Parents become like kids and they need the same care they provide you when you were an infant. Call your parents daily. Also dont forget about your elderly neighbors. RIP
@@MrChipDouglas1 my dad passed away a few months ago but before then when his health was deteriorating, they recommended us to send him to a nursing home. He went there and stayed for a few days and we took him RIGHT out and decided never again will we do that to him. I miss him a lot. Our family stayed with him till the end, we took shifts (mom would stay overnight and we would take turns staying throughout the day) and the night he passed my sister and mom was with him.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN It is her responsibility when parents can no longer care for themselves they need help. Sometimes you even have to move out of state to be there by them. You can put them in a home and that's your decision. Your kids will put you in a home and your kids will probably end up in a home. Hopefully you like it there, everyone ages.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN it's no wonder why you couldn't get along with your neighbors. You sound like my 12 year old niece, maybe later on down the line you will understand. I am not here to change your mind and that's your opinion. Peace and best of luck to you.
My mom suffered from dementia. I’d already resigned from my job to spend weekdays with her while my dad was at work. They went to their beach house on weekends. One day dad told me what he thought was a “funny” story of leaving my mom locked in the house (so she wouldn’t wander away). He turned off the a/c to save money on a very hot day. Mom no longer knew how to turn on the a/c. It got so hot in the house she called 911 and the police broke in and turned the a/c on for her. It was really frightening… especially my father’s absolute cluelessness about the dangers of the situation. That’s when I realized I needed to be with her 7 days a week. So I made the 2.5 hour drive to the beach every weekend in addition to spending weekdays with her. My sisters, who lived much closer to their beach house, just avoided the situation. Keep an eye on your elderly parents.
🙏My sympathies to the daughter for the loss of her parents. Elderly people with multiple health issues need a caregiver to look after them especially during a heatwave.
People don’t realize how exhausting taking care of your elderly parents, disabled kin, or a child is. It’s really sad to hear them go out like that. Condolences to the families. Hope everyone is staying cool and safe out there. Much appreciation those who (like nurses, doctors, EMT, EMS, caregivers, etc.) cares for the needy, elderly, and disabled. We definitely need more people like them.
@@Slappys, no it's not. What's ignorant is people knowing their parents are fragile.vulnerable but chose to live far and not bother to check until they're dead. You a fool
@@joan-lisa-smith If you live in another state or country people can still check in. This will be food for thought for someone else otherwise someone will repeat what she's done. I promise, right after her mistake many people just checked in on their loved ones. Her lesson was hard but it doesn't have to be for someone else. It doesn't matter if she was in another country.
@@joan-lisa-smith You're right but you're wrong to think she should think the neighbors are there for her parents. For F sake they had her. And I promise you because of her failure there are people following up on their loved ones, right now, whether in another city, state or country, as it's possible. This is a lesson for others.
@@joan-lisa-smith LOL "It's not my fault I didn't check on my parents, I live in another state! It's my parents' neighbor's fault!!". Of course you're female. You care more about blame than you care about consequences.
@@joan-lisa-smith...She apparently didn't help them... The power was off and said she had a miss call from the neighbors,,she probably didn't want to be bothered....That was awful !!😢😢
I'm sorry for the daughter losing her parents. May they rest in peace. However, she has to be accountable its her responsibility to check on her parents and make sure they've what they need.Those are her parents.
It's not her responsibility. They Are grown people. Stop acting like we all have to protect our parents. My mom is a lunatic and rarely puts her AC on. That's her problem, not mine.
@IHATEDIAPERDON you are a bold face liar. The paresnt was their for her she should help them, that's what wrong in this world today, ungrateful good for nothing people.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN not in this heat they dont.Look at the people that died in paradise.PG&E should be gone from california but they contribute to crooked newsome campaign so nothing happens to them except fines that they pass off to customers to pay for
OR, you could call your own parents and then a neighbor or police for a welfare check. Of course, she's right on it when it comes to setting up a "fund," though. Makes no damn sense.
With the technology we have today many things can be set up to monitor parents . Problem is parents might of been embarrassed to say . Medical alert wifi thermostat camera a wellness check and more . I’m elderly and in Sacramento like to get out for a 15 min walk in 110F. Return and do a face dip in cold water bowl reduced heart rate cools my body . Also cool fast refresher shower . Hydrate with cold cold water Mellon . Night put ice cubes in my CPap machine . Also if need feet in dishpan of water .
@@vmobile890 also near sacramento hope you have family around to check on you if not you can always look for me in this comment . I'll be happy to help if I can
And she REFUSED to spend FIFTEEN DOLLARS on a CAMERA so she could CHECK ON THEM at ANY TIME!!! From ANYWHERE ON EARTH!!!! YOU…are INCREDIBLY STUPID!!!!
My mother is 81, lives in another state and is in good health. Not all adults can stay the same, and their elderly parents sometimes would rather care for themselves, and not be a burden or a worry to their families. People act like their daughter was a heartless monster, and she isn’t, and probably has a lot to deal with herself. She didn’t look 25…
What a shock that the only one that has issue with accountability is a woman. You totally dont' fight the stereotype that women never take accountability, do you? Lawls. She wants others to be involved in their neighbors lives but she can't even be involved in her sick, elderly parents lives. Mhm. Makes sense.
People are forgetting an important detail. MANY parents resent and resist kids getting bossy and trying to take over their lives checking on them like they were children. Even well meaning children. Unfortunately, having been in healthcare for 50 years there are more malevolent interest from kids or excessive control attempts from kids than kids being available to help and respecting by keeping a respectful distance and NOT try to take over like a dictator. That is rare. MANY adults and elderly fear that letting them get too nosey is opening the door for coup attempts and may not always answer the phone, or welcome concern. Sometimes it's BEST for the elderly to distance themselves, and sometimes not. WE don't know their concerns. Whether reasonable or not, or even present. Dr Laura's mother was dead months before she was found, and Weird Al's parents died of carbon monoxide poisoning. Unless invited, kids need to not impose themselves on their parents and if something goes wrong its not their fault. Parents are not minors. What are your adult children doing this moment? How about your parents? Are they alive right this minute? You really don't know unless they CHOOSE to have you with them..
Thankyou so so so so much for this perspective. My mother is hostile to any help and refuses advice ALL THE TIME on tips to just make her kitchen more user friendly or lessen her work load in general. She also thinks I steal from her but that is nothing new, so it's not dementia. Again some parents are just ugly mean elders, I can't hover over her and I can't make her happy. She is not a loving woman and so be it.
We have a lady right now dying from heat. Her family is putting her on comfort care. Her house was 112 degrees inside. Her internal temperature was 108. Her husband works and she's home alone, disabled. There's ways to cool off and people need to eyeball each other in this weather. Neighbors need to reach out to each other.
@@collinsfriend1 I don't reach out to neighbors. It's their responsibility to take care of themselves just as I have to take care of myself. If they need something they can ask but I'm not going out of my way for people I don't even know.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMANthat's the beauty of phones, you DON'T have to go knock on their door to check on anyone. Call the police non emergency number and ask that they do a welfare check.
@@poollife777the story clearly says "the power was out", I watched the story twice to listen again. Now was the power out because of a power outage or was it out due to not paying the bill? That was not made clear in the story.
This is a sad situation. These folks were both sick and one was trying to take care of the other. Rip folks. Check on people when you can , you may save a life.
Climate change is not real according to some people but we are facing worse and worse weather every year. There is snow in tropical island of Indonesia after the highland temperature dropped 10 - 20 degrees C to below zero. Humans are the destroyers of Earth and we gotta face the consequence.
Ok...... now.... people did survive thousands of years with no air conditioning..... but, a mobile home with no shade on it will become like an oven.... I think part of the problem is the type of house we live in..... one that is partially into the earth will stay cooler in the summer and warmer in the winter. I am sorry for this woman's loss! Her parents in the picture look very young.
I purchased my mom a portable air conditioner just in case hers breaks down. I also have one in case my center air conditioner breaks down. This happened to me 4 years ago and it took the company 3 days to come to my house due to the high number of calls coming into their company. I said never again.
Why was the power off? Why wasnt the daughter aware the power was ofd and that the AC and swapcooler wasnt working? She had a missed called from the neighbors...after...this happened. You have to speak to them and ask specific questions if you arent having them live with you.
Becasue the daughter didn't make it a priority, feels an ounce of guilt, but in female fashion, deflects the blame. "Oh the neighbors are so selfish and only watch out for themselves. They should have been caretaking my parents for free for no reason at all".
@@Nottallblonde ALL she needs was ONE, $15 security camera. They can be watched FROM ANYWHERE ON EARTH!!! And IF its power goes out…THEN you call their LOCAL POLICE to check on them!!!!! DAMN, that girl is DUMB!!!
@@pearlsswineI'm a woman and I definitely have to agree wit you we love to blame everyone else but ourselves she is acting like it's everyone else's is fault it's not like before where u could be friends with your neighbor nowadays if u wanna be friends your considered the Nosy neighbor and probably be shamed and posted up on tikrok as the weirdos next door
She said she recently had surgery and was probably not well enough to travel. Why blame her - why didn’t the parents call her or Local Authorities for help, like police or fire dept.?
I have an air quality monitor that I can access online. I use it to check AQ and temp when I’m away. It can also send alerts to me or someone else. Maybe more older folks should have one. Sorry they passed that way
If they have families, they need to be able to rely on families. The responsibility falls more on families than neighbors. Nobody shouldn't have to pass that way especially if they have children who are adults.
California here! Everyday elderly are making choices about food or electricity. Meanwhile we are giving free medical to undocumented and people who have never paid into the system. What are our values?!
I'm an elder, and doing just fine....thanks for your concern. But without the undocumented in my area, no farms would get their fruit or produce picked, no one would be out working in the roads, or on our roofs. The medical care they get here is for pregnancy or emergency care only, and many pay taxes usjng an ITIN number.
I quit my job to take care of my Mom when she was ill because it was either that or put her in a home and there was no way I was doing that. Parents take care of us when we're young, that's the least we can do for them. Why didn't the family take care of them? This is so horrific that they both died over something that could have been prevented. Sad.
My step dad got cancer during Covid and he and my mom hid it from everyone. It wasn't until he was on death's door that I realized that something was going on. I worked in "essential" retail during covid, so visits were restricted to phone calls on opposite sides of the patio door. I'm sure that if this daughter knew how bad it was, she would have done something. Even elderly people who are suffering from alzheimer's can conceal their symptoms pretty effectively. My mom now has dementia, and although she has progressed quite a bit in the last year, she was really good at hiding symptoms by claiming to be feeling ill when her mind was giving her trouble. These days, she can't remember that she has a diagnosis.
To think all this could have been prevented if this woman would have checked on her parents during a heat wave or at least gave them a call the damn neighbor couldn't even get a hold of her to call and let her know that her parents were dead
To all the people commenting with their told-you-so internet "wisdom." You are completely over simplifying a tragic situation for the perverse, momentary satisfaction of telling a grieving woman she let her parents down. You know nothing of her life, her back story (apparently she'd just had a surgery), or her relationship with her parents, etc. Many people simply cannot afford to take care of elderly relatives. Or give up homes, lives and livelihoods to move across country to be with them. Life doesn't always work out that way. Victim blamers are mentally sick. Try a little compassion for a change - you might find you feel a bit better about your own sad life too.
how do you go through life NOT checking on your parents if they ac was out WHY didn't this daughter get it fixed or take them to her place? I am so confused
A lot of blame here and that’s not good. I place the responsibility for keeping people safe, on our government. We pay taxes federal and state, and the US government should make sure that there are cooling centers in the summer and warming centers in the winter in EVERY town for ANYONE who needs it. They should provide rides to and from especially for the elderly and vulnerable. But no, they send our tax money to do stuff that we don’t approve of.
Exactly 100% agree. I live in El centro Ca where temps are 120 to 125 July and August. I just bought my elderly mom a 15 k AC unit woth new ducts. I make sure she is cooled and warm every every season.
It is pretty obvious excessive electrical costs is killing people. People are avoiding using AC and heat in winter. It gets to 117 here where I live. Dry heat fortunately. Almost no elderly or poor use their AC or heater, even swamp coolers. Costs too much. That extra $50-$1000 over a moderate bill is too much for fixed incomes.
Children can purchase air conditioners and pay electric for their ill parents. Use coolers and kiddie pools, inside and outside filled with ice. Great for pets also.
Say what ever you want, these blackouts are not from weather, just like the text messages say.. They are rollouts and they haven’t been happening in the rich side of town.
people die too easily. they have no will to live. i've seen people get in all sorts of accidents and still survive. struck by lightning. etc. these people had no will to live.
This was preventable when temps get to 113 and up SWAMP COOLERS DO NOT WORK m as my yrs ago my husband said let’s get a swamp cooler ? And I said they don’t work and I’m spoiled my parents always had CENTRAL AIR CONDITIONING 👍 well he did buy it but ended up selling it my parents got me a window air conditioner and it was great and I looked at my hubby and he said yeah this is much better
Heat is increasing decomposition propagating more flies, fungie, pestilence diseases, even safety from heat can avoid heat related deaths, so if heat is common then is time for intergenerational living.
Doctors and caregivers should be working with social workers to ensure there is a reliable back-up power source during power outages, both planned and emergency shutoff. A small emergency lithium battery costs around $1,000, and can power an air conditioner, fans, breathing machine, etc. Solar panels can be used to recharge, and in turn charge up phones, lights.
I dont understand why the daughter did not check up on them or called them to see how they were doing. I bought my parents a 10k new AC unit amd make sure they are warm in the winter 🤷♂️🤦♀️
@@freespeech.7254. Stop shouting and being aggressive. Those parents were adults they could call 911 if they didn't feel well. Stop blaming any relatives who were not even living there. And you haven't died of heat exhaustion so yeah you don't know too.
Elderly couple with health problems.Why didn't they have a generator sad.... I'm sorry you look out for your family.Don't rely on neighbors and those people should have had a caregiver
@poollife777 Maybe she was sick. I caught Covid and couldn't visit my mother bcuz she was not feeling well also had Dementia. My mom got sick on Tuesday and died on Friday. I couldn't do anything about it bcuz I caught Covid. Don't judge her you are not in her shoes.
I don't understand, why did they not have electricity in their house? Was it because they couldn't afford it financially? The daughter (and if she has any other siblings) should have been checking on them regularly! (by phone, if she lived faraway), and sending them some money if her parents were that much in need that they couldn't afford their electricity bill.
Parents become like kids and they need the same care they provide you when you were an infant.
Call your parents daily. Also dont forget about your elderly neighbors. RIP
@@MrChipDouglas1 my dad passed away a few months ago but before then when his health was deteriorating, they recommended us to send him to a nursing home. He went there and stayed for a few days and we took him RIGHT out and decided never again will we do that to him. I miss him a lot. Our family stayed with him till the end, we took shifts (mom would stay overnight and we would take turns staying throughout the day) and the night he passed my sister and mom was with him.
@@samia6888 Some wont get that option of saying goodbye. I bet he appreciates you all for being there for him and taking him out of that nursing home.
So right
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN It is her responsibility when parents can no longer care for themselves they need help. Sometimes you even have to move out of state to be there by them.
You can put them in a home and that's your decision. Your kids will put you in a home and your kids will probably end up in a home.
Hopefully you like it there, everyone ages.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN it's no wonder why you couldn't get along with your neighbors. You sound like my 12 year old niece, maybe later on down the line you will understand. I am not here to change your mind and that's your opinion. Peace and best of luck to you.
My mom suffered from dementia. I’d already resigned from my job to spend weekdays with her while my dad was at work. They went to their beach house on weekends. One day dad told me what he thought was a “funny” story of leaving my mom locked in the house (so she wouldn’t wander away). He turned off the a/c to save money on a very hot day. Mom no longer knew how to turn on the a/c. It got so hot in the house she called 911 and the police broke in and turned the a/c on for her. It was really frightening… especially my father’s absolute cluelessness about the dangers of the situation. That’s when I realized I needed to be with her 7 days a week. So I made the 2.5 hour drive to the beach every weekend in addition to spending weekdays with her. My sisters, who lived much closer to their beach house, just avoided the situation. Keep an eye on your elderly parents.
Sounds like your dad might have been getting a touch of dementia himself
You’re a great person! ❤
And those sisters will figure out how to get all the inheritance 😮
I was a full time care giver for my parents and I moved back home. Not everyone can do that and I was blessed to be able to.
Angels were watching over her.She is bless to have a daughter like u
Bruh, ain’t no way my folks would go through that. Not relying on no dam neighbors. Rip 🕊️
Exactly 💯
My mom is foolish and her issues are on her and nobody else.
Right. Because there’s no way you’d ever go a whole two hours without seeing your parents…
@@ss.c7648 🤣🤣
You say this now…
🙏My sympathies to the daughter for the loss of her parents. Elderly people with multiple health issues need a caregiver to look after them especially during a heatwave.
People don’t realize how exhausting taking care of your elderly parents, disabled kin, or a child is. It’s really sad to hear them go out like that. Condolences to the families. Hope everyone is staying cool and safe out there. Much appreciation those who (like nurses, doctors, EMT, EMS, caregivers, etc.) cares for the needy, elderly, and disabled. We definitely need more people like them.
Costs a lot of money and Medicare DOES NOT pay for it.
Check on your parents! Stop playing the victim.
That is such an ignorant thing to say.
@@Slappys, no it's not. What's ignorant is people knowing their parents are fragile.vulnerable but chose to live far and not bother to check until they're dead. You a fool
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMANWhat we sow, we shall reap.
@@sophiamac9100 yes. You will
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN Ditto.
I'm so sorry for your loss So tragic
😢 what a way to rest 😢
😢 hot n humid 🥵 what a way to rest 😮 sad 😢 😢 😮
So easy to avoid!!!! ☹ Rhonda, check up on your parents. Do not rely on neighbors, sons and daughter or grand kids follow up on your loved ones.
She lives n another state ffs! Stop blaming her.
@@joan-lisa-smith If you live in another state or country people can still check in. This will be food for thought for someone else otherwise someone will repeat what she's done. I promise, right after her mistake many people just checked in on their loved ones. Her lesson was hard but it doesn't have to be for someone else. It doesn't matter if she was in another country.
@@joan-lisa-smith You're right but you're wrong to think she should think the neighbors are there for her parents. For F sake they had her. And I promise you because of her failure there are people following up on their loved ones, right now, whether in another city, state or country, as it's possible. This is a lesson for others.
@@joan-lisa-smith LOL "It's not my fault I didn't check on my parents, I live in another state! It's my parents' neighbor's fault!!". Of course you're female. You care more about blame than you care about consequences.
@@joan-lisa-smith...She apparently didn't help them... The power was off and said she had a miss call from the neighbors,,she probably didn't want to be bothered....That was awful !!😢😢
I live here in Fresno it’s been extremely hot and still going , god bless you and your parents ❤️
I'm sorry for the daughter losing her parents. May they rest in peace. However, she has to be accountable its her responsibility to check on her parents and make sure they've what they need.Those are her parents.
It's not her responsibility. They Are grown people. Stop acting like we all have to protect our parents. My mom is a lunatic and rarely puts her AC on. That's her problem, not mine.
@IHATEDIAPERDON you are a bold face liar. The paresnt was their for her she should help them, that's what wrong in this world today, ungrateful good for nothing people.
Maybe PG$E shouldnt shut off power when its over 100 degrees
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN not in this heat they dont.Look at the people that died in paradise.PG&E should be gone from california but they contribute to crooked newsome campaign so nothing happens to them except fines that they pass off to customers to pay for
@@Rick-jz1vs it's over 100 every single day in the summertime in Las Vegas. You don't get to not pay your bill and crap happens.
OR, you could call your own parents and then a neighbor or police for a welfare check. Of course, she's right on it when it comes to setting up a "fund," though. Makes no damn sense.
Id talk to my parents every day if they were here especially with the heat id be checking in constantly !!!! But now she needs a go fund me. Hmm
Couldn't even cry . If it was my family I'd be hard to hold back tears
With the technology we have today many things can be set up to monitor parents . Problem is parents might of been embarrassed to say . Medical alert wifi thermostat camera a wellness check and more . I’m elderly and in Sacramento like to get out for a 15 min walk in 110F. Return and do a face dip in cold water bowl reduced heart rate cools my body . Also cool fast refresher shower . Hydrate with cold cold water Mellon . Night put ice cubes in my CPap machine . Also if need feet in dishpan of water .
@@vmobile890 Embarrassed to say WHAT? She knew her Dad, the sole caretaker for her Mom, had COPD.
@@vmobile890 also near sacramento hope you have family around to check on you if not you can always look for me in this comment . I'll be happy to help if I can
People need to quit blaming the daughter. She lived in another state. Condolences to her.
Yes I agree…old people don’t complain to their kids,everyone is struggling….haters gotta hate🇺🇸🕊🥺
And she REFUSED to spend FIFTEEN DOLLARS on a CAMERA so she could CHECK ON THEM at ANY TIME!!! From ANYWHERE ON EARTH!!!! YOU…are INCREDIBLY STUPID!!!!
My mother is 81, lives in another state and is in good health. Not all adults can stay the same, and their elderly parents sometimes would rather care for themselves, and not be a burden or a worry to their families. People act like their daughter was a heartless monster, and she isn’t, and probably has a lot to deal with herself. She didn’t look 25…
What a shock that the only one that has issue with accountability is a woman. You totally dont' fight the stereotype that women never take accountability, do you? Lawls.
She wants others to be involved in their neighbors lives but she can't even be involved in her sick, elderly parents lives. Mhm. Makes sense.
@@pearlsswineseek help🚩🚩🚩🚩
People are forgetting an important detail. MANY parents resent and resist kids getting bossy and trying to take over their lives checking on them like they were children. Even well meaning children. Unfortunately, having been in healthcare for 50 years there are more malevolent interest from kids or excessive control attempts from kids than kids being available to help and respecting by keeping a respectful distance and NOT try to take over like a dictator. That is rare. MANY adults and elderly fear that letting them get too nosey is opening the door for coup attempts and may not always answer the phone, or welcome concern. Sometimes it's BEST for the elderly to distance themselves, and sometimes not. WE don't know their concerns. Whether reasonable or not, or even present. Dr Laura's mother was dead months before she was found, and Weird Al's parents died of carbon monoxide poisoning. Unless invited, kids need to not impose themselves on their parents and if something goes wrong its not their fault. Parents are not minors. What are your adult children doing this moment? How about your parents? Are they alive right this minute? You really don't know unless they CHOOSE to have you with them..
Thankyou so so so so much for this perspective. My mother is hostile to any help and refuses advice ALL THE TIME on tips to just make her kitchen more user friendly or lessen her work load in general. She also thinks I steal from her but that is nothing new, so it's not dementia. Again some parents are just ugly mean elders, I can't hover over her and I can't make her happy. She is not a loving woman and so be it.
My Condolences to The Daughter and Family.❤🙏
We have a lady right now dying from heat. Her family is putting her on comfort care. Her house was 112 degrees inside. Her internal temperature was 108. Her husband works and she's home alone, disabled. There's ways to cool off and people need to eyeball each other in this weather. Neighbors need to reach out to each other.
@@collinsfriend1 I don't reach out to neighbors. It's their responsibility to take care of themselves just as I have to take care of myself. If they need something they can ask but I'm not going out of my way for people I don't even know.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN and they can be crazy af, too...
They can be crazy AF, too. No, thanks.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 exactly. You may go check on them and they could just unalive you because you knocked.
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMANthat's the beauty of phones, you DON'T have to go knock on their door to check on anyone. Call the police non emergency number and ask that they do a welfare check.
Why was the power out? The power must stay on in these mobile home parks. It gets far too hot inside.
Need a solar generator like Jackery, Bluettie, Ecoflow air conditioner
@@poollife777the story clearly says "the power was out", I watched the story twice to listen again. Now was the power out because of a power outage or was it out due to not paying the bill? That was not made clear in the story.
Ask PG&E why they didn’t have power….
@@libbyjane700it’s fue to poverty a lot of out elderly die poor and due to financial reasons
My grandparents have an air conditioner but they don’t use it cause paw said it costs too much I’m always checking up on them rip
Why were they alone?
You can't really rely on the neighbors If they're your parents you should check up on them if they need help
My mother hid her ilness and would never ask for help, please Don't judge what this woman did and did not do.
This is a sad situation. These folks were both sick and one was trying to take care of the other. Rip folks. Check on people when you can , you may save a life.
Imagine the poor animals left to die by disgusting people. Makes me so angry
And why was the power out when she arrived? In the interview the fans are working fine, or is that a different home?
Why was their power turned off?
Exactly 😮😮 The daughter didn't help them now doing Go Fund Me for funeral expenses ...
Maybe they didn't pay the bill.. my mom is not my responsibility..
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMAN Your name says it all. did they beat you, kick you and disrespect you and then laugh at you for existing.
@@J4-kjtdr8775 no my name shows you that I am better than you and you shouldn't talk back. Get in your place ( the garbage) and stay in it..
@@ILOVEDANNYELFMANdefinitely got ab*sed 🤡🤡🤡🤡😂😂
I’m in Vancouver BC 🇨🇦, retired, and am so fed up with this heat. We have no AC either. Condolences to this family.
Climate change is not real according to some people but we are facing worse and worse weather every year. There is snow in tropical island of Indonesia after the highland temperature dropped 10 - 20 degrees C to below zero. Humans are the destroyers of Earth and we gotta face the consequence.
Ok...... now.... people did survive thousands of years with no air conditioning..... but, a mobile home with no shade on it will become like an oven.... I think part of the problem is the type of house we live in..... one that is partially into the earth will stay cooler in the summer and warmer in the winter. I am sorry for this woman's loss! Her parents in the picture look very young.
Actually people didn't survive much past 50 something back in the day.
@@suebotchie4167that’s why population is at 8 billion 😅
I'm betting the photos were probably from 2 or 3 decades ago.
I purchased my mom a portable air conditioner just in case hers breaks down. I also have one in case my center air conditioner breaks down. This happened to me 4 years ago and it took the company 3 days to come to my house due to the high number of calls coming into their company.
I said never again.
1:15 I see no big tree in the
garden to cool the house ?
Why ?
Mobile home parks have rules about certain trees and their root systems running into plumbing pipes and such
Why didn’t she take her parents in???Raising children at the end of your days they don’t need you😢
Will you?
@@cy4330 of course
Maybe they didn’t want to be “taken in”?
Why was the power off? Why wasnt the daughter aware the power was ofd and that the AC and swapcooler wasnt working? She had a missed called from the neighbors...after...this happened. You have to speak to them and ask specific questions if you arent having them live with you.
Please tell me how that Daughter didn’t check on her parents during a heatwave? This story is very fishy to me.
Becasue the daughter didn't make it a priority, feels an ounce of guilt, but in female fashion, deflects the blame. "Oh the neighbors are so selfish and only watch out for themselves. They should have been caretaking my parents for free for no reason at all".
@@Nottallblonde ALL she needs was ONE, $15 security camera. They can be watched FROM ANYWHERE ON EARTH!!!
And IF its power goes out…THEN you call their LOCAL POLICE to check on them!!!!! DAMN, that girl is DUMB!!!
@@pearlsswine you make a career out of mysogenistic comments 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@@pearlsswineI'm a woman and I definitely have to agree wit you we love to blame everyone else but ourselves she is acting like it's everyone else's is fault it's not like before where u could be friends with your neighbor nowadays if u wanna be friends your considered the Nosy neighbor and probably be shamed and posted up on tikrok as the weirdos next door
She said she recently had surgery and was probably not well enough to travel. Why blame her - why didn’t the parents call her or Local Authorities for help, like police or fire dept.?
I have an air quality monitor that I can access online. I use it to check AQ and temp when I’m away. It can also send alerts to me or someone else. Maybe more older folks should have one. Sorry they passed that way
Prayers for the family
If they have families, they need to be able to rely on families. The responsibility falls more on families than neighbors. Nobody shouldn't have to pass that way especially if they have children who are adults.
California here! Everyday elderly are making choices about food or electricity. Meanwhile we are giving free medical to undocumented and people who have never paid into the system. What are our values?!
I'm an elder, and doing just fine....thanks for your concern. But without the undocumented in my area, no farms would get their fruit or produce picked, no one would be out working in the roads, or on our roofs. The medical care they get here is for pregnancy or emergency care only, and many pay taxes usjng an ITIN number.
Very true 😢 true😮
@@stormyweather2807Well said.
My condolences to you and the rest of the family. May They Rest In Peace.
I quit my job to take care of my Mom when she was ill because it was either that or put her in a home and there was no way I was doing that. Parents take care of us when we're young, that's the least we can do for them. Why didn't the family take care of them? This is so horrific that they both died over something that could have been prevented. Sad.
My step dad got cancer during Covid and he and my mom hid it from everyone. It wasn't until he was on death's door that I realized that something was going on. I worked in "essential" retail during covid, so visits were restricted to phone calls on opposite sides of the patio door. I'm sure that if this daughter knew how bad it was, she would have done something. Even elderly people who are suffering from alzheimer's can conceal their symptoms pretty effectively. My mom now has dementia, and although she has progressed quite a bit in the last year, she was really good at hiding symptoms by claiming to be feeling ill when her mind was giving her trouble. These days, she can't remember that she has a diagnosis.
Something off about this daughter. I lost my parents a year apart due to illness. She loses both at the same time, very calm about it.
I am so sorry! ❤
Prayers 🙏
I had no pg&e last week
When it was 115 all night from 9pm-5am
Fresno! Summer heat??? Really?? When did this start?
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So sorry, God be with your family,
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Please Check on Your ELDERS. No Matter Where You Are.
Medication also have an affect like with some meds they metabolize differently in extreme heat. My condolences.
Why did the power go out ?? There are or should be programs that help with electric bills. Why were they by themselves to start with ??
To think all this could have been prevented if this woman would have checked on her parents during a heat wave or at least gave them a call the damn neighbor couldn't even get a hold of her to call and let her know that her parents were dead
To all the people commenting with their told-you-so internet "wisdom." You are completely over simplifying a tragic situation for the perverse, momentary satisfaction of telling a grieving woman she let her parents down. You know nothing of her life, her back story (apparently she'd just had a surgery), or her relationship with her parents, etc. Many people simply cannot afford to take care of elderly relatives. Or give up homes, lives and livelihoods to move across country to be with them. Life doesn't always work out that way. Victim blamers are mentally sick. Try a little compassion for a change - you might find you feel a bit better about your own sad life too.
🌿🌿🌿 My condolences to you...your right no one should die that way...both are now together in heaven.🌿🌿🌿
Kids should check on their elderly parents. Why say neighbors should do it?
My sincerest condolences and prayers 😭🙏
People shouldn’t blame the daughter some parents want to be independent and be on their own.
Prayers 🙏🙏
I wonder why her Dad didn’t call for help when they lost their air. The story was confusing. Did their electricity go out?
RIP 💔. So very sad💔
how do you go through life NOT checking on your parents if they ac was out WHY didn't this daughter get it fixed or take them to her place? I am so confused
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Pg&e
Saying it’s weather
It’s not weather
They are doing rolling blackouts
So not right
They should not be allowed to do that
So sad 😢😢
The daughter should have called an said .Is everything okay?Is the air conditioner working?Do you need anything
A lot of blame here and that’s not good. I place the responsibility for keeping people safe, on our government. We pay taxes federal and state, and the US government should make sure that there are cooling centers in the summer and warming centers in the winter in EVERY town for ANYONE who needs it. They should provide rides to and from especially for the elderly and vulnerable. But no, they send our tax money to do stuff that we don’t approve of.
Due to high rate increases in electric and high energy bill's keeping the ac at 85. Neighbours ac 400 and up.
What a sad sad story. My heart goes out to the family 🙏💙
So why didn’t she buy her parents an air conditioner and check on her parents herself instead of expecting others too?
She had an entire system set in place to check up on them while giving them the independence they desired.
what a cruel comment
The power was out.... do you understand the concept of not having power?
Exactly 100% agree. I live in El centro Ca where temps are 120 to 125 July and August. I just bought my elderly mom a 15 k AC unit woth new ducts. I make sure she is cooled and warm every every season.
The power was out.
They got pre medical problems
It is pretty obvious excessive electrical costs is killing people. People are avoiding using AC and heat in winter. It gets to 117 here where I live. Dry heat fortunately. Almost no elderly or poor use their AC or heater, even swamp coolers. Costs too much. That extra $50-$1000 over a moderate bill is too much for fixed incomes.
God rest their souls. They are now free.
Children can purchase air conditioners and pay electric for their ill parents. Use coolers and kiddie pools, inside and outside filled with ice. Great for pets also.
Say what ever you want, these blackouts are not from weather, just like the text messages say..
They are rollouts and they haven’t been happening in the rich side of town.
Hearing my mother cry over bills reminds me of mother Mary.
Speaking words of wisdom...
Jesus starved so everyone can eat cheeseburgers and speak for him.
Jesus saves and comes too quickly in more ways than one 🙏. Things just didn't work out at all
@@poollife777 you don't have a high enough vibrational frequency or level of consciousness to know what love is or even be considered human at all
What state is this?
people die too easily. they have no will to live. i've seen people get in all sorts of accidents and still survive. struck by lightning. etc. these people had no will to live.
So sad.
How about check on your parents
What a rotten shame my heart goes out to the daughter 😢
Everyone knows the risks but many tends to ignore the voice of reason in back of our minds🤷♂️
Sad that people have to live in trailers.
Why wasnt she checking on her own parents ?
She lived out of state
so sad.
This was preventable when temps get to 113 and up SWAMP COOLERS DO NOT WORK m as my yrs ago my husband said let’s get a swamp cooler ? And I said they don’t work and I’m spoiled my parents always had CENTRAL AIR CONDITIONING 👍 well he did buy it but ended up selling it my parents got me a window air conditioner and it was great and I looked at my hubby and he said yeah this is much better
What health conditions?
Watch the video ffs
Why didn't you get a nurse to watch over them..get to know your parents and take care of them
In Fresno
Especially if the electric has gone out or you live in an appartment building!!
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Heat is increasing decomposition propagating more flies, fungie, pestilence diseases, even safety from heat can avoid heat related deaths, so if heat is common then is time for intergenerational living.
Doctors and caregivers should be working with social workers to ensure there is a reliable back-up power source during power outages, both planned and emergency shutoff. A small emergency lithium battery costs around $1,000, and can power an air conditioner, fans, breathing machine, etc. Solar panels can be used to recharge, and in turn charge up phones, lights.
That's the FAMILIES responsibility NOT a doctor! As if doctors don't have enough to do already!
The daughter IS to blame
Why was she supposed to have super powers?
grown adults are not responsible for their parents.
@@BigIndianBindi-jy1cz Exactly
My condolences God be with the family ✝️ Rest in peace all God's angels are in Heaven ✝️🕊️🇺🇸
I dont understand why the daughter did not check up on them or called them to see how they were doing. I bought my parents a 10k new AC unit amd make sure they are warm in the winter 🤷♂️🤦♀️
They had an AC unit and a swamp cooler.
@@willieverusethis ac and swamp not working
Where are you getting that she didn't call them? She lives in another state. Why comment if you didn't watch the video?
@@joan-lisa-smithparents are dead!! DEAD DO YOU UNDERSTAND DEAD OF HEAT EXHAUSTION🙄🙄🙄
@@freespeech.7254. Stop shouting and being aggressive. Those parents were adults they could call 911 if they didn't feel well. Stop blaming any relatives who were not even living there. And you haven't died of heat exhaustion so yeah you don't know too.
How did their power go out?
Sad back yrs ago neighbors checked in on their neighbors of course now they dont nowdays ppl have to rely on themselves
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Elderly couple with health problems.Why didn't they have a generator sad.... I'm sorry you look out for your family.Don't rely on neighbors and those people should have had a caregiver
So sad
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Omg that is terrible. Where was the Caregiver?
So, why were they left alone? 🤨 Rhonda? Now you made a GoFundMe?
She just stated that she just had surgery and is low on cash.
@poollife777 Maybe she was sick. I caught Covid and couldn't visit my mother bcuz she was not feeling well also had Dementia. My mom got sick on Tuesday and died on Friday. I couldn't do anything about it bcuz I caught Covid. Don't judge her you are not in her shoes.
@@debraannoconnell5148 Not judging and definitely not contributing to her go fund me, but you go right ahead
Hot n humid 🥵🥵 poor people 😢
Why were they alone, daughter ?
I don't understand, why did they not have electricity in their house? Was it because they couldn't afford it financially? The daughter (and if she has any other siblings) should have been checking on them regularly! (by phone, if she lived faraway), and sending them some money if her parents were that much in need that they couldn't afford their electricity bill.