Being Polyamorous And Christian Is Not A Sin | LOVE DON’T JUDGE
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A THROUPLE from Baltimore are proving that no judgement can come between love, despite being told their relationship is a sin. Katie, 33, and Luis Simbala, 36, have been married for 13 years after meeting at the church where they both performed as musicians. Then Katie met Raquel Martinez, 26, in 2012 - and their connection was instant. They enjoyed a platonic relationship for two years before sharing a kiss at Raquel’s 21st birthday party. The three now live together as a polyamorous ‘throuple’ despite criticism from their church and members of their families.
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Polyamory is a sin in the Orthodox Church, the Catholic Church, and almost all Protestant denominations. The stories in the Bible of the men who had more than one wife were examples of what NOT to do because they were disobeying God's will. Be polyamorous if you want, but you can't claim that it isn't a sin in the Christian faith.
Amen. God specifically said so. It's not like I can't accept you for you. But claiming it's not Sin is like trying to re-write the Bible. It's in the Bible where that it's not accepted and it is what it is.
But it is recorded in the Bible that God, speaking through the prophet Nathan, said that he had given WOMEN to David. That does not equal disapproval at all. However, David was confronted over having a secret affair with another man's wife. Those two facts together should really tell us something.
Where is polyamory condemned in scripture? The reality is that Jewish culture was polygamous throughout the old testament. Yes, there are examples in scripture of polygamous marriages not working out well...but in few cases does scripture make explicit the polygamy itself is the issue.
To be clear, the part of this that worries me the most is when they say they are joining an "lgbt affirming" church. I would see this very differently if it was two men and a woman.
Incidentally, scripture has far less to say about same sex relationship between women than it does men. Paul states this is sin when women "give up normal relations with men" - however, these women are not doing that.
There is a potential issue in the fact that he is only legally married to one of these women, and therefore having sex outside marriage with the other. That's not ideal - but if the law allowed bigamy I'm not sure where in scripture they would be specifically in sin. My problem would be that they will be in a 'lgbt affirming church" which I will bet has liberal theology on all sorts of other more fundamental points.
Those men had foreign wives . God didn't care about the multiple wives thing just that they were from other cultures outside of the 12 tribes. Reading comprehension is key.
What verse?
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Hypocrites Just Cheat!
You all hold God in your life and relationship. Don’t let anyone else tell you how God thinks about you if you already have a relationship with him that tells you all you need to know
Waiting to see a polyamorous couple that isn't a man and two women.
I've seen a couple
@@brinaskore
That's disgusting.
@@adanmaxamad7007 and what about this?
@@adanmaxamad7007
Lol you have my name!
I've seen several
1 Corinthians 7:2
2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.
Also very nearby in that same book, the context of this "fornication" was sleeping with harlots (who tended to be, in that time and place, associated with idolatry and/or trafficked). To help them avoid participating in things involving prostitution, it was helpful to have a spouse.
I am glad each of them is happy, I see crazy religious comments always trying to control people's lives, just be happy for these people and mind your own business... I believe in God 100% but ZERO percent in every religion....
The only thing is I fail to understand saying how much you love your husband/wife and be willing to share them with another.
Love and possession are not synonymous.
@@ethelrocks553 Souls, OUT THERE, we all are after FALSE LOVE.
Mankind has given LOVE a meaning it NEVER HAD.
The way many see love, as sex and kisses and hugs, lust, fornication, abusing one another, homosexuality.
LOVE NEVER WAS THAT!
LOVE IS LAYING DOWN YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR LOVED ONES AND GIVING OUT RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT.
John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
John 7:24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
Many are after false love, IT IS TRAGIC.
This world, CARES NOT!
Take a listen what kind of stories people truly tell:
- INSANELY EVIL
- HORRIFIC
Souls, who give “wonderful stories” are often:
- in fear
- deceived
- drugged up
CARE
LOVE
LIFE
IS FOUND ONLY IN JESUS CHRIST!
(Karma = the righteous JUDGMENT OF GOD. Read the bible, it is filled with stories of souls who got "karma". Each of them met their death, as they turned their back to GOD and went and served BAAL. )
Because you don't divide up love, you multiply it. When you really hold that love and security you that you don't need to take love to have it
Same. I could never
I PRAY THAT GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOUR MARRIAGES & CHILDREN!!! ❤❤❤
God did not bless this one my friend. they made a way tht works for them as a solution.
I am a bit witchy and am bi as well. I tried for years for a hetro ltr it was hell and I was always treated bad. I went to church and wanted to get a father for my kids. My oldest could tell I had such chemistry with her friends mom, but I was trying to hide it. It's hard being of Faith not be cookie cutter. I am me and faith is so personal, the relationship with God is personal.
Christianity a journey , faith alone is vain , unless your work proves your faith. Christians need to crucify flesh , which means to crucify any desire which is ungodly, no matter what. You can't live with a sin and expect to be called christians. The basis of born again means , we get a new identity in christ , if we still have to live that old lifestyle, then it's vain to be called christian.
King David in the Bible was "A man after God's own heart". King David had numerous wives and concubines. We have been brainwashed to believe it is sinful to love more than one person in modern culture.
Ppl in the Bible had multiple wives how is it a sin
Bc It says so in the Bible. People back then who listened to God DID NOT have multiple wives. People who DID Have multiple wives sinned Against God. And That's just straight from the Bible
Evidence against that idea is that God, through the prophet Nathan, told David that he had blessed him with wives. Not one wife. Several.
@@Jazz_Lovesswhere tho?
I hope the three of you get deliverance.
This is nothing but lust. True Christians only love one partner.
We are so used to judging others. We learn to judge others before learning to focus on our own relationships.
They are stating that a clearly defined sin is not a sin based on what? Feelings😂. She can’t call herself a Christian.
@@marshallosantos9035 "clearly defined sin," you say. We are not under the law, but under grace. Remove the mote from thine own eye, and THEN help thy brother remove the spec from his eye.
As a Christian I am shocked! They are so confused. I hope, they'll recognize soon.
Funny…the Bible doesn’t actually condemn these kind of relationships…so if that’s the rule book you’re rulebook you’re following, I’m not sure why you’re shocked and scandalized.
@@4wayStopEnforcement The Bible literally condemns the men who had more than one wife because they were disobeying God's will. I'm not even Christian and I know that.
@@4wayStopEnforcement exactly. And there are multiple examples in the bible of a man with two female partners
They're not confused. They're in love. Love is not a sin. God made love for everyone! As long as their respectful, honest, compassionate, and faithful there is no wrong. There are also ways to protect themselves in intimacy to prevent diseases. That's why lgbt isn't a sin either. Intimacy within a loving relationship isn't wrong!!
@Mahmood Maseh evil? How They're not raping, killing, abusing etc. They're together in love and I wish them the best!! ❤🎉🏳️🌈
Let's love all people and God too.
The 2 women look similar like sisters.
Many people in the bible have more than one wife. Why is it a sin
People of the faith why must you judge them for their happiness if Yahweh has a problem trust he will fix it
Ppl in the Bible did have more than one wife and husband but that was not what God wanted it wasn’t what God ordered them to do. They were being disobedient. And God even said that he overlooked a lot that the ppl did in the Old Testament out of ignorance but when he sent his son to die for us so that when we believed on him we would receive the Holy Spirit than we wouldn’t have an excuse for ignorance cause the Holy Spirit teaches us and guides us into all truth. So that’s why ppl back than did what they did cause out of disobedience to God.
Bc It says so in the Bible. People who had more than one Wife in the Bible (unfortunately) Did indeed sin against God's word. People Didn't have more than one Wife Didn't Sin against God's word. It's literally in the Bible, what don't you understand?
This is actually a very good point. By the standards of most modern Christians, David was a "fornicator" because he had sex outside of a one man, one woman marriage. That evidently must be a wrong definition, because God gave David more than one wife. God even said so. God DID confront David over his secret affair with someone else's wife. So it's not as though God just overlooked things in David's life.
I agree completely. That was kind of my point. God did not confront David over having many sexual partners; rather, it was the dishonesty. My main point was that the biblical content regarding David shows that modern Christians must be misunderstanding the Bible and apparently they unfortunately don't have the insight you've shared (which SHOULD be self-evident).
They seem.happy power to them
Blind people leading people on God’s standards is a recipe for disaster! Please know God for yourselves not through other people
A committed love relationship can consist of two or more people. If they stand up for each other in all situations and trust God, God will bless this form of partnership too. God has a bigger heart than many believe.
lol why are you showing Orthodox Iconography when they're just low church Pentecostal?
Uh it is objectively a sin in christianity.
That's untrue. At least one denomination is poly-affirming.
@@carsonfball4 then they’re not real Christian’s.
@@wingsoftwitchbots5613
That's the "No True Scotsman" logical fallacy.
@@carsonfball4 No. if a Christian says he believes in promoting sin they’re objectively not a Christian. You can’t “no true Scotsman” bat anyone who rejects someone claiming to be part of their religion. No bible promotes polygamy.
@@wingsoftwitchbots5613
And, in that denomination, it's not a sin. Remember, Christians disagree on what is a sin and what isn't.
For some Christians, playing music in Church is a sin and for others it isn't.
For some, drinking alcohol is a sin and for others it isn't.
For some, certain types of loving committed relationships are sins, and for others they aren't.
Are you guys binging these vids and commenting on literally every single episode
Easy for me to say that the church means next to nothing to me as an Atheist, and as someone who is also Polyamorous, I say go ahead if everyone is in agreement with this then where is the harm?
Amazing ❤ don’t let no one break the happiness
Yea, I need to join a f**king church 😊 #3way
I’m happy for them.
This is nonsense
Two mommas and a daddy
I love this ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Awwww they are adorable!
Ew
😂 yes it is lol
Much success to their marriage…..as long they’re happy I’m all for it
Search 1 wife 2 husbands 💥
There are cases of that. But, most poly relationships aren't triads or quads and they each have different partners. So, a more typical setup would be Alice is in a relationship with Bob and a separate relationship with Charlie. Bob is in a relationship with Alice and a separate relationship with Diane. Etc.
Married: I am interested to hear how this "marriage" took place. Neither a church or a civil authority can do a legal marriage under these circumstances, can they?
Did they say that they were all married? If so, I missed that part; I only heard that two of them were married. Regardless, they could have had a religious wedding that wasn't a legally binding marriage.
God bless us men that is looking for two wives 🙏🏾
I’m was really going to have an experience like this with two chubby women and for some reason it never happened man wow
Baby, noooo, y'all are living in a false reality unfortunately...😢😢😢 Sorry....
Love them. We have the same name Louie, same spelling 😁
To you,it is not a sin....Soon, when you have the revelation of who Jesus Christ is to you, then you will know it is a Sin....
I Pray some day ,you all have a revelation of whom Christ Is.
shut up lmaoo
Amen, these people are confused.
Belief
Belief
Do yr thing regardless.
I think if I was you I would pick up the Bible and read where it says no homosexual will enter heaven. You have been deceived by Satan. Please seek God in this matter and seek him with an open mind.
It never actually says that.
I am Shure god is happy for you and so am I fair play
They son so cute 🏳️🌈❤️
Praying that all of them will repent. So sad that they're having such a bad influence on their child
They have nothing to repent of and they seem to be loving parents. We should be happy for them.
No offense, but it is sinful! I’m sorry!
That's what I'm talking about!!!!why go out and cheat ? Why you can marry two beautiful ladies ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
By definition it is. Holy matrimony is between 1 man and 1 woman, and unless you were married by the church it's not a marriage in the eyes of God.
I doubt that's true. Otherwise, before churches were legally allowed to marry same-sex couples they wouldn't have been valid. Unless you count the blessings that churches were doing as the same as a marriage (just not legally binding).
your parents and your pastor are right.... this is sad and weird and will effect your kid as well. I understand gay marriage but a triple relationship is hell no!!!
This is not a sin 💯💯💯💯this is God and its human nature 🙏🏾 🙌
God is same yesterday, today and tomorrow. He never changes. He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for sin. Bible clearly states marriage is between one man and one woman. Others... do not inherit the kingdom of God according to the word of God. God loves you but not the act of sin. I pray you'll be delivered from this confusion, and turn to God.
>> He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for sin.
According to the Bible, Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed because their citizens were abusing the poor and needy. How are these people abusing the poor and needy?
In the bible men had two wives, which is ok but a woman loving another woman is a sin
Only one vaguely worded verse in Romans could be taken to imply that woman with woman is sinful. And whatever that was talking about was in the context of things that were happening related to overt, blatant idolatry. That's not much to go off of to criticize the situation being portrayed in this video.
The Bible never said that the multiple wives of a man couldn't love each other. Actually, it seems to me that the most open-minded, plain reading of the Song of Songs/Song of Solomon would suggest that the wives did love each other in that manner.
No, that's not a sin.
Honestly nobody can say that a sin when gays and the lgbtq run around free that’s more of a sin
We can indeed still say it is sin. It's just unfortunate on how much Sin there is😭
Being gay isn't considered a sin.
Twisted lifestyle
yes polyamorous relationships are 100% a sin, the bible commands you to be loyal to your spouse, that goes for husbands and wives... any act of love or sexual intercourse outside of a marriage is considered a lustful act that can lead to eternal damnation...
>> you to be loyal to your spouse
The three of them are being loyal.
>> any act of love or sexual intercourse outside of a marriage is considered a lustful act that can lead to eternal damnation...
That's not true. It may be true in your denomination, but people in many other denominations aren't sent to Hell for that.
Racquel looks like their daughter 😮