I can say that as an autistic person, when you receive devastating news, it’s pretty difficult to react to it like the average person. Sometimes you don’t even react at all at and some people think you’re selfish when in reality you’re dealing with it on the inside because you don’t know how to properly display your emotions. For me, it’s like that.
I've recently had a heart to heart with my adult son (Aspergers), three and a half years after his dad died very suddenly. All this time I've been walking on eggshells and he's been angry with me - we've had many nasty rows. He was very close to his dad and he made me feel like the wrong parent died. He wouldn't talk about how he was really feeling until recently. He's still broken and devastated. What he needed was for me to just love him and hug him and KNOW that he did still love me and need me to be his Mum, regardless of how things looked. I couldn't, until now, because I'm still grieving too and I was trying to avoid conflict - I really felt our relationship would never recover, which broke my heart. We have really turned a corner now and can talk easily again, about his dad too! I'm so thankful and happy that our relationship is restored. ❤
@@lynnatk50 oh my goodness, I am so sorry for your loss. Neither you or your son deserve to go through such an immeasurable amount of pain. I can tell that you were doing everything in your power to make sure that your son would feel better and as a parent, that is the best thing you can ever offer them. Just know that your efforts are never in vain because a parent that has a child with autism or Asperger’s can be some of the most challenging moments of their life. It will have its mixtures of ups and downs. And I’m also really sorry that your relationship suffered because of it. The best thing anyone can do for their loved one during trying times is to let them know that you’re always there for them no matter what. I hope you and your son feel better soon. ❤️
Y'all skipped the scene where after having that heartfelt conversation the dad admits he never liked Shawn and hates him to the core and wished he had a better son. It triggered his autism and the old man had to drag him out of the room. Apologies for saying "it triggered his autism." I meant a meltdown or an episode.
th-cam.com/users/shortsggSv5a98SbU?si=soObRnIhXQZjwgJs Because one day he ran away with his older brother from home because of his parents' behavior, you know,.. 🍸🍾 ..and also towards Shawn because of his (autism).. that day his older brother died (the reason why became a doctor), the best surgeon at the best surgical hospital in the world. And because of the death of his eldest son his father, remembering him again and blaming him because his f avorite son died, feels pain. I think he didn't come home that day and was adopted by a famous doctor. ((The same one he carried his bunny with🐇 when his drunk father took him out of his hands and killed him against the wall)) He's here because his mother called him when she heard about him to see if she could cure his father's very advanced cancer. They also said sorry to each other Have you heard the saying drunk to death?🤣🍾🍸😷 THOMAS: M GOOD thanks GOD,I EDITED MY COMEMT for u!
I just recently found out I’m autistic and it makes so much sense to me now. Sometimes I would react really big to small things and vice versa or it would be TOO BIG for the big things…it was rare I had a “normal” reaction to things
I'd like to start by saying, I pray your doing ok, dealing with your diagnosis, I'd imagine it may be hard for you. However, may it give you peace if mind knowing that you have some answers. I'm praying for you as you go forward in your life. I also pray you have good people in your life who will be there for you, that can help if you should need it and not hinder you. Much love and prayers for you. ❤
Same bc my mom used yo get mad at me for acting really excited over something small like getting dinner but if i was in a dangerous situation like i was lost i would be so calm
@@LukeFlett what do you mean by yours is alittle bit different? I'm 50 and still learning about Autism. Just don't ever let anyone make you feel bad or different. If your verbal atleast you can communicate your thoughts and feels. Hopefully that will help you along. I'm praying for you. Keep your chin up and just do the best you can. That's all any of us can do. My prayers and love to you young person. You'll be ok. ❤😉
I've felt that burden. Shaun's reaction when he heard of his father's death was similar to my reaction to my Grandmother's death. My parents had left to catch a plane to try and see her. They called me ten minutes later, and i couldnt figure out how i felt.
My grandma passed in march, a couple of days later from my birthday. The feeling i had when they called me and told me she passed away, i went in the bathroom and couldn't stop shaking, it all felt unreal. Still does. How could i lose such a beautiful and lovely woman? 😢
I'm the same. Sort of... I was in college, but home for the summer. My mom, step-dad, sister, and I, and my Uncle, who worked out of the country (we had to plan around his schedule. It was June) , we were at my grandma's house to clean it out. She had passed in February. My mom and step-dad had to handle everything just them, my Uncle and I both could not get flights in time to be at the funeral. My stepmom called and said that our grandma on the other side was failing and we needed to get up there stat if we wanted to say goodbye. It was an 8 hour drive north. My sister and I were ready in like 15 minutes. Our other aunt was going to take us so our mom could keep working. Our cousin had a 2 or 3 year old child (I was 22 or 23, so she couldn't have been more than 18! We hadn't seen them in years and years....) , and it took her and her mom 3 hours to get across town to where we were. Like a 20 minute drive. I know prepping a toddler to go on a longer trip takes a lot of planning, but at the same time in a situation like that, you grab tons of extra and sort out what you really need later. (I currently have 2 teenagers, so I've been there) We missed getting to say goodbye by less than an hour. 😢 I'm 45 now and it still gets to me.
It breaks my heart to see a parent that can’t accept their child the way they are. Whether someone’s kid is gay, straight, autistic, neurodivergent, disabled, etc. it’s a parents job and honor to love their kid unconditionally
I love his portrayal of stimming and having emotions run wild. Normally I’m a “high functioning” adult. People sometimes don’t believe me when I tell them I have autism. But when something drastic or unexpected happens I lose control. I was eating popcorn one time and the crown of my tooth broke. I looked at it in my hand and felt the tooth with my tongue. There was such sensitivity that I started to panic. My mind went blank and I started shaking and crying and hitting myself in the head. At the time, I had no insurance or very much money to pay for my tooth to be fixed. Somehow it all worked out..but I hadn’t had a meltdown like that in a while
Basically despite what this clip is showing, the dads an asshole. As a child, Shaun was treated horribly by his father. After this clip where the dad and Shaun talk, the dad essentially tells Shaun he’s a failure, wishes he wasn’t born, how much Shaun ruined his life, etc. Also, when Shaun was young he had a pet rabbit who essentially acted as an unofficial ESA for him. The dad threw the bunny against the wall and killed it in a fit of rage.
I hate to destroy this scene, but in reality before his father dies, Shaun visits him one more time and they get into a big fight and his father says terrible things to him. The scene was so sad because Shaun wanted to get along with his father again, before he dies, but at the end it was reckless😓💔 The whole episode is so sad😭
@@Duskullite He said something like: You're a terrible son, I hate you. I never want to see you again. It's all your fault (It's been a while since I watched it And I also think Shaun also shouts at him, but I'm not sure :( )
it’s also so sad because his dad was abusive and Shaun had this pet rabbit that he would use to call himself down and his dad threw it against the wall killing it ❤️🩹🪽as a rabbit mom it was so sad 😭
@@Duskullite From what I remember, she told him she hated him, blamed Shaun for Steven's death, and said he was a terrible son After that, the hotel scene happens, where Shaun is between sad and upset about what happened, Glassman then asks Shaun if he wants to stay for the funeral but Shaun tells him no, then the scene passes where Shaun is restless and Lea calms and consoles him
The dad was abusive. Throwing the rabbit across the room wasn't just a one-off moment of anger. Shaun and his brother were scared of their dad and ended up running away. It wasnt one thing that made shaun hate his dad for life.
No no the way the show people with autism in the show is extremely exaggerated. Even with people with many various “ intensities” don’t experience half the stuff that this show try’s to show. My best friend is autistic and so is my little brother. They both have very different behaviours but have never shown any type of reaction like this to anything. It’s very harmful for the autistic community, many feeling even less seen and treated as if they aren’t people whilst others have to put up with people telling them they are autistic because they don’t act like this character.
@@Leelblouz I am sorry but just because your experiences with autism doesn't diminish that he is a good representation of extreme autism, I have a severely autistic uncle with the mind of a 9 year old but he is extremely smart himself when it comes to what he is passionate about he acts just like Shaun. Just because it doesn't relate to your personal experience does not mean it doesn't for others I think he is good representation for extreme autism, no he should not be the image for the entire spectrum but he is a good starting point for extreme autism, he doesn't just have autism either he has other behaviorial disabilities as well you should probably rewatch the show.
@Leelblouz Every autistic person is different I don't like being touched, often don't like talking, sounds bother me, I hate crowds there is also textures I absolutely hate touching. I'm stupidly good at masking though so most people would never know I even thought myself symbolism so everything was less black and white
He hated his father because his father tried to encourage him to do things despite his autism. His father knew he was different. He didn’t do anything bad to Shaun but in Shaun’s head he did. I understand Shaun because I do the same
@KeiraMarieASMR I just rewatched the full scene. After he tells Shaun he's "so different," he pauses and says, "But weak. You're like a spoiled little baby. You're damn right Stevie's death wasn't my fault. It was yours." And his mom tries to tell Shaun he's delirious from morphine. Dr Glassman tries to pull Shaun away, and his father says, "Yeah, run away."
Nope. As an autistic person he was forcing his son to be normal and not autstic. He was a bad father for not bothering to understand his son. Do not encourage people to ignore the autistim, its fundimentally apart of who they are.
@@dionmoviesclips personal evolution and adaptation do not cease to exist just because one is divergent. In the same way giving a standard child everything and supporting them entirely, it results in them having nothing to truly overcome, no skills being learned of how to exist without that, etc. It gives a false illusion of what the world is and how it works to the subconscious and person themselves. I'm far from saying throw them to the wolves or expect them to accomplish these things the same way, but don't discount their sentience and individuality either. They're capable and they're still people for the good and the bad.
However, aiding them in working through their difficulties and helping to grow is something we can do to help them become more, I wouldn’t be where I am today, right this instant if it wasn’t for the people who wanted to help me heal, those who are kind and loving and supportive and understanding. I owe so much to these people, so don’t give up hope, help those you love to heal.
@@TheGamingNekoOfficial I didn't say don't help them, I'm saying blindly catering to them and their divergences to make them more comfortable is not often helping them at all
WELL 😱😭😭😭 Even tho its a tv show. This part is makeing me cry . My mom just passed away yestruday morning at nurseinv home under hospice care. And in 2020 my dad passed away. SOOO THIS PART HITS ME HARD
@@rohaanmukherjee6193 thank you soo much. Ill be ok, ill cry on and off, but thats part of the healing. BUT MOM did call me couple nights befor her death, snd she did not know how use her cell no more, but she called mummbled weriedly But she did say love you and night. Next day i visited her again she asked for ice water and find movie for her to watch said love u. Didnt talk no more dosed off again. Next day, she passed away. Im still going to visit nurseing home to see other resdidence and staff i known them for 10 years or so. HUGS and thank u again
I see you. I hear you. I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. Hi remember tomorrow begins anew. Baby steps. You do matter so much and when you are ready you’ll deal with this the way you are meant to. 🙏 ❤
This is one of the best actors that I've ever seen in my life I have a real son that has autism I think he is an amazing son in my life I will never doubt his ability to know him more thank you for showing this kinda show we need more of shows like this
This is amazing! It shows that we are all special and to accept people for who they are not for what you want them to be. This young man is amazing! He is a blessing on what he is teaching.
Sometimes as a parent you have to make a call. He’s got one kid on one side of the river and one on the other. He had to get everyone back together. His dad wasn’t mean to him
This scene is ok and I think everyone understands the reasoning of the father. The reason why everyone hate this guy is, he killed his sons pet rabbit by throwing him against a wall.
Yeah, if that's what you consider parenting then that's bad parenting. Why did this only cross his mind at that point? Why was this not considered in advance? Being a parent, a responsible parent, is considering these thing sin advance so that you are not left in this situation where you have to fight an autistic child in the wilderness to get him to comply with your desires.
It’s kind of hard with neurodivergent people tho. To us it will seem mean. Bc when you aren’t neurodivergent you won’t understand how certain things will make us feel. Physical touch being probably the most sensitive part. So yes, most of parents and society will say he did a good thing, but he could’ve been better at trying to understand why he is the way that he is. Forcing someone to do something (especially neurodivergent people) will create more trauma. Hence needing support animals or therapy/medication.
Him shaking at the end hits hard. I know that feeling. One time my dog died and I just wanted to cry with my mum but my body wouldn’t stop shaking to the point it was painful. Bless my mum because she told me to go and walk around and refused to let me stay. I can tell by how he hit his foot that he was hurting not just mentally and hitting was the only thing to help
I'll be the paragraph person. Series: The Good Doctor Basically the younger guy (Shaun) is autistic and when he was younger his dad used to abuse him and treat him badly. He also had a bunny that used to calm him down but his dad killed it when he got mad. Here his dad is dying and Shaun is finally forgiving him. At the end the older guy Shaun basically looks up to like a father and Shaun got overwhelmed by his dad's death and to cope his foot started shaking which he didn't like.
Just adding a little more.. After shaun forgave his father, his father started saying that Shaun's brother's death is his fault and saying that he was never good enough, this scene had been cut off in this video. So thats why his legs were shaking not because his father died. 😊
His dad abused them when he was younger because he's autistic and his mom and brother stuck up for him. Then he had a bunny that his dad killed and him and his brother ran away and when they did, his brother fell off a train they were playing on and died.
The forgiveness and reconciliation process before the end is so relatable. Such a beautiful and purifying moment. The release!!! Been there. This scene breaks my heart because I know the feeling all to well❤❤❤❤
Bruh I don't like mud either lmao I feel him everytime I go into mud my foot just squishes down and I feel like I'm going to touch something I don't wanna touch (yes people Ik it's a movie/show/whatever)
When my baby starts panicking like Shaun after hearing about his dad's death, I want to help her so badly but even she doesn't always know what she needs. It breaks both of our hearts. 💔
He struggling to deal with his bad times with his father is so heartwrenching. He responding to his father's death is even more heartbreaking. I'm crying 😢 People DO have their own fragility that others might never imagine.
This series is titled “The Good Doctor.” It is a remake of a Korean medical drama from 2013, though more seasons and episodes were added. Remakes were made in several other countries too. •Korean version is simply “Good Doctor,” 2013 •American version is “The Good Doctor,” debuted in 2017 •Japanese remake, also titled “Good Doctor” 2018 •A Turkish version: “Mucize Doktor,” 2019 •A Hong Kong version “Life after Death,” 2020
People dont know that after that, Shaun's father shouted at him (he did much more but ive watched this episode a long time ago so i don't remember the details)
i've heard from other commenters, that this show was inspired(?) by another medical drama and it was korean, i forgot the title of it sadly 😅 edit: the show only has 20 episodes from what i've heard
@@harmonyoftheskies6777it’s true, Good Doctor is based on Korean series with the same name (Korean one has 20episodes) . Daniel Dae Kim bought the rights for his production company and adapted the American Good Doctor( with Shaun Murphy).
K-drama version was first, then remakes were made in several countries (including American version) The Korean version is simply “Good Doctor,” a shorter series from 2014. The American version is “The Good Doctor,” which has more seasons and episodes. There’s also a Japanese remake (also titled “Good Doctor”), a Turkish version (“Mucize Doktor”), and a Honk Kong version (“Life after Death”)
Wonderful actor. My youngest son is autistic - I believe this series raised awareness. We're fortunate that nobody in our family reacted like the father in the story.
That's great. Have one too. Her father's side of the family refuse to believe it, they say it's developmental delay and I'm raising her wrong. She didn't like visiting them (they force her to act "normal") but she adores my family. After getting help and getting her to interact with people and her environment in a better way, they're all like "told you she'll outgrow it". When she has bad days or displays behaviour they find "wrong", they lecture me on how to "correct" her. It was so frustrating, but I've learnt to just ignore them as they blab.
Can't understand how you cannot love your children. My love for my son is such a strong and bright reality it follows me any second of my existance. It is the only thing i never doubt.
As an autistic myself, I had to watch as someone passed in front of me, my grandmother died just before I was gonna call an ambulance for her as she wasn’t well for the past few days, then she just fell and passed, I was in a panicked state and even though I called the ambulance and nearby family to help me it was too late, I just sort of broke down, at first I was crying my heart out when it was announced, then my emotions just got, locked out, I barely spoke or talked to anyone about it for days and even prayed it was all a nasty dream, so seeing this kinda reminded me of that, as an autistic person I emote and act differently from others and even other autistics Seeing this reminded me of that and it’s honestly perfect how this side of grief in a autistic person is shown
Losing those close to you places you in a position to help those still here. That the purpose of life to aid every living thing. From my dog/animals to my plants all respond well under a loving heart. I miss my Michael and always will but I take care of all those around me as if I was helping him.
shaun had a tragic and traumatic history from his father aside from that scene. he was kicked out by his father from home and his sister accompanied her. however, his sister died trying to save him from falling...
@@KIReal7667they didn’t show the terrible stuff the dad did in this clip. He literally threw the kids pet rabbit at a wall and killed it. But also his child was clearly having an autistic meltdown and he didn’t seem to recognize or accommodate that in any way, so yes there is a problem with this clip in my opinion.
When my gran died, my cousin who had grown up with me said she had never seen me the way I was when we had the news, we didn’t know I had autism then but it makes sense, I didn’t get on with many people but my gran was special, she was like a second mother to me, I could go to her with almost any issue I had for example as a young boy I didn’t want the doctor going near my testicles ( he wanted to make sure I didn’t have lumps ) I refused ( may have had a fit to refuse, I was young and I don’t remember ) so rather than getting forced to have the doctor check, I asked my gran to check because though it was still embarrassing, she was one of the most special people in my life and I trusted her I miss you granny ( yes I call her granny and I’m 35, I don’t care what you think, just because she has been gone for 12 years it means nothing, no change )
Dads are the ones who have the most patience for their children and their deaths in life can be a scary thing to watch and it’s not always a wound that can heal fast enough
I searched on Netflix and it said it didn’t have it but it’s on prime video but you have to buy it though but House is free if you like watching that doctor show
@@baumeister5705 that sucks 🫤(not in a rude way)I love the good doctor but I don’t have any kind of vpn to watch it on Netflix me and my mamaw used to watch it all the time but I can’t remember what we watched it on
SPOILER ALERT! The time after Shaun forgives his dad, Shaun’s dad calls him weak even from his position (about to die). His dad is a true monster. Poor Shaun. He doesn’t just call him weak he was manipulating Shaun and showing his weakness to make Shaun think he changed. None of Shaun’s forgiveness meant anything to him.
As an autistic person, growing up with parents who punish 'autistic behavior', it's VERY HARD to forgive. I have no contact with my parents, because they've continued to be verbally abusive into my adult years. I worry about how their deaths will affect me. I miss them sometimes... But then I realize I'm missing who I WISHED they had/could've been. 😢
The Self Injurious Behavior is what broke my heart. I work with kids that are high needs autistic and seeing when they are upset to the point where they physically start hurting themselves always makes me want to cry. Because at that moment, they don’t know how to express themselves and that’s the only way that works for them. Emotions are huge and sometimes they just overwhelm people.
For some neurodivergent people, it's a way to 'stim' or process. My sister has autism. She does something similar to try and calm down after being overwhelmed by bouncing her legs.
@@Krysta1RoseI have that. People always accuse me of doing it on purpose. (Also. Not autistic… I think. I have some Similar traits to it. But never diagnosed.) When I’m stressed, anxious or bored. My leg, normally one, start bouncing repeatedly till I grab at it, smack it, etc
Neurodivergent people can be easily overstimulated or overwhelmed. This shaking is a way of relieving that tension rather than through an outburst. You often see autistic ppl with tics where they stim or vocalise or unfortunately less appropriate outbursts.
As the mother of an autistic child (an only child) my biggest fear is dying. Not because I’m afraid of dying, but because I’m afraid of not being there to protect them from my death.
Also, as an autistic female, we don't show emotions right away because we deal with it in our own way. It doesn't mean we are unfeeling, or don't have emotions. Infact, i feel alot more than anyone in my family and sometimes i get laugh at crying over something insignificant to them when it had meant something to me. So when i cry, i usually cry alone, that way I'm not made fun of
for those who dont know...
As a child, he had a rabbit he'd pet to console himself. His dad got angry and threw the rabbit against a wall, killing it.
Worse is that in the original his father was abusive and hated him for being different
That is horrible.
Whattttttt
Finally someone who acknowledges the original @aira6951
@@chelsealynzen-lewis1282 I be telling ppl about the original every chance I get. Like why does no one know about it 😭
Losing his brother when they were young and losing his dad as well. Heartbreaking
Actually if you watched the show his father couldn't help himself and had to throw in one last punch.
HE was a horrible abusive father to him. Even dying, the father turned on him and was very abusive.
Its life 🤷🏻♀️
His father was horrible
The father was abusive, so not really, but It kinda hard to tell.
I can say that as an autistic person, when you receive devastating news, it’s pretty difficult to react to it like the average person. Sometimes you don’t even react at all at and some people think you’re selfish when in reality you’re dealing with it on the inside because you don’t know how to properly display your emotions. For me, it’s like that.
I'm high functioning ashbugers it's a type of autism I'm like that when I lose people or things I love
It's like having one foot in the reality we share with others, and the rest is in the minds world
THANK YOU so very much for explaining!!! Patience and love is needed to gaining more understanding!!!
I've recently had a heart to heart with my adult son (Aspergers), three and a half years after his dad died very suddenly. All this time I've been walking on eggshells and he's been angry with me - we've had many nasty rows. He was very close to his dad and he made me feel like the wrong parent died. He wouldn't talk about how he was really feeling until recently. He's still broken and devastated. What he needed was for me to just love him and hug him and KNOW that he did still love me and need me to be his Mum, regardless of how things looked. I couldn't, until now, because I'm still grieving too and I was trying to avoid conflict - I really felt our relationship would never recover, which broke my heart. We have really turned a corner now and can talk easily again, about his dad too! I'm so thankful and happy that our relationship is restored. ❤
@@lynnatk50 oh my goodness, I am so sorry for your loss. Neither you or your son deserve to go through such an immeasurable amount of pain. I can tell that you were doing everything in your power to make sure that your son would feel better and as a parent, that is the best thing you can ever offer them. Just know that your efforts are never in vain because a parent that has a child with autism or Asperger’s can be some of the most challenging moments of their life. It will have its mixtures of ups and downs. And I’m also really sorry that your relationship suffered because of it. The best thing anyone can do for their loved one during trying times is to let them know that you’re always there for them no matter what. I hope you and your son feel better soon. ❤️
HIS acting is amazing.
You wouldn't think that he doesn't have autism
He doesn’t?!?
@@CLOUDYY_COFFEE_Xyeah the actor doesn’t but his acting skills are on par to another world
His ability to act as neurodivergent characters is really good, he also played as Norman Bates in The Bates Motel
😮 dont anyone know the season and episode ?
I’m more impressed by your ability to fit into society when you’re clearly mentally deficient.
as soon as i heard his pet rabbit got killed
*the only thing they fear is you* started intensifying in my head
Doom Slayer with autism? That actually sound preaty deam cool to be honest.
No way bro that’s so edgy and crazy when I took a huge sht skibidi toilet started playing 💯🔥
@@Cameron-ij8gx friend, chill that's classic. Let him.
@@Cameron-ij8gxshaking legs until jiggly biggy butty caseoh fallin'🥶😢
lol like doom 2. I think they retconned that lore, but I wish they kept it
Y'all skipped the scene where after having that heartfelt conversation the dad admits he never liked Shawn and hates him to the core and wished he had a better son. It triggered his autism and the old man had to drag him out of the room.
Apologies for saying "it triggered his autism." I meant a meltdown or an episode.
What? 😭💔
small correction: autism cant be "triggered", but a meltdown can. :)
Wait!!!!what!!!!! Please tell me this isn’t true!!!
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Because one day he ran away with his older brother from home because of his parents' behavior, you know,.. 🍸🍾 ..and also towards Shawn because of his (autism).. that day his older brother died (the reason why became a doctor), the best surgeon at the best surgical hospital in the world. And because of the death of his eldest son his father, remembering him again and blaming him because his f avorite son died, feels pain.
I think he didn't come home that day and was adopted by a famous doctor. ((The same one he carried his bunny with🐇 when his drunk father took him out of his hands and killed him against the wall))
He's here because his mother called him when she heard about him to see if she could cure his father's very advanced cancer.
They also said sorry to each other
Have you heard the saying drunk to death?🤣🍾🍸😷
THOMAS: M GOOD thanks GOD,I EDITED MY COMEMT for u!
@@EURIMAKEUPTUTORIALS it's true
Unfortunately, Shaun's last visit ended up in a fight and there was no reconciliation.
Such is life
That's so much worse
@@skyejacquesabsolutely
The worst part is that his skank of a mother still made excuses for her husband.
He's a heck of an actor
He's Charlie in the Charlie and the chocolate factory movie
@@fazliyasiththi5679 Jared and Simon Grace in the Spiderwick movie, too.
I just recently found out I’m autistic and it makes so much sense to me now. Sometimes I would react really big to small things and vice versa or it would be TOO BIG for the big things…it was rare I had a “normal” reaction to things
I'd like to start by saying, I pray your doing ok, dealing with your diagnosis, I'd imagine it may be hard for you. However, may it give you peace if mind knowing that you have some answers. I'm praying for you as you go forward in your life. I also pray you have good people in your life who will be there for you, that can help if you should need it and not hinder you. Much love and prayers for you. ❤
I'm 12 and I am autistic but mine is a bit different
Same bc my mom used yo get mad at me for acting really excited over something small like getting dinner but if i was in a dangerous situation like i was lost i would be so calm
@@LukeFlett what do you mean by yours is alittle bit different? I'm 50 and still learning about Autism. Just don't ever let anyone make you feel bad or different. If your verbal atleast you can communicate your thoughts and feels. Hopefully that will help you along. I'm praying for you. Keep your chin up and just do the best you can. That's all any of us can do. My prayers and love to you young person. You'll be ok. ❤😉
@@cherigoodrich782they’re autistic, not brain dead
I've felt that burden. Shaun's reaction when he heard of his father's death was similar to my reaction to my Grandmother's death. My parents had left to catch a plane to try and see her. They called me ten minutes later, and i couldnt figure out how i felt.
Shocked and very sad. Everyone reacts differently. You’re not the only one
My grandma passed in march, a couple of days later from my birthday. The feeling i had when they called me and told me she passed away, i went in the bathroom and couldn't stop shaking, it all felt unreal. Still does. How could i lose such a beautiful and lovely woman? 😢
I find that I tend to have a delayed reaction to something emotional until I have had time to process it.
It's been almost 2 years since my grandmother passed. I'm still pissed that I couldn't say goodbye
I'm the same. Sort of... I was in college, but home for the summer. My mom, step-dad, sister, and I, and my Uncle, who worked out of the country (we had to plan around his schedule. It was June) , we were at my grandma's house to clean it out. She had passed in February. My mom and step-dad had to handle everything just them, my Uncle and I both could not get flights in time to be at the funeral.
My stepmom called and said that our grandma on the other side was failing and we needed to get up there stat if we wanted to say goodbye. It was an 8 hour drive north. My sister and I were ready in like 15 minutes. Our other aunt was going to take us so our mom could keep working. Our cousin had a 2 or 3 year old child (I was 22 or 23, so she couldn't have been more than 18! We hadn't seen them in years and years....) , and it took her and her mom 3 hours to get across town to where we were. Like a 20 minute drive. I know prepping a toddler to go on a longer trip takes a lot of planning, but at the same time in a situation like that, you grab tons of extra and sort out what you really need later. (I currently have 2 teenagers, so I've been there)
We missed getting to say goodbye by less than an hour. 😢 I'm 45 now and it still gets to me.
It breaks my heart to see a parent that can’t accept their child the way they are. Whether someone’s kid is gay, straight, autistic, neurodivergent, disabled, etc. it’s a parents job and honor to love their kid unconditionally
I love his portrayal of stimming and having emotions run wild. Normally I’m a “high functioning” adult. People sometimes don’t believe me when I tell them I have autism. But when something drastic or unexpected happens I lose control.
I was eating popcorn one time and the crown of my tooth broke. I looked at it in my hand and felt the tooth with my tongue. There was such sensitivity that I started to panic. My mind went blank and I started shaking and crying and hitting myself in the head. At the time, I had no insurance or very much money to pay for my tooth to be fixed. Somehow it all worked out..but I hadn’t had a meltdown like that in a while
❤🙏🏾
Basically despite what this clip is showing, the dads an asshole. As a child, Shaun was treated horribly by his father. After this clip where the dad and Shaun talk, the dad essentially tells Shaun he’s a failure, wishes he wasn’t born, how much Shaun ruined his life, etc. Also, when Shaun was young he had a pet rabbit who essentially acted as an unofficial ESA for him. The dad threw the bunny against the wall and killed it in a fit of rage.
I can’t anymore this is just so sad😭😭
I hate to destroy this scene, but in reality before his father dies, Shaun visits him one more time and they get into a big fight and his father says terrible things to him.
The scene was so sad because Shaun wanted to get along with his father again, before he dies, but at the end it was reckless😓💔
The whole episode is so sad😭
What did the father say
He said Womp womp@@Duskullite
@@Duskullite He said something like:
You're a terrible son, I hate you.
I never want to see you again.
It's all your fault
(It's been a while since I watched it
And I also think Shaun also shouts at him, but I'm not sure :(
)
it’s also so sad because his dad was abusive and Shaun had this pet rabbit that he would use to call himself down and his dad threw it against the wall killing it ❤️🩹🪽as a rabbit mom it was so sad 😭
@@Duskullite From what I remember, she told him she hated him, blamed Shaun for Steven's death, and said he was a terrible son
After that, the hotel scene happens, where Shaun is between sad and upset about what happened, Glassman then asks Shaun if he wants to stay for the funeral but Shaun tells him no, then the scene passes where Shaun is restless and Lea calms and consoles him
Gosh he’s a good actor
Considering the rabbit scene
Its wild that him getting carried is what made him hate his dad
So you didn't watch the series if you think this clip is the only reason
The dad was abusive. Throwing the rabbit across the room wasn't just a one-off moment of anger.
Shaun and his brother were scared of their dad and ended up running away. It wasnt one thing that made shaun hate his dad for life.
Bro didn't he throw his rabbit at the wall
If I remember correctly yeah he did… was this supposed to make us feel bad for him? Bc nah bro f that
the dad threw shauns RABBIT into the wall ?
edit : HOLY SHIT I WAS LIKE ACTUALLY GONE WHEN I TYPED THIS LMFAOOOO I MEANT TO TYPE RABBIT NOT FATHER
@@kaijuteeth ...what?
@@kaijuteethhuh
@@kaijuteethlmaoo
Autism must be so hard,hell just being a normal joe is a challenge. I sound like a broken record... EMPATHY, COMPASSION, KINDNESS 😮 SMILE 😁
No no the way the show people with autism in the show is extremely exaggerated. Even with people with many various “ intensities” don’t experience half the stuff that this show try’s to show. My best friend is autistic and so is my little brother. They both have very different behaviours but have never shown any type of reaction like this to anything. It’s very harmful for the autistic community, many feeling even less seen and treated as if they aren’t people whilst others have to put up with people telling them they are autistic because they don’t act like this character.
If you never had a girlfriend, I’m fucked for life…
@@Leelblouz I am sorry but just because your experiences with autism doesn't diminish that he is a good representation of extreme autism, I have a severely autistic uncle with the mind of a 9 year old but he is extremely smart himself when it comes to what he is passionate about he acts just like Shaun. Just because it doesn't relate to your personal experience does not mean it doesn't for others I think he is good representation for extreme autism, no he should not be the image for the entire spectrum but he is a good starting point for extreme autism, he doesn't just have autism either he has other behaviorial disabilities as well you should probably rewatch the show.
@@Leelblouzautism is a spectrum and everyone is different; you said that yourself. To say it’s not accurate is putting what autism looks like in a box
@Leelblouz Every autistic person is different I don't like being touched, often don't like talking, sounds bother me, I hate crowds there is also textures I absolutely hate touching. I'm stupidly good at masking though so most people would never know I even thought myself symbolism so everything was less black and white
He hated his father because his father tried to encourage him to do things despite his autism. His father knew he was different. He didn’t do anything bad to Shaun but in Shaun’s head he did. I understand Shaun because I do the same
Cept for throwing his pet rabbit at the wall and blaming him for his brother's death/not being a good son
@@stormwright8300 he’s different and nobody understood that. He wasn’t a bad son. Even his dad said so
@KeiraMarieASMR I just rewatched the full scene. After he tells Shaun he's "so different," he pauses and says, "But weak. You're like a spoiled little baby. You're damn right Stevie's death wasn't my fault. It was yours." And his mom tries to tell Shaun he's delirious from morphine. Dr Glassman tries to pull Shaun away, and his father says, "Yeah, run away."
His father killed his pet, on purpose.
That's abuse.
Shawn is a good kid, a good man, but his father was abusive.
Nope. As an autistic person he was forcing his son to be normal and not autstic. He was a bad father for not bothering to understand his son. Do not encourage people to ignore the autistim, its fundimentally apart of who they are.
.he is so kind and compassionate
As someone with similar issues, catering unquestionably to neurodivergency often makes it worse
Really? Can you tell me about it?
@@dionmoviesclips personal evolution and adaptation do not cease to exist just because one is divergent. In the same way giving a standard child everything and supporting them entirely, it results in them having nothing to truly overcome, no skills being learned of how to exist without that, etc. It gives a false illusion of what the world is and how it works to the subconscious and person themselves.
I'm far from saying throw them to the wolves or expect them to accomplish these things the same way, but don't discount their sentience and individuality either. They're capable and they're still people for the good and the bad.
However, aiding them in working through their difficulties and helping to grow is something we can do to help them become more, I wouldn’t be where I am today, right this instant if it wasn’t for the people who wanted to help me heal, those who are kind and loving and supportive and understanding. I owe so much to these people, so don’t give up hope, help those you love to heal.
@@TheGamingNekoOfficial I didn't say don't help them, I'm saying blindly catering to them and their divergences to make them more comfortable is not often helping them at all
Im autistic to, but my communications are pretty good, and i got empathie
WELL 😱😭😭😭 Even tho its a tv show.
This part is makeing me cry .
My mom just passed away yestruday morning at nurseinv home under hospice care.
And in 2020 my dad passed away.
SOOO THIS PART HITS ME HARD
Sorry for your loss 😔
@@rohaanmukherjee6193 thank you soo much.
Ill be ok, ill cry on and off, but thats part of the healing.
BUT MOM did call me couple nights befor her death, snd she did not know how use her cell no more, but she called mummbled weriedly But she did say love you and night.
Next day i visited her again she asked for ice water and find movie for her to watch said love u.
Didnt talk no more dosed off again.
Next day, she passed away.
Im still going to visit nurseing home to see other resdidence and staff i known them for 10 years or so.
HUGS and thank u again
I see you. I hear you. I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. Hi remember tomorrow begins anew. Baby steps. You do matter so much and when you are ready you’ll deal with this the way you are meant to. 🙏 ❤
Tuff
Sorry for your losses ❤
This is one of the best actors that I've ever seen in my life I have a real son that has autism I think he is an amazing son in my life I will never doubt his ability to know him more thank you for showing this kinda show we need more of shows like this
aw this is so sweet 😭
If There's ONE person in ANY series who Deserves an OSCAR.... It's Freddy Highmore ( Dr Shaun Murphy)
Oscar's are for Films, the equivalent for Television shows is an Emmy.
@@Gambit-Lobo thank you, I couldn't think of which award was for what! All I could think of was Oscar like the OP 😅
Oh, this episode hurt so badly. I'm still sad its ended for good
Which episode is this pls❤
What's the name of the show?
@@matrixza3062 the good doctor
I am so surprised on his acting like dude that man should get some award for real
the foot moving is real tho
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This is amazing! It shows that we are all special and to accept people for who they are not for what you want them to be. This young man is amazing! He is a blessing on what he is teaching.
Sometimes as a parent you have to make a call. He’s got one kid on one side of the river and one on the other. He had to get everyone back together. His dad wasn’t mean to him
This scene is ok and I think everyone understands the reasoning of the father. The reason why everyone hate this guy is, he killed his sons pet rabbit by throwing him against a wall.
Yeah, if that's what you consider parenting then that's bad parenting.
Why did this only cross his mind at that point? Why was this not considered in advance?
Being a parent, a responsible parent, is considering these thing sin advance so that you are not left in this situation where you have to fight an autistic child in the wilderness to get him to comply with your desires.
It’s kind of hard with neurodivergent people tho. To us it will seem mean. Bc when you aren’t neurodivergent you won’t understand how certain things will make us feel. Physical touch being probably the most sensitive part. So yes, most of parents and society will say he did a good thing, but he could’ve been better at trying to understand why he is the way that he is. Forcing someone to do something (especially neurodivergent people) will create more trauma. Hence needing support animals or therapy/medication.
If I remember this isn't the only thing the dad did
He threw his pet rabbit to the wall and killed it
That's all I remember
His father murdered his only friend, a rabbit that he would pet in times of distress. You have no fucking idea how "mean" he really was.
"Passed away"
blud its not tht hard to watch to the end of a short
Him shaking at the end hits hard. I know that feeling. One time my dog died and I just wanted to cry with my mum but my body wouldn’t stop shaking to the point it was painful. Bless my mum because she told me to go and walk around and refused to let me stay. I can tell by how he hit his foot that he was hurting not just mentally and hitting was the only thing to help
For some reason, a bunch of Good Doctor shorts have been popping up on my fyp. I’ve never seen this
me too lol
Same here
Same
Same
You took interest in watching it, TH-cam algorithm sends you clips based on the time you spend on last clip.
I thought he killed his dad in the first episode.
His brother not father
@@RashmiSingh-we1nuDid he really kill his brother ?
@@edenangel2267 He slipped when they were playing on top a bus.
@@gilgamesh8681 Yes it was an accident ...he didn't kill him as the first comment implies ...
That's a different show ur thinking of bates motel
I relate to this as I act the same way Shaun did in the end of the video when I'm overstimulated
My anxiety when I’m mad or hurt can get the best of me. I understand that part.
honestly same.
Very touching.
My grandson is brilliant but not like others.
I'll be the paragraph person.
Series: The Good Doctor
Basically the younger guy (Shaun) is autistic and when he was younger his dad used to abuse him and treat him badly. He also had a bunny that used to calm him down but his dad killed it when he got mad. Here his dad is dying and Shaun is finally forgiving him. At the end the older guy Shaun basically looks up to like a father and Shaun got overwhelmed by his dad's death and to cope his foot started shaking which he didn't like.
We appreciate you
Just adding a little more..
After shaun forgave his father, his father started saying that Shaun's brother's death is his fault and saying that he was never good enough, this scene had been cut off in this video. So thats why his legs were shaking not because his father died. 😊
@@giacinimak1212 Thanks for the clarification! I watched that episode quite a while ago so I didn't remember the exact details
Season 3 episode 10, "Friends and Family."
Why are they estranged??? Anyone?
His dad abused them when he was younger because he's autistic and his mom and brother stuck up for him. Then he had a bunny that his dad killed and him and his brother ran away and when they did, his brother fell off a train they were playing on and died.
@@angelhamilton8446plus the dad drank alot
Because he is a unforgiving selfish entitled twat!
Hoa acting skills sends chills down my spine.... I can literally feel the emotions right through.... Amazing acting... 🥺🔥🔥
The forgiveness and reconciliation process before the end is so relatable. Such a beautiful and purifying moment. The release!!! Been there. This scene breaks my heart because I know the feeling all to well❤❤❤❤
But then the father changed his behavior and told Shaun that he never accepted him
The conversation ended in an argument leading to Shaun having a meltdown and getting dragged out of the room, not really a beautiful and purifying.
Bruh I don't like mud either lmao I feel him everytime I go into mud my foot just squishes down and I feel like I'm going to touch something I don't wanna touch (yes people Ik it's a movie/show/whatever)
Hrs the most amazing incredible actor ever 😢❤
If im correct the old man at the end is Odin from God if War
indeed it is, amazing actor
his name is richard schiff btw
When my baby starts panicking like Shaun after hearing about his dad's death, I want to help her so badly but even she doesn't always know what she needs. It breaks both of our hearts. 💔
Man in at work about to cry I need to go and watch the seasons I missed 😢❤
He struggling to deal with his bad times with his father is so heartwrenching. He responding to his father's death is even more heartbreaking. I'm crying 😢
People DO have their own fragility that others might never imagine.
Which episode is this?
Season 3 ep 10
Thank you for sharing!! 🌻
Series name pls
Good doctor
@@greentquoisedevil3897 sure any time
I don't liie this show that much, but when he broke down and started screaming at his dad, damn was the best part of the show
What a story 😭❤
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This series is titled “The Good Doctor.”
It is a remake of a Korean medical drama from 2013, though more seasons and episodes were added.
Remakes were made in several other countries too.
•Korean version is simply “Good Doctor,” 2013
•American version is “The Good Doctor,” debuted in 2017
•Japanese remake, also titled “Good Doctor” 2018
•A Turkish version: “Mucize Doktor,” 2019
•A Hong Kong version “Life after Death,” 2020
Series: The Good Doctor
Hes an amazing actor. I got so invested with his character i felt the pain of losing his father. Truly amazing.
That woman played in a lot of TV shows and movies one I liked was lonesome dove movie...
Shaun's portrayal was awesome.
It is really the actor have autism,? Or he just act so good,,...?
he's just acting
He is really THAT good!!!
I looked it up it says it doesn’t have it.i searched on Netflix btw not Google
He's just that good
People dont know that after that, Shaun's father shouted at him (he did much more but ive watched this episode a long time ago so i don't remember the details)
So there is a turkish drama called mucize doktor which story is the same as this movie's story so can anybody tell me that which one is copypasted???
i've heard from other commenters, that this show was inspired(?) by another medical drama and it was korean, i forgot the title of it sadly 😅
edit: the show only has 20 episodes from what i've heard
That's not true this is a medical drama show about an autistic doctor and the show is called the good doctor@@asaichii
@@harmonyoftheskies6777it’s true, Good Doctor is based on Korean series with the same name (Korean one has 20episodes) . Daniel Dae Kim bought the rights for his production company and adapted the American Good Doctor( with Shaun Murphy).
It's inspired by a Korean drama of the same name
K-drama version was first, then remakes were made in several countries (including American version)
The Korean version is simply “Good Doctor,” a shorter series from 2014. The American version is “The Good Doctor,” which has more seasons and episodes.
There’s also a Japanese remake (also titled “Good Doctor”), a Turkish version (“Mucize Doktor”), and a Honk Kong version (“Life after Death”)
Wonderful actor. My youngest son is autistic - I believe this series raised awareness. We're fortunate that nobody in our family reacted like the father in the story.
That's great. Have one too. Her father's side of the family refuse to believe it, they say it's developmental delay and I'm raising her wrong.
She didn't like visiting them (they force her to act "normal") but she adores my family. After getting help and getting her to interact with people and her environment in a better way, they're all like "told you she'll outgrow it". When she has bad days or displays behaviour they find "wrong", they lecture me on how to "correct" her.
It was so frustrating, but I've learnt to just ignore them as they blab.
Parenting is hard 😢
Can't understand how you cannot love your children. My love for my son is such a strong and bright reality it follows me any second of my existance. It is the only thing i never doubt.
Movie name?
It’s a show the good doctor on Hulu
Season 3
The Good doctor TV show
Tv Show is Good Doctor
Family Guy
As an autistic myself, I had to watch as someone passed in front of me, my grandmother died just before I was gonna call an ambulance for her as she wasn’t well for the past few days, then she just fell and passed, I was in a panicked state and even though I called the ambulance and nearby family to help me it was too late, I just sort of broke down, at first I was crying my heart out when it was announced, then my emotions just got, locked out, I barely spoke or talked to anyone about it for days and even prayed it was all a nasty dream, so seeing this kinda reminded me of that, as an autistic person I emote and act differently from others and even other autistics
Seeing this reminded me of that and it’s honestly perfect how this side of grief in a autistic person is shown
What is the name of the series ??
Good doctor
The good doctor
Movie Series: The good doctor
It is available in Netflix
I usually dont cry for these kinds of videos, but this one actually made me tear up
Ayyy, thats odin from god of war ragnarok!😲
His acting is at another level
What is this show called
The good doctor
Idk why but I want say it one more time
😂
The good doctor❤
He's my Norman Bates forever
@@amybowen5800 HUH?
@@Your_local_Equestrian-eu4ezhe played Norman Bates in Bates Motel. Fun fact, he was also Charlie in Charlie And the chocolate factory
Losing those close to you places you in a position to help those still here. That the purpose of life to aid every living thing. From my dog/animals to my plants all respond well under a loving heart. I miss my Michael and always will but I take care of all those around me as if I was helping him.
No aging make up
How did this made me cry....😢
Series name?
the good doctor
Bros foot turned into a helicopter 😂
Michael Trucco looks too young to play older shauns dad xP
shaun had a tragic and traumatic history from his father aside from that scene. he was kicked out by his father from home and his sister accompanied her. however, his sister died trying to save him from falling...
Was she shauns mother or aunt??
Mother
Movie name: The Good Doctor
They look like us now.
This was a heartbreaking episode
Shitty dads, I’ve been there 😅😂😭
Shitty children, I've seen there.
Ur pfp says it all
@@KIReal7667they didn’t show the terrible stuff the dad did in this clip. He literally threw the kids pet rabbit at a wall and killed it. But also his child was clearly having an autistic meltdown and he didn’t seem to recognize or accommodate that in any way, so yes there is a problem with this clip in my opinion.
He is not a shitty dad
@@hannahmarie7706tbf the person you’re replying to didn’t know that
When my gran died, my cousin who had grown up with me said she had never seen me the way I was when we had the news, we didn’t know I had autism then but it makes sense, I didn’t get on with many people but my gran was special, she was like a second mother to me, I could go to her with almost any issue I had for example as a young boy I didn’t want the doctor going near my testicles ( he wanted to make sure I didn’t have lumps ) I refused ( may have had a fit to refuse, I was young and I don’t remember ) so rather than getting forced to have the doctor check, I asked my gran to check because though it was still embarrassing, she was one of the most special people in my life and I trusted her
I miss you granny ( yes I call her granny and I’m 35, I don’t care what you think, just because she has been gone for 12 years it means nothing, no change )
Could someone tell me what the name of this program is, please. Thank you 😊
The good doctor
The good doctor
The good doctor
This was a beautiful episode
bro what sires is this???
**series
Series name: the good doctor
The good doctor
The good doctor
Ty guys
Dads are the ones who have the most patience for their children and their deaths in life can be a scary thing to watch and it’s not always a wound that can heal fast enough
Does it have in netflix
Yes
I searched on Netflix and it said it didn’t have it but it’s on prime video but you have to buy it though but House is free if you like watching that doctor show
Im watching it on netflix
If you have a vpn
@@baumeister5705 that sucks 🫤(not in a rude way)I love the good doctor but I don’t have any kind of vpn to watch it on Netflix me and my mamaw used to watch it all the time but I can’t remember what we watched it on
SPOILER ALERT!
The time after Shaun forgives his dad, Shaun’s dad calls him weak even from his position (about to die). His dad is a true monster. Poor Shaun. He doesn’t just call him weak he was manipulating Shaun and showing his weakness to make Shaun think he changed. None of Shaun’s forgiveness meant anything to him.
Episode
season 3 episode 10
He’s had a unforgiving heart towards his father and waisted all those years were he could have been loving on him now you want to cry wow 😢😢😢😢
Is that a certain kind of stimming because I do that a lot? With my foot
Ouh for me, I do that when I'm in extreme nervous
@@vanithamanimaran7555 sometimes I do it randomly the most times I do it when I'm happy
Yes
As an autistic person, growing up with parents who punish 'autistic behavior', it's VERY HARD to forgive. I have no contact with my parents, because they've continued to be verbally abusive into my adult years. I worry about how their deaths will affect me. I miss them sometimes... But then I realize I'm missing who I WISHED they had/could've been. 😢
So sad
You know its rough news, when Odin himself tells you in person.
I fell what this guy's dose I lost my dad here a few years ago and I didn't handle it to well ether
The Self Injurious Behavior is what broke my heart. I work with kids that are high needs autistic and seeing when they are upset to the point where they physically start hurting themselves always makes me want to cry. Because at that moment, they don’t know how to express themselves and that’s the only way that works for them.
Emotions are huge and sometimes they just overwhelm people.
Someone explain me what is that shaking leg got to do with stress?? Happens to me all the time and i'm confused
For some neurodivergent people, it's a way to 'stim' or process. My sister has autism. She does something similar to try and calm down after being overwhelmed by bouncing her legs.
@@Krysta1RoseI have that. People always accuse me of doing it on purpose. (Also. Not autistic… I think. I have some Similar traits to it. But never diagnosed.)
When I’m stressed, anxious or bored. My leg, normally one, start bouncing repeatedly till I grab at it, smack it, etc
Neurodivergent people can be easily overstimulated or overwhelmed. This shaking is a way of relieving that tension rather than through an outburst. You often see autistic ppl with tics where they stim or vocalise or unfortunately less appropriate outbursts.
As the mother of an autistic child (an only child) my biggest fear is dying. Not because I’m afraid of dying, but because I’m afraid of not being there to protect them from my death.
Missed what????? Abuse!!!
What abuse
@@LB06_he was an abusive father, ignore shaun's issues and even murder his rabbit pet by slamming it into a wall
His acting his really great ❤
His Father Was So Evil To Him When He Was A Kid
Dude you don’t even know any back story. You’re just going based off of what you see.
No he wasn’t
When you are stupid and don't understand the plot
No he wasn't... he gave Sean the greatest gift a dad can give... the gift of self reliance
😂😂😂 delete the comment there's still time
Also, as an autistic female, we don't show emotions right away because we deal with it in our own way. It doesn't mean we are unfeeling, or don't have emotions. Infact, i feel alot more than anyone in my family and sometimes i get laugh at crying over something insignificant to them when it had meant something to me. So when i cry, i usually cry alone, that way I'm not made fun of