That's the life of a Chosen One. We were never meant to fit in. Just like my fave Dr. Suess quote!! "Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” 💯👑🌟🤩🙏🏼
Another lovely mindful vlog ❤ it was a relief when I made peace with not fitting in. Thankfully, I'm comfortable in my own skin and I love my cosy little home. So I never feel like I'm missing out.
@@AfricancoolChic agree with you! It’s not until you accept it and find comfort in it that you realise you don’t want to be part of what is going on out there!
I never fit in either. Not even with my family. My Mum n I were buddies tho. But she n Dad ( WW2 Gen) passed on 30 years ago. I live alone with my cat and I enjoy the peace. Single Mum as well. Kids are grown. Blessed to be a Gramma now & my Grandbaby & I are very close. Lives several states away tho. I’ll move there as soon as I can .
Thank you for sharing this really means a lot to me I'm also one of those people who likes to be alone and suffers from social anxiety and seeing this vlog really helps and calms my mind shows me that we are truly special people and that I should see my light as my strength
Another beautiful video: I love to watch your routine. Your puppies are TOO FUNNY. And they're so fond of you: super sweet ❤ Your feeling of not fitting when you were at high school was because of you not feeling enough pretty/cool/funny/etc. or because you found uninteresting your school mates and/or you didn't feel an affinity with them? Thanks for sharing your life with us. I send you a big hug, positive thoughts and a sea of affection.
I’m happy I have found you. I’m older 57 always thinking there is something wrong. I am still struggling to accept myself. I’m glad I am not alone in how I am.
@@natashinkabinka8612 I’m glad you found me as well 🖤🙌 self acceptance and being ok with being different and not fitting in is a journey in itself. There’s nothing wrong with you. Sometimes people are meant to stand alone and not fit in.
Never felt like I fit in either, especially in my family. Now, I live in a small cottage in the mountains, surrounded by my neighbor's cows and loving it.
I've never met ( in a sense) another person who had no childhood memories...it's just a bizarre void and my teenage years are exactly like yours....I too am a single Mom (at 36 years old). My son is finishing university, so it's me and our two girl kitties... Thank you endlessly for this video, and your light 💜
@@douxchats2868 I swear I thought I was the only one that had no memories. I had no massive trauma I just blocked out everything for whatever reason when I was younger. I am grateful for your light and you taking the time to write on here means a lot 🖤
i have felt for all of my life that i just don't fit in, it used to bother me.....A LOT, but now i really actually quite prefer it that way, people really bore me, the monotony of basic conversation, the standardised routines and the general opinions of the majority is nowadays something i want to be so far detached from that if it means being alone most of the time i have absolutely made peace with that and have come to treasure being alone and value it higher than most other things in life.
Well said kween! - may I add: "Eagles fly alone - pigeons flock together"!...Protect your light, and don't let anyone cast there shadow on it, you were meant to shine
Loneliness has always puzzled me and it was a great relief to learn about being an INFJ, and the fact that loneliness is something every INFJ seems to be struggling with. But for me it is not as simple as getting out there and find some friends; to me friendship is coming with a deep sense of purpose like; this person is showing up right now in my life because there is spiritual reason for it, we need each other right now, to learn something or do something, and when the purpose is gone so is the relationship. And I have learned so much deep fundanmental things about life I could not have learned being surrounded by a group of daily interacting and supporting friends, that is a totally different planet to live on. And I am reminded about this now and then when I have a sudden breakthrough, an insight where I realize I had to be alone in order to learn this; there is no other way. But this is just a perspective. I am constantly looking for a soulmate. And I do have friends but, well you know what I mean... By the way you have a such a beatiful laughter.
@@martinnilsson-om6gw there is so much truth to that, every situation and person comes into your life for a reason, it’s either a lesson or a blessing. And not everyone will stay in your life forever, people come and go likes waves of seasons. Thank you for sharing this 🖤
You are not alone! Like you, I never have fit in with these "modern" times. I have always loved my parent's generation..."The Greatest Generation"...sure, that era was not "perfect" none were or are, however the culture, mannerisms, autos, dress, and most of all MUSIC was great...makes these times a "congloperation" of cheesy cheapness and noise! Oh, don't forget the cash cow (for a few) A.I. destroying in person culture! I'm thankful I grew up in the early 40s-late 50s period, and had a fine childhood! I'm 81. San Francisco, my home town, was the crown jewel of the west then...pretty sick today! Man is always chasing the "Future"...which is worst than the past he is always trying to put behind him!! My home is my ticket to the older things I treasure: the house is a 1919 California Bungalow, furnished in 1920s-40s furnishings, radios and phonographs on which I play many of the 2000 78 records I have collected...and on the lighter side, my frog figurine collection keeps me company...somewhat like you canine buddies! However, they just need a loving dusting...no feeding! I never married, as I'm sure you detected that from my short history!
@@larryboysen5911 you had me at your 1919 home and furnishings I wanna see a house tour on your channel that sounds like a step back in time which would be soooo incredible!
@@the_loner_diaries Hi, I'd love to give you a tour, however, I have no smart phone or digital camera equipment...true to my old fashioned style, I still shoot 35 mm film...yep...I still can get it at my local Walgreens! I do have a couple of buddies who have smart phones...I will see if I can enlist one to take some snapshots of the abode and send them to you.
@@larryboysen5911 Larry I love that you don’t have a phone ☎️ absolute take my hat off to you. I have started taking Polaroid pictures as memories to put in a book as they are more meaningful than photos taken on your phone. Most people are present in the moment these days they are too busy trying to take pictures for a memory than be in the memory.
@@the_loner_diaries Yes...I treasure the family photos my late mom and one of my uncles took...I hate to sound like a "still star" but I have phots from baby hood forward, plus neat shots of mom and dad: their marriage photos, young years and final times...they were a very good looking couple! When I look in the mirror...I sometimes wonder where "junior's" looks came from! Today, I have a large collection of albums of home and my various collections, as well as parties I have attended in the last 24 years.
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things that means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society. If your happyness depend on extern factors you will never be because extern factors are endless. Happyness starts inside you. Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness.....sad. The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, hate, double standards, own benefits, judge, comparing etc..... reflection of their broken souls. Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and live in the here and now where the magic happens. No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and awake. Be the light in your own life
@@erichbobbitt9012 I love being closer to the ground it gives me more peace. In all honesty I bought a normal sofa and removed the legs from the bottom. Game changer for me, I now don’t have dog toys hiding under there haha
@@TheWeekendYogurt my son and dogs 🖤 but in all honesty am not lonely being alone. The more I try fit in with the crowd the lonelier I become. But then I stand alone, am alone, I feel whole and complete.
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That's the life of a Chosen One. We were never meant to fit in. Just like my fave Dr. Suess quote!!
"Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” 💯👑🌟🤩🙏🏼
@@monagirlnyc5781 love that!
Another lovely mindful vlog ❤ it was a relief when I made peace with not fitting in. Thankfully, I'm comfortable in my own skin and I love my cosy little home. So I never feel like I'm missing out.
@@AfricancoolChic agree with you! It’s not until you accept it and find comfort in it that you realise you don’t want to be part of what is going on out there!
I never fit in either. Not even with my family. My Mum n I were buddies tho. But she n Dad
( WW2 Gen) passed on 30 years ago. I live alone with my cat and I enjoy the peace. Single Mum as well. Kids are grown. Blessed to be a Gramma now & my Grandbaby & I are very close. Lives several states away tho. I’ll move there as soon as I can .
I like how our animals will subtly remind us we shouldn't be joined at the hip with our technology 😊
@@random.oddities absolutely so grateful for them
Thank you for sharing this really means a lot to me I'm also one of those people who likes to be alone and suffers from social anxiety and seeing this vlog really helps and calms my mind shows me that we are truly special people and that I should see my light as my strength
@@whitechoco705 you have melted my heart with so much joy 🖤
Another beautiful video: I love to watch your routine.
Your puppies are TOO FUNNY. And they're so fond of you: super sweet ❤
Your feeling of not fitting when you were at high school was because of you not feeling enough pretty/cool/funny/etc. or because you found uninteresting your school mates and/or you didn't feel an affinity with them?
Thanks for sharing your life with us.
I send you a big hug, positive thoughts and a sea of affection.
I’m happy I have found you. I’m older 57 always thinking there is something wrong. I am still struggling to accept myself. I’m glad I am not alone in how I am.
@@natashinkabinka8612 I’m glad you found me as well 🖤🙌 self acceptance and being ok with being different and not fitting in is a journey in itself. There’s nothing wrong with you. Sometimes people are meant to stand alone and not fit in.
Never felt like I fit in either, especially in my family. Now, I live in a small cottage in the mountains, surrounded by my neighbor's cows and loving it.
I want that kind of life your living so bad
@@churchofpos2279 this is goals right there! Now we want a house tour haha
@@Athriftersdream It's doable. It just took some planning and knowing what I wanted.
@@the_loner_diaries nothing special about the house. It's the area it is in that is special to me.
@@churchofpos2279 and that’s all that matters 🖤
I've never met ( in a sense) another person who had no childhood memories...it's just a bizarre void and my teenage years are exactly like yours....I too am a single Mom (at 36 years old). My son is finishing university, so it's me and our two girl kitties... Thank you endlessly for this video, and your light 💜
@@douxchats2868 I swear I thought I was the only one that had no memories. I had no massive trauma I just blocked out everything for whatever reason when I was younger.
I am grateful for your light and you taking the time to write on here means a lot 🖤
i have felt for all of my life that i just don't fit in, it used to bother me.....A LOT, but now i really actually quite prefer it that way, people really bore me, the monotony of basic conversation, the standardised routines and the general opinions of the majority is nowadays something i want to be so far detached from that if it means being alone most of the time i have absolutely made peace with that and have come to treasure being alone and value it higher than most other things in life.
@@Blkjk6977 can relate to this so much! 🖤
Ooooh sooo well said ! I feel the same way & live accordingly
Wow didnt realize there are people like me. It sounded like you were telling my story.
@@Tina-Faith and I love finding people that connect with my story makes me feel like I am not crazy for feeling and thinking this way 🖤
Well said kween! - may I add: "Eagles fly alone - pigeons flock together"!...Protect your light, and don't let anyone cast there shadow on it, you were meant to shine
@@denisemoore8536 love this!!!! 🖤
I cant remember much when i was young and dont understand it.
@@Tina-Faith me too! Absolutely no memories of childhood, high school and most of twenties.
Me too❤
@@danielastoica3354 we should start a never fitted in club 🖤
Loneliness has always puzzled me and it was a great relief to learn about being an INFJ, and the fact that loneliness is something every INFJ seems to be struggling with. But for me it is not as simple as getting out there and find some friends; to me friendship is coming with a deep sense of purpose like; this person is showing up right now in my life because there is spiritual reason for it, we need each other right now, to learn something or do something, and when the purpose is gone so is the relationship. And I have learned so much deep fundanmental things about life I could not have learned being surrounded by a group of daily interacting and supporting friends, that is a totally different planet to live on. And I am reminded about this now and then when I have a sudden breakthrough, an insight where I realize I had to be alone in order to learn this; there is no other way. But this is just a perspective. I am constantly looking for a soulmate. And I do have friends but, well you know what I mean... By the way you have a such a beatiful laughter.
@@martinnilsson-om6gw there is so much truth to that, every situation and person comes into your life for a reason, it’s either a lesson or a blessing. And not everyone will stay in your life forever, people come and go likes waves of seasons.
Thank you for sharing this 🖤
@@the_loner_diaries Thankyou for your response 💚
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7:21 editing skills just out of this world 🤓
@@michab193 hahahaha it was the worst editing ever but I needed to show you all I got in the bin 😂😂😂
You are not alone! Like you, I never have fit in with these "modern" times. I have always loved my parent's generation..."The Greatest Generation"...sure, that era was not "perfect" none were or are, however the culture, mannerisms, autos, dress, and most of all MUSIC was great...makes these times a "congloperation" of cheesy cheapness and noise! Oh, don't forget the cash cow (for a few) A.I. destroying in person culture! I'm thankful I grew up in the early 40s-late 50s period, and had a fine childhood! I'm 81. San Francisco, my home town, was the crown jewel of the west then...pretty sick today! Man is always chasing the "Future"...which is worst than the past he is always trying to put behind him!! My home is my ticket to the older things I treasure: the house is a 1919 California Bungalow, furnished in 1920s-40s furnishings, radios and phonographs on which I play many of the 2000 78 records I have collected...and on the lighter side, my frog figurine collection keeps me company...somewhat like you canine buddies! However, they just need a loving dusting...no feeding! I never married, as I'm sure you detected that from my short history!
@@larryboysen5911 you had me at your 1919 home and furnishings I wanna see a house tour on your channel that sounds like a step back in time which would be soooo incredible!
@@the_loner_diaries Hi, I'd love to give you a tour, however, I have no smart phone or digital camera equipment...true to my old fashioned style, I still shoot 35 mm film...yep...I still can get it at my local Walgreens! I do have a couple of buddies who have smart phones...I will see if I can enlist one to take some snapshots of the abode and send them to you.
@@larryboysen5911 Larry I love that you don’t have a phone ☎️ absolute take my hat off to you. I have started taking Polaroid pictures as memories to put in a book as they are more meaningful than photos taken on your phone. Most people are present in the moment these days they are too busy trying to take pictures for a memory than be in the memory.
@@the_loner_diaries Yes...I treasure the family photos my late mom and one of my uncles took...I hate to sound like a "still star" but I have phots from baby hood forward, plus neat shots of mom and dad: their marriage photos, young years and final times...they were a very good looking couple! When I look in the mirror...I sometimes wonder where "junior's" looks came from! Today, I have a large collection of albums of home and my various collections, as well as parties I have attended in the last 24 years.
@@larryboysen5911 and treasure all of that as that is worth more than this digital age stuff. That is so wholesome and what it should all be about.
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things that means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society.
If your happyness depend on extern factors you will never be because extern factors are endless.
Happyness starts inside you.
Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness.....sad.
The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, hate, double standards, own benefits, judge, comparing etc..... reflection of their broken souls.
Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and live in the here and now where the magic happens.
No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and awake.
Be the light in your own life
Exactly ! I totally get this !!
Is that a Japanese futon? I’ve been thinking of getting one
@@erichbobbitt9012 I love being closer to the ground it gives me more peace. In all honesty I bought a normal sofa and removed the legs from the bottom. Game changer for me, I now don’t have dog toys hiding under there haha
Same tbh
Are there any people that don't make you feel more lonely?
@@TheWeekendYogurt my son and dogs 🖤 but in all honesty am not lonely being alone. The more I try fit in with the crowd the lonelier I become. But then I stand alone, am alone, I feel whole and complete.
@@the_loner_diaries I definitely know that feeling. Crowds usually make me feel more lonely whereas being by myself I don't feel as lonely.