Empowerment Coach REVEALS How To Create A NEW VERSION Of Yourself In 2024 | Roxy Saffaie

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    On Today's Episode:
    Is your greatest enemy, or bully, in life actually yourself? Do you put yourself down, tell yourself, “You can’t do it,” or shut down your own dreams before even giving them a try? On this episode of Women of Impact, empowerment coach, podcast host, writer, and athlete Roxy Saffaie joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to stop fighting with yourself and start fighting for yourself so that you can lead an empowered and confident life. They discuss the importance of turning up the volume on yourself in everything you do, why you have to have self-love, the incredible reward of always taking on challenges in pursuit of victory and change, how confidence will dramatically shape your life, the importance of staying true to your authentic self, and how to stay motivated each and every day in your relentless pursuit of greatness.
    SHOW NOTES:
    Intro | Lisa introduces and welcomes today’s guest, Roxy Saffaie. [1:44]
    Fighting Yourself | Roxy discusses why we rarely fight for ourselves. [2:27]
    Turn It Up | Roxy shares what it means to turn the volume up on yourself. [4:08]
    Awareness | Roxy reveals the importance of knowing and loving oneself. [7:04]
    Self-Love | Roxy discusses what it means to practice having self-love in life. [9:06]
    Know Yourself | Roxy shares why discovering who you are only is crucial. [14:09]
    Tension | Roxy discusses why challenge is the path to victory and change. [16:25]
    You Got You | Roxy shares why you have to be relentless and keep going. [20:01]
    Confidence | Roxy reveals the power and importance of having a confident mindset. [21:05]
    Authenticity | Roxy discusses how to do things that honor your authentic self. [22:42]
    Physicality | Roxy shares the importance of training, movement, and exercise. [24:03]
    Fuel | Roxy and Lisa discuss where their confidence and drive come from. [29:30]
    Rituals | Roxy shares the power of morning rituals and consistency. [34:44]
    Connect | Roxy shares how to follow and connect with her. [36:28]
    QUOTES:
    “I want to hit all my goals, right? But what I’m really interested in is, “Who am I on the way to the goal?”” [12:17]
    “…on the other side of challenge is victory.” [16:29]
    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:
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    Podcast: spoti.fi/2IEajGW
    FOLLOW ROXY SAFFAIE:
    Website: blackbeltbeauty.com
    Podcast: blackbeltbeauty.com/podcast
    Instagram: roxylook
    Ready to rise into your most empowered and confident self? Check out Roxy's Queendom here: bit.ly/2M3nI0q

ความคิดเห็น • 643

  • @austyn5004
    @austyn5004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Oh I NEEDED this one. I have a quote on my giant chalkboard wall in my kitchen that says "Don't make yourself small to make others comfortable".

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @Focus-pw4qh
      @Focus-pw4qh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's Beautiful!

    • @tanyar8761
      @tanyar8761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG! LOVE it! I'm going to print it out and hang it somewhere.

    • @shaunrussell4558
      @shaunrussell4558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow💗thanks for this!! I might put this quote up in my mirror! I need that!! Really appreciate this comment!

    • @karlasousa5495
      @karlasousa5495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💪🏽👏🏽

  • @CianTAllen
    @CianTAllen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    The biggest thing is to not care about what other people think about you. Confidence is everything, working on mine.

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      👏💪🙌❤️

    • @sayusayme7729
      @sayusayme7729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      An inch turns into a mile. Grateful for the lessons!
      ⚡️

    • @CianTAllen
      @CianTAllen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tricks2564 thank you.

    • @patriceprince2148
      @patriceprince2148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm right there with you sis!

    • @stories-of-elle
      @stories-of-elle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Self love changes the game

  • @sarahmuir5623
    @sarahmuir5623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    "Stop fighting yourself and start fighting for yourself" - this quote had me lit up all day. So moved by this episode!

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👏👏👏

    • @mindsetforsuccess2784
      @mindsetforsuccess2784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s quite the moving quote; I feel it. For the you who is success: check this out - bornoutofsoftness.com

    • @chinchinchokhlei
      @chinchinchokhlei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @aplias20
      @aplias20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah she is Phenonmal Woman with a Boulderstrong Confident Just like me😁💪

    • @safarilazhar1447
      @safarilazhar1447 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Taketime

  • @raqueltorres2516
    @raqueltorres2516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    To reach your greatest potential you’ll need to fight your greatest fears. Success is at the other side!

    • @sg6388
      @sg6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ☝🏼💯

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯

    • @lisaboone8724
      @lisaboone8724 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for posting this message I really needed to see it!!!🙏

  • @tracylitton8774
    @tracylitton8774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Lisa is the best interviewer EVER. She never interrupts. Love this channel

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ❤️❤️

    • @safirzette
      @safirzette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I really love her content. Please, include subtitles ! I understand english but with subs it’s much easier . I can translate automatically in my language and share with more people.

    • @StephanieDasher.
      @StephanieDasher. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Best EVER!!

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    “I kept running around it in large or small circles, always looking for someone or something able to convince me of my Belovedness. Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the "Beloved".

    • @NO-kw9cp
      @NO-kw9cp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      “You are the Beloved”! That daily devotional has been such a gem to my soul.

    • @sylettemonroe8878
      @sylettemonroe8878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      WOW... How can I remember all this stuff in my heart?

  • @heatherkincaid1238
    @heatherkincaid1238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    This is so empowering!
    “Deeply connect with who you are, and develop a relationship with who you are blooming into”

    • @keekeelove1032
      @keekeelove1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/video/ywqMTC8pN2U/w-d-xo.html

    • @elizabethash4720
      @elizabethash4720 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True ....,. Have reverence for your unique self.

    • @audaciousenuf8606
      @audaciousenuf8606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      On my list

    • @ZAPATAattack03
      @ZAPATAattack03 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let me cook lmao nah let me prove a point and die come on and leave me alone

    • @chelleowen9169
      @chelleowen9169 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so empowering

  • @rebelliarosetm2008
    @rebelliarosetm2008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    My favorite quote: “It is ok to be a masterpiece AND a work in progress at the same time”. Thanks for this video. I’ve already given it to my 15 yo daughter for homework from mom. 💋❤️🌹

    • @ferrenough
      @ferrenough ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏⭐️🔥

  • @Exotixa
    @Exotixa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I already know this is an interview I am going to have to rewatch over and over to get the full essence. There are layers to all of this.

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You’re right! Layers. So glad this resonated and is helpful ❤️

    • @Exotixa
      @Exotixa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@LisaBilyeu thank you for this interview, girl! 🥰❤

    • @cleopatra4558
      @cleopatra4558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yasss same here, I was just thinking that!

    • @taviakane2807
      @taviakane2807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, exactly what I needed right now, I need to hear it on repeat :) pure awesomeness 😎

    • @sabamuluneh7166
      @sabamuluneh7166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯

  • @andreawheatley5528
    @andreawheatley5528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I am still dealing with all the insults, from Narcissists in my life, I do take life punches, with composure, but dealing with rejection, from others, is deeply rooted,

    • @JiaFit
      @JiaFit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It’s hard, but like a skill the more you practice the better it becomes

    • @andreawheatley5528
      @andreawheatley5528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JiaFit Thank you

    • @andreawheatley5528
      @andreawheatley5528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@JiaFit When your whole life is being told, how worthless and stupid you are , I seem to pick partners the exact same way, even though, I know I am a kind,strong and loyal person, I still hear those insults that I have heard since a very little girl, I suppose they’re scars, but I want respect, integrity and loyalty back.

    • @Dani-ix9cl
      @Dani-ix9cl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@andreawheatley5528 the mind is a 'tool' we need to learn how to use. Just like we learned to walk, etc. The brain 🧠 itself, we've learned it can regenerate (Neuro plasticity) it is something that was thought could not possibly happen. It does. So, a brain injury can be healed. The rest of the healing is up to the individual. Meaning, do you, yourself, accept to listen to others, and, then you make the conscious decision to change? If you, choose that option, your mind, which is separate from your brain 🧠 will do as YOU choose and will bring about the change.
      You, are NOT a little girl. You, are an adult, independent person, who can choose, make YOUR own decision. If, and, only if, YOU choose to do so.
      You, decide who you allow to speak to you, and how. You choose to tell your mind , I will replace with new positive information ℹ️ the old data.
      Think of it this way. Computers need upgrades to new, current programs for the present. Why are you functioning with old information ℹ️?
      Anything stagnant, gets rutted and dies. Your old information, died.
      From a traumatic brain injury, I was told: imagine having a toolbox 🧰. Now take out all the tools ⚒️ 🛠 and put new ones in. Otherwise, regret, resentment, victim mentality , and negative thoughts and emotions will run your life. It took a while to assimilate it. But I had to make the choice. And, above all, choose who was going to continue with this 'me' that 'I' had to create. I am in constant search for well-being, health, positive energy; stress-less environment. I make a conscious decision. So can each of us. And you. Blessings 🙏🤗

    • @amytichelaar7638
      @amytichelaar7638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@andreawheatley5528 look up Louise Hay on TH-cam. I think she can help you X

  • @purpledreams1885
    @purpledreams1885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Two beautiful intelligent women having an intellectual and inspiring conversation should have been the title

  • @sarapatch616
    @sarapatch616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I have never been confident! I've been made fun of my whole life I was in abusive relationships that always put me down and now that I'm turning 30 I am trying to work on this.. thank you for this video❤

    • @anthonyhoward4743
      @anthonyhoward4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This might seem condescending but you can change your thoughts. For to long a time I lacked confidence and a feeling of worthlessness. Had some horrible thing happened to me the last 10-15 years. I try and watch motivational content like stoicism here on YT. A 10-15 min. vid can change your thinking and Remember that you are in charge. If you start to think negative thoughts fight them and change your mindset.
      As for being made fun of instead of getting defensive say to the person about the other faults they forgot to tell you.
      Growing up I got a lot of racial abuse and I used to lash out. Now I just choose not to get offended. It can still hurt but I try not to care what people say A year ago someone was saying some really horrible racist stuff online instead of attacking the person I told him how it made me feel and how it was like when growing up. He was angry because most of his family had lost their jobs due to immigrants. we started to have a good interaction and He actually apologised.
      I can still get triggered and have doubts about myself but I am trying.
      Give this a look Sara and take care.
      th-cam.com/video/Hu0xDtK3g3Q/w-d-xo.html&ab_channel=VoxStoica

    • @milkandspice1074
      @milkandspice1074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anthonyhoward4743 good words.

    • @magdahsweetie7595
      @magdahsweetie7595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ultimate Karen ,I too am going through that I have never been confident and am in an abusive relationship,I try to talk my mind but I don't have confidence I that God I have got this video op I will be transformed through it and I discover myself

    • @lifebegins4776
      @lifebegins4776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prayers are powerful. God is the source of love strength. Speak to Him and let Him reveal to you who you are. You are not all the negative words people have said about you it even you about yourself. God loves you. You are the daughter of the King. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Get to know Him. Some of things she said is in the Bible. Ultimately God knows more about you than you do and He longs to have a relationship with you. As a Father will strengthen and guide His daughter that's Him.
      He changed my life, 10 yrs ago, by following Jesus. Read about what He says about you in the Bible, ask Him to explain the book of John. Start by talking to him from your heart 💓

    • @VelvetKatOfficial
      @VelvetKatOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was also bullied as a kid up until my 20s, and on social media/ TH-cam for my business, I've received troll comments. Experienced childhood traumas & toxic relationships. Believed all the negativity that was thrown at me & wanted to kill myself. But something in me snapped a few years ago to not give a F*k about people, just focus on myself, my dreams, & being a light for others that also experienced what I have(I know this part contradicts what I said above😂).
      It's very freeing to shed negativity, because it's actually not ours. Confidence doesn't need to mean that we think we're hot & badass. It's just about living the way WE want & standing up for ourselves, not letting anyone disrespect us. Being your authentic self doesn't harm others, but it does harm us to not do it. When anyone has a problem with it, it's because THEY aren't strong enough to be authentic or they feel they don't have control of their life, so they try to control others.
      Hope this helps anyone that reads it!!

  • @djjay-kay7636
    @djjay-kay7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Unless you're *challenging* yourself, you're not *growing.*
    👌😘

    • @leslys6205
      @leslys6205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/channels/W6Mhx_ZOXb4q0EkNywrNRg.html

    • @chelleowen9169
      @chelleowen9169 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @kristinamullen4066
    @kristinamullen4066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I do love myself and at the moment I'm dealing with a toxic work environment.I'm not ready to be fired for speaking truth, so I have to find a way to keep the job because I need it at this time, but tell it like it is and create a healthier workplace.I know I can't change anyone else.I can only count on God to carry me through each day and show me a way to deal with constant disrespect.

    • @CianTAllen
      @CianTAllen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh gosh I'm right there with you. Thinking about resigning. Actually I have made a decision. Hold on and find peace.

    • @Dani-ix9cl
      @Dani-ix9cl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@CianTAllen that's right. Think you are there for a reason. Why are you running away if that job is providing for you, and/or your family?
      Besides what is it teaching you?
      Sometimes we are in a situation to learn, to teach us how to endure, handle the situation.
      Stay positive. Look for the purpose for this job in your life. And then, you will be able to grow and who knows.. your next step is higher. Blessings

    • @Dani-ix9cl
      @Dani-ix9cl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Kristina Mullen there's a purpose for where we are, and when. Every thing has a season. Situations we go through are meant to teach us, prepare us for the next steps. Something good always comes out of every situation no matter how difficult/terrible it is.
      Research on how to handle disrespectful behavior in a manner that suits you. I myself, have never allowed disrespect. But because of my personality I handled that. While I didn't do well in other things like I was too naive. But research the most you can so you know how to handle it. And the best, ask God for His guidance. He will not leave us no matter what. Psalm 32:8 I will teach you and guide you with mine eye. What a better promise than this.
      Ask Him. And hold Him to it. And He, as the loving, generous Father He is, will protect you and guide you. I pray He surrounds you with His protection and guide you by His hand as He has promised and guided me. In the name of His beloved Son, Jesus Christ. Amen 🙏

    • @CianTAllen
      @CianTAllen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Dani-ix9cl thanks for your thoughts.

    • @njoki6791
      @njoki6791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm dealing with this right now, toxic work environment. It's like someone is out there to just make it hard for me to an extent of bringing up mistakes I did in 2019. She's ( my supervisor) making it so hard for me and I'm always anxious at work, waiting for the next shoe to drop. I don't know what to do because times are hard and I really need this job.

  • @dailydoseofmedicinee
    @dailydoseofmedicinee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Confidence is a state of mind. Positive thinking, practice, training, knowledge and talking to other people are all useful ways to help improve or boost your confidence levels.

    • @keekeelove1032
      @keekeelove1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/ywqMTC8pN2U/w-d-xo.html

  • @beckymm1989
    @beckymm1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    People, please stop IDOL worshiping and listen to empowering women like this! Self work is not easy, but SO needed NOW! Emotional intelligence, confidence and self love will attract those who are like minded. Additionally, having differences of opinion is normal. Communicating effectively, respectfully and really listening changed my life. 4 yrs of counseling helped. 🤣🤣🥂

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL! Yep. That’ll do it 😉😂🥂

    • @catherinerhea6336
      @catherinerhea6336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sometimes those who have been beaten down *NEED* to see & hear others who are stronger illustrate ways they can employ to help themselves overcome that which drags them down. Your assertions to stop seeking that support out are lame at best, since you yourself admit you needed professional help to overcome your psychiatric shortfalls...
      Become your own role model... *BE THE CHANGE YOU SEEK.* It is too easy to cut others down for the very thing you also clicked on this video for...
      Yeah...I just called you out on your double standard... a character flaw all on it's own... Slamming those seeking guidance is a clear weakness on your part!!!

    • @zyabomhango3848
      @zyabomhango3848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emotional intelligence, confidence and self-love... loved that

  • @clintonbeanie
    @clintonbeanie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I believe our daily vocabulary is soooo important too. Weak and negative words have a weak and negative impact on our self image and mood. Powerful and confident words have a positive impact on our self image and mood.

    • @leslys6205
      @leslys6205 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/channels/W6Mhx_ZOXb4q0EkNywrNRg.html

    • @keekeelove1032
      @keekeelove1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/ywqMTC8pN2U/w-d-xo.html

    • @bigupyuself
      @bigupyuself ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so right. Words are powerful and can create whatever you say, good or bad.

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I hate the money that I'm spending on copyrights etc, but I am finally working on my first book. I am afraid of people's attacks but I'm ready to get over that hurdle.

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES!! JUMP!!! 🙌❤️

    • @sunflowerrayne6026
      @sunflowerrayne6026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is awesome. Im proud of you for jumping out there and doing that for yourself. Ive always wanted to write my own book just never took the step.

    • @taurahelms3068
      @taurahelms3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sunflowerrayne6026 Get it done soon as you can.

    • @edith324
      @edith324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I m always sure of my self

    • @edith324
      @edith324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I admire others never had envy my confidenxe will mever to compete with others was born to stand out not fit in.

  • @miss_anthrope5198
    @miss_anthrope5198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "It's unacceptable to me, because who I identify with she wouldn't accept that,"
    I was just nodding through out this whole video. Thank you for this video 🙌🏾

    • @keekeelove1032
      @keekeelove1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/ywqMTC8pN2U/w-d-xo.html

  • @CarolinaKasey
    @CarolinaKasey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I want Roxy as my coach due to struggling with self rejection/deceiving myself, neglecting self care at times, and dealing with people who talks back at me, and corrects me. When they’re the ones needs to be educated it’s okay to not be perfect. Because I learned I am resilient and learn from my mistakes. You will never grow as person if you keep on correcting other people.

    • @ChristianaSenibo
      @ChristianaSenibo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's absolutely ok not to be perfect. You are a work in progress. Stay open to change and keep taking the steps towards a better you

    • @chelleowen9169
      @chelleowen9169 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

    • @dharashah4746
      @dharashah4746 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true can relate to yr message so much

  • @BrittWorldChanger
    @BrittWorldChanger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was my FAVORITE episode of Women of Impact so far. It speaks so much to where I am in my journey and has so many nuggets for how to continue on the path! Yaaaaassss queen. How do I become a part of this bad ass non-toxic tribe of women!?

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are already!!! 💪🙌😘

    • @rhi411
      @rhi411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!!! Amazing energy & so authentic...I LOVE women like this. We need more of this in our 🌎.
      Here is her web if you haven't found it yet: www.blackbeltbeauty.com
      Stay strong sis! 💪🏼💙

    • @danielleschexnayder5646
      @danielleschexnayder5646 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same‼️‼️ I agree. We already R‼️🦾💥🎯

  • @chinchilla101
    @chinchilla101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I LOVE THIS!!! I was laying down having a major pity party and she says, "girl this shits hard, but I Love whats on the other side so get up... " I swear it was as if the suppressed part of who I really am was screaming from deep within me, thrilled that it had a voice! I do have a goal and yea, odds are insanely against me but I also know that I can accomplish it. Thank you for this road map and awaking the f... out of me.

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret."

    • @sophieshen6886
      @sophieshen6886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!

    • @spiritualprincess6065
      @spiritualprincess6065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beautiful!

    • @kyracl7318
      @kyracl7318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love this

    • @sophieshen6886
      @sophieshen6886 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do u overcome the fear that under certain conditions or to people that I cannot speak ur mind? This is what I am struggling with.

    • @wrldtrvlr4vr
      @wrldtrvlr4vr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said!

  • @mamashanshan2772
    @mamashanshan2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of my paintings says” Go confidentially in the direction of your dreams and live the life YOU imagined...” I bought this at one of my daughters fundraisers, truth to these words forever more!

  • @Rainyraina
    @Rainyraina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I used to think working hard would mean I achieve success. I think now this video has made me realized that you have to put hard work into yourself to achieve your goals. You cannot take yourself out of the equation. This video was so important and helpful, thank you!

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow amazing take away!! So glad you found this helpful ❤️

    • @elizabethash4720
      @elizabethash4720 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was one who lived for a while as a people pleaser on auto pilot, always one who worked hard and with integrity. However, without that I felt empty. Now I realise self care is essential, otherwise I am no good to myself or anyone else.

    • @bigupyuself
      @bigupyuself ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely! You got it. This is what I teach my mentees.

  • @joanbrown5823
    @joanbrown5823 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not just self love......but everlasting love for which there's no end.

  • @turisteandoentexas
    @turisteandoentexas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I tell you what I been doing. I used to experience everything you talk about it here! No self confidence was one of my major issues, my shoulders shrinked all the time. My Drs blamed it on hormones. Felt like I had no support from anyone. Until one day, my counselor told me that all of these feelings are normal to feel. With all the things that women go thru, even today, we still struggle to fight man power. And, unconciously, we don't accept that it's ok to cry, it's ok to feel down, nothing is wrong with us. Its normal!!!! The day I accepted that fact! I stopped asking for understanding from others, I stopped feeling sorry for myself. I started enjoying what I can and even embraced the days to order pizza and just snuggled in bed. I'm not all happy all the time, but at least I'm not bringing the sadness around with me to others. "FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT"

    • @keekeelove1032
      @keekeelove1032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/ywqMTC8pN2U/w-d-xo.html

  • @thehardestreign
    @thehardestreign ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "There's no magic pill...you have to be relentless"---this just blessed me so much! Thank you & much love

  • @recoverywithlee2591
    @recoverywithlee2591 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    DETECTING PATTERNS in how speak to ourselves is KEY to transition away from past limiting patterns. WE need to become aware of the specific phrases that continue to give us an un-easy gut reaction. This was crucial in my early days of addiction recovery, and helps those I guide, in all circumstances of limiting behavior.
    TIPS:
    1. Make an inventory of these limiting statements.
    2. Make it mandatory to combat this with WORDS TO YOURSELF that are accurate and kind.
    3. Create and recite an affirmation each morning, specific to you, detailing you deserve happiness.
    4. Take an action towards your goal.
    BEST PRACTICES and WISHES to us ALL!

  • @Mentalmogulmedia
    @Mentalmogulmedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The importance of self awareness is key. Love the content ladies . Even in military we have to remind each other “self care is health care”

  • @fluffyclouds555
    @fluffyclouds555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    5 seconds in and YES please teach me how to stop disqualifying myself

  • @victoriadupuy5963
    @victoriadupuy5963 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic interview!! Replay replay replay!!! Thank you

  • @clintonbeanie
    @clintonbeanie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Two minutes in and I am lovin' this. Thanks for this reminder ladies!

  • @91Ruja
    @91Ruja 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this ! I look forward to turning up my volume to be heard and seen ....always and forever ( I needed this message) God Bless xp

  • @ThatsVaeliza
    @ThatsVaeliza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was RIGHT on time for me!! GREAT interview as always 😭🙌🏾🔥💪🏾❤️💕

  • @0famz
    @0famz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so powerful!! It showed up when I needed it the most! She speaks with so much passion and love for herself and helping others. I would love to be as strong as she is one day. I feel so down lately having made a huge needed change in my life that was draining my self esteem. So I'm trying to pick myself back up. Grateful for this!

  • @GainKnowledge-rw9nw
    @GainKnowledge-rw9nw 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The energy was insane! Thank you for sharing!

  • @margueriteraymo577
    @margueriteraymo577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This hit just when I needed! Thank you

  • @tovika8962
    @tovika8962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When u stop fighting urself and u start fighting for yourself, the entire game changes...

  • @asena1181
    @asena1181 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was friggin amazing!!! Thank you for this incredible and insightful chat!!

  • @fatimaabbas1687
    @fatimaabbas1687 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is amazing❤️❤️❤️,keep on the good work👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @thedeskofamy2049
    @thedeskofamy2049 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Lisa and Roxy!

  • @antoniam7051
    @antoniam7051 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved loved loved this episode and I love their chemistry and the way they're connecting. Lots of what they said went straight to my journal ♥

  • @diaura2378
    @diaura2378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank your this amazing episode! Love Roxy and both of your energies!💕 great to see women empowerment in such a positive light!!🤩 I am inspired 🙏🙏🙏

  • @noorminaz6730
    @noorminaz6730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very empowering!! Thank you

  • @journeywithvanessa
    @journeywithvanessa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved Roxy's energy! My kind of woman. Thanks for another great show.

  • @cherylm.6448
    @cherylm.6448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved listening to this beauty! ♡

  • @catherinerhea6336
    @catherinerhea6336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    There comes a point, IF YOU'RE PAYING ATTENTION!!!... when everyone else falls to the background & you come to the juxtaposition of yourself vs EVERYONE/THING ELSE... & IT BEGS THE QUESTION OF "WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO *YOU???* " ALL the noise fades & you ascend into YOURSELF, & realize how much time & effort you've WASTED on others... _turning all that attention & effort to YOURSELF is NOT selfish... It is the deepest manifestation of self LOVE there is!!!_ Who cares if "they" throw a shitfit about it??? ...THAT PROVES they cannot stand you not giving all that to THEM- *SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS!!!*
    Pat Benatar sang about it: _Hit me with your Best Shot!!!_ ....Because I will smack it down without missing a beat!!! Love literally IS _a battlefield_ ...the question is "Do you respect yourself ENOUGH to show some TO YOURSELF???"💜

  • @FutureFendiFsnista
    @FutureFendiFsnista 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video so much! Not going to lie, I really needed to hear this especially with these challenging times. Thanks again for a great video 💕

  • @parisjennings4614
    @parisjennings4614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything I needed to hear, thank you both! ✨💯

  • @aibeautytechgirl
    @aibeautytechgirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! It's such a beautiful reminder with all the necessary tools to use and develop self love/ confidence and reach your goals

  • @sareejitta7428
    @sareejitta7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this episode so much. Thank you Lisa and Roxy

  • @sanikapadalikar4698
    @sanikapadalikar4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need this video justnow.Thank-U, for posting.

  • @aaliyahhill6444
    @aaliyahhill6444 ปีที่แล้ว

    “It’s the being,not the things.”Thank you!This channel is so powerful!!Such empowerment!!!

  • @leannec8082
    @leannec8082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed to hear this today!

  • @paulamichelemaynard1139
    @paulamichelemaynard1139 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode was the best. Understandable, uplifting advice.

  • @oliviapotter6690
    @oliviapotter6690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great listening, thank you!
    Crossing the line of self love 💜 it’s a process.

  • @olivia81112
    @olivia81112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg!! I LOVE this episode! SO many nuggets of wisdom here. As I learn how to be my best authentic self and finally going after my dreams after living my life small, I SO needed to hear this!! Thank you!

  • @seriously2475
    @seriously2475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful! Thank you!!!

  • @shreychaks
    @shreychaks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh god. I needed this sooooooo much. Roxy is my role model and inspiration. Rocksolid empowering.. will literally be watching this video everyday, my both conscious and subconscious mind need to hear these words every damn day.
    Women of impact is one of the most amazing channel on youtube and I'm extremely grateful to Lisa for being the fireball she is. Thankyou. Thankyou. Thankyou. 🐘

  • @wmohamed1798
    @wmohamed1798 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This might be my favourite WOI interview! So much value- I’ll be watching this one regularly

  • @flof151
    @flof151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully spoken 😍 thank you for sharing 🥰❤️

  • @ninastos4467
    @ninastos4467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Coming back to this video for the 10th time. Every single word sink in like an ink on the paper. Loved it 💯 Please call her again, we need more of Roxy. You brough the best out of her 🥰

  • @seekingmysoultribe3612
    @seekingmysoultribe3612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Lisa! I literally watch this video when I'm feeling down to remind me to be strong! I adore you both! Roxy is killing it!

  • @markodejanovic1635
    @markodejanovic1635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I enjoyed it. It's so empowering, I feel a rush of energy. Key words repetition, consistency

  • @TheBettermentChannel
    @TheBettermentChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an intense video. Love it. Needed to hear this exactly at this point of time. Delighted to have discovered Roxy as well. All hail the Queendom. 😄❤

  • @amyandrzejewski1858
    @amyandrzejewski1858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this podcast. I took so much from this conversation.

  • @thankfullife262
    @thankfullife262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooooooh both of you really impacted and inspired me..... THANKS A LOT 🙏🙏

  • @lorenajules4651
    @lorenajules4651 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been searching for a video like this for so long!!!!!! Thank you

  • @scamp9360
    @scamp9360 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg finally someone that verbalized what I feel when I move and how to relate movement and resilience with resilience in life. Love this! Love all your videos. You are so freaking cool

  • @yoursafespacebabe
    @yoursafespacebabe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sooo important, thank you so much for the video 💘

  • @kerecz
    @kerecz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content!!! Thank you both!👍

  • @keeyawnainspires
    @keeyawnainspires 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful. Powerful
    Wow.
    Thank you ladies

  • @u_h5
    @u_h5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this interview so much. This is what I need right now. It resonated with me. Every word hit me. I feel more confident and powerful. My perception about myself changed.

  • @Queeen_Tori
    @Queeen_Tori 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my fav video thus far. I loved the views on journaling. It really does create a shift within yourself. I feel like when I journal, I am writing my own story and that gives me so much confidence. This blessed me I done watched it 6 times lol. Thank you both!

  • @zenamatthews9380
    @zenamatthews9380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've watched this video four times now, it's on repeat! And it inspired me to write about what I need to start doing to become what I want. Thank you Lisa and Roxxy!

  • @powerfulmanifestor3059
    @powerfulmanifestor3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so grateful for this channel and the empowered conversation that happen here... And the best part is that these women don't force their confidence or positivety on you, it's an encouraging environment for everyone to grow ❤️

  • @Lollita23
    @Lollita23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you ladies, what a profound gift this conversation is!💕

  • @OldRaver
    @OldRaver 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 54, and fekking LOVE this interview!
    Wish to God I could have seen it 35 years ago!
    But I’ve got it now. 🏆
    Just brilliant.
    Absolute cure for the imposter syndrome that me and so many of my female friends have!
    Fuck that tippytoeing around trying not to ‘upset’ my male colleagues with my ‘me-ness’. I have every right to be myself.
    I’m gonna love me and set my authentic self FREE!
    I totally understand the PRESENCE that is going to give me in the room.
    I used to be super confident, but had it knocked out of me over the years by life throwing such massive blows at me (cancer, then diagnosed with ADHD (chemo massively exacerbated the symptoms I worked hard to mask/overcompensate for over the years), losing three jobs in a row (cos of rampant ADHD!) and my parent’s both falling ill and dying
    But it did NOT break me.
    I was on the mat for a while, but I don’t wallow.
    Bending myself to other people’s shape makes me an awkward and an invisible shadow of myself.
    Even I don’t like that version of me.
    I LOVE the powerhouse version of me.
    Working on letting HER back out after many years!

    • @Maruiabi
      @Maruiabi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Way to go!!! Way to not let yourself be stopped by life!

  • @janina2837
    @janina2837 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was such a powerful conversation and I am feeling so inspired. Lots of love for you.

  • @littleblackbabycat
    @littleblackbabycat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Lisa!!! I am obsessed with your channel, your energy and passion. Love the incredible inspirational women you are interviewing. I feel so motivated and empowered to get into my life more. yay xxxx

  • @silverpromidi
    @silverpromidi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have told my self this year that there is NO OPTION on the idea of 'giving up'.
    I LOVE these questions you were being posed Lisa :) will need to go back through them and write those down in my journal and give thought to them.
    "making me feel GOOD about myself" "to care about myself" changing the old tapes - would LOVE for it to be on express delete and replace :) slow process currently.
    I LOVE THIS EPISODE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Thank you BOTH!

  • @arushi8984
    @arushi8984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You don't know how much it helped me.... thank you soooooo much

  • @bridgetvanderwesthuizen7675
    @bridgetvanderwesthuizen7675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video was meant for me . This was an amazing interview. You spoke to the woman that I know I am , and can feel myself turning into. God Bless both of you ladies

  • @bellamarciano
    @bellamarciano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so inspiring and much needed❤️🙏🏼

  • @alamedadanceparty
    @alamedadanceparty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really powerful stuff. I was moved. Thank you for such great content.

  • @nataliagomez4825
    @nataliagomez4825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE this interview so much.!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alondramendoza7053
    @alondramendoza7053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really needed this. You girls made me cry!! It is really hard to get yourself up!! 🥺 I have to see this video AGAIN .

  • @redcarpetinvite1888
    @redcarpetinvite1888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really really love this strong, effective, and powerful conversation between both of them. They use the best question to being out the topic. I watch like 30 times to get every word

  • @shana-kayshirley5397
    @shana-kayshirley5397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have listened to this interview over and over again and it so inspiring..

  • @katiie7
    @katiie7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great motivational talk. Please have her back 💓☺️🤍

  • @abhilashasingh5584
    @abhilashasingh5584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both the ladies are superlatively inspirational. Can relate to your thinking.

  • @somethingtotellyourdaughte5455
    @somethingtotellyourdaughte5455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Yes Yes! More content like this. Women supporting women, self love, self confidence and building
    each other up is what I am all about! Keep up the great content!

  • @amyparrisyoga3266
    @amyparrisyoga3266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing, thanks ladies 💕💕 heard this at the right time 🙌🙏🏼

  • @the_real_ryanp
    @the_real_ryanp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Roxy, I could see where you were going as you were asking the multiple layers of "why" questions. Awesome!
    Lisa, I cheer you on to rest in that moment again and go deeper. There is a huge breakthrough on the other side.
    Great stuff!

  • @AnyelaVega
    @AnyelaVega 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm going to listen to this every morning starting now

  • @tyresetaffe3831
    @tyresetaffe3831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this. I love to see powerful women who can think for themselves.

  • @mariag.9833
    @mariag.9833 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finding my spark light me up universe. Thank you ladies

  • @choosetruthalways7995
    @choosetruthalways7995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Life is my Sport"🌺Great interview! 🌞❤🔥

  • @emilymontag8931
    @emilymontag8931 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    SELF VALIDATION & AUTHENTICITY!!! THANK YOU