Yes, koj npam lawm os! If your husband loves you, he would not ask you to take care of his parents knowing how they mistreated you but you are too stupid to let them in.
Tsis yog kev npam os, yog kev ruam xwb. You are a pushover and your in-laws know that, which is why they treated you like crap and still expected you to care for them. You are one of the few women that will care for evil in-laws. I would send them to the senior home to save my own sanity.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are a good person. It is not easy to be a nyab. When I hear people talk/ gossip, I always comment that not all women can live under one roof.
YOg kawg... Tus neeg zoo thiab tus neeg zam kev thiab tus neeg siab ntsev ces yeej yog tus npam kawg. I understand where you are coming from. I agree with you 100%. I'm so sick and tired of these moms or in-laws that wants to control the world of their son's life. These kind of moms/in-laws need to just keep their son to their self until they die and sleep with their son too. I shouldn't say this but it's the honest truth. These moms/in-laws don't deserve any love from the son or nyab. This is why these OG's end up at the "TSEV LAUS- retirement homes." I've been there so I have no empathy or sympathy for these kind of people. Old or not, you do it to yourself only. I'm super glad I've gotten away from these kind of in-laws. I will not and do not tolerate this kind of crap anymore.
I can relate to your story. Koj tsis npam os sister. Koj siab zoo xwb. Zoo siab rau koj tus kheej rau txhua yam zoo koj tau ua yav dhau los pub rau lub ntuj thiab daim av tshwj xeeb Yog ua pub rau tus/cov neeg uas tsim koj yav dhau los.
Your husband should be caring for his own parents and you need to let him know that, especially after all they’ve put you thru including your husband. They only want to be nice to you now bc they need someone to do the dirty work. But your husband is shitty for letting you go thru it, but you are also too nice.
Wow only you can do this! If it’s me and my husband took them in he better be the one to care and clean after them. I will not be lifting a finger. Call me petty.
Kuv xav tia yog cov niag niam pog siab phem es tsi nyiam luag tej ntxhai lo ua yu nyab li ko ce cia nw cov tub cov ntxhai nw yug ntxawm lo sib yuav es cia yu cov ntxhai rov qab yuav yu cov tub es lo ua yu nyab xwb tsi txhob mu yuav luag tu sab nraum lo ua yu li nyab es thiaj li tsi ntxim ntxub lo mua 😂😂😂😂😂
This story hits me real hard. I’m still healing from it. Thank you for sharing your stories. Stories like this make me think better and what to do with the situation. My husband never set boundaries with his mom and even till this day I don’t have anyone to have my back. I usually just don’t say much or not be around my MIL just so I don’t have to hear things.
Same here babe, still healing as well. *Hugs* I avoid interacting or going to my in laws at all costs. I have forgiven them, but no longer need to continue associating with them for their benefit. As bad as it sounds, I love them on my terms and on my time with my boundaries. I made it clear to my husband that I will not take his parents in no matter what.
Koj niam pog siab phem2 nws thiaj li vwm niam pog thiaj li npam hos ntawm koj tsi npam os mog lwm hnub koj laus koj cov yuav hlub2 koj txawm cov sab nrauv los lawv yuav hlub2 koj thiab os mog ua zoo yeej tau zoo os mog
Sister txhob tu siab os mog tus neeg zoo yeej tau tu cov laus nawv mog, kav liam mam yuav koob hmoov rau yav pem suab os ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag thiab
Your Husband is not worth it. He can’t even set boundaries with his Mom and Dad. You should have left their toxic family. Listening to this story reminded me why I left my ex. Hmong Mother N Laws are either Good or Bad like this story. Nothing in between.
@@amyvang6074 I would say a good amount. But, not all, I’ve seen some who moved their wife+family to another state. To save their marriage and “relationship” with their family.
You’re right, Hmong MILs are either good and loving or bad and hateful. Most times the husband is too blind and only see the innocence of their parents.
Kuv ces tsawm Yog ib tug ua yuav kuv niam tsis tau ntag. Yus yuav tau los yus tus txiv yuav tsis tau. Peb cov ua muaj na txob mus cem cem tej nyab nawb.
If you have mercy on others God will show you mercy. I believe your mother in-law was not in her right mind towards the end. Cant be upset at someone who no longer has a sound mind. It’s hard to love someone’s mother especially a mother in-law for many nyab. Are you sure you really try to love your mother in-law with an open heart?
Tsis txhob tu siab qhov koj raug niam pog muab koj luam vim yog koj twb tsis tau paub tab txawm siv maj los ua luag nyab ces koj thiaj li los ntsib ib tug poj dab, txawm yog li no tej laus thiaj pheej haistias, tsis tau paub tab txhob rawm maj mus ua luag nyab, koj yog ib tug nyab paub tab lawm ces yog koj los tau ib tug niam poj dab zoo li no koj yuav tau muab nws roj kib nws nqaij thiaj li nkig zoo, thaum twg koj tus txiv nyob thiab neeg nyob coob ces koj siv lo lus mos muag tshaj plaws rau niam pog, tab sis thaum twg yog tshuav koj thiab nws xwb ces niam pog lub pob ntseg qab ntsej ua qaum ntsej thiab koj ncaws nws tej zaub mov zaum puav kom nws tsis tau noj ces seb leej twg xub zeem xwb tiag ? kuv ntseeg tias koj ua taus niam mas yog tau ib tug niam pog zoo li koj tus no ces neb zaj movie muaj ceem thiab lom zem xwb2. Tsis npam hlo li vim txhua yam kev phem no nws yog tus xub pib ces koj tsuas ua kom phim nws xwb thiaj li nyob taus ua ib tse. Koj yog tus npam vim koj siab tsis tawv ua tsis taus niam koj thiaj tau ris txojkev npam nyuam qhuav ntxim rau koj txojkev ruam xwb.
Yog mas cov neeg laus laus 60 xyoo up mas tso quav tsws tshaj plaws li os kuv mas tiv tsi tau li os thov kom peb phab 50xyoo nov nyob txog 70 -75 xwb os tsi xav nyob laus tshaj 75 up mus ntxiv lawm os yim nyob laus yim txom nyem xwb nawb peb cov niam tsev hmoob aws
Your husband disregard your feelings like nothing. He should've been the one to care for his parents, not you. What a slap in the face but you did a very good deed sister. There are not many people like you.
Tus viv ncaus aw koj tus niam pog tsim2 koj los txog thaum kawg nws twb hais thov txim rau koj es koj tu2 txog thaum kawg koj txiv yawg tuag koj twb tau koj li hluas tes ces yeej yog qhov zoo os, kuv tus kuv tus niam pog nws mus nrog nws cov tub cov nyab mus ua teb es poob lov ceg tsis muaj neeg kam tu ces kuv tau 27 lub xyoo niam pog twb tsis hlub kuv li nws nrog yus nyob tabsis nws pob nyiaj mas nws muab rau nws cov nyab nws hlub2 xwb thaum tuag los yus yeej tsis tau ib yam abtsi li tseem poob nyiaj los ua nws lub ntees thiab mas muab xav mas kuv thiaj yog tus neeg raug npam tiag2 li os lawv aw hais tau ib los rau leej twg li os mob siab chim siab tshaj li nawb vim yus tsis txheeb tsis xe niam pog thiab ho tsis yog tus nyab niam pog nyiam es thiaj li tu siab tag npaum no😂
@kouavang5928 Yes, it’s always a weak person who can’t stand up for themselves and then use npam as an excuse to feel sorry for themselves. If you can’t defend/speak up then you can’t complain because the only one who can help you is you.
Yog tshaj plaws tau ib tsev neeg luag tsi nyiam yus ma cuag yus raug kaw rau ib lub qhov taub tsaus ntuj nti thiab raug pas taws ntshawb lub qhov muag ce iab ib sim kua muag lo ib sim tab si koj tawm plaws lawm ma cuag lub ntuj no kaj li kaj xis nyob tshaj plaws kuv lo zoo ib yam li koj thiab os dhuav tiag2 lub neej zoo li ko
Puas muaj ib cov niam pog es phem npaum li thiab ne , kuv yeej muaj niam pog dua los lawm hos kuv los yeej yog ib tug niam pog tam sis no thiab zoo li tsis muaj npaum ntawd thiab sav
Koj tsis npam os tus sister lub ntuj mam muab kev zoo rau koj rau tom ntej xwb mog kuv yog Koj kiag os sister kuv understand koj os have a good life for your family ok you good ❤❤
Zaub mov xwb yog yus tej nyab xwb hos yuav cem lawv nyiam dabtsi kuj cia lawv noj lawv pob cas hos yuav phem ua luaj peb ua neeg cia ywj siab tsuav txhob mus nrog phooj ywg kom muaj teeb meem xwb mas lawv
I took care and slept with my mother in law for 3 years till she passed away . None of the kids help me. She passed away happy, and I knew I did my best, and I didn't even do caretakers to get paid. I still had my own job to go to every day. She didn't like me but in the end she only wanted me. My sisters in law where all shit talkers only and money hunger only.
Kuv nkag Siab koj tshaj li os, yog ib tug raug npam li koj thiab, kuv mas tseem yog Niag tub twm zeej xwb thiab mas mas yeej dhuav siab tshaj thiab os mi Niam tsev aw 😂😂
Just think that you’ll be blessed from god!!! You just did a good deed to your enemies in this life. She already got her karma b4 she died n will be suffering the after life too.
😢😢😂sim neej no cas koj tus niam pog npam 1 yam kuv tus tag yam li yog 1 tug xwb txawm los thov txim tug niag ua dev leg los yeej lam zam txim rau tab si zoo li daim ntaub ua twb tsua xim zawv tsis mus li thov kom txhob ntsib rau lwm tiam lawm xwb
Tim koj tus txiv ua tsis taus txiv xwb os koj us tau zoo kawg li lawm koj tsis npam os sister lub ntuj yeej yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj li qhov koj us zoo xwb os nawd!
Part 2 of this story will be how you slave for your in laws and your husband cheats on you with a niam mos ab. Some Hmong guys tend to not see your worth no matter how much yoi sacrifice
Tus me ntshais koj hais tias koj npam no tab sis tsi tau yog nawv tam sim no mas yog koj tshuav koj niam pog nqi xwb os es koj tu nwg ces yog them nqe.xwb nawb es lwm nub koj tug tub yuav tau nyab mas tub thiab nyab mas li ua li uas koj ua rau koj niam pog thiab nkawm ntxub mam cem koj rau tug ub tug no thiaj li yog npab hos me ntxhais rau qhov yug lub qhov cauj liab thiab ua tau dhau tshuav yug thib os mog thaum twg txog koj lub caij lub nyoog ces koj yeej.yuav los pw niam pog lub txaj zaum niam pog tog xwb os ib leeg yeej yuav tau ua niam pog ib zaug xwb os mog txhob txawj os mog
Koj txoj kev npam tsis yog tim niam pog os. Koj muaj kev npam vim koj tus txiv ib leeg xwb os. Your husband exploited your love and kindness. It's your husband's fault for putting you in this situation. It's your own fault for loving your husband more than loving yourself.
Tsis yog ua zoo es npam os, yog ruam . Yog yus zoo zoo zoo es yus ua daim ntaub so taw ces yog ruam dhau lawm os. Yus tsum ua tau niam thiab ho! Theirs a limit to being kind, you are just bring a push over. Dont let people treat you this way. Dont wait for peoples pity, take matters into your own hands. You love your husband but he doesn’t love you . The ladies that gossip or has something negative to say about someone as soon as they talk to you is like this mother in law.
Koj tsis yog neeg npam os, yog neeg ruam xwb os. No one can make you watch and clean your in-laws, you choose to do it after everyone else said no so don't complain about it.
Wow!! You’re talked bad mouth about your elder parent especially the mother in-law like you never getting old!! Just trying to understand her and go with the flow in loving way!!
Zoo kawg 👍
yog kawg.....tus zoo yog tus npam because I've been there done that too. There's no such thing as "luck" when caring for elderly.
Kuv mloog koj zaj neej neeg zoo kiag li kuv lub neej thiaj os.. kuv yog tus nyab ua niam pog tsis nyiam ho cov niam ntxawm nws nyiam li los cov niam ntxawm twb tsis nyiam nws thiaj os..
Mloog mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os .yeej muaj tseeb li tus Sister no hais kawg li os.
Yes, koj npam lawm os! If your husband loves you, he would not ask you to take care of his parents knowing how they mistreated you but you are too stupid to let them in.
Just do your part so your kids will do there part when your time comes. Your mother in law already has KARMA
I agree with this woman. Tus nyab zoo yog tus npam xwb.
Tsis yog kev npam os, yog kev ruam xwb. You are a pushover and your in-laws know that, which is why they treated you like crap and still expected you to care for them. You are one of the few women that will care for evil in-laws. I would send them to the senior home to save my own sanity.
Yog tshaj plaws
Old people used reverse psychology 2 u 😮😮😮😮 to keep u around.
Yog kawg lawm os
Tus sister koj lub siab loj siab dav tshaj li os. Maybe you owed her in your past life. May God bless you.
Pab hlub koj tshaj li os sister aw. Nrog koj chim and mob siab kawg.
😊d day
😂😂😂😂😂😂tu siab tshaj hais tau zoo heev li
leej twg g tau ntsib cov niam pog phem ma leej twg yeej g paub vim kuv twb tau tus niam pog phem li thiab
Thanks for this story sis.. I feel you! 😢❤
I blame your husband. If he really love you, he won’t put you thru this
This is me right now 😢 oh easy to said but hard to do not to live with the oldies
Hopefully you got a large life insurance policy on both parents
Thank you for sharing your story. You are a good person. It is not easy to be a nyab. When I hear people talk/ gossip, I always comment that not all women can live under one roof.
Agreed!
Kv ces g kab nyiag mov noj li cov laus g nyiam yus li xav txog lub neej li no tus siab tshaj
This niam pog should know the red line. She over step the lines. Niam pog should live her own life. She did favoritism against both nyab.
Viv ncaus kj hais yog lawm os
It would suck if you do all these for your husband and later when you’re old, he cheats on you. That be so sad for you.
YOg kawg... Tus neeg zoo thiab tus neeg zam kev thiab tus neeg siab ntsev ces yeej yog tus npam kawg. I understand where you are coming from. I agree with you 100%. I'm so sick and tired of these moms or in-laws that wants to control the world of their son's life. These kind of moms/in-laws need to just keep their son to their self until they die and sleep with their son too. I shouldn't say this but it's the honest truth. These moms/in-laws don't deserve any love from the son or nyab. This is why these OG's end up at the "TSEV LAUS- retirement homes."
I've been there so I have no empathy or sympathy for these kind of people. Old or not, you do it to yourself only. I'm super glad I've gotten away from these kind of in-laws. I will not and do not tolerate this kind of crap anymore.
Whadda a story! After your MEL'S mistreatment, or sad you so had to take care of her in the end. Sorry you had to go through that
You should've told your husband to do it for a month? If he say he can't it told him you want that divorce paper?
Niam ntsuab teev aw kj zaj dab neeg no yg kv kiag lawm os 😢😢😢
Peb hmoob yuav tau xyaum mus nyob tsev laus. Yog peb xav hlub peb cov tubnyab tiag. Good story and hais tau zoo kawg. Thank you May.
Hia tau tu siab ua luaj li
I can relate to your story. Koj tsis npam os sister. Koj siab zoo xwb. Zoo siab rau koj tus kheej rau txhua yam zoo koj tau ua yav dhau los pub rau lub ntuj thiab daim av tshwj xeeb Yog ua pub rau tus/cov neeg uas tsim koj yav dhau los.
koj nyiag niam pog taug lawm ce tshav koj ntuj nrig tshua peb nyiag niam pog lim hiam o dhua siab tshaj plaw li o
Your husband should be caring for his own parents and you need to let him know that, especially after all they’ve put you thru including your husband. They only want to be nice to you now bc they need someone to do the dirty work. But your husband is shitty for letting you go thru it, but you are also too nice.
Wow only you can do this! If it’s me and my husband took them in he better be the one to care and clean after them. I will not be lifting a finger. Call me petty.
It’s not petty because if they never lifted their hands to help you, then why should you do anything for them?
Haha zoo siab tu nyab yau ưa tàu yog kawg li lawm og kV log yog ib tug nyab hlob raug niam pom tsim li no thiab
You're too kind, may you be blessed. Taking care of our parents should be all of the children responsibility.
Kuv xav tia yog cov niag niam pog siab phem es tsi nyiam luag tej ntxhai lo ua yu nyab li ko ce cia nw cov tub cov ntxhai nw yug ntxawm lo sib yuav es cia yu cov ntxhai rov qab yuav yu cov tub es lo ua yu nyab xwb tsi txhob mu yuav luag tu sab nraum lo ua yu li nyab es thiaj li tsi ntxim ntxub lo mua 😂😂😂😂😂
This story hits me real hard. I’m still healing from it. Thank you for sharing your stories. Stories like this make me think better and what to do with the situation. My husband never set boundaries with his mom and even till this day I don’t have anyone to have my back. I usually just don’t say much or not be around my MIL just so I don’t have to hear things.
Same here babe, still healing as well. *Hugs* I avoid interacting or going to my in laws at all costs. I have forgiven them, but no longer need to continue associating with them for their benefit. As bad as it sounds, I love them on my terms and on my time with my boundaries. I made it clear to my husband that I will not take his parents in no matter what.
Eww. Ya'll husband's are puu-sayys 😅😅😅😅😅
Those wicked mil! I feel sorry for their misery in life!
Koj niam pog siab phem2 nws thiaj li vwm niam pog thiaj li npam hos ntawm koj tsi npam os mog lwm hnub koj laus koj cov yuav hlub2 koj txawm cov sab nrauv los lawv yuav hlub2 koj thiab os mog ua zoo yeej tau zoo os mog
Kuv twb tau ib tug niam pog phem rau kuv thiab os
Kuv tsi xav uas neeg zoo lawm thiab uas neeg zoo yeej tsi tao zoo
Sister txhob tu siab os mog tus neeg zoo yeej tau tu cov laus nawv mog, kav liam mam yuav koob hmoov rau yav pem suab os ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag thiab
Your Husband is not worth it. He can’t even set boundaries with his Mom and Dad. You should have left their toxic family. Listening to this story reminded me why I left my ex. Hmong Mother N Laws are either Good or Bad like this story. Nothing in between.
Hmong husband do not see how bad their parents treated their wife.
The husbands who let their mommy and daddy walk all over their wife are not men. A real man protects his family.
I agree
@@amyvang6074 I would say a good amount. But, not all, I’ve seen some who moved their wife+family to another state. To save their marriage and “relationship” with their family.
You’re right, Hmong MILs are either good and loving or bad and hateful. Most times the husband is too blind and only see the innocence of their parents.
Kuv ces tsawm Yog ib tug ua yuav kuv niam tsis tau ntag. Yus yuav tau los yus tus txiv yuav tsis tau. Peb cov ua muaj na txob mus cem cem tej nyab nawb.
Ua nyab zoo thiaj tau koob hmoo os. Lwm hnub yus cov thiaj hlub yus
Cov txiv neeg tsi yuav poj niam lus mas kuv dhuav tiag tiag
If you have mercy on others God will show you mercy. I believe your mother in-law was not in her right mind towards the end. Cant be upset at someone who no longer has a sound mind. It’s hard to love someone’s mother especially a mother in-law for many nyab. Are you sure you really try to love your mother in-law with an open heart?
Tsis txhob tu siab qhov koj raug niam pog muab koj luam vim yog koj twb tsis tau paub tab txawm siv maj los ua luag nyab ces koj thiaj li los ntsib ib tug poj dab, txawm yog li no tej laus thiaj pheej haistias, tsis tau paub tab txhob rawm maj mus ua luag nyab, koj yog ib tug nyab paub tab lawm ces yog koj los tau ib tug niam poj dab zoo li no koj yuav tau muab nws roj kib nws nqaij thiaj li nkig zoo, thaum twg koj tus txiv nyob thiab neeg nyob coob ces koj siv lo lus mos muag tshaj plaws rau niam pog, tab sis thaum twg yog tshuav koj thiab nws xwb ces niam pog lub pob ntseg qab ntsej ua qaum ntsej thiab koj ncaws nws tej zaub mov zaum puav kom nws tsis tau noj ces seb leej twg xub zeem xwb tiag ? kuv ntseeg tias koj ua taus niam mas yog tau ib tug niam pog zoo li koj tus no ces neb zaj movie muaj ceem thiab lom zem xwb2. Tsis npam hlo li vim txhua yam kev phem no nws yog tus xub pib ces koj tsuas ua kom phim nws xwb thiaj li nyob taus ua ib tse.
Koj yog tus npam vim koj siab tsis tawv ua tsis taus niam koj thiaj tau ris txojkev npam nyuam qhuav ntxim rau koj txojkev ruam xwb.
Ua cas tus lawv tsis hlub ces yog tus lawv tsis nyiam thiab tus lawv tsim xwb mas tub quag neeg kawg li os me viv ncaus aw .
Vim tsoj kev ruam swb os mos thiab vim niam pos lim hiam swb
I would have threatened, and proceeded, with divorce if he brings his evil mom into my home.
Yog mas cov neeg laus laus 60 xyoo up mas tso quav tsws tshaj plaws li os kuv mas tiv tsi tau li os thov kom peb phab 50xyoo nov nyob txog 70 -75 xwb os tsi xav nyob laus tshaj 75 up mus ntxiv lawm os yim nyob laus yim txom nyem xwb nawb peb cov niam tsev hmoob aws
Kuv ces yog tus ruam ib ya li kj li thiab o tus sister kuv ces tu2 lub siab li o twb haib tsis tau ib lov li o 😭😭😭
Your husband disregard your feelings like nothing. He should've been the one to care for his parents, not you. What a slap in the face but you did a very good deed sister. There are not many people like you.
Cov niam pog zoo li ntawv thaum kawg ho muab nws lub ntsej muag rov los thawj yus.
Tus viv ncaus aw koj tus niam pog tsim2 koj los txog thaum kawg nws twb hais thov txim rau koj es koj tu2 txog thaum kawg koj txiv yawg tuag koj twb tau koj li hluas tes ces yeej yog qhov zoo os, kuv tus kuv tus niam pog nws mus nrog nws cov tub cov nyab mus ua teb es poob lov ceg tsis muaj neeg kam tu ces kuv tau 27 lub xyoo niam pog twb tsis hlub kuv li nws nrog yus nyob tabsis nws pob nyiaj mas nws muab rau nws cov nyab nws hlub2 xwb thaum tuag los yus yeej tsis tau ib yam abtsi li tseem poob nyiaj los ua nws lub ntees thiab mas muab xav mas kuv thiaj yog tus neeg raug npam tiag2 li os lawv aw hais tau ib los rau leej twg li os mob siab chim siab tshaj li nawb vim yus tsis txheeb tsis xe niam pog thiab ho tsis yog tus nyab niam pog nyiam es thiaj li tu siab tag npaum no😂
Zaj no nim yog nkaus li kuv lub neej, kuv nkag siab zoo 🤣
Muaj tseeb
I don't understand why can't the son cares for his own parents.
Agreed! This “if you love me, you will do this for me” is bs. No thanks!
@kouavang5928 Yes, it’s always a weak person who can’t stand up for themselves and then use npam as an excuse to feel sorry for themselves. If you can’t defend/speak up then you can’t complain because the only one who can help you is you.
@kouavang5928 That’s if they even know when enough is enough. Many just accepted as their fate and continue to complain about being mistreated.
Because they think that if they paid for nyab, only nyab has to care, clean, and take care after his parents
@@hmoobxwb7119 That 5K doesn’t equal a life long of servitude and mistreatment. I’ll return that money back and say bye 👋
cov niam pog no mas xab maim 75 thiaj muaj xwb...tamsim no tsis tsim nyog muaj lawm...hnov ib tog lus xwb..tab yog muaj tiag no ces lwm hnub muab xa mus rau tsev laus xwb ma.😢😢
Yog tshaj plaws tau ib tsev neeg luag tsi nyiam yus ma cuag yus raug kaw rau ib lub qhov taub tsaus ntuj nti thiab raug pas taws ntshawb lub qhov muag ce iab ib sim kua muag lo ib sim tab si koj tawm plaws lawm ma cuag lub ntuj no kaj li kaj xis nyob tshaj plaws kuv lo zoo ib yam li koj thiab os dhuav tiag2 lub neej zoo li ko
Peb txhua tus yeej txawj laus txawj qias neeg tab sis ib co yeej qias neeg tshaj
Puas muaj ib cov niam pog es phem npaum li thiab ne , kuv yeej muaj niam pog dua los lawm hos kuv los yeej yog ib tug niam pog tam sis no thiab zoo li tsis muaj npaum ntawd thiab sav
Koj tsis npam os tus sister lub ntuj mam muab kev zoo rau koj rau tom ntej xwb mog kuv yog Koj kiag os sister kuv understand koj os have a good life for your family ok you good ❤❤
Tsis txhob tw siab rau niam pog txiv yawg lawv tsis hlub koj ces zoo li lawv tsis hlub lawv tus tub xwb kuv xa li ntawv xwb os
Niam lau aw ua ca kv xav tias ntiaj teb no kv niam pog thiaj txawj phem xwb no ca kj niam pog yuav coj thooj kiag li kv tus thiab o
Zaub mov xwb yog yus tej nyab xwb hos yuav cem lawv nyiam dabtsi kuj cia lawv noj lawv pob cas hos yuav phem ua luaj peb ua neeg cia ywj siab tsuav txhob mus nrog phooj ywg kom muaj teeb meem xwb mas lawv
Rinse mouth in the kitchen sink and spit in the garbage is my mother- in- law too. 😢
I took care and slept with my mother in law for 3 years till she passed away . None of the kids help me. She passed away happy, and I knew I did my best, and I didn't even do caretakers to get paid. I still had my own job to go to every day. She didn't like me but in the end she only wanted me. My sisters in law where all shit talkers only and money hunger only.
Ua cas Peb twb nyob teb chaw mekas lawm es tseem muaj Niam pog phem npaum no
Sorry you had to go through all that burden. She didnt deserve your love at all.
Karma is always a bitch…for the mother-in-law…God will bless the daughter-in-law for all that she has endured…👍🤠!
Yuav hais ntawm kuv muaj ib tus nyab mas siab zoo txhaj qhov zoo noj mov hauj txaj xwb abtsi los muab sau nwg npe
Yog kuv ntseeg tias koj yeej npam loj heev os! Koj yog tus lawv ntxhub lawv tsis nyiam kiag thaum kawg tseem raug tu thiab mas yeej pab koj chim siab kawg os..
Kuv nkag Siab koj tshaj li os, yog ib tug raug npam li koj thiab, kuv mas tseem yog Niag tub twm zeej xwb thiab mas mas yeej dhuav siab tshaj thiab os mi Niam tsev aw 😂😂
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Just think that you’ll be blessed from god!!! You just did a good deed to your enemies in this life. She already got her karma b4 she died n will be suffering the after life too.
😢😢😂sim neej no cas koj tus niam pog npam 1 yam kuv tus tag yam li yog 1 tug xwb txawm los thov txim tug niag ua dev leg los yeej lam zam txim rau tab si zoo li daim ntaub ua twb tsua xim zawv tsis mus li thov kom txhob ntsib rau lwm tiam lawm xwb
Tim koj tus txiv ua tsis taus txiv xwb os koj us tau zoo kawg li lawm koj tsis npam os sister lub ntuj yeej yuav foom koob hmoov rau koj li qhov koj us zoo xwb os nawd!
Tus niam pog phem li ko muab ntsaws kiag khib nyiab xwb zoo dua tsis npam koj li os viv ncaus
Vuag nim muaj niam pog phem noaum li ko ntag
Nyab hais nyab sab xwb.g muaj 1 tus niam pog es tus nyab coj zoo2 es niam pog ho phem li no rau tus nyab
neeg phem, neej los ntshai, dab los tsis xav yuav.
Kj tsis yog tus npam os kj yog tug yeej lawm lawv twb nyoos kj lawm os luag tias ua neej nyob g Tau zoo tuag ces rau zoo na ha
Honestly, you brought it upon yourself. You weren’t strong enough to stand your ground like your other 2 sisters in law.
Part 2 of this story will be how you slave for your in laws and your husband cheats on you with a niam mos ab. Some Hmong guys tend to not see your worth no matter how much yoi sacrifice
Her husband should look after, take care, cleaning and cook for his parents, not her responsibility
Cas tsis cia koj tus txiv nqa nkawv na? Nws twb thov2 txim lawm ces zam txim os viv ncaus.
Ua cas twb xav tias cov niam pog phem phem tuag tag lawm no tseem tshuav koj tus thiab los
Xa mus nyob tsev laus xwb moj
Tus me ntshais koj hais tias koj npam no tab sis tsi tau yog nawv tam sim no mas yog koj tshuav koj niam pog nqi xwb os es koj tu nwg ces yog them nqe.xwb nawb es lwm nub koj tug tub yuav tau nyab mas tub thiab nyab mas li ua li uas koj ua rau koj niam pog thiab nkawm ntxub mam cem koj rau tug ub tug no thiaj li yog npab hos me ntxhais rau qhov yug lub qhov cauj liab thiab ua tau dhau tshuav yug thib os mog thaum twg txog koj lub caij lub nyoog ces koj yeej.yuav los pw niam pog lub txaj zaum niam pog tog xwb os ib leeg yeej yuav tau ua niam pog ib zaug xwb os mog txhob txawj os mog
Koj txoj kev npam tsis yog tim niam pog os. Koj muaj kev npam vim koj tus txiv ib leeg xwb os.
Your husband exploited your love and kindness. It's your husband's fault for putting you in this situation. It's your own fault for loving your husband more than loving yourself.
Koj yog tus npam...
Nyab zoo tau ib npam nyab phem tau saw kub vuag leej twg tau ghov zoo ? Koj Cas ho tsi xab kuas ua ntej nawb ?
Koj twb nyob kev npam tag lawm. Lwm tiam ces dim lawm os😢
Tsis yog ua zoo es npam os, yog ruam . Yog yus zoo zoo zoo es yus ua daim ntaub so taw ces yog ruam dhau lawm os. Yus tsum ua tau niam thiab ho! Theirs a limit to being kind, you are just bring a push over. Dont let people treat you this way. Dont wait for peoples pity, take matters into your own hands. You love your husband but he doesn’t love you . The ladies that gossip or has something negative to say about someone as soon as they talk to you is like this mother in law.
Kuv mas
Koj tsis yog neeg npam os, yog neeg ruam xwb os. No one can make you watch and clean your in-laws, you choose to do it after everyone else said no so don't complain about it.
Wow!! You’re talked bad mouth about your elder parent especially the mother in-law like you never getting old!! Just trying to understand her and go with the flow in loving way!!
We need to sign you up to be the daughter-in-law for the mother 😅.