@@UchuKejiMovan Damn that was good 🤣🤣. Men and women do that that. They white knight or love those promiscuous people and then act shocked when things don't workout. I mean for heaven sake, the woman that blew all her money is now loving towards you and she is changed, call me surprised. Also you really couldn't think that her friend that knew about her cheating is probably in on it by showing you that she is broke and you should help her. Then he is magically proud of it. Being a dumbass is not something to be proud of. There are plenty of foster kids, homeless people, struggling parents that could use that help. Imagine if you put your money and house towards that. I actually knew an immigrant from Africa. He met a guy in Europe and became friends with him. He spoke about how he was going thru college and juggling jobs to make it thru. The guy told him that he will pay for it and he did. He just met him once. He wasn't rich or anything like that. He just wanted to help someone change their lives. Imagine the money that his ex blew thru. You could have easily put any young kid from a struggling neighborhood thru college and change their lives forever.
@@lynettephillip2412 Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. So let me get this. This person that admitted that she only married him for his money. That kicked him out of his room after an accident. That neglected him and went on spending his money on herself, her friends, and affair partner/s. Then got his house and cars that she didn't pay anything on or had zero contribution towards and top all of that with one year financial support. After she spent all that money and couldn't find another sucker or another job. Decided to reach for him, then her friend that 100% new about her affair and helped his ex spending his money. Told him that they KNOW him being the kind of person he is would help her financially. So they let it be known that she wasted all that money and she needs more. So he gave her that money and helped a gold digger cheating lying 304 have a six figure job and build herself up while spending more of his money. After all of that, you think the issue here is holding onto grudges? Why? From the lack of people that deserve help? I said it in another comment but I literally know a guy from Nigeria that Dutch guy paid for his college degree. He graduated with honors and went on to get a degree in movie making and now he makes movies in Nigeria. My problem here isn't him showing kindness. Rather than there are plenty people around this world deserve kindness. That money and help he gave her could have out two to three kids thru college or CDL schools or nursing programs or feeding the homeless or or or or. They will go around and make life even better. Helping a person like her will only enable her once again to screw someone else yet again. How do I know? Because if she was remorseful or learned then they would have left him alone and never hit him up for money and help. They would have that little bit of conscience to stay away from him.
Hey, that commentor stole the show with the "Sorry, the Princess is in Another Castle" line. The implication being his ex-wife was just another Toad, lol. I enjoy those subtle jabs, tactfully done.
Oh well. His choice. And he's a good person. I hope he doesn't let himself get sucked backed into the ex wife drama. There's a fine line between being a friend and being a doormat.
Ok. I admit. Op is the most wholesome person I've heard about. I don't think he is dumb for helping his ex-wife. I think he doesn't want to let the misfortunes on his life make him as a person, and I respect that. "To put things simply, if your past makes your present... Then your present can and will make your future. When you think about it that way... You absolutely have the potential to be anything you want to be." - Yato Well, he wanted to be someone he could feel pround of and that isn't sculpted by his past.
Yes not even for just that he lets his wife be a stay at home wife even though he knows she isn’t at home much and spends most of her time out with friends or partying.Like that’s just freeloading
I'm glad op could admit that the marriage had only been good for his ex-wife. It really shows how much she valued this relationship when it took her ten days to notice op had left her. Affair fog is real. Personally, I think op was too nice. Op is right. I am disappointed with him. This kind of thing always comes back to bite people in the butt. At least nobody can claim op is a bitter ex.
This story sounds fake especially with details about peach, she sounds too perfect 😂 If it is true then OP is not over his ex. He didn't settle down, he doesn't have serious relationship after divorce, he is still getting manipulated by ex in helping her through her friend, and being friends on social media.
Man, OP is a better person than just about everyone else in this comment section. I guess people are angry that OP decided to be mature about it and not start drama that is an unnecessary and be friends with his ex. Oh well, not everyone can be as chill and laidback as OP.
@cjgroves4429 Doormat, are you serious!? What, he’s a doormat because he decided that he would be amicable to his ex not start unneeded drama? I’m sorry if you think that makes him a doormat, but maybe you should recognize that OP is more mature than you.
Most people commenting on these stories cannot be satisfied. Either you aren't a doormat for immediately nuking a relationship and going scorched earth, or it's a fake story because of some edgy teenager revenge. OP is the perfect example of growing and moving the hell on. He refused her advances, and is not just helping her for free. If he was giving her money for nothing that'd be one thing. But all he's doing is recommending her to jobs, which she still has to WORK hard for to get and maintain. Some of y'all really want people to hold hate in their heart forever
reddit turned into a personal, fictional blog. If even this channel is going to rely on fake shit it would be better to at least fabricate something interesting, no revenge, useless information and a lack of information of things important for the story.
"She travels south every winter."
My brain: She's a bird???
Hence the term: snowbird.
Got suckered into helping thru her friends. That's why you cut the ex and don't play the let's be friendly game.
Exactly! If I couldn't trust you as my WIFE how can I trust you as a friend? Man is crazy naive
@@UchuKejiMovan Damn that was good 🤣🤣. Men and women do that that. They white knight or love those promiscuous people and then act shocked when things don't workout. I mean for heaven sake, the woman that blew all her money is now loving towards you and she is changed, call me surprised. Also you really couldn't think that her friend that knew about her cheating is probably in on it by showing you that she is broke and you should help her. Then he is magically proud of it. Being a dumbass is not something to be proud of. There are plenty of foster kids, homeless people, struggling parents that could use that help. Imagine if you put your money and house towards that. I actually knew an immigrant from Africa. He met a guy in Europe and became friends with him. He spoke about how he was going thru college and juggling jobs to make it thru. The guy told him that he will pay for it and he did. He just met him once. He wasn't rich or anything like that. He just wanted to help someone change their lives. Imagine the money that his ex blew thru. You could have easily put any young kid from a struggling neighborhood thru college and change their lives forever.
Not everyone hold on to grudges.
@@lynettephillip2412 Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. So let me get this. This person that admitted that she only married him for his money. That kicked him out of his room after an accident. That neglected him and went on spending his money on herself, her friends, and affair partner/s. Then got his house and cars that she didn't pay anything on or had zero contribution towards and top all of that with one year financial support. After she spent all that money and couldn't find another sucker or another job. Decided to reach for him, then her friend that 100% new about her affair and helped his ex spending his money. Told him that they KNOW him being the kind of person he is would help her financially. So they let it be known that she wasted all that money and she needs more. So he gave her that money and helped a gold digger cheating lying 304 have a six figure job and build herself up while spending more of his money. After all of that, you think the issue here is holding onto grudges? Why? From the lack of people that deserve help? I said it in another comment but I literally know a guy from Nigeria that Dutch guy paid for his college degree. He graduated with honors and went on to get a degree in movie making and now he makes movies in Nigeria. My problem here isn't him showing kindness. Rather than there are plenty people around this world deserve kindness. That money and help he gave her could have out two to three kids thru college or CDL schools or nursing programs or feeding the homeless or or or or. They will go around and make life even better. Helping a person like her will only enable her once again to screw someone else yet again. How do I know? Because if she was remorseful or learned then they would have left him alone and never hit him up for money and help. They would have that little bit of conscience to stay away from him.
@@lynettephillip2412no need to hold grudges, but you need to be smart and just move on
Hey, that commentor stole the show with the "Sorry, the Princess is in Another Castle" line.
The implication being his ex-wife was just another Toad, lol. I enjoy those subtle jabs, tactfully done.
The person playing Minecraft really can't decide what he or she wants.
When OP explained “Peach” was a reference to Super Mario and not the emoji;
Y’all desperately need to take a cold shower.
I had no idea it means something in emojis and cannot be bothered to google it
@@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer It’s basically become a double entendre for a butt. XD
@@RepellentJeff ok, those people who mentioned the emoji need to get their head out of the gutter
Oh well. His choice. And he's a good person. I hope he doesn't let himself get sucked backed into the ex wife drama. There's a fine line between being a friend and being a doormat.
Ok. I admit. Op is the most wholesome person I've heard about. I don't think he is dumb for helping his ex-wife. I think he doesn't want to let the misfortunes on his life make him as a person, and I respect that.
"To put things simply, if your past makes your present... Then your present can and will make your future. When you think about it that way... You absolutely have the potential to be anything you want to be."
- Yato
Well, he wanted to be someone he could feel pround of and that isn't sculpted by his past.
I agree 100%
Oh no he's extremely dumb
Yes not even for just that he lets his wife be a stay at home wife even though he knows she isn’t at home much and spends most of her time out with friends or partying.Like that’s just freeloading
A nerdy daft blithering idiot of a doormat homeboy is going to be bled dry.
I'm glad op could admit that the marriage had only been good for his ex-wife. It really shows how much she valued this relationship when it took her ten days to notice op had left her. Affair fog is real. Personally, I think op was too nice. Op is right. I am disappointed with him. This kind of thing always comes back to bite people in the butt. At least nobody can claim op is a bitter ex.
This story sounds fake especially with details about peach, she sounds too perfect 😂 If it is true then OP is not over his ex. He didn't settle down, he doesn't have serious relationship after divorce, he is still getting manipulated by ex in helping her through her friend, and being friends on social media.
This dude seems pretty chill
Almost too chill.
@@dokuganryu1565
Very suspicious
Bro has no enemies
I wish I had the freedom and money to travel forever, to drift around the world without sacrificing fast Internet and comfort.
The guy was a fool to leave her anything, she doesn't deserve the house or any money, cheaters deserve no empathy or compassion or forgiveness.
You guys do know that vindictiveness is not a virtue right?
Yes, he helped after all that. But it honestly didnt cost him much.
you will never persuade the people that are here for a "justice bon er"
Im petty and love schadenfreude. Her misfortune now would bring me glee
I love Peach, she's a little gremlin and I'm very inspired to take up the mantle.
Man, OP is a better person than just about everyone else in this comment section. I guess people are angry that OP decided to be mature about it and not start drama that is an unnecessary and be friends with his ex.
Oh well, not everyone can be as chill and laidback as OP.
Big difference between being "chill" and being a doormat...not sure you'd be able to understand the difference.
@cjgroves4429 Doormat, are you serious!? What, he’s a doormat because he decided that he would be amicable to his ex not start unneeded drama? I’m sorry if you think that makes him a doormat, but maybe you should recognize that OP is more mature than you.
I hate when people argue with commenters 🙄
Why do you have to explain everything for these people?
Homeboy is the worse kind of doormat a nerdy one!
Most people commenting on these stories cannot be satisfied. Either you aren't a doormat for immediately nuking a relationship and going scorched earth, or it's a fake story because of some edgy teenager revenge.
OP is the perfect example of growing and moving the hell on. He refused her advances, and is not just helping her for free. If he was giving her money for nothing that'd be one thing. But all he's doing is recommending her to jobs, which she still has to WORK hard for to get and maintain. Some of y'all really want people to hold hate in their heart forever
lol showing my age I thought of the littlest hobo instead of Reacher
reddit turned into a personal, fictional blog. If even this channel is going to rely on fake shit it would be better to at least fabricate something interesting, no revenge, useless information and a lack of information of things important for the story.
21:55 THAT‘S exactly where he‘s wrong…
True or not it was a fun ride
That worked out the best way it could with the ex wife, especially if she showed remorse and is really sorry.
OP is a good man.
Not the first time a massive TBI changed a person for the better
That was the best video intro to date. Love when secret voices injects personal commentaries.