This video alone speaks to who you are at the core. You’ve inspired me to keep going for what I want and to use my tongue in ways that advocate for myself. “I didn’t tell you to have this expectation of me” is something I wish I would’ve said to people a few ago when I lost passion for what I was majoring in, 2020 I dropped out and it’s been haunting me since. Thank you so much ❤️KEPP GOIING because YOU are the standard!!
@@zful291 aw 🥹 I’m sorry to hear about that rough period!! But yes - I’m glad you got the main point of this video which is to never forget to be your own ally! Thanks for watching ❤️
I truly love and appreciate how honest and down to earth you are! Because like you mentioned before people like to only show certain sides to their life and make it seem that the medical school lifestyle can be easy with a few simple steps, so to have you being so upfront is so refreshing. Not always are we “okay” but we try to put on the facade that we are, so thank you for giving us the uncut version! Not everyone can have that level of vulnerability and I commend you for doing so!
🫶🏾 thank you for saying this and supporting my channel! I love a good “look how cool my job is” upload - but yeah, it’s not always that. And that should be normalized too!
I am glad you are extending yourself the compassion, grace, and kindness that you deserve. Whenever faced with difficulties, as nerdy as it sounds, I think of Newtons third law "for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction" in that, as you make strides towards your purpose, there will always be great resistance because your calling goes beyond what you even know and the tests are meant to distract and deter. Instead of marinating on difficult times too long (ofc after taking the time to grieve, mourn, etc) I just think to myself "God must have something great for me on the other side of this." Let me tell you, there always is. And this is true for you too. You are empathetic, authentic, brilliant, and an advocate for others. YOU ARE EXACTLY WHO WE NEED IN MEDICINE!!!! Please never lose sight of this!!! Thinking of you and praying everything works out for your good, Z!❣
Z. Can you do stuff that puts a smile on your face or to laugh your heart out? You've been going thru it girl. Life as usual is kicking our butts but we will come out victorious. You need a spa day or a vacation where you can only think about happy thoughts. The cares of this world need to take a backseat for a while. You already know we (your fans) are praying n rooting for you. Just keep your head up towards the hills whench comes your help-your help comes from the Lord 🙌
Oh my gosh, this video speaks to me so much. It speaks so much because I’m currently in undergrad right now in my last semester. I major in biochemistry and when I tell you that the having expectations is ridiculous like I have professors that that would tell me like “ oh you should’ve did this”, “Oh I expected you to succeed in this” or “Oh it’s crazy that I’m not seeing this type of success from you” and I’m looking at them like I didn’t ask you to have those expectations of me like I’m a student figuring things out. I wanna go to med school and it’s like a lot of times they be like oh since i didn’t meet their expectations that they had for me, I can’t go to med school and tbh we all know this is some bs. I really do understand where u r coming from and its been really pissing me off because there are multiple professors doing it too and It’s hard to be in a setting/environment where there is not a lot of support, especially when it’s coming from the start of things you need help with in order to help mold you/ prep you into that med setting.
Learning how to focus your energy INWARD is so crucial. You will forever here negative outside opinions, because people can only give advice from their own POV which may not align with yours. And that is okay. I actively try to focus on incorporating what is necessary for me to achieve MY goals and block out the rest. Don't be ignorant or blind to your shortcomings, but also never allow them to define your entire process either!
Dear lady, I will spare you the platitudes about it will get better, or you'll overcome (all which is very likely) and simply remind you of Scripture, which I know as a person of faith you appreciate, Jeremiah 29:11, 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.." Continue holding strong.
This video alone speaks to who you are at the core. You’ve inspired me to keep going for what I want and to use my tongue in ways that advocate for myself. “I didn’t tell you to have this expectation of me” is something I wish I would’ve said to people a few ago when I lost passion for what I was majoring in, 2020 I dropped out and it’s been haunting me since. Thank you so much ❤️KEPP GOIING because YOU are the standard!!
@@zful291 aw 🥹 I’m sorry to hear about that rough period!! But yes - I’m glad you got the main point of this video which is to never forget to be your own ally! Thanks for watching ❤️
I truly love and appreciate how honest and down to earth you are! Because like you mentioned before people like to only show certain sides to their life and make it seem that the medical school lifestyle can be easy with a few simple steps, so to have you being so upfront is so refreshing. Not always are we “okay” but we try to put on the facade that we are, so thank you for giving us the uncut version! Not everyone can have that level of vulnerability and I commend you for doing so!
🫶🏾 thank you for saying this and supporting my channel! I love a good “look how cool my job is” upload - but yeah, it’s not always that. And that should be normalized too!
I am glad you are extending yourself the compassion, grace, and kindness that you deserve. Whenever faced with difficulties, as nerdy as it sounds, I think of Newtons third law "for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction" in that, as you make strides towards your purpose, there will always be great resistance because your calling goes beyond what you even know and the tests are meant to distract and deter. Instead of marinating on difficult times too long (ofc after taking the time to grieve, mourn, etc) I just think to myself "God must have something great for me on the other side of this." Let me tell you, there always is. And this is true for you too. You are empathetic, authentic, brilliant, and an advocate for others. YOU ARE EXACTLY WHO WE NEED IN MEDICINE!!!! Please never lose sight of this!!! Thinking of you and praying everything works out for your good, Z!❣
Awww Omgee 🥹🥹 happy tears! This was a really kind message, and I appreciate the support. Always 🫶🏾
Z. Can you do stuff that puts a smile on your face or to laugh your heart out? You've been going thru it girl. Life as usual is kicking our butts but we will come out victorious. You need a spa day or a vacation where you can only think about happy thoughts. The cares of this world need to take a backseat for a while. You already know we (your fans) are praying n rooting for you. Just keep your head up towards the hills whench comes your help-your help comes from the Lord 🙌
Oh I have some fun scheduled soon. LOL. Don’t worry. The trip vlogs are on the way 🤭 just have to make It through a few more weeks of exhaustion
Also, fans?? No no lol. Community, family, etc. Fans sounds so 1-way and I’m rooting for each one of you too as much as you are for me ❤️
you are such an amazing communicator and i feel seen by your videos. thank you for showing up as your authentic beautiful self 🩷
🥹❤️ well thank you for the compliment and thanks for being present on my channel! 🫶🏾
Oh my gosh, this video speaks to me so much. It speaks so much because I’m currently in undergrad right now in my last semester. I major in biochemistry and when I tell you that the having expectations is ridiculous like I have professors that that would tell me like “ oh you should’ve did this”, “Oh I expected you to succeed in this” or “Oh it’s crazy that I’m not seeing this type of success from you” and I’m looking at them like I didn’t ask you to have those expectations of me like I’m a student figuring things out. I wanna go to med school and it’s like a lot of times they be like oh since i didn’t meet their expectations that they had for me, I can’t go to med school and tbh we all know this is some bs. I really do understand where u r coming from and its been really pissing me off because there are multiple professors doing it too and It’s hard to be in a setting/environment where there is not a lot of support, especially when it’s coming from the start of things you need help with in order to help mold you/ prep you into that med setting.
Learning how to focus your energy INWARD is so crucial. You will forever here negative outside opinions, because people can only give advice from their own POV which may not align with yours. And that is okay. I actively try to focus on incorporating what is necessary for me to achieve MY goals and block out the rest. Don't be ignorant or blind to your shortcomings, but also never allow them to define your entire process either!
Dear lady, I will spare you the platitudes about it will get better, or you'll overcome (all which is very likely) and simply remind you of Scripture, which I know as a person of faith you appreciate, Jeremiah 29:11, 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.." Continue holding strong.
@@geoffreymaibohm700 whew! I needed that one
Amen. You better preach 🙌. That's 1 of my favorite scriptures.