Exactly. Why not keep motivating him for trying to change his image/persona. Ain’t nobody forcing him to change. He’s always been humbled before he even signed a single label. He dont fw nobody in the industry really.. always been to himself and has always said he doesn’t like humans cause of how cruel and evil they can be. He’s always been smart and humbled. He was raised around bad tho and it inherited into his life. All he knew… all he saw and learned. He’s changing by himself cause he simply growing. Can think smarter, isn’t in a bad environment and doesn’t hang around w most of his bad influenced friends.. he has a new family which is for sure one if not the biggest factor for him changing. He’s one of the greatest. Aint no debate weather he’s a goat or not 🐐.
This why the current generation don’t wanna change or respect the older generation they so stuck on certain shit you can evolve and change to be better
His exact words were “shawty say he gone boom me & I ain’t got no more fight inside my heart so if he run into me, I’m just gone let it go down I ain’t scared my boy” 😂 that’s the opposite of him saying he gone kill bobby
He threatened rowdy rebel because of that clip he said lul Tim should have not shot Von. Youngboy came straight after him, and than say leave me alone Bobby and send indirect threats.
Please answer this question 😂 bc ppl always run with a different narrative about yb, I’m obviously a fan but I’m not the biggest or like a “yb better” troll but I honestly think yb is the most misunderstood misinterpreted person on earth 💀
@@swanny155 how he got these kids doing that they doing it cause they want too it’s not his fault like y’all act like he’s the person making kids do this like what man
@@swanny155 he influenced the kids to do that yea Ight bruh so you telling me they the ones to influence people to kill other people like I said a lot of people do cause they want to not all but some
It's because Joe doesn't listen to YB he doesn't understand that he's always been like this, he is one of the most emotionally open rapper, doesn't even like speaking publicly, and doesn't hang around with many people. He always been like this, but he came from a life where its kill or be killed, through his whole come up he been saying he doesn't want that life, but you can't just snap your finger and end a war.
@@MailmanRicky people can listen to watever tf they want, wtf is you talkin bout !!?? If somebody 60 years old why cant they listen to YB? If somebody 25 years old wats the problem ? if somebody's 90 years old ?? wtf age got to do with music
WHY WOULD BILLBOARD CARE ABOUT HIM STOPPING THE VIOLENCE WHEN THEY GET PAID SO MUCH OFF VIOLENCE YOU GOTTA TAKE WHAT JOE SAY WIT A GRAIN OS SALT #STOPTHEVIOLENCE
Das what I be sayin he been talm bout this since he blew up. He didn't wanna give the money up so he kept the tough guy act. He know that he straight now and finally got everything he wanted so he tryna right his wrongs. That's what hi haters and this not a song about. Still kinda f'd up if you look at it like that but hes young an tbh thats a mistake a lot of people would make and are still making.
Ever Since QC embarrassed his old ass, he’ll forever hate the new/young generation and music. Made him feel like he don’t belong. Now he has to just say shit. Like an old ass person does. Give him a cigar and a drink please.🤣💯
Huh??? He quit rap like 7 years ago & making WAY more money running his podcast/network. Dafaq you talking about? Just saying something stupid just cause
THIS ! I really have a burning hate in my heart for humanity because of how bad I wish I could save us. And unfortunately especially my black community. Because all these others culture benefit HANDSOMELY off of our detriment and abuse to each other. It’s really crabs in a bucket, I wish we would care for each other.
But he replied to a video talking aggressive to rowdy rebel. That’s how the whole thing even started. Y’all don’t Actually listen and follow the story. Youngboy ain’t fooling no street niggas
@@chosen1brand635 man be quiet yb told rebel to mind his business he have nun to do with that so why he speaking on it don’t interfere with sum you have nun to do with
Why not keep motivating him for trying to change his image/persona. Ain’t nobody forcing him to change. He’s always been humbled before he even signed a single label. He dont fw nobody in the industry really.. always been to himself and has always said he doesn’t like humans cause of how cruel and evil they can be. He’s always been smart and humbled. He was raised around bad tho and it inherited into his life. All he knew… all he saw and learned. He’s changing by himself cause he simply growing. Can think smarter, isn’t in a bad environment and doesn’t hang around w most of his bad influenced friends.. he has a new family which is for sure one if not the biggest factor for him changing. He’s one of the greatest. Aint no debate weather he’s a goat or not 🐐.
Ice and Ish makes this show… no one will change over night. If you a YB fan his voice is like that in interviews. Budden never spoke on him when he was on demon time. Why now? And he never said he would kill Bobby. That was Bobby!
He's doing the best he can rn, he's a work in progress. But I do believe that he is trying to do better, but yes he knows himself. But he will do better as he matures and learn how to handle these nights that ain't as passionate. I love NBA youngboy
Depends on how far you go. Before rapping he was just a regular kid with some issues. Then he "changed" into a gangster when the fame started coming. Whole time he sayin this might not have been the right thing to do because this not really him but playing this role is putting food on the table. Then he "changed" and started publicly squashing issues with his "opps" while saying "stop the violence" and giving back to the community. He spent more time not playing gangsta than playing gangsta. Some ppl think positive yb an act and some think negative yb an act. I'll hope for the latter but we will indeed see.
I don't think it's an act. Do I think he will complete his vows? No, he probably won't. I don't expect anyone to make big changes in their lives that are easy in a short amount of time. I expect relapse and excuses in the near future and I can't predict the distant future. That being said, I believe he was sincere at that very moment.
That was yb villian story or whatever it’s called like the movie with joker laughing all the time an got beat up for it.. That’s how they made it look with the soft voice an everything😂 I think it was a front but it’s nothing fake about it, he just know what he into is never coming to an end and him being stuck in the house screaming stop the violence is him tryna clean his image so they let him out
I HOPE ALLLLL THESE YOUNGER BLACK GENERATION OF RAPPERS STOP RAPPING ABOUT VIOLENCE AGAINST BLACK WOMEN AND VIOLENCE IN GENERAL STOP KILLING EACH OTHER
OK SO WHO WANTS TO GO BACK TO JAIL SOME DO BUT THE SMART ONES WHO GOT SOMETHING TO LIFE FOE DOES I THINK HE LOWKEY SALTY I THINK THEY BEING PAID TO KEEP THE VIOLENCE GOING
YB is one of the most transparent Artists, I dont see a reason for him to lie... When YB said its FUCK EM it was UP... Now YB on a whole different path and people clowing him and calling him a liar... Bro hasnt threatened to kill nobody, yall folks get it together man...
"It's not I'm Mr peace until one of y'all or somebody give me a reasonto no longer be peaceful". It is tho joe. Every human on earth has a breaking point. Wtf is he saying? That's basic psychology. Then he said him changing don't negate the the negative before. That's insane. Smh
He definitely is. Whoever believed that interview is gullible especially the part where he said he terrified of people,boy gtfoh. Up there acting like Edward scissorhands. YB is quite the character he hop in and out of character so easily. Who can vouch for he being bullied is what I wanna know. I KNOW MAD PPL from BR and nobody reported that ever. Everybody out Der respect him and been respecting his since before the fame.A month ago he dropped a whole album talking about violence.hell if you listen to any of YB music according to him he been thuggin since he was a youngin,gotta get that's what momma told him. His words not mine
Yb is starting to realize how much influence he has on other young black men, he is a natural leader. Joe budden will go down in history as a hater and most likely won’t be remembered in 5 to 10 years. Yb do yo thang young king !!!!!! 🫵🏿
Youngboy is living rent-free in Budden’s head….he’s doing this for clout…I never knew Budden till now😂😂😂…TG he won himself a beef at the right time 😂😂😂
Joe is a hater. You don’t shame someone for wanting to change, they might say f it and go back to who they were. When people want to change I don’t see how you do anything but support it.
This is what joe don’t get it’s a difference from protecting yourself compared to going out and doing it nba saying if you come at me imma protect myself but im not coming at you I’m at peace and want to bring peace but if you try something imma protect myself SIMPLE
I didn’t listen to young boy until he dropped Colors. I didn’t tune in because of the dissing, I was actually staying away from his music because of that. I checked it out because my bro said it’s worth a listen. You can tell who doesn’t listen to YB. The last track on the album “I Got This” earned respect from me. Everybody talked about the 3 diss song up there but didn’t speak on that last song at all, That’s some hater shit. To me it sounds like Joe and others are in someone’s pockets. It really is YB Vs everybody. It’s weirdo shit to me. This why I don’t even really check into the pod anymore.
I see where Joe coming from but yb fan base is unmatched and innocent lives could/have been ruined from the kids(easily influenced) listening to his music. I support bro to the max for wanting to switch it up🔥🔥#STOPTHEVIOLENCE
Even if it is bs, it’s what these kids need so why does it even matter. And he said it’s gunna time to change but he wants peace. Budden swear he know everything
That’s how YB really is. Joe clearly doesn’t listen to his music at all. YB is an introvert and is speaking through his life fr. I’ve lost respect for JB.
“ Don’t let these niggas tell you what no real gangsta is for to flunk you out and lose ya life” - YoungBoy
People don't ever listen.. preach
@@thee_slimeee fr
i listen to that song daily as a reminder
@@Undefined_wrldwhat song?
Song.?
And this is why changing is so hard in this generation everybody keep doubting everybody
Exactly man our black people always gotta keep each other down frfr they don’t wanna see you win
Shit sad Joe just a piece of 💩 man that’s facts
Now you see why this generation is so messed up, look at this🤡 from the last generation trying to tear down someone trying to do the right thing.
He brought it on himself
Exactly. Why not keep motivating him for trying to change his image/persona. Ain’t nobody forcing him to change. He’s always been humbled before he even signed a single label. He dont fw nobody in the industry really.. always been to himself and has always said he doesn’t like humans cause of how cruel and evil they can be. He’s always been smart and humbled. He was raised around bad tho and it inherited into his life. All he knew… all he saw and learned. He’s changing by himself cause he simply growing. Can think smarter, isn’t in a bad environment and doesn’t hang around w most of his bad influenced friends.. he has a new family which is for sure one if not the biggest factor for him changing. He’s one of the greatest. Aint no debate weather he’s a goat or not 🐐.
He didn’t say he was going too kill Bobby . He said he gone leave him be . Because he don’t need too be arguing with somebody of his stature
Exactly bro either a hater or jus old and going thru a late life crisis cuz yb clearly said “let’s be friends” 😂
You right he didn't say he was going too beat him up.what he said if he come for him he was going to handle he business an I dnt blame yb
@@zroo. niggas really hating on a nigga success shit crazy
Bobby didn’t say he was gonna kill yb either
@@mtjm2 he most def said he was going too boom him on camera
This why the current generation don’t wanna change or respect the older generation they so stuck on certain shit you can evolve and change to be better
His exact words were “shawty say he gone boom me & I ain’t got no more fight inside my heart so if he run into me, I’m just gone let it go down I ain’t scared my boy” 😂 that’s the opposite of him saying he gone kill bobby
He threatened rowdy rebel because of that clip he said lul Tim should have not shot Von. Youngboy came straight after him, and than say leave me alone Bobby and send indirect threats.
@@chosen1brand635 what did he say to rowdy rebel that was a threat?
@@ItzLeebo exactly
Please answer this question 😂 bc ppl always run with a different narrative about yb, I’m obviously a fan but I’m not the biggest or like a “yb better” troll but I honestly think yb is the most misunderstood misinterpreted person on earth 💀
@@ItzLeebo He lying. YB never threatened him
He always talk like that that's why we rock with him cause the hate and the way people misunderstand him
He got all these kids killing
@@swanny155 how he got these kids doing that they doing it cause they want too it’s not his fault like y’all act like he’s the person making kids do this like what man
@@bigken87 man fuck that he’s influenced these kids to do all that killing shit. Him, them Chicago drill rappers all influenced that.
@@swanny155 he influenced the kids to do that yea Ight bruh so you telling me they the ones to influence people to kill other people like I said a lot of people do cause they want to not all but some
@@swanny155 no, the last generation influenced these kids.
It's because Joe doesn't listen to YB he doesn't understand that he's always been like this, he is one of the most emotionally open rapper, doesn't even like speaking publicly, and doesn't hang around with many people. He always been like this, but he came from a life where its kill or be killed, through his whole come up he been saying he doesn't want that life, but you can't just snap your finger and end a war.
Facts
Jo not the only one either
No grown adult with a fully developed brain has any reason to listen to youngboy
@@fyntwinben780fAcTs goofy ass 😂
@@MailmanRicky people can listen to watever tf they want, wtf is you talkin bout !!?? If somebody 60 years old why cant they listen to YB? If somebody 25 years old wats the problem ? if somebody's 90 years old ?? wtf age got to do with music
This Age Very Well For Joe 😭🤣
what happened
@@KhidrJoseph NBA Youngboy Was Lying & Still Beefing With Durk 😭😭😭
WHY WOULD BILLBOARD CARE ABOUT HIM STOPPING THE VIOLENCE WHEN THEY GET PAID SO MUCH OFF VIOLENCE YOU GOTTA TAKE WHAT JOE SAY WIT A GRAIN OS SALT
#STOPTHEVIOLENCE
Joe is hating
Always hating
Ain’t hating now is he? He still making murder music you clowns🤡
@@chrizmozzzy8744 Joe barely make music
If yall listen his music you would hear that he been talking about changing since the start yall should go listen untouchable it's 5 years ago
Das what I be sayin he been talm bout this since he blew up. He didn't wanna give the money up so he kept the tough guy act. He know that he straight now and finally got everything he wanted so he tryna right his wrongs. That's what hi haters and this not a song about. Still kinda f'd up if you look at it like that but hes young an tbh thats a mistake a lot of people would make and are still making.
Exactly 💯
"I wanna stop the killing, my intentions say no". Big facts
U basically telling a hood dude he ain’t a post to change
Joe mad cause his rap career been down the drain 😂
Ever Since QC embarrassed his old ass, he’ll forever hate the new/young generation and music. Made him feel like he don’t belong. Now he has to just say shit. Like an old ass person does. Give him a cigar and a drink please.🤣💯
Lol. Probably....
Y’all always say bs like this. He speaks without bias in relation to his career consistently
Huh??? He quit rap like 7 years ago & making WAY more money running his podcast/network. Dafaq you talking about? Just saying something stupid just cause
@Outlaws 🤣🤣
Always hatred. Never credit 😒
Goes to say nobody wants change . Negative always over shadows positive
THIS ! I really have a burning hate in my heart for humanity because of how bad I wish I could save us. And unfortunately especially my black community. Because all these others culture benefit HANDSOMELY off of our detriment and abuse to each other. It’s really crabs in a bucket, I wish we would care for each other.
@Mo From Flint that'll never happen stay selfish n focus on u
Joe not intouch enough with the youth to speak on this topic if Akademiks didn’t say it its no facts
Akademiks is 30 something not the youth. Update your info
@@PainKiller0247 his audience is the youth
Joe as a former addict you know you have nights and days were you want to relapse.
How are u denouncing something but still making that same type of music🤔🤔🤔🤔 I don't get it
He never told Bobby he was gon kill him it was more of the opposite lol how do u people actually listen?
But he replied to a video talking aggressive to rowdy rebel. That’s how the whole thing even started. Y’all don’t Actually listen and follow the story. Youngboy ain’t fooling no street niggas
@@chosen1brand635 man be quiet yb told rebel to mind his business he have nun to do with that so why he speaking on it don’t interfere with sum you have nun to do with
Why not keep motivating him for trying to change his image/persona. Ain’t nobody forcing him to change. He’s always been humbled before he even signed a single label. He dont fw nobody in the industry really.. always been to himself and has always said he doesn’t like humans cause of how cruel and evil they can be. He’s always been smart and humbled. He was raised around bad tho and it inherited into his life. All he knew… all he saw and learned. He’s changing by himself cause he simply growing. Can think smarter, isn’t in a bad environment and doesn’t hang around w most of his bad influenced friends.. he has a new family which is for sure one if not the biggest factor for him changing. He’s one of the greatest. Aint no debate weather he’s a goat or not 🐐.
bruh been on da stop da violence movement before billboard 🤨
He doesn't need marketing he sells music better than you ever could Joseph. And you were on a major label with promotion.
these dudes lame to be so grown they so wrong smh man give me a podcast these dudes way off
Ice and Ish makes this show… no one will change over night. If you a YB fan his voice is like that in interviews. Budden never spoke on him when he was on demon time. Why now? And he never said he would kill Bobby. That was Bobby!
He's doing the best he can rn, he's a work in progress. But I do believe that he is trying to do better, but yes he knows himself. But he will do better as he matures and learn how to handle these nights that ain't as passionate. I love NBA youngboy
They so lame they judging yb😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Joe Was Right ! 🤷😎
Stay a Mystery to these folks YB! They Goin Crazy trying to Read ya my boii lol
The best prediction of future behavior is past behavior. Ima come back to this video in 6 months to a year lmao. Everybody know this an act
Depends on how far you go. Before rapping he was just a regular kid with some issues. Then he "changed" into a gangster when the fame started coming. Whole time he sayin this might not have been the right thing to do because this not really him but playing this role is putting food on the table. Then he "changed" and started publicly squashing issues with his "opps" while saying "stop the violence" and giving back to the community. He spent more time not playing gangsta than playing gangsta. Some ppl think positive yb an act and some think negative yb an act. I'll hope for the latter but we will indeed see.
I don't think it's an act. Do I think he will complete his vows? No, he probably won't. I don't expect anyone to make big changes in their lives that are easy in a short amount of time. I expect relapse and excuses in the near future and I can't predict the distant future.
That being said, I believe he was sincere at that very moment.
Joe speaking facts YB fanbase to strong doe he will never win this argument
Hating
That was yb villian story or whatever it’s called like the movie with joker laughing all the time an got beat up for it.. That’s how they made it look with the soft voice an everything😂 I think it was a front but it’s nothing fake about it, he just know what he into is never coming to an end and him being stuck in the house screaming stop the violence is him tryna clean his image so they let him out
Wtf he been saying it before the billboard interview
Yb whole career is violence’s an depression
When he said he is scared of people he was saying he might have to go there even some of the ones that's around him Listen to his music
I HOPE ALLLLL THESE YOUNGER BLACK GENERATION OF RAPPERS STOP RAPPING ABOUT VIOLENCE AGAINST BLACK WOMEN AND VIOLENCE IN GENERAL STOP KILLING EACH OTHER
OK SO WHO WANTS TO GO BACK TO JAIL SOME DO BUT THE SMART ONES WHO GOT SOMETHING TO LIFE FOE DOES
I THINK HE LOWKEY SALTY I THINK THEY BEING PAID TO KEEP THE VIOLENCE GOING
anyone else come back to this video after that latest release lmaooooo
I’ll say somewhat to that.
Don’t get him messed up like he ain’t bout it but he willing to be peaceful
YB is one of the most transparent Artists, I dont see a reason for him to lie...
When YB said its FUCK EM it was UP...
Now YB on a whole different path and people clowing him and calling him a liar...
Bro hasnt threatened to kill nobody, yall folks get it together man...
Lol u sure
"It's not I'm Mr peace until one of y'all or somebody give me a reasonto no longer be peaceful". It is tho joe. Every human on earth has a breaking point. Wtf is he saying? That's basic psychology. Then he said him changing don't negate the the negative before. That's insane. Smh
They don't listen his music lmfaooo
He definitely is. Whoever believed that interview is gullible especially the part where he said he terrified of people,boy gtfoh. Up there acting like Edward scissorhands. YB is quite the character he hop in and out of character so easily. Who can vouch for he being bullied is what I wanna know. I KNOW MAD PPL from BR and nobody reported that ever. Everybody out Der respect him and been respecting his since before the fame.A month ago he dropped a whole album talking about violence.hell if you listen to any of YB music according to him he been thuggin since he was a youngin,gotta get that's what momma told him. His words not mine
"Come and see how I live btch woah. Come Check it out fore you ready to talk"- lil top
Joe Budden needs to talk to yb
Bobby shmurda most definitely said he was gone “boooommmm” yb
Joe don’t really believe what he’s saying he’s just making spice for the show 😂
I bet y’all believed Larry too when he changed GD to growth & development 😂
Great interview man very authentic sh**
No matter what , that was big for him to want people to change ,let him be great.
Joe admitted he was bi sexual JUDGEMENT isnt his position I’m so sorry
Its always the ones that show guns that never killed anyone.
I’m just sayin the fact is “sTop the Violence”.lol
Yb is starting to realize how much influence he has on other young black men, he is a natural leader. Joe budden will go down in history as a hater and most likely won’t be remembered in 5 to 10 years. Yb do yo thang young king !!!!!! 🫵🏿
Wrong even white folk influence by yb
You see how they didn't want to speak on Hov or say his name.,. Know they talking to much 🤫🤐
Youngboy is living rent-free in Budden’s head….he’s doing this for clout…I never knew Budden till now😂😂😂…TG he won himself a beef at the right time 😂😂😂
They need too listen to where the love at and slow down by yb he been saying he wanna stop violence years ago but people keep provoking him
Joe this why people don’t watch u no more smh
Hating for nun. A whole conversation about nun 😂😂.
He made a 8 min song about changing his life 🤣🤣🤣🤣
as for the bobby smurda interaction..you can’t change 100% overnight he’s trying to change by pushing “stop the violence” it a process
In the same interview he said he’s gonna make murder music if that’s the case his stop the violence message is hypocritical with the influence he has
This some hating shit
They won’t ever understand bc they don’t listen to his music
Joe don’t know how he speak cause he don’t know him and watch him like that dude been like that ‼️
I agree, NBA youngboys words and actions are not matching.
How?
Wtf do you mean his actions aren’t matching his words he hasn’t done anything
YoungBoy ain't slain no one to my knowledge, it's just the machine bigger than him. And really , ... nevermind
Joe funny asf
He corny af
This is the same Joe that believed the Rona debacle
Joe just trying to blame billboard. You can tell he doesn’t pay attention to YB unless He’s in headlines. Same with flip
That’s the problem, the old heads give up on the youth . No is the same from 17 to 40 and there are levels of change throughput
Joe is a hater. You don’t shame someone for wanting to change, they might say f it and go back to who they were. When people want to change I don’t see how you do anything but support it.
Wrong
Joe made it a race thing while arguing and disagreeing with a fellow black man. Make it make sense.
Can’t wait for ice and ish to leave and make a new podcast.
People are truly ignorant
I like the comment section we will put our own community down hiw about we pray for him
Stop the violence that’s wat I ducking said
I believe YoungBoy was honest… but I don’t think he’s committed to not being violent lol
Unfortunately… I think this a mental health conversation
Give yb his credit on consistency and stop getting on his man.
Two words. Mitigating factors.
This is what joe don’t get it’s a difference from protecting yourself compared to going out and doing it nba saying if you come at me imma protect myself but im not coming at you I’m at peace and want to bring peace but if you try something imma protect myself SIMPLE
Wrong
I didn’t listen to young boy until he dropped Colors. I didn’t tune in because of the dissing, I was actually staying away from his music because of that. I checked it out because my bro said it’s worth a listen.
You can tell who doesn’t listen to YB. The last track on the album “I Got This” earned respect from me. Everybody talked about the 3 diss song up there but didn’t speak on that last song at all,
That’s some hater shit. To me it sounds like Joe and others are in someone’s pockets. It really is YB Vs everybody. It’s weirdo shit to me. This why I don’t even really check into the pod anymore.
Joe Budden member all them times u tried to get sober 💯💯💯💯 Stop playin my guy
Joe Budden, big hating
The amount of people that really believe him is hilarious 😂
They on here putting words in his mouth and lying. Smh
Joe Budden ain't been relevant for a minute and thinks this take finna be controversial 😂.
Nah it's goofy
ICE says he has no clue WTF he's talking about, without saying it
There's many old heads that listen to him to
I see where Joe coming from but yb fan base is unmatched and innocent lives could/have been ruined from the kids(easily influenced) listening to his music. I support bro to the max for wanting to switch it up🔥🔥#STOPTHEVIOLENCE
Other artists are in the same category
Folks did not say he was kill Bobby, Bobby said he gone boom his ass.
A killer and a drug addict is not the same 😂😂
Even if it is bs, it’s what these kids need so why does it even matter. And he said it’s gunna time to change but he wants peace. Budden swear he know everything
The dynamics of this podcast is so toxic lmao
They acting like politicians
That’s how YB really is. Joe clearly doesn’t listen to his music at all. YB is an introvert and is speaking through his life fr. I’ve lost respect for JB.
Your wrong Budden is truth
Soooo people can’t grow?? Why is Joe mad at YB’s growth? Weird.
Ice green he don’t know what’s going on till he get smacked by it.
😂😂
Why I thought they was talking about the president my high ass be tripping
Joe Budden is the oldest Child to exist on this Earth.
Dude with the ai’s be speaking the truth they don’t like that
This man Joe always think he know what he talking bout
Been stopped listening to Joe after they was trashing Ye instead breaking down the actual truths in his interviews.
Well Joe, isn’t passive aggressive is every matured man stance?!