When he said "I don't think the opposite of racism is to be color blind. I think it should be appreciating the differences and enjoy people of diverse backgrounds!" I was like "YES!!!" 😍❤
I've noticed a calm, loving acceptance of respect between this white man with his black wife - and this seems to be the aura of a happy interracial married couple.
They cross not only racial barriers - but cultural as well. Their video is quite encouraging to other discouraged interracial couples. THERE IS NO MINISTRY TO INTERRACIAL COUPLES. Is the Church racist ? lol
@@janetday5431 I lived with a beautiful Filippina lady for several years. The male Filippino's hated me. Judy knew that and insisted that when in public she always held my hand or arm. Personally I thought it was amuzing.
Interraciality, (maybe not a word) is off the chain. That's a good thing. It is about time. I thank God for his promises. I think anyone should be able to fall in love. Color should never be a problem. Man made it a problem. But God is solving it.
Great couple but was just too funny when James mentioned being " a boy's boy " when that picture came along on his mower wearing pink socks in open shoes ... I guess Iowa is far more tolerant than i thought ! lol
My family is Christian and I have multiracial family members(Mexican,White(aunts married uncles), Puerto Rican, Russian.) My parents were the first African American couple to adopt a girl from China(now 10 yrs old), though it was on newspaper in TN, in China it was praised. I think its ok for those of different races to marry. My gf is Japanese/White(also Christian) but most people think shes just Japanese.
I would like to thank Kevin for his excellent work on this video and for including as the first picture the one of Bukky and I dressed as nerds ("standing out" lol). Well Done!
You guys look good together and your children are simply beautiful. Congrats on 6 years so far being marry. I pray that your marriage will last forever and ever....
This is very helpful! Love has no color! There are many nationalities, but only one race…the human race. I love how God works! Only He can make differences compliment each person! I love that the only thing you had in common was you values, morals, faith! Just speaks volumes as to the importance of God in our relationships! I imagine it was difficult to have mom & dad not accepting of the person God has predestined for us to love. I'd think I'd be torn, but you two have chosen each other & like the Bible says, when you marry you leave your mother & father & cleave to your spouse! I love it! Great couple, beautiful family! Oh, I think that advice to do your homework & go into it with your eyes wide open is a great idea. I bid you all God speed! Stay blessed! This is very encouraging! I am glad to be in Christ, because that makes life easier for me & helps me love everyone! :-)
Blessing to you and your beautiful children,Sometimes people can judge wrong,its sad African Americans are no different from any other culture,I'm happy for you both,that you went with your heart!!God bless!😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🧚🏽♂️🧚🏽♂️
+zirconfool: I agree, The future of the underclass for Whitey to rule over. Still very small portion of U.S., Europe, Canada, Australia, etc So we will be able to those whites who are easily indoctrinated into down breeding.
@ASSHOLE JONES THAT'S her choice,don't make it sound like a bad thing.If she said she was attracted to black men you would'nt have a problem. You saying she like white men because that's what he saw on tv just show how bitter you.That's your opinion,it's not a fact.
Well, black men love white woman, white woman wear 💄 make-up, purfume, sexy chothes,, at the end, gorgeous white woman are just as human like everybody else , black woman have sexy body, foreign woman love sexy voices, wear expensive purfume, nice chothes ,exquisite looking skin and hair, etc etc
It's not easy, there are so many stories of families that are broken apart, friends that are gone. You really have to want that relationship very badly to endure those losses.
Bukky they will come through . I think if you let them know that he will not hurt you and that his race and the pains of the past should be let in the past and that as Your man He will take care of you and Love you no matter what.
A lovely couple...mixed marriages are common in Jamaica, I guess because there is a mix of races and cultures as our Motto says "Out of Many One People".
I don't recommend "interracial" marriages or discourage them. I recommend finding the person God has for you and if that means and "interracial" marriage that is great. I married my wife because of her character, personality and of course physical attraction is there as well. I married a person not a color. We didn't marry to make a statement, but we realized that in getting married were making a statement.
I love seeing mixed couple, because it's a beautiful and it's just two human being who have fallen in love with each other. I'm from Louisiana and my family is mixed and I love it.
they are beautiful together , he is her first and only male she has ever dated or been with,thats beautiful. i think when we start to see the world as our home and see each other as an extension of our self then we will begin to see the true powers of the human race. Im in a mixed marriage , check my channel for my videos, my wife is German and im black man from Jamaica
As believers we know we're all children of Adam and Eve so not different in any way besides mélanine. I'm so sorry about the rejection from parents-in-law.
I agree with him about the anxiety around race. You can ask me if I prefer black or African American. There are black people, not all, some of them I can't talk to and I'm black, and things you maybe confused about.
You guys have a beautiful family may the good Lord bless your home and family it's so sad how people focus so much on color but they can say how much they love the Lord whom they never seen but can look at there brother and sister and hate them because of SKin color
Its funny how our image as black people around the world is tarnished in African cultures in other countries. The funny part of that statement with this story is that she is considered black here in American even though she is Nigerian.
WOW !! You are so blessed. This is my only concern when it comes to dating outside of my race. I've been black all my life and I've been the only black person @ work/school etc. So I'm used to all the stares and stereotyping and bigotry. I have thick skin to it. But, I would worry about the guy. Would he be able to handle losing some family members/friends and disapproving coworkers etc. How do u guys deal with it?
Carla Linton. I think that interracial Dating and interracial Marriages are beautiful and wonderful.I don't see nothing wrong with it. Because one thing about it we all are God's Children. And God loves us all. No matter what race we are.
I think the non-acceptance on her family's side might stem from a possible overlooking of tradition. The Yoruba and Igbo of Nigeria (as well as most Africans) go through important traditions such as knocking on the door and dowry. In the West this is seen as backwards however these measures are considered very important in African culture/society and my advise to anyone wishing to marry an African lady is do your homework and don't skip any tradition. Do everything and her side will bless you.
It breaks my heart that it is the grandmother who is the one who is being racist & is separating her grandchildren of their connection to the experience of having her as a grandmother & who could've connected them closer to their heritage.
When he said "I don't think the opposite of racism is to be color blind. I think it should be appreciating the differences and enjoy people of diverse backgrounds!" I was like "YES!!!" 😍❤
Beautiful wife, beautiful family. Keep God first. Stay blessed..
I've noticed a calm, loving acceptance of respect between this white man with his black wife - and this seems to be the aura of a happy interracial married couple.
They cross not only racial barriers - but cultural as well. Their video is quite encouraging to other discouraged interracial couples. THERE IS NO MINISTRY TO INTERRACIAL COUPLES. Is the Church racist ? lol
@@tanmaxwell4599 Depending on where you live, just having a ministry to Singles is a victory!
Great couple.
Look at their faces when each one is speaking.
The love and admiration for each other speaks for itself.
We all are ONE IN Christ ❗️
Such a beautiful couple! Do not let racism come between you two. Put God first in your marriage and you have a successful marriage. Best wishes!
Love is love and love knows NO color. I have cousins who are an interracial family and they held it together quite well so far. Almost 40 years now.
you know you lying ,most black if they are being truthful ,hate seeing a beautiful black woman on the arm of a white man.be real.
@@janetday5431 I lived with a beautiful Filippina lady for several years. The male Filippino's hated me. Judy knew that and insisted that when in public she always held my hand or arm. Personally I thought it was amuzing.
❤❤❤❤vous avez raison messier 😢😢😢😢😢
i feel so bad for couples whose parents don’t accept their child’s significant others bc of their race. that must be so hard.
@Naomi Gary, I feel you. When people want to control others lives.
It is! 😢
They're a cute couple. I like them!
You two don't have a problem, other people do, don't let their thoughts and comments destroy your HAPPINESS
Such a beautiful, beautiful couple, what an inspiration you are, many blessings to you both for a long, happy life together :D
Bro keep it up , God is with you guys, where there is love there is grace. ♥️💪👍
Interraciality, (maybe not a word) is off the chain. That's a good thing. It is about time. I thank God for his promises. I think anyone should be able to fall in love. Color should never be a problem. Man made it a problem. But God is solving it.
How can you not love this couple!
Their kids are soooo adorable!🥰🥰 This family is beautiful & clearly love each other.
Beautiful couple. James has very calming voice and manner. As Bukky said they complement one another.
Great interview! :)
You look sweet together. Your wedding picture looked awesome. May God blessings be constantly upon you.
Her smile :D made me happy!
❤ great story of how you both met Hallelujah 📖Have you watch Pastor Perspective February 23, 2021 You will Smile 😃💕
Those babies are beautiful! God Bless 🙏🏼😊
Great couple but was just too funny when James mentioned being " a boy's boy " when that picture came along on his mower wearing pink socks in open shoes ... I guess Iowa is far more tolerant than i thought ! lol
I chuckled too!
hell with the racist, as long both of the human being love each others sincerely, proceed man
true..
Same way here
There is only one race and that's the human race.
Get over it
Yes!
My family is Christian and I have multiracial family members(Mexican,White(aunts married uncles), Puerto Rican, Russian.) My parents were the first African American couple to adopt a girl from China(now 10 yrs old), though it was on newspaper in TN, in China it was praised. I think its ok for those of different races to marry. My gf is Japanese/White(also Christian) but most people think shes just Japanese.
***** Thx (the gf part is overrated -_- I like her she doesn't know yet)
***** Ok XD :D :)
💞Beautiful Family ❗ Hallelujah 💕
I would like to thank Kevin for his excellent work on this video and for including as the first picture the one of Bukky and I dressed as nerds ("standing out" lol). Well Done!
love has no boundaries, get over it!!! on another note, she has the most animated facial expressions Ive ever seen.. lol!!
You guys look good together and your children are simply beautiful. Congrats on 6 years so far being marry. I pray that your marriage will last forever and ever....
Beautiful couple and lovely story!
Beautiful couple. Bless you both!
What you said was simply beautiful. It's about loving another not for race, but for who they are.
This is very helpful! Love has no color! There are many nationalities, but only one race…the human race. I love how God works! Only He can make differences compliment each person! I love that the only thing you had in common was you values, morals, faith! Just speaks volumes as to the importance of God in our relationships! I imagine it was difficult to have mom & dad not accepting of the person God has predestined for us to love. I'd think I'd be torn, but you two have chosen each other & like the Bible says, when you marry you leave your mother & father & cleave to your spouse! I love it! Great couple, beautiful family! Oh, I think that advice to do your homework & go into it with your eyes wide open is a great idea. I bid you all God speed! Stay blessed! This is very encouraging! I am glad to be in Christ, because that makes life easier for me & helps me love everyone! :-)
Just watched this with my German/Cuban boyfriend of 1 year! :-) AIN'T GOD GOOD?! YES, HE IS!!!! :-)
A beautiful couple! I wish you much success in your marriage and continue to not let anyone come between the two of you. 🙏🏽
Bukky, James , I'm happy for you guys !
We are interracial couple too ,happy and everything!
They are a great looking couple.
osiruskat I I
I hope they're well and still together ❤
Blessing to you and your beautiful children,Sometimes people can judge wrong,its sad African Americans are no different from any other culture,I'm happy for you both,that you went with your heart!!God bless!😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🧚🏽♂️🧚🏽♂️
Interracial love is beautiful ask me n I lv seeing interracial couples
beautiful, the future
zircon dater
+zirconfool: I agree, The future of the underclass for Whitey to rule over. Still very small portion of U.S., Europe, Canada, Australia, etc So we will be able to those whites who are easily indoctrinated into down breeding.
Love you both from Des Moines Iowa
I luv white men.
Yea, I’m black.
They’re all I’ve ever been attracted to.
@ASSHOLE JONES THAT'S her choice,don't make it sound like a bad thing.If she said she was attracted to black men you would'nt have a problem. You saying she like white men because that's what he saw on tv just show how bitter you.That's your opinion,it's not a fact.
Luxolo Cweti. Don’t worry about him, he’s an Asshole. He said it himself. 😂
something wrong with u then. I'm attracted to any race as long as the person is actually attractive lol..
Chelsea Bella Gallo same here
Well, black men love white woman, white woman wear 💄 make-up, purfume, sexy chothes,, at the end, gorgeous white woman are just as human like everybody else , black woman have sexy body, foreign woman love sexy voices, wear expensive purfume, nice chothes ,exquisite looking skin and hair, etc etc
Beautiful couple! Love knows no boundaries. This is a positive, loving couple!😊❤🙏❤
God bless This family Forever.
From Brasil.
true a lot of human problems are caused by self suppressed feelings that people want to talk about......
It's not easy, there are so many stories of families that are broken apart, friends that are gone. You really have to want that relationship very badly to endure those losses.
hell no! that picture with them holding the crab! besides that lit lit love these videos😍
How illogical, love the grandchildren, but hate their father because of his ethnicity.
+Thang Vuong Indeed!
Her loss - I bet she would say she believes in God. How sad. Enjoy your life.
Tell me again & that hurts him
Man: she grew up in Lagos Nigeria
Me: eh! My Sista!!🙌🙌
Bukky they will come through . I think if you let them know that he will not hurt you and that his race and the pains of the past should be let in the past and that as Your man He will take care of you and Love you no matter what.
Heah, look around. White men are still killing and imprisoning our brothers. This won't stop until there is a divine intervention.
A lovely couple...mixed marriages are common in Jamaica, I guess because there is a mix of races and cultures as our Motto says "Out of Many One People".
I have a Jamaican, a graduate of immaculate conception. Guys of Jamaica, you missed out. And she is a prize. BTW...I am American Indian, full blood.
Enjoy PEOPLE! love that quote
The beauty of love has the boundaries of color. Its the heart that matter when two individuals fall in love with each other.
cool . i believe in loving and understanding each other rather than race differences
As a Dutch I say...goed gedaan...well done😍
Wonderful family. God bless you guys. The world is more beautiful with mixed colors of one human race.
inspiration, wanna see more of this in South Africa.
Don't worry, you will, after your land has been stolen and redistributed to your Caucasian "friends"
I am African and don't believe interracial marriage. what's wrong with black men?
These 2 beautiful people!! What a family!!
Beautiful couple. GOD bless them for a beautiful life.
Bukky,gorgeous, intelligent Nigerian American lady and her handsome, warm, intelligent husband.Both of you, cute children are blessed.
Beautiful comment
I love her differennt facial expression.
Love my naja girls
that guy must be a reincarnation of buddha.......so peaceful and calm by looking at him
wonderful video series.i especially like this couple.
I don't recommend "interracial" marriages or discourage them. I recommend finding the person God has for you and if that means and "interracial" marriage that is great. I married my wife because of her character, personality and of course physical attraction is there as well. I married a person not a color. We didn't marry to make a statement, but we realized that in getting married were making a statement.
I couldn't have it better!
BEAUTIFUL AND BLESSED COUPLE
wish you both and your family all the best from me in singapore.
It was very good. thank you. I agree with whatb you sais.
I love seeing mixed couple, because it's a beautiful and it's just two human being who have fallen in love with each other. I'm from Louisiana and my family is mixed and I love it.
People say that love see’s no color but that is absolutely not true! Love see’s color and still LOVE!♥️
Bravo you guys lovely couple and adorable beautiful children.
I looking at the natural beauty and love between them ❤ love is really lovely ❤
Your wife is beautiful bro...... its amazing to see this, hope my sick south african white n black can learn here
What a beautiful blessed couple 💑
they are beautiful together , he is her first and only male she has ever dated or been with,thats beautiful. i think when we start to see the world as our home and see each other as an extension of our self then we will begin to see the true powers of the human race. Im in a mixed marriage , check my channel for my videos, my wife is German and im black man from Jamaica
Your Kids are so beautiful!
As believers we know we're all children of Adam and Eve so not different in any way besides mélanine. I'm so sorry about the rejection from parents-in-law.
You guys are beautiful
Aww that's sad I just hope they are still happy and together
Be happy is more important.
Long live for Family.
ooh I forgot if I wasn't adopted into this Jamaican family I would not have found jesus at 7 years old so god does work in very different ways lol
Im british and my wife is chinese weve been married 30 yrs and there are many times i dont see my wifes colour just the woman im with
I agree with him about the anxiety around race. You can ask me if I prefer black or African American. There are black people, not all, some of them I can't talk to and I'm black, and things you maybe confused about.
GOTTA LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!!
I'm Nigerian married to a English man and both our families get along.
keep on keeping on :)
Woooow.... 16years now in 2023.....
You guys have a beautiful family may the good Lord bless your home and family it's so sad how people focus so much on color but they can say how much they love the Lord whom they never seen but can look at there brother and sister and hate them because of SKin color
Woundered what part of iowa are they at?
congradulations !!! you 2 make a good couple =)
Wish you guys the best
Its funny how our image as black people around the world is tarnished in African cultures in other countries. The funny part of that statement with this story is that she is considered black here in American even though she is Nigerian.
Let people love each other and be happy.
James and Bukky are fabulous.
You have a Beautiful family
WOW !! You are so blessed. This is my only concern when it comes to dating outside of my race. I've been black all my life and I've been the only black person @ work/school etc. So I'm used to all the stares and stereotyping and bigotry. I have thick skin to it. But, I would worry about the guy. Would he be able to handle losing some family members/friends and disapproving coworkers etc. How do u guys deal with it?
lovely family
Beautiful Couple.
Carla Linton. I think that interracial Dating and interracial Marriages are beautiful and wonderful.I don't see nothing wrong with it. Because one thing about it we all are God's Children. And God loves us all. No matter what race we are.
Love knows no color. Love is a free market!
I think the non-acceptance on her family's side might stem from a possible overlooking of tradition. The Yoruba and Igbo of Nigeria (as well as most Africans) go through important traditions such as knocking on the door and dowry. In the West this is seen as backwards however these measures are considered very important in African culture/society and my advise to anyone wishing to marry an African lady is do your homework and don't skip any tradition. Do everything and her side will bless you.
It breaks my heart that it is the grandmother who is the one who is being racist & is separating her grandchildren of their connection to the experience of having her as a grandmother & who could've connected them closer to their heritage.
Her mum not accepting him is SO sad.
sunnygirly2k4 lol she is Nigerian her mom would hav preferred her marrying from her tribe. Just any black won't do