Hunt for my Brothers Killer: Paul Stansby
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 พ.ค. 2023
- Paul Stansby talks about his childhood trauma, being bullied in school and the impact of losing his brother to knife crime in London.
Paul has used this as a catalyst for change and dedicated himself to seeking justice for his brother and raising awareness about the devastating consequences of knife crime.
This is The Eventful Life of Mr Paul Stansby
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Paul is one of the nicest geezas to walk this planet he dose some amazing work around his local town with emergency blood packs and stuff and is also an amazing tattoo artist .
Like many have said, I just can't understand why you aren't up there with the top podcasters. You seriously are one of the best and deserve much more recognition!
1000 Per cent the best thing that could have come from the COVID..
As we now have a great channel..♠️💯🙏💓
Dodge is the best don't worry about that mate!
Yep it's unreal,Terry Ellis another great guy & an amazing story...post covid is getting people to open up..& long may it continue imo
New sub mate. I find your interviews a refreshing change from others of a similar setup. You allow your guests to speak and don't impose your world view on them. Fantastic.
Nice one for the feedback Jamie!
Much appreciated 🙏
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Likewise 👍👍👍
@@DodgeWoodallthis man’s story resonates so hard with my own I’m the older brother in this story but luckily I didn’t get killed. Sons need there fathers
This was phenomenal podcast. I am glad Paul is where he is now mentally and I wish him every success with his charity.
This had me hooked. Paul has been through so much. Glad justice was done for his brother. Dodge as always, love your style in your Podcasts and you have the best guests.
Wow! This one was hard to watch, emotional story! Thank you for sharing this with us. Brave man, much love.
This guest was brilliant, his ability to articulate his story was amazing to see. Wish him all the best
I think other you tube podcasters really need to watch this interviewer and his delivery style. No interruptions, no deviations, no hitting nerves for the sake of views, genuine ..
Bravo
Really appreciate you taking the time to give your feedback 🙏
What a great guy ...been through hell and back and comes out so professional and very well spoken....keep doing what your doing brother ...what a guy ...what an inspiration ❤
When I was 15 years old I suffered a similar experience to this. The whole interview hits home so hard. The ripple effect of knife crime and gang crime stil live with me to this day and I'm now 35 years old. I respect your honesty and bravery and hard work. Your big bro would be proud.
Love these podcasts! You can see why the guests are so relaxed and “themselves” - Dodge is so genuine and the best interviewer I have seen for a long time.
Thanks and much appreciated 🙏
Damn man this one particularly tugged my heart strings. Very matter of fact, you can see it still hurts him now. Good on him for establishing a charity though and turning some of this pain into something productive. Mad respect
Dodge absolutely love this channel . Honestly loving all these podcasts . Paul seems a real decent bloke
Came across this by chance … I must say what a brilliant discussion. Respect to both of you ❤
Me too, the real deal 😢 much respect to these people that share their experiences, this day and age is so damaged 😢
Wow! Dodge your interviews are unreal...this one is up with the best! Never knew of Paul but God bless you a powerful story!
Wow. What a powerful interview. Massive respect for Paul Stansby. I sincerely wish him all the success with his charity. Another great chat Dodge. Respect.
Good man Tony 👍🏼👍🏼
I'm impressed with the genuine intelligence of this lad, he's really really super inteligent and he definitely has a good heart. I admire his honesty and being totally open about the whole experience. Powerfull story. Young generations should be presented with stuff like that, this has a strong potential of preventing a lot of bad things.
Man I relate to this guy.. God bless his brother, mum and sisters.. Can't put into words on here. Respect to the big man for who he's became.. Proper man... 👊🏼 ☮️🤝🏼
Thanks Dodge I enjoyed this podcast. Paul, when you said you are the man of the house. It took me right back, I can remember being told the same thing, looking out for my little brother but also remember feeling ashamed hearing my mother take a beating and not being able to do anything about it.
I keep myself to myself but If I see injustice I act, can’t really help it. As you said I’m no hard man but preying on the weak turns my stomach and I’ve got in to a few scrapes because of it.
All the best with the message you are sending.
This is real Brotherly love for ya. This poor geezer probably has ptsd. Great bloke Dodge.
Had me gripped this story. Such a painful thing to go through and Paul could have lost so much more. Thankfully hes around to tell his story and promote a better lesson rather than sitting in a cell himself.
Absolutely incredible story and how you can endure so much trauma and still come out the other end despite how hard it gets your are such an inspiration paul stansby there ain’t enough human being in the world like you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Decorating my house and these chats are so interesting. I'm glad there's so many!
Paul’s life story is a exact mirror of mine down to a T, to hear this from another left speechless. Took me years well within my 30s to get out of a bad life. My mum still says I was lucky to be alive today
What incredible story so inspiring. Well done. As always much love and respect 💜
one of the best podcast episodes ive watched. the guests just keep getting better and better
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Ive watched all Paul's interviews about what happened, and this one is the best by far, in my opinion.
Glad you enjoyed 👍🏼👍🏼
Dodge, what another top video well done pal. Paul - Firstly my condolences, what happened is unforgivable. You are an inspiration in what you are preventing! Fellas keep up the great works respectively …. Smithy 👊
Good man 🙏
Amazing and authentic - I had to listen and learn.
To Paul, I understand your anger absolutely when you lost your bro. But you have something now inside you to hopefully stop another person losing their life. You truly understand the pain. May your bro rest in eternal peace.
Thank u so much my mission with my words is help others stop this crazy mentality
All the best Paul , sorry about ur brother …great podcast Dodge ! Love ur channel , much love x
Dodge, this interview with Paul really stunned me. He’s a good man. Brilliant stuff.
Glad you enjoyed Phil 👍🏼👍🏼
Dodge another great interview👍more people need to see these real life stories & you just got a new subscriber 💪✌️
Great interview Dodge. Paul you are a proper smart dude despite the challenges you have faced. Massive respect 🫡
Thanks guys. With you from the start Paul. Our stories are very familiar. A violent father, who I never respected & just wanted to beat up when I was old enough. My brother was stabbed to death with a samurai sword & died in my arms (in a quiet seaside town, unheard of at the time). I lived a life of violence after being bullied as a child & ended up in a mental hospital for three years at the age of 17. My reputation contributed to my brother's murder. I was an enraged animal for years, a manifestation of childhood trauma & fear. Bless you. And thank you, Dodge. I've watched loads of your podcasts in the last couple of weeks. Glad I found you on here.
Thanks Jason and It makes me happy you are enjoying the channel.
Good man 👍🏼👍🏼
I love how you allow your guests to talk on your podcasts, great work 👍👏
What an absolutely captivating interview. Dodge you are like a quality referee in a cup final. Knowing when to intervene and knowing when to let the game flow. No ego...We're here for the game. The less you're noticed the more you're noticed. If that makes sense:)
As for Paul. Being a man is being a father and a husband. Which he couldn't have done if he spent 20yrs in prison. I'm sure his brother would rather he had a life with his family. And not let this incident destroy both their lives. Good luck Paul.....You're the man you wanted to be..
Thanks 🙏
Wow...i can totally resonate with this man...trauma etc does this to you...I salute you Paul..the nice guy that can turn in an instant if shat on..thank you for sharing your story i have an appointment with a psychiatrist today at last
I really like this guys honesty...thanks DW great job!
If ever the phrase "Don't judge a book by its cover" needs to be explained to anyone just show them this podcast. @Paul Stansby You have blown me away my friend. Amazing .
Top guest lad! Much love 🏴 💙🫶🏻
Discovered your channel today. I’m 3 interviews in, and this was the one that made me sub.
Nice one Lee and welcome on board 👍🏼👍🏼
Absolute horror story - I couldn't shut down my TH-cam tab! I was hanging on to every word shared - this story was delivered brilliantly with clear articulate questions, only to be answered in exactly the same way.
Glad you enjoyed it 👍🏼👍🏼
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What an emotionally aware, honest person for the experiences you have had, thank you
Love your podcasts and the people you have on 💯💯💯my man’s got me on those moments when you hear real talk and completely understand what’s being said and the message because you’ve experienced it and think exactly the same it’s a real moment of awakening knowing some have been there and are on the same page…. My love and thoughts and actions are with you Paul your brother is proud of you mate 👊 real talk real human beings real results using the negative shit and turning it around bless you and yours 🙏🙏👍💯
Hi dodge. Another amazing interview kinda different from the others but just as powerful if not more. I find myself resonating with this chap except loosing his brother and i cant even begin to imagine the pain paul and his family are still going through. The rest though where family are concerned and his brother a functioning addict wow man it mirrors stuff that probably a lot of your listeners have been through.
Thanks to both of you .
I haven't watched all your pods yet but i will and id like to see maybe more like pauls life if you haven't already.
Stuff that resonates with your listeners can be powerful as well as all the famous and infamous people you have on.
Ill shut up now😅
Keep them coming bro 💯 😊
Another truly amazing podcast. Great job Dodge , another hard story to tell .
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Great interview, God Bless Paul and his family.
Paul does a fantastic job of explaining Trauma and especially Intergenerational Trauma. It’s like he has done a diploma in it! He has made a very sad and personal story into something of an educational tool for all those who do not understand how society works and how we are all knitted together by Trauma of some form or another. Most of all he has healed himself and demonstrates great power through his intelligence and compassion. As do all of your guests Dodge. Another fascinating podcast. These folks more than deserve the platform you give them. And we need to hear them. Thanks.
He hasent done a diploma he's lived it
@@holymolyholymoly2624let me tell you about Paul he wouldn't have pissed on his brother Dean If he was on fire. Paul wrote his brother Dean off because Dean had a drug problem.
Let me tell you about paul.he would have never even pissed on his brother Dean If he was on fire. Because he's brother Dean had a drug problem and he wrote his brother Dean off
@knoye knoye how do you know this?
@@K.V.P14 I was best friends with Dean Standby
Thanks for sharing Paul, I wish you all the best mate
This is amazing. What a man. What a story. What a podcast.
Another great interview. Thank you Dodge, but most importantly to Paul for retelling his trauma, which is very stoic. I don’t think Paul is as aggressive as he wants people to believe he is, hence why he never carried out those vicious attacks. Paul carries a huge burden on his shoulders, from his mum wanting him to be her big protector (man of the house), naturally him wanting to seek revenge for his brothers murder, but all whilst protecting his brothers name (RIP), etc.
Paul has so much more to give in life, possibly working with ex offenders, DV survivors, supports groups for trauma.
Whatever direction he takes best of luck.
I believe in that in situations like this anyone is capable of anything I don’t want people to think I am a hard man nor do I act like I am this is just a storey of the process of what I was feeling and going through I am a well respected man in my community not through fear I never wish my message to come across like I’m trying play the hard man in anyway and I hope people don’t c this message this way I’m just expressing what happened in this dark stage of my life and believe me if I had of connected with these people I would have killed them but if it was u and u was a strait lace man or women I no u would do same weather u had violence in u or not thank u for messaging and watching
Nice one Dodge , great interview and nice guest who spoke his story well
Dodge your interviews are unreal mate :)
Another great podcast from start to finish. Great interview and respect to this man.
Thank u so much ❤
What a great interview I am new to your channel I hope you keep doing a great job I hope Paul has a good life and does well with his charity I am 73 years old but had nearly the same issue in life but it gets better keep up the good work
Welcome on board Michael 👍🏼👍🏼
Very Powerful & Insightful conversation, Keep up the Good work Paul👍 & Well done on the podcast Dodge👍
Good man 🙏
These interviews are priceless. Real insight into what makes people who they are. I started watching this channel 'for a bit of a laugh,' but it's way more than that and certainly not laughing material, although many of the guests have some hilarious stories and a great sense of humour. The violence and the illegal stuff are totally secondary. Brilliant. Love it.
Thanks for your message Tony and great you are enjoying the channel 👍🏼👍🏼
Brilliant interview. Paul you are amazing mate for having an erudite head and being able to control your temper after such tragedy. Topman
Cracking story interview thank you obviously wrote this early now watched the whole thing so much respect to him defo been through awful childhood amazing actually not inside massive respect to you both I’d buy him a beer happy done some bad things but for right reasons 👏🏻👏🏻
Thanks so much and also for the beer ❤
Definitely subbing. On my 4th pod and they really are brilliant, each one better than the next. Keep the content coming
Welcome on board 👍🏼👍🏼
Such a compellingly podcast. Best of luck to you Paul. Hats off to you Dodge, your ability to let your guests just flow makes the episodes. Good luck to you both.
So much respect for this lad
Feel for this guy and what he’s been through.
I lost my mum 3 years ago she got wrapped up with a wrongun who ended up beating her to death. I had to sit in court while he got sentenced knowing I can’t get anywhere near him. I’d have given my life to take his. Now he’s inside on a life sentence. She’d been seeing him less than a month so no one even knew she’d met someone. Fucked my life up forever.
I’m sorry to hear about his mate :(. I hope you’re doing well.
incredibly hard hand to be dealt bro I'm so sorry for your loss
Very sorry to hear that mate, he’ll get what’s coming to him.
I am so sorry what you've been through no one should ever loose their mom. That's the craziest about moms good or bad when you loose them it affects you deeply!!!! ❤❤ Canada
So sorry mate. Sending love.❤️
Much love and respect to Paul stansby ❤ 👊
Big love my brother hope catch up soon big daddy to b
Another great upload bro feel so sorry for this guy and also you’re making some good good content
Fantastic episode, captivating to watch, well done Paul for helping others, your family will be proud of you for that👌
Such a powerful story, Wishing you all the very best.
You hear that trembling in his breath when describing the pains at the time his brother died. Some realness there.
Class episode Dodge. Class fella doing top job trying to change the future! Hats off what a guy ❤ 💪
Nice one Rick 👍🏼👍🏼
just come across the podcast Dodge! awesome, such a great interviewer and top guest! can't wait to watch loads more!
Thanks Simon 🙏
Wow Dodge what a fantastic interview ,well done mate as usual quality .
Good man Denis 💎👍🏼
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Literally just drove past your shop in ipswich after watching this
Much love mate x
Another excellent interview. He's right what he said about James English, and I know it's not a competition, but your interviews are way more compelling and you have such a nice vibe about you. Keep it up!
Love it dodge great interview my g
Glad you enjoyed it Gary 👍🏼👍🏼
From personal experience I think it's a dangerous time with mental health issues. A few years ago I decided to open up to my friends about my mental health issues. Seemed okay at first and they seemed to be accepting. But, it wasn't long before their opinion of me changed and their respect for me was gone. As a result I've lost most of my friends. It's years on now and I'm glad it happened as it's shown me who these people really are. Just remember to assess weather the people around you are truly concious and not just claiming to be before you open up.
That's a good point mate and yh it's a shame some people only view life from what society calls normal....some people who get a bit funny with you If you open up is becaus sometimes they actually feel the same but there plan is too bury it forever n not try n understand it because there worried people will think there weird,so when you got the balls too say how your feeling n what's going on in your head they run a million miles from ya...they either feel their not allowed too open up n resent the fact you can or your reminding them off a part off themselves they been trying too hide because they think it's something wrong with them sorta thing...cheers
What an articulate bloke. Great story. Childhood trauma is the root of so many problems, society needs to invest more in freely available therapy for all.
Thank u for taking the time to watch my storey
Male mental health through many things is a massive issue as men we don’t talk about feelings down pub
We bottle feelings up till do something stupid violence suicide something that we shouldn’t even just hit the bottle I have TBI PTSD Pub assault rehab last 10 years still can’t walk or talk so get pissed off extreme case I know but 1 good mates helped me more than head doctors (yes can spell official term) and we had done wee bit of iffy stuff together so can be honest with him knows everything
@@paulstansbypodcast you have ur own channel??
I do yes it’s Paul stansby podcast
Wow!! What an amazing podcast! I’m lucky enough to have Paul as a closes friend of mine! So proud of you and everything you are doing.
Ahhhh thanks gal big love ❤️
bloody brilliant.
Thank u 🙏
Awesome interview…🤘
Great thanks for sharing this ❤❤
Thank you for helping me process the feelings I've carried around for over 15 years, I've never really understood what to do I've been lost for a long time but couldn't lean on anyone this is the first time I didn't feel weak for not getting revenge I am so grateful for this video
#beluckyanticrime #nomoreknivescampaign #knivesdownglovesup
Sensational interview, a top man.
WOW am so moved by his life hope all carrys on going in the right direction
One of the best quotes ever, “No one understands the violence it took to be this gentle”…
I couldnt put this pocast down, first time i seen this guy i went to skip past as i wrongly judged him on his tattoos and his looks, how wrong i was and i apologies what an amazingly spoken person and massive respect for turning your life around! Im sure tour brothers looking down at you and us massively proud
A truly moving story
What a well spoken chap been through a hell of a lot , massive credit to his friends and family for his honesty comes across extremely well , what a fantastic interview Dodge , well done that man 👌
I’m just done seeing a psychiatrist and Paul’s life is like the conversation yesterday,I’m locked in on drugs and I’ve an indictment case for Police assault and this podcast was better than councillors I’ve seen.
I turn to violence quickly but I’m scared I’m not saying I’m no gangsters,I just sold drugs and I’ve got that stopped.
Paul is very inspirational and I hope to God I can find the strength from somewhere like he did .
Great work man G 🏴
Good luck with turning your life around.
My heart goes out to this guy. Well done Dodge
Great show dodge, great guest and what a harrowing story, rip dean no one deserves that level of violence
Good interview and wish all the best to Paul and family hopefully he can get some closure in doing good and returning to the community. As sure he could have got his hands on those ppl and killled them but then what would happen to his existing family? Then you also have to look at the impact he is having with the charity? He has probably saved countless lives of children possibly ending up in prision or worst.
It's never easy taking the good path but you have done yourself and your family very proud.
My heart was pounding. I felt rage for this and with this man. I seriously would have jumped on a plane and helped him look for those 4. I had something similar not as bad. I can tell you this. I have went on but if given the chance I would not trust myself around the sticker.
Thank you for helping realize I'm not alone and that your words and feelings have give me hope.
Thank you🙏🏻
Also love the Be Lucky Foundation. Amazing what he's doing for crime and knife crime in particular. 🙏
Big love thank u so much ❤
@Paul Stansby podcast You're welcome buddy. Back atcha! 🙏👊
Dodge, congratulations on delivering another fantastic interview. Paul, you're a great example of strength through adversity. Thanks for such an honest, sincere interview, I wish you all the best for the future.
*The best interviewer bar none*
a compelling channel.
Such an important story to tell keep it up big fella
Dude can relate hard to some of your story you spoke so well
Brilliant this Dodge
To Paul, Dean would be so very proud you and the man you have become.
Omg reading this hit me hard thank u ❤
Paul you are an absolute inspiration enough said RESPECT Remz