I have infertility issues and know how hard it is and feel sorry for her . It’s very hard to deal with others having babies and you can’t or have a hard time getting pregnant. She should join a childless support group or therapy to help her deal with it . I’m now divorced and single and it’s a struggle to live in a place where everyone is expected to be a mom or dad . If she reads this and wants to reach out I’m here
I feel you, I struggle with this too. I have accepted that feeling of my life being somewhat meaningless. But it's comforting knowing i am not alone. Even if it feels like that.
I also hope so you seem really interested about how she feels you sound like emphatic. I'm originally from Frankfurt Germany but I live Currently at Dallas Texas, where originally are you from Whisper McGaughy?
@@whispermcgaughy7251 I Know we're on the comments and all but i would love to so i should know if i should pull forward or holdback. Are you single or in a relationship Whisper McGaughy?
THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T ASK WOMEN WHEN THEY'RE HAVING KIDS! STOP ASKING ABOUT PEOPLE'S WOMBS. mind your business. it's not just an innocent question or line of inquiry. you could be causing harm w| every question.
I’ve seen so many people who struggle with infertility break down because people ask this all the time. I think as a society we need to stop treating it like normal small talk to ask someone something so invasive. You don’t know what they are going through. They could be trying to have kids and failing and the last thing they need is people asking them about it. Or they could just not want kids and getting tired of telling people just to be told they will change their minds. I’m the later half lol I do not want biological kids and it pisses me off when people ask. Like mind your business and don’t tell people what you think they want or what they should do!
I use to think I could be in an arrangement like this, but I wouldn't want the sexual part. I would love to raise a family together, share burdens, income, two people who can be your soul mates, help raise children together. Sounds lovely.
You've seen 5 mintues of it. Are you serious?😐 I think it's an unhealthy dynamic. I would question their parenting skills.... A child shouldn't have 3 different parent figures. It causes confusion.
@@jmfia2391 um first off, it's not unheard of to have more than one parental figure. It takes a village for a reason. Second off if you have watched these videos with people in poly relationships (cause it's not unheard of and its beginning to be more common) you can tell fast what a healthy poly relationship is and what isn't. I'm not claiming to know what their life is like besides of what was shown here, however compared to other groups this is what I would considered on the healthy side. And if you did your research you would know some societies accept this lifestyle instead of being judgemental about it even if majority of their population are couples.
@@terynb4407 a village doesn't mean three parents. You took that literally, it's figurative. You sound ignorant. Like I said, it's completely unhealthy to have such a dynamic. I said what I said. And it's weird. That's why these kids don't know if they want to be a boy of girl, these adults are harming their mental health
@@jmfia2391 in some cases it does. 🙄 is my point. Literally my dad had two moms growing up. The only difference is that my grandfather remarried and he looked at his wife as a mother figured even after they divorced. That's why I have two grandmother's on that side of my family. And if anything forcing gender norms are a child can do more harm than just letting them find themselves. And you can literally find that in a psychology textbook easily.
Many cultures have polygamous relationships.. and it's the norm.. we're so brainwashed that there is something wrong with something that is not what we're used to..
@@Em-wr1rx you should always seek to understand your emotions more and to debunk any false narratives that could be driving them. Jealousy is natural. Unfortunately jealousy is also possessive.
@@BelovedZeal Not all emotions need to be understood on a deeper level to be debunked. It's natural to be jealous. There's no such thing as a false narrative when you feel jealous whenever your partner is betraying your trust. When you are with someone, you should commit to him 100% or else don't be in a relationship.
@@Em-wr1rx you are right. Jealousy is natural. So is compersion. So why is it that you choose to embrace your jealousy over your conversion? In what world are you betraying someone's trust? Also, monogamy is more common because a Man created it to show his possession over a woman. It was the exchange of property from one person to another. That said property only had the right to serve the one who owned her. Meanwhile the owner, the man, had the right to own multiple properties if he could afford them financially. The well goes deeper than that but the point of the matter is is that monogamy is something that Man created. It's no more natural to life than polyamory.
@@Em-wr1rx here's a question though that you don't need to answer to me. What's the difference between a polyamorous relationship and healthy co-parenting? And remove the idea of sex from the equation because relying on that factor of it would be saying that all asexual and grey aced relationships aren't valid because the sexual component isn't there. And that's not even including those with disabilities that make sex difficult to even impossible 😕. So without that in the conversation, what's the difference between a polyamorous relationship and healthy, effective, stable co-parenting? (If children are involved as they are in this video).
I have been waiting YEARS for this perspective from the kiddos once they reach the age and maturity when they actually understand it all and can form a real base opinion and explain it
Of course they accept it. It's called INDOCTRINATION. Just like children raised in Nazi Germany thought THAT was normal, like children raised in cults, etc. When you plant corn you get corn. Those kids have no idea what a normal, healthy relationship is.
No matter the happy face that they all trying to put on that lady is hurting she can't have children with him and like somebody else said should I believe she only really really doing it to keep him happy. Unfortunately happens all the time relationships. He dropped a smooth it and cover it over, but that's something else! 💯
Wow! yal act like yal know this family so well after watching a 6:49m video of em!! They even said they hate ppl saying what yal are saying! The 1st wife said it hurts that ppl think they just have the 2nd wife just to have babies,and that's not it at all. They know their truth more than anyone else does. I'd rather believe what they said about their family than what yal saying,they would know better than anyone else!!
These guys give off the most normal vibe of any of these shows I’ve seen. They really do just seem like an average family and it’s a shame some of their friends could accept their happiness.
Yeah this is a committed triad, 3 stable parents is awesome. 3 people in love with each other is stable, being in a million relationships, not as much.
Yes, I am bi and I prefer long stable triads. Polyamory is not all open relationships. Some closed triads quads or quints are really stable and healthy relationships that can nurture a lot of children
Such a beautiful family!! Poly isn't easy, takes a ton of commitment and transparency. Children add even more to the dynamic so I really admire them for being where they are 💕
I feel the same way. I think the only way I would be fine with it is if I was bi. The description under the video does mention that Emily is bi so I'm guessing that's why the arrangement is working, at least for now.
I worry for the lady with infertility issues. Something major like that can really have an effect on a woman's self-worth (not that it should, but it's often the case), and I wonder if perhaps that has contributed to why she thinks it's acceptable to have another woman in her husband's life.
I dealt with infertility for a over a decade. It's heartbreaking. I cured my problems naturally. With a diet, supplements, and going gluten free, and fertility herbs. it was a LOT and ton of self dicipline... But so worth the end result. Inferility is so unfair. I was the only one when i went to an event or anywhere, at my age, who had no kids. So happy that's changed. I'm huge into natural cures now !!❤❤
I bet you if the women wanted to bring in another man he wouldn’t go for that. These relationships don’t last and the women are not truly happy. No normal woman wants to share their spouse with another woman. Poor children. He seems like a narcissist.
Women have been sharing men since the dawn of time. Only 40% of men have procreated where as over 90% of women have procreated. Males are biologically built to be non-monogamous, humans are the only species on earth that follow monogamy. Monogamy was a concept created by Eastern Europeans, monogamy is revelatory NEW
@@thebuyer4041 ok. Do the women benefit from sharing one man!? In what way(s)? Marriage is, one man saying, yes, to one woman and no, to all others and vise versa. If you think white men (Europeans) came up with monogamy, you’ve drank the koolaid and you haven’t done enough reading. Why would any normal woman want to share a man, sexually, physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, etc? His time is extremely divided. Neither of them (the women) will get adequate time, especially, with children, in tow. This is the most misogynistic, hubris, and just a pure declassification of women I’ve seen. Those women are like pets to “men” like him.
@@godmadesam Dude literally half of my family is greek which were the first civilizations to practice monogamy that today society conforms too. So I know what I'm talking about... No, You need to *read/research* more because most sources even state humans aren't designed to be monogamous! Only 10% of species on earth are monogamous. socially conditioning is the only reason why in today's modern world women can't fathom sharing their partner. Social constructs don't adhere to reality! if you look at women's dating strategy in today world actually its emblematic of polygyny, because it's simply biology regardless of these social constructs we have in place it won't vicissitude! Studies shows women benefit from polygyny because it's the best way to gain access to the "best" resources available. Which all women look for! Also it great for the kids because there'll be multiple partners to raise the kids so no need for a babysitters. This is where the saying "it takes a village to raise a child" stems from actually. Only in today world's we denigrate these type of relationships but before ourtime this was the norm🤷🏻♂️
The non biological mom will have 0 parenting rights on that child if the biological mom decides to separate. That child does not legally have 2 moms. No amount of UwU who cares will change that fact. The power imbalance is huge.
@@jmfia2391 the more loving people in a child’s life to raise them, the better. These kids have more support than many others out there. They are living a normal life other than having to explain it to other people
I never understood why people are so judgmental on other peoples life it’s like if they are not hurting anyone.. just let them be I mean they seem happy it works for them so hey find your happiness ♥️
You dont understand because you are brainwashed. This isnt love and its horrible for children and their mental health. Stop letting propaganda brainwash you.
The same way you're probably judgmental against ppl that are different than YOU. Stop acting morally self righteous as if YOU never judge. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion. THIS is nothing but a man taking advantage of women w low self esteem.
@@trawlins396 your comment is the best comment here by far!! obviously most of these commenters here are UNAPOLOGETICALLY delusional on so many levels to think that these kinds of relationships are ok or healthy, justification of what is absolutely wrong hasn't gotten anyone anywhere in the long run!!!!!!! smh!!!
Right.. the comments are making me sick.. assumptions that the one wife is insecure and that the husband is taking advantage of the ladies.. people just want to add so much more to the story.. can't just take it for what it is.. 3 open-minded consenting adults who all love each other and are making it work.. and doing a great job at it.. all relationships are not traditional, but it doesn't make it wrong..
Exactly lol. If it's something liberals are doing it's ok. If it's something a religious person does it's mysogigy. Exactly why they're all hypocrites.
Theres always a #1 in these types of relationships. My parents were in this type of relationship. My mother left and 40 years later my father finds a way to insert a question about her.
How interesting!! I have always found polyamorous relationships fascinating, the dynamic is so different from the "normal" monogamous one that society pushes on us all from birth...and yet they are still very similar at their core. I am curious to know how that effected you growing up?? What is your viewpoint on poly relationships, and does that change based on whether there are children involved? (I'm genuinely curious, and I ask with the utmost respect 😌 )
@@kayla42oo I'm fine with answering questions. They broke up when I was 8 or 9 years old and he was an absentee parent (because she left) I didnt fully understand until i was an adult and asked the other mother a ton of questions (my mother rarely talks about him) he didnt hop from relationship to relationship because its unhealthy. He followed a traditional way of thinking from a continental perspective I have relationship issues but its unrelated to their views on relationship The other mother was very nice and we were close for a very long time. We dont speak now but its unrelated to my father. Most men who enter these relationships are very self centered (my father). I would never enter one of these relationships because my attachment style wouldn't allow for me to thrive.
@@RAJOHN-ke7mc see that’s different because Trell is a active father to his first child regardless of the separation with the mom. Your dad missed out tho, I’m pretty sure watching you grow up was the biggest joy to your mother
Are you that open minded about polygamy also? The negative comments get deleted. Don't be gullible. The only ppl that support this fuckery are white liberals and blk ppl who fall for White Liberal idealogy. This is nothing but a man having his cake and eating it too. And he preys on weak women with low self esteem.
I agree. Speaking from my own personal experience, I have found it impossible. No matter what anyone says there will ALWAYS be favor in some way. Jealousy is also a factor although they may say there isn't. It's a lot to keep up with when everyone has their own agenda and not on one accord. After my last poly "relationship", I said I would NEVER walk that path again. I've tried it 3 separate times.
It would be nice to have two queens for chess as the queen is pretty much the most powerful and versatile piece on the board but the same cannot be said for a relationship in my opinion.
I feel like even though he attempts to appear balanced and wife seems like she’s fine with this. I feel he is more drawn to Allie and the wife is just the third wheel and existing for her husbands happiness. I don’t feel you can split between 2 ppl like that you’ll always love one more.
The issue with this stuff is in many situations it leads to major depression and mental issues and definitely messes with the kids heads in most cases. This case may be decent but I think that many are very problematic
They don't seem like a great couple to me. The wife seems like she's pushed to the back burner and the girlfriend seems like she's his main girl. I feel sorry for the first girl if that is the case.
The new chick came in and gave him a baby right away!! You don't think his wife the "main chick" is feeling some sort of way?! I agree. It seems like she is in the back burner!!
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname they weren't in front of family or at a family event! Being in front of a camera is easy for a show. And very easy to fake whereas if it is family event, extended periods of time will show how happy they really are!
I find it so hard to understand and wrap my head around it, not because I’m against it but because isn’t it difficult to have 2 lovers - 2 best friends - 2 life partners etc? I probably sound like my mum when I came out to her asking all these questions😂
For some people polyamory feels most natural, and for others monogamy feels most natural. It’s kinda hard to understand how people handle things if you can’t picture yourself going through it, if that makes sense. It just doesn’t make sense because it’s not for you, and that’s understandable. It’s a complex thing. Of course they have their struggles, and for some couples it creates even more, but it can also be very rewarding and fulfilling to have multiple partners. For them there’s just more love to share and with more parents comes more nurturing. They seem to be working out beautifully and that’s what matters most :)
@@trawlins396 right. This is a mutation of what a family should look like. Those women are out of their God forsaken minds. How do they benefit from sharing one man? I guarantee, these women had poor relationships with their fathers!
Just look at the hand placement 2:03 the girl on the right has her hand near his groin whilst the other girl is on his knee… the girl on the right seems quite domineering and intimate like this is her man Also they kind of left the girl on the left out like she was at the back 6:34 … kind of reminded me of being the third wheel in the relationship or when you have a group of friends and are left out I don’t know … i think I’m bias because I like the first girl 🤷♀️ Also the scene where they hugged was cute 🥰 2:46
definitely noticed the hand placement. I feel this is competitive for the second girl, this is like an ego boost for her. she was “chosen” because his first wife wasn’t truly enough for him.
To each their own! They seem well connected, emotionally stable and an all round amazing family, good for them. The only bit I didn’t get was the Mums wearing matching clothes? 🙄 If half of us were as happy as these guys, the world would be a much nicer place. ❤️
What i tend to see in polyamorous relationships are that 1 person is at the centre of it all. That person is polyamorous while there partner only dates them. Wouldn't it make more sense to add another man in this mix?
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname exactly. The kids understand because they are raised in that environment, so the family dynamic is normal and not different to them. It’s just another day. The only thing that confuses them is when other people are confused. It’s hard for us to know what they feel if we haven’t been in their shoes, but it’s pretty obvious to me that it feels typical for them. The atypical part for these kids is the reactions other people have to something “different”. To them their family isn’t atypical at all, they just figure out that it’s atypical to other people
He said it wasn’t an open relationship. It’s an equal trio. It wouldn’t be ‘one of them dating another man’, it would be all three of them dating another person and that person dating all three, that’s what poly means.
@SEAOTTA People can say and do whatever and as long as you stick some label on it then its okay to be doing it. Poly relationships are completely saturated with 1 man 2 or more woman dynamics. You very rarely see the women hold the power. You can't say everyone holds the power because that isn't true.
The only people that are against them are racist white nazi incels who could never have a relationship with two 10/10s. White women love black men and that's now a scientific fact.
They seem happy but it will never work long term. Not being able to have kids Is going to eat away at the one lady. The jealousy will always be there. Unless there is two men as well forget it lol. One man can’t be everywhere and please everyone. It won’t work.
I feel like you’re projecting onto them. You need to re-evaluate your preconceived notions of what a relationship should be. It’s clearly not him having two wives, it’s three people in a relationship together equally. Maybe you’re just not built to handle more than one person emotionally so you’ll never understand.
@@seaottar25 It would have been better if they were married. Weird but better. I love how society said no to polygamy and starting to say yes about polyamory. That is stupid to me.
Why they both gotta always be touching him?🙄Poor Emily is def jealous of the other girl. Sad. But hey, as long as they're all happy and the children are being taken care of? That's all that matters.
So Emily, you let your husband have babies with another woman... Yet you feel so insecure about not having your own biological children. You also have a man who admits his advantage of being a man and how everyone overly respects him by normalizing this situation for him but if it were you Emily with 2 men people would judge you and not give you the same extra credit being a woman. It's a sexist world. I doubt this guy loves you knowing how insecure you are that you don’t have kids with him yet he's made 2 with another woman while you're both still sleeping with him. Not to mention you cried on camera admitting people point out and ask when you'll have kids. It hurts doesn't it? To love someone more than yourself?
The friend had me screaming "one is enough" 🤣🤣🤣 he sound like my mom she's married for 40 years and she can't understand the ploy relationship today cause 1 is a handful for her lol
In the description they mentioned that Emily is bisexual that mean she like woman and men that's why the relationship is working at least for now but OFC the guy is happy he have sex whit two beautiful woman -_- , what if his wives wanted another men in this relationship ??
I love that he spoke about how people struggle to understand "They're all together not just they're with me". I think that speaks volumes to the inner workings and equality of their relationship. Absolutely beautiful ❤
I don't have a problem with it.love is love, I mean, it's really not that weird. What's more weird and wrong is some one cheat on you, and they said, you or they are loyal. 😒
Lol you act as if it's super rare for kids to grow up like this. People have multiple wives and it sometimes it has something to do with their religion and they believe in God are you praying for them to?
@Calmness Tranquility People are so dramatic. Get all these people murdering kids and molesting them. These fools make a big deal about a couple of well adjusted cared for kids. Like they are so tortured. Jeezus
@@lancewilliams7824 I’m entitled to my opinion and I think Asian and hispanic mixed babies are cute. Babies can be cute regardless of their race though!
It would be nice to see a poly relationship with it being two men and one woman :) I think it would work out probably even better. Two women in a house sharing one man is so crazy. If that is possible, I think two-man is possible! Not that I want that, I just think it would be interesting to see on this channel~
how is a two man relationship with one woman better, men are more competitive in their mating dynamics, one man can get both of em pregnant same time the reverse isn’t possible
@@thecapatalistpropagator_9470 Not everyone wants children. So having children is not necessarily the ultimate goal of being in a relationship. Please don't see it as a be all and end all.
Why because they are loved by 3 parents and being financially stable? What is there to be sorry about exactly? Seriously though? Why do you feel bad for them? What's the negative in this? Luckily in the end no ones opinions matter to them except themselves. As long as they are happy is all that truly matters.
maybe it's just me but I couldn't live with this having so many fish in the ocean to pick from I would rather pick one that provides for meand has only me and no one elsebut I guess everyone sets their own standards
When I see these situations, the bm is usually "hustling" the women in the relationship and they are the ones doing all the providing! I heard him say they have "three incomes" which means he needs their income to survive. I think he is the only one benefiting from this triad. There really is no benefit for the women to be in a relationship with a man they must help provide for. He and the children are the only ones benefiting!🤬
yeah I was going to say that they look happy because he is a nice guy and probably provides for all of them until they said that they all have an income so that's when I said wait a minute it's just him benefiting from this
@@damatove9886 I don't get what your problem is. Why is it he is benefiting from them working? So what if they are working? Struggling to get why you think them having jobs is a negative.
I like that they both sought out a female together and this isn't forced they seem happy I just really hope that him and his actual wife can have a child of their own hopefully a boy 😊😊 may God bless them, because something tells me if she doesn't have a child in a few years things may start to fall apart and I really want them to work out!!!
They need a TH-cam Channel. Families are Built in many Different ways. The Children Seem so smart, Loved, grounded & Extremely Happy.....As much as we've seen here. God Bless them & their Family. 💙
Yeah that woman isn’t getting any self worth outside of that “relationship”. That could not be me raising my boyfriend and his girlfriends kid? Haha ah people…it’s ok to be alone too you know?! It is what it is.
Unlike the other poly couples this one doesn't give me bad vibes.
Right?? They same fairly healthy.
I agree they actually give poly couples a good rep
@@roachqueen1973 healthy? 😂😂😂😂
Bad vibes? This kid is gonna have problems
i think it’s just how calm they are. especially, the dad
This was a healthy view into polyamory. I would love to see more and hope Emily is blessed with a child of her own one day.
They seem really happy and their children seem healthy and well rounded. Not for me but it seems to work for them 🤷🏽♀️
He’s better then all the deadbeat & absent fathers.
@@Lovely-z8b truly clone th-cam.com/video/RG7m8ZK7oHY/w-d-xo.html
It’s stupid and disgusting
Khalilah D. You into the idea of a poly relationship??
Thank You
I have infertility issues and know how hard it is and feel sorry for her . It’s very hard to deal with others having babies and you can’t or have a hard time getting pregnant. She should join a childless support group or therapy to help her deal with it . I’m now divorced and single and it’s a struggle to live in a place where everyone is expected to be a mom or dad . If she reads this and wants to reach out I’m here
I feel you, I struggle with this too. I have accepted that feeling of my life being somewhat meaningless. But it's comforting knowing i am not alone. Even if it feels like that.
Get a man who's single and have children already, or someone who doesn't want kids. However, the most High have the last say over your life.
@@LoveYah1 Ummm how about building a stronger relationship with God? That’s what we should all be doing, childless or not.
I really hope Emily gets the baby she wants..😊
I also hope so you seem really interested about how she feels you sound like emphatic. I'm originally from Frankfurt Germany but I live Currently at Dallas Texas, where originally are you from Whisper McGaughy?
@@jefferywelch8589 I'm originally from Minneapolis, Minnesota I've been in Dallas many years now..
Yes I am an empath and I felt her very strongly..
@@whispermcgaughy7251 I Know we're on the comments and all but i would love to so i should know if i should pull forward or holdback. Are you single or in a relationship Whisper McGaughy?
I think she will ❤️
Amen!!!
WE NEED MORE FROM THEM !!!! They show poly in a positive healthy light.
Thank you, you can follow us if you'd like to @polyinfinity
Shes just doing whatever it take yo keep him around, while she stuffs her face.
Be quiet demon. Tired of people like you a crating wrong things. Shame on you.
@@bannedmann4469 you got all that from your phone screen?
@@dondollie4068 Lol
THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T ASK WOMEN WHEN THEY'RE HAVING KIDS! STOP ASKING ABOUT PEOPLE'S WOMBS.
mind your business. it's not just an innocent question or line of inquiry. you could be causing harm w| every question.
Exactly!!
I’ve seen so many people who struggle with infertility break down because people ask this all the time. I think as a society we need to stop treating it like normal small talk to ask someone something so invasive. You don’t know what they are going through. They could be trying to have kids and failing and the last thing they need is people asking them about it. Or they could just not want kids and getting tired of telling people just to be told they will change their minds. I’m the later half lol I do not want biological kids and it pisses me off when people ask. Like mind your business and don’t tell people what you think they want or what they should do!
I hope, if she wants she can have a baby too. It breaks my heart that she’s crying.
Awww! I really hope there are really happy. I'm originally from Frankfurt Germany but I live Currently at Dallas Texas. Where do you live at ET M?
Their oldest daughter is absolutely gorgeous omg! I couldn’t help but say that
I thought the same their daughter is way prettier than me lol
I use to think I could be in an arrangement like this, but I wouldn't want the sexual part. I would love to raise a family together, share burdens, income, two people who can be your soul mates, help raise children together. Sounds lovely.
You should look into Islamic polygyny marriages.
A relationship doesn't mean sex
This seems way more healthy than some poly relationships I've seen on this channel
You've seen 5 mintues of it. Are you serious?😐 I think it's an unhealthy dynamic. I would question their parenting skills.... A child shouldn't have 3 different parent figures. It causes confusion.
@@jmfia2391 um first off, it's not unheard of to have more than one parental figure. It takes a village for a reason. Second off if you have watched these videos with people in poly relationships (cause it's not unheard of and its beginning to be more common) you can tell fast what a healthy poly relationship is and what isn't. I'm not claiming to know what their life is like besides of what was shown here, however compared to other groups this is what I would considered on the healthy side. And if you did your research you would know some societies accept this lifestyle instead of being judgemental about it even if majority of their population are couples.
@@terynb4407 a village doesn't mean three parents. You took that literally, it's figurative. You sound ignorant. Like I said, it's completely unhealthy to have such a dynamic. I said what I said. And it's weird. That's why these kids don't know if they want to be a boy of girl, these adults are harming their mental health
@@jmfia2391 in some cases it does. 🙄 is my point. Literally my dad had two moms growing up. The only difference is that my grandfather remarried and he looked at his wife as a mother figured even after they divorced. That's why I have two grandmother's on that side of my family. And if anything forcing gender norms are a child can do more harm than just letting them find themselves. And you can literally find that in a psychology textbook easily.
Many cultures have polygamous relationships.. and it's the norm.. we're so brainwashed that there is something wrong with something that is not what we're used to..
He sounds like a very emotionally present dude. I wish Emily will able to have her own baby as she desires. Light and love to all of you 💓
Polyamory isn't for everyone, it's tough! It takes alot of patience and unpacking your jealousy to make it work. Glad they are happy 😊
I agree
@@Em-wr1rx you should always seek to understand your emotions more and to debunk any false narratives that could be driving them. Jealousy is natural. Unfortunately jealousy is also possessive.
@@BelovedZeal Not all emotions need to be understood on a deeper level to be debunked. It's natural to be jealous. There's no such thing as a false narrative when you feel jealous whenever your partner is betraying your trust. When you are with someone, you should commit to him 100% or else don't be in a relationship.
@@Em-wr1rx you are right. Jealousy is natural. So is compersion. So why is it that you choose to embrace your jealousy over your conversion? In what world are you betraying someone's trust? Also, monogamy is more common because a Man created it to show his possession over a woman. It was the exchange of property from one person to another. That said property only had the right to serve the one who owned her. Meanwhile the owner, the man, had the right to own multiple properties if he could afford them financially. The well goes deeper than that but the point of the matter is is that monogamy is something that Man created. It's no more natural to life than polyamory.
@@Em-wr1rx here's a question though that you don't need to answer to me. What's the difference between a polyamorous relationship and healthy co-parenting? And remove the idea of sex from the equation because relying on that factor of it would be saying that all asexual and grey aced relationships aren't valid because the sexual component isn't there. And that's not even including those with disabilities that make sex difficult to even impossible 😕. So without that in the conversation, what's the difference between a polyamorous relationship and healthy, effective, stable co-parenting? (If children are involved as they are in this video).
This has to be one of the most stable poly relationship on truly or any channel that I have seen so far
I have been waiting YEARS for this perspective from the kiddos once they reach the age and maturity when they actually understand it all and can form a real base opinion and explain it
Of course they accept it. It's called INDOCTRINATION. Just like children raised in Nazi Germany thought THAT was normal, like children raised in cults, etc. When you plant corn you get corn. Those kids have no idea what a normal, healthy relationship is.
She was so mature about it.. stated the obvious, then said ask your parents.. love love love that!!!
@@TheSitygurl she's still young and naive. Let's see how she feels well she's like 25.
She's still young, don't think she'll be smiling about it when she reaches about 25
@@FaithandNova I hope she does. Being raised open-minded is not a bad thing..
So painful.
A woman who can't give her husband a child and doing anything to keep him happy.
So painful to have your man having child with someone else.
That is exactly what I saw. You heard him say it happened so fast. Yeah it did and the first wife is still without her own child.
@Sky Mile 💯🎯🎯
No matter the happy face that they all trying to put on that lady is hurting she can't have children with him and like somebody else said should I believe she only really really doing it to keep him happy. Unfortunately happens all the time relationships. He dropped a smooth it and cover it over, but that's something else! 💯
Wow! yal act like yal know this family so well after watching a 6:49m video of em!!
They even said they hate ppl saying what yal are saying!
The 1st wife said it hurts that ppl think they just have the 2nd wife just to have babies,and that's not it at all.
They know their truth more than anyone else does. I'd rather believe what they said about their family than what yal saying,they would know better than anyone else!!
2 mom figures and a present dad ... better than most kids have it
Good for them but I will never understand people like them.
Same..
Not because I am against it but because I don’t understand how that kind of dynamic would work
I don't understand people in a monogamist or so they believe
Me neither it’s quite strange. I am in a relationship myself and would never want to share my man with another woman or man for that matter.
@@tomarasmith4459 there are people that don't cheat out there. There are people that think with something other than what's between their legs
These guys give off the most normal vibe of any of these shows I’ve seen. They really do just seem like an average family and it’s a shame some of their friends could accept their happiness.
Yeah this is a committed triad, 3 stable parents is awesome. 3 people in love with each other is stable, being in a million relationships, not as much.
Yes, I am bi and I prefer long stable triads. Polyamory is not all open relationships. Some closed triads quads or quints are really stable and healthy relationships that can nurture a lot of children
I would never be in a poly relationship but it’s cool the Emily didn’t flip when she got pregnant that’s crazy and pretty sad
They seem like a great family. Good for the kids who have 3 loving parents instead of only two. I wish the best for them 💗.
Such a beautiful family!! Poly isn't easy, takes a ton of commitment and transparency. Children add even more to the dynamic so I really admire them for being where they are 💕
I wouldn't be able to ever share my man with anyone else.
Same here
I feel the same way. I think the only way I would be fine with it is if I was bi. The description under the video does mention that Emily is bi so I'm guessing that's why the arrangement is working, at least for now.
He's not property. For me he can see who ever he wants.
I was thinking the same thing, I refuse to share my man with another woman.
You are technically sharing him behind your back
Now this seems like a really healthy poly Relationship👍🏾
I worry for the lady with infertility issues. Something major like that can really have an effect on a woman's self-worth (not that it should, but it's often the case), and I wonder if perhaps that has contributed to why she thinks it's acceptable to have another woman in her husband's life.
I dealt with infertility for a over a decade. It's heartbreaking. I cured my problems naturally. With a diet, supplements, and going gluten free, and fertility herbs. it was a LOT and ton of self dicipline... But so worth the end result. Inferility is so unfair. I was the only one when i went to an event or anywhere, at my age, who had no kids. So happy that's changed. I'm huge into natural cures now !!❤❤
Look at you. You got your prize and no black women which is good more black women for me.
🤦🏾♀️
Lol
I bet you if the women wanted to bring in another man he wouldn’t go for that. These relationships don’t last and the women are not truly happy. No normal woman wants to share their spouse with another woman. Poor children. He seems like a narcissist.
Women have been sharing men since the dawn of time. Only 40% of men have procreated where as over 90% of women have procreated. Males are biologically built to be non-monogamous, humans are the only species on earth that follow monogamy. Monogamy was a concept created by Eastern Europeans, monogamy is revelatory NEW
@@thebuyer4041 ok. Do the women benefit from sharing one man!? In what way(s)?
Marriage is, one man saying, yes, to one woman and no, to all others and vise versa.
If you think white men (Europeans) came up with monogamy, you’ve drank the koolaid and you haven’t done enough reading.
Why would any normal woman want to share a man, sexually, physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, etc?
His time is extremely divided. Neither of them (the women) will get adequate time, especially, with children, in tow.
This is the most misogynistic, hubris, and just a pure declassification of women I’ve seen. Those women are like pets to “men” like him.
@@godmadesam Dude literally half of my family is greek which were the first civilizations to practice monogamy that today society conforms too. So I know what I'm talking about... No, You need to *read/research* more because most sources even state humans aren't designed to be monogamous! Only 10% of species on earth are monogamous. socially conditioning is the only reason why in today's modern world women can't fathom sharing their partner. Social constructs don't adhere to reality! if you look at women's dating strategy in today world actually its emblematic of polygyny, because it's simply biology regardless of these social constructs we have in place it won't vicissitude! Studies shows women benefit from polygyny because it's the best way to gain access to the "best" resources available. Which all women look for! Also it great for the kids because there'll be multiple partners to raise the kids so no need for a babysitters. This is where the saying "it takes a village to raise a child" stems from actually. Only in today world's we denigrate these type of relationships but before ourtime this was the norm🤷🏻♂️
@@thebuyer4041 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What reputable historical sources are you retrieving this skewed perspective!?!? Where are you getting this data?
@@godmadesam it's totally inarguable at this point bud, even a simply google search will divulge the origins🤷🏻♂️
If they are happy and the children are happy and well cared for.. WHO CARES??? Glad they are living the life they want and deserve,,:)
The non biological mom will have 0 parenting rights on that child if the biological mom decides to separate. That child does not legally have 2 moms. No amount of UwU who cares will change that fact. The power imbalance is huge.
The kids care! They deserve a normal life. This is so rediculous and it never lasts. Why is everything okay these days??
It's not about happiness.....its about living right to please God
@@jmfia2391 the more loving people in a child’s life to raise them, the better. These kids have more support than many others out there. They are living a normal life other than having to explain it to other people
@@banksmd9881 So if the kids are miserable and God is pleased then the world is ok.. This is why I quit going to church. People like you...
Girl you had me crying 😭 you’re all beautiful 💜 please only accept the positive comments into your hearts and minds 🙏🏾
Where are they beautiful? They both built like some milk cartons... Definitely far from pretty. The kids are beautiful, but idk about the women.
@@jmfia2391 looks aren't the point of a relationship
Thank You !
I never understood why people are so judgmental on other peoples life it’s like if they are not hurting anyone.. just let them be I mean they seem happy it works for them so hey find your happiness ♥️
You dont understand because you are brainwashed. This isnt love and its horrible for children and their mental health. Stop letting propaganda brainwash you.
The same way you're probably judgmental against ppl that are different than YOU. Stop acting morally self righteous as if YOU never judge. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion. THIS is nothing but a man taking advantage of women w low self esteem.
@@trawlins396 🤣 oh I got you mad huh .. well guess what your comment didn’t bother me at all ☺️have a nice day
@@trawlins396 your comment is the best comment here by far!! obviously most of these commenters here are UNAPOLOGETICALLY delusional on so many levels to think that these kinds of relationships are ok or healthy, justification of what is absolutely wrong hasn't gotten anyone anywhere in the long run!!!!!!! smh!!!
Right.. the comments are making me sick.. assumptions that the one wife is insecure and that the husband is taking advantage of the ladies.. people just want to add so much more to the story.. can't just take it for what it is.. 3 open-minded consenting adults who all love each other and are making it work.. and doing a great job at it.. all relationships are not traditional, but it doesn't make it wrong..
Polygamy: That is sexist.
Polyamory: This is so empowering
According to society.😊
Exactly lol. If it's something liberals are doing it's ok. If it's something a religious person does it's mysogigy. Exactly why they're all hypocrites.
@@trawlins396 ....I'm cool with both
Theres always a #1 in these types of relationships.
My parents were in this type of relationship.
My mother left and 40 years later my father finds a way to insert a question about her.
How interesting!! I have always found polyamorous relationships fascinating, the dynamic is so different from the "normal" monogamous one that society pushes on us all from birth...and yet they are still very similar at their core.
I am curious to know how that effected you growing up?? What is your viewpoint on poly relationships, and does that change based on whether there are children involved? (I'm genuinely curious, and I ask with the utmost respect 😌 )
@@kayla42oo I'm fine with answering questions.
They broke up when I was 8 or 9 years old and he was an absentee parent (because she left)
I didnt fully understand until i was an adult and asked the other mother a ton of questions (my mother rarely talks about him) he didnt hop from relationship to relationship because its unhealthy. He followed a traditional way of thinking from a continental perspective
I have relationship issues but its unrelated to their views on relationship
The other mother was very nice and we were close for a very long time. We dont speak now but its unrelated to my father.
Most men who enter these relationships are very self centered (my father). I would never enter one of these relationships because my attachment style wouldn't allow for me to thrive.
@@RAJOHN-ke7mc see that’s different because Trell is a active father to his first child regardless of the separation with the mom. Your dad missed out tho, I’m pretty sure watching you grow up was the biggest joy to your mother
Nowdays people are making everything seems normal,and this will influence others for sure.
Unfortunately
OMG that man can make some beautiful babies, of course the mamas helped a TON! I love this trouple. They should make a TV show or something.
Wow! So happy to see all the positive comments!! I'm glad so many people are open minded about poly relationship.
Are you that open minded about polygamy also? The negative comments get deleted. Don't be gullible. The only ppl that support this fuckery are white liberals and blk ppl who fall for White Liberal idealogy. This is nothing but a man having his cake and eating it too. And he preys on weak women with low self esteem.
There can not be two queens underneath one castle 🏰
I agree. Speaking from my own personal experience, I have found it impossible. No matter what anyone says there will ALWAYS be favor in some way. Jealousy is also a factor although they may say there isn't. It's a lot to keep up with when everyone has their own agenda and not on one accord. After my last poly "relationship", I said I would NEVER walk that path again. I've tried it 3 separate times.
Considering the amount of cheating that goes on . Well the castle is often real unstable.
I couldn't share a house with anyone who thinks they are a queen hahaha
It would be nice to have two queens for chess as the queen is pretty much the most powerful and versatile piece on the board but the same cannot be said for a relationship in my opinion.
I feel like even though he attempts to appear balanced and wife seems like she’s fine with this. I feel he is more drawn to Allie and the wife is just the third wheel and existing for her husbands happiness. I don’t feel you can split between 2 ppl like that you’ll always love one more.
The issue with this stuff is in many situations it leads to major depression and mental issues and definitely messes with the kids heads in most cases. This case may be decent but I think that many are very problematic
One of the best comments here. In MY own opinion! The daughter says she is fine with it but I dont buy it.... Sadly
They don't seem like a great couple to me. The wife seems like she's pushed to the back burner and the girlfriend seems like she's his main girl. I feel sorry for the first girl if that is the case.
The new chick came in and gave him a baby right away!! You don't think his wife the "main chick" is feeling some sort of way?! I agree. It seems like she is in the back burner!!
It's easy to appear happy in front of the camera...
Some couples can't even behave nice in front of family at family events. So if there is that much tension with one of them it would show.
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname they weren't in front of family or at a family event! Being in front of a camera is easy for a show. And very easy to fake whereas if it is family event, extended periods of time will show how happy they really are!
same with straight, monogamous relationships. Jeez yall are so disrespectful for no reason
I find it so hard to understand and wrap my head around it, not because I’m against it but because isn’t it difficult to have 2 lovers - 2 best friends - 2 life partners etc? I probably sound like my mum when I came out to her asking all these questions😂
Nuh know weh him ago tell god seh double stress fhi him right now
@@andrewblair1606 truly clone th-cam.com/video/RG7m8ZK7oHY/w-d-xo.html
For some people polyamory feels most natural, and for others monogamy feels most natural. It’s kinda hard to understand how people handle things if you can’t picture yourself going through it, if that makes sense. It just doesn’t make sense because it’s not for you, and that’s understandable. It’s a complex thing. Of course they have their struggles, and for some couples it creates even more, but it can also be very rewarding and fulfilling to have multiple partners. For them there’s just more love to share and with more parents comes more nurturing. They seem to be working out beautifully and that’s what matters most :)
The ladies even wear matching uniforms.
A poly relationship is a lot of work! I know from experience… they have a beautiful vibe 🥰🥰
Hands down the best poly representation I've seen. I don't necessarily condone or agree, BUT I have mad respect for this couple. Beautiful.
🤣🤣🤣🤣. Yeah. Ok
@@trawlins396 right. This is a mutation of what a family should look like. Those women are out of their God forsaken minds. How do they benefit from sharing one man? I guarantee, these women had poor relationships with their fathers!
@@godmadesam if they had a father at all. No self respecting woman who knows her worth gets involved in this type of foolishness.
@@trawlins396 right on! Yep!
This is the most sane looking poly relationship I’ve seen
This is really sad. No one wants to share their partner. Poor Emily.
Wow, they're definitely great, down to earth parents
Just look at the hand placement 2:03 the girl on the right has her hand near his groin whilst the other girl is on his knee… the girl on the right seems quite domineering and intimate like this is her man
Also they kind of left the girl on the left out like she was at the back 6:34 … kind of reminded me of being the third wheel in the relationship or when you have a group of friends and are left out
I don’t know … i think I’m bias because I like the first girl
🤷♀️
Also the scene where they hugged was cute 🥰 2:46
I noticed that too
definitely noticed the hand placement. I feel this is competitive for the second girl, this is like an ego boost for her. she was “chosen” because his first wife wasn’t truly enough for him.
I want to
@@chrissygriffin6287 cry about
@@existing..6235 This
This is not polyamory. This is a harem or polygamy.
To each their own!
They seem well connected, emotionally stable and an all round amazing family, good for them. The only bit I didn’t get was the Mums wearing matching clothes? 🙄
If half of us were as happy as these guys, the world would be a much nicer place. ❤️
What i tend to see in polyamorous relationships are that 1 person is at the centre of it all. That person is polyamorous while there partner only dates them. Wouldn't it make more sense to add another man in this mix?
These videos are always an interview & a friend coming over for commentary.
how would HE feel if one of the wives wanted to bring in a husband
Good question. I'm guessing he wouldn't be cool with the idea.
Why are you mad? They all seem happy? And women chase top men, y'all Ignore regular men who are your own looksmatch
I see a family, simple as that❤️
Poor kids are so confused thanks to the parents, remember that "God is not the author of confusion"
Mek him know dat a dat him nuh BBC know as a black man is a fuckin shame wish him did white 🤍 too because him would get nuh black pickney
The confusion i think lies in your mind. Not the kids. I didn't see anything off about the kids.
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname just by your profile name, I can assume that you are bit confused as well lol anyway take care!!
@@beautyfull7669 May Satan hold you in his warm embrace :)
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname exactly. The kids understand because they are raised in that environment, so the family dynamic is normal and not different to them. It’s just another day. The only thing that confuses them is when other people are confused. It’s hard for us to know what they feel if we haven’t been in their shoes, but it’s pretty obvious to me that it feels typical for them. The atypical part for these kids is the reactions other people have to something “different”. To them their family isn’t atypical at all, they just figure out that it’s atypical to other people
I wonder if he would be cool with one of them dating another man.
Or moving one in!
He said it wasn’t an open relationship. It’s an equal trio. It wouldn’t be ‘one of them dating another man’, it would be all three of them dating another person and that person dating all three, that’s what poly means.
@@seaottar25 Poly=orgy.
@SEAOTTA People can say and do whatever and as long as you stick some label on it then its okay to be doing it. Poly relationships are completely saturated with 1 man 2 or more woman dynamics. You very rarely see the women hold the power. You can't say everyone holds the power because that isn't true.
I highly doubt he'd be fly with it.
They seem like they are very happy couple and family. 🙏🏾 for Emily to be able to expand their family.
The only people that are against them are racist white nazi incels who could never have a relationship with two 10/10s. White women love black men and that's now a scientific fact.
That would be cute of they had a baby of their own. I mean, do you boo. Just don’t hurt anybody.
They seem happy but it will never work long term. Not being able to have kids Is going to eat away at the one lady. The jealousy will always be there. Unless there is two men as well forget it lol. One man can’t be everywhere and please everyone. It won’t work.
I feel like you’re projecting onto them. You need to re-evaluate your preconceived notions of what a relationship should be. It’s clearly not him having two wives, it’s three people in a relationship together equally. Maybe you’re just not built to handle more than one person emotionally so you’ll never understand.
@@seaottar25 You are clearly delusional
you are right. don't pay these lost souls any attention. you see reality while the world lives in an illusion.
@@seaottar25 It would have been better if they were married. Weird but better. I love how society said no to polygamy and starting to say yes about polyamory. That is stupid to me.
@@lisah3460 there’s no benefit to marriage other than legal and monetary things, you can do without those in 2022. Marriage is optional anyways.
Why they both gotta always be touching him?🙄Poor Emily is def jealous of the other girl. Sad. But hey, as long as they're all happy and the children are being taken care of? That's all that matters.
This is one of those families you don’t see everyday! I don’t know what else to say!
Trell, my dude. Happy to see you happy my G. Blessings to you and the fam
Much appreciated bro
Their dynamic is wonderful and they seem happy,it would be great if Emily has a baby but the children are beautiful and well adjusted
Good answer that kids had "go ask your mom" lol
Emily is in pain.
So Emily, you let your husband have babies with another woman... Yet you feel so insecure about not having your own biological children. You also have a man who admits his advantage of being a man and how everyone overly respects him by normalizing this situation for him but if it were you Emily with 2 men people would judge you and not give you the same extra credit being a woman. It's a sexist world. I doubt this guy loves you knowing how insecure you are that you don’t have kids with him yet he's made 2 with another woman while you're both still sleeping with him. Not to mention you cried on camera admitting people point out and ask when you'll have kids. It hurts doesn't it? To love someone more than yourself?
Seems like abandonment issues... Yes, the fear of getting left behind can be so challenging. Someone might do almost anything to not be alone.
Poor thing
The friend had me screaming "one is enough" 🤣🤣🤣 he sound like my mom she's married for 40 years and she can't understand the ploy relationship today cause 1 is a handful for her lol
In the description they mentioned that Emily is bisexual that mean she like woman and men that's why the relationship is working at least for now but OFC the guy is happy he have sex whit two beautiful woman -_- , what if his wives wanted another men in this relationship ??
Good on them for making it work. I'd be too jealous for a poly relationship.
I love that he spoke about how people struggle to understand "They're all together not just they're with me". I think that speaks volumes to the inner workings and equality of their relationship. Absolutely beautiful ❤
If they’re happy that’s all that matters
Idk how happy ppl say they look, God ain’t pleased. 🙅🏾♀️
come on now. someone needs to say it
All the prophets of God had more then one wife.
I don't have a problem with it.love is love, I mean, it's really not that weird. What's more weird and wrong is some one cheat on you, and they said, you or they are loyal. 😒
yea people carry on about these relationships when theirs are often falling apart. The amount of cheating is mind boggling.
He's actually in the midst of ladies.
And, this is not strange to Africa where polygamy is a practice.
Good that they live in harmony.
They're such a beautiful family. I'd feel blessed to have any of them in my life. 💞
They seem happy…I can’t understand why people can’t just mind their business..honestly
But you should always be a free person to talk about your own opinion or don't you think so??
@@racherahelrd6672 I agree..it’s okay to have opinions..but you need to be respectful it’s very simple..
@@lilajane7820 🤍
@@lilajane7820 no you don’t
@@ultrasound914 what?…no I don’t what?
I wish them well❤❤❤
Who said you couldn’t have your cake and eat it to? 😂
I pray for the kids.
Lol you act as if it's super rare for kids to grow up like this. People have multiple wives and it sometimes it has something to do with their religion and they believe in God are you praying for them to?
@Calmness Tranquility you triggered, dawg. Lol
@Calmness Tranquility People are so dramatic. Get all these people murdering kids and molesting them. These fools make a big deal about a couple of well adjusted cared for kids. Like they are so tortured. Jeezus
Lol I like this kid she just said 🤣 I don't care...the realness
These people made such beautiful daughters 🤩.
My goodness, like little dolls.
Mixed babies are the most beautiful
@@lancewilliams7824 Yeah hispanic and asian mixed is beautiful 😍
@@ispeakfacts oh no lol
@@lancewilliams7824 I’m entitled to my opinion and I think Asian and hispanic mixed babies are cute. Babies can be cute regardless of their race though!
Gorgeous family wishin them all the very best ❤️❤️
It would be nice to see a poly relationship with it being two men and one woman :)
I think it would work out probably even better. Two women in a house sharing one man is so crazy. If that is possible, I think two-man is possible! Not that I want that, I just think it would be interesting to see on this channel~
There is a TH-camr in this type of relationship. I honestly don’t even remember her name …
how is a two man relationship with one woman better, men are more competitive in their mating dynamics, one man can get both of em pregnant same time the reverse isn’t possible
@@thecapatalistpropagator_9470 doesn’t matter? There are women with two men all the time. Go cry about it 😂
@@thecapatalistpropagator_9470 Not everyone wants children. So having children is not necessarily the ultimate goal of being in a relationship. Please don't see it as a be all and end all.
They should not be upset by any comments if they are willing to be in such a relationship. I feel sorry for the kids.
Why because they are loved by 3 parents and being financially stable? What is there to be sorry about exactly? Seriously though? Why do you feel bad for them? What's the negative in this? Luckily in the end no ones opinions matter to them except themselves. As long as they are happy is all that truly matters.
@@ritzismynamo which one of the wives are you?
@@telsclark 🤣
He did just get a second wife for the baby, wake up
maybe it's just me but I couldn't live with this having so many fish in the ocean to pick from I would rather pick one that provides for meand has only me and no one elsebut I guess everyone sets their own standards
Thisis one of the healthiest poly relationships i have seen!!!!
In a few years I feel like this will be more common and less taboo.
Haha it’s getting more common as we speak.
Is that something that you would be open to Tessa Paloma?
It’s not about it being common, it will never please God.
@Ashes 2 Beauty 💎 I believe it will 75% of Americans are not religious
That is sad.
When I see these situations, the bm is usually "hustling" the women in the relationship and they are the ones doing all the providing! I heard him say they have "three incomes" which means he needs their income to survive. I think he is the only one benefiting from this triad. There really is no benefit for the women to be in a relationship with a man they must help provide for. He and the children are the only ones benefiting!🤬
yeah I was going to say that they look happy because he is a nice guy and probably provides for all of them until they said that they all have an income so that's when I said wait a minute it's just him benefiting from this
@@damatove9886 What so they are not allowed to have jobs? What because they are women? Or what are you implying here?
@@Areyousayingidontknowmynamereadagain
@@damatove9886 I don't get what your problem is. Why is it he is benefiting from them working? So what if they are working? Struggling to get why you think them having jobs is a negative.
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname LOL that's not what I said but go on
I like that they both sought out a female together and this isn't forced they seem happy I just really hope that him and his actual wife can have a child of their own hopefully a boy 😊😊 may God bless them, because something tells me if she doesn't have a child in a few years things may start to fall apart and I really want them to work out!!!
Haha this will be over in the future, this is nonsense
As long as their happy and it’s not affecting anyone else then that’s all that matters and I don’t see a problem with it
They need a TH-cam Channel. Families are Built in many Different ways. The Children Seem so smart, Loved, grounded & Extremely Happy.....As much as we've seen here. God Bless them & their Family. 💙
I WANT A TH-cam CANNEL FROM THEM!!
I really HOPE they are all happy and put the children first.
PUT THE CHILDREN FIRST!!!
Looks like they do
Why would they put those kids first? FTK
@@YACHIHANNAH hope you have a good life ☺️
@@kitkat031 I do. Because I don’t put kids first 🥰
I’m so upset I landed here I was looking for polyglots…
It's so easy being a man.
Truly is.
You can be broke and still have two women working for you and giving you sex on the regular and its accepted now. Sigh
Yeah that woman isn’t getting any self worth outside of that “relationship”. That could not be me raising my boyfriend and his girlfriends kid? Haha ah people…it’s ok to be alone too you know?! It is what it is.
Beautiful family so happy for you all xxx
I definitely have to agree with him. You definitely need a good squad on your side
Beautiful F💙MILY. Sending hugs and love your way 🤗