There's the 3.30 minutes b4 anyone said anything new worth listening to. Either skipping every report u (vinnie) are in or speeding it up till u finally get tooint!😡😡😡😡😡
What is with the American flags, do they forget what country they are in? lol, that disease has come to Canada too, when I was a child here in Canada, if you saw a Canadian flag, you knew it was a government building or a legion or a school.
They had to look for residual blood splatter under the tiles and behind the walls....they absolutely had a dutiful obligation to leave no stone unturned in that house....
@StompingRabbits wasn't the house trashed anyway? All of them lived in that mess! I still feel bad for the mother and children, it had to be overwhelming.
I don't feel bad for her, she complained about how the police left her house but didn't feel sad for the girls that were murdered. They deserve each other
Why make the assumption they had a “ normal” life before? The daughter was allegedly bullied throughout high school because of her unwashed,poor hygiene. That spells neglect to me, and humiliation at the most vulnerable age. Still lives with and works for him. They may get free now
@@julesfans5190I feel exactly the same way as you, I don't feel sorry for her and I've huge compassion for people who suffer. But I'm sorry this lady doesn't care one bit about the girls her ogre husband murdered. She should be thinking of moving somewhere else, come on, she didn't even buy that house or spent money on it. The house was her husband's where he lived all his life. Why would she want to be in that shithole. She only feels sorry for herself and probably her kids not the lives and families her monster husband destroyed.
@@CapeRNbecause that's what the wife said off camera, that she there was nothing ever wrong with her husband.... And that she loves her husband of 27 years.
Wow when she said "it is what it is" she sounds just overcome with the realization. It's good that she has a lawyer, as nobody is truly capable of handling media, questioning and general life after something like this.
I am proud of her for how she is handling this. She is going through huge losses, painful betrayal, and a horrific shock. The media circus would drive most people to hide or react with anger. In contrast, she is out walking her dog, sitting on her front porch, and standing her ground with reporters. She has clear boundaries, and may feel afraid, and seems very alone, but is bravely facing the situation. Good for her! She didn't do anything wrong, and deserves compassion, support, and peace.
Exactly. Notice that tree she's by I can tell she's trying to use it as a slight buffer because she really doesn't want nor need to deal with the press.
@@juliaoconnor5798 I agree. It was rude for the reporter to bother her, but at least he wasn't agressive and in her face. I wish he had asked if there was anything she is needs, so people could donate or help in some way. I wish most families of criminals were always acknowledged as victims too, not harassed and hated over crimes they had nothing to do with.
Another woman humiliated by her husband. I’m furious for her and every other woman who feels they have to put up with it. I wish her and her children peace.
I would be absolutely sickened just finding out that he had been having sex with prostitutes, and wondering what kind of diseases he could have passed on to her. The rest of his real life would be so much for me that I’d be at a mental hospital. I pray for her so much! What restraint she is showing. 😢
Asa looks like someone who’s been through years of mistreatment. My heart goes out to her and the children. I’m so happy to see her community is reaching out to help them.
The pain she and her kids are going through breaks my heart. Certainly not minimizing or comparing it to what happened to the victims and their families.
Shes staying close to her husband and the victims, the house says it all, why not move back to her country she spends sooo much time visiting? Must be close ties there, or why spend so many weeks and months there, but now have nowhere to stay but in that house. Im not buying her story, it dont make sense.
The woman filed for divorce.She must be present for that and all the asset division or what ever comes of it.There is no other home for her to go to (he doesn’t have other homes, just property and a time share).
To find out your husband was a prolific cheat, manipulative and a “potential “sadistic serial killer must be so devastating and would make you question your ability to be around humans. That being said, I am with my husband for good but there are things I’ll leave him for at a drop of a hat. With that affidavit it is impossible not to doubt he murdered at least 3 and probably more .
I cant believe that bs, she knew "nothing"" was wrong! Really? Every woman knows, when you lay down next to him at night, you can feel he had sex with someone else! Women know, we feel the sexual contact ghost!!
Displacement of anger is very common. It would be impossible to all of a sudden drop all of your feelings for your husband after 25 years. Instead of being angry with him, she has put it in the people who have torn away what was her life. Surely you all understand the grief process and can allow a very complicated problem some grace.
I know, I feel so badly for Rex Heurrmans wife and kids. That poor family has to deal with all of his criminal actions plus losing his income and living with what that monster did. It's just horrible. It's a huge kick in the stomach. We are here for you Ms. Heurrmann, and for your 2 kids. We care about you.
Her lawyer openly admitted she divorced him to protect her own finances from future lawsuits by families of the deceased. What a fool of a lawyer to admit that, it makes her look cold.
How horrific to find out your partner of many years is a literal monster. That’s the thing about men like Rex, though, they don’t give a crap about human life in any respect, not even their children or spouses’ lives. He doesn’t care that he not only murdered several women but also destroyed the lives of their family members, he definitely doesn’t care about destroying his own wife and kids’ lives. Screw him
I believe there's something wrong genetically with people like him. Some are born without arms or legs, others born without a sense of compassion or empathy. Remove them from the breeding population so they cannot procreate more mutants like themselves.
I’m sure she potentially thought he was cheating on her… that he was a bit sleezy, maybe that he had a porn addiction. But to jump to, “OMG MY HUSBAND MUST BE A SERIAL KILLER”, is crazy lol. No normal person would likely be able to make that connection about their loved one, their spouse, their father. And remember, it seems he only killed when his family was out of state, out of the country, away on vacation so it’s not like she was even around to notice the odd behaviour in the hours before/after the killings… by the time they got home I’m sure he was just back at his everyday life and routine, work etc. They weren’t around to notice the suspicious behaviour on the nights he killed.
Exactly! Agree! No one’s going to think ‘well, my husband’s a little moody, he hordes things, geez, maybe he’s a serial killer!’ There’s no way someone would jump to that conclusion.
Poor Asa. She looks so depressed, disappointed, overwhelmed... not knowing what to do. My heart breaks for her. I can't even imagine what she's going through right now.
Melissa Moore is the daughter of a serial killer and has stepped in to help. Her incredible story is a real insight to what the families go through and they are victims too.
@@ssherrierable How do you know if he treated her badly, or punished her daily? She might have been abused too... So, as you are relaying to us, she's guilty of HIS crimes, when HE isn't tried by a jury of his peers yet? CALM DOWN.
She's Been about money from the day he was arrested. Go fund me was started for her. Depressed I don't see it. I see her trying to hide from media and low key getting ready to take everything he had plus the go fund me. She'll be fine. Time to get a job.
With all this crazy stuff that is going in her life she was still polite and answered a few questions. The media should leave her alone, not add to her distress.
Though it might help her feel less alone. They're being respectful - not mean and aggressive, from what I can see. And it might be encouraging the neighbors to treat her with kindness.
@@suzanne6441 Just my opinion and I know I’m weird, but after finding out the love of my life (or so I thought) and the father of my children is a serial killer, I wouldn’t want to see the light of day, I wouldn’t be able to get out of bed or make conversation. This woman is stronger than I could be. I would want to be left alone in a dark hole and forgotten about until I succumb to my heartbreak.
And yet she keeps her head up, and is still polite to the press. She seems like a stand up Lady. I’m glad she still got good neighbors. I pray her and her kids find healing ❤️🩹
I wish someone who has the property (a small apartment or cottage house) would offer them lodging there a few months to a year while she goes through the divorce process. I think it would do her a world of good.
At 59, I've come to realize you have to look at signs and behaviors, not what comes out of their mouths. People hide their motives, but you can see the house looks different, and partners need to question how their spouses are behaving. If it doesn't make sense, they are hiding something. You don't need proof, but if it looks shady it is, get out!
I'm curious to know how Rex Heuermann treated his wife and children behind closed doors. Was he domineering or abusive towards them? Was he difficult to live with? I know that the employee of a grocery store where they shop said that they were always cheerless when they came in, though of course, that doesn't necessarily mean anything.
I wonder about that too. I can’t imagine that he was 100% a great husband/dad, maybe off-putting but not enough to raise alarm-bells. Dennis Rader (BTK) is the only serial killer I’m aware of who, by all accounts, was a great guy according to his family and friends/acquaintances. Off the top of my head, Keith Jesperson, Bundy, Dahmer, and Gacy were all charismatic and “functional” but definitely gave people the ick at times (I don’t know how else to put it). Bundy’s long-time ex-girlfriend and her daughter made a documentary (Ted Bundy: Falling For A Killer) recently about their lives with Bundy and looking back, they can see that that there were plenty of times he treated them very poorly. Jesperson’s daughter has spoken at length about her childhood and in hindsight, now sees the signs that her dad was not a good man. But as the saying goes, hindsight is 20/20. I can’t imagine what it must be like for the spouses and children of these monsters having to go through this, especially because many continue to struggle decades later with their feelings for the person THEY knew vs what they really were.
The fact that this man is an architect and owns multiple properties throughout the country but has his family living in semi squalor is troubling. My imagination is running wild thinking about what their family dynamics may have been.
Massapequa Park is far from a squalid existence even if the home is run down. Even a dilapidated hovel in Massapequa Park is worth a pretty penny....pick up the real estate paper and browse the prices of homes there....
@@mirandaajames Right. The home was sorely neglected by any standards. Clearly a deliberate choice by RH, rather than because of any financial constraint. Classic control and devaluation of those around him - traits he has exhibited elsewhere.
Long Islanders are all miserable because it costs a fortune for basic needs here....40 years ago LI was a great place to live. Not anymore it isn't....
As a father of a child with special needs, my heart breaks for his family. Imagine having to make sense of why dads not coming home and not understanding. Sad
Their next door neighbor said the first thing the son, Christopher, said to him was “I don’t think my father did this.” So it sounds like he is capable of understanding a lot. It is still very sad.
I'm always surprised how serial killers can keep their second life from their family, especially the wife. Did she never notice a single oddity? I don't know.....in any case she's not to blame for his actions and I really feel for the kids.
I’m sure she potentially thought he was cheating on her… that he was a bit sleezy, maybe that he had a porn addiction. But to jump to, “OMG MY HUSBAND MUST BE A SERIAL KILLER”, is crazy lol. No normal person would likely be able to make that connection about their loved one, their spouse, their father. And remember, it seems he only killed when his family was out of state, out of the country, away on vacation so it’s not like she was even around to notice the odd behaviour in the hours before/after the killings… by the time they got home I’m sure he was just back at his everyday life and routine, work etc. They weren’t around to notice the suspicious behaviour on the nights he killed.
Serial killers are notoriously adept at compartmentalization. He will have had the ability to behave unsuspiciously quite soon after his deviant actions.
To a much lesser degree than the dead women, she'll recover and she'll likely end up with Rexs' considerable estate.....the dead women's families get goose....
I am not surprised that she is in contact with him. Aside from all the unanswered questions she has about the case (that wouldnt be discussed on a recorded line in any case), she has to deal with all their finances, etc... now and needs a lot of information that only he would have. I cant even imagine the underlying stress in those conversations!
That poor woman. Give her some space. She deserves privacy after a shock like this. She had no idea, thats a sin. He probably calls collect - she answers and hollers at him, probably asks him "wtf did you do this to me? to the kids?" She filed for divorce. Poor thing.
On another note, the descriptive way in which you write is hilarious! LOL! Yes, I’m sure she is over the moon furious but she comes off as a gentle soul and what we know of her husband’s character, she would have had to be in order to survive 26 years of marriage, To A Serial Killer!!!
I feel really sorry for their family too. They are his victims too. I pray that she has peace in her life and her children do too. She isn't rude and she honestly has every reason to be. So damn sad! I can't imagine the pain she has for her children having to live through this. I pray for her and her children in Jesus name! I am glad people are trying to help them!!!!
How the heck do you trust anyone nowadays? He looked so normal! In retrospect, yes of course but on those yt videos about his job, he looked so normal!
To me, he does not look normal at all. He has an evil look in his eyes, but also his body and huge head in nothing but normal either (although, of course it doesn't make one a murderer with such body or huge head, it does stand out from the crowd and people will remember you and it makes it harder to go unrecognized if in any sort of trouble. In the interview, he appeared smug.
I can't imagine what his wife and their adult kids are going through.. Knowing the man you loved for so long - and the man who is supposed to provide and protect you as a child is capable of such horrific things.. My heart goes out to the victims and their families and hope one day they can find a little peace...
Id be filing for divorce and seeing about liquidating any and all assets legally allowed to do so. She needs to make a run from it and escape him. She is a victim too.
She might go to Iceland for a time, she is from there originally & has family. lt would likely be the best, safest and quietest place for her & her family.
I feel so bad for his wife and his children. I can't imagine. I do not blame her for divorcing him. I wish the media would focus on him only and leave his poor soon to be ex-wife out of it. She doesn't need this.
I’m so glad people are leaving nice cards and food for the family. I think Keri Rawson can be thanked for helping people understand, and have compassion for, the family. It IS absolutely possible to not have a clue about what your spouse is up to; you’re busy raising children, working full time, and being the chief cook and bottle washer. After your life explodes, it is a total mindf#$k to try to reconcile the husband you thought you knew, the marriage you thought you had vs. what you have found out about them. In retrospect you begin to remember a look or a remark that now has new meaning, and you kick yourself for not seeing it at the time. I know these things due to finding out about my husband’s affair, but just imagine finding out about murder!
@@rachelle6032 Anne Rule worked right beside Ted Bundy on the suicide hotline and said he was the kind of young man she’d introduce her daughter to if she had one. Dennis Rader was a church leader. No one knew. His best friend, wife, and children were devastated. So, not always…not always. I was walked home through a dark wooded area by Dayton Leroy Rogers when he was 18 and I was 12. I knew something was wrong with him socially. The family that took him in knew he was troubled and were trying to save him. But they told him to walk us home. No one knew how dark his thoughts were or that one day he would murder women and cut their feet off.
It’s disturbing to consider the horror these victims felt before he killed them, his family must be devastated what this barbaric evil man did. I truely hope they are able to be treated well by public & media; I hope they get counselling & support
It seems the neighbors are being kind, and the media respectful. If she wants them to go they should, but it's possible the attention is helpful, and makes her feel less alone in it, giving her a sounding board. Thank God it's a kind neighborhood of people who want to help. I wouldn't want to be alone, I'd feel better answering polite questions - and knowing people understood my separateness from the monster. Some places would rip her apart just for the satisfaction.
@@triggerskull It should be demolished if it’s discovered he killed the victims in the house. I don’t think the family is even entertaining that idea yet.
I'm very relieved that Fire Island Jane Doe #7 was finally identified. Karen Vergata, aged 34. Court TV needs to focus your reporting specifically on this victim as well as Maureen Barnes. This is where a major linkage will be found.
@@dr.barrycohn5461 some people can only pray, not everyone has $ to send to others, that was rude AF. And on top of that we'll wishes and sincerity in caring can mean more than the almighty 1$ to many!
I hope Asa leaves to beautiful Iceland 🙌🏼. I hope she goes away! 25 years is a long time! It’s painful, traumatizing and scary! I’m hoping they receive a lot of professional counseling, support and therapy! They must all stay together and move to Iceland 🙏🏼. She seems to be a very nice woman 😊
I find it unbelievable that there wasn’t warning signs within the family. I highly doubt he was a loving compassionate kind husband. I’m sure there were things about him that stood out such as how he neglected his family and home. And I say he neglected his family because by allowing his own home to fall apart while he’s a big shot architect shows that there is a serious problem with the man and letting his home deteriorate around the ones he’s supposed to love shows he is neglectful of their needs
I don't think anyone has ever said there were no warning "signs". Quite the opposite. But between "signs" and realizing THIS is what was happening... well, that's a huge stretch.
@@emartinezr I didn't say they knew he was a murderer, nor did I say that anyone said there weren't any signs. I was simply stating that I"m sure there "were" some signs that the guy wasn't acting right. More will come out in the investigation and I bet we will learn that they guy was weird. I do see how you could read that into my statement from the words I chose to use.
I feel for the kids who now have this attached to them The wife is exactly right moment by moment . I hope she sees there are so many on her side and her kids!!!!❤ So nice of strangers to help with things … food or just a nice note . I hope she feels the empathy out here for her/children
Unbelievable that you badger this lady with personal questions at this horrendous time. How about showing her some respect and giving her space to try and comprehend her life that has fallen apart without any of her doing?!
I am surprised she even talked to him. He asked twice how she's dealing w everyone's questions and media...yet HE'S DOING THE VERY THING HE'S ASKING ABOUT. Leave her alone for God's sake. Yet here we are watching the news....ugh
She's not exactly shunning them either, if she consistently refuses verbal exchanges they'll eventually give up.....she says just enough to keep them interested in asking...
I think it's too early to know the real truth about the wife n kids, especially the wife... How can you be married for 25 years and NOT EVER pick up on ANY signs or symptoms... She has to know something even if it's little things... This isn't over...
This is a tough one. I think it's easy for her NOW put some pieces together. But I think at the time, there is just no way you would assume your partner/father/boss would be capable of doing something like this.... the accusations, the crimes are EXTREME. This is beyond human stuff.
Given the history they have together, it’s impressive to me that she’s cut off all contact with him (as far as we know). I think I would want my husband’s take on what he’s been accused of and to have some conversation with him. I wonder if she’s wanted to leave him for some time, and this is her ticket out.
Are you warped? She accepts collect calls from him, she is in contact with Rex and has been all along. Even the lawyer says she doesn't visit the jail for fear of being ambushed by reporters.....NOT BECAUSE SHE'S REFUSING CONTACT WITH REX,......YEESH!
The family are the victims also. My heart goes out to Asa and her adult children. They need counseling and a different place to live. The trauma that they are going through is unbelievable. I also think RH was abusive toward his wife and kids. Look at the house they lived in. His guns and vault were probably more important than his family. God help.all.of the victims families.
Here we go again, there's not even one scintilla of evidence that Rex used a firearm during the commission of his crimes yet the gun vault is front and center again....
This poor woman, imagine being married to a con artist for over 20years... Now imagine how much worse it would be to find out you were married to a con AND serial killer. One of my worst nightmares and secret fears is finding out someone close to me is not at all who they presented themselves as to me...
If I were Rex and claiming I am innocent, I would volunteer my DNA and cheek swab in order to clear my name and get out of that cell ..if he refuses and decides to take this to trial, he's guilty or stupid ! Obviously!
@@Earthbound369 no just recently they have asked to get a cheek swab because the DNA they have from the pizza was exposed to the elements and not as strong ..you must have not know about that yet ..it's all over the news and they said in NYC you can't mandate him to give a cheek swab because you have to be convicted here in NY
Why doesn't someone like a contractor get her front porch secured better than it is a nd fix the garage door help clean up the yard for free. She needs help and is clearly confused depressed lets get someone to help her get on with life. The kids are suffering too
I really wished the reporter would've shown so compassion to the woman, it's a horrible crime already grilling her like that just isn't necessary at this point
The real morons are the people who have canonized her because she married a violent psychopath... I'll never harass her but I won't treat he as if she's Mother Theresa either...
Took that commute every day back and forth for 6 years when I worked in Long Island City/Astoria and Manhatten. Like 1000’s of others, probably sat by this guy on multiple occasions.
I feel horrible for her and the kids! What a shock for them to grow through! I don’t blame her for her answers and reaction towards the media! For better or worse does not state murder anywhere!
You find out your spouse has repeatedly cheated on you and he’s a sadistic serial killer. He was the financial provider and now you are in front of media like a fish bowl. The weight of all that is tremendous.
thank you for bringing attention to more of his real victims - his family. Can you imagine being so blind sided and now having to be responsible financially alone and with a special needs son? May God provide.
I imagine it's a huge schock, to find out your husband and father is a serial killer. They will need a long time to digest this ,and for sure their lives will never be the same. Please reporters,give them space to be quiet,they need it.I wonder how is family house looks like meth house being the guy an architect making good money. Also the family looks very poor the way the dress and their appearance. I guess they will declare in court and explain what type of life they had.
Wife was using food stamps! Not assistance shaming but they live in a very expensive area with her husband having his own architecture firm & owning properties. Very odd & it will all come out.
Did the interviewer ever think to ask her if she needed anything? I mean, even off camera - for Christ's sake, do the human thing. Ask her if she's getting help or does she need anything. You'll get your story, but she opened up to talk - she hasn't done that much. So why not seize the chance to do something humane. Maybe it would help you build a rapport with her and maybe if she saw you were willing to try to get her help, she'd trust you more. Just a thought...
Awe..I feel so badly for her..I hope she knows that of course there are haters..but she needs to know the majority of the people are wanting to be supportive and if u need anything just ask!
Betrayal is common for men with no conscience. Toba Beta T-Rex was a desperate desperate hateful man. He had his outside personality and then he had his inside dark personality. I think the more he killed. The more it helped him kill his conscience. Violet Fire 🔥
You have to wonder if her immediately seeking divorce wasn’t something she had wanted for some time but now was her moment since he was under arrest. She may have been afraid of him - not to the point of thinking he was a serial killer but afraid of what he might do to her if she left him. Just a thought - I certainly wish her and her children well.
Can ya imagine that she did not know? C’mon…married to a wealthy architect, living the life…He was considered a suspect and interviewed years ago. She wasn’t aware of him and his ilkiness? I don’t think she’s stupid.
She looks very down trodden n so do the children whether he's found guilty or not they will all be stigmatised so sad how there house was left but how she didn't know something amiss baffles me !
I can't believe she hasn't been interviewed by police yet according to her Lawyer just yesterday...isn't her info she could possibly provide important??? I've never heard of such a thing!!!
9:14 "She has gone through hours and hours of interviews with police ..." Lawyers can say whatever they like on behalf of their client when speaking to the press.
That lawyer is a big time bullshitter that lies at every question. She is not visiting, not going to visit, and definitely not accepting his over priced collect jail calls if he even calls. The lawyer for Rex is just trying to make it all look good as if Rex is innocent
@@Peace-tk3gr People who are not involved in law enforcement and who hear random bits of news may be prone to taking an indignant stance on incorrect/outdated information. As someone who has worked in law and law enforcement, I get how someone relying on such info get all confused and huffy.
I think it was said that she’s a retired nurse. She probably has had to talk to him about financial matters & how they are going to survive with no income? I’m sure it’s not an easy situation for her & the children. This Rex is not the one they’v we known. God help his wife & kids!
My heart aches for this poor family. I cannot imagine the pain they're going through. What is it about the U.S. that creates so many serial killers? Let's look at that, eh?🔍
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There's the 3.30 minutes b4 anyone said anything new worth listening to. Either skipping every report u (vinnie) are in or speeding it up till u finally get tooint!😡😡😡😡😡
@@Minnastina”tooint”??
@@Minnastina
Well... no one forces you to be here...
What is with the American flags, do they forget what country they are in? lol, that disease has come to Canada too, when I was a child here in Canada, if you saw a Canadian flag, you knew it was a government building or a legion or a school.
You said accused only. Innocent till guilty right .but see yur point. I feel his wife knew something small. She knew. No his wife seen signs id bet.e😢
Please leave her alone.
She talked to you, now go away.
Focus on her ex husband, the "alleged" murderer.
May the victims rest peacefully.⚘
@therealz360z7What are you talking about? You don't know her anger isn't directed towards her husband, soon to be ex.
He probably told her to divorce him and take the properties before the civil suits begin.
I'm not harassing her nor will I canonize her. She own 3 properties in 3 states....downtrodden my royal Irish ass!
They had to look for residual blood splatter under the tiles and behind the walls....they absolutely had a dutiful obligation to leave no stone unturned in that house....
@StompingRabbits wasn't the house trashed anyway? All of them lived in that mess! I still feel bad for the mother and children, it had to be overwhelming.
That poor lady looks downtrodden, not just from this news but I’d imagine from her life with him. I hope people are kind to her and her children.
Oh yeah Rex did a number on her that entire marriage 😢
I don't feel bad for her, she complained about how the police left her house but didn't feel sad for the girls that were murdered. They deserve each other
Why make the assumption they had a “ normal” life before? The daughter was allegedly bullied throughout high school because of her unwashed,poor hygiene. That spells neglect to me, and humiliation at the most vulnerable age. Still lives with and works for him. They may get free now
@@julesfans5190I feel exactly the same way as you, I don't feel sorry for her and I've huge compassion for people who suffer. But I'm sorry this lady doesn't care one bit about the girls her ogre husband murdered. She should be thinking of moving somewhere else, come on, she didn't even buy that house or spent money on it. The house was her husband's where he lived all his life. Why would she want to be in that shithole. She only feels sorry for herself and probably her kids not the lives and families her monster husband destroyed.
@@CapeRNbecause that's what the wife said off camera, that she there was nothing ever wrong with her husband.... And that she loves her husband of 27 years.
Wow when she said "it is what it is" she sounds just overcome with the realization.
It's good that she has a lawyer, as nobody is truly capable of handling media, questioning and general life after something like this.
I am proud of her for how she is handling this. She is going through huge losses, painful betrayal, and a horrific shock. The media circus would drive most people to hide or react with anger. In contrast, she is out walking her dog, sitting on her front porch, and standing her ground with reporters. She has clear boundaries, and may feel afraid, and seems very alone, but is bravely facing the situation. Good for her! She didn't do anything wrong, and deserves compassion, support, and peace.
✨Amen to that!
She is actually incredible. And she does seem like a very nice person.
Beautifully and well said
Exactly. Notice that tree she's by I can tell she's trying to use it as a slight buffer because she really doesn't want nor need to deal with the press.
@@juliaoconnor5798 I agree. It was rude for the reporter to bother her, but at least he wasn't agressive and in her face. I wish he had asked if there was anything she is needs, so people could donate or help in some way. I wish most families of criminals were always acknowledged as victims too, not harassed and hated over crimes they had nothing to do with.
Another woman humiliated by her husband. I’m furious for her and every other woman who feels they have to put up with it. I wish her and her children peace.
Well said 👌🏼
I would be absolutely sickened just finding out that he had been having sex with prostitutes, and wondering what kind of diseases he could have passed on to her. The rest of his real life would be so much for me that I’d be at a mental hospital. I pray for her so much! What restraint she is showing. 😢
She chose him to be with and that makes her worse! 😜
She's not in any way responsible for picking a serial killer to be her husband? Was she the type who despises nice guys? So many are....
Another woman with poor taste in men is more the case....
Asa looks like someone who’s been through years of mistreatment. My heart goes out to her and the children. I’m so happy to see her community is reaching out to help them.
That made me smile ! I’m so glad people are being loving and kind
There's probably a Rex like skeleton in your closet...who women chose to be with reflects on themselves and there's no brushing it under the rug...
Get her a community bra
My heart goes out to her
The pain she and her kids are going through breaks my heart. Certainly not minimizing or comparing it to what happened to the victims and their families.
Shes staying close to her husband and the victims, the house says it all, why not move back to her country she spends sooo much time visiting? Must be close ties there, or why spend so many weeks and months there, but now have nowhere to stay but in that house. Im not buying her story, it dont make sense.
She's not going to Iceland and leaving $1,000,000.00 in real estate behind without a legal battle. She wants to be paid first!
The woman filed for divorce.She must be present for that and all the asset division or what ever comes of it.There is no other home for her to go to (he doesn’t have other homes, just property and a time share).
To find out your husband was a prolific cheat, manipulative and a “potential “sadistic serial killer must be so devastating and would make you question your ability to be around humans. That being said, I am with my husband for good but there are things I’ll leave him for at a drop of a hat. With that affidavit it is impossible not to doubt he murdered at least 3 and probably more .
Well said!
I think she knew he was a cheat! For that many years? Come on. Not saying she thought he was a serial killer though.
@therealz360z7don't you think it's weird? I mean unless the coin didn't drop yet for her, the horrific stuff he did.
I cant believe that bs, she knew "nothing"" was wrong! Really? Every woman knows, when you lay down next to him at night, you can feel he had sex with someone else! Women know, we feel the sexual contact ghost!!
Displacement of anger is very common. It would be impossible to all of a sudden drop all of your feelings for your husband after 25 years. Instead of being angry with him, she has put it in the people who have torn away what was her life. Surely you all understand the grief process and can allow a very complicated problem some grace.
I know, I feel so badly for Rex Heurrmans wife and kids. That poor family has to deal with all of his criminal actions plus losing his income and living with what that monster did. It's just horrible. It's a huge kick in the stomach. We are here for you Ms. Heurrmann, and for your 2 kids. We care about you.
I feel sorry for the autistic son and that's it! The daughter is an adult and the wife picked Rex for a husband. He was her choice...boo hoo!
@@StompingRabbitsyou suck as a human..period
Her lawyer openly admitted she divorced him to protect her own finances from future lawsuits by families of the deceased. What a fool of a lawyer to admit that, it makes her look cold.
Well, they're not divorced and she does need to take steps to protect her family so she doesn't lose due to her husband's crimes
she is cold
How horrific to find out your partner of many years is a literal monster. That’s the thing about men like Rex, though, they don’t give a crap about human life in any respect, not even their children or spouses’ lives. He doesn’t care that he not only murdered several women but also destroyed the lives of their family members, he definitely doesn’t care about destroying his own wife and kids’ lives. Screw him
I believe there's something wrong genetically with people like him. Some are born without arms or legs, others born without a sense of compassion or empathy. Remove them from the breeding population so they cannot procreate more mutants like themselves.
Only men? Have you forgotten about women like Lorrie Daybell? Or does your Misandrist mind conveniently block out crimes committed by women?
And your hair being on victims…
She's not responsible for who she freely chose to be with? Typical female response, women bear no responsibility for piss poor choices..
She is laughing inside.
Who knows, another Serial killer walking free in America
I’m sure she potentially thought he was cheating on her… that he was a bit sleezy, maybe that he had a porn addiction. But to jump to, “OMG MY HUSBAND MUST BE A SERIAL KILLER”, is crazy lol. No normal person would likely be able to make that connection about their loved one, their spouse, their father. And remember, it seems he only killed when his family was out of state, out of the country, away on vacation so it’s not like she was even around to notice the odd behaviour in the hours before/after the killings… by the time they got home I’m sure he was just back at his everyday life and routine, work etc. They weren’t around to notice the suspicious behaviour on the nights he killed.
Great observations!!
Exactly! Agree! No one’s going to think ‘well, my husband’s a little moody, he hordes things, geez, maybe he’s a serial killer!’ There’s no way someone would jump to that conclusion.
Poor Asa. She looks so depressed, disappointed, overwhelmed... not knowing what to do. My heart breaks for her. I can't even imagine what she's going through right now.
Melissa Moore is the daughter of a serial killer and has stepped in to help. Her incredible story is a real insight to what the families go through and they are victims too.
We don’t even know if she’s acting yet so calm down with the poor asa crap because last time I checked she’s still alive…
@@ssherrierable How do you know if he treated her badly, or punished her daily? She might have been abused too... So, as you are relaying to us, she's guilty of HIS crimes, when HE isn't tried by a jury of his peers yet? CALM DOWN.
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She's Been about money from the day he was arrested. Go fund me was started for her. Depressed I don't see it. I see her trying to hide from media and low key getting ready to take everything he had plus the go fund me. She'll be fine. Time to get a job.
Vinnie, I’m so glad to hear your sympathetic voice towards the defendants wife. You’re right, this woman is also a victim in this whole mess
She's a victim of her own piss poor taste in men.
@ezellbroome6313 spook
With all this crazy stuff that is going in her life she was still polite and answered a few questions. The media should leave her alone, not add to her distress.
Though it might help her feel less alone. They're being respectful - not mean and aggressive, from what I can see. And it might be encouraging the neighbors to treat her with kindness.
@@suzanne6441
Just my opinion and I know I’m weird, but after finding out the love of my life (or so I thought) and the father of my children is a serial killer, I wouldn’t want to see the light of day, I wouldn’t be able to get out of bed or make conversation. This woman is stronger than I could be. I would want to be left alone in a dark hole and forgotten about until I succumb to my heartbreak.
@@emilinebelle7811 This works too. (So long as you don't have a dog to walk.)
And yet she keeps her head up, and is still polite to the press. She seems like a stand up Lady. I’m glad she still got good neighbors. I pray her and her kids find healing ❤️🩹
She married one of the most prolific murderers in Long Island history.....
@@StompingRabbits
? What is your purpose with all your hateful comments?
Are you kidding me? Her breaststroke need some duck tape
@atheistme9842they said in long island history bimbo
@atheistme9842no the night stalker n the golden state killer is the ones of the most worst boogyman ever
I am happy Asa had the wherewithal to file for divorce. I hope the go-fund-me can allow her to move out of that monster's house and start a new life.
She's got her eye on Rexs' considerable estate. His victims families should get that not her!
I wish someone who has the property (a small apartment or cottage house) would offer them lodging there a few months to a year while she goes through the divorce process.
I think it would do her a world of good.
Rex made a lot of money and didn't invest any of it in his family.
At 59, I've come to realize you have to look at signs and behaviors, not what comes out of their mouths. People hide their motives, but you can see the house looks different, and partners need to question how their spouses are behaving. If it doesn't make sense, they are hiding something. You don't need proof, but if it looks shady it is, get out!
I'm curious to know how Rex Heuermann treated his wife and children behind closed doors. Was he domineering or abusive towards them? Was he difficult to live with? I know that the employee of a grocery store where they shop said that they were always cheerless when they came in, though of course, that doesn't necessarily mean anything.
I wonder about that too. I can’t imagine that he was 100% a great husband/dad, maybe off-putting but not enough to raise alarm-bells.
Dennis Rader (BTK) is the only serial killer I’m aware of who, by all accounts, was a great guy according to his family and friends/acquaintances. Off the top of my head, Keith Jesperson, Bundy, Dahmer, and Gacy were all charismatic and “functional” but definitely gave people the ick at times (I don’t know how else to put it). Bundy’s long-time ex-girlfriend and her daughter made a documentary (Ted Bundy: Falling For A Killer) recently about their lives with Bundy and looking back, they can see that that there were plenty of times he treated them very poorly. Jesperson’s daughter has spoken at length about her childhood and in hindsight, now sees the signs that her dad was not a good man. But as the saying goes, hindsight is 20/20. I can’t imagine what it must be like for the spouses and children of these monsters having to go through this, especially because many continue to struggle decades later with their feelings for the person THEY knew vs what they really were.
@therealz360z7clearly he didn’t because he murdered them!
You should ask her ..she could probably do with a friend.😊
Who’s cheerful in a grocery store? Just wanna get it over with and go home while having to wait in the line..
By the looks of his home etc.. he didn't take care of his priorities but what killer does..
The fact that this man is an architect and owns multiple properties throughout the country but has his family living in semi squalor is troubling. My imagination is running wild thinking about what their family dynamics may have been.
Massapequa Park is far from a squalid existence even if the home is run down. Even a dilapidated hovel in Massapequa Park is worth a pretty penny....pick up the real estate paper and browse the prices of homes there....
@@StompingRabbitsliving in an affluent neighbourhood doesn't negate financial and psychological abuse
@@mirandaajames Right. The home was sorely neglected by any standards. Clearly a deliberate choice by RH, rather than because of any financial constraint. Classic control and devaluation of those around him - traits he has exhibited elsewhere.
And she’s like “Everything was great!”
Absolutely, he could be operating any number of group homes after gaming the ADA system
I am so impressed with the neighbors. What a lovely community, they can be proud of themselves.
Long Islanders are all miserable because it costs a fortune for basic needs here....40 years ago LI was a great place to live. Not anymore it isn't....
I had about 5 affairs with LI milfs. Place is trashy.
Would love to see the body cam video of his arrest!
Eventually you will see it....
@@StompingRabbits you know all things, huh?
As a father of a child with special needs, my heart breaks for his family. Imagine having to make sense of why dads not coming home and not understanding. Sad
Their next door neighbor said the first thing the son, Christopher, said to him was “I don’t think my father did this.” So it sounds like he is capable of understanding a lot. It is still very sad.
🙏🏾
Absolutely 🙏
He is 31, but your empathy is really beautiful to see ❤
His his step-father
Vinnie, I'm always impressed by your empathy.
I'm always surprised how serial killers can keep their second life from their family, especially the wife. Did she never notice a single oddity? I don't know.....in any case she's not to blame for his actions and I really feel for the kids.
I’m sure she potentially thought he was cheating on her… that he was a bit sleezy, maybe that he had a porn addiction. But to jump to, “OMG MY HUSBAND MUST BE A SERIAL KILLER”, is crazy lol. No normal person would likely be able to make that connection about their loved one, their spouse, their father. And remember, it seems he only killed when his family was out of state, out of the country, away on vacation so it’s not like she was even around to notice the odd behaviour in the hours before/after the killings… by the time they got home I’m sure he was just back at his everyday life and routine, work etc. They weren’t around to notice the suspicious behaviour on the nights he killed.
Serial killers are notoriously adept at compartmentalization. He will have had the ability to behave unsuspiciously quite soon after his deviant actions.
@@omgurheadsgone Yea indeed, it's just hard to imagine how they're capable of so much deception.
@@mary_syl psychopaths / sociopaths are incredibly good and deceptive liars.
@@mary_sylI guess u can thank your lucky stars that you've never been so gaslit to the highest extreme before
He makes me think of another person that thinks he is untouchable
Shame. I feel for her and her children and dog. She looks exhausted. Victims too 💔
To a much lesser degree than the dead women, she'll recover and she'll likely end up with Rexs' considerable estate.....the dead women's families get goose....
@@StompingRabbitsNew York state will make sure his estate is seized
I doubt she has gotten any exercise in decades
I am not surprised that she is in contact with him. Aside from all the unanswered questions she has about the case (that wouldnt be discussed on a recorded line in any case), she has to deal with all their finances, etc... now and needs a lot of information that only he would have.
I cant even imagine the underlying stress in those conversations!
That poor woman. Give her some space. She deserves privacy after a shock like this. She had no idea, thats a sin. He probably calls collect - she answers and hollers at him, probably asks him "wtf did you do this to me? to the kids?" She filed for divorce. Poor thing.
I think he hollered at her. He's a pig.
On another note, the descriptive way in which you write is hilarious! LOL!
Yes, I’m sure she is over the moon furious but she comes off as a gentle soul and what we know of her husband’s character, she would have had to be in order to survive 26 years of marriage, To A Serial Killer!!!
@Everyoneisanartist776 27 years with him 😢
She can have battered woman syndrome. Psychological torture.
All inmates in every jail in this country make collect phone calls, she could have refused to accept his calls you know?
I feel really sorry for their family too. They are his victims too. I pray that she has peace in her life and her children do too. She isn't rude and she honestly has every reason to be. So damn sad! I can't imagine the pain she has for her children having to live through this. I pray for her and her children in Jesus name! I am glad people are trying to help them!!!!
For better or worse except cheating, treating children badly, getting into drinking and/or drugs, or committing crimes.
It dawned on me, this could be her way of getting away from him and not have to fear what he might do.
Well dressed and architect. Yet his house is in very poor condition and yard is a mess. Strange on all levels and not what you think it would be.
I think she has been communicating with Rex over financial matters
I bet Rex controlled all the money.
How the heck do you trust anyone nowadays? He looked so normal! In retrospect, yes of course but on those yt videos about his job, he looked so normal!
To me, he does not look normal at all. He has an evil look in his eyes, but also his body and huge head in nothing but normal either (although, of course it doesn't make one a murderer with such body or huge head, it does stand out from the crowd and people will remember you and it makes it harder to go unrecognized if in any sort of trouble. In the interview, he appeared smug.
no he didn't
I can't imagine what his wife and their adult kids are going through.. Knowing the man you loved for so long - and the man who is supposed to provide and protect you as a child is capable of such horrific things.. My heart goes out to the victims and their families and hope one day they can find a little peace...
She sounds like she knows something
absolutely
Id be filing for divorce and seeing about liquidating any and all assets legally allowed to do so. She needs to make a run from it and escape him. She is a victim too.
She might go to Iceland for a time, she is from there originally & has family.
lt would likely be the best, safest and quietest place for her & her family.
I can't believe there are about 300 serial killers
SEMI TRUCK DRIVERS
I feel so bad for his wife and his children. I can't imagine. I do not blame her for divorcing him. I wish the media would focus on him only and leave his poor soon to be ex-wife out of it. She doesn't need this.
She's far from poor, she's probably got more hard assets than 70% of the people in this country...
@@StompingRabbits 99.9% of people in this thread saying that poor woman aren’t meaning financially.
Yes
Kudos to the Neighbor Lady!
I’m so glad people are leaving nice cards and food for the family. I think Keri Rawson can be thanked for helping people understand, and have compassion for, the family. It IS absolutely possible to not have a clue about what your spouse is up to; you’re busy raising children, working full time, and being the chief cook and bottle washer. After your life explodes, it is a total mindf#$k to try to reconcile the husband you thought you knew, the marriage you thought you had vs. what you have found out about them. In retrospect you begin to remember a look or a remark that now has new meaning, and you kick yourself for not seeing it at the time. I know these things due to finding out about my husband’s affair, but just imagine finding out about murder!
I'm so sorry that u went through that. Your compassion is key ❤
@@TheCandiceWang ❤️
@@rachelle6032 Anne Rule worked right beside Ted Bundy on the suicide hotline and said he was the kind of young man she’d introduce her daughter to if she had one. Dennis Rader was a church leader. No one knew. His best friend, wife, and children were devastated. So, not always…not always. I was walked home through a dark wooded area by Dayton Leroy Rogers when he was 18 and I was 12. I knew something was wrong with him socially. The family that took him in knew he was troubled and were trying to save him. But they told him to walk us home. No one knew how dark his thoughts were or that one day he would murder women and cut their feet off.
It’s disturbing to consider the horror these victims felt before he killed them, his family must be devastated what this barbaric evil man did. I truely hope they are able to be treated well by public & media; I hope they get counselling & support
It seems the neighbors are being kind, and the media respectful. If she wants them to go they should, but it's possible the attention is helpful, and makes her feel less alone in it, giving her a sounding board. Thank God it's a kind neighborhood of people who want to help. I wouldn't want to be alone, I'd feel better answering polite questions - and knowing people understood my separateness from the monster. Some places would rip her apart just for the satisfaction.
@@suzanne6441 last I checked, the “nice” neighbors wanted that house demolished.
@@triggerskull It should be demolished if it’s discovered he killed the victims in the house. I don’t think the family is even entertaining that idea yet.
@@triggerskull It probably should be.
The media isn't going to leave her alone until the case is over.
Commuiting everyday. Makes you wonder how many bodies he's left in his wake?
Thank you for being compassionate to her. I'm certain she is feeling very lonely, confused, scared, bewildered... and could need love and support. ❤
The vibe I got from her was she wants some privacy. Clearly she's already tired of media presence at her home & police going in & out of her house.
I'm very relieved that Fire Island Jane Doe #7 was finally identified.
Karen Vergata, aged 34.
Court TV needs to focus your reporting specifically on this victim as well as Maureen Barnes.
This is where a major linkage will be found.
I feel bad for her and her children no telling what kind of abuse that he has put them through over the years.
I feel badly for the autistic son, the daughter is an adult and the wife made her own bed.
I'm praying for her and her children 🙏🏻
Instead of praying, send her money.
I think a lot of people are praying for them. 🙏
@@dr.barrycohn5461 It's not always money, Prayers WORK!
@@dr.barrycohn5461 some people can only pray, not everyone has $ to send to others, that was rude AF. And on top of that we'll wishes and sincerity in caring can mean more than the almighty 1$ to many!
I hope Asa leaves to beautiful Iceland 🙌🏼. I hope she goes away! 25 years is a long time! It’s painful, traumatizing and scary! I’m hoping they receive a lot of professional counseling, support and therapy! They must all stay together and move to Iceland 🙏🏼. She seems to be a very nice woman 😊
I find it unbelievable that there wasn’t warning signs within the family. I highly doubt he was a loving compassionate kind husband. I’m sure there were things about him that stood out such as how he neglected his family and home. And I say he neglected his family because by allowing his own home to fall apart while he’s a big shot architect shows that there is a serious problem with the man and letting his home deteriorate around the ones he’s supposed to love shows he is neglectful of their needs
I don't think anyone has ever said there were no warning "signs". Quite the opposite.
But between "signs" and realizing THIS is what was happening... well, that's a huge stretch.
@@emartinezr I didn't say they knew he was a murderer, nor did I say that anyone said there weren't any signs. I was simply stating that I"m sure there "were" some signs that the guy wasn't acting right. More will come out in the investigation and I bet we will learn that they guy was weird. I do see how you could read that into my statement from the words I chose to use.
Didn’t he also have property in Manhattan? The disrepair of the family home shows how he feels about his family!
His messy ugly house isn't a sign that he is a murderer
@@nomanejane5766 nobody said it was
I’m glad she has her little dog. Animals really help with trauma 💖 praying for her and all victims of these crimes.
I feel for the kids who now have this attached to them
The wife is exactly right moment by moment . I hope she sees there are so many on her side and her kids!!!!❤
So nice of strangers to help with things … food or just a nice note . I hope she feels the empathy out here for her/children
Unbelievable that you badger this lady with personal questions at this horrendous time. How about showing her some respect and giving her space to try and comprehend her life that has fallen apart without any of her doing?!
I am surprised she even talked to him. He asked twice how she's dealing w everyone's questions and media...yet HE'S DOING THE VERY THING HE'S ASKING ABOUT. Leave her alone for God's sake. Yet here we are watching the news....ugh
She's not exactly shunning them either, if she consistently refuses verbal exchanges they'll eventually give up.....she says just enough to keep them interested in asking...
it's so wonderful that the neighbors are reaching out to the family......
Yes!❤
The obsession with the family is out of control. I really wish they’d be given some time to deal with this situation.
Vinnie really rolled back questioning how she didn’t know anything like a week/two ago
I love Court TV but I wish the press would leave this poor family alone. Really inappropriate and insensitive questions being asked.
I think it's too early to know the real truth about the wife n kids, especially the wife... How can you be married for 25 years and NOT EVER pick up on ANY signs or symptoms... She has to know something even if it's little things... This isn't over...
I agree totally...how could she not suspect something was not right! Also, getting a divorce also to protect his assets.
This is a tough one. I think it's easy for her NOW put some pieces together. But I think at the time, there is just no way you would assume your partner/father/boss would be capable of doing something like this.... the accusations, the crimes are EXTREME. This is beyond human stuff.
Props to law enforcement for catching this psychopath❗️✅️
This man has ruined so many lives.
Given the history they have together, it’s impressive to me that she’s cut off all contact with him (as far as we know). I think I would want my husband’s take on what he’s been accused of and to have some conversation with him. I wonder if she’s wanted to leave him for some time, and this is her ticket out.
Are you warped? She accepts collect calls from him, she is in contact with Rex and has been all along. Even the lawyer says she doesn't visit the jail for fear of being ambushed by reporters.....NOT BECAUSE SHE'S REFUSING CONTACT WITH REX,......YEESH!
Probably
@@StompingRabbits are you? What’s your source, tw@tt??
She appears to have been depressed, bedraggled and overwhelmed for a long time. I see sadness, fear.
The family are the victims also. My heart goes out to Asa and her adult children. They need counseling and a different place to live. The trauma that they are going through is unbelievable. I also think RH was abusive toward his wife and kids. Look at the house they lived in. His guns and vault were probably more important than his family. God help.all.of the victims families.
Here we go again, there's not even one scintilla of evidence that Rex used a firearm during the commission of his crimes yet the gun vault is front and center again....
So glad that the community is showing that poor woman and her children love and tolerance. Amazing 🎉😂❤
This poor woman, imagine being married to a con artist for over 20years... Now imagine how much worse it would be to find out you were married to a con AND serial killer. One of my worst nightmares and secret fears is finding out someone close to me is not at all who they presented themselves as to me...
He is not only cheating on his family but now taking away their good name. Quelle jerk.
I feel so sorry 4 every victim in this case
Freaking don't escort!!! This world is crazy!
I'm wondering if day by day did the family ever notice odd things they thought just wasn't rite
If I were Rex and claiming I am innocent, I would volunteer my DNA and cheek swab in order to clear my name and get out of that cell ..if he refuses and decides to take this to trial, he's guilty or stupid ! Obviously!
The cops already have his DNA. It matches.
@@Earthbound369 no just recently they have asked to get a cheek swab because the DNA they have from the pizza was exposed to the elements and not as strong ..you must have not know about that yet ..it's all over the news and they said in NYC you can't mandate him to give a cheek swab because you have to be convicted here in NY
They got DNA from pizza that's why arrested him
@@sheilarainey218 lol OMG smh .. so misinformed ... I'm not going to bother explaining again I just explained to the guy in the comments above you
Why doesn't someone like a contractor get her front porch secured better than it is a nd fix the garage door help clean up the yard for free. She needs help and is clearly confused depressed lets get someone to help her get on with life. The kids are suffering too
It would be interesting if you interviewed former and especially current business clients of Heuermann.
How did she not know something odd was going on? Just a question.
I really wished the reporter would've shown so compassion to the woman, it's a horrible crime already grilling her like that just isn't necessary at this point
I keep them in my prayers, thank the people that are prepared to help this family with such compassion ❤
Glad people showing compassion for her and children apart from the very few morons that think she must have none
Gold bless them ❤❤❤
The real morons are the people who have canonized her because she married a violent psychopath... I'll never harass her but I won't treat he as if she's Mother Theresa either...
Took that commute every day back and forth for 6 years when I worked in Long Island City/Astoria and Manhatten.
Like 1000’s of others, probably sat by this guy on multiple occasions.
My God. Leave this poor family alone 😢 They are victims too. She didn’t “speak” to you; You ambushed her when she tried to walk her dog.
No one knows the real man but perhaps his brother.He seems a little "off" and I wonder if he is being investigated.
I feel horrible for her and the kids! What a shock for them to grow through! I don’t blame her for her answers and reaction towards the media!
For better or worse does not state murder anywhere!
wow, thank you Matt Johnson ! Great reporting.
You find out your spouse has repeatedly cheated on you and he’s a sadistic serial killer. He was the financial provider and now you are in front of media like a fish bowl. The weight of all that is tremendous.
thank you for bringing attention to more of his real victims - his family. Can you imagine being so blind sided and now having to be responsible financially alone and with a special needs son? May God provide.
I imagine it's a huge schock, to find out your husband and father is a serial killer. They will need a long time to digest this ,and for sure their lives will never be the same. Please reporters,give them space to be quiet,they need it.I wonder how is family house looks like meth house being the guy an architect making good money. Also the family looks very poor the way the dress and their appearance. I guess they will declare in court and explain what type of life they had.
Wife was using food stamps! Not assistance shaming but they live in a very expensive area with her husband having his own architecture firm & owning properties. Very odd & it will all come out.
@@SBryt-h8g
And the poor lady certainly filed for divorced quickly, I wonder if she has long wanted out.
He sounds like a pile of human detritus...
@@SBryt-h8g
And the poor lady certainly filed for divorced quickly, I wonder if she has long wanted out.
He sounds like a pile of human detritus...
@@SBryt-h8gjust stop. Her son is on Disability. He's able to accept Assistance. Her lawyer said this!! Y'all need to stop passing around gossip
Meth house? The family looks very poor? Get outta town. You think your comment is HELPFUL? Some self-awareness, lady! 🤔🙄😒😒
Did the interviewer ever think to ask her if she needed anything? I mean, even off camera - for Christ's sake, do the human thing. Ask her if she's getting help or does she need anything. You'll get your story, but she opened up to talk - she hasn't done that much. So why not seize the chance to do something humane. Maybe it would help you build a rapport with her and maybe if she saw you were willing to try to get her help, she'd trust you more. Just a thought...
Yes, agreed! It would be so hard dealing with the media all the time.
Awe..I feel so badly for her..I hope she knows that of course there are haters..but she needs to know the majority of the people are wanting to be supportive and if u need anything just ask!
Betrayal is common for men with no conscience.
Toba Beta
T-Rex was a desperate desperate hateful man.
He had his outside personality and then he had his inside dark personality.
I think the more he killed.
The more it helped him kill his conscience.
Violet Fire 🔥
You have to wonder if her immediately seeking divorce wasn’t something she had wanted for some time but now was her moment since he was under arrest. She may have been afraid of him - not to the point of thinking he was a serial killer but afraid of what he might do to her if she left him. Just a thought - I certainly wish her and her children well.
She didn't owe any of us an interview yet she did. She's so strong & I really wish God wraps his arms around her & her babies🙏
Prayers for the family and for all the victims families ❤🙏🏼
Leave her alone!!cant even imagine how this has destroyed her family!!
You can't call inmates who are in jail. They have to call you.
I caught that and was going wtf.. COIRT TV reporters did that???
Prayers for his wife & kids
The media needs to leave them alone they are humiliated Betrayed embarrassed in shock and now
They need Help
Financially
Can ya imagine that she did not know? C’mon…married to a wealthy architect, living the life…He was considered a suspect and interviewed years ago. She wasn’t aware of him and his ilkiness? I don’t think she’s stupid.
@Mmarrbles not now for sure!
She looks very down trodden n so do the children whether he's found guilty or not they will all be stigmatised so sad how there house was left but how she didn't know something amiss baffles me !
I can't believe she hasn't been interviewed by police yet according to her Lawyer just yesterday...isn't her info she could possibly provide important??? I've never heard of such a thing!!!
9:14 "She has gone through hours and hours of interviews with police ..." Lawyers can say whatever they like on behalf of their client when speaking to the press.
You sound positively indignant. 😮
That lawyer is a big time bullshitter that lies at every question. She is not visiting, not going to visit, and definitely not accepting his over priced collect jail calls if he even calls. The lawyer for Rex is just trying to make it all look good as if Rex is innocent
I saw that too, and found it confusing
@@Peace-tk3gr People who are not involved in law enforcement and who hear random bits of news may be prone to taking an indignant stance on incorrect/outdated information. As someone who has worked in law and law enforcement, I get how someone relying on such info get all confused and huffy.
I think it was said that she’s a retired nurse. She probably has had to talk to him about financial matters & how they are going to survive with no income? I’m sure it’s not an easy situation for her & the children. This Rex is not the one they’v we known. God help his wife & kids!
My heart aches for this poor family. I cannot imagine the pain they're going through. What is it about the U.S. that creates so many serial killers? Let's look at that, eh?🔍