In the UK they do it through meetup clubs and the meeting spots are at a restaurant and the process is, meet, greet, ask questions, then move to the next person... can attend multiple times until you find the match.
what American man would come to the market, they run the other way when a woman really want to marry and have children. i had one i was honest and said i want a one on one relationship, he turned around got in his car and drove off. and had the nerve to try and bother me the next day. in some ways i gave up on American men,
Uche, na wa o! The Chinese done tire o of singleness and loneliness o! It's good some are willing to learn the woman's language too. Not just the women learning thier language. ❤😂
@@ucheobuekweWhy? Love thingy was created for Commercialization Companionship is God's calling Life is not Mills and boon #reality is the ultimate Goal #Lonelinessisavirus #mentalheath😅is real😅
I'm so tempted to book my flight for these events.... I've heard awesome things about them. My friends mom is already trying to set me up with her nephew in Cambodia:) Love this
Hi!! I just found your account and a small tip I would say is that you should get a better mic when you're outside because the audio sounds kinda muffled, but other than that I love your channel! It's so interesting to see these types of videos
I only mind being taller if he minds! ❤❤❤Most shorter men can't handle this. Kudos to my Nigerian brothers who NEVER shy away because if height. THEY ARE KINGS, WHO DON'T FEAR A WOMAN'S HEIGHT❤❤❤❤
Nigerian men don't even care about age, they marry white grandmothers... AND I'm South African, our South AFRICAN men don't want taller, and they don't want grannies. Our Zulu men are like King Shaka Zulu, they have PRIDE!
This is very interesting, also I love that you are fluent in their mother tongue!💯☺️ I'm from the uk and was born to Jamaican parents. My mum was half Chinese from her father, and there are many in the Carribean. As for dowry, in my family, the men pay for EVERY child that is produced in their union! The mothers family set the amount, and that is put aside in a trust for the child till they are 21. This is a way to get rid of poverty/broke trash guys. Our family look into his earnings/education and the mental/emotional stability and who they have dated in the past. We dont take any nonsense!💯😏
Hahahaa 😂 this is hilarious! Your friend is too funny. Please do a follow-up, a series of these market places. Go early next time and interview the men and parents. Also the women and their expectations.
There's nothing wrong with requiring a house and car. When you bring a wife into the house, she bring the hope of children. She need a place and lifestyle to properly raise them.
So they want a successful man at the end of the finish line, they dont want to grow with the man, this is the kinds of girls who gets cheated on, cus they mean nothing to the man, just a baby popper !
I just found your channel on a TH-cam recommendation... I have subscribed, allowed the ads to play, love your content. I'm a South African in Hong Kong.
Make una leave my sister alone oo😂😂😂 but this is interesting, i hope and pray that those that really looking for real love find love, Love is a beautiful things.
China and East Asia in general is very image conscious. Men and women in China know that there are physical, educational, financial standards they must meet in order to secure good matches. Family background for some is very important as well.
Thank you Uche I really love these types of videos of yours, you are just a natural beauty and a natural journalist, please keep up the good work and God greatly Bless you and keep you!
@@natashadickson4819She is referring to Nigerian women actually. It is a taboo for a woman to ask a man out in Nigeria if not in entire African countries. A woman has to do it in a subtle way that the man can decode without letting other people notice.
You are very pretty and smart so if you date a Chinese/AFRICAN man get a good looking man who will love you the way CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND DIED FOR IT. DO NOT SETTLE.
Some of these younger kids even doesn’t know their CV are there in this garden. It was probably posted by their parents. The older parents will sometimes push their kids to get married and have children. Their reason is that they won’t live long and they want to see their grandkids before they leave this Earth. 😂😂
Girl i don't live in Nigeria but i have fam there and I hear alot of the women dont give a guy time if he doesnt have a car or still living with parents. And universally a good majority of women want a guy taller than them imo. Majority of women wont go for a guy shorter than them unless he is rolling in greens (money).
It's more precise to translate as dating corner. It's a place where singles search for a good match to date. Although many of them will marry each other if things go well.
I have a wonderful brown skinned man from US, no dowry just love. His ancestors are from Latin America. But he's American. I didnt care about house or car, only the man loves me and I love him.
Romanticizing not having anything is strange. I'm American and it causes a lot of problems, women setting themselves up to struggle. At the very least he should have a car and home for you so you don't struggle. It's the minimum of protection.
Uche,greetings dear, another nice video 👍!! Marriage market looks awkward but on second thought we need it in Africa especially Nigeria 😛😝🤪 , and also height shouldn't be issue in relationships, just pure and true love is the basics 🤗🤭!!!!
@@pennysgrit On a serious note,we need it in Nigeria,cos so many people are not married cos of few avenues like this to meet and know each other are very very scarce 😤!!
@@ucheobuekweMy dear, trust me it will really help for more people to get married especially if those in charge will regulate it 24/7 along side quality awareness and orientation 🤗
Same as here in Saudi Arabia you can't marry someone's daughter without acar and atleast a comfortable house, because here ur wife can't be walking around streets or hiring taxis all the time so a car should be a must here
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHINGDowry makes perfect sense to me as an African because often a woman has to integrate into the man's family, leaving your own and even taking their name.
Listen that older guy looking for 41-49 years old seems good. If you're an older woman you should hit him up. Considering in Africa a woman of that age would be hard to find love, it would be a good opportunity 😊. The introduction was really good in my opinion because you have a refernce of someone's background, its easy to investigate someone's background to know who they really are. This just meeting in yhe city and starting love is with alot of ueartbreaks because you might find someone who is just pretending, whi is hiding things about themselves that you discover later on when its too late or you're already too invested. I would like to find out, since you fit the slim standard and she the fairer standard, was there difference in the number of suitors who approached you?
Why is anyone not making reality show and market in US? This is so unique but genuine and is part of ancient china tradition still upheld today with such a refreshing high energy. Is like our fake version of blind date or marriage at first site. This could be a hit.
In the US, most women want a guy to be taller, very rare for us to date a man shorter than her. I’m 5’8” so my preference is 6 ft. or taller. No dowry in African-American culture. I do feel sorry for the Chinese men in their 50’s who never had the opportunity to marry because of the one-child policy which resulted in too few women.
I’m 5’9”. I only dated men 6 ft and above. My husband is 6’3”. My oldest son is 6’4” and my youngest test is 6’6”. My daughter is 5’8”. We love being tall! ❤
@@tonyamade901 Yeah I definitely feel bad for the older people who never hand a chance at love. Hope they meet someone now in their latter years. I see the height stuff on a lot of instagram reels from Americans. It’s interesting
Why are people from The Continent are generally described/defined by the color black while other people are described/defined by ethnicity? Who started this? WHY?
It’s cool and a little weird 😂 I’m picturing it in a Nigerian scenario Someone will be like oh, I saw you last week at the marriage market 😂 Hope you had luck 😂 Nice though
That is so true, they might be in the same love finding situation, yet the act like they had it in control. I was 21 when my younger sister got married, our church members will always look at me with so much pity and tell me God will do it. I had to change to another church for my own peace of mind
I love your work! I'm 180 cm, so i never thought about height. My previous gf was 175 cm, so we are pretty close in height. She also modelled and wore high heels. So, on more than 1 occasion, she was taller than me when we're outside. I never cared about it, but she did (once she wore 6 inch heels). In fact. She told me she didn't buy some shoes because of how much taller she would look beside me. The point is, imo, women care more than men.
@@TamunoOpuboCooksCookeyGam hmm you might have a point there, I have heard a lot of women talking about height. I do think both men and women really care about height in general
I'd rather die single 😂 Can't do it, not because I'm against it but I'm an introvert 😔 I'm Nigerian by the way. Igbo to be precise. I always enjoy your videos. I want to date and possibly marry someone from a different race. 19:03, she said " are you using my phone to add them? You're very stupid 🤣"
I think marriage market is good when the country is safe and stable. When the people are nice and honest. Then they will find life partner there. Most chinese people focus on wotk well beings and family so they will find 1 wife or husband therefore the chance of auccessful martiage is higher
How can I move to china without studying y’all ? I can study but maybe I can study a language course but real studying I can’t really do 😆. So any other ways I can go there besides studies
Happy Sunday guys! I’m really excited about this video. Make sure to watch till the end as there’s a lot to learn. 😁💃🏽💃🏽
Fall asleep
Wish you the best 💗
Seriously I'm African and I think this is cool❤ Why be lonely When u can find companionship? Doe it really Matter How?
#UcheObuekwe the Nigerian sister looks like she has strong Chinese blood...l am looking at her very well. You are two beautiful girls ❤❤❤👍💯🙏
@@rachaelcorreia8630 Lol. She’s 100% Igbo and Nigerian.
I love this because its better than online dating and you meet real people like back in the day.
@@Jazz-fg2dmlol, seriously. It’s literally a picture at least you can talk to them online w/ online dating..
It is nice to see how open minded they are and willing to change for love. Chinese people are very hard working people!!
True
@@hemaleite6331 if there’s one thing I have learned about Chinese man they’re sweet and romantic.
I think we should have marriage markets in the United States. Maybe people could find prospective partners more easily.
@@feliciar.8838 Perhaps. Everyone deserves loved and companionship 🥹❤️
Actually I like this , should be normalized in all continents to make it easy to meet other singles
In the UK they do it through meetup clubs and the meeting spots are at a restaurant and the process is, meet, greet, ask questions, then move to the next person... can attend multiple times until you find the match.
I agree
what American man would come to the market, they run the other way when a woman really want to marry and have children.
i had one i was honest and said i want a one on one relationship, he turned around got in his car and drove off. and had the nerve to try and bother me the next day. in some ways i gave up on American men,
Uche, na wa o! The Chinese done tire o of singleness and loneliness o! It's good some are willing to learn the woman's language too. Not just the women learning thier language. ❤😂
😂😂😂
Yes. In fact, this way of meeting serious suitors should be done more often in more countries!
@@kathleenphillips2933 interesting 🤔 im not sure if I agree oh. 😮💨
It makes sense than the same sex marriage.
@@ucheobuekweWhy? Love thingy was created for Commercialization
Companionship is God's calling
Life is not Mills and boon
#reality is the ultimate Goal #Lonelinessisavirus #mentalheath😅is real😅
Im with u...it feels desperate.
@@AmbientofLight Life is ambiguous People are Different
Loneliness=desperation
It's a good thing. It's better than online...watching from Botswana 🇧🇼
I'm so tempted to book my flight for these events.... I've heard awesome things about them. My friends mom is already trying to set me up with her nephew in Cambodia:) Love this
Hi!! I just found your account and a small tip I would say is that you should get a better mic when you're outside because the audio sounds kinda muffled, but other than that I love your channel! It's so interesting to see these types of videos
I only mind being taller if he minds! ❤❤❤Most shorter men can't handle this. Kudos to my Nigerian brothers who NEVER shy away because if height. THEY ARE KINGS, WHO DON'T FEAR A WOMAN'S HEIGHT❤❤❤❤
@@ruqayyahcurtis7504 Yes!! I don’t think it’s something a lot of Nigerian men care about, I noticed it a much bigger deal in China
Nigerian men don't even care about age, they marry white grandmothers... AND I'm South African, our South AFRICAN men don't want taller, and they don't want grannies. Our Zulu men are like King Shaka Zulu, they have PRIDE!
This is very interesting, also I love that you are fluent in their mother tongue!💯☺️
I'm from the uk and was born to Jamaican parents. My mum was half Chinese from her father, and there are many in the Carribean.
As for dowry, in my family, the men pay for EVERY child that is produced in their union! The mothers family set the amount, and that is put aside in a trust for the child till they are 21. This is a way to get rid of poverty/broke trash guys. Our family look into his earnings/education and the mental/emotional stability and who they have dated in the past. We dont take any nonsense!💯😏
Hahahaa 😂 this is hilarious! Your friend is too funny. Please do a follow-up, a series of these market places. Go early next time and interview the men and parents. Also the women and their expectations.
This is great Uche. Much needed in the USA❤❤❤❤
There's nothing wrong with requiring a house and car. When you bring a wife into the house, she bring the hope of children. She need a place and lifestyle to properly raise them.
So they want a successful man at the end of the finish line, they dont want to grow with the man, this is the kinds of girls who gets cheated on, cus they mean nothing to the man, just a baby popper !
I just found your channel on a TH-cam recommendation... I have subscribed, allowed the ads to play, love your content. I'm a South African in Hong Kong.
@@RosslynR Welcome. ❤️❤️
You guys are amazing, you speak the language and even numbers, Wow!!!
Make una leave my sister alone oo😂😂😂 but this is interesting, i hope and pray that those that really looking for real love find love,
Love is a beautiful things.
If will travel for this market am also tired of being single 😊😂
China and East Asia in general is very image conscious. Men and women in China know that there are physical, educational, financial standards they must meet in order to secure good matches. Family background for some is very important as well.
Thank you Uche I really love these types of videos of yours, you are just a natural beauty and a natural journalist, please keep up the good work and God greatly Bless you and keep you!
It would work if they find women outside china to marry.... Just like rose from uganda and her chinese husband and they are doing well
You are a very attractive woman. (I'm an American watching from SE Florida).
In a way this is better than the website as u have to deal with scammers and fakery.
I really enjoyed today's topic. Thanks dear
The man in the suit standing next to the man in the plaid shirt is really handsome.
@@beramyers8873 they were a lot of handsome men there 🏃♀️
In Canada, where I live, people don't really get married... I have a huge family, and I only went to 1 marriage in my entire life.
That girl in blue fits right in, I can see her getting married and settling down there.
It takes courage to put yourself out there to seek for a life partner, here in Nigeria we do it the “subtle “way.😂😂
Your Nigerian men are very direct. Not subtle at all. 😂 They declare their love at first sight. Greetings from Virginia USA 🇺🇸 ❤
How many cows do I need to give for a wife?
@@natashadickson4819She is referring to Nigerian women actually. It is a taboo for a woman to ask a man out in Nigeria if not in entire African countries. A woman has to do it in a subtle way that the man can decode without letting other people notice.
Is difficult to find a woman like Rose of Uganda in a market.
You are very pretty and smart so if you date a Chinese/AFRICAN man get a good looking man who will love you the way CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND DIED FOR IT. DO NOT SETTLE.
Some of these younger kids even doesn’t know their CV are there in this garden. It was probably posted by their parents. The older parents will sometimes push their kids to get married and have children. Their reason is that they won’t live long and they want to see their grandkids before they leave this Earth. 😂😂
Lol
Girl i don't live in Nigeria but i have fam there and I hear alot of the women dont give a guy time if he doesnt have a car or still living with parents. And universally a good majority of women want a guy taller than them imo. Majority of women wont go for a guy shorter than them unless he is rolling in greens (money).
Your face is really glowing❤❤❤
Mnwl, be sure of what you're eating o.
@@tessyobuekwe5890 lol yes mummy 😊
Thank you. 🥰
Love to hear you, saying that ADAM is Lonely and God Created a
Woman for him... . Lovely YouTubing of yours.👍
It's more precise to translate as dating corner. It's a place where singles search for a good match to date. Although many of them will marry each other if things go well.
I know a world renown musician who is much shorter than his wife. They've been happily married for over 20 years!
I've seen a lot of videos about this marriage market in China I'm definitely going to visit it whenever I come to China❤
I have a wonderful brown skinned man from US, no dowry just love. His ancestors are from Latin America. But he's American. I didnt care about house or car, only the man loves me and I love him.
Romanticizing not having anything is strange. I'm American and it causes a lot of problems, women setting themselves up to struggle. At the very least he should have a car and home for you so you don't struggle. It's the minimum of protection.
We need to have some of the cV posted here so that we can select too.😂
Hello from St. Lucia. Absolutely no dowry is required in my country. Also, house and car is also not a requirement however, these would be a plus.
A wedding ring, specifically gold with diamond(s) USA 🇺🇸
Uche,greetings dear, another nice video 👍!! Marriage market looks awkward but on second thought we need it in Africa especially Nigeria 😛😝🤪 , and also height shouldn't be issue in relationships, just pure and true love is the basics 🤗🤭!!!!
Abeg no oh 😂😂😂
Bringing it to Nigeria wahala go Dey
Just leave us like this kawai
@@uzochukwuofor3753 It will be so funny in Nigeria, I see fight breaking from our Nigerian mums and dads 🫣🤣
@@pennysgrit On a serious note,we need it in Nigeria,cos so many people are not married cos of few avenues like this to meet and know each other are very very scarce 😤!!
@@ucheobuekweMy dear, trust me it will really help for more people to get married especially if those in charge will regulate it 24/7 along side quality awareness and orientation 🤗
@@uzochukwuofor3753 😅😅 I’m sure Nigerians will use it to catch cruise first before it becomes a norm
Not bad though
As an American woman, I find that all my friends prefer the man to be taller or, at the very least, the same height.
Wow great initiative 🙆I have never seen such.
Who else heard the word chi dima it sounds Igbo 🇳🇬
Same as here in Saudi Arabia you can't marry someone's daughter without acar and atleast a comfortable house, because here ur wife can't be walking around streets or hiring taxis all the time so a car should be a must here
Saudi is a backward country.
Exactly. That is protection. I don't know why this is so difficult for westerners to understand.
And the weather too
So, marriage market is just an IRL dating app?
@@Daren_PNW yes this is a good definition 😁
In America 🇺🇸 and many Western countries, there are not any requirements for a dowry.
That’s weird
Society told women to have lower standards
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHINGin the west though not in Africa.😂
Westerners lack culture
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHINGDowry makes perfect sense to me as an African because often a woman has to integrate into the man's family, leaving your own and even taking their name.
Hight matters to me. I love tall, handsome, rich, and romantic man😅. From Nigeria.
Awesome I would love to visit
Listen that older guy looking for 41-49 years old seems good. If you're an older woman you should hit him up. Considering in Africa a woman of that age would be hard to find love, it would be a good opportunity 😊. The introduction was really good in my opinion because you have a refernce of someone's background, its easy to investigate someone's background to know who they really are. This just meeting in yhe city and starting love is with alot of ueartbreaks because you might find someone who is just pretending, whi is hiding things about themselves that you discover later on when its too late or you're already too invested. I would like to find out, since you fit the slim standard and she the fairer standard, was there difference in the number of suitors who approached you?
FR FR Uche should help him get hooked, his is a potential prospect, many women age appropriate will be interested :D
This is insane! Where in China is this market? I need to go check it out for myself! LOL
@@plk6234 Lol. They’re a lot in different parts of China. The one was in Chongqing China
@@ucheobuekwe Noted and thanks for the info! These are some crazy times LOL
@@plk6234 Lol. It really is😆
B@@ucheobuekwebjr é nous qui comprend pas l'anglais di leur que nous sommes disponibles célibataire san enfants en l'Afrique de l'ouest 😂😂😂 merci
I find this more meaningful than insane 😮
Why is anyone not making reality show and market in US? This is so unique but genuine and is part of ancient china tradition still upheld today with such a refreshing high energy. Is like our fake version of blind date or marriage at first site. This could be a hit.
Great vid
In the US, most women want a guy to be taller, very rare for us to date a man shorter than her. I’m 5’8” so my preference is 6 ft. or taller. No dowry in African-American culture. I do feel sorry for the Chinese men in their 50’s who never had the opportunity to marry because of the one-child policy which resulted in too few women.
I’m 5’9”. I only dated men 6 ft and above. My husband is 6’3”. My oldest son is 6’4” and my youngest test is 6’6”. My daughter is 5’8”. We love being tall! ❤
@@tonyamade901 Yeah I definitely feel bad for the older people who never hand a chance at love. Hope they meet someone now in their latter years.
I see the height stuff on a lot of instagram reels from Americans. It’s interesting
@@AuntyKarena 💯 my nephews are 6ft and 6’3”
ca do, u are so beautiful especially your personality, and your friend is also gorgeous!
@@christianhansen3292 Thank you ❤️
This is needed in Denmark my sister lives there people hardly marry over there
Thank you for this very informative video
Some guys don't mind the height. Surprisingly its the short guys who dont mind
Why are people from The Continent are generally described/defined by the color black while other people are described/defined by ethnicity? Who started this? WHY?
Good video, interesting nice sprited people.
I love China people wish I get one 😊atreast he speaks English am from kenya
In America we don't have a dowry per say. I have never seen anything like this. The only way to describe it is what we would call a hot mess. lol!
I’m a mother of 5 I live in the uk I love Chinese man! the poor one that doesn’t have car or house but just Hanson ❤😊 Godly man
A definite and defined market love purpose ❤️..
😂😂😂 love this which market is this wanna find my man from there love Chinese so much , where's the connection
People’s Park Shanghai China
It’s cool and a little weird 😂
I’m picturing it in a Nigerian scenario
Someone will be like oh, I saw you last week at the marriage market 😂
Hope you had luck 😂
Nice though
@@pennysgrit Lmao. I agree! Or “ Ah ah you still haven’t found a man/woman? Don’t worry God will do it for you” 😫😂😂
@@ucheobuekwe 😂😂😂
That is so true, they might be in the same love finding situation, yet the act like they had it in control. I was 21 when my younger sister got married, our church members will always look at me with so much pity and tell me God will do it. I had to change to another church for my own peace of mind
Wetin go come do my steeze 😂😂
@@tisvy Girl 😂😂 but we need to find love na 😭🏃🏃
I love your work!
I'm 180 cm, so i never thought about height. My previous gf was 175 cm, so we are pretty close in height. She also modelled and wore high heels. So, on more than 1 occasion, she was taller than me when we're outside.
I never cared about it, but she did (once she wore 6 inch heels). In fact. She told me she didn't buy some shoes because of how much taller she would look beside me.
The point is, imo, women care more than men.
@@TamunoOpuboCooksCookeyGam hmm you might have a point there, I have heard a lot of women talking about height. I do think both men and women really care about height in general
Amazing , China lovers market never heard of any where in the whole world
I'd rather die single 😂
Can't do it, not because I'm against it but I'm an introvert 😔
I'm Nigerian by the way. Igbo to be precise. I always enjoy your videos.
I want to date and possibly marry someone from a different race.
19:03, she said " are you using my phone to add them? You're very stupid 🤣"
@@YvonneEche Lmao @ you’d rather die single 😭😆😂 that’s funny. It definitely requires a lot of courage to put yourself out there like this.
Well if people find their hapiness there. This is real life internet
Well if people find their hapiness there. This is real life internet
@@ucheobuekweI will never
People r becoming very lonely in this world, love with companionship is very important
Gwo gwo gwo gwo dey play di China 😅
This is wonderful to behold.
Fortunately there's no dowaries in USA in general. However there are possibly dowaries within some cultures, such as those from India.
Love your accent.
Great idea ❤
Uche are you ok? 😂😂 werey say I don find love😩😩
Africa love's it all over.tall Short and ALL sizes
This is really interesting nice one
26th 🤗
New subscriber here thanks for sharing I would like to meet one tried of searching on dating site
I think marriage market is good when the country is safe and stable. When the people are nice and honest. Then they will find life partner there. Most chinese people focus on wotk well beings and family so they will find 1 wife or husband therefore the chance of auccessful martiage is higher
I'm on my way to china right now 😊
Till 😂you get into trouble and cry on TikTok for help
Smart baby oo
I love taller women. It's only awkward when we dance. Tall, dark and slim. On some occasions, a taller woman can be robust if also sexy and feminine.
It is so interesting what you are showing here
How can I move to china without studying y’all ? I can study but maybe I can study a language course but real studying I can’t really do 😆. So any other ways I can go there besides studies
552nd like Lol Tysm for reviewing this on your channel.
Marriage market should be in Africa too.
Short man marries a taller woman so his children hopefully be taller.
Your friend in blue top has a little Chinese look.
Asians look like light skin Africans. Africa is the original prototype
I think we should have marriage market in Nigeria 🇳🇬
It should be more of the kindness in a man and if he loves Jesus 🎉
Interesting in America height is a personal choice❤
Can you do a series on meeting up with these men. Like a marriage show hahahaa
I think it's a good idea.
Love your content❤ We have to help you promote your channel as you are a hidden gem.
Hi Uche, does your friend Amanda have a TH-cam channel?
In Haiti 🇭🇹 there are more women than men
Nice, do they have a singles event in Haiti?