Show Me the Healing: When Words Are Not Enough for the Betrayed
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ม.ค. 2024
- There comes a time when the betrayed partner has had enough words and wants to see action. That time is different for all betrayeds in all sorts of situations, but that time surely does come. It's a time where the betrayed says "I don't want to hear you talk about how much you're changing....or have changed....I want to see those changes take effect. I want to see that you've changed. That you're more empathetic..... That you're actually remorseful.... That you somehow 'get it' and that you communicate and respond out of your empathy, humility and self-awareness for how you've hurt me and US." Today you'll hear more about how the unfaithful can actually show their spouse the healing, not just talk about it. You'll also hear me give words to some of the pain of the betrayed while also helping the unfaithful partner understand what the betrayed is looking for and needing in repair work.
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Absolutely love this video. I really miss these motivational, educational, and ‘speak from the heart’ Sam messages. Was hungry for a video like this! Thank you Sam - great stuff!!!
Don’t talk about it, be about it
Man I saved my marriage just by listening to your podcasts thank you so much . Sill in progress though but it better now .
I’ve really missed seeing your videos regularly. So glad you have this new outlet.
Sam! It's so good to see you here, doing your own thing. I followed AR for a long time. But in the past two years, since discovering my husband's betrayal, I sort of fell off the wagon, so to speak. I lost touch with recovery. Then, recently, I logged back into my YT and the algorithm saw fit to throw me your new videos. I'm so glad it did.
The sadness I feel when watching this video is the sadness I tend to feel with most if not all of Samuel's videos in that I don't think many unfaithful watch them. My marriage might have been able to be saved if my wife would have watched them.
Thanks for continuing to inspire me every day. I wouldn’t be where I am without you.
Yes!
As a Broken Betrayed I have needed this the most. There would be NO Trust without it. Also it has helped him with his on shame.
Love this! So glad you’ve been found again.
Great message... Yiuve been a blessing to me. I appreciate you🙏
Interesting, it seems we're in a time, at least in the USA, that words are meaning less and less and actions carry more truth than words spoken. When words are congruent with actions there's integrity. Maybe that's what we're moving towards.
Another great podcast. Thanks again they have been a huge part of my recovery journey.
You are one of the best, most natural speakers I've ever heard. You were made for this, and every one of your videos has been one of my only senses of comfort through this crazy time in my life. I've been so curious how you and Samantha's journey has ended or even continued, where you stand today, if you'd ever be willing to share.
Thank you Samuel! You have been a great help to me (betrayed) and now to husband ( the unfaithful ) . His infidelity was in 2010. Everything he could have done wrong (after I discovered ) to heal the damage ...he did! I stuffed my hurt for 10 years only to grow cold. I knew God was urging me to open the wound and heal the infection of my heart and spirit. He was defensive , non empathetic, and frankly dishonest. He wanted to sweep it under the rug and keep it there! For the past 4 years I have begged him to educate himself as I have so he could understand the damage that has been done and the damage he is continuing to do! I have learned from 2 other affair recovery podcasts . However, neither of them were unfaithful. I learned so much about my husband through your honesty and vulnerability as the unfaithful. I sent him one of your videos . He listened and connected with you! Thank you Jesus! We still have a long way to go . I just want to thank you for your courage and willingness to tell your story! You truly bless the unfaithful and the betrayed!
What if we show them but they don't want to see...?