Yes, everything starts from family. If your family dont respect her, the outsiders will do the same. If your family loves her, the outsiders will follow! The outsiders don't know your dirty secrets. It's you who crack your own eggs. Glad you guys learned!
Some people are just cruel for no reason. The word HATE is such a strong word. No one can’t ever tell me to hate someone. Things works in many mysterious ways and that’s why koj tus niam hlob thiaj li los yuav nej tus tij laug. She’s God’s gift to him.
Hmong women play these toxic politics in every family. Be smart and independent in thinking. Never ever jump on the bandwagon of haters. Stay neutral, be kind to all your sils. Don't get involved in toxicity, hate, and gossip that preceded your arrival in the family. This rule also applies to workplace politics. Don't get pulled into the cliques and hate politics. Best to remain neutral. Be a uniter rather than the cause for division. Leaders unite, losers divide.
Don’t judge a person by just looking at them. You need to get to know that person. They don’t talk to you that’s not mean they are bad person. Some people lus tsawg tsawg tsis paub tham lus xwb. Don’t judge a book by it covers.
DON'T be a sheep! Before you judge someone so harshly, you should at least TRY to get to know them first. Some people may physically look like they are mean, but in reality they are not and are just shy or a person of few words. I can't believe your in-laws & other relatives AND you are so mean to your sil for a stupid superstition!!! You all deserve bad Karma for your unfounded hate!
😢 I have a similar story, when I first got marry to my husband everyone taught me to hate my husband's older sil, I did for the 1st month but I was never a follower, so I told myself I have to get to know her first before believing other people and I got to know her and let me tell you til this day her and I are best friends. We tell each other almost everything. She is the best sil to my husband and I. So happy you guys learn who she really is and it wasn't so late for you guys to amend your wrong doing/ thinking.
16:58 I agree with your mother 100%. Sadly, she taught you to be good but you chose to be hateful like your in-laws. I don’t believe in going along with the crowd until I see it for myself. You all are very immature and petty. Glad you admit that.
Kev khaum kev npam ces yog li no ntag los mas. Tab sis cov neeg es hnov luag tej hais tias lawv ntxub tus neeg ntawd ces yus cia li ntxub thiab no mas cov neeg li no yog ib cov neeg rua tshaj plaws li. Koj niag txiv los yog ib niag neeg siab phem ua luaj li ua neeg nyob yus yuav tsum pom kiag thiaj ntsib kiag ntawm yus tus kheej tias nws yog tus neeg phem tsim nyog ntxub mas mam ntxub pob.
Kuv pom cov neeg los yog 1 tug neeg li koj. Kuv tsis paub tias xyhov yog nws khib yus los yog nws saib yus qis2 tias yus ua tsis tau dabtsi es nws thiaj tsis nyiam yus. Tus neeg no mas peb ib pab kwv tij uas muaj dabtsi los peb sib pab sib koom ua ke mas nws mas nws hais lus rau lwm Tus niam tsev thiab nws txib lawv mas nws ua ntsej muag luag ntxhi xwb hos nws hais yus mas dub nciab xwb tsis muaj qhov smile rau yus li thiab nws yeej tsis lam txib yus unless nws tsis muaj choice mas nws thiaj txib yus but no friendly smile and never say hi rau yus thaum tuaj Mus sib ntsib kev noj kev haus tabsis cov neeg nws nyiam mas tshwm puag Tom qhov rooj 10-20 feet mas lawv twb hu luag ntxhi tias Tuaj lawm los? Los tom no os. Es kuv tsis paub tias yus twb tsis tau Thov nws noj nws haus, tsis tau qiv nws Nyiaj siv ib zaug es yuav tsis them nws li but she always have this attitude toward me. But I don’t get the rat ass. Ua neeg nyob yus tsis paub luag hauv luag lub siab, yus txhob saib dej ua phlu neeg ua ntu tsam 16:49 muaj ib hnub twg yus ho yuav vam txog luag ces txaj muag mog
Mej tus niam tij siab zoo kawg li os! Nrog nej zoo siab uas muaj ib tug niam tij siab zoo2! Mloog zaj no ua tau kuv kua muag los thiab kuv nrog nws zoo siab uas thaum kawg nej ho tig rov los hlub2 nws lawm!
Never hate anyone you never got to know just based on other people's words. That is one thing I have always told my kids. My niam tij never liked me for no reason. I never met my niam tij or know her until I married my husband. She hated me the day I came into the family. I know that feeling. So I never hate someone based on other's words.
My niam nxtawm hated me the first day she married my BIL. She came after me but she didn’t like me. I tried to welcome her since I was the first and oldest nyab but she didn’t feel the same so I kept my distance for 18 years. When she went through a hard time with my BIL, she finally opened up to me and saw that I was not a bad person. Now she talks to me. Weird, but she’s lucky I am not a hateful person.
Txoj tsi nyiam luag txub luag vim nws yog neeg zoolo nej cia li txub nws thaum kawg nej mu thawj nws yog li mej ho xav li ca vim nws yog tu dej txhiag nej ho tu dej kub thaum kawg kub tsi yeej tu dej txhiag nawb
Niag neeg phem yeej swb tus zoo nawb , tus zoo ntuj yeej pab
Wow, Kindness wins!!!!
Yes, everything starts from family. If your family dont respect her, the outsiders will do the same. If your family loves her, the outsiders will follow! The outsiders don't know your dirty secrets. It's you who crack your own eggs. Glad you guys learned!
Some people are just cruel for no reason. The word HATE is such a strong word. No one can’t ever tell me to hate someone. Things works in many mysterious ways and that’s why koj tus niam hlob thiaj li los yuav nej tus tij laug. She’s God’s gift to him.
Can’t judge someone just because of rumors of what others say. Judge from what u see and do.
Don’t judge people with the appearance unless you know the person inside first
God always creates a way to bring love ones or/and people together.
Don't judge a book by its cover
Hmong women play these toxic politics in every family. Be smart and independent in thinking. Never ever jump on the bandwagon of haters. Stay neutral, be kind to all your sils. Don't get involved in toxicity, hate, and gossip that preceded your arrival in the family. This rule also applies to workplace politics. Don't get pulled into the cliques and hate politics. Best to remain neutral. Be a uniter rather than the cause for division. Leaders unite, losers divide.
Tsis txhob coj nqaim nqaim maj. Twb yog yus tus niam tij niam hlob xwb thiab yog yus tsev neeg es twb tsim nyog yus hlub yus tsev neeg tshaj os hmoog aws
What horrible in-laws! I feel bad for the older sis in law. They will get what’s coming for them. 🤦🏻♀️
Nej lam yog ib cov hmoob mus nyob rau teb chaws Meskas tab sis nej yog ib pab niag dab Ntxwg nyoog siab phem noj luag siab ntsws tsim txom luag lub siab lwj Tas hnub no thiaj li Npam nej
Woowww! The reasons why these ladies and family members hate her is so pathetic and sad! Good thing your Mom talked some sense into you.
Haters go nowhere or end nowhere
Don’t judge a person by just looking at them. You need to get to know that person. They don’t talk to you that’s not mean they are bad person. Some people lus tsawg tsawg tsis paub tham lus xwb. Don’t judge a book by it covers.
In this life you never know who’s going to be your savior. You can not just hated peoples for no reason.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim txaus siab tas tas cov niag neeg siab phem lam tau lam ntxub luag os
DON'T be a sheep! Before you judge someone so harshly, you should at least TRY to get to know them first. Some people may physically look like they are mean, but in reality they are not and are just shy or a person of few words.
I can't believe your in-laws & other relatives AND you are so mean to your sil for a stupid superstition!!! You all deserve bad Karma for your unfounded hate!
Tsev neeg uas pem tsaj dab yog nej ntag
😢 I have a similar story, when I first got marry to my husband everyone taught me to hate my husband's older sil, I did for the 1st month but I was never a follower, so I told myself I have to get to know her first before believing other people and I got to know her and let me tell you til this day her and I are best friends. We tell each other almost everything. She is the best sil to my husband and I. So happy you guys learn who she really is and it wasn't so late for you guys to amend your wrong doing/ thinking.
You guys don't deserve her love, especially your mother n law.
People and their stupid jinx crap. They forget that their sh*t stank too. ❤
Ua cas hnub no koj ho txawj2 xav na niag poj hmoob ruam noj quav aws...txhob txawj2 ntuas neeg hnub no koj mam txawj xav ntuj aws txaj muag dhau.
Nej lam tau lam ntxub nws es vajtswv thiaj qhia cai kom nej paub nws txoj kev zoo xwb os
Nej yog cov phem ntag
16:58 I agree with your mother 100%. Sadly, she taught you to be good but you chose to be hateful like your in-laws. I don’t believe in going along with the crowd until I see it for myself. You all are very immature and petty. Glad you admit that.
Kev khaum kev npam ces yog li no ntag los mas. Tab sis cov neeg es hnov luag tej hais tias lawv ntxub tus neeg ntawd ces yus cia li ntxub thiab no mas cov neeg li no yog ib cov neeg rua tshaj plaws li. Koj niag txiv los yog ib niag neeg siab phem ua luaj li ua neeg nyob yus yuav tsum pom kiag thiaj ntsib kiag ntawm yus tus kheej tias nws yog tus neeg phem tsim nyog ntxub mas mam ntxub pob.
Kuv pom cov neeg los yog 1 tug neeg li koj. Kuv tsis paub tias xyhov yog nws khib yus los yog nws saib yus qis2 tias yus ua tsis tau dabtsi es nws thiaj tsis nyiam yus. Tus neeg no mas peb ib pab kwv tij uas muaj dabtsi los peb sib pab sib koom ua ke mas nws mas nws hais lus rau lwm Tus niam tsev thiab nws txib lawv mas nws ua ntsej muag luag ntxhi xwb hos nws hais yus mas dub nciab xwb tsis muaj qhov smile rau yus li thiab nws yeej tsis lam txib yus unless nws tsis muaj choice mas nws thiaj txib yus but no friendly smile and never say hi rau yus thaum tuaj Mus sib ntsib kev noj kev haus tabsis cov neeg nws nyiam mas tshwm puag Tom qhov rooj 10-20 feet mas lawv twb hu luag ntxhi tias Tuaj lawm los? Los tom no os. Es kuv tsis paub tias yus twb tsis tau Thov nws noj nws haus, tsis tau qiv nws Nyiaj siv ib zaug es yuav tsis them nws li but she always have this attitude toward me. But I don’t get the rat ass. Ua neeg nyob yus tsis paub luag hauv luag lub siab, yus txhob saib dej ua phlu neeg ua ntu tsam 16:49 muaj ib hnub twg yus ho yuav vam txog luag ces txaj muag mog
Mej tus niam tij siab zoo kawg li os! Nrog nej zoo siab uas muaj ib tug niam tij siab zoo2! Mloog zaj no ua tau kuv kua muag los thiab kuv nrog nws zoo siab uas thaum kawg nej ho tig rov los hlub2 nws lawm!
Never hate anyone you never got to know just based on other people's words. That is one thing I have always told my kids. My niam tij never liked me for no reason. I never met my niam tij or know her until I married my husband. She hated me the day I came into the family. I know that feeling. So I never hate someone based on other's words.
My niam nxtawm hated me the first day she married my BIL. She came after me but she didn’t like me. I tried to welcome her since I was the first and oldest nyab but she didn’t feel the same so I kept my distance for 18 years. When she went through a hard time with my BIL, she finally opened up to me and saw that I was not a bad person. Now she talks to me. Weird, but she’s lucky I am not a hateful person.
U can’t hate ppl just because others do. Make ur own judgement after u get to know them.
Wow…they are people that mean, still?
Pab nej tsev neeg txaj muag dhau lawm os yom txoj kev siab phem paub lawm pos pob ntseg kub xwb tseem muab liam rau tus niam tij tib si thaum kawg mus thawj nws xwb yom tseg txoj kev siab phem li nej nawb 😂
Hahaha yog muaj tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj nyob ze mas kuv xav yuav 1 pob pub koj niam pog . Mloog2 hmong cov newj mas poj niam hmong siab nqaim siab ti tshaj cov txiv neej nawb .me nyab neuas aw txhob txais koj niag monster inlaw cov niag evils blessing nawb lol
Nej cov Hmoob nov yog Hmoob Meskas los? Yog Hmoob Meskas cas nej tseem RUAM ualuaj li thiab na? Tsis tsimnyog tuaj nyob Tebchaws Vammeej li. Uaneej xiam tiam tiag tiag. Lam nyob Tebchaws vammeej xwb, lub hlwb rwj tiag tiag.
Nej twb yog cov tsis muaj tias es nej tseem phem tshaj nej tus niam hlob thiab. Neeg zoo yeej ib txwm zoo sab nruab siab.
Hmong mas siab phem tshaj. Ntxim ntxub dhau. 🤬 always so judgmental
Txoj tsi nyiam luag txub luag vim nws yog neeg zoolo nej cia li txub nws thaum kawg nej mu thawj nws yog li mej ho xav li ca vim nws yog tu dej txhiag nej ho tu dej kub thaum kawg kub tsi yeej tu dej txhiag nawb
Kuv xav kuv txoj tuaj koj hais na.
Kuv xav kuv txoj tuaj koj pua tau?