How To Stop Falling Into Sexual Sin (A Guide For Men)

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  • @The4Tifier
    @The4Tifier 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    This video popped up on my home feed right after praying about needing God's help with such struggles. I hadn't even looked this kind of stuff up before on TH-cam, so it's interesting that the algorithm recommended it. That, or it was truly divine intervention.
    Thank you for the advice. I'm starting to get better at this solely because I'm relying on God to fight this battle for me instead of doing it on my own. This helps with that more, though, and helps put this battle in the right perspective.

  • @RonaldMa-bk9ti
    @RonaldMa-bk9ti 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    I have struggled with this all my life. I became a born-again, baptized Christian six years ago but it was not until the last few months that I have finally overcome it. My personal experience is that sexual sin should not be tackled independently. It is the symptom of a broken mind. We must transform our lives and renew our minds through the word of God so that sexual sin does not appeal to us anymore. Our lives become so full of love and joy that sexual sin becomes not only unnecessary but also repugnant. The reason is, as long as we still find it attractive, relapse is always possible whatever we do to stay away from it. Praise the Lord. I am a living testimony to the fact that this prevalent and pernicious sin can indeed be conquered, for nothing is impossible for God.

    • @khatack
      @khatack 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sexuality is not a sin, it's a God given instinct. It is holy. Acting sexually in an improper way is a sin, but then again, we are mere rudimentary creatures of flesh and blood and as long as we are on this earth, we're never going to be free of it. Did you really think that just because you have faith and believe in God that you wouldn't have to struggle anymore? Did you really think it would be easy from now on? It is NEVER going to get easy. This whole idea of "being born again" is incredibly misunderstood. Being born again isn't something that just gets done after some cosmic finger snap, that's not how it works. Being born again in Christ is an active life-long struggle. If you think you're free of sin because you've been "born again" then believe me brother, the only thing that has been born again are your pride and your ego.

    • @heinmolenaar6750
      @heinmolenaar6750 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don"t believe one single word of you. And being born again is just a meaningless ceremony in church. Just as being baptized. A meaningless ceremony either.

    • @cloud5074
      @cloud5074 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen🙏✝️❤️

    • @GavinTurner-w6i
      @GavinTurner-w6i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is often a product of a broken mind, and that's why better mental health care is needed, it can also be a result of being in bondage to demons, that keep the person bound to some of the same destructive sin cycles and patterns over and over again.

    • @heinmolenaar6750
      @heinmolenaar6750 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus didn't heal all the pedophile priests of the roman catholic church. Only you're cured of all sexual sins? What a joke.

  • @jvylo6114
    @jvylo6114 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    The hardest battles in life:The battle between your mind and your heart. I've never felt more powerless.

  • @Aeon-the-Voidmind
    @Aeon-the-Voidmind 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This video popped up at the right time, and I thank God for His timing. Please pray for me so I can overcome this sin.

  • @alanolson6913
    @alanolson6913 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. Between the ages of 5 and 7. I’m 70 years old now. The actions of one individual (I don’t call him a man…real men don’t rape boys) has messed me up in this area all my life. It twisted my view of sex. Porn, masturbation and sexual thoughts show up. Not as often as they used to since I began reading the Word every day - being transformed by the renewing of my mind.
    But the struggles come. Partly due to the sexual abuse, partly because of what I’ve allowed myself to see. But the struggles aren’t every day. Sometimes not for a week to ten days then show up again. This needs to stop because it can cause a spiral affect in me.
    Glad for this video!

    • @khatack
      @khatack 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Reading the word you should be aware already of the importance of forgiveness. Considering your background it's probably a colossal struggle for you, but the greater the sin, the greater the need for forgiveness is. Remember that part of the Lords Prayer; "Forgive us our trespasses, as *we forgive* those who trespass against us.", that part is pretty important. I agree with your assessment though, real men don't rape boys. Or girls for that matter.

  • @Jbutler63
    @Jbutler63 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thanks for sharing this video, I had victory of sexual sin for about 7 years ago until recently I fell back into it.Please pray for me as I know it is seperating God from me and my walk with Him.

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    God had helped me out of the lust and porn trap .

    • @MenWithChest
      @MenWithChest  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hallelujah

  • @baxbax8701
    @baxbax8701 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Wow seems there’s many ppl saying this video popped into their lives just at the right time. I’m also one of them. Thank you God … a thousand times thank you.

  • @TTundragrizzly
    @TTundragrizzly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    God always gives a way out, no matter the temptation. And the temptation will vanish.
    Every temptation has a shelf-life.
    The initial notice
    The impulsive urge to glance or “ treat yourself “, or flirt with the possibilities ( in your mind).
    No matter the intensity of the temptation and urge. It will vanish like smoke in the wind.
    Count it pure Joy, in The Lord, when temptation arises. For looking to Him for strength and courage will be your escape from it. And the Joy you feel, in having Faith that is stronger than evil, will please the Lord and He will bless you!
    That will strengthen you!
    And it will drive satan insane knowing your Faith in God makes your armor stronger.

  • @kimetari3369
    @kimetari3369 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am suffering from masturbation, lust fantasies, whoredom,etc please pray for me dear brothers and sisters in Christ.

  • @camilo1396
    @camilo1396 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Help me father 🙏🏻😭😭 I keep failing over and over and I just can’t control it I just have multiple ways to try to stop but I just can’t I need your forgiveness to save me lord 😭😭😭😭😭🙏🏻

  • @mossy_123
    @mossy_123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have indulged in many works of the devil, due to being weak. Christ again and again pulls me out, but because of my poor relationship with him I fall into temptation. I work hard on building a relationship with the Lord our God. I hope he forgives me.
    Amen ❤🙏

    • @MenWithChest
      @MenWithChest  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God will always forgive you and cleanse you from all unrighteousness when you offer true repentance. Struggling with sin is a common Christian experience. We all struggle because our transformed spirits are still trapped in this sinful flesh whose inclinations are against the will of God. But live by the Spirit and exercise the spiritual disciplines regularly (praying earnestly, careful study of God’s words, congregating with other believers, setting boundaries) and you’ll be surprised by the change that will bring. You won’t become perfect, but you’ll have much more spiritual stamina to stand firm in the face of temptation. But remember this, Christianity is an ongoing life of repentance because we’ll sin in one way or another. But God’s Grace is sufficient and in our weaknesses is when his strength is much more displayed. Hope you’re encouraged by this brother.

    • @mossy_123
      @mossy_123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MenWithChest thank you my brother in Christ. I pray and hope that you will live the life you want with God. May God bless you for your wisdom.
      Amen 🙌🙏

    • @GavinTurner-w6i
      @GavinTurner-w6i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God forgives you when you sincerely confess your sins out. You must keep in mind three things: (1) God knows your heart. (2) God knows the day and age that we are living in when most men and women aren't the same as they used to be. And (3) Demons are whats behind both these thoughts and impulses to sin! Some of it is our own flesh and rebellion. Howevet once you've been indulging in the sins for an extended period of time the doors often are opened to what are known as familiar spirits. These demonic spirits are what try and keep and individual bound to the same destructive sin cycles and patterns over and over again. I'm dealing with the same struggle and often I question did I test God's patience too far this time? We must eventually repent yes, but God's very patient. Look at how forgiving He was towards Samson who followed his own fleshly desires and paid for it dearly, but was forgiven.

  • @ElricRichter
    @ElricRichter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YES finally i found the video thank you man and thanks god for now on ill look for the bible and buy it and ill read it none stop i have seen the porn videos and some imagines for so so long and i just can't stop so i look on youtube see if there is any cure for this now i finally found the video for over 18years i have been doing this thank you man let god be with us all i just can't stop crying but thank you so much❤😢🙌🤲🙏

  • @rylee746
    @rylee746 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its not just men's struggle but its most of the women nowadays especially women..

  • @MrMangoEdits
    @MrMangoEdits 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a Muslim this guidance truly helps 🕋❤️. Thank You.

  • @Alejo-xd8zo
    @Alejo-xd8zo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Pls pray for me

  • @landonunderwood-gd3fm
    @landonunderwood-gd3fm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I keep on committing lust to the point where I think God won’t forgive me for it and I’m scared now that I won’t go to heaven because of how much I keep doing it and I want to stop but I just keep on failing

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mentally physicallly and spiritually disapline yourself.

    • @heinmolenaar6750
      @heinmolenaar6750 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reading religious books doesn't help me to stop with masturbating. I,m single gay man and very stressfull. Masturbating gives me relieve.

  • @ravidewangan7925
    @ravidewangan7925 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤ Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord . Romans 6:11
    God bless you my all brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus our Lord ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Slubryskii
    @Slubryskii 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    thank you sir, I really struggle with this and after watching this video I know what I can do. Thank you so much, God bless you

    • @MenWithChest
      @MenWithChest  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May God strengthen you Luc! Countless other brothers have overcome this, you will as well.

  • @dannypower2399
    @dannypower2399 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Christ will pull you out of this. He loves you no matter the sin and will forgive again and again, the more you fall the more he will forgive, pray to stay strong Christ will defeat this evil idol

  • @LURLINE_
    @LURLINE_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wanna stop gooning? take the responsibility to stop off of god and put it on yourself, you gotta be your own guide.

    • @jaisonn25
      @jaisonn25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      but we need to pray to God for wisdom and strength

    • @LURLINE_
      @LURLINE_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaisonn25 why

    • @jaisonn25
      @jaisonn25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LURLINE_ if u want to overcome any sin u’ll need God’s help

    • @LURLINE_
      @LURLINE_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaisonn25 but i don't believe in god how can it help me

    • @jaisonn25
      @jaisonn25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LURLINE_ well it won’t since u don’t believe in him. i pray one day you will have Jesus

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Study the bible pray fast seek gods face not his hand . What you focus on you worship .

  • @BrianCisneros-s5i
    @BrianCisneros-s5i 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bleessed my brother I been struggling with lust needing want disire with a woman I will challenge myself I like challenge

  • @sivanmariano9001
    @sivanmariano9001 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen!

    • @sivanmariano9001
      @sivanmariano9001 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for making this video. I'm currently struggling with this sin but I know I will win this battle with God🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @DistribuidoraSantos
    @DistribuidoraSantos 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let’s share our own experiences related to the video’s topic!

  • @ybjelly2304
    @ybjelly2304 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @Arcadian1821
    @Arcadian1821 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who isn't?

  • @z4xrph621
    @z4xrph621 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is kissing your lover and cuddling with a sexual sin?😅

    • @EvantheHunt
      @EvantheHunt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If your lover is your spouse, then no.

    • @josecontreras2997
      @josecontreras2997 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No

  • @aunabreslingaming3279
    @aunabreslingaming3279 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is not the light
    All of this has iNTENSE dark magic on it

  • @Timmy-fo2jy
    @Timmy-fo2jy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Must be a dog

  • @RotiJohn-c3z
    @RotiJohn-c3z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sin away, folks... a day without a sin = a day wasted

    • @henryhughes-berry6796
      @henryhughes-berry6796 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No

    • @Indigo_37
      @Indigo_37 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bruh

    • @RotiJohn-c3z
      @RotiJohn-c3z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@henryhughes-berry6796 life is too short for this cult brainwashing... be f-r-e-e

  • @fridaydaniel2644
    @fridaydaniel2644 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm going through sexual immorality day -by-day, I pray God help me to overcome this hardest battle of life. Jesus Christ you're my lord and my personal saviour.
    Pray for me sir

  • @landonunderwood-gd3fm
    @landonunderwood-gd3fm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I keep on committing lust to the point where I think God won’t forgive me for it and I’m scared now that I won’t go to heaven because of how much I keep doing it and I want to stop but I just keep failing

    • @landonunderwood-gd3fm
      @landonunderwood-gd3fm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And also for some reason I think he will forgive me for it but I know he won’t if I have that mind set and now I’m just scared

  • @maxpyn8120
    @maxpyn8120 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought sexual sin was allowed in Christianity. Because now LGBT is allowed drinking and gambling is allowed.

  • @chevyjoee
    @chevyjoee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dear lord thankyou for letting me to this message. My prayers for the ultimate deliverance in Yeshua's mighty name Amen and Amen.

  • @projectcronos
    @projectcronos 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video came up on my recommended first thing after I prayed for guidance from this exact same thing with my girlfriend, I’m truly thankful for God and His guidance. Please pray for me and her, this is gonna be a long and tough road

  • @Echoyuhh
    @Echoyuhh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    amen

  • @captainjackuniversal
    @captainjackuniversal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Old testament is pure nasty, New testament, pslams and proverbs are good though

    • @EvantheHunt
      @EvantheHunt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are mistaken. I implore you to read it again.

    • @tainoloco2361
      @tainoloco2361 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So are you saying God was bad?

    • @paddyod6305
      @paddyod6305 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tainoloco2361 th-cam.com/video/HtXAQzqVv5s/w-d-xo.htmlsi=nebeCaj82LiYphmR

  • @tonikallioinen6969
    @tonikallioinen6969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It makes me sick when someone tells that masturbation is wrong. It is one of the healthiest habit that anyone can do.

    • @paddyod6305
      @paddyod6305 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💀💀

    • @soundslikecam
      @soundslikecam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was just thinking this cause imagine what would happen if you didn't masturbate, you'd get blue balls or might even want to do worse things.