😕... I'm trusting God through and through and calling things out immediately I notice and gauging ... working qith him and trying to soberly see if we are on the same page ...
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Good luck
Barbara....it's good to see you
I only watch to see what she is wearing today . This way this lady dresses is my winner . Today she has come looking like The immaculate Mary 😂😂😂