@@alphabogeyman7462 You can get action! Look unless you've been living under a rock or a cave you should be aware that modern women are not relationship worthy ,only sex worthy! Meaning you cannot create bonds with todays modern women! You can try to create bonds, but you'll fail miserably I can assure you of that! Hence why men today have resorted to prostitution, escorts, dolls, porn, video games etc.....Less of a fuss for a simple act that men need!
You are correct, with the exception being Africa. The median age for the African continent is 18.8 years. In fact, Niger has a median age of 14.52 years, Central African Republic 14.82, Chad 15.12 with Ugandan Amgola, Mali and DR Congo all registering from 16.1 to 16.8 years.
Japan’s work culture is toxic and disastrous for the country’s social well-being. Plenty of Japanese people do seem to understand this, but still nothing changes. It’s depressing.
Work culture is one of the factor but the main factor is different, it's got to do with attraction. Its mostly just the brootal reality of being an average looking man especially in asia where most are seen as unattractive due to neotony (non-masculine looks). Asian Women just simply don't feel anything for their husbands (whom they settle at 30+) in japan...this leads to the husbands "cheating with escorts" or going to "brothels" and the women is okay with it because : 1. She doesn't have to have sex with her husband anymore (its disgusting). 2. The husband won't leave the family . There are documentaries explaining this from a scientific point of view (with studies) but of course they are shadow banned because it exposes a cruel reality of human nature.
@@RobertDniroLHCInteresting you thought it was the men. I find Asian men super attractive, but I don't understand Asian beauty standards for women. They look like frail little girls whose limbs can break off at any point.
My point is... I don't think it's a physical attraction problem. Much more inclined to believe it's a work culture problem. The Japanese need to recognize that people can't be working such long hours. 8 hours and clock out. Alcohol as a form to bond with co-workers is REALLY bad. Too many people drinking excessively instead of spending their free time with their spouse and kids. Key words: FREE time
Lets be honest guys , this is a world wide problem. No one is having relationships due to fear of infidelity , economic decline , and people have a ego problem.
infidelity is a big one fr, women have too many options online and on dating apps, ditching someone easily like they are not even human or cheating on them is so easy for them because they can explore the other 300 options they have. This is a reactionary movement
it's worse in Asia. Your childhood is like wake up and come home at 11pm. Then have nights where you study until 1am. Then you get to the work force and your bosss expects you to pretty much live there working.
@@skoopdiddywoop8565as a guy I gotta say blaming it on women having too many options online is so lame. This notion that women didn’t have options before dating apps is laughable too. If a woman has a job or is sociable and go’s out other guys are gonna come across her and that’s what you have to deal with. But yeah Cheating is wrong but no man or woman is wrong for breaking up with someone no matter what reason, no one is entitled to someone staying in a relationship with them.
@@Jackholiday1025 not true, womens options became a hundred folds. you could meet women before at outside places sure... so u would have to compete with your local town or city but now its the whole country and men from other countries thanks to dating apps, if u deny that then uve got low iq. cheating happens alot more on the womens side, there is a statistic that shows that 1/3 of men aged 18-35 are virgins. while the opposite is not true, u can hardly find a virgin woman. if that alone dosnt prove that women have easy access to sex now days through dating apps and hookup culture then nothing will prove it to you.
Objects like you are another reason why men are staying single. Not only is it extremely expensive to have family, but most women are unworthy coom Garden tools who don't want families in the first place. Its a lose lose situation.@@CordeliaWagner1999
I'm 34 and I live alone and enjoy watching fishing videos for fun. I actually enjoy being alone and spending my money on myself. I can relate with Nakamura..
Iv lived alone my hole life n would need to find a really good chick if she was going to move in n in talking about 38 years on my own n its the grouse. wat country u live in Bro, Australia me?
@@extremepsyche3135So in other words, he needs to be a good slave for the economy and do what's best for it rather than what brings him peace? Got it.
Nah the woman is solely responsible for everything going on in Japan. The USA is close. I remember a lady in Japan saying her husband should find a hooker cause sex is a chore for her. She said it in her own way. A few of them said that in that street interview. They suck.
I'm chinese and I travel to Japan every month for work and I can say that while they are super respectful they are also super self controlled to the point that they show no feelings. I don't hang out with japanese people not because don't like them it's just because I like to go out have a beer, and just openly talk to my friends about any topic which it's super hard for japanese people to do so. And every time me and my foreigners co-workers go have lunch we always have fun and chill but you can see a lot of japanese people eating by themself... I hope they can change and be less defensive with their lifes
Why should they change when lack of socialization doesn’t have any significant negative impact on their lives? Especially considering the fact that the life expectancy in Japan is longer than in your own country of China? You talk about hanging out with foreigner friends and having beer, the next thing you do after that is promiscuity. I think the Japanese lifestyle is much better, like there is nothing wrong in eating alone in a restaurant.
@@mikehair5651whats the point of living a ling if you are living it this way! Just enjoy life and be happy dont need to make weird social cues for the sake of making them!
@@zuhasajid900 enjoy life and die early? I would rather live like the Japanese and have a long life than “enjoy” and live a short life. And you asked what the point is? Well it is about a long life expectancy. Or doesn’t it matter to you at all?
I have worked months without a day off. Holidays it didn't matter. Got in trouble if I got sick. And this is common for many of us in America. Working from day to night just to be able to afford a home. In high school you had a 5 day school week sure. But many of us had jobs as well.
Just in case you still feel shocked, I'm a lab analyst and I'm seriously considering starting making contents online, perhaps it's more profitable than my actual job.
@@kuyab9122 not yet. I haven't taken the step. But probably in the following months I will be busy moving out, you know, migrating. A very honest youtuber (who has the silver plate) told me he lasted 7 months without receiving anything before he started monetizing. That was chilling.
It’s funny how older people in America accuse younger people of being selfish for not wanting kids. Yet the same thing is happening in Japan, so there is something else going on. Maybe relationships are too difficult to balance with work. More money and time to raise children would be helpful. If the powers that be want us to reproduce, maybe they should cut us some slack.
They don't want you to reproduce which is why they push LGBTQ things and feminism. You are the carbon they want to reduce and in the next few years AI and robotics will replace you. Welcome to the future you wont be included in it just like 80% of mankind.
Actually a lot of older people are complaining to the government for putting their kids in this situation with increase in prices and cost of living. Saw a few tik toks and news reports of this.
What's odd, and doubly odd since you don't even realize it, is that you ever thought sex is something to be sought, that it's a transactional thing. If you don't want to have a close, intimate relationship, then "seeking sex" is bound to lead to disappointment and apathy.
Problem is, long work hours and work being more valuable in Japan. Everything is expensive and apartments too small. When I lived in Japan, I lived in a 12m² apartment. The host clubs sound very fun, but mostly only japanese women are allowed in there and second, it easily happens that women spend too much money there. They fall in love, but the love is never, or in very rare cases, are on both sides. Some men there make a lot of money with that. Currently, in all western and developed countries, actually in all first world countries, we have this problem currently. Everything expensive, work and relationships just don't work out anymore. It got way much harder nowadays than it was in the past. And what I have noticed, the trust in humanity, has reached a low point. So if you can't trust, how can you find a person? And with the current AI, more and more people fall in love with bots and turn to them. And they evolve daily. I am more into that field and also working there. So one week ago I thought, "Wouldn't it be nice if bot can do this?" and now they can already. Bots and AI evolve now at an extreme speed. It is super nice, but the consequence of it is, no real human relationships. And because some here were shocked about sex dolls. To get to sex dolls, via online, is for the first world very easy. But can be expensive. But when I look online, so many men already have sex dolls at home. And, I can't say it enough, but only putting the market on sex dolls for men, is not enough. Women also feel lonely and want sex. Not only men, and not only men feel lonely these days.
There is a male sex dolls for woman too. Moreover sex toys are more common in woman society than in man. It stigmatized in male society, so males are likely will hide this hobby. (may be not in JP and China, as those countries more patriarchatic) Consequences is aging humanity (except India and Africa) which make more economic pressure. Also video forgot one common issue - novadys woman do not want to struggle to give birth (and i think humanity will sooner or later implement birthes outside woman body)
There are lots of paid boyfriend escorts in japan. From what I saw. It's very weird world. Work life balance is being ignored on a world wide platform.
I think sex dolls are more common for men because if you're just looking for sex, the average woman has it easier to find a one-time-partner. There are also 3-6% more boys born than girls. Even in countries where it says that there are more women, those are mostly elderly women. In younger generations, there are always more men, they just die earlier.
They’re having sex. Prostitution is legal. They’re just not having sex with a regular partner. Also something like 80% of married Japanese people cheat but they don’t consider it cheating if there’s no love confession.
Thing is that the "cheating" has to be consensual with the partner. If one of both does it behind the other's back, it still counts and will bring chaos to the household.
If they don't considering cheating if there's no love confession. It probably shouldn't be surprising since even so much as an "I love you" is not said very often if ever.
Prostitution in Japan is NOT LEGAL you idiot. Educate yourself by reading the links below: elaws.e-gov.go.jp/document?lawid=331AC0000000118 ja.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%A3%B2%E6%98%A5%E9%98%B2%E6%AD%A2%E6%B3%95#:~:text=%E5%A3%B2%E6%98%A5%E9%98%B2%E6%AD%A2%E6%B3%95%EF%BC%88%E3%81%B0%E3%81%84%E3%81%97%E3%82%85%E3%82%93,%E6%97%A5%E6%9C%AC%E3%81%AE%E6%B3%95%E5%BE%8B%E3%81%A7%E3%81%82%E3%82%8B%E3%80%82 Those videos about Japanese women cheating is FAKE NEWS. Watch Asagi's Life on TH-cam to get to know the REAL JAPANESE WOMEN! th-cam.com/video/41k5xz-_cwM/w-d-xo.htmlsi=EcMSs2ItzeelXAjF th-cam.com/video/IpSOLUo3c6s/w-d-xo.htmlsi=_4ZaKoTvC_VwnpYJ th-cam.com/video/6hd7jMK2OJw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=-pz3MK_3iYhTbhxm It’s not fair to pinpoint the cheating stereotype as a reason to make Japan look bad. guidable.co/culture/cheating-in-japan-how-common-is-it/
38 Years old and I am alone. Marriage feels like unnecessary liability (eventually results with having children) financially. Maybe Japan having more problems than other countries but it will be same everywhere. Give it 3-7 years and population decline will show up in graphs because of upkeep cost of family & children(s).
I think in Western countries, Europe and North America, it is even worse. At least in Japan, if you dare to approach women, you are gonna get laid. In the US you have to pay even to jerk off, because feminists normalised OnlyFans, and it is full of simps.
@@ROVA00 Socialization is simply not always a positive experience for everyone. What society considers "normal" tends to be things that have to be enforced by social pressure, such as shaming or ostracization, of which your comment is a good example. If people weren't stigmatized for wanting to be alone, it would probably be a lot more common worldwide, as we're seeing in Japan.
@@maelstrom2313 I’m not a sociologist but somehow I don’t think “wanting to be alone” is a natural healthy state for human beings. Human being are naturally social animals, like dogs and chimps. I could be wrong, but my hypothesis is that humans that want to be alone or have fear of socialization are more of a disorder caused by our social fabrications rather than a natural state. That’s why we see it happening a lot more in Japan where they have adopted extreme work philosophy where socialization is forcefully suppressed. It’s no surprise people there develop such emotional and social disorders. In other words, the extreme social anxiety is a result of the artificial social pressures and rejections, rather than natural and healthy human behaviors.
@@ROVA00 And there is the other side, the ppl who don't want to be alone, but they have to because they can't fit into the "normal". So they suffer from being an outcast and silently forced to be alone. And yes, there are ppl who are totally fine all alone and minimal social interactions are enough for them.
After being with multiple women and such I have gotten to the point in where I don’t want to get married or have kids and I just want peace and no drama or whatever problems relationships brings from these chicks
After being with a few Japanese women it was less drama compared to the girls in the US. I was able to be myself and the Japanese women I dated catered to me. When I go back to work in Japan I am just going to relax and I might get s gf, but it is not going to be priority. My work week isn't going to as tiring because it is a company outside of Japan that follows the US work week.
If you have drama and conflict in every relationship, really sounds like you're the problem! Please get your fucking shit together before you ruind another womans life. Take some damn responsibility.
I’m 33 and I can’t express how much I enjoy my alone time after a toxic 8 year relationship. I easily spend money on myself, travel, cook, and do work overtime on my own terms. My sleep quality drastically improved, I read books more, my exercise/gym routine greatly improved, and confidence skyrocketed. What I’ve noted though is that women I’ve had nights with were all in relationships
@@steppilariosa6449femnists have nothing to do with being dishonest 😮 and with no morals. I am atheist feminist who raised two sons. One of them was lately hit on by the girl who had a boyfriend. And he didn’t took advantage of the situation. He was disgusted and disappointed. And a bit amused.
meanwhile some Japanese men have sex with about 5000 women in Japan... not to mention the huge prostitution and brothels can found all over Japan don't have to believe everything they say about themselves... just the Japanese don't think of prostitution as sex
@@subhajitsaha5668 what is the benefit of a developed country you mean? There are actually a lot, for example: safety, quality of life, level of technologies, etc.
@@mandasantoso man, if their will be no population left and country like China is your neighbor..How could you manage to be a safe country?? You call it quality of life where people dies alone?
That young lad, Kisaburo Nakamura, thank you for showing us your life and for clearly taking the time to learn English as a second language. I can't say for sure you did so for this video, but I commend you for giving a great interview for us in the English world.
Unwanted pregnancies makes no sense. It's a post modern language to avoid responsibilities. A term that is laughably id10t1c as any other post modern new age terminology. Try adding "unwanted" to any other terms to avoid responsibilities and see how much sense that makes.
@@LVL5esper People want to have sex for pleasure and not to have a kid. When you have sex and end up pregnant when you just wanted pleasure, you have an unwanted pregnancy. TA-DA.
@@alexbr550 yeah and that's called avoiding responsibilities. Post Modernism woohoo \(^0^)/ !!! Imagine putting "unwanted" in front of anything that is a direct consequence of an action. I guess even criminals should be spared for their "unwanted crimes"....oh wait...that's a thing in California, USA Imagine if fathers can use a "Unwanted Fatherhood" card in court?🤔
@@marfg12345 That doesnt sound like rotting since it has practical uses. Also he is a university student and recently broke up with his gf and doesnt want another until he finishes university so you're wrong in every way.
It seems affluence, materialism, high educational levels, and massive electronic connectivity, destroy the human urge to maintain some kind of legacy, and ones bloodline. I think the artist and filmmaker Mishima warned about this when the spirit of a nation dies, and no longer becomes sustainable.
What's the point of legacy dude? or even keeping your bloodline. At the end of the day you die, you'll be forgotten within 2 generations of your decedents. You live a low quality of life to provide for future generation, but unfortunately, they'll also be slaves to some other guy. Isn't it much better to you and your bloodline to simply live the best life you can afford and free your bloodline for this curse of servitude?
There's no good in living for your own selfishness or someone else's. Yet all of us are here today because our ancestors were not looking at life the way we do now. Religion or some kind of similar philosophy is the only thing that might change our ways. What we are doing now just doesn't work.
@@delftfietser Meh dude if you wanna slave off for someone else then do, I live how i want, u live how you want, I'm not a fool to sacrifice my own comfort for others
Why? The sex doll industry is way bigger in the west than it is in Japan, most things are imported from China like mentioned in the video but only Europe and the US have actual stores with local warehouses
Why? Japan is a flawed and imperfect country and culture just like the rest of us. Late stage capitalism and worldwide societal decay has created a widespread epidemic of loneliness, no motivation, and mental illness in the young generation and this is one of the downsides
I feel no special respect for Japan, though I like its wonderful cuisine and some of its traditional aesthetic (not the contemporary infantile and infantilizing schlock), but like you, I find the society depicted in this short documentary so alienated and alienating that it's scary. And sad. I have no inclination to even visit Japan.
Y’know, just a thought… Have the Japanese people ever heard of a “work-life-balance.” Having proper time away from work to make love and leisure and form relationships isn’t lazy as long as you balance it with your productivity. Japanese people desperately need to learn this balance. For a culture that understands the nature of yin and yang, they certainly don’t practice it with work and life. Balance, people. Balance is key.
Japan works it's people to the bone. Some employees are so tired, they literally sleep under their desk and only go home once or twice a week. They have no energy or time for relationships. It's a Kamakazi culture.
I'm living in Japan since 2019 and I've experienced some of the cultural and day by day life! I believe this generation's lack of interest in having relationships with the opposite sex is closely linked to the financial and economics struglings conditions experienced in Japanese society! For example, salaries have not seen a real increasing since the last 3 decades, and in recent years, contrary to what is reported in the media that the country suffers from deflation, in practice and in the population daily lives exactly the other way happens, since in the face of american dollar, the Japanese yen is increasingly devalued every day and inflation in the prices of fuel, energy and food products is increasing at a dizzying pace! Not to mention that the prices for services, rent and admission to universities are appalling and discourage young people from engaging in relationships when they do not have the means to support themselves! Japan is broke, with the highest public debt ever seen and is at the top of the list of debtor countries, and this undoubtedly has repercussions on the habits of society and the population!
It would be great for Japan and the world as a whole if they started focusing on sexual tourism like Thailand. There is a huge scope for sex tourism in Japan, if they ever opened up to the idea then everyone and their mother would be lining up for a trip to Japan and spending their money out there. It will boost their economy and help their young generation as well.
@@bonfacewachira3297 only brand, most parts are assembled somewhere else and there is a small cut for the government. For instance, Suzuki Motorcycles comes from Thailand.
Being in a relationship becomes a nightmare after a while. All you have is self-centered and materialistic society that inlfuences it's members to put themselves, and not the relationship, in the first place. You are continuously fed prompts of fabulous vacations and unsustainable living standards (sex included) as if those are the norm and not the exception. This makes a relationships last until the as good as it gets phase. Then the nightmare phase begins. "We've been together for two years and my bf hasn't taken me once on a yatch vacation" isn't an absurd phrase nowadays
You've been on the internet for too long and/ or never been in astable long term relationship. If you have a partner with expectations then they're not right for you. You're blanket opinions on the opposite gender only perpetuates a negative perception of the opposing gender. When the right person comes along you'll know it, trust.
all east Asian countries have a low birth rate, China and Japan maintain a 1.3, Korea and Taiwan Hongkong keep below 1, the aging population spend huge amount of social money and leave youngers high tax, low salary and high social pressure, youngers are working overtime and still can not afford a house, that is why people are losing interest at marriage and having baby.
This kinda makes no sense. Yes, having a low salary will be a major drawback if your dream is to buy a house. However, if you were married (with no kids), your combined income with your spouse should eventually make it possible to afford a house some day.
I think that politic only apply in Europe, and It's a bad polític that the banks taken an eye on and are taking a huge profit from it. Most housing systems in 1st world countries are just signing a contract of slavery with the banks and the governments also take quite a bite at you, specially in socialist countries.
@@rsuriyop You forget to factor in private tutors for the children among with the extra expenses for sports and hobby's. All that comes to mind since those are mandetory in Asian countries for childeren to compete and be succesfull in those countries.
Apparently I’m almost 30 years old and I still haven’t had one relationship in my life and I’m still a virgin sadly. But some of the people that I have tried talking to in the past have told me that it’s not a bad thing witch they are right. But others have told me other things that I thought where wrong and not right. Because some of them I remembered talking to told me that you should let her come to you. And when I told my mom about how I felt many years later she was like “They told you that?” And she was so upset. And she told me that the man has to be the one to make the first move on the females. And when my mother told me that. I was thinking to myself. “So that’s what I was doing wrong all these years?” and after she told me that I started to give it a try. And another thing is I have also watched a hand full of TH-cam videos online of people talking about how they explain on how being single in your thirties are going to be the worst years of your life. But how ever I’m going to try my hardest to try to enjoy my life. And not to lose hope. So with that being said I just wanted to point out and say that I’m not saying anything here to complain, rant or make anyone here to feel bad or sorry for me in anyway what so ever. I’m just speaking my mind. There is so much more I could say but I don’t want to board you all
@@wojiaobillDid you really just try that? Nobody needs an outsider sex tourist stirring up s*** between neighboring countries. Mind your own damn business.
The two things that must struck me are: A) Japanese couples are encouraged to abstain from sex. I've never heard anyone say that so I'm curious if it's even close to true. B) Using sex dolls for Alzheimer's patients. That's just insane, especially as the son of a parent with the disease.
I was amazed by this too! She sounds very American unless you're paying attention then you'll notice issues with her grammar and she drops out of the accent for a beat frequently. But honestly, it's very cool! I haven't heard someone talk like her. I wonder she had a language coach?
The situation in a nutshell... Japanese government: Have more kids. Repopulate! Please! Japanese workers: mute, silent, stuck at work, waiting for the boss to go home. Japanese government (gathering together, spending millions on research): Hmmmm.... why are these people not meeting and mating? Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: You are unable to solve this problem? Really? You're kidding me, right? Japanese government: We have tried everything. Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: Well... for starters... just spitballing here... you could ask the boss to go home at a reasonable time. Japanese government: No... we can't do that! Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: Well, suit yourself. Have fun with your dwindling population.
I'm 34, live alone and never had a partner. I never thought of it as a problem, I enjoy it like this. I can see the economic problems if everyone would think about it like this, though. Still I don't like the undertone on this topic in many documentaries, not everybody has to strive for marriage and children or even boy/girlfriends.
take some accountability... say you are selfish and never learned to share or help someone. That's many people, no shame. You can always strive for....hmm
They make some high quality Dolls there in Japan. Those were the bargain bin version compared to what i have seen. Still they don't hold a candle to Abyss Creations Dolls.
The single life for me is all about survival, saving money and taking care of yourself first. You have the freedom to what you enjoy and and have that serenity.
I live alone in London and yet maintain a great relationship and I had 5 kids who always need me and I love every second of it. I don’t need much to be happy. I just don’t get this.
you have nothing in common with the situations and lifestyles the people in the vid have, you have many kids; these people have no way to even have one or even lose their v..gnty
Great video noticed the dolls are light skin and all have non Japanese eyes. Does anybody notice alot of Japanese men are very feminine. Its like you can hardly tell the difference between a man and a woman. I
For me, I spent age 20 to 30 doing nothing but working two full-time jobs and going to night school four nights a week. I did not pursue girls. I'm sure glad I didn't: now, as a secure older man, nice young adult ladies are happy to have me -- and I can afford them. This isn't the 1950's. This is 2024. Youth is for getting educated so you can be secure in your senior years. Girls want money and security. Sacrifice your youth so you can enjoy your senior years. Believe me, if you're a secure older man, girls will be all over you. (It's worth the wait.)
I was raised in a dysfunctional family, with both my parents in a toxic relationship and my sister. That is why both me and my sister, are not so positive on the idea of marriage and children. Most people are in toxic relationships, because of fear of loneliness. The dating culture is tragic, because people's bar status is low for both men and women. Men enter the dating culture being disappointed, because women can't keep up with their expectations, while women are forced to think between career but single or in a relationship with marriage and children and then divorce.
The truth is girls and women in general have a terrible relationship with their sexuality. That is why their dating bar is low. And guys get to be as shallow as they desire.
Maybe this is why there are no other civilizations in the universe. When a civilization reaches a certain point of technological advancement and comfort, it goes extinct.
Being alone is the most powerful thing to do, I see couples holding hands, it seems good from far, but the things which comes with this locking of hands are very different. This is a very important topic we need to analyze this topic to evolve to be a better individuals.
Let's be honest here, this is a Global problem. Happening more and more here in the Philippines too. Whether Voluntary or not, more young working men and women are opting out of relationships and intimacy altogether. Work Culture is also quite toxic here, specifically within NCR made even more atrocious because of the abysmal public transit conditions. 2 hours commute to work, 2 hours commute home. Thats 4 hours just trying to get Public Transportation. People literally have no time to do anything else outside of work.
At some point one has to say to one self I will not comply, I mean I will be the best worker above all the others so when I am done I will leave and do what I want, ie, have a social life. Don't like it, fire me, I know my skills and what I have to offer is not easy to replace, so let us reason together or too bad, so sad, I will go, that is why I am my own boss .Got it, good! I guess that is why I am not Japanese, however I respect Japan and their people.
Holding down a job until your 60/65, providing an adequate pension in a time of ever increasing state pension age, big mortgages, car loans, and the cost of bringing up kids. A 50% chance of ending up divorced. I can't blame young people for staying single.
Companies: No, we will not raise wages or benefits! Also companies: WHAT DO YOU MEAN ALL THE EMPLOYEES HAVE RETIRED AND THERE IS NOBODY TO TAKE THEIR PLACE!?!?!?! Even the WEF must realize that their plans require a stable population, right?
40% never having sex is just incredible, and I’m sure most of them are men. The hypergamy of women have never been so prevalent in history. Most of the women end up sleeping with the same men. Roughly a 15% of male population have access to 90% of female population. A man in that 15%, dates and have sex with multiple women throughout his life. And he rejects or not even considers only the 10% of the women in the dating market. But women are all looking for the same guys. They sometimes still date outside of that 15%, but rarely and shortly. That’s why you hear some guys getting a sexual experience once in a blue moon and others hooking up with multiple women in a single week. Believe it or not, not even in the Medieval Ages, hypergamy of women were this much rampant. Not even in the Islamic conquest era. Not even in the Stone Age! Just a 75 years ago though, the hypergamy was in its lowest point. More than 95% of men were married back then, and most of the remaining 5% had sexual or romantic relationships. It was the norm. 50s were also the peak era of monogamy. But today, not just the hypergamy of women is in historical rise, but the polygamy as well. Back in my childhood, rich men with multiple partners were shunned. Nowadays they’re encouraged to have multiple “sugar babies”, it’s considered a validation of success. Of course not every rich guy has a harem, but it’s started to be normalized. And that’s basically the origin story of the historical polygamy we all know about. There’re also open marriages, which are also a direct product of the hypergamy. Sometimes hypergamy forces women to marry a man they really don’t find attractive, mainly for monetary reasons, and they find the solution in open relationships, if they can somehow convince their partners of course. Although monetary gain is one of the main aspects of the hypergamy, it of course is not what it is all about. The bad boy archetype is a sexual object for most women, as well as a healthy and good looking man. Intelligence, the status, and manners in overall are also quite important for hypergamy. Finding all of these attributes at the same time is almost impossible. That’s why we end up with only 15% of male population. In which not all of them are meeting all the criteria already, but at least if you’re a bad boy, you still end up in this 15% anyhow. This phenomenon leaves us with a huge male population that is lone and sexless. They always end up being rejected for various reasons. Which we never experienced in our history as a spicy. How did we end up here? I really don’t know. I’m also not sure what it will lead to.
The best comment, you understand the situation very very well. As we can see from this video the next step is formalization and acceptance of this shift in societal expectations and values and a status quo of top 5% of men with actual harems and the rest of men settling for AI-powered hyper-realistic dolls, I give it 20 years for that to become the norm, maybe even less if male engineers push for the advancements necessary to make it a reality. The birthrate is doomed forever though, maybe we'll get government-funded mass incubation programs, but that's only once we're at the extreme point of facing extinction from non-reproduction. Maybe in 50 years.
This video is motivating for me. Everyone is saying marriage is important. As an adult, if you have free time, urges will definitely come. However, after watching this, I want to remain single. Just consider one thing: countries with high birth rates are often considered third-class.
6:24 this was so fascinating to hear her speak with an excellent American accent but can tell that English is her second language with very minor grammar and accent giveaway
From the, "study hard and keep studying." To, "work all day to barely support yourself." To, "here's everything going up!" They wonder why their kids either don't talk to them or give them grandsons and or granddaughters. Its alot of problems that need to be addressed and because the older to elderly people love being stubborn. They need to be handled first and have their eyes open to the current times.
When I was at genz age I have been through so many relationship but unfortunately nothing worked out. I am 34 and don't want to get into any kind of relationship.. I hope I will get married to someone who will respect me and is loyal to me forever ❤❤.. No relationship only for marriage ❤❤
I am 33 live in abu dubai, i live alone and work in hospital. When i see old people, i feel that I need a life partner. But in a relationship, you lost freedom of life. It is really difficult to decide whether to live a single or in a live-in relationship.
It depends on who you choose as a partner. Make sure they are your friend first before considering romance. Having your best friend as a life partner is amazing
when I go to the metro all I'm seeing is women scrolling facebook and instagram. I regurarely try to flirt. Most of women are absolutely not interested, even when I believe that I'm quite a catch. I even saw worse: top tier men walking into the metro, like TOP TIER. What is the young women doing instead of flirting with him? => opening tinder. She totally ignored him. Men have become nothing but a product you shop online. This is the main reason of the dating hardships. Women are to blame. Only after that men with porn-addiction and MAYBE video games are to blame, but honestly I don't think video games are the problem.
I've watched so many vlogs about Japan where they interview a lot of teenagers and young adults about their sex life and their body counts. One of the women they interviewed was only in her early 20s but said her body count was already 50. The sexless epidemic in Japan is not real. Sex is still there and the prostitutes there are not losing money, so how can you say that country is sexless? The real epidemic there is the decision of lots of married japanese not to have children
That's because the legal age of consent in Japan is around 12 or 13 years. So it's not surprising that a girl with a fairly adventurous mindset would rake up a 50 plus body count by her early 20s.
Raising children has always been expensive. We've just become much, much more selfish and narcissistic than the previous generations and, as a result, profoundly uncomfortable with intimacy.
I'm 36, self-made you know what. Most women absolutely ignore me. I'm 5'8 in Germany. Nearly nobody gives a rat's a** about what men want. My biggest problem is, women my age don't even flirt AT ALL. Women beginning of their 20ties, they send me signals, but when they find out my age it's over. Women around 30-35 => nonexistent in flirting. I don't know what you guys are looking for, but I'm certainly not that man you are interested in...
How can this happen if 70% of the male population but 60% of the female population is single? Where do women get their partners from? Do several women share one man?
These studies are typically not going to be fully accurate. But a factor is that women typically date older men and men typically date younger women. Also lesbianism
Maybe this is one of the reasons why we have not found intelligence outside earth: it seems intelligence is a risk factor for species survival, not only because of self destruction but also for this, personal wellbeing over species survival. There will always be a cohort of humanity more connected with their animality, willing to procreate. Those shall inherit the earth, it seems.
Be careful living alone is very addictive but as long as you are having conversation with your neighbour, friends, family members everyday you are fine
This is the saddest thing I have ever seen. I have now begun to realize that when people are very alone, as a default survival mechanism they convince themselves that it’s more enjoyable to live alone than to be around other people. That’s horrible for your psyche and it’s sad to see people living in this state of hollowed our existence.
Like every study and common sense show the importance of social life. sex is a basic need. Most people are not honest to themselves. They always want to find ways to get self aproval. So it is easier to tell that they are always right and find reasons for that, instead to find the problems and try to solve them. This is comfort zone and it just seems easier to adapt into it considering the societal environment/ culture. It seems sad, but this is their own fault and responsability.
It's like that over here in America for most people. Being alone and sexless for the past 3 years has just left me numb to having any interest in being in a relationship or wanting to be sexually active.
Compared with the disaster that is the west is something to admire. Maybe we could learn to be more respectful and clean like them, although I doubt it.
"respect" lol... japanese are the MOST disrespectful people on Earth, their notorious "politeness" is just a protective mechanism against anything human, a disguise to hide their robotic nature, narrow-mindedness, lack of genuine curiosity, and xenophobic inferiority complex towards those able to LIVE THE LIFE without sacrificing 100% of it to the never-ending repair of the flimsy "MADE OF JAPAN" facade
@@anitagarcia8056 My ex: "We need to do something. We always only sit at home and do nothing. You're so lazy!" Me: Lets do this lets do that lets do this and that and this-that She: no. Me after 4 years: ok. Go and f*** yourself. Find another id*ot to fool around with. She did. Not even 1 month after I broke up. Their now getting engaged. She wanted me to buy her a house (I was still studying and dirt poor), get a massive mortage and "just be a man". Now her "man" also doesn't have built a house. Even 6 years after me he couldn't do it ;-) So I stayed single and got millionaire MYSELF WITH MY MIGHT AND KNOWLEDGE. I went from dirt poor student from underprivileged family to rich. Ain't no woman out there I have seen wants to invest in their future partner. You also can't go somewhere and tell the ladies that "you made it". Either it's considered "bragging" or she simply won't believe you, when you don't wear the superfancy status-symbols and I don't do that, as it's a security-risk. Therefore I'm still single and nobody gives a freaking s*it about it.
Even when the women are so desperate and a lot of virgins, it’s hard to date as a foreign in Japan? I am amazed that they all surprises their feelings and not suffer from an epidemic depression
@user-wf2xt5ez3xI say this too, but they don't believe me, people think the penetration is CGI or some trick like in Hollywood movies, even though it's completely real
worked to death and no sex. what a dystopian nightmare. In that environment I would not work, be homeless and do nothing.
Feminism 2.0 Perfect Cell Dragon Ball X
Many Japanese do exactly that. They are called the Hikikomori:
th-cam.com/video/J-cz9O2bon4/w-d-xo.html
That's hikikomori where people lock themselves in their room for years
What is the use of the money if I'm not getting any action?.
@@alphabogeyman7462 You can get action! Look unless you've been living under a rock or a cave you should be aware that modern women are not relationship worthy ,only sex worthy! Meaning you cannot create bonds with todays modern women! You can try to create bonds, but you'll fail miserably I can assure you of that! Hence why men today have resorted to prostitution, escorts, dolls, porn, video games etc.....Less of a fuss for a simple act that men need!
This is happening on a global scale.
No its only happening in developed nations, mainly western ones with the exception of Japan and Korea.
You are correct, with the exception being Africa. The median age for the African continent is 18.8 years. In fact, Niger has a median age of 14.52 years, Central African Republic 14.82, Chad 15.12 with Ugandan Amgola, Mali and DR Congo all registering from 16.1 to 16.8 years.
@@jole11461 African birth rates will also drop but they are starting from a higher point. Worldwide population collapse will literally be Worldwide
@@ChibindaChipawa Agreed, its called Feminism. This is why more and more men are going MGTOW
Not in India!!!
Japan’s work culture is toxic and disastrous for the country’s social well-being. Plenty of Japanese people do seem to understand this, but still nothing changes. It’s depressing.
Work culture is one of the factor but the main factor is different, it's got to do with attraction. Its mostly just the brootal reality of being an average looking man especially in asia where most are seen as unattractive due to neotony (non-masculine looks).
Asian Women just simply don't feel anything for their husbands (whom they settle at 30+) in japan...this leads to the husbands "cheating with escorts" or going to "brothels" and the women is okay with it because : 1. She doesn't have to have sex with her husband anymore (its disgusting). 2. The husband won't leave the family .
There are documentaries explaining this from a scientific point of view (with studies) but of course they are shadow banned because it exposes a cruel reality of human nature.
@@RobertDniroLHCInteresting you thought it was the men. I find Asian men super attractive, but I don't understand Asian beauty standards for women. They look like frail little girls whose limbs can break off at any point.
My point is... I don't think it's a physical attraction problem.
Much more inclined to believe it's a work culture problem.
The Japanese need to recognize that people can't be working such long hours. 8 hours and clock out.
Alcohol as a form to bond with co-workers is REALLY bad. Too many people drinking excessively instead of spending their free time with their spouse and kids.
Key words: FREE time
@@zenwilds2911 what you think doesnt matter, its what evidence says that matters.
Could you share the names of those documentaries?
Lets be honest guys , this is a world wide problem. No one is having relationships due to fear of infidelity , economic decline , and people have a ego problem.
infidelity is a big one fr, women have too many options online and on dating apps, ditching someone easily like they are not even human or cheating on them is so easy for them because they can explore the other 300 options they have. This is a reactionary movement
it's worse in Asia. Your childhood is like wake up and come home at 11pm. Then have nights where you study until 1am. Then you get to the work force and your bosss expects you to pretty much live there working.
Yup
@@skoopdiddywoop8565as a guy I gotta say blaming it on women having too many options online is so lame. This notion that women didn’t have options before dating apps is laughable too. If a woman has a job or is sociable and go’s out other guys are gonna come across her and that’s what you have to deal with.
But yeah Cheating is wrong but no man or woman is wrong for breaking up with someone no matter what reason, no one is entitled to someone staying in a relationship with them.
@@Jackholiday1025 not true, womens options became a hundred folds. you could meet women before at outside places sure... so u would have to compete with your local town or city but now its the whole country and men from other countries thanks to dating apps, if u deny that then uve got low iq.
cheating happens alot more on the womens side, there is a statistic that shows that 1/3 of men aged 18-35 are virgins. while the opposite is not true, u can hardly find a virgin woman. if that alone dosnt prove that women have easy access to sex now days through dating apps and hookup culture then nothing will prove it to you.
Financially people can't afford families anymore
Yep 100%
I wouldn't be a mother for 10 Million $ a month
No one can afford anything anymore pal
I love my kids so much that I haven't had any. America would only enslave them and make them homeless.
Objects like you are another reason why men are staying single. Not only is it extremely expensive to have family, but most women are unworthy coom Garden tools who don't want families in the first place. Its a lose lose situation.@@CordeliaWagner1999
I'm 34 and I live alone and enjoy watching fishing videos for fun. I actually enjoy being alone and spending my money on myself. I can relate with Nakamura..
Single life is not good for the economy or a country's fertility rate though
@@extremepsyche3135 Haha r u for real, so u live to make the economy stronger do u my good man
Iv lived alone my hole life n would need to find a really good chick if she was going to move in n in talking about 38 years on my own n its the grouse. wat country u live in Bro, Australia me?
@@extremepsyche3135So in other words, he needs to be a good slave for the economy and do what's best for it rather than what brings him peace? Got it.
@@davechristian7543 I hear ya mate! Melbourne here
It's sad that married men's relationship with their wives deteriorated to the point that they need to use dolls for sex.
Well it's better then trumptards they use goat's 🐐 lmfao
The only sad part is that the men volunteered to sign up for that deal without reading the fine print.
Nah the woman is solely responsible for everything going on in Japan. The USA is close. I remember a lady in Japan saying her husband should find a hooker cause sex is a chore for her. She said it in her own way. A few of them said that in that street interview. They suck.
@@hiphopsecopsin general? Y’all need to know who ur going to marry first before actually getting with them. Then it wouldn’t be a “general” thing
lol they were already using dollars for sex, that’s how they became husbands 🤦🏿♂️😂😂
I'm chinese and I travel to Japan every month for work and I can say that while they are super respectful they are also super self controlled to the point that they show no feelings. I don't hang out with japanese people not because don't like them it's just because I like to go out have a beer, and just openly talk to my friends about any topic which it's super hard for japanese people to do so. And every time me and my foreigners co-workers go have lunch we always have fun and chill but you can see a lot of japanese people eating by themself... I hope they can change and be less defensive with their lifes
Sorry but you sound like a Chinese from Singapore not from mainland China. No offense!
Why should they change when lack of socialization doesn’t have any significant negative impact on their lives? Especially considering the fact that the life expectancy in Japan is longer than in your own country of China? You talk about hanging out with foreigner friends and having beer, the next thing you do after that is promiscuity. I think the Japanese lifestyle is much better, like there is nothing wrong in eating alone in a restaurant.
@@mikehair5651whats the point of living a ling if you are living it this way! Just enjoy life and be happy dont need to make weird social cues for the sake of making them!
@@zuhasajid900 enjoy life and die early? I would rather live like the Japanese and have a long life than “enjoy” and live a short life. And you asked what the point is? Well it is about a long life expectancy. Or doesn’t it matter to you at all?
@@mikehair5651 What's the point of a long life that's so bereft of real human contact and genuine intimacy?
6 days a week of school into 6-7 days a week work with no days off leads to this
Or you could use US smoke blues usual 2.5 GPA lol and end up with would you like to upsize that order or would you like cheese
I have worked months without a day off. Holidays it didn't matter. Got in trouble if I got sick. And this is common for many of us in America. Working from day to night just to be able to afford a home. In high school you had a 5 day school week sure. But many of us had jobs as well.
@@michaelweston1042 Yeah, now factor in the strict social and work culture combined with an even more crap economy and you got Japan.
@@randymoran67what the fuck did you even say
how about no. compared to old time we have all the time in the world even with full work weeks. restructuring of values lead to it.
My guy Totoro being an ENGINEER making more money in dolls than his actual career is wild😭
Just in case you still feel shocked, I'm a lab analyst and I'm seriously considering starting making contents online, perhaps it's more profitable than my actual job.
@@TR4Rthis is your sign not to do it. You’ll be fine!
@@TR4R Are you a content creator now? Update us!
@@kuyab9122 not yet. I haven't taken the step. But probably in the following months I will be busy moving out, you know, migrating. A very honest youtuber (who has the silver plate) told me he lasted 7 months without receiving anything before he started monetizing. That was chilling.
hes the doll pimp
All the money in the world for weapons but little money to support families.
worst part is that people look past that, see the modern architecture/lifestyle, and think that Japan is a good example of a healthy society
@@DonDon45-i5h Anybody that knows the smallest thing about Japan knows how backwards their society is
you talking about US or Japan?
Japan makes very few weapons and their military is a self defense force. Most of the workforce is in service based work
Japan relies mostly on the US for military action aside from a small self defense force. Do a little research before you get philosophical.
@@Katxuneяпонцам нельзя иметь армию,иначе они вспомнят свои имперские замашки .а добрым американцам вновь прилется их бомбить)
It’s funny how older people in America accuse younger people of being selfish for not wanting kids. Yet the same thing is happening in Japan, so there is something else going on. Maybe relationships are too difficult to balance with work. More money and time to raise children would be helpful. If the powers that be want us to reproduce, maybe they should cut us some slack.
For me having a steady relationship is having another task to juggle; y'all try juggling water
They don't want you to reproduce which is why they push LGBTQ things and feminism. You are the carbon they want to reduce and in the next few years AI and robotics will replace you. Welcome to the future you wont be included in it just like 80% of mankind.
They don't want us to reproduce. They want to bring foreigners in to work.
Actually a lot of older people are complaining to the government for putting their kids in this situation with increase in prices and cost of living. Saw a few tik toks and news reports of this.
Well obviously they don't want us to reproduce or we would be.
ive been cheated on so much, it has actually destroyed my desire to seek out sex from others.. its understandable
What's odd, and doubly odd since you don't even realize it, is that you ever thought sex is something to be sought, that it's a transactional thing. If you don't want to have a close, intimate relationship, then "seeking sex" is bound to lead to disappointment and apathy.
@@vaska1999 what does this have to do with be cheated on while in a relationship? i do not understand
when a society made cheating and dating normal but marriage as backward then this will happened
Yeah. I gave up eating barbecue, because *ONE TIME* I got food-poisoning by eating too much of it.
That sounds sooooo stupid 😅
@@vaska1999 Stop trying to justify your 304 behavior, we don't buy it.
15:38 can’t help but be unsettled at how this doll and a lot of other ones look like a young girl and is wearing a school uniform
как вам отношения с мертвой школьницей!)))? наверно это ужасно на самом деле)
Would be illegal in the US. “Land of the free” BS.
Yeah this is scary asf I think someone in power is trying to run a pedophile based sex ring THEY NEED TO BE FCKING STOPPED
@@sadscientist9995hey, if you like diddling on children, seek help.
Don't worry, USA is involved in trafficking, so who's worse? USA also have a child sniffer as President too so who's worse now?
Problem is, long work hours and work being more valuable in Japan. Everything is expensive and apartments too small. When I lived in Japan, I lived in a 12m² apartment.
The host clubs sound very fun, but mostly only japanese women are allowed in there and second, it easily happens that women spend too much money there. They fall in love, but the love is never, or in very rare cases, are on both sides. Some men there make a lot of money with that.
Currently, in all western and developed countries, actually in all first world countries, we have this problem currently. Everything expensive, work and relationships just don't work out anymore. It got way much harder nowadays than it was in the past. And what I have noticed, the trust in humanity, has reached a low point. So if you can't trust, how can you find a person? And with the current AI, more and more people fall in love with bots and turn to them. And they evolve daily. I am more into that field and also working there. So one week ago I thought, "Wouldn't it be nice if bot can do this?" and now they can already. Bots and AI evolve now at an extreme speed. It is super nice, but the consequence of it is, no real human relationships.
And because some here were shocked about sex dolls. To get to sex dolls, via online, is for the first world very easy. But can be expensive. But when I look online, so many men already have sex dolls at home. And, I can't say it enough, but only putting the market on sex dolls for men, is not enough. Women also feel lonely and want sex. Not only men, and not only men feel lonely these days.
There is a male sex dolls for woman too. Moreover sex toys are more common in woman society than in man. It stigmatized in male society, so males are likely will hide this hobby. (may be not in JP and China, as those countries more patriarchatic)
Consequences is aging humanity (except India and Africa) which make more economic pressure. Also video forgot one common issue - novadys woman do not want to struggle to give birth (and i think humanity will sooner or later implement birthes outside woman body)
There are lots of paid boyfriend escorts in japan. From what I saw. It's very weird world. Work life balance is being ignored on a world wide platform.
Japan is a lot cheaper than any Western country.
I think sex dolls are more common for men because if you're just looking for sex, the average woman has it easier to find a one-time-partner. There are also 3-6% more boys born than girls. Even in countries where it says that there are more women, those are mostly elderly women. In younger generations, there are always more men, they just die earlier.
@@callmepaddy What is an average woman? I am a woman and never in my life it was easy for me to get a sex partner.
They’re having sex. Prostitution is legal. They’re just not having sex with a regular partner. Also something like 80% of married Japanese people cheat but they don’t consider it cheating if there’s no love confession.
Thing is that the "cheating" has to be consensual with the partner. If one of both does it behind the other's back, it still counts and will bring chaos to the household.
Uguisudani Tokyo..🤐👍
@butamoe-my7qtdo you live in Japan no
If they don't considering cheating if there's no love confession. It probably shouldn't be surprising since even so much as an "I love you" is not said very often if ever.
Prostitution in Japan is NOT LEGAL you idiot. Educate yourself by reading the links below:
elaws.e-gov.go.jp/document?lawid=331AC0000000118
ja.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%A3%B2%E6%98%A5%E9%98%B2%E6%AD%A2%E6%B3%95#:~:text=%E5%A3%B2%E6%98%A5%E9%98%B2%E6%AD%A2%E6%B3%95%EF%BC%88%E3%81%B0%E3%81%84%E3%81%97%E3%82%85%E3%82%93,%E6%97%A5%E6%9C%AC%E3%81%AE%E6%B3%95%E5%BE%8B%E3%81%A7%E3%81%82%E3%82%8B%E3%80%82
Those videos about Japanese women cheating is FAKE NEWS. Watch Asagi's Life on TH-cam to get to know the REAL JAPANESE WOMEN!
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It’s not fair to pinpoint the cheating stereotype as a reason to make Japan look bad.
guidable.co/culture/cheating-in-japan-how-common-is-it/
38 Years old and I am alone. Marriage feels like unnecessary liability (eventually results with having children) financially.
Maybe Japan having more problems than other countries but it will be same everywhere.
Give it 3-7 years and population decline will show up in graphs because of upkeep cost of family & children(s).
I think in Western countries, Europe and North America, it is even worse. At least in Japan, if you dare to approach women, you are gonna get laid. In the US you have to pay even to jerk off, because feminists normalised OnlyFans, and it is full of simps.
Even though I didn't live in Japan, I understand how being alone can have benefits for one's well-being.
I can’t think of a single good reason to be alone on purpose. Humans are social animals and choosing to be alone indicates some kind of trauma.
@@ROVA00 Socialization is simply not always a positive experience for everyone. What society considers "normal" tends to be things that have to be enforced by social pressure, such as shaming or ostracization, of which your comment is a good example. If people weren't stigmatized for wanting to be alone, it would probably be a lot more common worldwide, as we're seeing in Japan.
@@maelstrom2313 I’m not a sociologist but somehow I don’t think “wanting to be alone” is a natural healthy state for human beings. Human being are naturally social animals, like dogs and chimps.
I could be wrong, but my hypothesis is that humans that want to be alone or have fear of socialization are more of a disorder caused by our social fabrications rather than a natural state. That’s why we see it happening a lot more in Japan where they have adopted extreme work philosophy where socialization is forcefully suppressed. It’s no surprise people there develop such emotional and social disorders. In other words, the extreme social anxiety is a result of the artificial social pressures and rejections, rather than natural and healthy human behaviors.
@@ROVA00 And there is the other side, the ppl who don't want to be alone, but they have to because they can't fit into the "normal". So they suffer from being an outcast and silently forced to be alone. And yes, there are ppl who are totally fine all alone and minimal social interactions are enough for them.
After being with multiple women and such I have gotten to the point in where I don’t want to get married or have kids and I just want peace and no drama or whatever problems relationships brings from these chicks
After being with a few Japanese women it was less drama compared to the girls in the US. I was able to be myself and the Japanese women I dated catered to me. When I go back to work in Japan I am just going to relax and I might get s gf, but it is not going to be priority. My work week isn't going to as tiring because it is a company outside of Japan that follows the US work week.
Im getting to that point
Maybe you are the drama?
If you have drama and conflict in every relationship, really sounds like you're the problem! Please get your fucking shit together before you ruind another womans life. Take some damn responsibility.
@@dancingnachos3634no it’s women, it’s always women.
I’m 33 and I can’t express how much I enjoy my alone time after a toxic 8 year relationship. I easily spend money on myself, travel, cook, and do work overtime on my own terms. My sleep quality drastically improved, I read books more, my exercise/gym routine greatly improved, and confidence skyrocketed.
What I’ve noted though is that women I’ve had nights with were all in relationships
Well you're participating for it, which supporting also feminist.
@@steppilariosa6449what are you even talking about?
@@steppilariosa6449femnists have nothing to do with being dishonest 😮 and with no morals. I am atheist feminist who raised two sons. One of them was lately hit on by the girl who had a boyfriend. And he didn’t took advantage of the situation. He was disgusted and disappointed. And a bit amused.
meanwhile some Japanese men have sex with about 5000 women in Japan...
not to mention the huge prostitution and brothels can found all over Japan
don't have to believe everything they say about themselves...
just the Japanese don't think of prostitution as sex
Japan don't have love or heart. Only sex and go.
Yup. I've heard that having sex with a prostitute is not considered cheating in Japan. It's like having a massage or any other physical service.
Those men and women aren't having children or stay together to have families so it doesn't count.
@@xanperia I don't understand why they lie that they can't have sex
@@f3reg169 Do they? Maybe they can, but don't want to.
Basically it all comes down to because everything is so darn expensive these days.
Exactly
And women only wanting chad
So , what is the use of developed country??
@@subhajitsaha5668 what is the benefit of a developed country you mean? There are actually a lot, for example: safety, quality of life, level of technologies, etc.
@@mandasantoso man, if their will be no population left and country like China is your neighbor..How could you manage to be a safe country?? You call it quality of life where people dies alone?
That young lad, Kisaburo Nakamura, thank you for showing us your life and for clearly taking the time to learn English as a second language. I can't say for sure you did so for this video, but I commend you for giving a great interview for us in the English world.
On the bright side no STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
The chance of not getting STDs is the chance of getting a huge pet in pet simulator x
Yeah. All those s3x dolls full of another dude's DNA says otherwise 😅😅🤮🤮
Unwanted pregnancies makes no sense. It's a post modern language to avoid responsibilities. A term that is laughably id10t1c as any other post modern new age terminology.
Try adding "unwanted" to any other terms to avoid responsibilities and see how much sense that makes.
@@LVL5esper People want to have sex for pleasure and not to have a kid. When you have sex and end up pregnant when you just wanted pleasure, you have an unwanted pregnancy. TA-DA.
@@alexbr550 yeah and that's called avoiding responsibilities. Post Modernism woohoo
\(^0^)/ !!!
Imagine putting "unwanted" in front of anything that is a direct consequence of an action. I guess even criminals should be spared for their "unwanted crimes"....oh wait...that's a thing in California, USA
Imagine if fathers can use a "Unwanted Fatherhood" card in court?🤔
For a single 19 year old, his English language skills are AMAZING
That’s because he rots in his room all day watching western movies and youtube videos.
For a Japanese 19 years old maybe.
They study English at school
@@marfg12345 That doesnt sound like rotting since it has practical uses. Also he is a university student and recently broke up with his gf and doesnt want another until he finishes university so you're wrong in every way.
It seems affluence, materialism, high educational levels, and massive electronic connectivity, destroy the human urge to maintain some kind of legacy, and ones bloodline. I think the artist and filmmaker Mishima warned about this when the spirit of a nation dies, and no longer becomes sustainable.
What's the point of legacy dude? or even keeping your bloodline. At the end of the day you die, you'll be forgotten within 2 generations of your decedents. You live a low quality of life to provide for future generation, but unfortunately, they'll also be slaves to some other guy. Isn't it much better to you and your bloodline to simply live the best life you can afford and free your bloodline for this curse of servitude?
"Legacy" hahaha. Of what? Mr. Smith or Tanaka? The great legacy of the #1895293841238 monkey that nutted in another.
@@Aloafy There's no honor in selfishness.
There's no good in living for your own selfishness or someone else's. Yet all of us are here today because our ancestors were not looking at life the way we do now. Religion or some kind of similar philosophy is the only thing that might change our ways. What we are doing now just doesn't work.
@@delftfietser Meh dude if you wanna slave off for someone else then do, I live how i want, u live how you want, I'm not a fool to sacrifice my own comfort for others
I am a 70 year old American. I respect Japan and the great people there. I have a VERY difficult time getting my head around this video.
Why? The sex doll industry is way bigger in the west than it is in Japan, most things are imported from China like mentioned in the video but only Europe and the US have actual stores with local warehouses
Why? Japan is a flawed and imperfect country and culture just like the rest of us. Late stage capitalism and worldwide societal decay has created a widespread epidemic of loneliness, no motivation, and mental illness in the young generation and this is one of the downsides
Sir these are the times believe it! Lol
It’s not much worse than the US, especially when it comes to the younger population
I feel no special respect for Japan, though I like its wonderful cuisine and some of its traditional aesthetic (not the contemporary infantile and infantilizing schlock), but like you, I find the society depicted in this short documentary so alienated and alienating that it's scary. And sad. I have no inclination to even visit Japan.
Y’know, just a thought…
Have the Japanese people ever heard of a “work-life-balance.”
Having proper time away from work to make love and leisure and form relationships isn’t lazy as long as you balance it with your productivity.
Japanese people desperately need to learn this balance.
For a culture that understands the nature of yin and yang, they certainly don’t practice it with work and life.
Balance, people. Balance is key.
Japan works it's people to the bone. Some employees are so tired, they literally sleep under their desk and only go home once or twice a week. They have no energy or time for relationships. It's a Kamakazi culture.
Very casual, easy going narration and lounge music used to report the demise of a society.
I'm living in Japan since 2019 and I've experienced some of the cultural and day by day life!
I believe this generation's lack of interest in having relationships with the opposite sex is closely linked to the financial and economics struglings conditions experienced in Japanese society! For example, salaries have not seen a real increasing since the last 3 decades, and in recent years, contrary to what is reported in the media that the country suffers from deflation, in practice and in the population daily lives exactly the other way happens, since in the face of american dollar, the Japanese yen is increasingly devalued every day and inflation in the prices of fuel, energy and food products is increasing at a dizzying pace! Not to mention that the prices for services, rent and admission to universities are appalling and discourage young people from engaging in relationships when they do not have the means to support themselves!
Japan is broke, with the highest public debt ever seen and is at the top of the list of debtor countries, and this undoubtedly has repercussions on the habits of society and the population!
But they sell cars to the whole world,how are they broke 😂
It would be great for Japan and the world as a whole if they started focusing on sexual tourism like Thailand. There is a huge scope for sex tourism in Japan, if they ever opened up to the idea then everyone and their mother would be lining up for a trip to Japan and spending their money out there. It will boost their economy and help their young generation as well.
@@bonfacewachira3297 only brand, most parts are assembled somewhere else and there is a small cut for the government. For instance, Suzuki Motorcycles comes from Thailand.
Very good documentary
agreed
Being in a relationship becomes a nightmare after a while. All you have is self-centered and materialistic society that inlfuences it's members to put themselves, and not the relationship, in the first place.
You are continuously fed prompts of fabulous vacations and unsustainable living standards (sex included) as if those are the norm and not the exception.
This makes a relationships last until the as good as it gets phase. Then the nightmare phase begins.
"We've been together for two years and my bf hasn't taken me once on a yatch vacation" isn't an absurd phrase nowadays
You've been on the internet for too long and/ or never been in astable long term relationship. If you have a partner with expectations then they're not right for you. You're blanket opinions on the opposite gender only perpetuates a negative perception of the opposing gender. When the right person comes along you'll know it, trust.
all east Asian countries have a low birth rate, China and Japan maintain a 1.3, Korea and Taiwan Hongkong keep below 1, the aging population spend huge amount of social money and leave youngers high tax, low salary and high social pressure, youngers are working overtime and still can not afford a house, that is why people are losing interest at marriage and having baby.
As an asian I can agree to this. This is very true.
This kinda makes no sense. Yes, having a low salary will be a major drawback if your dream is to buy a house. However, if you were married (with no kids), your combined income with your spouse should eventually make it possible to afford a house some day.
I think that politic only apply in Europe, and It's a bad polític that the banks taken an eye on and are taking a huge profit from it.
Most housing systems in 1st world countries are just signing a contract of slavery with the banks and the governments also take quite a bite at you, specially in socialist countries.
@@rsuriyop You forget to factor in private tutors for the children among with the extra expenses for sports and hobby's.
All that comes to mind since those are mandetory in Asian countries for childeren to compete and be succesfull in those countries.
Blud go to India Bangladesh Asia is not only Japan and china
Apparently I’m almost 30 years old and I still haven’t had one relationship in my life and I’m still a virgin sadly. But some of the people that I have tried talking to in the past have told me that it’s not a bad thing witch they are right. But others have told me other things that I thought where wrong and not right. Because some of them I remembered talking to told me that you should let her come to you. And when I told my mom about how I felt many years later she was like “They told you that?” And she was so upset. And she told me that the man has to be the one to make the first move on the females. And when my mother told me that. I was thinking to myself. “So that’s what I was doing wrong all these years?” and after she told me that I started to give it a try. And another thing is I have also watched a hand full of TH-cam videos online of people talking about how they explain on how being single in your thirties are going to be the worst years of your life. But how ever I’m going to try my hardest to try to enjoy my life. And not to lose hope.
So with that being said I just wanted to point out and say that I’m not saying anything here to complain, rant or make anyone here to feel bad or sorry for me in anyway what so ever. I’m just speaking my mind. There is so much more I could say but I don’t want to board you all
All work and no play made Jack a dull boy.
"How do you like it?"
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No, the very first footage is Korea, not Japan.
no wonder it was so dirty and ugly
@@wojiaobill Just like your entire fucking family.
@@wojiaobilllike you..
@@wojiaobillDid you really just try that? Nobody needs an outsider sex tourist stirring up s*** between neighboring countries. Mind your own damn business.
I misread it as "sexiness epidemic" for a second.
lulz
I can see why you made that mistake - every time I see footage from Japan all the women are gorgeous. I'd imigrate if I could.
Libertarian dream!
One could wish
15:45 "please save me, i've done things that can no longer get me into being a proper mannequin at a fashion store." *internally crying*
The smooth jazz throughout this video successfully got me in the mood. Has Japan tried Jazz?
Japans view of sex is extremely casual. Sex is just another basic bodily function.
Largely true
Well that's fact.. I don't blame em
What’s you get real deep into the culture you’ll understand
The two things that must struck me are:
A) Japanese couples are encouraged to abstain from sex. I've never heard anyone say that so I'm curious if it's even close to true.
B) Using sex dolls for Alzheimer's patients. That's just insane, especially as the son of a parent with the disease.
Being alone sometimes is... alright. But staying alone is never okay. I'm pretty sure it's gonna affect your mental state in the long run.
Impressed. Yuki has no accent
lol she has an accent and grammar problems. she can communicate fairly well, but her English is far, far from perfect
@@wojiaobillSpeaks better than many English speakers to be honest. 😂
@@wojiaobilllook she has amazing business English
She definitely has an accent
I was amazed by this too! She sounds very American unless you're paying attention then you'll notice issues with her grammar and she drops out of the accent for a beat frequently.
But honestly, it's very cool! I haven't heard someone talk like her. I wonder she had a language coach?
The situation in a nutshell...
Japanese government: Have more kids. Repopulate! Please!
Japanese workers: mute, silent, stuck at work, waiting for the boss to go home.
Japanese government (gathering together, spending millions on research): Hmmmm.... why are these people not meeting and mating?
Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: You are unable to solve this problem? Really? You're kidding me, right?
Japanese government: We have tried everything.
Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: Well... for starters... just spitballing here... you could ask the boss to go home at a reasonable time.
Japanese government: No... we can't do that!
Any one else looking at the situation from the outside: Well, suit yourself. Have fun with your dwindling population.
japan's president has been asking young couples to have at least 1 child, to increase the birthrate (in japan). i saw this on NHK JAPAN.
Wild times we are living
"Sex doll rental" oh no
Show me the money doll pimp
all of those dolls combined have been run through less than a single western modern "woman"
@@MrGnuh What the fuck is wrong with you replying to a month-old comment with your deranged shit.
@@MrGnuh lol, probably right.
@@MrGnuh is it really that bad in the West?
I'm 34, live alone and never had a partner. I never thought of it as a problem, I enjoy it like this.
I can see the economic problems if everyone would think about it like this, though.
Still I don't like the undertone on this topic in many documentaries, not everybody has to strive for marriage and children or even boy/girlfriends.
I'm guessing you are introverted like me. It's the extroverts who suffer.
@@ThouSwell-zx3fd maybe
take some accountability... say you are selfish and never learned to share or help someone. That's many people, no shame.
You can always strive for....hmm
@@atilla4352 cry river... it is what it is
They make some high quality Dolls there in Japan. Those were the bargain bin version compared to what i have seen. Still they don't hold a candle to Abyss Creations Dolls.
The single life for me is all about survival, saving money and taking care of yourself first. You have the freedom to what you enjoy and and have that serenity.
Damn I hope Japan figures it out because the culture is so cool I don’t want them to die out
I live alone in London and yet maintain a great relationship and I had 5 kids who always need me and I love every second of it. I don’t need much to be happy. I just don’t get this.
you have nothing in common with the situations and lifestyles the people in the vid have, you have many kids; these people have no way to even have one or even lose their v..gnty
Great video noticed the dolls are light skin and all have non Japanese eyes. Does anybody notice alot of Japanese men are very feminine. Its like you can hardly tell the difference between a man and a woman. I
No body hair + soft unmuscular physique = Androgyny
Jpop culture and plastic surgery industry behind it support that beauty standard.
For me, I spent age 20 to 30 doing nothing but working two full-time jobs and going to night school four nights a week. I did not pursue girls. I'm sure glad I didn't: now, as a secure older man, nice young adult ladies are happy to have me -- and I can afford them. This isn't the 1950's. This is 2024. Youth is for getting educated so you can be secure in your senior years. Girls want money and security. Sacrifice your youth so you can enjoy your senior years. Believe me, if you're a secure older man, girls will be all over you. (It's worth the wait.)
I was raised in a dysfunctional family, with both my parents in a toxic relationship and my sister.
That is why both me and my sister, are not so positive on the idea of marriage and children.
Most people are in toxic relationships, because of fear of loneliness. The dating culture is tragic, because people's bar status is low for both men and women.
Men enter the dating culture being disappointed, because women can't keep up with their expectations, while women are forced to think between career but single or in a relationship with marriage and children and then divorce.
Lack of companionship and sex and loneliness are killers.
God created us in pairs.
sx, relationships and companions have caused me to be so distraught im lucky i survived, me by myself things go calmly and smoothly
The truth is girls and women in general have a terrible relationship with their sexuality. That is why their dating bar is low. And guys get to be as shallow as they desire.
There is no god and today's western society gives a rats-a** about men.
solution: make the whole world muslim. 🎉
My Japanese GF is no longer sexless. We did it bois
Is she a goat 🐐
Be real, though - she's an avatar.
She isn't real, wake up homie
Nobody cares about the fake story
In Germany we use to say: there fell a bag of rice
my hot take: romance is dead in Japan and somehow the work culture is a major contributor.
No time for romance, life = work
Maybe this is why there are no other civilizations in the universe. When a civilization reaches a certain point of technological advancement and comfort, it goes extinct.
Being alone is the most powerful thing to do, I see couples holding hands, it seems good from far, but the things which comes with this locking of hands are very different. This is a very important topic we need to analyze this topic to evolve to be a better individuals.
Why was the reporter doing that to the dolls toes though? 😂 #OnTheRoadTo100K. #Robloak.
Let's be honest here, this is a Global problem. Happening more and more here in the Philippines too. Whether Voluntary or not, more young working men and women are opting out of relationships and intimacy altogether. Work Culture is also quite toxic here, specifically within NCR made even more atrocious because of the abysmal public transit conditions. 2 hours commute to work, 2 hours commute home. Thats 4 hours just trying to get Public Transportation. People literally have no time to do anything else outside of work.
At some point one has to say to one self I will not comply, I mean I will be the best worker above all the others so when I am done I will leave and do what I want, ie, have a social life. Don't like it, fire me, I know my skills and what I have to offer is not easy to replace, so let us reason together or too bad, so sad, I will go, that is why I am my own boss .Got it, good! I guess that is why I am not Japanese, however I respect Japan and their people.
Feel like tbh it’s not just Japan that’s going through this, feel it’s a world thing tbh
*Australians are doing fine but they need to get rid of those big ass insects....*
Holding down a job until your 60/65, providing an adequate pension in a time of ever increasing state pension age, big mortgages, car loans, and the cost of bringing up kids. A 50% chance of ending up divorced. I can't blame young people for staying single.
Companies: No, we will not raise wages or benefits!
Also companies: WHAT DO YOU MEAN ALL THE EMPLOYEES HAVE RETIRED AND THERE IS NOBODY TO TAKE THEIR PLACE!?!?!?!
Even the WEF must realize that their plans require a stable population, right?
40% never having sex is just incredible, and I’m sure most of them are men. The hypergamy of women have never been so prevalent in history. Most of the women end up sleeping with the same men. Roughly a 15% of male population have access to 90% of female population. A man in that 15%, dates and have sex with multiple women throughout his life. And he rejects or not even considers only the 10% of the women in the dating market. But women are all looking for the same guys. They sometimes still date outside of that 15%, but rarely and shortly. That’s why you hear some guys getting a sexual experience once in a blue moon and others hooking up with multiple women in a single week. Believe it or not, not even in the Medieval Ages, hypergamy of women were this much rampant. Not even in the Islamic conquest era. Not even in the Stone Age! Just a 75 years ago though, the hypergamy was in its lowest point. More than 95% of men were married back then, and most of the remaining 5% had sexual or romantic relationships. It was the norm. 50s were also the peak era of monogamy. But today, not just the hypergamy of women is in historical rise, but the polygamy as well. Back in my childhood, rich men with multiple partners were shunned. Nowadays they’re encouraged to have multiple “sugar babies”, it’s considered a validation of success. Of course not every rich guy has a harem, but it’s started to be normalized. And that’s basically the origin story of the historical polygamy we all know about. There’re also open marriages, which are also a direct product of the hypergamy. Sometimes hypergamy forces women to marry a man they really don’t find attractive, mainly for monetary reasons, and they find the solution in open relationships, if they can somehow convince their partners of course. Although monetary gain is one of the main aspects of the hypergamy, it of course is not what it is all about. The bad boy archetype is a sexual object for most women, as well as a healthy and good looking man. Intelligence, the status, and manners in overall are also quite important for hypergamy. Finding all of these attributes at the same time is almost impossible. That’s why we end up with only 15% of male population. In which not all of them are meeting all the criteria already, but at least if you’re a bad boy, you still end up in this 15% anyhow. This phenomenon leaves us with a huge male population that is lone and sexless. They always end up being rejected for various reasons. Which we never experienced in our history as a spicy. How did we end up here? I really don’t know. I’m also not sure what it will lead to.
The best comment, you understand the situation very very well. As we can see from this video the next step is formalization and acceptance of this shift in societal expectations and values and a status quo of top 5% of men with actual harems and the rest of men settling for AI-powered hyper-realistic dolls, I give it 20 years for that to become the norm, maybe even less if male engineers push for the advancements necessary to make it a reality.
The birthrate is doomed forever though, maybe we'll get government-funded mass incubation programs, but that's only once we're at the extreme point of facing extinction from non-reproduction. Maybe in 50 years.
Shouldn’t never gave women rights. That would’ve stop the feminist bull crap 💩
This video is motivating for me. Everyone is saying marriage is important. As an adult, if you have free time, urges will definitely come. However, after watching this, I want to remain single. Just consider one thing: countries with high birth rates are often considered third-class.
6:24 this was so fascinating to hear her speak with an excellent American accent but can tell that English is her second language with very minor grammar and accent giveaway
From the, "study hard and keep studying." To, "work all day to barely support yourself." To, "here's everything going up!"
They wonder why their kids either don't talk to them or give them grandsons and or granddaughters.
Its alot of problems that need to be addressed and because the older to elderly people love being stubborn. They need to be handled first and have their eyes open to the current times.
When I was at genz age I have been through so many relationship but unfortunately nothing worked out. I am 34 and don't want to get into any kind of relationship.. I hope I will get married to someone who will respect me and is loyal to me forever ❤❤.. No relationship only for marriage ❤❤
AI Robots will take over the working class.
When? 😂
20 sq meters for an apartment is scary.
Nothing that galvanized square steel and eco friendly wood veneer couldn't fix.
Lots of apartments of that size in Paris, too. I'd find living in such a cramped space claustrophobic.
"In Japan, after marriage couples rarely engage in sexual relationships." So, just like in every American sitcom from 1950 to 2017?
I've been watching videos about mouse utopia. Might explain why this video shows up in my feed. 20:21 really brings mouse utopia home.
I am 33 live in abu dubai, i live alone and work in hospital. When i see old people, i feel that I need a life partner. But in a relationship, you lost freedom of life. It is really difficult to decide whether to live a single or in a live-in relationship.
It depends on who you choose as a partner. Make sure they are your friend first before considering romance. Having your best friend as a life partner is amazing
@anitagarcia8056 I agree with you 💯.
Younger generation addicted to porn, social media, and video games. Its as addictive as cocaine and the kids start young.
when I go to the metro all I'm seeing is women scrolling facebook and instagram.
I regurarely try to flirt. Most of women are absolutely not interested, even when I believe that I'm quite a catch. I even saw worse: top tier men walking into the metro, like TOP TIER. What is the young women doing instead of flirting with him? => opening tinder. She totally ignored him.
Men have become nothing but a product you shop online. This is the main reason of the dating hardships. Women are to blame. Only after that men with porn-addiction and MAYBE video games are to blame, but honestly I don't think video games are the problem.
I've watched so many vlogs about Japan where they interview a lot of teenagers and young adults about their sex life and their body counts. One of the women they interviewed was only in her early 20s but said her body count was already 50. The sexless epidemic in Japan is not real. Sex is still there and the prostitutes there are not losing money, so how can you say that country is sexless?
The real epidemic there is the decision of lots of married japanese not to have children
That's because the legal age of consent in Japan is around 12 or 13 years. So it's not surprising that a girl with a fairly adventurous mindset would rake up a 50 plus body count by her early 20s.
@@leobuscaglia5576 50 is nothing special, most of western women reach over 100+ bodycount before their 30.
@@bannedeverywhere That must be true as sex is pretty casual in western societies.
@@leobuscaglia5576 not true
Allright Japan here i come!
I can imagine a far future generation watching this as a documentary in class and everyone thinking this was fiction
I’m 30 & I don’t have any children..this is a problem everywhere 💔🙃 Children are expensive
You meant to say " Child Support "..
Raising children has always been expensive. We've just become much, much more selfish and narcissistic than the previous generations and, as a result, profoundly uncomfortable with intimacy.
I'm 36, self-made you know what. Most women absolutely ignore me. I'm 5'8 in Germany. Nearly nobody gives a rat's a** about what men want. My biggest problem is, women my age don't even flirt AT ALL.
Women beginning of their 20ties, they send me signals, but when they find out my age it's over. Women around 30-35 => nonexistent in flirting. I don't know what you guys are looking for, but I'm certainly not that man you are interested in...
How can this happen if 70% of the male population but 60% of the female population is single? Where do women get their partners from? Do several women share one man?
Look up the 80/20 rule in dating, you might be shocked in how a few males get so many women.
@@krankvegann Yes, your conclusion sounds plausible. I know that bad boys appeal to women more. They feel more attracted to them than to nice men.
It's worse in north America. By high school end, 60% females had sex and 30% males.
Japanese women do some sneaky stuff which they hide 👍 for obvious reasons
These studies are typically not going to be fully accurate. But a factor is that women typically date older men and men typically date younger women. Also lesbianism
Maybe this is one of the reasons why we have not found intelligence outside earth: it seems intelligence is a risk factor for species survival, not only because of self destruction but also for this, personal wellbeing over species survival. There will always be a cohort of humanity more connected with their animality, willing to procreate. Those shall inherit the earth, it seems.
Be careful living alone is very addictive but as long as you are having conversation with your neighbour, friends, family members everyday you are fine
This is the saddest thing I have ever seen. I have now begun to realize that when people are very alone, as a default survival mechanism they convince themselves that it’s more enjoyable to live alone than to be around other people. That’s horrible for your psyche and it’s sad to see people living in this state of hollowed our existence.
Like every study and common sense show the importance of social life. sex is a basic need. Most people are not honest to themselves. They always want to find ways to get self aproval. So it is easier to tell that they are always right and find reasons for that, instead to find the problems and try to solve them. This is comfort zone and it just seems easier to adapt into it considering the societal environment/ culture. It seems sad, but this is their own fault and responsability.
Perhaps this is the natural and protective response of our species when facing overcrowding and overpopulation.
Overpopulation is pretty much a myth
Smart people. Respect.
Just remember folks only take these videos with a grain of salt.
What you mean 'grain of salt'?
and the comments...
I can relate, but being alone is very peaceful. Also I think Japanese women are GORGEOUS
They’re gorgeous until they hit 30 and then they age horrendously
It's like that over here in America for most people. Being alone and sexless for the past 3 years has just left me numb to having any interest in being in a relationship or wanting to be sexually active.
But we are constantly being bombarded by Japan's stellar education, values, cleanliness, respect, etc...
Compared with the disaster that is the west is something to admire. Maybe we could learn to be more respectful and clean like them, although I doubt it.
"respect" lol... japanese are the MOST disrespectful people on Earth, their notorious "politeness" is just a protective mechanism against anything human, a disguise to hide their robotic nature, narrow-mindedness, lack of genuine curiosity, and xenophobic inferiority complex towards those able to LIVE THE LIFE without sacrificing 100% of it to the never-ending repair of the flimsy "MADE OF JAPAN" facade
And what's wrong with that?
Don't forget the stellar suicide rates
@@BorisEysbroek yes, that was my point, thank you
being alone is way better than having to deal with your girlfriend's drama
but the sex is worth it
and having to constantly go places, most women have to always have somewhere to go, it's exhausting and boring
But many men also created drama out of so many innocent girls, before these girls became insufferable.
@@joejones9520 because it's soooo much more exciting to sit in the house all day watching ya'll fart into the couch watching TV 😂
@@anitagarcia8056 My ex:
"We need to do something. We always only sit at home and do nothing. You're so lazy!"
Me:
Lets do this
lets do that
lets do this and that and this-that
She: no.
Me after 4 years: ok. Go and f*** yourself. Find another id*ot to fool around with. She did. Not even 1 month after I broke up. Their now getting engaged. She wanted me to buy her a house (I was still studying and dirt poor), get a massive mortage and "just be a man". Now her "man" also doesn't have built a house. Even 6 years after me he couldn't do it ;-)
So I stayed single and got millionaire MYSELF WITH MY MIGHT AND KNOWLEDGE. I went from dirt poor student from underprivileged family to rich. Ain't no woman out there I have seen wants to invest in their future partner. You also can't go somewhere and tell the ladies that "you made it". Either it's considered "bragging" or she simply won't believe you, when you don't wear the superfancy status-symbols and I don't do that, as it's a security-risk.
Therefore I'm still single and nobody gives a freaking s*it about it.
Japan: I like my air conditioner like I like my women, cold, quiet and remote operable.
That’s their karma
It's so ironic how uninterested in sex and marriage they are given how raunchy that a lot of the anime and hentai that come from over there is.
no wonder some of them migrate..I heard one of their favorite second home in Malaysia.
wait until they find out how bad is Msia is.
its not only in Japan,its happening all over the world
MGTOW Men going there own way.
Men going gay
The sex dolls are so disturbing, they have the body of a teenager and the head of a child. Ew!
Shows how messed up some people minds are.
Disgusting but not surprising.
Not everyone wants to have children or a relationship for that matter, but there's still a lot of people who want those very things.
Even when the women are so desperate and a lot of virgins, it’s hard to date as a foreign in Japan? I am amazed that they all surprises their feelings and not suffer from an epidemic depression
Um…some of the dolls look like children.
No suprise its Japan.
just look at the anime what they produce..filled with characters who look like little girls..disgusting as hell
May be because alot of Asian women do look like a child?
Even the body. Isn't it obvious? @@chairpants
My 30 year old Chinese gf litterly looks like this. She's 4 foot 7 also
@@JunxCKmbro found a loophole
For a country with a lot of AV, and bathhouses there are sure not many births.
Japanese women do some sneaky stuff
@user-wf2xt5ez3xI say this too, but they don't believe me, people think the penetration is CGI or some trick like in Hollywood movies, even though it's completely real