Avoidance often have exes that just won’t go away
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
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Astonishing video as always, at first i wasn't really into watching such relationship experts video, but it turned out to be a blessing in so many ways, 10 years ago i was with a narcissist and i broke things up 4 years ago, found someone who truly cared for me and i messed things up because i was trauma bonded. then i started watching a lot of youtube videos and some christian videos about relationships and marriages, i learned a lot, and something actually happened as well, i was able to get my ex back with the help of watching matthew hussey videos and reaching out to a spiritual counselor
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i have been battling with a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended a year ago, and till now, I am still in the crossroads on what to do, it is really sad
offcourse. it's difficult to let go of someone you love, like i said, I watched so many helpful videos but the key was the spiritual counselor.
What spiritual counselor? How can I reach him or her?.
Her name is Shelly Renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Couldn't find her on youtube, but saw her website online, i will reach out. thank you
My avoidant ex offered me friendship, almost a year ago when she discarded me. I didn't take her up on her offer ! I'm the kind of ex that doesn't come back, once discarded. I'd rather focus on healing, understanding what went wrong, work on myself and move on. If she has regrets, which I strongly doubt, then it's simply none of my business.
I do exactly the same. I have never came back with any of my exes.
My story on repeat with my DA . He's trying to come back but my door is locked 🔒 and the key 🔑 has been thrown away. He is not welcome in my life. I know my worth and he is not worth having a second of my precious time. Go & heal before coming into innocent people's lives who didn't cause your pain is how I see it.
My ex would emotionally discard me, at any given time and all the time, and place reminders of his exes in plain sight, front and center, and keep their "couples" pics on his social media while posting nothing of our 4-year relationship. He told me it was to remind him that he was loved at one time. Screw the fact that he was being loved AT THE MOMENT! 🙄
Oh, so thats why he kept his old situationship on Snapchat, never blocked him and cheated on me for 22 months
What about when they marry, do they think the marriage will fail at some point too? 😅