Yes o, I've seen them do traditional weddings online. But it's the kind where the couple is abroad and the family is in Nigeria so the families meet with the couple's pictures blown up.
@@WhizQueenI admire your spontaneous speaking skills... It was like they programmed what you were saying in your brain. Your name sounds familiar. You're an active member on nairaland?
Girls; the guys pay full stop. Especially on the first date. There should be no fifty fifty. Also, it's good idea for the girl to ask if the guy if he would like to have her as a companion. Just follow your intuition. Generally speaking, guys are usually more receptive when you talk to them. Worse case scenario as you can imagine, they may say "no" but, it or when they do, they'll do so with love. This is a rather good conversation. You have an absolutely fantastic channel there WhizQueen. Keep it up.
Came here for Mojola! Mehn, the online dating struggle is truly real. I tried it a bunch of times and it was just weird. Inspired to a video about my experience now :)
@@WhizQueen online dating is a waste of time. I have lived in Australia, UK and now Canada. It is purely about sex, some don't mind and all but if you want something serious online dating is crap. Meeting people through mutual contacts is still the best bet for any young person.
Hi, I just found ur channel tinight and I've watched some of ur videos and I must say ur smile is very contagious, ur contents are very inspiring, u remind me of my potentials and how far I could go in life. And yeah Abt online weddings like u said even my cousin married a picture Abt 4yrsago and it's even more these days since this pandemic started zoom weddings is now d order of d day.
That was an interesting session, you guys did an amazing job. You should probably invite a man to join for the second part to hear their thoughts as well, just a suggestion.
Firstly, I must admit your smile is heavenly beyond words can describe. It's just only infectious but, it has a way of resonating my heart in a special way. God bless you! 🙏
Love u ladies for your openness, do take good care,pray and God will guide your path. Covid 19 is on increase in Nigeria but I believe God will heal our land and world. Kisses to you.
Whiz queen is right cause such proxy weddings are popular in south east Nigeria among igbo people who have a greater percentage of their population in the diaspora
From my experience. I'm never going with the flow. Let him tell you what he wants. So u can hold him by his words or no words. These guys have no joy. Don't waste your time. Your energy. And all
I have a young Nigerian woman who contacted me after finding my music online. She actually phoned me today on WhatsApp and we talked for almost an hour. She is half my age. Is this normal? Should I trust that she has honest intentions?
I’d have a lot of questions and doubts if I’m being honest. Was it a video call? Why did she reach out? Does she reachout after hearing everyone’s music online? Where does she live? What’s she looking for? Are you sure the person you’re speaking to is who she really say she is? A lot of people have had success with online dating but more people have been scammed too🥹 I wish you the best tho
Destination weddings happen. I have seen a few before, just the same scenario you mentioned. One of the couples was in Nigeria and the other was in the US @Whizqueen
Any one can ask There is nothing wrong with that 😄 When a girl ask a guy if he's gonna be her boyfriend and the guy says NO it really hurts and the feeling is also the same if the girl says NO too So any one can ask though but due to the way we African's or Nigerian's thinks we always expect the guys to ask
On a nom" a guy should ask a gal out if he likes or loves her. A man should first take the lead. Thou if the guy is shy like me and the gal sense it she can ask by saying for how long this friend will take them. Or use another word to get the guy's attention. I enjoy this vlog. Welcome ladies.
Yes, I have seen couple get married, the bride was in Nigeria while the groom was in USA, they did the traditional marriage with picture. Please I need to connect with you on whatsapp.
I personally think from the connections we getting from each other on each date that reveal hw serious the relationship is been taken. Asking "will u be my girlfriend "it's a Lil bit ironic because we scare also to get a No from a woman, as many women want to be beg before they give their real position. So yeah going with the flow making more easier. Lol
As a single lady in this country, you have to be deliberate in your dating life. That is one thing i know. It's not like Naija that you can be sitting minding your business and a guy walks up to you and asks you out. It's not really like that here. People are really private and they like to respect another person's privacy. So if you are a lady in this position, in Canada, you would need to not just pray but go out on social events. You need to be open and deliberate about such things. If you can't, jejely go back to Naija for an extended holiday aka potential husband search'. Kidding but you kinda get my drift
I agree with you 100%. You have to be deliberate about dating here otherwise, you would just get used to been alone without knowing it. Going back to naija to find love comes with a lot of risks and fears sha
@@odunayoolatunbosun608 one of the risks is that you might easily get a hypocrite for a lover. They'll show you all sorts of fake love. Nigeria is a jungle and 97% of boys there are wolves in sheep's clothing especially whenever ever they realise a woman from a white man's country likes them.
Am new and glad to be here. Am a Nigerian. U are doing a great job ,I feel I should tell you that I need a honest babe to Mary. please kindly help me out. U ARE BLESSED
No skin pain if a girl come out to ask him if he want to be her boyfriend just like the tradition in Nigeria, making it the boys responsibility all the time is bad
I'm just watching this. I'm yet to land in Canada due to this pandemic. Can I have your email to chat you, Whizqueen or is it too late? I'm a Nigerian as well.
Yeah, I have seen the picture thing a lot. Lol, she got a new outfit?😂😂😂 I believe people can meet their significant other on dating platforms. I'm finally done watching💃. I enjoyed the video.
Am kind of person that always say that I will never ever date a man outside my rece(Nigeria and most be Igbo 🤦🏽♀️ ) because am lazy and others never get me attracted until the day I met my fiancee him on holiday and me working 😂😂 that day I forgot all I have been saying. Now when ever i remember how lazy i was before I laugh 🤣🤣🤣 because what I never wish to have is what's the best for me Is very necessary for me for a guy to ask me to be his girlfriend New subscribe over here all the way from Spain love your channel 👏🏾
Whizqueen, I'm a Nigerian based in Dubai, pls link me up with any good and God fearing lady out there for a serious relationship leading to marriage biko.
Wow. Isn't this Mojola that studied in Bowen???😳😳🤗 My regards to her. In case she wants to remember who I am? She can check out my channel with this same handle. Well done dear.🤗❤
@@WhizQueen I now do. Thanks. About the last question you asked on the video, I think it's important to set the tone for the relationship early rather than just going with the flow. One can end up in 'situationships'. But the question about who asks the other person out first is anyone's guess. Ladies now make the first move.
Please can You hook me up with a lady who is ready to settle down,am really serious and would appreciate it if you attend to my request with urgency. thanks
Yes o, I've seen them do traditional weddings online. But it's the kind where the couple is abroad and the family is in Nigeria so the families meet with the couple's pictures blown up.
The lady with green top has good command of English. I love her fluency. I wish I could speak like her.
I’m the one in green top. Thank you for your kind words. It means a lot 😊
@@WhizQueenI admire your spontaneous speaking skills... It was like they programmed what you were saying in your brain. Your name sounds familiar. You're an active member on nairaland?
WhizQueen hi dear .. pls I’ve sent u several messages on ur Instagram d.m and I’ve been awaiting ur kind response .. I have few questions for u pls
WhizQueen Am Mzslim4lah on Instagram 🙏
Girls; the guys pay full stop. Especially on the first date. There should be no fifty fifty. Also, it's good idea for the girl to ask if the guy if he would like to have her as a companion. Just follow your intuition. Generally speaking, guys are usually more receptive when you talk to them. Worse case scenario as you can imagine, they may say "no" but, it or when they do, they'll do so with love. This is a rather good conversation. You have an absolutely fantastic channel there WhizQueen. Keep it up.
Came here for Mojola! Mehn, the online dating struggle is truly real. I tried it a bunch of times and it was just weird. Inspired to a video about my experience now :)
It’s insane lol. Never had to using dating apps till I got here
@@WhizQueen online dating is a waste of time. I have lived in Australia, UK and now Canada. It is purely about sex, some don't mind and all but if you want something serious online dating is crap.
Meeting people through mutual contacts is still the best bet for any young person.
Frankly, you are a natural ,very intelligent and humorous. I’m subscribing.
Thanks for joining 😇
I agree with your friend. I think you shouldn't put so much information but leave it as a conversation piece.
The perspective of your room is bending my brain.
Hi, I just found ur channel tinight and I've watched some of ur videos and I must say ur smile is very contagious, ur contents are very inspiring, u remind me of my potentials and how far I could go in life. And yeah Abt online weddings like u said even my cousin married a picture Abt 4yrsago and it's even more these days since this pandemic started zoom weddings is now d order of d day.
That was an interesting session, you guys did an amazing job. You should probably invite a man to join for the second part to hear their thoughts as well, just a suggestion.
That’s a good suggestion. I should be able to get my male friends on board to do a discussion like this. Let’s see how it goes. Thank you!
How can i use eHarmony frm Nigeria pls?
Your video met my evening, it has been so boring staying indoor for the past 11days in SA. thumb ups.
Hehe thanks for joining. 🤗
You are right. My Aunt was based in Nigeria and her husband was based in Europe. The wedding was done without the husband.
Amazing I will be looking forward to part 2
Firstly, I must admit your smile is heavenly beyond words can describe. It's just only infectious but, it has a way of resonating my heart in a special way. God bless you! 🙏
Thank you 😊
How can I link up with you on Facebook, IG or whatsapp?
Good session ladies!
The guy should take the lead and ask!
Love u ladies for your openness, do take good care,pray and God will guide your path. Covid 19 is on increase in Nigeria but I believe God will heal our land and world. Kisses to you.
Netflix && chill or do those kinnda tings😂🤣this made my day
WOW.. what a small world. I know MOJOLA. Back at BOWEN UNI. My regards to her. First time watching your channel. Well done.
Oh really?! I’d tell her about you. Thanks for watching
Whiz queen is right cause such proxy weddings are popular in south east Nigeria among igbo people who have a greater percentage of their population in the diaspora
Well, you can get married online... They use digital signatures and sharing of vows is by clicking on I agree... So it exists.
Exactly! I’ve seen such before
From my experience. I'm never going with the flow. Let him tell you what he wants. So u can hold him by his words or no words. These guys have no joy. Don't waste your time. Your energy. And all
I’m telling you
Steve Harvey says if a man cant pay for the date he is not worth considering...
i love you dear WhizQueen. your smile is amazing
You're far too kind
Part 2 please! I enjoyed this topic and took notes with my pen and paper lol😂
Haha okay we would look into it
Nice video.... but did you remove the door to the room behind you? 😁 This topic must be serious O!...
I have seen people getting married to pictures, where their spouse is abroad
It’s actually a thing
I have a young Nigerian woman who contacted me after finding my music online. She actually phoned me today on WhatsApp and we talked for almost an hour. She is half my age. Is this normal?
Should I trust that she has honest intentions?
I’d have a lot of questions and doubts if I’m being honest. Was it a video call? Why did she reach out? Does she reachout after hearing everyone’s music online? Where does she live? What’s she looking for? Are you sure the person you’re speaking to is who she really say she is? A lot of people have had success with online dating but more people have been scammed too🥹
I wish you the best tho
Yes of cause there is online marriage ,you are right I do event back home and I have witness it b4 ,even Sanny Ade daughter did
Destination weddings happen. I have seen a few before, just the same scenario you mentioned. One of the couples was in Nigeria and the other was in the US @Whizqueen
Thank you for sharing your experience
Maybe you could look into setting up a Nigerian dating community/ app. I can see lots of Nigerian men and women craving for partners.
Any one can ask
There is nothing wrong with that 😄
When a girl ask a guy if he's gonna be her boyfriend and the guy says NO it really hurts and the feeling is also the same if the girl says NO too
So any one can ask though but due to the way we African's or Nigerian's thinks we always expect the guys to ask
part 2 please 😂
That your friend is a vibe lol
I agree with you. We always expect the guys to ask lol. Part 2 coming soon 😉
I have seen someone get married to the partner's photo, the guy was in America and was represented by the family, its quite funny.
On a nom" a guy should ask a gal out if he likes or loves her. A man should first take the lead. Thou if the guy is shy like me and the gal sense it she can ask by saying for how long this friend will take them. Or use another word to get the guy's attention. I enjoy this vlog. Welcome ladies.
Abeg I'm tired of this hole. Anyone that can get me over there for a repaid deal abeg let me know.
🤣😂🤣 bruh
Absolutely necessary to ask questions to define the relationship o before you find out you've just been dating yourself lol. Situationship of life.
I know right. You need to define what y’all are doing before you get trapped lol
Fopsy,add me up on Facebook with my name :Martin iyke,let's talk better.
Is your friend looking for love, tell her it is right here waiting for her in Saskatchewan o! Waiting arms out! hahahaha
Yes, I have seen couple get married, the bride was in Nigeria while the groom was in USA, they did the traditional marriage with picture. Please I need to connect with you on whatsapp.
Awon omo mi o Fe looseguard lol. E wa pa olorun. Just take it slowly 🤣. Come to chicken and spicy for ikeja. U go pay ni.
I personally think from the connections we getting from each other on each date that reveal hw serious the relationship is been taken. Asking "will u be my girlfriend "it's a Lil bit ironic because we scare also to get a No from a woman, as many women want to be beg before they give their real position. So yeah going with the flow making more easier. Lol
how long did your brother and wife date before getting married & is she nigerian as well ?.. that is so sweet..
She’s not kidding ... people get married in the absence of their significant other.. the picture thing is common too
Don't mind her lol. She's old school
its called a proxy wedding....where either one or non of the couple is not physically present
yess part 2
As a single lady in this country, you have to be deliberate in your dating life. That is one thing i know. It's not like Naija that you can be sitting minding your business and a guy walks up to you and asks you out. It's not really like that here. People are really private and they like to respect another person's privacy. So if you are a lady in this position, in Canada, you would need to not just pray but go out on social events. You need to be open and deliberate about such things. If you can't, jejely go back to Naija for an extended holiday aka potential husband search'. Kidding but you kinda get my drift
I agree with you 100%. You have to be deliberate about dating here otherwise, you would just get used to been alone without knowing it. Going back to naija to find love comes with a lot of risks and fears sha
@@WhizQueen what are the risks?
@@WhizQueen There is the aspect of perspective with Nigerian men and women regarding dating and marriage
You're making much sense..
@@odunayoolatunbosun608 one of the risks is that you might easily get a hypocrite for a lover. They'll show you all sorts of fake love. Nigeria is a jungle and 97% of boys there are wolves in sheep's clothing especially whenever ever they realise a woman from a white man's country likes them.
Am new and glad to be here. Am a Nigerian. U are doing a great job ,I feel I should tell you that I need a honest babe to Mary. please kindly help me out. U ARE BLESSED
I want to date Canadian citizen from Nigeria, how should I go about it?
lol Goodluck with that
Lol. Nobody is paying for any dates. Some of us are used to splitting the bill.
Good video guys
Thank you 😊
Please if you can connect me with any of your friends, I will be very grateful
I am not the “go with the flow” kinda lady. If You want me, you have to “expressly” say it
it's the best.
Netflix and Chill lol see the smirk on your friends face 😂🤣
Lmao we’re keeping it PG 13 😉
Hello lady in green, my name is Adrian was born in Nigeria now living in Trinidad and Tobago, please can we talk? How my I get your contact,
No skin pain if a girl come out to ask him if he want to be her boyfriend just like the tradition in Nigeria, making it the boys responsibility all the time is bad
Ok kindly get connected
Yeah there is Picture wedding. Nice video.
What are the names of those dating sites?
bumble, hinge, tinder
Great advice
I'm just watching this.
I'm yet to land in Canada due to this pandemic. Can I have your email to chat you, Whizqueen or is it too late? I'm a Nigerian as well.
Amazing guys,,,,,,
Yeah, I have seen the picture thing a lot.
Lol, she got a new outfit?😂😂😂 I believe people can meet their significant other on dating platforms.
I'm finally done watching💃. I enjoyed the video.
Don’t mind my friend, she’s still living in the 90’s lol
Please which agent helped you?
I’m my own agent
Yeaaa...if the guy is not asking then! What exactly are we?
If not let's continue having dates hahahaha
You have to define the relationship
interesting Topic. Please part 2.
Hehe okay we would. I’d bring two other people
What are we? We are nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 we need to know
Nice one
Enjoy your video.
Nice posted
This is beautiful. Thanks for your openness and sharing your experience
Thanks fam
The famous what are we question. LOL...every naija guy can relate. Nice video though.
Ofcos we gatto clarify
Its necessary to ask,
Gbam!
WhizQueen I love you gal,
Wow. So if a lady wants us to split the Bill's, I'll take it she's not so interested. Well, me I dun marry sha. Great video!
Lol not really. That’s not the situation most times but I’d definitely not want a guy to pay my bill if I don’t intend seeing him again.
It’s actually true people getting married online
Am kind of person that always say that I will never ever date a man outside my rece(Nigeria and most be Igbo 🤦🏽♀️ ) because am lazy and others never get me attracted until the day I met my fiancee him on holiday and me working 😂😂 that day I forgot all I have been saying.
Now when ever i remember how lazy i was before I laugh 🤣🤣🤣 because what I never wish to have is what's the best for me
Is very necessary for me for a guy to ask me to be his girlfriend
New subscribe over here all the way from Spain love your channel 👏🏾
Thank you so much for joining! Where is your fiancee from tho? I'm just curious 😂😂
@@WhizQueen You are welcome
He is from England
Wow that’s lovely. I’m glad you didn’t miss him. Congrats on finding love ❤️
Am new here, I really appreciate ur advice on diz issues much love dear bt for me am single moda of one and am lukin 4 Godfearin man tnks
You found one yet?
@@odunayoolatunbosun608 No have not see yet
@@queenface9169 kindly send a message to my mail diodolce@outlook.com. Kind regards!
@@odunayoolatunbosun608 Alright
Yes. I'm newbie here,but I'm looking for a man is a God-fearing Man.
What's your location?
I'm in China, can I have your contact
Hello dear I can help you with this request
From nairaland
Do a part 2
Yes. Igbo people get married to their husbands representatives
Tell her oo! She’s sleeping
Whizqueen, I'm a Nigerian based in Dubai, pls link me up with any good and God fearing lady out there for a serious relationship leading to marriage biko.
Use dating apps or check churches
@@WhizQueen oh c'mon i saw these places before i came to u.I mean someone in canada.
@@WhizQueen This your response weird sha.. 😎
@@martiniyke2356 Have you found someone?
Interesting
Yes
Have seen that happen before.
❤
Wow. Isn't this Mojola that studied in Bowen???😳😳🤗
My regards to her.
In case she wants to remember who I am? She can check out my channel with this same handle.
Well done dear.🤗❤
yesss she is. she knows you too
@@WhizQueen awww. My regards to her. Been soooooo long.
U ladies have missed naija guys so badly... Naija guys over pampered u. Now eat yr seed
Not the flow. Very necessary for him to ask. My own opinion
Gbam
That's great girls but I need a doctor lady to marry oh connect me am living in Dubai
Split the bill if you don't like the guy.... Interesting
If you like the guy and he pays, y’all would probably go out again and you get the chance to pay. You get?!
@@WhizQueen I now do. Thanks.
About the last question you asked on the video, I think it's important to set the tone for the relationship early rather than just going with the flow. One can end up in 'situationships'.
But the question about who asks the other person out first is anyone's guess. Ladies now make the first move.
Hi
Please I need a partner
Try dating apps or community groups
Nice. Wld like to get a chat with u though
I like your friend, let's connect
Nigerian women shakara too much ooo😁
People got married through Zoom some weeks ago😂
I wish to attend one of those Zoom weddings 👰
This one na comedy 😀
You deleted my comment
I didn’t delet nothing. Look around!
I’m new.
Thanks for joining. Don’t forget to subscribe 😊
🥰🇯🇲🇨🇦
i have seen "picture weddings" too o in Nigeria
Thank you oo! She was arguing with me
I like this content and i have sent you a request on your Instagram for further discussion.
Please can You hook me up with a lady who is ready to settle down,am really serious and would appreciate it if you attend to my request with urgency. thanks
Okay no problem
@@WhizQueen thanks for the quick reply and I will be waiting for you
I'm available. Are you abroad
@@kylieking8163 who are you
@@gaspmedia9135 my name is Esther. Kylie is my fake name. Lol Are you Nigerian?
From nairalNd
Same. her nairaland thread is complete bs
@@marvihara7279 I disagree. It's not. Just be objective. It's her opinion
But you came here regardless 😉😅
@@marvihara7279 it's not!