There Is No Love In Canada

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  • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
    @WazirinJosnEnvirons 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I am an older Nigerian man, now back in Nigeria after my sojourn in Canada. I would advise you younger ladies to start to ask yourself what the 'men' you want, WANT? And if you have it. Because now you have choice, 10 years goes fast in Canada! After awhile you will no longer have the choice and life makes the choice for you. Especially in a location that has new girls entering the same market each month. Casual dating is simply 'mileage' the more your miles the less chances of receiving marriage offer. In 15 years abroad I noticed less than 10% of the cohort of women I arrived with ever got married..theyjust became baby mama. Thats a serious price to pay for steady light and good road.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Interesting perspective, thank you for sharing 👍🏿

    • @lilynwoke2128
      @lilynwoke2128 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello big bros u said it all,thanks for your advice 👏

    • @jamworldmusic
      @jamworldmusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Real talk never missed a point 1K💯

  • @TheWatcherAbove
    @TheWatcherAbove ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The problem is that Canada is full of left leaning people, with modern mental makeup. So this means they believe in common tenets of feminism. You will not be approached because most men feel they are harrassing you. Most men have also been feminized. So they have lost that male urge to mate and form bonds with viable females.
    On the other hand, the females have been masculinized. So they have become less feminine and more masculine...this is unattractive to most traditional men.
    So if you are a babe in Canada, fresh from Africa, please do not embrace the toxic modern feminine mindset. Be fit, feminine, agreable and that other word that modern feminists hate - submissive.
    You will find men who will want to marry you asap if you keep the traditional values you learnt from Africa.

  • @adeyanjuadebiyi337
    @adeyanjuadebiyi337 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Most people in Canada are in love with their job rather than be in love with one another.

  • @ajipadeolayemi9776
    @ajipadeolayemi9776 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The best way to find love is to go back home and don’t show your wealth to the person u meet back home. submissive and respectful to the guy, if the guy can respect people around him and take care of his parents and friends definitely he will show you the same love. U will find true love that will lead to marriage

    • @chudiksc
      @chudiksc ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometime they feel that men at home will not be real to them

    • @nkwojoseph2456
      @nkwojoseph2456 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chudiksc then they should remain single, because back home they’ll have options.

    • @abrahamniilartey6492
      @abrahamniilartey6492 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will be easier for a man to do as you are suggesting than a woman would. Hypergamy is their nature.

  • @4ceeflower836
    @4ceeflower836 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lovely video, I liked having several women sharing their experiences. It's scary to see how long some girls have been single but hopeful to see that 2 are in a relationship
    I left Toronto and moved back to France after 4 years. What I'd say in reaction to this discussion:
    - Dating apps are extremely stressful but since Canadians don't approach no more it's hard to avoid them...
    - It's good to have standards but I've noticed that men don't want to spend a lot of money on dates. So be open to walk/coffee dates
    - It's good to focus on yourself and God but you also have to go out and take actions to meet someone
    - I'm Congolese and I fubd that there's a great Naija community, I came across lots of Naija men, idk how you girls don't see them o lol

  • @bolajokoowosho
    @bolajokoowosho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "I'll rather be single than be stressed"
    No because that is THE energy!

  • @tiffaniterris2886
    @tiffaniterris2886 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Moving to Canada and seeking a Nigerian boyfriend would be like a Canadian moving to Nigeria and seeking a Canadian partner. You're limiting yourself to an extremely small pool of options.

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hmm, I don't think that's a fair comparison as there are far more Nigerian immigrants in Canada than Canadian immigrants in Nigeria lol. The size of the Nigerian community in Canada is actually shocking, one just has to look in the right places

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ⭕I spent almost 5 years in Canada
    ✔️I'm a 32 y.o Congolese woman born and raised in France, arrived in Toronto in 2019, moved back to Paris in September 2023 for that reason.
    ✔️I tried everything: online dating, church, single events, going out alone, going out with friends.. I didn't find my man.
    ✔️And it's not just me: I met ppl who are single for 5/10/15 years! And I know 5 friends who are leaving too
    ✔️And it's not just Toronto: friends told me it's even worse in Ottawa and Calgary
    ⭕In my opinion, issues are:
    ✔️Guys don't approach to avoid being accused of sexual harassment (Canada is very feminist, it's up to the woman to make the 1st move or say very clearly that she is OK to be approached)
    ✔️People are extremely focused on/overwhelmed by their career, so they don't necessarily have/take time to go out
    ✔️Dating apps are most often used for one-night stands
    ✔️People don't necessarily want to settle down
    I won't say it's impossible in Canada, but most people meet in their home country

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You will also notice that a lot of girls feel lucky to have found someone. And when they do, they hold on to that person regardless of the toxicity. I remember a co worker said she could not believe i had no boyfriend because I was always busy doing things, fun things like travelling, always going to Toronto etc. Meanwhile she was in a very toxic relationship. She ended up breaking up with her boyfriend of 3 years a week after their engagement. It's almost as if men are fewer than women in Canada.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow, that's actually crazy! I can't imagine breaking up a week after getting engaged, it takes a lot of strength to be able to do that

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AyanfeAyeni But that's the thing. Some of these ladies are willing to hold on to these men regardless of the toxicity. It's almost like a national treasure to be in a relationship. If you hang around white girls especially in the work space, they talk about their boyfriends as if they were gold. It's all they talk about.

    • @gentlegab353
      @gentlegab353 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Ayenfe

  • @kemiladipo5091
    @kemiladipo5091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Some guys complain that Nigerian ladies are too picky and expect too much. They find it easier dealing with foreigners sadly. They're many Nigerian guys wishing to marry Naija babes but things are not working out. Let's hear from them too.

  • @oluwafolahanmi
    @oluwafolahanmi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video was so nice... it did not even feel like 17 minutes. Good Job👍👍

  • @jenniiking
    @jenniiking ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay okay, this is interesting 😂
    First time in your channel and i love it already 🤍

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy that you found me 🤭

  • @kayycharm5532
    @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so honest..... As an older man I would like to talk to you about the reasons why..... It was nice of you to bring this topic out...... There are others who have been speaking out on TH-cam and I think this is the right time to bring this out...

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Canadian guy here. If you're female you likely live in a big city, most good Canadian guys like more natural surroundings so they tend to not live in big cities, but more on the outskirts an hour or two away on a few acres of forested and. My stats, multimillionaire, kickboxer, just shy of 6', looking to get married, but outside of the major cities the male-female ratio is skewed massively, it's 10 guys for every one woman, and the women out here end up with guys they could never get in a big city. Whenever I go into the big cities, my dating app goes nuts with hundreds of lovely single women. I suspect the ratio of women to men in the big cities in Canada is probably skewed heavily in mens favours, I guess 3 woman for every one man. Also, a lot of the guys in the big cities are not nice and very entitled. If you're in a big city, expand the dating app to 200 km range, because a lot of top shelf guys are not in Toronto, we are an hour or two away with a nice house in the forest trying to find a decent woman. The problem is Toronto is so difficult to get in and out of, so most people won't date more than 25 km away. Honestly as a guy giving my impartial advice, when I walk through Toronto and see the crop of guys you all have to date, I shake my head. If you're into metrosexual men that act like divas enjoy.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very interesting insights, thanks for sharing!

  • @tantosworld5403
    @tantosworld5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoyed filming this with you and also watching it. you are amazing ayanfe

  • @vybefrequency
    @vybefrequency 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just watched this video and I love it 😁.
    Well I think the issue with guys approaching girls is that most guys place girls in Canada on a high pedestal, so they feel any girl you approach might snub you or not want to talk to you.
    If you can make same video with guys to create a balance would be nice😌

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great point! I'm working on the male version

    • @princeezikpeanyanso6449
      @princeezikpeanyanso6449 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni I’m in love with you sweetheart

  • @kayycharm5532
    @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You girls are so real and honest... I know some girls have been abroad more than 6yrs and no single man has said how are you........ Nigerian men would rather go home to go and marry or date...... Yoruba.. Girls would make good wives abroad than any other tribe.. Do not say I did not tell you.....

    • @irishinjeel2174
      @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว

      ‘Yoruba Girls Would Make Good Wives Abroad Than Any Other Tribe ‘. Hmm nice topic for a TH-camr 😮😊

  • @olamidepeters5905
    @olamidepeters5905 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this video! Please make another video but this time let’s hear Nigerian guys perspective on finding love in Canada

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm glad you love it! I'm actually working on a video where guys can share their perspectives.

    • @queennmo
      @queennmo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes please❤

  • @isabelevuy
    @isabelevuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love this video , I just moved here and my hope finding someone went down haha, anyways I will love to see a part 2

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol don't give up, it is still possible to find love here. I'm trying to work on a part 2

    • @odara6307
      @odara6307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      shawty don't give up, we are here, we plenty die🤣

    • @efiuvwereogaga
      @efiuvwereogaga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, same here. Where in Canada are you?

    • @kayycharm5532
      @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Avoid feminism...... Nigerian men think that the girls change as soon as they come over to Canada

    • @allnaturalsarah7006
      @allnaturalsarah7006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@odara6307 me sef go soon come. Be like say na to just start relationship for Nigeria first o. Lol

  • @dailydollarmaker1916
    @dailydollarmaker1916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well, for me I just feel the girls in Canada are too picky, like how do they want to find love when they aren’t even open to being friends. And I noticed something about Nigerian girls in Canada, they don’t really texts on ig.. likeeeeeee and they want to find love so easily? Nah you have to be open to new friends. You might be lucky, to find a friend whom is relocating to Canada, and then things can work out for there, but most of them are too picky. And most of them don’t reply dm’s because we are still in Nigeria, that’s so sad 😞

  • @gbengaoyede2877
    @gbengaoyede2877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like the "never say never" girl, lol.
    U pple should not give up on long distance relationship oo, u never can tell.

  • @dianamachado2415
    @dianamachado2415 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been watching so many videos today on my page about dating in Canada, I'm very concerned about it. I've been thinking about spending a journey in Canada, but these issues about finding love scare me at all, anyway, but I really loved to know what you think about.❤🎉

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't let that scare you! It might take time but if you're intentional and determined you'll eventually find something

  • @PlasticMancityFan
    @PlasticMancityFan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I totally relate to you honestly
    It’s not been easy tbh

  • @AmeenMoyosore
    @AmeenMoyosore ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I live in Ontario Canada and trust me men aren’t the issue. Most Nigerian ladies frown so much you’d think they’re about to curse you out when approaching them. Anyways if you live in Ontario and need new friends I’m open 🤍

  • @holaroftexas
    @holaroftexas ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just came across your channel and I must tell you you are really doing a good job 👏 you just got a sub from me. Nice one sis 🎉

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you and welcome to the family ❤️❤️

    • @holaroftexas
      @holaroftexas ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni you are welcome. Tell Kanyin someone is looking for her.

  • @orubek355
    @orubek355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for the subtitles.

  • @naadromooo
    @naadromooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really do enjoy your videos alot ❤️. And I think it's a matter of time you're still new to Canada and you're yet to know people so prolly by next year you'll find love😂❤️.
    Much love Ayanfe❤️💜

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol thank you ❤️

  • @jenniiking
    @jenniiking ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is me watching this video 1 year after (2023) Have you found LOVE?

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol omo that's a conversation for another video

  • @orubek355
    @orubek355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The girl in red is funny. Thanks for the video ladies. Good luck there!

  • @CharlesAnigbogu-pz9bo
    @CharlesAnigbogu-pz9bo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The truth about living abroad as an Adult two things are involved if care is not taken Late marriage or forever Single...Most Ladies are looking for someone's son to take care of their bills whereby its two ways things

  • @Apinkies
    @Apinkies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You did a good job editing this

  • @openbob6656
    @openbob6656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    in canada people don't approach in person ever. so only way to meet someone is online. and its not taboo to meet and marry with someone from online dating. its normal here

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, I have come to realise that

    • @tiffaniterris2886
      @tiffaniterris2886 ปีที่แล้ว

      People approach in person all the time, you just have to know how to do it.

    • @openbob6656
      @openbob6656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tiffaniterris2886 no man. you can get charged for harassment if you do that and go to jail. its safer to do it online

  • @flyman2608
    @flyman2608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ya there is absolutely no love in Canada. Even worse in Ottawa. That's why I went back to Nigeria to go pick a wife. Canada won't stress me Abeg. This country called Canada is really something else. Alot of my Nigerian female friends are still single and searching. It really pains me 😦. I was in their shoes. But I vexed and wised up. Don't limit yourself. Be open to Long distance relationship. You may have to go back home to Nigeria to find someone.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We will all be fine in the end 😔

    • @irishinjeel2174
      @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you @josiah ..but why couldn’t you at least pick one of your Naija babes over there in Canada ? Why return to Nigeria to pick one

    • @oasisofficial9504
      @oasisofficial9504 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@irishinjeel2174because most Nigerian ladies in Canada form a lot

    • @abrahamniilartey6492
      @abrahamniilartey6492 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@irishinjeel2174 men go where they are received well, accepted and respected.

  • @favourfalola8755
    @favourfalola8755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this video walia 😂😂😂 I just moved in Toronto beloved, hearing this !
    Last last In God we trust.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow! God will help us all o

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow! God will help us all o

    • @lilynwoke2128
      @lilynwoke2128 ปีที่แล้ว

      God is with you

    • @irishinjeel2174
      @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว

      In Trust We God o 😮

  • @bolajokoowosho
    @bolajokoowosho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    definitely enjoyed this video!!!!

  • @aspproduction410
    @aspproduction410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    what i learnt from the video is to stay single there is no love anywhere 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @annetteeweme8904
    @annetteeweme8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this was so good!

  • @goodfridayreact
    @goodfridayreact 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's a good video. I enjoyed it👍

  • @Apinkies
    @Apinkies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yess Tanto!!!!!!

  • @olami7557
    @olami7557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There’s love in Canada, y’all just looking for it in wrong places.
    🤭🤭

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please show us the right places to search 😂

    • @sharonkipruto6340
      @sharonkipruto6340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni you only want Nigerian men, that's the problem

    • @sharonkipruto6340
      @sharonkipruto6340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AyanfeAyeni you should import Nigerian men for yourselves 😊

    • @Tilectual
      @Tilectual ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni 😂😂

    • @amazingtouch1322
      @amazingtouch1322 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni i sincerely believe there's love in that country. The problem is some times people see love and don't recognize it, the meet love and refuse to receive it, they get love and devalue it. So they miss it all. I speak as an adult man that has been through stuff.
      There's love everywhere in this world.

  • @femiosinaike586
    @femiosinaike586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice watch ayanfe. Good video.

  • @b4m455
    @b4m455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    would love to hear stuff from guys too btw🤞🏾

  • @dideoluwaogunbode6762
    @dideoluwaogunbode6762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayanfe has cooked lemme come and enjoy 🥳🥳

  • @ventdesiles5979
    @ventdesiles5979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe you, beautiful sisters, should consider moving to the US, specially in Florida 'cause there's plenty of love in America despite all the negativity. Now, if you limit yourself to one specific ethnicity, that's a problem. I am a native of Haiti 🇭🇹 and I wouldn't mind dating a sister from anywhere in Africa no matter what her background is, as long as she's educated, curvy(that's the most), respectful and supportive.

    • @ventdesiles5979
      @ventdesiles5979 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been living here in America for a very long time and been trying to find a curvy Ghanaian or Nigerian girl for the longest in Miami, they are nowhere to be found. I don't want to move to Georgia or Texas to find one so, I finally 😂washed my hands.

  • @bolajokoowosho
    @bolajokoowosho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the way they laughed after the "happy"😂

  • @kayrourke290
    @kayrourke290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just moved to Canada and the men are so unresponsive, not only talking about romantic interest, even just trying to be friends with men out here...no enthusiasm

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm, I totally agree but I can't blame them.

  • @irishinjeel2174
    @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว

    I suggest to our girls ;
    Be open minded and stop being over selective ..time flies ...

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, time flies but it is better to take your time and find someone that you're compatible with than lower your standards and settle for less. Forever is a long time.

  • @kanyinsolaayeni9713
    @kanyinsolaayeni9713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re so talented ☺️

  • @reallogan
    @reallogan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I came to canada last month and its a lonly city.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's always lonely at first but you'll find your people eventually

  • @relaxingmind6753
    @relaxingmind6753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People should remain single forever

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂that does not sound like a good plan

  • @Limitlesserica
    @Limitlesserica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No love for you in Canada, no love for me in Nigeria. We're good😭😂

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No love anywhere o 😂😂

  • @oluwatomi.o
    @oluwatomi.o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice

  • @michaelogunnaike5433
    @michaelogunnaike5433 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job 👍🏾 if after 7years no love found nah to come to Nigeria and marry then abi

  • @Quintaline
    @Quintaline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i think is because your end goal is marriage, and you all want just Nigerian men. There are many other Africans men in Canada looking for love as well. Secondly I believe you all had boyfriends before leaving Nigeria. what happened to them.

    • @Gagzicool
      @Gagzicool 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lolzzzz.....as soon as they leave Muritala Mohammed airport , that boyfriend is dumped

    • @irishinjeel2174
      @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol .... while I was still in Nigeria.. I remember about 3times my female friends relocated to USA, Uk and we communicated just once and they stoped replying texts and that was the end .

  • @still.sophieee
    @still.sophieee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this🤍✨

  • @kayycharm5532
    @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I can chat with you girls to fully explain the reason to you girls from a Nigerian man's perspective........

  • @bolajokoowosho
    @bolajokoowosho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Show them pepper pro max please!

  • @ilytenderlyn4620
    @ilytenderlyn4620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ayanfe, why did you make that face at 09:24? 😂😂

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought nobody noticed 🤣. Hmm e get why sha 😂

  • @kayclefbeatz3150
    @kayclefbeatz3150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Na to carry babe from Nigeria ooo😂😂

  • @favoursalami8740
    @favoursalami8740 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dear we’re living the same life, Ottawa is even worse than Toronto # focusingonmyself 😭

    • @efemenagift8127
      @efemenagift8127 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you in ottawa?

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      we will all be fine in the end o 😭😭😭

    • @kayycharm5532
      @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The main issue is Nigerian men do not like feminism....... And being exposed to very beautiful girls abroad... Now makes Nigerian girls second choice

  • @odara6307
    @odara6307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hmmm👏🏻👏🏻

  • @queenrita7776
    @queenrita7776 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is very interesting 😌🙌😁

  • @HealedandWinning
    @HealedandWinning 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me that want to japa so that i will marry a non Nigerian that has been my childhood dream. I no too get stsndard. If we are good we move

  • @akinsikuabiodun6602
    @akinsikuabiodun6602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful one 👍

  • @princeezikpeanyanso6449
    @princeezikpeanyanso6449 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @benjaminayeni4208
    @benjaminayeni4208 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Go Girl 👏👏

  • @warpath7985
    @warpath7985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ok I don't understand. You've lived in Nigeria all your life and didn't find love, then you moved to a new country, that happens to be be one of, if not the most multicultural countries in the world and are shocked you haven't found "love" yet in less than a year?? Lol, seriously? You may need to open you criteria and look beyond dating someone Nigerian or even black. As you've noticed, blacks in Canada is a small minority. Even that may be difficult as just like you guys, many aren't willing to date out of their race or culture.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing 👍🏿. Quick correction though, the black community in Canada is a minority group but not a small one; it is actually the third-largest minority group in Canada😏. Secondly, I'm not really looking for love 😊.

    • @sharonkipruto6340
      @sharonkipruto6340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @tiffaniterris2886
      @tiffaniterris2886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AyanfeAyeni - Sorry, but it isn't, it's 3% and almost exclusively in Toronto and Montreal. White 75%, Asian 15%, First Nations 6%, Black 3%, everything else 1%.

  • @priscilliamaiyeko3626
    @priscilliamaiyeko3626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @PreciousPerrySolomon
    @PreciousPerrySolomon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad to know I am not alone 😂

  • @orubek355
    @orubek355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For sure you need the therapist after dating apps 😂

  • @Tommy.o
    @Tommy.o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🇳🇬😭 y'all haven't found me thats why

  • @Danii-YelleGlow
    @Danii-YelleGlow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙂

  • @demolabada3958
    @demolabada3958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayanfeee💗💗💗💗

  • @morgancollins7179
    @morgancollins7179 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can we meet single ladys in Canada from Nigeria Yoruba's in short please

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I don't know if I can help you with that

  • @abuubakarmaxamed4630
    @abuubakarmaxamed4630 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤iliket and enjoyed bat

  • @kanyinsolaayeni9713
    @kanyinsolaayeni9713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There’s no love dear 😔

  • @orubek355
    @orubek355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't understand why men in Nigeria can deal with rejection but once they move in Canada they can't 😂

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really don't know 😂

    • @irishinjeel2174
      @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s because of the cold I think 🙄

  • @withlovewumi
    @withlovewumi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was enlightening but I would’ve loved to see it from a male’s perspective as well.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, and I'm working on that

    • @agtyu
      @agtyu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni Are there male version of the video already?

  • @daliaa5294
    @daliaa5294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think you ladies are limiting your opportunities. There is not a lot of Nigerian men in Canada. I find that Nigerian men there like the white ladies. Please open yourself to other races

  • @무희-i8r
    @무희-i8r ปีที่แล้ว

    한국놀러오세요 친구들 환영합니다 아파트오빠살아요 환영합니다 초대합니다 한국오세요

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว

      북한이나 남한

    • @무희-i8r
      @무희-i8r ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni 남한코리아

  • @ab.roberts
    @ab.roberts ปีที่แล้ว

    Fr you bashing Nigerian guys.. 💀😂

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว

      well, they deserve it lol 😂

  • @BalogunTobi42
    @BalogunTobi42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men are not born liars 🙄

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol 😂

    • @irishinjeel2174
      @irishinjeel2174 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just Dey look d girl mouth wen she dey say ‘ men are born liars ‘ ‘show dem pepper’ like seyy Na pepper soup she go Canada go lick 👅 Lol😅

  • @bigdeal_ify
    @bigdeal_ify ปีที่แล้ว

    agree, video was completely pointless.!

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  ปีที่แล้ว

      My video was completely pointless?

    • @bigdeal_ify
      @bigdeal_ify ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni lol, apologies! (u said so yourself), no disrespect to all d beautiful ladies but u gave us no hope... I know its harder for girls to find someone serious, considering that guys just want & do what they do..but I am sure they all have had some good experiences with guys over here in Canada,its can't be all negative, maybe do a video about same... just subscribed....xoxo

  • @rubbyo2733
    @rubbyo2733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If there is no love in Canada then move out to a different country.

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      WIll you pay for my ticket and cover all relocation costs 😅

    • @rubbyo2733
      @rubbyo2733 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AyanfeAyeni Jokes apart I will definitely invite you to the Uk make arrangements for ur flying tickets trust me

  • @queenrita7776
    @queenrita7776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She said I think 😂😂😂😂💔@bolanle

  • @kayycharm5532
    @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The girl on black shirt or sleeve.... I will like to talk to you about this topic...... What's your Instagram..... This is not only in Canada but in the uk... USA and Europe

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not sure which one of us you're referring to but everyone's Instagram link is in the description box

  • @kayycharm5532
    @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls what's your Instagram?

    • @AyanfeAyeni
      @AyanfeAyeni  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my Instagram is @ayanfe_ayeni

    • @kayycharm5532
      @kayycharm5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AyanfeAyeni great... I will continue the conversation with you there.....