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  • @GeographyNow
    @GeographyNow  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3965

    Thank you for your support

    • @Spongenadoaltaccount
      @Spongenadoaltaccount 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

      I’m sorry what’s happening to you, I hope things get better for you

    • @avinabamandal6999
      @avinabamandal6999 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Brother you good

    • @Takezhu88
      @Takezhu88 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Love you barbs

    • @Yugoslaviasmallball
      @Yugoslaviasmallball 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      No problem!

    • @spaceboylearning
      @spaceboylearning 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hey Geography now!

  • @iammrbeat
    @iammrbeat 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6416

    I'm sorry man. I was robbed once. You're right. It feels disgusting. Hopefully the stuff is returned promptly.

    • @caseyjones5145
      @caseyjones5145 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +111

      You are one solid dude Mr Beat

    • @ImAPotato.
      @ImAPotato. 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

      No way it's Mrbeast!

    • @cl0wnr732
      @cl0wnr732 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

      Mr breast

    • @highway2heaven91
      @highway2heaven91 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      I was rooting for you to be in the USA episode 👍

    • @martinasmolka2144
      @martinasmolka2144 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I am sorry this happened to you. Keep making videos.

  • @elmehdielkhal
    @elmehdielkhal 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5232

    IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT YOU HEAR ME?! STAY STRONG.

    • @catturd2
      @catturd2 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +68

      ohhhhhhh i thought it was his fault my bad

    • @MiggerPlease
      @MiggerPlease 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@catturd2 more content like this

    • @paularanya8726
      @paularanya8726 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      ​@@catturd2lmao

    • @astrum0816
      @astrum0816 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      ​One of the few times you can actually infer sarcasm from a comment haha ​@catturd2

    • @MiggerPlease
      @MiggerPlease 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@astrum0816 I love the direction the channel is going

  • @markcarls1896
    @markcarls1896 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +449

    I love how raw this is. He's letting himself be vulnerable and frustrated, and he's showing us some seriously personal stuff. I wish we could see more TH-camrs be personal and pissed about things besides drama with other creators or politics. It's nice to see your personality when you're at these low points. It reminds us you're human and not an idol.

    • @Pafemanti
      @Pafemanti 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree

    • @Zuenzeit
      @Zuenzeit 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      What about seeing someone else's personal life being violated and him being extremely frustrated is "nice"

    • @LukesOffline
      @LukesOffline 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Well this isn't really nice, the dude got robbed.

    • @vdn2468
      @vdn2468 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Here come the youtube comments psychologists, like shut the hell up.

  • @DanielLichthart
    @DanielLichthart 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +208

    Stay strong mate. Absolutely the worst feeling there is, someone violating your personal space. But it is absolutely not your fault.

    • @MrWescottX
      @MrWescottX 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Indeed

  • @dccoulthard
    @dccoulthard 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +811

    You and your mom being okay is the most important thing.

    • @EnergeticSpark63
      @EnergeticSpark63 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      hi

    • @ChagossianCheetah
      @ChagossianCheetah 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why does he still live with his mom despite being a grown man in his 30s? KIdna weird

    • @mertm.995
      @mertm.995 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ChagossianCheetahAsian culture

    • @Alt-pe3vn
      @Alt-pe3vn 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@ChagossianCheetahsome cultures take care of their elders as the grow up rather than sending them off to retirement homes to get rid of them.

    • @ahmedabboh9583
      @ahmedabboh9583 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@ChagossianCheetah did his mom just leave him when he was needing care in his childhood as his mom is now needing care in her elder?

  • @jacklazzaro9820
    @jacklazzaro9820 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3122

    Dude, f* the algorithm. You still have us.

    • @fs5775
      @fs5775 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +84

      the algorithm is like life handcuffs, it sounds awful. F the algorithm is right

    • @User_cc
      @User_cc 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

      It's not that easy when you sell your soul to YT. That is the reason why most of successful creators are finding alternative way to finance themselves, so there are no longer depending on YT algorithm.

    • @happy_labs
      @happy_labs 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      Vlogbrothers are a great example of the right approach to me. They've been around since the early YT days and they chose to keep making what they wanted to make and not so much optimising for the algorithm. They might not get as many views and as much money as they could but they enjoy what they do and have a thriving community. Maybe not the same situation as Barbs but it's food for thought

    • @markaxelson5940
      @markaxelson5940 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      I agree with you 100%, but Barbs was right. "Ya gotta play the game." He SHOULD be able to take time away but in this business it drastically affects the channel(and therefor, pay)

    • @HAngeli
      @HAngeli 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Absolutely

  • @lugano1999
    @lugano1999 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

    In order to pick up the pieces, start by being thankful for all you do have and all you have accomplished.
    At age 42 I was beaten by someone randomly and ended up with a broken eye socket and damaged vision. At 59 I had a heart attack while jogging over a bridge.
    I have had pneumonia twice in the last 5 years and had a knee replacement two years ago.
    A year later I had a cut which became infected was hospitalized ficw days later with sepsis with my life on the line.
    That said, I just turned 70 a few weeks ago and have recently started a great new job.
    And, at the same I also joined a softball team and am 40 years older than some of my teammates!
    Life is filled with all twists and turns. You are young and vital and have accmplished a lot already with great prospects for the future. Learn all the lessons from this that are implicit in this and then go on to your next venture.
    You will continue to be a great guy. And a few million others think you are too.

    • @FootballDude12934
      @FootballDude12934 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      You’ve been through all of that your a warrior for that respect ✊

    • @baltic_balaclava
      @baltic_balaclava 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Damn man stay strong

    • @BertBerg
      @BertBerg 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for writing those words. I hope you don't mind me being very inspired by your story too.

  • @Alaskancrabpuffs21
    @Alaskancrabpuffs21 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Stay Strong man, my Grandma and I got our garage broken into and that was just horrible. Its not your fault! We are all behind you!

  • @ianmurphy9955
    @ianmurphy9955 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2155

    The biggest invasion of privacy right there, absolutely horrific. It's absolutely not your fault Barbs, it's the sick, weak minded thieving individual. Stay strong.

    • @billhanna2148
      @billhanna2148 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      I used to think nothing FEELS worse than being robbed and violated but then I discovered our political system which robbs EVERYONE so you have to work harder and harder to make up for your losses...YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR BODY OF WORK THAT NO ONE CAN TAKE AWAY FROM YOU keep being you and all will be good in time.

    • @bennelong8451
      @bennelong8451 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Naw i ain’t sick of mind I just thought he had cool stuff and I took it for myself lol

    • @Blueee51
      @Blueee51 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

      @@bennelong8451 low effort rage bait is low effort

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      If you live in a paper house without proper doors IT IS YOUR FAULT.

    • @kadeadams2308
      @kadeadams2308 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      ​@@PROVOCATEURSK not everybody is able to have enough money for a true home.

  • @nicolascasaux598
    @nicolascasaux598 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1334

    Two things to say:
    1. I feel you. Back in 2020 I had 7 dudes break into my house while I was in and I couldn't do anything about it, they had guns and outnumbered me. They ransacked the house and the thing that hit me the most was them stealing my mom's heirloom from her adoptive parents, both of them long gone...
    2. Geography now has NOT plateau'd. This has been my go-to geography channel since 2019 and I love your work. Don't give up and keep on pushing up because this channel is hands down the best geography channel in TH-cam

    • @EnergeticSpark63
      @EnergeticSpark63 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      hey

    • @lindacosma2064
      @lindacosma2064 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What you are feeling is typical in situations like this. Human nature is looking for a reason why. Then ypu tumbled into all or nothing thinking.
      Im sorry this happened.
      Your mom is safe
      You are safe
      Some of those things can be replaced.
      Im sorry about the jewelry..that was the hardest.
      It was taken in bad intent, so karma..
      Réally, take a week for police and insurance reports, get back on your feet.
      Let us know how you are doing.
      We love you

    • @notsorry3631
      @notsorry3631 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I just found the channel recently so it's hitting the algorithm

    • @TheMarioMen1
      @TheMarioMen1 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      This is horrible man, even with a gun you can’t really John Wick that one

    • @EnergeticSpark63
      @EnergeticSpark63 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@TheMarioMen1 hey

  • @TravelingwithKristin
    @TravelingwithKristin 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    Hi Barbs, sorry to hear that happened to you. I've been robbed before and it feels so horrible and violating. As a fellow TH-camr, I can also empathize with the pressure to publish weekly or feel instantly irrelevant and it's hard. Sometimes life can feel overwhelming, especially when things pile up, but this too shall pass. Feel to reach out if you need support from a fellow creator!

  • @sircory9377
    @sircory9377 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    I am so, so sorry for you man. I have been following the channel for around 2-3 years and you are honestly one of the most upstanding, nice and cool guys on this platform. We're all here for you dude.

  • @user-dn6fw1ss1c
    @user-dn6fw1ss1c 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1155

    You don't need to cling to relevancy because you are the OG, you SET the bar that they're trying to reach!

    • @marielang9474
      @marielang9474 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      facts❤

    • @bedrock6443
      @bedrock6443 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Well a lot of OG people are quitting. For the same reasons described at 4:43 onwards.

    • @aleksivainio4472
      @aleksivainio4472 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      Yeah, but the relevancy is partly paying his bills

    • @amyfalls
      @amyfalls 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      he walked so the rest could run

    • @amandaculver7346
      @amandaculver7346 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Seriously! Can sing your jingle by heart!

  • @YesTheory
    @YesTheory 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1325

    So sorry to see this 😔 been robbed a few times in my life and it’s a horrible feeling. The loss of meaningful items is one thing but the real pain is the uneasy feeling knowing someone was in your space and destroyed it all.
    A few things:
    1. We regularly take weeks off when we’re not feeling 100% and it’s ok. Come back stronger and recharged. Doesn’t need to be months off but a couple of weeks is ok.
    2. You will bounce back from this.
    3. TH-cam algorithm changes + shorts is hitting everyone. You will find a new rhythm, give it some time 🙏
    Sending love, strength and courage your way. You got this

    • @broodjekaas820
      @broodjekaas820 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Who's been robbed? Who wrote this?

    • @zachv
      @zachv 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

      @@broodjekaas820 do you just go to TH-cam comment sections and not watch the video whatsoever or pay attention to whose writing things

    • @wumaowumao
      @wumaowumao 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Barbs, take all the time you need. Your health is more important than anything.

    • @broodjekaas820
      @broodjekaas820 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      @@zachv I know barbs has been robbed fam. Did you read the comment that I'm replying to?

    • @zachv
      @zachv 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@broodjekaas820 yes

  • @stuckinaconstant7132
    @stuckinaconstant7132 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    I was 5 years old when I was returning home with my nanny and found our door kicked. They even stole a few DVDs... I wasn't able at the time to fully process what had happened but seeing my parents devasted gave it away even as a child. I really hope they find the perpetrators. I love your channel and all of your work. Nobody deserves this.

  • @littlechineseeverywhere
    @littlechineseeverywhere 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I just want to give you a big hug. I am so so sorry about the robbery, those who destroyed your home were horrible! And yes, geography now has been one of my favorites, every time when I travel to a new country, I will check on it. Haha, some episodes are just too short to say the whole country! I feel you when it comes to the content creation, I know the pressure. Give it some time, get recharged, and I am sending a lot a lot of a lot of love and energy!!! from an old fan!!

  • @L_mattox
    @L_mattox 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +594

    I had my bag stolen at the park, yesterday. These fuckers are everywhere.

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Ugh! Glad you are okay.

    • @vishnu2407
      @vishnu2407 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I'm sorry man, it sucks

  • @GemsOnVHS
    @GemsOnVHS 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Hey dude. Fellow TH-camr here, listening to everything you mentioned about uploading and the competition. I 100% feel you, the exact same thing has happened to me, and I just wanna tell ya, it's totally fine. It feels like the walls are closing in on you, but in reality TH-cam, success, money and everything is all still there tmrw. You obviously work hard and are creative. It will come to you. Take that break. Relax and enjoy the slow parts of life as well. The hustle is always there, always can be revisited. There are up times and down times, fretting about them only makes everything worse. The struggle for eternal growth and success on these popularity algorithms is detrimental to EVERYTHING. In the end, it serves no one to chase the views. Stay true to yourself, cliche as it is, and just enjoy the ride.

  • @MrDanielismyname
    @MrDanielismyname 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Ive been follow you for like a decade Barbs… you rock. You’re a genuine, authentic guy and that is what youtube deserves more of. You didn’t deserve this but you’ll be fine. Keep spreading that positivity and awesomeness to the world, we need people like you.

  • @haltair4015
    @haltair4015 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1066

    I am so sorry for you man, this is legit my worst fear, it almost feels like if you were assaulted physically. You've got our entire support and I hope the robber will be caught eventually

    • @shotelco
      @shotelco 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

      It's a _Victimization._ This is how it feels to be Victimized. It leads to a loss of self-confidence, paranoia, and a deep feeling of insecurity. Events like this expose our thin veneer of denial (when it happened to "other people," we pretended it couldn't happen to "us") regarding our own vulnerability. A trauma that typically leads to a more jaded view of our fellow humans.

    • @waywardstoner9416
      @waywardstoner9416 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      Robbers get a slap on the wrist in major American cities. Unfortunately, not much is gonna happen

    • @haltair4015
      @haltair4015 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@waywardstoner9416 Here if they get caught they can be sentenced to 5 years in prison xD

    • @cherryysakura7
      @cherryysakura7 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      ​@@haltair4015 5 years isn't enough for ransacking an entire home

    • @haltair4015
      @haltair4015 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@cherryysakura7 still better than a slap on the hand

  • @hou950
    @hou950 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +699

    Please stop blaming yourself man. “What if I left the lights on” “should have this” “Should have that”. This isn’t your fault! You have your health and your family that is what’s most important. You will get through this and inshaAllah they will catch whoever did this!

    • @jacob_and_william
      @jacob_and_william 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

      Exactly. Paul could have been at the grocery store when it happened. It's not logical to blame this on travel

  • @user-vl4pv4dz7o
    @user-vl4pv4dz7o 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Geography now is the best youtube channel period! I am a Geography teacher and I have found your videos to be helpful in so many ways - sometimes I use them to help me prepare my own lessons - other times we watch part of the videos in class. So sorry for your tough times - we had a break in as well as a few years back. Sometimes its just time to move. We did that - picked up the whole family and moved and started over and while that will bring new challenges - it's been great and I am so thankful for it. Best wishes to you!

  • @mindycurtis2404
    @mindycurtis2404 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hey Paul, I’m from LA too. When I quit my job and got rid of 90% of my belongings to go nomadic and hit the road on a cross-country roadtrip… some scumbag in Seattle smashed my car window and stole my travel pack. With everything I had left, everything that mattered. It’s violating and it hurts on a level you didn’t previously comprehend, and I’m so so so so sorry this happened to you, and your mom. I’ve never commented on your videos before but I’ve been watching for years (you’re my go-to whenever I decide to visit a new country and want some fun intel!) And I just want to say how much I appreciate you and your work. You seem like a such a genuinely good person and the world needs those right now. Life may be about to evolve into something else amazing and you just don’t know it yet-but for now please try to take care of each other, you and your mom, and be easy on yourself. One day at a time. It sucks. I’ve been there. Sending internet hugs 💗💗💗

  • @baspagrey1545
    @baspagrey1545 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +625

    Barbs; please don't undermine yourself, you've done something no one on TH-cam and possibly media has ever done. You have a very high number of fans for a Geography channel, and your videos are very future proof due to their breadth and long term relevance, even if countries might change a bit in the future. I'm sure schools and other educational establishments will use them.
    You've basically given an introductory course to every country whenever somebody needs it, and have set up the foundation for future Geography channels. The fact is, you've achieved something very few would ever hope to.
    I've been following you since the Bangladesh episode and it's surreal you are about to finish. Please do more Geography go videos cause you're the only channel on TH-cam that actually caters to an advanced knowledge of geography; I always learn something. Also I would love it if you interviewed more people from around the world. Thank you for choosing this path, we all love you and couldn't be more grateful. I hope things get better.🙏❤️

    • @jessicagriggs6909
      @jessicagriggs6909 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Amen!

    • @stevenames9056
      @stevenames9056 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Well said 👏🏿👍🏿

    • @CharlesMcKinneyIV
      @CharlesMcKinneyIV 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This too shall pass.

    • @emu5088
      @emu5088 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Perfectly well-said!

  • @haunter27
    @haunter27 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +432

    I was randomly attacked on the street 10 years ago, and I had to do a lot of work to pull myself out of the cycle of blaming myself. There’s nothing you could have done. You’re a beautiful person with so much to give the world. Live your life.

  • @vincentbolt8707
    @vincentbolt8707 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am so sorry this happened to you. It is a very difficult thing to go through, and the feelings of loss, anger, and trauma that come after a break in like this are real. I hope that you and your mom are safe and you are able to find the feelings of safety and security again in a new home. I'm a new subscriber and just started watching your videos about a month and a half ago and I hope you find other new subscribers.

  • @microevil55z
    @microevil55z 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    So sorry for what happened, I've been a fan for many years from when the reaching to the Venezuela episode was a dream. But here we are, even if you feel stuck, you've done amazing things with the channel and I do hope all gets well soon.

  • @LarimaBeyondBorders
    @LarimaBeyondBorders 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +170

    I was robbed 3 times while living in Los Angeles, my car was broken into, my van was stolen along with its catalytic converters , my storage unit was broken into. All my guitars, camera equipment etc gone. However I found a lot of my stuff from my storage listed on Letgo and another app that I can’t remember, I found my electric guitar on eBay etc. I was able to recover a lot and track down the criminals with the help of the Pasadena Police Department.

  • @breadtheory9972
    @breadtheory9972 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +470

    The worst part of getting robbed is often not losing what is taken but the horror of the violation of a place you thought of as safe.
    I’m so sorry you’re being put through this!

    • @breadtheory9972
      @breadtheory9972 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I also wanted to know how much your channel has meant to my students and I! You make geography more fun and engaging for 7th-12th graders than any textbook I’ve ever seen.
      And because they enjoy what they are learning, they retain the knowledge much better!
      Thanks so much for what you do!

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      If you think an american paper house is safe then you have a big problemo.

    • @cameronschyuder9034
      @cameronschyuder9034 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@PROVOCATEURSK It's made from concrete though? Or am I missing something

    • @toddscamera
      @toddscamera 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@cameronschyuder9034houses in the USA are not made from concrete

  • @koushikghosh7048
    @koushikghosh7048 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sorry to hear that bro. Prayers for you and your family.

  • @dayellabunny
    @dayellabunny 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm so sorry! I know exactly how you feel. My first home was broken into. I'm revisiting those feelings as I type this. I'm a Day 1 fan! It's because of you I wanted to get my passport. Continue to travel the world, get you and your mother in a safe spot and heal. Love you, your content and your travels. Love and light ❣

  • @sagejpc1175
    @sagejpc1175 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +673

    Barbs, I'm so sorry man. I used to watch your videos when I was depressed in College and you got me through the tough spots. We are here for you man, we have your back.

  • @Stoneworks
    @Stoneworks 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +272

    This was a raw video. Good luck handling it man, I know you'll pull through and the channel will be bigger than ever. We gotchu

  • @NanoSchaap
    @NanoSchaap 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I feel your pain. Got my house broken in twice back in Brazil . Not a good feeling. Thank God I am in Canada now. Cold but mostly calm. 😊

  • @mamastay1712
    @mamastay1712 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sending prayers to you. Thank you for your honest... It's beautiful and much needed... An algorithm and newness doesn't mean anything to honesty. Grateful that still you and your mom are okay. You're going to make it.

  • @KhAnubis
    @KhAnubis 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +390

    Geez wow, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I really hope in particular that something can be done about your mom's heirlooms because that is particularly sickening. It's easy to blame yourself for what you could've done differently in circumstances like this, but you were out doing your job and living your life, you shouldn't have to worry about "crap, did I leave any lights on to confuse would-be burglars?"
    And I feel you on the TH-cam thing you touched on in the second half (I guess just replace break-in with health issues and losing my brother), feeling like you're being left behind just because you have to deal with stuff outside GN. I suppose I don't really have much of a solution, just lending some empathy and letting you know you're not alone in all this.

    • @akirak1871
      @akirak1871 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It's true; you can't blame yourself when things like this happen. It could have happened when he was out getting groceries or worse, when he and/or his mother were at home.

  • @DiegoSaulReyna
    @DiegoSaulReyna 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +425

    you were one of the creators that inspired me to start my channel, and now as a creator myself i know exactly how you feel. youtube's algorythm gives us a very short life span and a very fragile relevance lapse. if you keep going i'll keep going !

    • @wumaowumao
      @wumaowumao 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We are all behind Barbs 💪

    • @DugrozReports
      @DugrozReports 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Same … i’m also a creator (different, subject matter) … it is very discouraging when you make one bad video or don’t upload for a couple weeks, and TH-cam starts punishing you by no longer promoting your old videos😢. Hang in there!

  • @mrstardian
    @mrstardian 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh man im so sorry for you, i hope it gets better, you are an amazing person Paul.

  • @ComOneMaybe
    @ComOneMaybe 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so so sorry this happened to you! This can't be easy to deal with. For what it's worth, you're the only geography channel that I watch and enjoy. Sending you love and support 🙏

  • @sandermerisalu9080
    @sandermerisalu9080 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +407

    Trashy people like this ruin everyone's day, I'm so so angered and sad to hear this, please, stay strong Paul, we all love and support you

    • @metcas
      @metcas 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      All they do is perpetuate the cycle that harmed them too. Low-level minded people. Sad. I pity them.

  • @visyxl
    @visyxl 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +149

    I have mad respect to the neighbours that managed to tell you about this situation, super sorry for you.

    • @bennelong8451
      @bennelong8451 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Naw they snitched on me

  • @Bryzerse
    @Bryzerse 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry to hear it, I hope anything can be done to recover what's been taken. Hope your mum is doing well as well!

  • @russelldinkins5801
    @russelldinkins5801 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry this happened man. Sending positive vibes! Mad respect for you sharing with us that things are tough for you right now. Many like to portray perfection online so I respect you taking the time to share that this is trying time for you. Wishing you all the best as you heal from the trauma and the robbery and work to get to a better place overall!

  • @shamimazad007
    @shamimazad007 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +412

    Being burgled really sucks. I hope and pray you come out of this situation.😢

    • @obscuremusictabs5927
      @obscuremusictabs5927 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      He was burgled not robbed.

    • @shamimazad007
      @shamimazad007 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@obscuremusictabs5927 thank you for correcting me.

    • @farhanatashiga3721
      @farhanatashiga3721 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@obscuremusictabs5927well he literally said himself he got robbed in the video

    • @AaronGeo
      @AaronGeo 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      ​@@obscuremusictabs5927 Yeah. According to U.S. News:
      "burglary involves entering a home or another building illegally, whether or not something is stolen, while robbery involves taking property from a person through threats or fear of harm"

    • @shamimazad007
      @shamimazad007 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@obscuremusictabs5927 Thank you very much for rectifying me.

  • @bcvetkov8534
    @bcvetkov8534 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +174

    Dude, please know that the algorithm isn't everything.
    We are here for you.
    I'm so sorry you got robbed.
    That's absolutely devastating to see something like that happen to you. You're a good person man and you don't deserve this.
    Screw that person who did that to you they're scum and I hope they're caught and you get your stuff back especially your Mom's heirlooms.
    Best of luck to you getting out of LA.
    Take all the time you need man.
    Moving out should be priority number 1 for you and your mom. You guys deserve to live in a place that makes you feel safe. Anyway, sorry for the long message. Godspeed Paul.

  • @zoe1dogs
    @zoe1dogs 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm so sorry to hear about this, Barbs. You have such a great support system behind you (your family, your friends, and all your fans). You'll get over this hill, I know you will. ❤

  • @gumdrop25
    @gumdrop25 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm just relieved you are safe. I absolutely adore your channel. Keep your head up!

  • @terialleven3873
    @terialleven3873 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +152

    Hi Barbs. My students and I are loyal Geography Now viewers. I am subscribed and we APPRECIATE everything you do to help us learn. I understand the disgusted sickening feeling. When you think about the fact that a total stranger was in a place that was your safest space, the space where you let go of the world, that they touched things that you use or they took or destroyed precious sentimental items, you definitely feel physically ill. You believe you will never feel the same way in your home, it will never be that safe place again. You travel because there is an entire world out there to experience. Most of our students will never leave the tri-state area. They learn to appreciate our world and other cultures through your eyes and experiences. Traveling can be awful sometimes, but when you get home-even those trips to a new place you wouldn't trade for anything! To get through our experience, (which made us too late to say goodbye at my kids' Grandma's funeral) we told ourselves even the Pharaohs of Egypt, as hard as they tried, weren't able to take their worldly possessions with them. Your life experiences, YOU CAN!

  • @VooDooTennessee
    @VooDooTennessee 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +106

    Hey buddy I hate that you're in a bad place right now. I don't know if this will help but we home school our girls and we were having a heck of a time getting my youngest to understand or even give a damn about geography, Then we found your channel. It sparked a interest and she eats it up now. We love the content, especially in early April! Keep your chin up brother.

    • @djmeghan
      @djmeghan 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      My children are homeschooled, too, and we all watch a Geography Now video nearly every day.

  • @BrianLuna11
    @BrianLuna11 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You got this bro don’t give up. If you achieved something great once you can do it again. In whatever form that takes. Keep building

  • @DI-tj3lb
    @DI-tj3lb 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your geography channel! Keep moving forward man. We’re here! Praying for your wellbeing 🙏

  • @EthanRKassel
    @EthanRKassel 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +118

    This happened to me almost 15 years ago, and I still remember how awful the feeling is. I’m really sorry.

  • @TehElusiveMoose
    @TehElusiveMoose 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +213

    Hey man, I've been a $1 Patreon subscriber for years now... $1 isn't much at all, I know, but I keep it going because I sincerely believe in you and in this channel. Take this as an opportunity to reflect, try new things, and start a new chapter in your life. Who knows - later down the road, you might look back and realize this is exactly what you needed. A lot of us have been there. Hang in there!

    • @VaheTildian
      @VaheTildian 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      1 Dollar is a lot. If every viewer of this video gave that, he'd have 200k dollars straight away, which would considerably help Barbs I'm sure

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @TehElusiveMoose good advice and was thinking something similar.

    • @Sambucha1234
      @Sambucha1234 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@VaheTildianhe’s a partner with TH-cam

  • @tsukirunsu9982
    @tsukirunsu9982 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im so sorry that happened. i hope things get better for you, and for all of us that are in a terrible place.

  • @samyuktnathan3475
    @samyuktnathan3475 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry to hear this! Best wishes, and stay strong!

  • @vbm4780
    @vbm4780 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +110

    I'm sorry, Barbs. I went through this in 2015, and the feeling is terrible. It took quite a while for the sense of insecurity and the paranoia with every noise outside at night to pass. In my case, they even tried to come back a week later to steal the car, but I managed to stop them.
    If I can offer a suggestion, something that really made a difference for me was installing security doors, special anti break-in doors, on all the doors that provide access to the house. Wooden doors are very easy for them to break; iron doors and special security doors are quite different. In most cases, they give up just seeing the door and go after an easier house. But you also need to put iron bars on the windows, or they'll get in through the window.
    After I installed this in the house, and cameras to monitor the house while traveling, that feeling of insecurity decreased a lot. Today, I feel safer inside my house than anywhere else because good luck breaking in here! It wasn't cheap, but it was worth every cent.

    • @NerdsWorldNYC
      @NerdsWorldNYC 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Also, around the windows outside the house,you can plant rose bushes or prickly shrubs near the windows,this will add a bit of a deterrent just as good as barbed wires but more appealing.

  • @G3tFkd
    @G3tFkd 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +188

    i understand the beginning of this video so much. the idea that maybe your personal life shouldnt be involved in this channel but it effects you so much that you need some sort of outside support. know that it doesnt matter to us if this feels “unprofessional” or whatever. youve been an amazing channel to watch as ive grown into an adult. we love you and are here for you.

  • @jefflever2964
    @jefflever2964 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dude been thru it as well. It get's better man! Love your Channel

  • @emmamccanntravel
    @emmamccanntravel 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry you're going through this. Glad you are safe.

  • @Kaihatsu
    @Kaihatsu 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    I'm so sorry to hear that you had this happen to you. My house was broken into on my tenth birthday while my parents and I were sleeping. The robber accidentally woke up my dad who then chased him out the house, but the whole thing left me feeling unsafe and anxious in my own house, a space that you're supposed to feel safe in. Some of the trauma from that event still lingers with me today.
    I really hope you get back what was taken. None of this was your fault.

  • @shadow10198
    @shadow10198 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +195

    Im so sorry for what happened hopefully you recover

  • @artsimple.1248
    @artsimple.1248 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man im sorry to hear that. That sucks. I hope everything keeps going well for you my brother. Keep your head up high. You have the whole geography now community to support you. I hope your well man. Keep up the great work!

  • @aleroxit
    @aleroxit 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bless you and yours!
    You're great at this. Please keep posting.

  • @MXForce16
    @MXForce16 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +183

    My face is so boiled up, some people are being bad and rotten apple. I support you Barb

    • @neutraltoxic
      @neutraltoxic 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I mean this is La so it was probably just rampant drug addiction

  • @James-zg2nl
    @James-zg2nl 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +79

    My son and I have enjoyed your content for years. You have made learning fun for a teenager that struggles in school with a learning disability. You are a very good person that connects well with seemingly everyone you meet, something I am admittedly jealous of lol
    So for what it’s worth, my advice is you do you. You do it so well. Whatever is best for you and your mother is exactly what you should do. You have my unconditional support.
    Take care Paul

  • @rwlodarczyk
    @rwlodarczyk 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Heartbreaking. I feel for you. Sending you much love. ❤️

  • @lisa_and_christian
    @lisa_and_christian 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sending you love and healing. Things can be replaced or forgotten. The absolute best thing is that you and your mom are ok. If something had happened to either of you, you would be wishing to be in the spot you are now with just stolen things. If LA no longer serves you, then go. But please do so with a glad heart looking forward to somewhere new and not with the anger of what you're leaving behind. Wishing you well. Take time off and forget the algorithm. We'll still be here when you come back. Happiness and peace of mind are more important than TH-cam followers or views.❤

  • @ShakerNL
    @ShakerNL 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    It's probably better to find a new place for yourself and your mother and perhaps be discrete about it and keep your new location private. And while you're at it, a security camera with motion detection sensor that sends a push notification on your phone should cost less than 40 dollars. Good luck with everything and I hope you'll recover quickly.

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      He probably didn´t have purple burglar alarm.

  • @beaugibson2204
    @beaugibson2204 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +82

    Sorry to hear about this, Barbs. You have always been an inspiration for me and your videos partially set me on the track that I am on now. I'm originally from a small town in the US and started watching your videos in high school because I was curious about the world. After I graduated, I began to study international education with a specialization in English language education and now a minor in social studies education at a college in the Netherlands, and I am living my best life. Your approach to make education fun is part of what I use in every class and it was always a dream of mine to show your videos in my own social studies classroom. Thank you for everything that you have done for me and if there is anything we can do for you like a GoFundMe or a volunteer field work abroad, let us know. The Geograpeeps are always happy to help! Much love!

  • @michaelhathaway2399
    @michaelhathaway2399 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry to hear that this happened. Hoping that you're able to recover everything in due time.
    FWIW, still love seeing your videos. You've been responsible for tons of smiles and learning a lot over the years. Hope that you continue to record and that the process stays fun for you.

  • @Rose-ci9ox
    @Rose-ci9ox 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just found your channel recently and have been loving your content. I can see how dedicated you are and I love how thorough and professional all your content is. I'm absolutely going to binge your videos and keep up with your new uploads.
    Maybe this is just a physical change and a signal for something more. Who knows, the next place you move to might bring you an even greater opportunity. Stay strong during this transition period, you got this!

  • @kanibalismeboy
    @kanibalismeboy 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Georgraphy Now is the ultimate geography channel on youtube!!! This channel is THE go to channel when you are curious about a specific country!! Keep doing the great work you do! 3.32 Mio subs!!!! I followed you since Bolivia and I watch immediately every time a new episode is uploaded. Love this channel!

  • @TyrantkingX9
    @TyrantkingX9 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    I'm sorry Barbs. We are all behind yah.

  • @jacksonwillett5001
    @jacksonwillett5001 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you bro your channel is amazing, I’m sorry you’re going thru this rn, you’ll get thru it bro and we support you thru it all

  • @BeginnerSkier115
    @BeginnerSkier115 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Stay strong man, we're all here for you.

  • @DenverCraic
    @DenverCraic 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +99

    Hey Barbs! I think it might be time for a change of scenery. 3 years ago some junkie broke into my car in Denver and took my laptop with all my Masters degree work including my thesis (always back up in the cloud I learned). Afterwards I landed a job in corporate world at a top consulting firm, things didn’t work out and I used my savings to travel in Asia the last year. I studied my ass off for the GRE exam and got into Cambridge for a second masters. If you can stomach it, you may want to go do your PhD in Geography or a similar path and become a professor. Students would love you my man.

    • @tess_desuAK
      @tess_desuAK 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      He would be an AMAZING professor!!

    • @jonathansharp172
      @jonathansharp172 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Professor Barbs!

  • @mirzabajrektarevic1599
    @mirzabajrektarevic1599 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don't know any other geography channel except yours! Keep up the good work and Godspeed!

  • @masonmarch-jb7xn
    @masonmarch-jb7xn 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Feel sorry for you. Stray strong bro. Your channel literally open the world to the people like me. Thanks bro.

  • @SLiPCoR
    @SLiPCoR 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +79

    much respect for being so open about your thoughts.
    best wishes to you and your mum, focus on what is important now, and when you are in a better place, we will be here.

  • @jestrinaackah
    @jestrinaackah 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +84

    I’m so sorry you had to deal with this. Praying all things will be restored!

  • @SonyaH-yf5eh
    @SonyaH-yf5eh 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have loved watching this channel for years and I can't find another channel this dedicated to making fun educational content about every single country and I am always excited to go see new uploads. You are so strong and you are doing amazing!!

  • @TeamCarpioVlogs
    @TeamCarpioVlogs 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Stay strong, man! Been an avid fan of your channel from your early years. You'll get through this!

  • @pratosaurusrex1128
    @pratosaurusrex1128 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    There are some disgusting people in this world! Do whatever you have to do but your mental health and safety of your family is paramount.
    It might be worth speaking to someone qualified about all of the stresses you have (if you are not already). It’s important to remember that life won’t always feel this bad.
    Stay strong Barbs. We love and support you!

  • @KMYash12
    @KMYash12 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +67

    I can relate with you man!
    life has been screwing me over since the last 1-1.5 yrs
    and recently i lost my dad too
    im just 16 but feel like ending it all
    just hang in there man, you're one of the people who inspired me to achieve greatness in life!

    • @ajaxrosso1
      @ajaxrosso1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      So sorry for your loss. Stay focused brother. You're never alone.

    • @ticron
      @ticron 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      I'm sorry. Nobody should have to endure what you did at such a young age. But a bit of advice from someone ~30 years older: I know people will say "It gets better", and it does. Trust me it does. We've all been where you are. And I wish I could say you'll never experience any more tragedy in your life, but that would be a lie. But each one will make you a stronger person. Don't let that opportunity go to waste.

    • @KS-lp3ui
      @KS-lp3ui 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm so sorry for the loss of your dad and for the other difficulties you're going through. I hope you're able to get counseling and that you have supportive family and/or friends. Grief never ends but (in my experience) it evolves and becomes less intense with time. Hang in there.

    • @KMYash12
      @KMYash12 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@ticron I do wanna become the best version of myself, A true man can sacrifice anything for the people he loves and Im ready to do so too, Dad didnt raise no coward

    • @KMYash12
      @KMYash12 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@KS-lp3ui Thankfully, I have a great mom and good friends too, But the battles fought internally shall be fought alone with you and your solitude only..
      Even though I’ve hit rock bottom, I’m trying my best to come out of this as A new and improved version of myself

  • @pseudorandom9504
    @pseudorandom9504 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Paul, you are a gift to this world. We are feeling so bad that you had to go through this.

  • @Gauretto
    @Gauretto 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Take care buddy! God bless you and give you the strength to come back stronger.

  • @Coolyoghurt22
    @Coolyoghurt22 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +162

    Hope your ok man.

  • @tombrouwer95
    @tombrouwer95 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Barbs, its absolutely not your fault. The fact that you're not in a good place and still share this with us shows some big balls.
    And last but not least: i have followed you since the beginning of Afghanistan and your channel is the best geography channel out there. I've learned a lot from your channel and will continue to do so if you decide to go on.

  • @cliftonkarlbarbara3490
    @cliftonkarlbarbara3490 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey from UK & Malta, Keep strong Barbs. I am so sorry you feel this way. I would be gutted to but life has a habit of making things clearer after the pain. I love Geography Now and I have faith you will be back to your jolly self.

  • @ky.litooo
    @ky.litooo 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Barbs, I am so sorry this happened to you and your Mom. It is truly saddening. Wanted to share that I love your channel and sending you encouragement to keep on going. You’ve really paved the way for so many, rooting for you.

  • @annahernandez3690
    @annahernandez3690 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I am so sorry this happened. I got robbed in a bus and felt unsettled and insecure for weeks… stay strong!!!!

  • @bmjv77
    @bmjv77 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    You've given many hours of happiness to many people, Barbs. We're all here to support you, my man.

  • @baseballinsiegel89
    @baseballinsiegel89 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    even getting robbed of something little is a terrible feeling. can't imagine this, so sorry to hear. sending love!!

  • @xrisn5384
    @xrisn5384 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are an inspiration to so many people out there! We appreciate all that you do on GN. This could have happened to you whilst going grocery shopping so it has nothing to do with you traveling and having fun.
    Thanks for the upload, and sharing your experiences.

  • @BubblewrapHighway
    @BubblewrapHighway 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I can't imagine another geography channel. Yours is so awesome. Good vibes, Barbs. You'll recover from this and hopefully get to enjoy another part of the country.
    I used to live in Monterey, San Fran, and Seattle and as much as I adored those places, I'm glad to be home in the Great Lakes region.

  • @realdreamerschangetheworld7470
    @realdreamerschangetheworld7470 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

    Super glad your mother is okay. Hope you can all recover from this. ❤

  • @rivasahp89
    @rivasahp89 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We support you Paul!! Greetings from Costa Rica my friend. Stay strong

  • @anandshukla3915
    @anandshukla3915 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We're always with you buddy, you're one of the first person I've followed and I have gained so much from your efforts that I can't even explain. I say thank you man, and please keep moving forward. I am with you 💯.❤

  • @clareviewphotography1322
    @clareviewphotography1322 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Damn….im really sorry you and your mom are going through this. Back in college, I took a short road trip with my friends and my car ended up stolen. It’s certainly not to this level, but I get the feeling of helplessness, anger and mistrust. Especially since it involves your mother….mannnn I’d be so heated too. The shining light is that you have an ENTIRE GLOBAL community here to support you.
    On the channel bit, everyone reaches that plateau. It’s going to be hard now to get those creative juices flowing, after all this that has just happened. Keep watching the other shows until you start brainstorming. You WILL bounce back from this!