Her words and actions are an insult to everyone seated at that table (and the one who isn't). I really cannot understand why the writers have everyone just sit there and let her get away with it.
My inlaws are/were like that mother.....complete narcissists. We all kept biting our lip in the early days......but after the wedding, where his father made a big announcement of breaking us up if it was the last thing he did, the gloves were off. Sometimes I'd let it go, other times I'd fight. I promised my FiL i would dance on his grave in a red dress before i broke up with his son......i kept the promise. We're still together 32 years later (30 married). But this drama brings back so many horrible memories. The way my parents were treated too was awful. The false smiles and fake laughter so they can pretend it was all 'a joke' or 'meant well'. Ack, vileness. But we fought back. I refused to let his parents destroy our lives. I'm sure that will eventually happen here too. But i am sad to see Little Orange turning into her loathsome mother.
the two dads were trying to be polite because they knew Chen Ting is emotionally disturbed and they're trying to keep the peace for Xiao's birthday. They probably thought they could hold it together for a couple of hours and then be done with her.
But I really feel that Ling Heping should have taken a stronger stance. He shouldn't have let the grandma and mother get away with their behaviour. Li Haichao that way is such an amazing father. He always protects Jianjian and He Ziqui. If he could, he would have done the same for Ling Xiao too. I hate how both women would rely on Li Haichao so much and yet be so livid whenever Ling Xiao would call him his father. They have never been a good family to him and they won't let him live happily with his family either. Stupid, vile women!
its chinese culture, to accept the elders apology even if they did wrong. the show has to show a positive message towards family function. its a censorship rule also
Again it was all about her and her agenda. Probably the sadest birthday dinner her son ever had. Everything spewing out of her was mean. Her daughter is just a mini version of her, mean and selfish. The family did well controlling any comments, probably to save Ling Xiao any more pain and embarrassment. Me, I would have just left or told her off.
Yeah!! I'd said you're making this the WORST birthday of my life and dare say these things and think it's right?? Narcissists only think of themselves. Never see themselves as villains.
Yeah, I have inlaws like her - not wealthy, though they pretended to be until my FiL died - but controlling and vile. My husban was never meant to get married and having a child was NOT acceptable, but we did it. I was tenacious and refused to be chased off. So this drama- which I've watched a lot of times - really still steams me up. I'm so glad it had a happy ending for them. As for me, me and my husband are still very happy together despite his parents best efforts (even trying to scupper the wedding) and it;s been 30 years married, 32 together.
@@troublemcallister730 Props to you and your husband for sticking to your own plans and commitment to each other. It must have been stressful at times. I admire you both. Some parents believe we are here to be just an extension of themselves and that we must do what they say and wish no matter how old or financially independent we become. Congratulations and best wishes for continued wedded happiness!
I always advise my children, that.. before they get into relationships or getting married someday.. They have to work harder, cause when the time comes they will encounter like this kind of families and then been bullied at least even if they broke up, they can still stand up to themselves and if they are meant to be together with the one they love, destiny will lead them back... And always stay calm and if there is little chance, just left the group..
That's why it's important to date future in-laws too. Need to sound 🔊 them out cause once u marry it's too late. U get kids and it's even worse, u can't get rid of toxic family as easy. Families came as a package 📦 this guy seems amazing but that mother of his... 😱😱😱 Reminds me to thank God for my mother, she's wonderful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@Bellz972 Good for you that you found an in-laws whose been nice to you. I do also agree with you.. But for me, just for me... our children living with their in-laws especially our daughters, the fear is still there, we are not there to protect them 24/7, I just want them to be prepared for anything they will encounter.
She hates the fact they know her for the scum she is. She hates that her son adores them and despises her. My inlaws are/were narcissists like her. Truly loathsome. Narcs should NEVER have kids. She brings back so many bad memories for me, before i finally lost my bag of fucks and decided to fight back. Along with my late parents, who adored my husband too, and then our daughter. They stil acted up, but were shut down quickly. LOL!
So true. Have PATIENCE... Luckily, Ling Xiao's dad, Heping, is there, to stand up for him against his mom whenever is needed. After all, she left him when he was a kid. Anyway, she's a beautiful looking actress.
🌸He’s hating every minute of his party because of his mother. She has belittled everyone and everything in his life that he cares about. What a self centred, nasty woman. He looks like her touching him makes his skin crawl. I’ve never seen such a miserable party, EVER!
she's a narcissist. Just attend a party my inlaws organised, you'd see the brit version of this. Miserable people being given back handed 'compliments'. LOL! At our WEDDING my FIL said he'd split us up if it was the last thing he did. I promised him i'd dance on his grave in a red dress before that happened. I have NEVER broken a promise and we're still married and happy, 30 years later. His father's dead and his mum is soon to follow, so long as the devil doesn't get another restraining order (she's 99 and currently in hospital).😊
I completely understand how Xaio feels when his mother first put her hand on his the fist he makes and the cringing wanting to physically jump out of his own skin when she touches him.. i would get like that with my mom.
Que disgusto y desagradable es la mamá, que bien que al fin del día tubo su pastel de cumpleaños con lo que lo aman. Disfruto mucho esta serie y las repito me encantan bien 👍👍
El padre podrá hacer todo lo que quiera... Podrá hacer un padre que no estaba presente pero cada noche cuando llegaba le preguntaba a su vecino como estaba el si hablara con él más seguido... Que le consejos todo...Mientras que el trabajaba 🥺 no lo abandono!!! Como la madre egoísta que solo pensó en si misma
they all know she's craycray. but they just don't understand the flavors of her kind of crazy nor how to neutralize the pain she causes without looking a/o sounding disrespectful and crazy themselves. i wouldn't leave a child all alone with a woman like her. furthermore, ive imagined that her 2nd husband deliberately drove their vehicle into tree or on comin traffic.
Esta madre de veras que es mala ! Abandono a su hijo y regresa para hacerle la vida difícil, comprendo el desamor de su hijo respecto a ella , egoísta, mala igual que la hija ! Se deberían de ir y regresar por donde vinieron , de veras que es detestable esa madre !!😡
This lady is not right in her mind! She was abusive to her son when he was younger! Abandoned him and her husband. Then returned back and changed her abuse from physical to mental abuse! She is just disgusting!
Lúc bé thấy anh nhỏ tội nhất nhưng khi lớn lên thì anh lớn lại tội hơn anh nhỏ vì mẹ của anh lớn,hạnh phúc nhất chỉ có cô công chúa luôn được bảo vệ và che chở từ 2 bố và 2 anh
There’s a theme in psychology called the Devouring Mother. She’s a classic example. In this scene everything she does is designed to stake a claim to the son she previously abandoned. By paying for the cake she says Ziqui is not his brother. She tells Li Dad to his face that Xiao is not his son, and tells Heping he’s an irresponsible father (which is really rich since she’s the one who abandoned her son). Awful woman who’s hellbent on destroying her son in the name of some sick twisted possessiveness.
Because she needs somebody to help her. when she gets old, she needs her son to care for her. I believe that this is a part of the reason. There is a lot of cases in China.
Может быть я не права, но я думаю мама упивается своей инвалидностью, думает что все должны ей сочувствовать. Но окружающие знают ее сущность, знают ее истинное лицо. Всем неприятно видеть ее.
I have similar experience with this part. sometime, you know what someone means is malicious but you cannot rebute it, because what they said is true, is real, so you don't know how to rebute them....When I was a child, I was ill and left some sequelae. Since then, some people have kept attacking me with this shortcoming. I was very angry, but did not know how to refute, because what they said is the truth. I believe lingxiao's feeling is same as me. In this part, although what Chen Ting said was very threatening, it was true, so he didn't know how to refute it, I guess.
His demeanor completely changes when he's with his brother and sister. They are his real family and he's relaxed and happy.
the complete contrast of happiness of that birthday dinner his mum orchestrated vs sharing the cake with just jianjian and ziqiu
Her words and actions are an insult to everyone seated at that table (and the one who isn't). I really cannot understand why the writers have everyone just sit there and let her get away with it.
My inlaws are/were like that mother.....complete narcissists. We all kept biting our lip in the early days......but after the wedding, where his father made a big announcement of breaking us up if it was the last thing he did, the gloves were off. Sometimes I'd let it go, other times I'd fight. I promised my FiL i would dance on his grave in a red dress before i broke up with his son......i kept the promise. We're still together 32 years later (30 married). But this drama brings back so many horrible memories. The way my parents were treated too was awful. The false smiles and fake laughter so they can pretend it was all 'a joke' or 'meant well'. Ack, vileness. But we fought back. I refused to let his parents destroy our lives. I'm sure that will eventually happen here too. But i am sad to see Little Orange turning into her loathsome mother.
the two dads were trying to be polite because they knew Chen Ting is emotionally disturbed and they're trying to keep the peace for Xiao's birthday. They probably thought they could hold it together for a couple of hours and then be done with her.
But I really feel that Ling Heping should have taken a stronger stance. He shouldn't have let the grandma and mother get away with their behaviour. Li Haichao that way is such an amazing father. He always protects Jianjian and He Ziqui. If he could, he would have done the same for Ling Xiao too. I hate how both women would rely on Li Haichao so much and yet be so livid whenever Ling Xiao would call him his father. They have never been a good family to him and they won't let him live happily with his family either. Stupid, vile women!
its chinese culture, to accept the elders apology even if they did wrong. the show has to show a positive message towards family function. its a censorship rule also
Positive?
I like this drama very much.. Realistic emotions.. So natural..thanks to its writer, director, editor n actors
What’s the name of this show?
@@AMANDA31061 go ahead
@@divyaarun2499 Thank you very much.
Again it was all about her and her agenda. Probably the sadest birthday dinner her son ever had. Everything spewing out of her was mean. Her daughter is just a mini version of her, mean and selfish. The family did well controlling any comments, probably to save Ling Xiao any more pain and embarrassment. Me, I would have just left or told her off.
Yeah!! I'd said you're making this the WORST birthday of my life and dare say these things and think it's right?? Narcissists only think of themselves. Never see themselves as villains.
Yeah, I have inlaws like her - not wealthy, though they pretended to be until my FiL died - but controlling and vile. My husban was never meant to get married and having a child was NOT acceptable, but we did it. I was tenacious and refused to be chased off. So this drama- which I've watched a lot of times - really still steams me up. I'm so glad it had a happy ending for them. As for me, me and my husband are still very happy together despite his parents best efforts (even trying to scupper the wedding) and it;s been 30 years married, 32 together.
@@goldHydrangeas Oh, you use the correct word to sum her up, narcissist!
@@troublemcallister730 Props to you and your husband for sticking to your own plans and commitment to each other. It must have been stressful at times. I admire you both. Some parents believe we are here to be just an extension of themselves and that we must do what they say and wish no matter how old or financially independent we become. Congratulations and best wishes for continued wedded happiness!
The 2nd party was well and truly more to his liking
Simple things are better than luxury things. He is happier with his friend and girlfriend. 😀😀😀
Every child deserves parents but not every parent 🙃
Jian's family truly angels, each of them.
I always advise my children, that.. before they get into relationships or getting married someday.. They have to work harder, cause when the time comes they will encounter like this kind of families and then been bullied at least even if they broke up, they can still stand up to themselves and if they are meant to be together with the one they love, destiny will lead them back... And always stay calm and if there is little chance, just left the group..
That's why it's important to date future in-laws too. Need to sound 🔊 them out cause once u marry it's too late. U get kids and it's even worse, u can't get rid of toxic family as easy.
Families came as a package 📦 this guy seems amazing but that mother of his... 😱😱😱 Reminds me to thank God for my mother, she's wonderful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@Bellz972 Good for you that you found an in-laws whose been nice to you.
I do also agree with you.. But for me, just for me... our children living with their in-laws especially our daughters, the fear is still there, we are not there to protect them 24/7, I just want them to be prepared for anything they will encounter.
chenese mostly abondomede thier child and husband vs to get matried rich man.o.woman but not happy onlu pretemding that she/he rich but have nothing
True
This is exactly why I'm not in a relationship
She did it on purpose insulted the man who her son looked upto.Pissed off big time
She hates the fact they know her for the scum she is. She hates that her son adores them and despises her. My inlaws are/were narcissists like her. Truly loathsome. Narcs should NEVER have kids. She brings back so many bad memories for me, before i finally lost my bag of fucks and decided to fight back. Along with my late parents, who adored my husband too, and then our daughter. They stil acted up, but were shut down quickly. LOL!
She really have a nerve she dumped her child he left him now she wants to act like she's a good mother
So true.
Have PATIENCE...
Luckily, Ling Xiao's dad, Heping, is there, to stand up for him against his mom whenever is needed.
After all, she left him when he was a kid.
Anyway, she's a beautiful looking actress.
🌸He’s hating every minute of his party because of his mother. She has belittled everyone and everything in his life that he cares about. What a self centred, nasty woman. He looks like her touching him makes his skin crawl.
I’ve never seen such a miserable party, EVER!
she's a narcissist. Just attend a party my inlaws organised, you'd see the brit version of this. Miserable people being given back handed 'compliments'. LOL! At our WEDDING my FIL said he'd split us up if it was the last thing he did. I promised him i'd dance on his grave in a red dress before that happened. I have NEVER broken a promise and we're still married and happy, 30 years later. His father's dead and his mum is soon to follow, so long as the devil doesn't get another restraining order (she's 99 and currently in hospital).😊
Great acting from all. Mother part am sure actress enjoyed, so Good.
I completely understand how Xaio feels when his mother first put her hand on his the fist he makes and the cringing wanting to physically jump out of his own skin when she touches him.. i would get like that with my mom.
I love this actress she always plays her parts well
I don't understand why they even let that mom come back to their house.. if this was my mom I won't ever accept her never
He is sad on her birthday dinner and with his mom.aslo but he is happy with his family dad uncle gf and brother 🌼💜🌼🌼😍
Ling Xiao's mother is the perfect representation of how a personality broken by trauma can unleash pain on those around.
Que disgusto y desagradable es la mamá, que bien que al fin del día tubo su pastel de cumpleaños con lo que lo aman. Disfruto mucho esta serie y las repito me encantan bien 👍👍
Una madre que trata de poner sus ERRORES sobre la cabeza del vecino, del padre, del hijo.... en fin un monstruo de persona 😢
It's more like a funeral than a birthday
Nobody is eating 😂 that always bothers me when watching dramas
I think in this drama, where so many scenes are centered around family meals where they DO eat, it makes this scene all the more telling
In their defence, neither would I......she's probably poisoned it.
El padre podrá hacer todo lo que quiera... Podrá hacer un padre que no estaba presente pero cada noche cuando llegaba le preguntaba a su vecino como estaba el si hablara con él más seguido... Que le consejos todo...Mientras que el trabajaba 🥺 no lo abandono!!! Como la madre egoísta que solo pensó en si misma
This mother is so hateful. She just can't let her son be happy. She's like torture for him.
That's what narcissists do. Everything is all about them. I know because my inlaws are narcs.this woman wants drowning in a vat of her own bile.
I'm watching this series second time. It's my favorite Cdrama. One of the top 5 of all dramas.
What's the drama name
@@Bintbae GO AHEAD is the drama name. I'm sure you'll like it.
@@Surftouka thank you
@@Bintbae You're welcome! Enjoy!😊
Menuda paciencia con una madre así. Es mejor ser abandonada, que compartir tu vida con alguien que tiene tan mala idea y manipula a todo el mundo
Como se llama
I am currently watching this Cdrama and I really like to play your videos because I know these are the scenes I'll be willing to play twice.
Все сидят и молчат? Почему позволяют ей' вести себя так? Она ещё больше наглеет.... Встали и ушли ' может дошло бы до неё...
they all know she's craycray. but they just don't understand the flavors of her kind of crazy nor how to neutralize the pain she causes without looking a/o sounding disrespectful and crazy themselves. i wouldn't leave a child all alone with a woman like her.
furthermore, ive imagined that her 2nd husband deliberately drove their vehicle into tree or on comin traffic.
В Азиатских странах почитание родителей на первом месте. У них это возведёно в закон. Всё, что ни делает и говорит родитель не должно осуждаться.
@@misstris_000 Это хорошо конечно. Но на такие выходки ' со стороны ' мамы' извините.
@@misstris_000 Дорама конечно поучительная. Есть над чем подумать. Сыграно отлично. Спасибо актерам.
Не подскажите название дорамы?
7:46 he said y’all gotta go neowwww lmaoo
8:57 ... This right here 😭❤
Лишний раз убеждаюсь, что улыбка не равна доброму отношению. Иногда это просто злобный оскал.
the fucking audacity of this woman to insult the father of her child when she wasnt even a part of her sons life for more than 10 years
All great actors including the much hated Mother.
Smh I have no words for ling Xiao's mother ....
how kind of woman is she, she left her son. then came back and told this man that you are not the father.I love his real friends.
Поздно думать о ребенке он вырос, стал доктором
Essa mãe e um monstro,pior que muitas madrastas...
Esta madre de veras que es mala ! Abandono a su hijo y regresa para hacerle la vida difícil, comprendo el desamor de su hijo respecto a ella , egoísta, mala igual que la hija ! Se deberían de ir y regresar por donde vinieron , de veras que es detestable esa madre !!😡
This lady is not right in her mind! She was abusive to her son when he was younger! Abandoned him and her husband. Then returned back and changed her abuse from physical to mental abuse! She is just disgusting!
I felt bad for the little sister cause she grew up with that crazy mom.
Por mas que te empeñes, lo que hicistes en el pasado dejo huellas inolvidables.
Me gustan sus dramas quiero ver más
Lúc bé thấy anh nhỏ tội nhất nhưng khi lớn lên thì anh lớn lại tội hơn anh nhỏ vì mẹ của anh lớn,hạnh phúc nhất chỉ có cô công chúa luôn được bảo vệ và che chở từ 2 bố và 2 anh
凌太太說話真是尖酸刻薄，難怪連兒子都不想見
Episode no. Please 🙏🙏🙏
好感動呀❤
HATE her mom. The contrast with other ML mom its huge. Here I hate hate her. But on the opposite side his brother's mom felt sad for her
There’s a theme in psychology called the Devouring Mother. She’s a classic example. In this scene everything she does is designed to stake a claim to the son she previously abandoned. By paying for the cake she says Ziqui is not his brother. She tells Li Dad to his face that Xiao is not his son, and tells Heping he’s an irresponsible father (which is really rich since she’s the one who abandoned her son). Awful woman who’s hellbent on destroying her son in the name of some sick twisted possessiveness.
子秋唱生日歌很好聽，他做戲很生鬼很自然，反而凌霄有些拘謹。
Como se aman y se cuidan estos tres
Name is go ahead
What you are doing now is bothering him.
Me encantan estos doramas amiga😃😃😎😎😀😎😎😎🥰😍😎😍😁😁
X2 JAJJAJAJJSJAB
Me podrías decir el nombre del drama? Por favor
@@yeseniamorales5859 se llama Go ahead
Ling xio mother is pretty 😍
Mãe que abandonou o filho não sei se perdoe fico ensina do muro 😃😂😂🇧🇷
9:00 😍😘
Title of the drama pls 🙏
Go Ahead
Estou assistindo desde o primeiro capítulo no viki muito lindo
Qual é o nome dessa série ?
@@camilamolina4644 vá em frente tem no viki
@@mariapena5917 Me disculpo, qual e o nome? eu nao posso comprender muito bem. I am sorry
@@mariapena5917 after reading I understood...kkk
Next plisss...
兄弟最高❣️🎂
Sow sweet 😊😊
بسم الله
فضلا هل ترغب ان تسافر كوريا،تركيا،الصين،روسيا ، عدة دول؟ سأعطيك اللغة، كي تسافر بسهوله، هذه القناة صُنعت لأجلك♡♡
Tittle is ?
Go ahead
Name please
Ich kenne dieses Drama leider noch nicht.
Das kurze Video omg was ne äh Ma.Spricht sehr mit spitzer Zunge und von oben herrab.Was ein Geburtstag 😨.LG
India🇮🇳❤🇰🇷
thats a chinese drama
@@mochichichi2458 but love❤ you❤🙏 all💜ᗷTS⟭⟬💜 from India🇮🇳❤ me
Why do these mothers can rule their sons or daughters lives at 28 years of age they are supposed to be adults yet quite often put up with it
In most cases narcissistic parents like her brainwash and emotionally manipulate their kids from birth. Its what my narc inlaws did to my husband.
Because she needs somebody to help her. when she gets old, she needs her son to care for her. I believe that this is a part of the reason. There is a lot of cases in China.
Episode please
How can the girl sit still while her father is getting bullied.
Is he dating the girl? Does it have happy ending?
Yes,it does
李爸擔心是對，如果是我也不喜歡凌霄這樣的媽媽，真不知道尖尖這麼想，為何要把自己找麻煩也讓辛苦養育自己長大李爸。
則看不到燒水有送達地址等直食材新鮮水果沙拉攝製衣攝❤王子麵醬玩哦扼殺魚惡臭豆腐
攝幸子呵常醫生企鵝不餓扯廠嚄呵常額啐算是一個胃鏡著超哦是惡趣味性哦射下上
😅庫俄式嚄泉不不餓車個性溫和熱書豪我進去斯。 入圍王食扯額啐喔扯哦攝惡警告
攝的可我燒熱特額啐王一組數字刺激我主機上自傲艾未踢出股市普鼓手故事書奧😊😊🏥
尖尖的人在台灣親友地址
來姨母熊本屁馬慶打不靜的長得像想惝女生在台灣親友那木火車上下來就知道你
The mother is a mean soul.
Cho xin cái tựa phim ạh
Such a despicable bychmom. 😂😂😂
He son doesn't like her you can tell .why is everyone not getting up an leaving
What’s the title?
Hello❤❤❤
Phim tên gì vậy
What is this drama called?
Go ahead
Drama name please
Go Ahead.
شنو سم مسلسل بليزز
مسلسل انطلق
Like mother, like daughter?
Por dios con la madre de verdad, yo cuando vi la serie siempre me saltaba las partes en donde ella se ponia pesada
Какая серия?????
Title please
Go ahead
This woman has no shame. 😂😂
🥰🥰🥰
Во имя семьи. Название дорамы
Go ahead
Qual o nome?
I see at 3:23 I see why her son doesn’t like her I wouldn’t either
30/48金在中午前爌肉飯店內用餐區魚大家的時候
Como se llama
porqué le permiten tanta libertad.
Сколько в ней злости. Мерзкая женщина
Mother has a mean ugly heart.
Может быть я не права, но я думаю мама упивается своей инвалидностью, думает что все должны ей сочувствовать. Но окружающие знают ее сущность, знают ее истинное лицо. Всем неприятно видеть ее.
Name of drama please
Go ahead
in the name of the family
Its ridiculous why he cant stop his mother talking nonsense
I have similar experience with this part. sometime, you know what someone means is malicious but you cannot rebute it, because what they said is true, is real, so you don't know how to rebute them....When I was a child, I was ill and left some sequelae. Since then, some people have kept attacking me with this shortcoming. I was very angry, but did not know how to refute, because what they said is the truth. I believe lingxiao's feeling is same as me. In this part, although what Chen Ting said was very threatening, it was true, so he didn't know how to refute it, I guess.
That lady didn't deserved to be a mother
اكثر ام انانية
Lúc nhỏ bỏ con giờ lớn khôn thì về dành ,ghét bà mẹ này