BLACK GIRL FINDS LOVE IN CHINA’S MARRIAGE MARKET!!! ❤️😍 | MARRIAGE MARKET
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- In today’s video we visit the popular marriage market and see what it looks like to look for a partner in an open physical square. With different profiles, pictures and contacts to choose from. It was definitely nothing like I’d ever seen before. Hope you guys enjoy. ❤️❤️
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Happy Sunday guys! I’m really excited about this video. Make sure to watch till the end as there’s a lot to learn. 😁💃🏽💃🏽
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Wish you the best 💗
Seriously I'm African and I think this is cool❤ Why be lonely When u can find companionship? Doe it really Matter How?
#UcheObuekwe the Nigerian sister looks like she has strong Chinese blood...l am looking at her very well. You are two beautiful girls ❤❤❤👍💯🙏
@@rachaelcorreia8630 Lol. She’s 100% Igbo and Nigerian.
I love this because its better than online dating and you meet real people like back in the day.
Many advertisers are not present there on the market. You only see their profiles printed on papers. How is this better than online dating?
@@Jazz-fg2dmlol, seriously. It’s literally a picture at least you can talk to them online w/ online dating..
@@ohno7153
I get that. But you can also talk to people in online dating.. I still don't see a difference between posting your profile online on a dating site and posting your profile on a piece of paper on a bride market. In my opinion,an online dating site is just a convenient and a modern form of the bride market.
It is nice to see how open minded they are and willing to change for love. Chinese people are very hard working people!!
True
They are not open-minded by choice but by necessity. There are more men than women in China. This gender imbalance is said to be caused by the one-child policy. So for many cininese men, the only option to find a woman is travel to south-east asia, africa or south america.
@@hemaleite6331 if there’s one thing I have learned about Chinese man they’re sweet and romantic.
I think we should have marriage markets in the United States. Maybe people could find prospective partners more easily.
@@feliciar.8838 Perhaps. Everyone deserves loved and companionship 🥹❤️
Actually I like this , I should be normalized in all continents to make it easy to meet other singles
In the UK they do it through meetup clubs and the meeting spots are at a restaurant and the process is, meet, greet, ask questions, then move to the next person... can attend multiple times until you find the match.
I agree
what American man would come to the market, they run the other way when a woman really want to marry and have children.
i had one i was honest and said i want a one on one relationship, he turned around got in his car and drove off. and had the nerve to try and bother me the next day. in some ways i gave up on American men,
There's nothing wrong with requiring a house and car. When you bring a wife into the house, she bring the hope of children. She need a place and lifestyle to properly raise them.
So they want a successful man at the end of the finish line, they dont want to grow with the man, this is the kinds of girls who gets cheated on, cus they mean nothing to the man, just a baby popper !
Uche, na wa o! The Chinese done tire o of singleness and loneliness o! It's good some are willing to learn the woman's language too. Not just the women learning thier language. ❤😂
😂😂😂
I only mind being taller if he minds! ❤❤❤Most shorter men can't handle this. Kudos to my Nigerian brothers who NEVER shy away because if height. THEY ARE KINGS, WHO DON'T FEAR A WOMAN'S HEIGHT❤❤❤❤
@@ruqayyahcurtis7504 Yes!! I don’t think it’s something a lot of Nigerian men care about, I noticed it a much bigger deal in China
Nigerian men don't even care about age, they marry white grandmothers... AND I'm South African, our South AFRICAN men don't want taller, and they don't want grannies. Our Zulu men are like King Shaka Zulu, they have PRIDE!
Yes. In fact, this way of meeting serious suitors should be done more often in more countries!
@@kathleenphillips2933 interesting 🤔 im not sure if I agree oh. 😮💨
It makes sense than the same sex marriage.
@@ucheobuekweWhy? Love thingy was created for Commercialization
Companionship is God's calling
Life is not Mills and boon
#reality is the ultimate Goal #Lonelinessisavirus #mentalheath😅is real😅
Im with u...it feels desperate.
@@AmbientofLight Life is ambiguous People are Different
Loneliness=desperation
I'm so tempted to book my flight for these events.... I've heard awesome things about them. My friends mom is already trying to set me up with her nephew in Cambodia:) Love this
It would work if they find women outside china to marry.... Just like rose from uganda and her chinese husband and they are doing well
Hi!! I just found your account and a small tip I would say is that you should get a better mic when you're outside because the audio sounds kinda muffled, but other than that I love your channel! It's so interesting to see these types of videos
China and East Asia in general is very image conscious. Men and women in China know that there are physical, educational, financial standards they must meet in order to secure good matches. Family background for some is very important as well.
I just found your channel on a TH-cam recommendation... I have subscribed, allowed the ads to play, love your content. I'm a South African in Hong Kong.
@@RosslynR Welcome. ❤️❤️
The man in the suit standing next to the man in the plaid shirt is really handsome.
@@beramyers8873 they were a lot of handsome men there 🏃♀️
You are a very attractive woman. (I'm an American watching from SE Florida).
This is very interesting, also I love that you are fluent in their mother tongue!💯☺️
I'm from the uk and was born to Jamaican parents. My mum was half Chinese from her father, and there are many in the Carribean.
As for dowry, in my family, the men pay for EVERY child that is produced in their union! The mothers family set the amount, and that is put aside in a trust for the child till they are 21. This is a way to get rid of poverty/broke trash guys. Our family look into his earnings/education and the mental/emotional stability and who they have dated in the past. We dont take any nonsense!💯😏
This is great Uche. Much needed in the USA❤❤❤❤
Hahahaa 😂 this is hilarious! Your friend is too funny. Please do a follow-up, a series of these market places. Go early next time and interview the men and parents. Also the women and their expectations.
In a way this is better than the website as u have to deal with scammers and fakery.
No, it is not better. Many (young) advertisers are not present physically on the market. Their parents brought their children profiles printed on papers, but the actual children are not present on the market. How is this better than the online dating?
If will travel for this market am also tired of being single 😊😂
You are very pretty and smart so if you date a Chinese/AFRICAN man get a good looking man who will love you the way CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND DIED FOR IT. DO NOT SETTLE.
Thank you Uche I really love these types of videos of yours, you are just a natural beauty and a natural journalist, please keep up the good work and God greatly Bless you and keep you!
You guys are amazing, you speak the language and even numbers, Wow!!!
In America 🇺🇸 and many Western countries, there are not any requirements for a dowry.
That’s weird
Society told women to have lower standards
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHINGin the west though not in Africa.😂
Westerners lack culture
@@JesusLovesEVERYTHINGDowry makes perfect sense to me as an African because often a woman has to integrate into the man's family, leaving your own and even taking their name.
Why are people from The Continent are generally described/defined by the color black while other people are described/defined by ethnicity? Who started this? WHY?
I really enjoyed today's topic. Thanks dear
Listen that older guy looking for 41-49 years old seems good. If you're an older woman you should hit him up. Considering in Africa a woman of that age would be hard to find love, it would be a good opportunity 😊. The introduction was really good in my opinion because you have a refernce of someone's background, its easy to investigate someone's background to know who they really are. This just meeting in yhe city and starting love is with alot of ueartbreaks because you might find someone who is just pretending, whi is hiding things about themselves that you discover later on when its too late or you're already too invested. I would like to find out, since you fit the slim standard and she the fairer standard, was there difference in the number of suitors who approached you?
FR FR Uche should help him get hooked, his is a potential prospect, many women age appropriate will be interested :D
Girl i don't live in Nigeria but i have fam there and I hear alot of the women dont give a guy time if he doesnt have a car or still living with parents. And universally a good majority of women want a guy taller than them imo. Majority of women wont go for a guy shorter than them unless he is rolling in greens (money).
It takes courage to put yourself out there to seek for a life partner, here in Nigeria we do it the “subtle “way.😂😂
Your Nigerian men are very direct. Not subtle at all. 😂 They declare their love at first sight. Greetings from Virginia USA 🇺🇸 ❤
How many cows do I need to give for a wife?
@@natashadickson4819She is referring to Nigerian women actually. It is a taboo for a woman to ask a man out in Nigeria if not in entire African countries. A woman has to do it in a subtle way that the man can decode without letting other people notice.
Uche,greetings dear, another nice video 👍!! Marriage market looks awkward but on second thought we need it in Africa especially Nigeria 😛😝🤪 , and also height shouldn't be issue in relationships, just pure and true love is the basics 🤗🤭!!!!
Abeg no oh 😂😂😂
Bringing it to Nigeria wahala go Dey
Just leave us like this kawai
@@uzochukwuofor3753 It will be so funny in Nigeria, I see fight breaking from our Nigerian mums and dads 🫣🤣
@@pennysgrit On a serious note,we need it in Nigeria,cos so many people are not married cos of few avenues like this to meet and know each other are very very scarce 😤!!
@@ucheobuekweMy dear, trust me it will really help for more people to get married especially if those in charge will regulate it 24/7 along side quality awareness and orientation 🤗
@@uzochukwuofor3753 😅😅 I’m sure Nigerians will use it to catch cruise first before it becomes a norm
Not bad though
Some of these younger kids even doesn’t know their CV are there in this garden. It was probably posted by their parents. The older parents will sometimes push their kids to get married and have children. Their reason is that they won’t live long and they want to see their grandkids before they leave this Earth. 😂😂
Lol
In Canada, where I live, people don't really get married... I have a huge family, and I only went to 1 marriage in my entire life.
In the US, most women want a guy to be taller, very rare for us to date a man shorter than her. I’m 5’8” so my preference is 6 ft. or taller. No dowry in African-American culture. I do feel sorry for the Chinese men in their 50’s who never had the opportunity to marry because of the one-child policy which resulted in too few women.
I’m 5’9”. I only dated men 6 ft and above. My husband is 6’3”. My oldest son is 6’4” and my youngest test is 6’6”. My daughter is 5’8”. We love being tall! ❤
@@tonyamade901 Yeah I definitely feel bad for the older people who never hand a chance at love. Hope they meet someone now in their latter years.
I see the height stuff on a lot of instagram reels from Americans. It’s interesting
@@AuntyKarena 💯 my nephews are 6ft and 6’3”
As an American woman, I find that all my friends prefer the man to be taller or, at the very least, the same height.
So, marriage market is just an IRL dating app?
@@Daren_PNW yes this is a good definition 😁
Same as here in Saudi Arabia you can't marry someone's daughter without acar and atleast a comfortable house, because here ur wife can't be walking around streets or hiring taxis all the time so a car should be a must here
Saudi is a backward country.
Exactly. That is protection. I don't know why this is so difficult for westerners to understand.
And the weather too
Who else heard the word chi dima it sounds Igbo 🇳🇬
People r becoming very lonely in this world, love with companionship is very important
Your face is really glowing❤❤❤
Mnwl, be sure of what you're eating o.
@@tessyobuekwe5890 lol yes mummy 😊
Thank you. 🥰
It's more precise to translate as dating corner. It's a place where singles search for a good match to date. Although many of them will marry each other if things go well.
In America we don't have a dowry per say. I have never seen anything like this. The only way to describe it is what we would call a hot mess. lol!
A wedding ring, specifically gold with diamond(s) USA 🇺🇸
I have a wonderful brown skinned man from US, no dowry just love. His ancestors are from Latin America. But he's American. I didnt care about house or car, only the man loves me and I love him.
And which wonderful skin complexion are you?
Romanticizing not having anything is strange. I'm American and it causes a lot of problems, women setting themselves up to struggle. At the very least he should have a car and home for you so you don't struggle. It's the minimum of protection.
Hight matters to me. I love tall, handsome, rich, and romantic man😅. From Nigeria.
This is insane! Where in China is this market? I need to go check it out for myself! LOL
@@plk6234 Lol. They’re a lot in different parts of China. The one was in Chongqing China
@@ucheobuekwe Noted and thanks for the info! These are some crazy times LOL
@@plk6234 Lol. It really is😆
B@@ucheobuekwebjr é nous qui comprend pas l'anglais di leur que nous sommes disponibles célibataire san enfants en l'Afrique de l'ouest 😂😂😂 merci
I find this more meaningful than insane 😮
Some guys don't mind the height. Surprisingly its the short guys who dont mind
Female foreign vloggers go there the smiles is out,but foreign male vloggers go there the place is slow and quiet 😂...
@@distrustful.000 really? I think everyone is well received oh 😂
@@ucheobuekwe I see you girls go there the people have topics and chats with you girls.I seen other male vloggers of different enthicity go there but always the connection is not there.
Life isn't fair. You should get used to it
Lmbo that is so true I never noticed that till now.
This is true one blogger quite handsome in Caucasian looks was asked what he does and the aunties insulted him because he had no house or car and earned a living posting about speaking Chinese. They said they can do that and it's not stable job. 😂😅😅 But I have seen 2 Nigerian men be surrounded by aunties wanting them for their daughters.
Wetin go come do my steeze 😂😂
@@tisvy Girl 😂😂 but we need to find love na 😭🏃🏃
This is needed in Denmark my sister lives there people hardly marry over there
I’m a mother of 5 I live in the uk I love Chinese man! the poor one that doesn’t have car or house but just Hanson ❤😊 Godly man
In Haiti 🇭🇹 there are more women than men
Nice, do they have a singles event in Haiti?
Make una leave my sister alone oo😂😂😂 but this is interesting, i hope and pray that those that really looking for real love find love,
Love is a beautiful things.
I'd rather die single 😂
Can't do it, not because I'm against it but I'm an introvert 😔
I'm Nigerian by the way. Igbo to be precise. I always enjoy your videos.
I want to date and possibly marry someone from a different race.
19:03, she said " are you using my phone to add them? You're very stupid 🤣"
@@user-xi3bx1wy7s Lmao @ you’d rather die single 😭😆😂 that’s funny. It definitely requires a lot of courage to put yourself out there like this.
Well if people find their hapiness there. This is real life internet
Well if people find their hapiness there. This is real life internet
@@ucheobuekweI will never
It’s cool and a little weird 😂
I’m picturing it in a Nigerian scenario
Someone will be like oh, I saw you last week at the marriage market 😂
Hope you had luck 😂
Nice though
@@pennysgrit Lmao. I agree! Or “ Ah ah you still haven’t found a man/woman? Don’t worry God will do it for you” 😫😂😂
@@ucheobuekwe 😂😂😂
That is so true, they might be in the same love finding situation, yet the act like they had it in control. I was 21 when my younger sister got married, our church members will always look at me with so much pity and tell me God will do it. I had to change to another church for my own peace of mind
😂😂😂 love this which market is this wanna find my man from there love Chinese so much , where's the connection
People’s Park Shanghai China
Even that old woman looking for a man with house and car as well? 😂😂
Most likely looking for her child/grandchild.
Why wouldn't she? She doesn't need to be burdened by financially caring for a man no matter her age.
I know a world renown musician who is much shorter than his wife. They've been happily married for over 20 years!
Hello from St. Lucia. Absolutely no dowry is required in my country. Also, house and car is also not a requirement however, these would be a plus.
I think marriage market is good when the country is safe and stable. When the people are nice and honest. Then they will find life partner there. Most chinese people focus on wotk well beings and family so they will find 1 wife or husband therefore the chance of auccessful martiage is higher
Awesome I would love to visit
United States does not have a dowery system. China needs a marriage market because years ago they did a one child per couple. Now China is paying the price for that decision.
Is difficult to find a woman like Rose of Uganda in a market.
Great vid
We need to have some of the cV posted here so that we can select too.😂
Marriage market should be in Africa too.
Wow great initiative 🙆I have never seen such.
Fortunately there's no dowaries in USA in general. However there are possibly dowaries within some cultures, such as those from India.
Love your accent.
Thank you for this very informative video
This is like an "in-person" dating app
MOST SHORT MEN SEEMS 2B VERY INSECURE N JUDGMENTAL BCAS OF THIS DEFICIT
@@CAROLYNCHANG-k3s It’s really sad because it don’t think height should be that important 🤔😕
It should be more of the kindness in a man and if he loves Jesus 🎉
Good video, interesting nice sprited people.
Amazing , China lovers market never heard of any where in the whole world
1997 is not 25
This is wonderful to behold.
Yes height matters, can’t catch me with a short queen
@@agozieobuekwe7615 Lmao you’re already tall na so it shouldn’t matter 😜
😂😂😂😂
Africa love's it all over.tall Short and ALL sizes
I'm on my way to china right now 😊
Till 😂you get into trouble and cry on TikTok for help
Short man marries a taller woman so his children hopefully be taller.
Interesting in America height is a personal choice❤
True, I saw a documentary talking to young women and all of them said the man must earn million dollars,have house and car and take care of her and her family, yet these ladies work low earning jobs…😅😅😅
@@brookside109 Lol. Yeah that’s the norm for most Chinese ladies 😩😂
He said sexy not plumpy I thought? ha ha ha
Gwo gwo gwo gwo dey play di China 😅
These particular group doesn't look handsome
Pls sister this marriage market in which city is located
People’s Park Shanghai, China
@@jplin888 wow! It’s even at a popular place
Loneliness won finish everybody see as the place look like Nigeria market day😂😂
@@Chinaqueen01 my dear eh 😫😭 God help us oo
Love your content❤ We have to help you promote your channel as you are a hidden gem.
How do i get partner from dat market if am not in china
How can you meet your partner if you are not physically there? So you need to be there. Don’t rely on internet or long distance relationship. This is my advice as a Chinese.
@@agnesassy6909 You have to come to China to fully have a chance at this.
552nd like Lol Tysm for reviewing this on your channel.
I do love men that is taller than l am.
This is serious let it start in Africa too
53 yr ols female. can you set up with match maker or can you help" i am 5.6 inches
Can you do a series on meeting up with these men. Like a marriage show hahahaa
While you passport 🛂 sis going to find love in other foreign countries please be safe ok , because you will be on your own. 😅
You sound very proud of yourself for being hateful.
@@ThePinkPantha21 ok black woman thats love thé Whyte i Heard you.
A definite and defined market love purpose ❤️..
Smart baby oo
New subscriber here thanks for sharing I would like to meet one tried of searching on dating site
Hight matters in partnership as the children might follow their parents hight.
26th 🤗