Why Understanding the 16 Personalities is So Important!
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- Why is understanding the 16 Personalities so Important??
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FRANK! Roomie did a video where he did the mbti test, he got an ISFJ, that man is no where near and ISFJ, plz give your opinion before I have an aneurysm. Tbh I'd think he's ESTP, plz deal with this injustice for the sake of all true ISFJ's!
Would love to, mate, but I'm basically textbook INFP.
I already know my type since I'm basically a walking stereotype but I want to do this for fun. When I have money I'll test out your services
Pretty sure someone asked, so
U/da_real_rick is my Reddit account
ARE ISTJ'S MOST LIKELY TO BECOME SOCIOPATHS(I'M SCARED)
As an INTP, and as someone who has never found it easy to read the social cues of the people around me, I find that MBTI provides a useful framework to help me understand and interact with other humans.
I'm not going around typing everyone willy-nilly, but I've found that paying attention in particular to which cognitive functions people are using is very helpful.
And for me (an INTP too) the MBTI has helped me to accept my flaws I've failed to get rid of as part of me and brought me if not inner peace but small amount of self-forgiveness.
When I was a child people were always telling me I was embarrasing or rude when I was trying to be nice and polite but nobody told me how I should have behaved instead and that's why I've always been very hard on myself for every little mistake and wrong choice I make.
The same MBTI has done for me (but I'm an INTJ)
I'm an ISFP, and MBTI has helped me to see those who are t's better. I have in the past thought they were being grumpy and unfeeling to me. But now I see that is not true at all! They are just not overly gushy like me, but they don't care any less for those around them.
So I have been able to stop getting offended by stuff that wasn't meant to be hurtful at all.
I've always thought that there were something wrong with me, like a mental problem, im not good with everyones feeling, not even with my own feelings (sorry my english) i get distracted easily and all that other characteristcs... But now i have some clues of who i am like, i feel like finally found the answers and know i can work on it
@@samy101p2 Your English is great :)
I’m an INTP in a family of feelers. It’s really hard for me to understand people unless I have specific frameworks to go by, and MBTI really helped me with that
interesting
God me too, almost all my family and friends (i have only 2 friends but whatever lol) are feelers, i'm litteraly SURROUNDED by them and this can make me feel quite misunderstood sometimes XD
But before MBTI i wasn't really aware of the causes of that gap
@@midoriemi3859 lol I have only 2 friends too, both feelers
It has really helped me understand the humans more. -intj
@@LilacSnowBun ah yes, the humans
"Oh, that person is a weirdo" is 100% scientifically proven, by the way.
An MBTI test is not really science. It's a tool which can be useful when used correctly, but it is no scientific tool. Analyzing self ratings can be a part of science, but the self rating alone is not. You do have a bias and only 50-70% of the results are correct and/or reproducable.
@@ThePandafriend Oh look, it's probably a xxTx talking! 😉
@@jessenceq3250 INTP-A
So yeah.
@@ThePandafriend Nice. I like your kind so far. - INFJ
There are two ways to understand and use mbti, to your advantage and against you. If you use it the wrong way, you may start putting labels on people, as well as yourself, thus boxing yourself in and limiting your chance to grow, when in reality it should be a tool to help us learn about why we do things the way we do, and develop ourselves in areas we might be lacking. Knowing about my and my friends'/family's types has definitely been a game changer :)
And sorry I basically just paraphrased your entire point but I share your sentiments completely! 😊
More people that are part of this community need to read this 😅
“ISFPs are all amazing artists.” Yeah, no. I definitely don’t fall into that stereotype and that’s why I first had a really hard time believing I was ISFP.
i had a similar train of thought when i was typed as an intj. im kind of a goof ball and have trouble sticking to time tables/being punctual so i was kinda skeptical lmao
Lol same bro
same
I make art, and people I'm pretty decent imo, but I haven't taken a test yet.
Just like how they say INFJs are great counselors. I'm terrible at helping people reason things out.
When I first got introduced to typology about 5 years ago, I made the mistake of joining a Facebook group for INFJs. I saw so many people playing up to the stereotypes and I felt like I was mistyped because I wasn't identifying with the rest of the group. I ditched the group after about 2 months and got on with my life because I wasn't actually learning anything useful. Learning about the cognitive functions and being able to identify them at work has been invaluable information and has helped me to grow exponentially in the past year. Gotta love the efficiency aspect of that, I'm not into wasting my time. Thank you for this series, Frank!
"this isn't about limiting you" typical INFJ leaving room for other's improvement 😆
This is going to be fantastic. You dont even need Ni to know that
I'm sensing a good comment
@@relaxation_and_tax_evasion My intuition is agreeing with me. I can feel it. I think. Sorry, these puns suck, don't *judge* me
@Shimohira Reika lmao ;j
@Shimohira Reika you make a good point. However, even tho I could not predict without any doubt that the quality of the video would be amazing, i do know that Frank James’s video are, as a whole, good quality content. I was confident that the video woud be valuable since Frank is a great content creator, he is well instructed and he gives exact information. I knew his video would be instructive. Finally, i had a fifty/fifty chance that his video would be either good or bad. I then took the chance to state that his video would be good, because I had a strong instinct based on my knowlegde and trust in Frank james. In conclusion, even if I could not affirm out of all doubt that his video would be good, i choose to do so because I had high expetations, influenced by a long period of watching this TH-cam channel’s videos.
@@misterspongeward7814 i sure wont, im a perciever ;)
As an intj, i started into mbti because I wanted to know how this interesting little system works. But after a while, I realized it was a great shorthand for helping me remember how people are. But, the most powerful thing it provides is an efficient way to tell how people are different from you. There are times when people are asking concerned questions and one person may take that as being supportive and someone else may take it as being untrusting of your ability. Sometimes, people end up being rude when they are simply being careless and assume everything is sunshine and rainbows and the idea of offending someone doesn't even land on their radar. Sometimes people do just need a hug, they aren't making a move on you.
who else wants to hear frank play gutair?
2 Things:
1. When I found out I was more INTJ, the description made me understand what Lauren Hill was singing about in Killing Me Softly- REALLY seen. I was depressed for 3 days but then I realized it explained sooo much about me and helped me see what I want to work on as regards to myself. Now, knowing my INTJness, I understand myself better and how other people may view me from things I do that I think are kind and helpful but actually come off bossy and harsh. It still happens but now I know what’s going on.
2, There’s a TH-camr who took the test and got ENTP. Then said how, as Frank brought out, “it was limiting” and people change, etc, and just debating the whole thing. It was the most ENTP thing he could have said! ☺️
I lurv MBTI - It gives me a window into other people’s brains, more empathy over all, more patience for my own short-comings, and a great frame of reference for learning to develop my less prevalent functions. Thanks for all you do FJ!!!
Already one dislike. That's cause they already know your video is gonna be too cool and attractive for them✌️
Yo so true
After you said that the dislike disappeared lol
When you remove a video from your liked videos, it leaves a dislike- not defending the mmmm or anything, just saying
@@haikyuqueen3804 That’s weird :/
Yeah.. Haters gonna hate.. I kinda feel bad for them :(
FJ, I know this is a bit off-topic, but congrats on 600K subscribers!! :) I am very happy for you and proud of your success! You really deserve it!! Your channel is one of the best channels I've discovered on TH-cam, and your videos are the only ones I find worth watching on a regular basis.
Based on the comments a lot of people leave below most of your videos, I feel free to thank you for all the help on behalf of all of us here. :) We are so grateful for your advice, and we admire your creativity and your various talents. And let me add, we really appreciate the effort you make to create your videos.
I enjoy both your new content and your old stuff. Don't you ever dare to criticize or delete your older videos, or something like that!! :) Sometimes, when there's no one I can talk to, I watch your older videos, and they really help me. They are very comforting, deep, and beyond compare.
What else can I write but that I feel sorry for the viewers who haven't discovered your channel yet! :) I wish your channel an even faster growth!! Keep up the amazing work!!!
Ooh Last night before I went to sleep he was at 599k!! ^-^ I saw your comment and looked. It's super great!!
Bringing up the phenomenon or issue with identifying too much with (actually whatever it may be - your personality type, your diagnosis, your sexuality or race or religion) was a really good thing.
THIS. 👍
I'm an ace ENFP 6w7 with Asperger's, but I'm mainly just a multifaceted person with all sorts of preferences, quirks, and idiosyncrasies. You're absolutely right.
Don't worry it's just Timmy and his mates!
Knowing my type actually helped me being ok with myself! I'm ENFP-t and as a teenager I was told I'm too emotional, because I sometimes change my mood more than once a day....I was then send to to therapy, which I quit after a few sessions, because I didn't feel like I needed fixing.
It damaged me and I started to not express myself anymore. Not jump around happily, not making jokes, being very self-concious, not talking about bad things that happened to me ect, I became very serious. Soon I lost interest in my hobbies didn't connect with people anymore. In short feeling like something is wrong with me, made me depressed...
I knew before the typing I was fine as a person, but I still had been critizised for being a scanner. I'm too sensitive and emotional for some people. But now I understand this is my strength. And that that it's fine.
I'm from a very strict household. I needed to do 6 years of gymnastics as a child, even though I didn't like it to teach me consistency....My parents tried to teach me to not be a quitter that way.... Yeah they don't understand me at all. I function differently, so I must be wrong.
So reading there are others like me with similar problems helped me a lot!
My best friend from childhood is INFJ XD So the ENFP x INFJ thing has some truth to it! I'm glad she understood me! I love her to the moon and back! ❤ She is wonderful!
I'm typing this at 6am....I'm only half awake. I hope it's not too incoherent!
That's a lovely story! I'm an ENFP, too. 🥰 I think some people see me as an unorganised person. This was a problem cuz my former landlord was a very meticulous, strict person. (She was just mean tbh...) I felt so anxious living in the house cuz she made many new rules after I moved in and invaded my privacy. Her emails were really obnoxious as well. So like you, I started to hide my spontaneous, free personality to avoid conflict. I moved out of that house, and now I'm receiving weekly counseling and getting myself back and also improving myself. 👍 I think I've become a stronger person now, which is awesome. Thanks for sharing your experience! 🎶 It is great to hear other ENFP's overcoming stories. They cheer me up. ♥️
First of all, typing at 6:45 in the morning, half awake too 😅
I'm so sorry you had to go through this! It's hard when you're good and happy as a child and they think you have to be "fixed". I'm sure you were perfectly fine ;) I was told the same as a kid and thus trying to change me or making me more of an extrovert which actually made me more introvert I guess but, you get the point. I do think, emotional and sensitive and intuitive types are often looked at as a risk because people don't like being exposed and when you see through them or their bs.
Suggestions for one of your videos
“16 personalities when kidnapped “.
That's a great idea
It helped me personally sooo much to understand why I had fights with some of my family members. And understanding that they had different functions made me accept those differences, and to communicate better with them.
Like the fact that I have to stop arguing about spiritual stuff with my INTP brother 😂
(ENFP there btw)
Same here, INTJ tho.
asking someones personality type is literally one of the first couple questions I ask a new friend or even a date!!! Its actually a great conversation starter!!
It's really exciting to know immediately but sometimes I like to build my own view with them first before I become biased.
Me too!
An overthinker: there are only nine personalities on the tumbnail
They're the only important ones 😅
Look behind FJ's head
@@hollyvincentart Where is the isfj then? 😃
@@somebodysomeone453 Well, that explains everything
@ICEGalaxy Everyone's important...
FJ, you are really putting typology on the map. I remember when it was rare for MBTI content to only get 20K followers, now you are at 600K subs! Congrats and it is so well deserved. You have made personality type commentary cool! Thanks for all you do and keep up the great work. 🥳👏🏽👍🏽
I'm an INFJ and before I knew MBTI, I always feel that I'm weird because I'm so different from other people around me in the way of thinking, loves being alone and enjoy myself with so many books, etc.
Even my sister in law once said to my mom that she thought that I have some social issue.
😅
And when people do or think something different from me, especially when they are making decisions that looks like not considerate other people, I always thought why he/she can be so cruel. Why people like that exist?
😅
But after I knew MBTI, I knew I'm not weird and understand that people are different.
And like what you said, it makes me communicate and understand people easier.
Try to embracing my inferior functions makes me become better person and avoid some problems.
Thanks for always make MBTI video that easily to understand, FJ!
🥰👍🏻
Keep up the good work!
Always love your video.
I was skeptical at first. But i got more into it and it really gave me better understanding of myself and others.
Im glad you're explaining stuff with "how types communicate/ how they make decisions" etc it is more hm, practical ;)
Ahhh Sundays videos are the bestest. They get me wonder 😊💡🧡
I'm an INTP who hates math more than anything else, knows jack diddle about programming or hacking, wants to major in art, and is actually fairly empathetic (when I choose/care enough to be, lol)
Don't be some checkmark on a list 👍
Thank youuuuu! I don't like science either (even if i admit it can be very interesting), and i'm also a very happy and positive person, which trait does not really fit into the INTP type
@@midoriemi3859 Yes, same! INTP here too. I am really optimistic and pretty empathetic (I took a lot of time to develop my Fe inferior these last years) and that's why I have a hard time relating to the INTP stereotypes sometimes (which is basically why they are stereotypes, they're not true all the time of course). And it's also true that INTP artists are really slept on, thought they are not that much of a minority! I actually went on MBTI surveys and the most commom college major among INTPS who took the survey was actually art :)
"If you're not convinced by the end of the video... you're wrong" it's not even a minute of the video yet and I already cracked up 😂
I need to show this to my ENFJ boyfriend. I've been trying to explain to him what Myers Briggs personality types are for 4 years, but he keeps saying he doesn't "get it", and that he "can't remember all those letters". Funny enough, a while ago I found a picture with Pusheen "dressed up" as every single type and he really liked it, so now everytime I talk about the personality types, he keeps asking: "Which Pusheen am I? Which Pusheen is my brother?". I know it's hilarious, but that's been the only progress - in this specifical field - in the last 4 years, so hopefully, Frank, you'll be more clear than me 😂
Same situation here. My brother is an ESFJ and he says the same thing that he doesn't "get it".
Don't push it on people, advertise tell them a problem they have and then solve it using this and if they don't buy it, then don't bring this up again, it's annoying
Don't waste your time, he won't get it anyway.
Learning about MBTI has helped me be more understanding of others; to be less critical. Also to be forgiving when people hurt my feelings or rub me the wrong way. It helps to realize that not everything should be taken personally...some things others do has absolutely nothing to do with how they value me as a friend.
This was so good I did a backflip outta my window... Well I was about to, but it's currently snowing outside, so I thought, 'Better not!'. Great advice re: knowing how to watch out for unhelpful patterns of behaviour, and how to be more patient and compassionate re: others'. And congrats on the 600K subs! :)
Fun fact: both me and my older brother are Intj!
Also another fun fact: I’m 97% introverted.
That is a fun fact. Both me and my dad and infjs
You guys are fun
I'm an INFJ and my mom is an ISTJ
That explains the profile pic. XD -INTJ
Fun Fact : I'm 99% Introvert INTP
I'm INPF and I think it's pretty accurate. I'm also a Gemini and most Gemini things don't match with me so... I don't think it's just astrology for smart people
Me and my homies understand all the personalities
Yoooo same
You're lucky. My homies don't care😒
And the functions
@@giishaw92 jokes on you i don't have homies
@@elejashi6606 touché
Good talk and so true! When I was first exploring typology and learning about myself - and coming to terms with it - I had a bias against extroverts. It sounds so funny to me now, because I'm a lot more open and accepting about different people. At one point I was in one staff house where mostly introverts lived. We'd go out drinking, but in the house we'd be really chill and not talk much. An extroverted guy got hired at the company and he was on the extreme end of high energy. The guys treated him so badly and I felt very bad seeing that. It's like the reverse situation where the introvert gets shunned for being too quiet. As it turned out, that extroverted guy had an angsty side and did a lot of writing, so we connected on that level. It taught me such an important lesson to practice what I preach - to accept others as they are and they're not always who they seem to be on the outside.
These 13 minutes is more valuable than my 4 years in college.
I'm taking a personality psychology class right now and your videos are so helpful! I'm so fascinated by the 16 personality types. I've been having my friends take the test to learn more about their personalitites to understand them more. I'm an infj btw!
Congrats on 600k Frank. Well deserved
An INFJ here
MBTI has been my saving grace when it comes to social interaction. I used to be horrible at it, but since discovering MBTI and learning more about it from great speakers like FJ, my brain can finally rationalize most of the intricacies of social interaction. Kudos to FJ for putting all the information in an easy-to-absorb format.
"Why is it so important to know about the 16 Meyers Briggs' personality types?"
Because it helps create funny videos! : )
Personality tests are very inaccurate. The only way to understand your personality is to actually study cognitive functions. I see a lot of people claiming to be INFJ's and INFP's, both of which are extremely rare, especially INFJ which was for some reason the personality with which most users got on the 16 personalities website (357K). People try to explain this by saying that INFJ's are more interested in these tests, which is not true. The truth is that INFJ's and INFP's are the types of personalities that suffer the most mistyping, and the vast majority of people do not even belong to these groups. That is why studying cognitive functions is so important, because in addition to the tests being inaccurate, they deal with heavy stereotypes that come down to just 4 letters, and our personality changes constantly over the months and years.
True
Exactly
Yeah, the questions are so basic and people can't help but give the answers on basis of their idealised assumptions. The test strongly demarcates between the two types of each parameter as if it's not possible to have a balance. Whereas, functions explain such traits. The way letters P and J and T and F are distinguished annoys me the most in that test. I got to know my type only after studying functions otherwise it would just assign me as an INTP or INFP.
I read about cognitive functions and still think I'm an infp, but right because it's so easy to mistype for one, I'm still not sure about it...
And people get so attached to being the stereotype that 16 personalities gives you. Humans are so different and have vastly different experiences. Having the same cognitive function preferences as someone else shouldn't mean that you're the exact same type of person as them. It's the way we process information and make decisions that connects us to our 'type'. You're individual personality is so unique to you that it can't be put in to a box with anyone else so you can't based who you are just on those 16 stereotypes
Appreciate you highlighting the inferior function. The dominant function is the obvious ones that everyone embraces in themselves, but it's the lower functions that really are where changes can be made when you're aware of them. It's more important to know about Fe inferior, for instance, than Ti dom. It's really hard to confront the inferior function, cognitive looping, nemesis, critic and demon functions when you don't have an awareness to them. MBTI should spur growth, not stagnation.
ENFP here, just trying to understand INFJ personnality to be able to help everyone !
For some reason I was hoping for a fluffy cat and an Italian accent when the video started, haha. 🐺
And great hair, apparently some people manage to get proper haircuts even now while I could not go to the hsirdresser since this whole "C thing" started (very jealous indeed!).
Also I really liked what you said about the reality perception. My sister is a feeler and her problems often seem blown out of proportion to me (a thinker). It took me some years to learn that listening and comforting her before starting the "logical problem-solving mode" is much better and more efficient than skipping over the emotions involved. 😊
Anyone remember last year on the Superbowl Frank did a livestream? That was so fun!!! Miss your weekly livestreams Frank!!!
other than the conspiracy theorist angle, I'm very much so a stereotypical INTJ 😂 and I didn't start learning about MBTI until I was 30
Same here, except they’re not conspiracy theories if they’re real ;)
Ha! Some things do make my school years make more sense 😂
I learned that I'm INTJ last week when I took that test and their description was exactly what I feel and think.
@@pervert_kun Welcome to the club!! You’re awesome 😎
@@pervert_kun are you from India???
Frank James, you're a Rockstar in how eloquently and comfortably you explain complex concepts and caveats to Myers Briggs typology. ❤
Is it normal that I "forced" all my friends to do the personality test, so I know how to act in front of them that they feel comfortable?
(Btw I'm an advocate, haha...)
I would love to see a 16 personalities taking fortune cookies lol one could have a really bad future and take another one or something 😂
Lol yeah 😂
@@artpotato3743 hey art potato
I once got a fortune cookie saying its gonna be a sunny day it was raining that day💀
@@gulshandiwakar5516 hiii
@@koemi4427 Oof lol 😂
Yess exactly! I like MBTI because I get to understand myself better, how my pattern works and see what I can improve. It gives me clarity and validation as to why I do things the way I do, also how I can go up from here.
I also get to see where people coming from if I know their type. I can't identify people just yet but when they tell me my type I can be more understanding and compassionate to them.
-ENFP
Compassion for others is a great benefit!
Also, love your orange pocket rose!
I really appreciate your comedy as well as the definitions and it's helped my son understand why I behave the way I do; which is a plus.
It helps you be more empathetic with you and everyone else. Like not so Lost and uncomprenhended, more like we understand things in different ways.
Wow! Many of the points that are discussed here aren't normally spoken about. As much as MBTI can be addictive and could subconsciously limit to act in a specific way, it definitely helps in understanding own's behavioural aspects as well as of the people around. You only witness overall development on a longer run 😁.
MBTI has generally helped me increase my self awareness and give words to facts about myself that I'm aware of but can't accurately express verbally.
I like the utilitarian soft pocket handkerchief, your sense of style and colour is so cool and classy (or color as Americans spell it).
So many reasons why It's important to understand 16 Personalities! Just recently, I introduced my sister to this channel and she took the 16 Personalities test, it turns out she is an ISFJ (I am INFJ). We binge-watched the comedy skits together and really got to understand one another while we laughed, as there was no doubt that the comedy skits precisely represented our personalities. A level of trust and openness that didn't exist before has blessed our relationship since then. I am forever grateful to FJ.
Exactly! MBTI is a tool, it's not meant to lock one in a box.
I definitely think a lot of people use their type as an excuse. “That’s just who I am I cant change my type” 🤷🏼♀️. That’s so frustrating. I definitely want to undo some of my typical behavior. As an INFP I want to be less sensitive and I want to see others perspectives better. I tend to only focus on myself.
I totally agree. I even feel like part of growing up and maturing is developping your type's weaknesses. I'm an INFP, and my life has improved a lot recently. In reaction to this, I see myself being more social, being more focused on others, managing my emotions better, even though I stay INFP.
I think that maybe a goal to improve ourselves could be to try to become more like the type with opposed function stack. For us INFPs, it would be developping Fe Ni Se Ti, aka taking ENFJs as models.
Working that way would allow a preference to truly be a preference, and not a default setting because we're incapable of being any other way.
You figure people out eventually without this, you learn how your friends, family and associates are, what to expect and how to deal with them when they get weird or you want to convince them about something. Having a good grasp of these things might speed up the process considerably. That's what I hope, anyways. And knowing my type has already helped some in dealing with my weak points and recurring problems. Instead of feeling weak or stupid about some particular thing that I do, and repeating myself regularly, I might actually be able to quit it if I know what to fix. I can think I'm doing it for one reason, but I'm seeing it's actually something different.
How MBTI can help you understand others:
I always understand, but people don't...JUST DON'T
so I stopped worrying now.
and people act like it's my fault and play victim then i feel guilty without any reason.
I am happy atleast, without always pleasing others .
I think the benefit to typing yourself is to understand your home base - where you feel the most natural or comfortable. That's only the starting point, then you learn how to expand from your core traits from there.
I took this test a few years ago & it has been an amazing & painful at times to have to go yeah that’s true. I am an INFJ with PTSD😬 Not an easy road for a sensitive. I feel everyone as if I have no skin.
When i start speak about MBTI with my homies, i am IGNORED. Should i find new homies?
Sneak MBTI into their minds.
Not necessarily, some of my closest friends don’t share my beliefs but what’s really important is respecting each other’s opinions whether or not you agree. If they’re just being rude about it then that’s understandable but if they’re just uninterested then maybe give them another chance.
Yeah it sucks. :( It's kinda rare to find people that actually are interested in it.
It's ok they're just s types. Most of the time the people fascinated with this stuff are ns
@@laurensano5913 probably, only the rare types are interested in it and are looking into it at all, the rest just doesn't care.
Frank, your work has become, the perfect trifecta, of, informative, educational, and entertaining. Congratulations! Fun and rewarding, to learn.
Brilliantly put bro. As an ENFJ I felt exactly like that - the power that MBTI typing has to show you how to better understand people. I have also become (even) more tolerant towards people as well, but now I feel like it's a more conscious process than how I used to process this before.
❤️ “... not every INTJ you meet is gonna fit that stereotype.” 👏 👏 👏 YES & thank you! Sandy INTJ 5w4
I'm an INTJ 6w5 and i pretty much don't fit to some stereotypes, so I started having doubts if I'm really an INTJ.
@@koutaro4776 No worries. We are not all the same. Each uniquely different, even amongst types :). I think the more we grow and mature we can lose some of the stereotypical behaviors. Be you!!
Wow, 600,000 subscribers! That's a milestone worth celebrating! 🎉🎊
Let's help get FJ to 1M... Then later beat PewdiePie, the the internet.
I’m gonna stick with Jung and the psychological types on this one.
Are there any other ENFPs who have realized that they're extremely competent and serious in high-pressure situations despite a seemingly whimsical nature most of the time?
Oh my goodness, yessss! I'm also an ENFP. 👋 I love learning and taking information so I can be very serious, focused, and quiet at school. I am also logical and realistic during meetings as well. And during breaks or at home, I am back to my smiley, spontaneous self. 😆
Me, i am ENFP i act completely different base on scene. I can be 100% serious, gives opinion in meeting and changed back to my fun charater once meeting end.
ENFPs are half-and-half when it comes to things like that. 51% of them are whimsical, happy-go-lucky and extremely gregarious by default. The other 49% are extremely pragmatic, reserved and serious (like INFJs but with a little more enthusiasm, because that’s basically what they are). ISTP is the gap that dots INFJ and ENFP. At the opposed ends they’re like inverse types/shadows and so I feel like every ENFP has a shadow INFJ within them (and vice-versa). Individual people seem to dip in and out of their shadow types quite a lot and with that come accompanying chances in social tempo and outward seriousness (I guess).
“....or the dynamic can be just one or both of you are stupid.” LOL, FJ keeping it real! 😉😂
One of the careers I'm deciding on is being a profiler for the FBI. Understanding the personalities gives tremendous insight to this career type. What do you think? Does understanding the personalities in accordance to the Myers Briggs indicator provide a helpful contribution to this field in terms of accuracy and reliability?
I am an INTJ maybe stereotypical one🧠
I am intelligent and smart person ( I don't want to boast I just know my value). I had always the best marks at school but It was only because my hard work and hours of study... unfortunately I have never been able to interface with other people. Conversations with colleagues always make me bored😒 and when I finally find topic interesting for me they think I just want to show off👓.
I don't want to be "star" or popular. I just want to be listened and appreciated.
I don't know am I need friend but it would be great have sb to talk with. Especially about topics I am interested in (I can assure you there's more than science but science is my addiction (chemistry and biology 💗)
Emotions aren't my strongest side. Maybe that's the reason why I am alone but It's not so bad. 🤔
(I hope you understand what I mean. My English isn't as good as I want. I still have a lot work to do)
@@Camerontheeagle123 Exactly I am Pole (Polish)
@@Camerontheeagle123 Unfortunately life isn't like movie 🎥 where you meet people similar to you. People don't understand our way of thinking (the same situation is with other type of personalities).
I am glad I found this channel. It maybe helps understand other better
Announcing that commercial break was a first class move right there.
1. As an ISTJ, 6:55 describes EXACTLY one of the benefits I got from MBTI.
2. Also, definitely relate to 9:10 when an ENFP would always ask a ton of questions in class about things we didn’t need to know (“What if...?”). But now I can live with it haha
For me, it has helped to accept who I am and where I fit in with society. I no longer feel dumb that I can't do math. I no longer sift through endless career "opportunities." I am who I am and I'm okay with that now.
Insightful vid! You always teach us something new and and we love it.
Recently, someone shared that there's 4 questions you can ask to determine a person's mbti type.
1.) Were they popular in school?
(Yes = E and No= I)
2.) Did they play sports?
(Yes = S and No = N)
3.) Were they good at math?
(Yes = T and No = F)
4.) Is their room clean?
(Yes = J and No = P)
According to your test, I got INTP. But I took the MBTI test a week ago and got ENTP. To be fair, I was loud and outgoing, but people didn't like me cause I was really annoying.
According to this, I turned from an INFP to and INFJ since school 😂
It’s a great way to make relationships. Not that anyone I meet I’m gonna ask them to take a test because that would be weird, but from celebrity couples, if I look at their mbtis they always have the compatible ones so the compatibility thing is true
I was sceptical first and just took the myers briggs test because I saw many youtubers/Instagramers being asked what type they are. But then I took the test (several times) and learned a lot about INFJs. Most things fit so perfectly and especially the videos on YT on how to use your strengths as INFJ and what not to do, helped me soooo much. Especially FJs and Wenzes' Videos. I feel like I know myself better now and that I am okay the way I am (but as an INFJ of course want to improve! lol)
Ayeee bro that was good for learning, I’m a estp and this was really useful for me to understand. Thanks man
Just realised you reached 600k so congrats dude
Gonna say what everyone is thinking... the pocket scarf is adding new layers of expert credibility.
Excellent video!
I’m somewhat varying between INFP-T and INTP-T. It’s always close to 50% on the nature scale every time I take the test, but more leaning more towards F type. It’s not always a clear cut but it does help me understand myself better
ISFP here - one test I did classified it as "the artist" and I did another test, got the same type but they classified it as "the adventurer". I used to be quite adventurous, especially as a child when you don't really have the sense of danger. Early adulthood, I did things because I wanted to without thinking much of the consequences, I certainly wasn't the "what if ..?" type. Becoming a parent changed that, "how would it affect....?"
I was officially typed by a trained Myers Briggs consultant a few weeks ago...it's so nice to know exactly what my type is now! I had my suspicions...But yeah. Thanks. Great video!
Super good to also realize our authentic selves and self reflect. Like is this really me or have I been lie ing to myself
Yaaasss. More videos like this, please. My only suggestion-as one INFJ to another-is to script your presentation, memorize it, and practice it again and again. This may seem a bit inauthentic, but it’ll feel more natural over time. I’m diggin’ the colorful wardrobe, btw. “Well, one does want a hint of color.”
I don't even know how I got into typology, but it has been really helpful to me!
I am VERY anti-social so learning other people's personality types (whether it be MBTI, horoscopes, blood types, actual scientific date, etc etc) helps me understand other people without socialising with them. It REALLY helps me not to get too stressed out about it, because all I have to do is to tell myself that person A acts that way because he/she is personality type A, so it can't be helped. If I hadn't, then I'd be like "Why is this person so dang stupid/emotional/lazy/etc!?".
Can you make a video about interaction between opposite types? Such as INTJ vs ESFP ?
I'm an enfj , after knowing all that mbti stuff and that I am an enfj etc now i have a problem putting myself into that enfj box...like being toooo selfless and thinking "i am enfj that how i am supposed to be so it's okay." Or more like "I should be like this",I'm really struggling right now I dont know what to do to get over this,any helpful thing please♡,thank you in avance.
Aha I remembered and the *worst* thing is that after finally trying to open up and also get help instead of just giving help, I think like"im the one who should help not them,like ..if it's my job to be a helper , a giver, but never a taker 🥺💔
I would be so grateful if someone gives me a useful advice or any advice or just comfort🥺 ,
i'm also ENFJ, i have exactly this same problems...
You are not alone ❤️
It's important to learn not just about our type, but others tho. Because we can understand people around us better than before. Example, I have INFP husband (I'm an INFJ), and I often find myself struggle with handling my anger for him. So with MBTI stuff, I can learn about hisself, not 100% accurate (because culture, geography, etc affect to personality) but it helps me to manage; what should I do at least to make him feel better with me. And he ain't MBTI fan so, I have to understand he has different interest, and he doesn't want to learn became a better person through MBTI, but another way.
And not just about MBTI, I learn how exactly my problem in phycology way. I don't say I'm expert to change myself better, but it's just make me realize, how does my Ni dom take me away far from reality. Oftentimes I just live in my world, so I don't realize, I hurt my husband because I always make a problem from a small thing, and not seeing facts how it happened. So I missed details in real world because I'm a daydreamer. And yeah, I struggle to change myself, but I do my best to take my relationship to be a higher level and full of trust.
Hope it helps. Cheers!
@@gosia.petlak7453 oh thank you dear🥺🖤 I hope you can get over this too,fighting!
I think i got tll attached to my personality description in the 16 personalities site,to the point that it is me representing the description/the enfj type, and not the decreption representing me ,probably gonna be overthinking this trying to end up with a solution lol,I already didnt do my homework thinking about this ,ah,sorry ,
Cheers , hope we both get over this🥺🤍🌸🐰
@@nonawinda8150 yes,I actually read a lot bout other personalities too,and I try to know how to get better with them by avoiding what annoys them♡🥰
Thank you sooo much for your time,I'm gonna try to get over this , i read about enfj flaws and I can say that I really relate to them, I still have them tho,but af least kn aware of them and I'm like" oh! that explains so much.."
Anyways have a nice day/night🥰❤.
As an INFJ who is very fond of ENFJs, I appreciate your type very much, and I feel that I can understand you because we have the same cognitive functions in just a slightly different order. The main difference between us--other than introversion vs extroversion and you having an easier time with Se while I am a little better with Ti--is that your Fe is super strong while my Ni practically consumes me. It is important to note that we don't have to work to remember to use our dominant functions. If anything we should focus more on our auxilary (and other) functions, so please don't ever feel like you should do MORE for others or give even MORE of yourself. (Just like it would be silly for me to put pressure on myself to do MORE overthinking.)
You surely already do plenty of that. However, as an INFJ I could benefit from being less cynical about people, and it would probably be a good thing for you to check with and trust in your own intuition more. The ENFJ who I know the best personally has a very beautiful soul, and it is nothing he has to work at. I imagine it is the same for you too.
Glad I view the MBTI healthly, I learn it so I can learn my weaknesses and try to overcome them, it's not easy, but knowing is the first step.
INTP here, through MBTI i didnt learn what i should be like, i learned why i am this way. A good example is talking on the phone, never liked it but im not at all afraid of public speaking or people in general, i've done jobs that really dont fit for an introvert at all (door to door salesman) and i know understand why i had the feelings i did and why i could never reached the top, Still i sometimes enjoyed the job even tho it was 100% talking to strangers, its because i was passionate about the product (Home Security). Its hard to get an INTP to talk, but once they start they cant stop.
What is your personality type? I'm a'n INFP what about you guys?
Hello fellow INFP!
Infp too here 🤚
ENFJ 💜
Hello entj here
Fellow INFP
I am really excited for this video to premiere!! just got to wait 4 more hours ^u^
yeehaw here we go! (just 4 hours more)
Hello ,,, Captain 👍
Hi Captain! 😊
Captain just one comment please ❤️
Lol yeah 😂
I don't know what will be said in the video, but my personal experience is that ever since I figured my brother is an ENTP we literally stopped fighting. Because most of our fights came from him debating for EVERYTHING even if we were agreeing and that was driving me crazy, because I was like "We are saying the exact same thing! Why must you turn everything to a debate???" But then I realized he is an ENTP, so that's what he does and I stopped arguing. I let him do his part, take it out of his chest and that's it.
Also, I don't know if that goes to all ENTPs but I figured the only way to get him apologize if he says something hurtful. I say nothing. I don't argue. I just lower my head and show that I am hurt. Then he has that monologue that escalates from teasing to an apology. Like "Ahaha, what? Can't handle it? You are too sensitive...wait...oh, come on, you know I was joking, right? OH COME ON I REALLY DIDN'T MEAN IT! DAMN I AM SORRY! CHEER UP!!!"
And I wasn't even trying to manipulate him to it, I just was so down and I didn't want to argue. But hell it works!
As an intp am always skeptical of my intj friend's quickly made opinions and he hates it so much lol. He's like "Why must you try to suggest the opposite of everything I say!?" He takes it the wrong way.
@@SantanaBanana47 That sounds tough...fast opinions aren't always the right ones, so I understand your need to give it a second thought and it's sad when people misunderstand this or become stubborn and fight.
I do understand full well what I don’t want in my life. That part is clear as my 🔮
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My hope is to use MBTI as a framework for writing believable characters that are different from me. Especially important because the alternative is to actually go out and talk to people, which I'm not a fan of.
Unlike horoscopes, which are assigned regardless of personality, MBTI profiles can afford to not fit people, making them more specific and thus more useful.
That said, I'm not married to the theory, and I'm also considering other ways of classifying personalities.
(If you've read this far, you've likely typed me as INTP, which also seems to be the case.)
The last section was really actually helpful, I am an INFJ and I'm freaking out about a meeting I'm supposed to drive because I'm not good at talking at length and having to explain stuff to people. It's so stressful for me, but hearing this I'm trying to calm myself down that I'm anxious because of my type and maybe I can do better and it won't be so bad after all...
I do understand it partially. I think it just complete.
I did some research on others scientific personality stuff. Dont know the names anymore but i Saw a lot of stuff that i all combined into the mbti.
I think that we should not only het our personality but also our 2nd layer, Since i Saw a lot of people not being sure of their type, they usually feel like 2 types, one Just more than the other. I think that the other type is also an important part of their Personality.
For me it is very correct. Im enfj but i apparrently get mistaken for being estp for being centre of attention, not giving shit and being way to confident for an enfj
Maybe that means you're in loop.
Enfj - Fe, Ni, Se, Ti
Estp - Se, Ti, Fe, Ni
So, enfj uses estp's dominant function when in loop.
People sometimes look like their tertiary function is their dominant.
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@@Anonymous-di9py yo bro!
@@fairyfellermasterstroke that actually sounds quite good
Idk if anyone's said this yet, but it's almost like learning to speak someone's mental language. I agree it makes you a lot more patient with people. The one thing I don't like is once you start you can't stop. I try to type everyone it's like you can't help it.
There was no ad for me! Mwhaha. But, Frank James, I would sit through an ad for you, my friend.
Also, totally laughed at "This person is still weird." It's true, understanding personality types has helped me to understand that everyone has different functions and reactions to a situation. At the same time, it still doesn't excuse bad behavior.