Dr. Matthew Hedelius Discusses Desire, Infidelity & and Erectile Dysfunction in Relationships

Should a couple explore novelty in their sexuality? What about if that marriage has been affected by infidelity or addiction? If you're dealing with erectile dysfunction, what steps can you take practically to help bring about healing, change and mutual fulfillment? It's these types of questions that require an expert's protocol. Dr. Matthew Hedelius is a true expert in problematic sexual behaviors and continues to help those in crisis and today shares both practical and insightful help for those looking for healing. For many men dealing with erectile dysfunction the journey is filled with shame, confusion and massive frustration. Today I'll ask Dr. Hedelius to speak directly to that shame and provide direction for both spouses who are trying to heal. However you found yourself here today, I'm honored you're here. You'll find only healing, compassion and patience here as you walk this healing journey both unfaithful and betrayed.
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[@anthonypellagrino7272]

Just finished watching and it was informative and comforting in a way. I appreciate all you do.

[@user-tz4qm9bf5l]

Another really informative podcast. I love how the discussion brought into play a very helpful point (in this storm of betrayal and pain ) that the body keeps score and how our brain / mind may not even KNOW how or WHY we respond the way we do. That tells a partner of the betrayal that it isn’t about THEM.

[@JanelleG0822]

My husband drinks alcohol & smokes he's 39 for the past couple years I've noticed low sex drive he blames it on his job/being tired. Does his addiction play any part ?

[@trashman9395]

Sam, What about us Men who have been betrayed? I had been dealing with ED before her betrayal, I had just started to overcome my ED when she decided to betray me with a man she had only met once. Now I feel like I am not a man anymore. even though she sad that was not the reason I can't help but think that was a big part in her betrayal.

[@samshealingpodcast]

it's awful. I work very hard to help the betrayed male and I get it totally. It's possible to heal and it's more than possible to heal the ED. What help are you getting for the betrayal trauma? If easier you can email me at [e-mail]

[@trashman9395]

I’m in week 4 of harboring hope and starting ems online on the 23rd

[@trashman9395]

She’s in the hope for healing. Still not seeing much in the way of empathy remorse regret.

[@trashman9395]

Oh and doing EMDR with the VA… yeah, it really really stinks but all the money spent on just getting PHP and IOP and the three courses and being on FMLA since late December really takes its toll.

[@blackaj69]

Another great podcast dealing with a very senstive issue. The bit about being desired is brilliant. Looking forward to the next podcast.

[@samshealingpodcast]

thank you. i thought it was brilliant too and put together so well by dr. hedelius. Thank you for watching and commenting.