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- Ever since the dawn of man, people have struggled to find the secret to living a great and fulfilling life. Thankfully, our decades of shared experiences, pondering, and introspection have brought us all a few steps closer on our journey to discovering the meaning of life. That is, by better understanding what makes life worth living and overcoming all the things that hold us back.
Have you ever wondered what are the common mistakes young people tend to make? If you want to avoid them, be sure to watch this video: • 5 Mistakes Most Young ...
Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Bry Gavino
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Waldinger, R. (2015). What makes a good life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness. The Harvard Study of Adult Development. Retrieved, 28(8), 2017. (link was missing so had to search for it and found this TED Talk
www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness )
Naeemi, S., & Tamam, E. (2017). The relationship between emotional dependence on facebook and psychological well-being in adolescents aged 13-16. Child Indicators Research, 10(4), 1095-1106. - this was missing actual link reference so found this but it is only an abstract so not sure where they got the info given above in point 8 link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12187-016-9438-3
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What are your goals that you're currently working on?
Hello ! 😃
being more positive and a better and less lazy person
I ❤️ you
Nothin
To be a better person for the sake of my mom.
"Avoid having a bad relationship with yourself"
Me to Me: We....have to break up.
Lmaoo
"It's not me, is you!"
@@Nico_com_c its not me it's me!
@@richavarghese5986 lol
@@richavarghese5986 "But also you"
ㅤ~ timestamps ͜•• ~
1- 00:49 taking loved ones for guaranteed
2- 01:22 not following your dreams
3- 01:55 not expanding your horizons
4- 02:22 wasting time on things that don't matter
5- 02:50 setting into relationships too quickly
6- 03:22 compromising your health
7- 03:56 getting in debt
8- 04:22 being overly dependent on others
9- 04:51 having a bad relationship with yourself
10- 05:28 forgetting to live in the moment
Thx
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you
Granted* 😝❤
Wow... you're fast, thank you, for saving our Time :)
"The greatest mistake anyone can ever make is to be afraid of making one" - Daffy Duck
Precisely, everyone makes mistakes, it's a part of being human, but we tend to be extra critical of ourselves.
Anything that's worth doing is worth doing badly.
Momentum extension told me that a few days ago
Damn, that's exactly me.
Damn, recently I been worried that I wouldn't live a good live cuase of mistakes, insetad of, y'know, *actually living*, thx, I will know just live at the present moment and stop worrieng
this new art style and "gamer" structure is surprisingly effective and engaging
i agree this animation stuck out to me and was really nice
Thanks! Bry is one of our talented animators!
*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”*
Love from a small channel💙
Good commen
Yes, very good commen
i was planing in letting go of smoking when i was 30...
5 years smoking (since 18 years old) and i was felling like shit... decided to stop smoking earlier, just for a month, just to see it...
best decision of my life... please, start being your better now
What did you get out of smoking anyway when you were doing it
Smoking can relief stress.
🎆Congrats on kicking the habit!🎆 I've had friends from high school who smoked then later in their early 30s were always tired and out of breath. They felt old and like crap...they decided to take the steps to quit and are enjoying active activities more with their families.
@@yourdadthatgotthemilk8246 smoking what?
Aí sim
Less sugar, more fruit. Less soda, more water. Less driving, more walking. Less worry, more sleep. Less words, more action
This hits hard when you're someone who's stuck in one place your whole life with no job and no idea what you wanna do in life or what's your purpose. Add to that anxiety and fear of change. Yup, I feel so fucked up.
My advice is a little more practical than the video but here it is for what it's worth.
Get out of your own head, especially if you're young, it's a myth that most people know what they want to do with their life, prior to 30. That's just not reality.
Get a job, any job. It literally doesn't matter if it's minimum wage, it's not about proving to everyone else at first what you can do, it's about winning a small battle and proving to yourself that you can do it.
Find a better more meaningful job, work the non meaningful job long enough to spring yourself into something better, you will have many more opportunities at the first job and meet many more people than you would at home. For example I worked a crappy fast food job for almost a year straight out of high school, it's only because I took that crappy job, that I met my current boss and worked in a completely different field for the last 8 years. Yes life is like that and no i don't believe in coincidence.
Finally face your fears and limitations, it's much better to stand up to them and make yourself a stronger person than hide from them forever.
I'm just some random person on the internet but I believe in you, most importantly you have to believe in you. Good Luck.
You can do it, if you try hard enough and take risks
I have never related to anything this much before 😳
@@maxgilbert18 Thanks for the advice, I will definitely try it. But that's the problem I have anxiety so I can't believe in myself. Even when I am doing everything right I feel like I will mess up and because of this I get distracted and actually mess up. I am strange 😅. But thanks again.
@@maxgilbert18 Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it. ❤️
Whoever is animating these has very good taste
Animator: Bry Gavino
:-)
Thanks! Bry is our animator for this video!
"Avoid not following your dreams"
Me: yes I do follow my dreams
I go back to sleep to finish it😊
HELP
Not that I want to lecture but here go anyway ...
_Dream is not that which you see while sleeping it is something that does not let you sleep._
🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I'm trying to finish doing what my user name says that I do in my dreams.
😭 underrated comment deserves more attention 😭
@@blast473 😐😑😃
I love how this is explained in an RPG style, which is kinda true, life feels like a game sometimes.
A rigged unfair game
@@chuckyyes exactly how it is...
As a 68 year old man who have made all the mistakes, all I have too say is, listen to this lady .… he is wise 😇
As a 98 year old man I agree
Lady? He?
@@blastoxic9992 Well you didn't understand this clip🤣🤣🤣
You are slow.
I already did majority of those mistakes by 29.
@@jameswilson8820 What am I supposed to understand?
Following someone else's dream. ...
Taking your loved ones for granted. ...
Pretending to be someone you're not. ...
Burning all your bridges. ...
Telling lies all the time. ...
Forgetting to live in the moment. ...
Giving up true love. ...
Denying others happiness
Thanks.
Thank you so much, it's really a huge time saver!
bruh stop sending music videos
Many of these are so wrong
@@lyonidus3073 taking your loved ones for granted so does everyone feel loved by there loved ones
It took me getting Cancer to see the value of enjoying every moment. I am in remission now thankfully, but i was given 50% chance and i remember looking out the Hospital window at a flower and thinking that migjt be the last flower i see.
Now i cherish every beautiful flower, every amazing bird. Find the wonder in nature you had as a kid. A full life is not guaranteed to anyone.
"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.” ~ Albert Einstein 💪🏻🚀
Well " If you always make a mistake, even for small things. You're already broken" Just a random thing in my mind.
These videos makes our days better
Agredd
Too you maybe
Yup I agree ☺️
@@orbitofneptune BRUHHH it's a bottttttttt DON'T REPLY WITH POSITIVE REPLIES HE/SHE JUST WANTS LIKES
I hope My life wil be brighter soon
Problem is people go in relationships to fast is because they are afraid to be left behind and i noticed when you get older its much harder to find someone.
"Real forgiveness is a process of transforming something old into something new, something that was useless into something that is useful, something that is meaningless into something that is meaningful. Here your mistakes, instead of being a source of pain and inner discomfort for you, become a means of reaching other people, for everyone has made mistakes, and many people have made the same ones that you have. This becomes a way to reach people. 'I made this mistake. This is what I learned. And this is what I am doing with it now.' What a beautiful teaching this is. How gracious this is and how important it is for the listener and for the communicator as well."
A quote from *Living the Way of Knowledge* - Chapter 2: The Four Pillars of Life. Check out this book, it's free online.
I made 9 of those mistakes (did not go into heavy debt). Now I am 31 compensating for those mistakes. Living life its fullest and loving myself more each day. Thanks for the video.
Writing a full story story that I have been stuck in my mind. It’s too good to not write it down
Remember life is about experience there is no true life purpose just experience the world around you while you follow your dreams
@Dodo Nodens Thank you for not telling a whole Lifestory or similar but a short and helpful Quote! How do People say it again?
"They had us in the first Half." Jk but i really thought at first you'd write
a whole Speech about something!
Wish you the best in the story!
So then why dose my experience only make me feel pain, misery and emptiness?
@@diy-guyishere7615 thanks
This channel is a bright ray of hope in this ever materialising world.
2:48 I really needed to hear this.
A person that I met some weeks ago has been talking with me and he went pretty fast on saying me "babe", "honey" and I really feel pressured to do the same since I've never had a relationship before.
But I guess I'm in time to say "No". Thx!
I can't stand it when ppl start calling me pet names way too fast. I shut that down rt away!
Clicks this video:
To check if I had not commited any of these mistakes 'cause my life is already a mixture of just mistakes.
Learn from your mistakes but most of all learn from others mistakes as long as you keep learning from your failures and others failures success is right around the corner
the art is so cute TT and the narrator's voice is incredibly calming
i really love the channel and the video is amasing
Could you do a video on being nice to others? I know that I‘m not very nice to the people around me most of the time and I want to change.
I just don’t know how… Every time I try to be friendly I just don’t know what to say and end up with awkward silence. Maybe that’s why most of the people I used to talk to ignore me. I don’t blame them because I do this all of the time.
You guys missed the most important one, "looking for the meaning of life", because there IS no meaning in life, YOU make that meaning to YOUR life
the animations are improving each video too much, very good job from the animation team
Those fantasy characters make it so good. And the effects like dizzied
The animation matches well and so interactive, makes it relaxing to talk about something actually serious. Well done, Psych2Go team! 💕
This video is awesome, the animation quality is outstanding!
There's a song I love that says: "It's a brand new day, it's never to late to start" it always gives me a mixture of motivation and hope, I really hope you check it and listen to the lyrics, the song is "Brighter" by Against the current.
I’ve just checked out that song! It is so good and it definitely telling me that our time is limited
So do your very best today and give it your best as well
Thank you for showing us this beautiful song, I've just checked it out and I love it!
Have a nice day! ^^
This design is adorable and engaging
Every time I feel depress or having anxiety, the best way for me is to meditate and listen to relaxing music. For me i always listen to music of Namaste Be Healthy channel.
As an individual w/more than a few yrs in me rearview, I can attest to the fact there is much wisdom packed into these little 6 1/2 mins, freely shared & ready for the taking, if willing. One way or another, we shall all learn. Contrary by nature, I gathered my truths the hard way & honestly don't know whether/not I would've listened to what anyone, except my inner circle, had to say back in the day. But what a blessing it would have been to have such sound advice in one's toolbox before venturing out on one's own!
I love all your animations! They're adorable and informative!
Mistakes you should avoid?
Well my parents couldn't avoid making me, that was their biggest.
I feel you
If my parents didn't haved me, probally their lifes would be better
No…. I’m pretty sure you made their life better!!
nobody chooses to be alive, not even our parents
Same
Well, you aren't your own mistake, and as long as you live there's always the possibility of happiness. Never throw yourself out like that. Every life is precious, live your life to your own expectations, not theirs.
Talking about having a dream and fallowing it, personally despite all the problems (collage, family, money, etc) I'm still trying my best and I'll succeed.
When I get old i don't wanna look back and regret why I didn't fallow my dreams. mark my word I'll become a successful TH-camr.
These animations are sooo good!
Thank you Bry, whoever you are!
I love how this whole video feels video game based, the artist truly did a wonderful job!
For #1 not all family is blood. Family is those who you know who will be there for you and treat you like you properly deserve love and affection
- someone who came from an abusive/toxic household
thank you so much for posting this on my birthday! i love your videos and it really helps with mental problems, ty!
Omg I am so guilty of so much you cover in this, unfortunately my teen years were all about me and I took so much and so many for granted..you're so so right when you say not to..thankfully now I know better. Thank you for this, nice ❤️
The animations looks so active and Fun today! Love it!
This animation just makes me smile! 😋
I like how you always have the detail of putting captions on every video
Absolutely love your videos and channel.
Your videos are so truthful, awesomely animated, cute and so much relaxing .
❤❤
Keep doing what you're doing
I’ve learned a lot in my few years, discovered crazy things and more… I got 6 years left, but I’ll be back like the last few times
The art never fails to amazed me 😊 i dont regret subscribing. your voices calms me thanks as always ☺
i really love this channel. every video is very helpful. this channel is my top favorite for 2 years straight.
Good advice. So easy to beat myself up over the past. I m am almost 60 and carried along of baggage for more than half my life. Learning to live in the moment is very liberating. Life is such a balance!
This is a great list. Many of these things are *simple, but not easy.*
Yet, following these advice would make a tremendous positive difference in anyone’s life. Thanks Psych2Go for sharing ❤️🚀🌙
yes
Frustrating to know that I'm doing exactly everything listed..
Thank you for this ,it has really given me strength to move forward in my life. Thank you so much
Really like the new style and this is genuinely awesome advice.
Sadly my life has pretty much turned into one giant string of regrets that will grow exponentially :/
Love the animation in this! So fun!!!
I totally agree ☺️
You ever feel like "the moment" is when bad things happen and good things become impermanent? Honestly, I've felt my best in "moments", but they slip away so fast because they *are* moments. If you hold on to it too intensely, you get stuck with regrets or dissatisfaction. If you try too hard to make an upcoming moment good, you become anxious. I kinda don't like that every experience is a performance test - every moment only lasts a moment so you gotta get it right.
don't have anything particularly useful to respond with, just wanted to say this is so relatable to me. u_u just slipped from a good 'moment' and I can't believe its affected me to the point/ gotten me in the slumps for two days now. maybe its just in feeling things too intensely. but feels like a constant routine of highs and lows
Shakespeare wrote: "nothing in life is good or bad but thinking makes it so." I died and rose on the third day. It was painful, but was it good or bad, or did I get it right or wrong?
These are things that I hope everyone gets to learn pretty early in their adult lives. As a twenty seven year old, I so agree with these. Especially that you HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH!! I affects so many parts of our lives but sometimes people learn this pretty late in their lives. I learnt this only after I got diagnosed with a non life threatening disease recently. I am grateful to myself everythingthat I make time for my health everyday despite all the stress and anxiety.
The animation is getting better and better! Good job! :D
This voice is a lullaby to me 💗
6:09 so do I agree with all the things that Psych2Go has mentioned here in this video? I do really agree because it's the way to enjoy and be grateful for my life! I'm really glad that this channel exists! looking forward to another beautiful content!
Family is definitely everything, with a strong family (which for me includes chosen family too) you can have the confidence to do anything because you'll always have positive support
This video made me realize something. I’m trying to get help. Thank you.
PLEASE CONSIDER USING THE RPG THEME, I literally used that to calm myself down everyday
🙏🏻😭😭🙏🏻❤️
I really needed this right now, thank you Psych2Go!
I feel so down and hopeless and sad today tnx for this inspiring vid!
Never have I felt regret. But 12 hours or so after this was posted, I felt regret instantly begin to rise in my mind after I saw the person, whom I was interested with, found an interest with someone else. Thanks for making me feel regret, thanks for increasing my reason to continue hiding my pain.
Hopefully, we learn from our mistakes which is a good thing.
Ok. The advice is absolutely perfect and totally accurate, BUT THE ANIMATIONS AND DRAWINGS ARE SO CUTE AND WONDERFUL aaaaaaaaaaaa
I do a lot of mistakes that listed here and it's the reason why I lost my friends... including her who I didn't get to say the last good-bye. It's too late to apologize, but I'll try to change myself for everything I have done. Thank you for positing this video
I forgive you. You should talk to her W. I also learn from my mistakes. Save trip home.
@@lingpeiguo864 It's too late, she is no longer in this world. But thank you for your kindness
I love your voice and this channel makes me feel so much better
These videos help me Express my mental health to people I know and I have to say is thank you for this beautiful channel
"Avoid not following your dream"
Me: Definitel- WAIT what is my dream?
Solid gold advice. Take heed. This is the real deal! I know because I've made most of these mistakes and this advice comes 40 years late. So far so good for me (which is no bad thing, don't get me wrong) but it might have been so far so high so brilliant had I made wiser choices. It's all here! You are indeed wise if you take heed to these ten things. ❤
I'm so happy that I have found this youtube channel.
Ok, I'm loving this art style more and more
I pray that, according to the riches of his glory, he may grant that you may be strengthened in your inner being with power through his Spirit, and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, as you are being rooted and grounded in love.
-Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, 3:16-17
I really needed this right now, thank you.
I am so excited to start being myself again. Being 14 is hard. So much drama and insecurities. but Imma think about what really matters instead of that. Thanks for reminding me
There is nothing in my life to appreciate.
there are you just dont see them cuz you're so used to them.
Maybe you are one on the missunderstood personality type ?
Evolution is suicide because eventually you realize that life is stupid and pointless.
Uh oh 14 yr old edgelords
@@bettercalldutch Come live my life for 24 hours, Oh, I bet you won't even be able to live my life for even 1 hour.
Congrats on whoever liked and commented early
I pray that, according to the riches of his glory, he may grant that you may be strengthened in your inner being with power through his Spirit, and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, as you are being rooted and grounded in love.
-Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, 3:16-17
I really enjoy this channel. I am grateful for your content and the community made by it. :)
Thank you! These are valuable words of wisdom to me 🙏.... I am gonna work on these tips
10 mistakes you wanna avoid , psych I am a mistake
Being born was my biggest mistake😀
The more I watch her videos,I learn more and it calms my mind. ♥
The advice is amazing, but the animation and theme in this video is fantastic
Yeah, regrets, i still have one after more than 7.5 years
We all have and many.
@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes and heavy ones
@@bombergame8636 Sadly, we can't change the past, and can't deleted theses bad memories. But we can focus on the present ^^ and futur.
I am happy TH-cam exist to learn many things and help myself.
@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes i guess, but i'll live with the pain of having made the wrong choice, one thing i can do is living with it
Honestly, point 7 is why I'm glad af to be born in Germany
I have to ask, how do you correlate Germany and the not getting into debt goal?
Same to us Villagers people in Indonesian, at least we have no need to pay debt on house cause it's our own house, not the government that owns it...
I was expecting this video to be basically a description of my life. And that's exactly what it was.
3:33
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOH THAT REFERENCE GOOD ONE BULLEYE!
Also this video was very helpful, thank you
Am I seriously crying over spilled Thai tea? I’m such a puss.
Excuse me but what does this have to do with the video?
second (except from psych2go lol) 💖💖
The best thing is u have answer for everything under sun🙏👍we are getting so much of clarity in various aspects by your content 🙏🙏 kudos to ur team🙌🙌
Always love the content... but special congrats for the great video type ❤
I see new video
I clicked faster
This soothing voice can make your day better in my opinion.
Love your videos! it makes me realise what's the real 'me'💕
I hated the little displikes though...
Best animation of all videos.