He deflects much??? He ain't worth the drawls he wearin', but she picked him and wants to keep him. You can tell he doesn't have much sense, so he CAN'T be making enough money to begin to support 8 children! What does she want to be there for??? (With her rule of three. Hmmm.🫤)
Life is too short to be dealing with someone else's insecurities. While she's putting up with this nonsense, her true soulmate is out there wondering where she's at. This ain't it, sis!
I can't stand blk broads like you. You talk to god-dam much and don't know s**t. How you know weather if this mann high or not? How you know weather or not if he doesn't have a medical condition? I encourage any man to run from a low-class fool like yourself.. You're ignorant and have a mindset of stupidity.. I see 👀 why you ain't got no man..
Just based on the 3-year rule, and ignoring all the red flags, this woman is determined to be married to be married. To be married is the goal for this woman
She’s holding onto some childhood dream that he’s her first love and they belong together… cuss idk why she’s upset that he’s sleeping on the couch and not sleeping with her.. why do you want him when you know for a fact that he’s sexing someone else? The cheating that these couples do and deal with is crazy!!
Why is Star and this lady trying to save this relationship?! He outed himself when he said “you never know how the women gonna do ya”. He’s been cheating and sleeping with many women the entire time!! She just doesn’t know how many. No wonder he already had 8 kids. RUN! This is trash!
He’s the worst kind of cheater. He’s a gaslighter that projects his cheats onto her. She needs to leave. Their history together ain’t saving this relationship.
He's trying to put something on her because he's the one that's cheating and has cheated on every woman he's been with he's going from woman to woman that's why he has 8 children and is looking for any reason not to marry her girl run before you be baby mamma number 9 🏃♀️
See… See…SEE… this man has eight kids… Eight… Eight… No cause for concern? What does one hear when a person says, I have eight kids? What about him and his situation screams faithful, commitment, provider, caring, selfless???
Is she THAT DESPERATE that she wants to save her ‘couple’?!? And all that because the know each other since the childhood?!? RIDICULOUS!! With time people get older and change! All that guy does is acting and thinking by projection. He kept accusing her of what he was doing.
Judge Lynn Toler would have told her don't you realize he's a traveler, he's got eight children he's never committed to any one of those children's mothers. What makes you think you're any different.
I normally like her advice, but she is WRONG on this one. He has no remorse, no self awareness, and placing all his insecurities on her and the judge want them to save this relationship based on history alone? Fuckkkkk that. If we are not compatible and have no trust, love, or security in a relationship, then it aint worth keeping🤷
I’m truly trying to figure out what’s there to be saved here ? A man who openly cheats and then accuses his partner of cheating so he can appease his conscience ? A broke man who can’t even take the time to be faithful. A man who can’t stay faithful will kill you, y’all keep running after these cheaters like y’all have no sense. No one that loves you will cheat on you, it’s easier to stay faithful than cheat, cheating takes planning.
Morality out of the window. Shacking up is the WORST idea. That why there are so many single parent moms. If he doesn’t love you enough to marry you, you should NOT be having his kids!
Judge Lynn Toler would have told him he was trifling, no count, trash and would have told her to run!!! Building Trust back, NOOOO! She needs to leave the mess!!
Let me get this straight, he has 8 kids and she has 2 why would she put herself in that situation? He has a guilty conscience, he's a dirt bag cheating before and admitted to cheating but projecting his insecurities onto her? I pray I never get this desperate for love that I get put through stress and infidelity and get accuse of cheating? Please, this is why people need to heal before entering new relationships. This is sad
She gives the WORST advice. I’m trying to watch her episodes and it’s so hard. She’s asks questions that were already answered. Even her making the lady say she’s not cheating after he brought the keys back to his co-worker. That story sounded ridiculous
He’s acting like cheating is no thing …. What has this man to offer you? 10 kids between you both? You can’t do this for the kids it will actually mess them up….please make a really rational decision and go.
IMHO, sometimes you have to leave the past….IN THE PAST!!! Also, if I was her I would drop this zero. He’s admitted he has cheated, there’s no intimacy & no sex. In addition, he has 8 children & of course I would NEVER say a Father should neglect his kids. However, if she wants to be treated like a Queen, this man isn’t going to properly treat her like she deserves.
No saving this relationship. Lady leave.Stop lowering your own self- respect. Judge you are absolutely not thinking clearly. Tell this lady to leave.stop. being a fool do you honestly think he is not Involved with his children's mothers. You have been used. Go now while you still have some dignity. She didn't wait.she has a child..lady go!!!
Ma'am your major red flag is the fact that he's blaming every woman in every relationship he's been in for the failed Dynamic of that relationship..... that in itself is a red flag .....the fact that he's saying they all are the reason the relationship ended is the reason you should be running .....that tells me he screwed up in the majority of those relationships
Ma'am, you are a convenience, his maid, he loves his children enough to give them a good maid, but do you love your children, your unique daughter to stop giving her a desperate woman as a role model ?He sleeps on the couch, throw the cheating accusations because he's disgusted by you. Disgusted by you, face the truth and move on. All you were for all these years means nothing to his cheating behind. You can do and deserve so much better. You are too good, beautiful and classy for his mess. I miss Judge Toler on this...
The defendant has been on other court cases. Girl move on.stop your fantasy with this man. He doesn't want a relationship. 8 children and never married. Lady move on and fast!!. He is gay
He’s gas lighting her big time, desperate much, women come on let’s do better, she said she settled standards, I thought they were suppose to be higher not 👎🏾
He was the one cheating talking about some keys boy bye and how she is like everybody else when she doesn't know who keys they wore she is stupid for staying with him after cheating girl bye.
OMG this woman needs a stronger prescription on those glasses if she can not see the GASLIGHTING from this ninja with 8 baby mothers' SMH It's never getting better, run miss lady run 🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
Judge Toler always said never relocate for a man without a ring
She’s some kind of crazy for even taking a man with 8 kids seriously.
Yes!!!!! Absolutely ridiculous!!
He’s the one with 8 kids, admitted to cheating, and having a woman from social media, contact your woman… And you think she’s the problem?
Garbage!!!!
Talking about he found some damn keys 🙄🙄🙄 but somehow returned them to his coworker 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ and she staying for the foolishness 😳😳😳
@@lavidaloca2344Right! Gaslighting that woman like he didn't know who those keys belonged to.
He deflects much??? He ain't worth the drawls he wearin', but she picked him and wants to keep him. You can tell he doesn't have much sense, so he CAN'T be making enough money to begin to support 8 children! What does she want to be there for??? (With her rule of three. Hmmm.🫤)
Life is too short to be dealing with someone else's insecurities. While she's putting up with this nonsense, her true soulmate is out there wondering where she's at. This ain't it, sis!
Amen
This!!
No fr
He looks high as hell! She's holding onto a childhood fantasy. Girl run!!
LOL it's not funny but he do look high as hell
@@kaycee5469 Right!!
Comfortable! Remembering the friend and not the horrible man he is!
I can't stand blk broads like you.
You talk to god-dam much and don't know s**t.
How you know weather if this mann high or not? How you know weather or not if he doesn't have a medical condition?
I encourage any man to run from a low-class fool like yourself..
You're ignorant and have a mindset of stupidity..
I see 👀 why you ain't got no man..
@@thebarbieinvestor5428 exactly 💯
Lord please never let me be this desperate for love that I go through years of stress for someone
You won’t lol 😂 this is NPC vibes. I will always choose peace and happiness over this
Amen
Amen
Ma'am he has eight kids and you have two and you trying to run behind him with all of that outside responsibility and even cheating the whole time
If he’s accusing her of cheating, he’s definitely still cheating.
Why does she even want him? 🙄
Just based on the 3-year rule, and ignoring all the red flags, this woman is determined to be married to be married. To be married is the goal for this woman
@@michelleroyall351 bingo!
She’s holding onto some childhood dream that he’s her first love and they belong together… cuss idk why she’s upset that he’s sleeping on the couch and not sleeping with her.. why do you want him when you know for a fact that he’s sexing someone else? The cheating that these couples do and deal with is crazy!!
Why is Star and this lady trying to save this relationship?! He outed himself when he said “you never know how the women gonna do ya”. He’s been cheating and sleeping with many women the entire time!! She just doesn’t know how many. No wonder he already had 8 kids. RUN! This is trash!
I mean she don’t want to leave 🤷🏾♀️Help her crazy tail stay !!!
He’s so disgusting that he disgusts his own self. He accuses her all the time, because he cheats.
He has a guilty conscience! This is why you HEAL before you enter into a relationship
He’s a male! You know that is not going to happen 😂
So true
I just said this before even reading your comment
@@biancablonc4609❤a
He has 8kids!!! Run lady & FAST! Do not look back…..and cheated!smh
he’s a total waste of time! man bye!!!!👋🏾
Judge Star you dropped the ball on this case. Shouldve told that woman to runaway as far as she can from this deflecting cheating bastard.
She didn't tell her to leave, because she's not leaving.
I agree. She has done that with a couple of cases I've seen. I'm like, RUN!!
He’s the worst kind of cheater. He’s a gaslighter that projects his cheats onto her. She needs to leave. Their history together ain’t saving this relationship.
And he still cheating that's why he's sleeping on that couch too
AFTER ALL THOSE KIDS NOT MARRIED...NO MORALS..WILL NEVER WORK OUT...
Repeat your statement EVERYDAY!
I was never one to hate on the next mans motivations but sis the red flags are brighter than tail lights on a Tesla
Fr
How she gonna strike a deal for him to pay $20 every time he accuses her of cheating. He don’t look like he has $20 🤷🏾♀️ 🍿 👀 let me continue….
Y'all are definitely being gaslit by him! He is sabotaging his relationship with keys from work and texting that dude her phone number. Craziness!!!
Absolutely my sentiments, he planted those keys and gave the co-worker her phone number! What an Ignoramus
She didn't see any problems dating a man with 8 children that has never been married 🤔
He's trying to put something on her because he's the one that's cheating and has cheated on every woman he's been with he's going from woman to woman that's why he has 8 children and is looking for any reason not to marry her girl run before you be baby mamma number 9 🏃♀️
RIGHT
Yea and this naker lied and said he didn’t cheat
Yep! You're right
Judge Starr you wrong this time. He just want her to keep taking care of him and his children 😢😮
How did he know who the keys belong to??? He probably brought it home to accuse the woman because he’s a cheater
Theres never a reason to have this many kids, wtf?!
Oh I hope she's reading these comments 👀👀
Girl forget his commitment relationship he's has eight children already run away quickly 💔😭💔😭
See… See…SEE… this man has eight kids… Eight… Eight… No cause for concern? What does one hear when a person says, I have eight kids? What about him and his situation screams faithful, commitment, provider, caring, selfless???
Never let a man tell you more than once he don't want you.
Judge Toler rule 101
The first sign of a cheater is projection. I have a big feeling he's cheating currently. Guilty conscience
Of course!
Who's projected and he's sleeping on the couch cuz he contacted another woman in the middle of the night
That should have said he's projecting I'm completely agreeing with you
Why on earth do you want to marry this male???This is ridiculous!!
Sis throw this whole relationship away! Run and fast
Is she THAT DESPERATE that she wants to save her ‘couple’?!? And all that because the know each other since the childhood?!? RIDICULOUS!! With time people get older and change! All that guy does is acting and thinking by projection. He kept accusing her of what he was doing.
Why do cheaters hate getting cheaters on? That's hypocritical.
Judge Lynn Toler would have told her don't you realize he's a traveler, he's got eight children he's never committed to any one of those children's mothers. What makes you think you're any different.
Please don’t do it, ma’am.
The 8 kids were not a red flag?????? 🚩
He's seems like an alcoholic. SMH
When he started sleeping on the couch I would of moved out the next day!
Yep no intimacy for her and then he's out there contact another woman in the middle of the night you can best believe
Ladies stop living together until your getting married, the excuse my money ain't right, is unacceptable, run girl
Right
Thank you!!!
No man ain't moving in my house not married to me, sorry, nope, hell no, not a daymnnn
Miss Hancock please move on!!!!!!
Please don’t beg a man to want you.
Why not just leave each other alone..you’ll don’t even sleep together
low budget Tone Loc 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 doneeeeeeeeeee
I’m crying lol
Not a pic of the couch 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This Is why I stay single. Life is too short for all this drama.
He doesn't want her.
I normally like her advice, but she is WRONG on this one. He has no remorse, no self awareness, and placing all his insecurities on her and the judge want them to save this relationship based on history alone? Fuckkkkk that. If we are not compatible and have no trust, love, or security in a relationship, then it aint worth keeping🤷
Girl keep it moving, he's the one cheating girl 😅
Run miss run.. run like Forrest!
He don't look sober.
When his lips move, he lying😮
He no catch, but want a free nanny
Yes. I was waiting for someone to mention a drinking problem.
Aww, man...
I’m truly trying to figure out what’s there to be saved here ? A man who openly cheats and then accuses his partner of cheating so he can appease his conscience ? A broke man who can’t even take the time to be faithful. A man who can’t stay faithful will kill you, y’all keep running after these cheaters like y’all have no sense. No one that loves you will cheat on you, it’s easier to stay faithful than cheat, cheating takes planning.
And why are they in court? Just breakup already.
She needs to leave period!
He should stop drinking
Ian never heard of this three year rule 😂
Right!! It obviously ain't the formula for sucess!😂
She made that ridiculous itsh up! If she had a rule of three, how/why is she tryna hang on a dude with EIGHT chil'ren???🤣🤣🤣
Is he drunk or slow?
😅 both??
Both
😂😂
😅😂🤣
Ikr.. speaking incoherently like he slow
Morality out of the window. Shacking up is the WORST idea. That why there are so many single parent moms. If he doesn’t love you enough to marry you, you should NOT be having his kids!
Judge Lynn Toler would have told him he was trifling, no count, trash and would have told her to run!!! Building Trust back, NOOOO! She needs to leave the mess!!
Judge Star is looking so fly! Beautiful outfits looking like a model!!!
Run 🏃♀️ home girl he’s a player
Well 10 children between 2 people 😮
Let me get this straight, he has 8 kids and she has 2 why would she put herself in that situation? He has a guilty conscience, he's a dirt bag cheating before and admitted to cheating but projecting his insecurities onto her? I pray I never get this desperate for love that I get put through stress and infidelity and get accuse of cheating? Please, this is why people need to heal before entering new relationships. This is sad
He’s for the streets getting it in in the streets with ratchets. He’s getting what he wants out there.
Yes Judge Star…help them fix their relationship in order to save the rest of us from him!!!! Let her have that headache and all those 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
How stupid is the plantif? Judge stop trying to save this relationship.
This man loves what she does for him but she’s not what he wants.
He's OBVIOUSLY the cheater cheater pumpkin eater. She needs some self esteem so she can run as fast as possible
She gives the WORST advice. I’m trying to watch her episodes and it’s so hard. She’s asks questions that were already answered. Even her making the lady say she’s not cheating after he brought the keys back to his co-worker. That story sounded ridiculous
He’s acting like cheating is no thing …. What has this man to offer you? 10 kids between you both? You can’t do this for the kids it will actually mess them up….please make a really rational decision and go.
IMHO, sometimes you have to leave the past….IN THE PAST!!! Also, if I was her I would drop this zero. He’s admitted he has cheated, there’s no intimacy & no sex. In addition, he has 8 children & of course I would NEVER say a Father should neglect his kids. However, if she wants to be treated like a Queen, this man isn’t going to properly treat her like she deserves.
I’m done and so should their relationship!
He doesn't want to be with her. Thats why he is accusing her...a way to keep distance.
She is a matter of convenience.
No saving this relationship. Lady leave.Stop lowering your own self- respect. Judge you are absolutely not thinking clearly.
Tell this lady to leave.stop. being a fool do you honestly think he is not Involved with his children's mothers. You have been used.
Go now while you still have some dignity.
She didn't wait.she has a child..lady go!!!
Ma'am your major red flag is the fact that he's blaming every woman in every relationship he's been in for the failed Dynamic of that relationship..... that in itself is a red flag .....the fact that he's saying they all are the reason the relationship ended is the reason you should be running .....that tells me he screwed up in the majority of those relationships
Wait.... she thought he was her soul mate when she was 5 years old🤔 who the hell at the age of 5 thinks like that🙄
They treat them like ignorant children, I would never let them do that 💩 to me !!!!!
Ma'am, you are a convenience, his maid, he loves his children enough to give them a good maid, but do you love your children, your unique daughter to stop giving her a desperate woman as a role model ?He sleeps on the couch, throw the cheating accusations because he's disgusted by you. Disgusted by you, face the truth and move on. All you were for all these years means nothing to his cheating behind. You can do and deserve so much better. You are too good, beautiful and classy for his mess.
I miss Judge Toler on this...
Girl u need to run!
Never let ANYONE tell you MORE THAN ONCE they DON'T WANT YOU!
Evidence and suspicious is too different things boy please
Keep it up on your show hope to see more
They need too break up A.S.A.P he caught his exes cheating has nothing too do with her...he is sleeping around on her.
When the man speaks she keeps saying no it isn't / stuff.
He telling her. She not listening.
The defendant has been on other court cases.
Girl move on.stop your fantasy with this man. He doesn't want a relationship. 8 children and never married. Lady move on and fast!!. He is gay
Did he say Playstation 2😂😂😂😂
I don't believe he's gonna change his behavior
Good episode in my opinion
The language and lack of speaking correctly.. I can't listen to the case any longer
He is such a liar she deserves better than him. She needs to get away from him and not look back
He’s gas lighting her big time, desperate much, women come on let’s do better, she said she settled standards, I thought they were suppose to be higher not 👎🏾
Does know how to communicate?? thoroughly
He was the one cheating talking about some keys boy bye and how she is like everybody else when she doesn't know who keys they wore she is stupid for staying with him after cheating girl bye.
Often, those sandbox romances don't translate as soulmates. The translation is cute memories from the past. Leave them there.
This man is draining
What is she going to do with a man with 8 kids.? She is desperate.
Girl, he does not love you. Let him go his own way, you can do better by yourself. Love you more.
How u met your soulmate age of 5????? , that's crazy
Those shoes are fire!
Why don’t I believe him on the keys found? After watching WTFDIM the manipulation caper is real! Ima pass out academy awards soon 😂
HE PLANTED THOSE KEYS HE’S A GOOD LIAR WITH 8 KIDS
OMG this woman needs a stronger prescription on those glasses if she can not see the GASLIGHTING from this ninja with 8 baby mothers' SMH It's never getting better, run miss lady run 🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
he put them dame keys there, an he cheating simple he drinks a lot he have that beer slur