As someone with bpd, ive been in therapy for long enough that im able to effectively communucate my needs and issues and get the support i need. In the off chance i act poorly, i hold myself accountable. If you are someone who cannot do this, regardless of what mental illness you have, you might want to work on yourself before you get into a relationship.
I dated a girl like that first text message girl. Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if they were the same person. Always obsessed with the belief that the perfect fairytale romance would manifest from nowhere, with absolutely no compromises, no regrets, and no deviation from the plan she made when she was 5. News flash, that’s not how relationships work.
I'd be surprised if they were the same person. Female here- it happens a lot in girl to girl friendships, too. One person will latch on like it's the only way they can breathe, and I've always been extremely put off by that. "Besties? I hardly know ya." But no lie, bathroom friendships are real asf
Omgosh, so true. I've had this issue in friendships several times before. We are friends, we are not dating! Cannot stand clingy ppl in general but when its a friend its even more off putting imo @@CrickBritt
It's an example of how NOT to cope w BPD tbh. I have it myself and I've know people who just dump it into identifying as an "empath" and not do any real introspection about it. To have even a relatively healthy or ethical relationship you have to be critical of it, and it's hard because the disorder feels like a part of you, but it's possible and has to be done. It's even more challenging when having a BPD obsession over someone feels like real love and real love feels boring, but again, it just doesn't work out well if you follow the former around. Setting boundaries for others and yourself is very important when dealing with it. I used to fall in love within days and now it's better. For any other borderline reading this, it gets better
@@zarnettzaughym-dart2629 is it really even possible to have a healthy relationship before 30 with BPD? I understand that that’s when the disorder begins to soften a bit, and from my experience, it seems damn near, if not completely, impossible to date as someone who has such basic emotional/social deviations (which are often incredibly harmful to themselves and the people around them) in their brains.
@@Buzzbuzz-c7zas someone who’s lived with BPD for seven years, I find it hurtful when people excuse bad behavior simply because someone claims to have BPD🤷🏾♂️. This reinforces the stereotype that people with BPD are naturally cruel, when in reality, most episodes are self-destructive and stem from a deep disconnection from ourselves and the world. While everyone’s experience is different, letting toxic or hateful behavior slide doesn’t help anyone 🚫. Sure, it’s easier not to be blamed when you’re vulnerable, but excusing hurtful actions only minimizes the seriousness of what’s happened. Accountability is needed for growth 🫶🏽. without it, there’s no way to learn, heal, or grow relationships.❤️
In my experience, every single person who uses the term “empath” to describe themselves is nothing but a complete and total selfish, narcissistic nut job!
@@kevingriffith677 Bruh that was very obvious from context alone, so if you listened to anything he said, you'd know BPD Girl is, very clearly, the nutjob. And not the super kind, normal and well spoken, sweet guy. Because he's was ... you know, all those things. While she was clearly mentally unwell? A walking red flag? Do you always need a pre-description for the obvious?
As someone with BPD, I’m so beyond grateful that Charlie acknowledged the fact that it is not just a person who is crazy, but someone who is in need of help. I really hope the first person gets the help they need. It saddens me to think how many people demonize this disorder, but under no circumstances it is not acceptable to speak to others the way she did when he was expressing his own thoughts and concerns. It is clear that she is not ready for a relationship, and I hope that gem of a man find himself in a very happy and healthy relationship with proper communication and someone to match his gentleness.
I personally know a girl that didn't want to breastfeed because "the girls are for ME to have fun with! I'm not making my man share with my baby!" Unfortunately people like that do exist
The second one is craaazzzy like I've written long messages showing my feelings but it stopped at like one if they read it they read it if they don't they don't my man not only sent a Stephen King novel and also shamed the woman he was trying to wooo lol you can't make this up 😂😅
15:20 He is literally how I picture the Beast in Beauty & the Beast, before he gave up on trying to woo girls to break the curse. "I may not be physically attractive but I assure you, I can provide more for you than anyone. I can provide you the free time you yearn for. I can provide you a lake front house and I will NOT shackle you up in the dungeon. I will NOT do that. Haha well enough about me, a/s/l?"
I've always found it interesting from a psychological perspective how these men can rationalize how they, a self proclaimed ugly person, "deserve" a woman way out of their league, like a Maxim model. But when she isnt attracted to them its a big issue. And how throwing money at the problem is supposed to help and not at all degrading to her. Its very interesting.
Lmaooo but also like how they assume everyone has the shallow type of worldview or morals that they have. Love doesn't exist to them. Being with someone for 11 years bc you love them, means nothing to them, and the fact that you would consider that "happiness" over their financial tradslavewife idea is absurd to them. That's sociopathy or something man 😅 like not understanding how people are fond of each other and wanna spend time together.....
That player on Apex Legends is still waiting for that Good Morning text from you Charles. They're very sad and very lonely right now. It's been MONTHS!
9:03 her using BPD as an excuse is absolutely maddening to me. I have BPD, and the stigma around it is so bad and her doing that shit is exactly why. Yes BPD makes it so we are more sensitive to how people treat and react to us. But that’s how it makes us FEEL, how we ACT is on the human who has the BPD, not the BPD itself. I get *mad* anxiety when I feel like the people I care about are mad or upset with me in anyway, even if in reality they’re not actually even upset. But I check myself and go “it’s fine, just give it time and I’m probably just in my head. And I usually am indeed just in my head. Sometimes if people legitimately do break my boundaries, I go “hey, this wasn’t super cool and this is how it made me feel” but other than that, I can’t imagine doing what she’s doing and putting it on the BPD is abhorrent
Wouldn't that work better as ); ? I know it's the opposite direction that emojis typically use, but at least the intended effect of the tear drop would be pointing towards the mouth, rather than somehow gravitating towards their forehead.
The second one is absolutely terrifying. Imagine the worst guy you know literally basically cyber stalks you and begs you to leave your long term partner and continues to harass after being blocked
And spends years creating a whole fantasy in his head then convinces himself its what you would want too. And has to clarify he is NOT a rapist? What the actual fũck
My dreams have finally come true. I've been wanting full videos of the text threads for SO LONG. And now we get THREE OF THEM?! Fuck yes, I guess patience does pay off sometimes. 😂
I used to date someone that got upset if I didn't text back fast enough or immediately. One time they snapped at me because I missed there texts they had spammed to my phone of the course of a couple minutes while I was talking to my mom. I thankfully broke up with them with in the coming week
As someone with BPD, I am appalled by her behavior. I only split when I can’t hold it in anymore and the pressure of being perfectly “fine” can’t be contained. This woman needs mental help. Therapy isn’t cutting it. She absolutely doesn’t need to peruse love as she’s not ready to love herself. That man would’ve been a blessing to her life. He dodged a bullet, on god.
She's so immature. All this talk about being an EMpAth and him being a NoRmIe and her notions of love that are straight out of children's fairytales.... She's not mature enough for a relationship, she needs help
I've known a couple of people with BPD, and I've done a lot of studying on it myself. It really isn't that girl's fault completely. It's good that she's in therapy, and I hope she's still improving with fighting her disorder. It's not an easy thing to deal with, it can make your emotions super extreme to the point that they just take over. Attachments form very quickly and are very intense. It seems to me that she formed an attachment with the guy, and because of the way BPD works, she immediately got super afraid of him abandoning her, hence the stuff about no good morning texts. That probably sent her into an episode, considering they tend to look a lot like how she acted. It's genuinely sad to see people judge her character when it's not something she can control without lots of therapy and, sometimes, medication. I hope she's doing better now.
From the perspective of someone with a mood disorder: The girl with BPD might not be at fault for her condition, but she IS at fault for seeking a relationship and lashing out when she knows she isn't ready for that. Mental illness is only an excuse for bad behavior if you are suffering from genuine delusion that makes it impossible to distinguish belief from reality. This is not that. Your actions are your responsibility. And that's all there is to it.
11:10 so disappointed as someone with bpd i thought she recognized that she was being too intense and tone it down as it seemed like shes aware of how it works for her. I didn't expect her to instantly derail again after seemingly being self aware about whats happening
i do this sometimes. not diagnosed with bpd but i’m still only a couple of therapy sessions in. i struggle with symptoms of bpd so even though im not diagnosed, i take advice and coping mechanisms from people with bpd. i have found it helps a lot but it’s still really hard to stop yourself once you’re in that elevated state. you can recognize it all you want but if you don’t have the self control to stop it when it’s happening, the awareness only goes so far. that’s just something ive been struggling to overcome recently. it felt like i was looking at my own actions through her and it made me very embarrassed.
Always so so very grateful for Charlie being very conscious n' aware of the realities of mental illnesses and/or disorders. As someone w/ BPD, it's nice to hear we weren't demonized; I remember the first time I saw the vid I was preparing myself for it to either be brushed to the side, or worse, "ofc she has BPD" so it was a very pleasant surprise to see he knew that BPD is not just "makes you crazy and needy disease" lol! Anyways, love these compilations sm :>
12:47 scratching his arm while talking about the text messages sounds like the text messages are drags, and he hasn't injected them in a while, so he is itching in that spot where the injection goes (p.s. i said drags so youtube dosent hide my comment)
Thank you for handling the BPD story so gently. We are villianized so much online. That woman needs to work on herself a lot before she tries to get in a relationship. Yes it's not her fault that she has these struggles but there definitely are ways to get a little better. It took me years of hard work to progress past the point where that woman is. It is possible. But it's hard.
28:38 when he says "it's everything You've beever wanted" asking why she won't accept his crazy offer/proposition, all he knows about what she wants is from social media which she even says that that only shows a small fraction of herself and her life, he has no idea what she actually wants in life and where she wants to be especially since it seems they haven't spoken much at all nor has seen her at all in like 6 years
I was thinking that too. What if the boyfriend is going to college and she is supporting him through med school. Or she gained weight because she had a baby or a health issue? Goes to show how little the creep knows.
I'm still not buying the breastfeeding story... I didn't buy it when I first heard it, and I still don't. That's so far out of the realm of reality, and the texts are just too squeaky clean and perfectly set-up(minimal cursing, no mistyping, straight to the point), that I just refuse to believe it's real
It seems that it's actually real however, there is actually a divorce and the mother is currently suing the guy apparently so she can get back one of her kids
@@sydney7532 I have literally heard men say breastfeeding is “gross” and “unnatural” and literally think boobs are for men to look at and are sexual. So, I am not surprised if it is real. And the fact people are saying it’s not real because there is no cussing, no typos, and straight to the point is not an argument for it being fake.
I dated a trans guy with bpd- this was very reminiscent of my expeeicne. The best thing one can do is be aware of it, and make sure others are aware of it while working to curb it and be their best self. He threatened to sue me over me saying to a friend that I saw something thst reminded me of him
@@j-davis7290 No, I gotcha. In reading my comment, I’m realizing it came off as me saying that you should do the work for them. What I mean, is that if your someone with a mental condition that can be impact a relationship, the best thing you can do is be aware of it, and work to curb it while trying to work on yourself. Aka, what I’m doing, and not letting myself or others make excuses for my mistakes
@@j-davis7290I have signs of bipolar disorder and my texts have been like this - I never meant any of them, it was like venting and not realising I was talking to anyone. I lost empathy in the moment. She’s hurting. Have you ever thought that a diagnosis isn’t an excuse but a reason?
I appreciate your breakdowns of these sad pools Charlie. Especially when you recognize one party or the other is suffering from mental illness. Great takes
Charlie talking about cringe is one of my favorite content categories so this is a delight. The black shirt and hair pulled back in some of these clips is bonus points 😂
40:37 might've been the guy texting the girl (OP being the dude) or maybe two girls because it at one point says "sadie took a screenshot," sadie being the other person, despite all the effort they went through to censor the chats. If you would like more evidence that it simply wasn't stating the person's username (for non-snap users), just check the context or look further ahead where it says "YOU took a screenshot."
As soon as she shifted the vibe literally overnight from, 'wow I got this amazing feeling about you and can't wait to meet you!' to 'you're so selfish and you hurt my feelings'(by essentially not being able to read her mind) I immediately thought she sounded like she's BPD. And sure enough, she's is. I understand that it's a psychological disorder and she didn't choose to have it, however until she's made a lot more strides in her therapy, she needs to not be trying to get into any relationships. And if you're someone who is ever contacted by somebody who's mood or attitude seems to change quickly and inexplicably...run.
i know the chances of you seeing this charlie are very low, but i want to thank you for uploading these videos. you always joke about when you wanna feel better watch these. but for me thats more of a thing then anyone will ever know. it may seem simple or wimpy to someone. but with the battle i deal with every day these videos genuinly make pushing harder. and i wanted to thank you charlie. much respect from a northern neighbor. sincerly Skylar White-Nagam
The BPD one is so sad. I have BPD and once upon a time I struggled mightily with overattachment/enmeshment. I guess I can be grateful that I knew rationally something was off and mostly just apologized the entire time while people tried to detach from me. I did not want to hurt anyone and I think as a result of that, I was pretty much the only one who hurt. I'm very glad for that AND glad I am better now. Sidenote-the reports of lack of damage inflicted on others came from those people when we spoke later after I recovered.
The names in the "craziest husband ever" story were probably on the dad's part, cause only a dad would come up with those crazy ass names💀 those kids are gonna be bullied so hard when they grow up
So, the last guy is 40 years old and still doesn’t know the difference between your and you’re; there, their, and they’re; to and too; no and know?! His idiocy is actually astounding. ETA: Also then and than, apparently.
Hate to break the news, but having empathy doesn't make you an 'empath', it means you haven't been ruined by humanity/the internet. Also 'empaths' don't need to say they're an empath and defend themselves 🤷♂️
I think luce fly was a text to speech problem. My husband is a terrible typer so he speak all his messages. I think he meant a loose fly, like just a single buzzing annoyance
"Oh..oh I'm farting...ptpfftttppff.. that's what I think of that statement"
Never believe its not soooooook
didnt check the comments section until that happened, first commend I see is this one. 😂
charlie core
This turned me on
Oh "Shit"
As someone with bpd, ive been in therapy for long enough that im able to effectively communucate my needs and issues and get the support i need. In the off chance i act poorly, i hold myself accountable. If you are someone who cannot do this, regardless of what mental illness you have, you might want to work on yourself before you get into a relationship.
Good on you!
I dated a girl like that first text message girl. Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if they were the same person. Always obsessed with the belief that the perfect fairytale romance would manifest from nowhere, with absolutely no compromises, no regrets, and no deviation from the plan she made when she was 5. News flash, that’s not how relationships work.
I'd be surprised if they were the same person. Female here- it happens a lot in girl to girl friendships, too. One person will latch on like it's the only way they can breathe, and I've always been extremely put off by that. "Besties? I hardly know ya."
But no lie, bathroom friendships are real asf
same. worst years of my life.
Omgosh, so true. I've had this issue in friendships several times before. We are friends, we are not dating! Cannot stand clingy ppl in general but when its a friend its even more off putting imo @@CrickBritt
It's an example of how NOT to cope w BPD tbh. I have it myself and I've know people who just dump it into identifying as an "empath" and not do any real introspection about it. To have even a relatively healthy or ethical relationship you have to be critical of it, and it's hard because the disorder feels like a part of you, but it's possible and has to be done.
It's even more challenging when having a BPD obsession over someone feels like real love and real love feels boring, but again, it just doesn't work out well if you follow the former around. Setting boundaries for others and yourself is very important when dealing with it. I used to fall in love within days and now it's better. For any other borderline reading this, it gets better
@@zarnettzaughym-dart2629 is it really even possible to have a healthy relationship before 30 with BPD? I understand that that’s when the disorder begins to soften a bit, and from my experience, it seems damn near, if not completely, impossible to date as someone who has such basic emotional/social deviations (which are often incredibly harmful to themselves and the people around them) in their brains.
I absolutely love how the first girl claimed to be an empath while also completely ignoring OP’s wants and feelings to focus on her own.
It’s borderline personality disorder - she’s having an episode, she didn’t mean these things.
@@Buzzbuzz-c7zas someone who’s lived with BPD for seven years, I find it hurtful when people excuse bad behavior simply because someone claims to have BPD🤷🏾♂️. This reinforces the stereotype that people with BPD are naturally cruel, when in reality, most episodes are self-destructive and stem from a deep disconnection from ourselves and the world. While everyone’s experience is different, letting toxic or hateful behavior slide doesn’t help anyone 🚫. Sure, it’s easier not to be blamed when you’re vulnerable, but excusing hurtful actions only minimizes the seriousness of what’s happened. Accountability is needed for growth 🫶🏽. without it, there’s no way to learn, heal, or grow relationships.❤️
In my experience, every single person who uses the term “empath” to describe themselves is nothing but a complete and total selfish, narcissistic nut job!
@@Buzzbuzz-c7z Lmao, sure she didn't
@@Buzzbuzz-c7zBPD women are terrible. Don’t defend her.
"Oh im farting" 😭
😂
That was so funny omg😭
I had to replay that I was like WAIT what did I just hear 😂😂
@@laughingcow1162lol me too
😅. V
45:46 "You're dropping Geeze Louise in 2024?!" 50:51 "Geeze Louise, he was off the rails"
You win all the things!
Still triggers me that he didn't edit this to acknowledge the weirdo is actually the girl not the guy in this scenario .
He's a literarily genius
@@kevingriffith677pretty sure he said it at least in the beginning and when he talked about how she said she's going to therapy for BPD
@@kevingriffith677 Bruh that was very obvious from context alone, so if you listened to anything he said, you'd know BPD Girl is, very clearly, the nutjob. And not the super kind, normal and well spoken, sweet guy. Because he's was ... you know, all those things. While she was clearly mentally unwell? A walking red flag? Do you always need a pre-description for the obvious?
As someone with BPD, I’m so beyond grateful that Charlie acknowledged the fact that it is not just a person who is crazy, but someone who is in need of help.
I really hope the first person gets the help they need. It saddens me to think how many people demonize this disorder, but under no circumstances it is not acceptable to speak to others the way she did when he was expressing his own thoughts and concerns.
It is clear that she is not ready for a relationship, and I hope that gem of a man find himself in a very happy and healthy relationship with proper communication and someone to match his gentleness.
I personally know a girl that didn't want to breastfeed because "the girls are for ME to have fun with! I'm not making my man share with my baby!" Unfortunately people like that do exist
how do people even come to the conclusion that their own baby is competition
It literally boggles the mind @DROGOC0P
@@DROGOC0P doesn't it also let them keep producing the milk?
@@DROGOC0P literally saw posts about mothers "pushing babies out of the way when their husband comes home cause 'he was my daddy first' "
@@childishgrimm9610that’s just as bad as the dads who get disgusted by their baby sons breastfeeding from their wives
8:17 fart scare
Oh I’m farting
Thank you for the warning I almost got scared
This is the most gassy episode of creepy text reading it seems lmao
@@0_h1t3I almost had a fart attack
I watched this shit in a middle seat on a plane and I had to try so hard not to burst out laughing
These compilation videos of Charlie reading weird texts for some reason are relaxing to me 😭😂
Saaaame. There are times I'll scroll through the channel specifically looking for these videos. 😂
Agreed!
I think they make me feel better about my life.
SAME
I fall asleep to them 🤣 so peaceful
8:18 “oh im farting” HAS ME DUYING PLEASEE 😭🙏
The second one is genuinely terrifying. I got actual chills from -some- most of those sentences. Proud of her for that response
The second one is craaazzzy like I've written long messages showing my feelings but it stopped at like one if they read it they read it if they don't they don't my man not only sent a Stephen King novel and also shamed the woman he was trying to wooo lol you can't make this up 😂😅
@@distinguishedallureproduct879Bro sent a biblical scripture.
@@distinguishedallureproduct879 There's some delusional people out there. Glad you're normal and sane lol!
@@dude7813 Lmao
15:20 He is literally how I picture the Beast in Beauty & the Beast, before he gave up on trying to woo girls to break the curse.
"I may not be physically attractive but I assure you, I can provide more for you than anyone. I can provide you the free time you yearn for. I can provide you a lake front house and I will NOT shackle you up in the dungeon. I will NOT do that. Haha well enough about me, a/s/l?"
I've always found it interesting from a psychological perspective how these men can rationalize how they, a self proclaimed ugly person, "deserve" a woman way out of their league, like a Maxim model. But when she isnt attracted to them its a big issue. And how throwing money at the problem is supposed to help and not at all degrading to her. Its very interesting.
Lmaooo but also like how they assume everyone has the shallow type of worldview or morals that they have. Love doesn't exist to them. Being with someone for 11 years bc you love them, means nothing to them, and the fact that you would consider that "happiness" over their financial tradslavewife idea is absurd to them. That's sociopathy or something man 😅 like not understanding how people are fond of each other and wanna spend time together.....
Beauty and the sugar daddy 😂
That player on Apex Legends is still waiting for that Good Morning text from you Charles. They're very sad and very lonely right now. It's been MONTHS!
I CANT BREATHE THE BURP 😂0:38
Why did I listen to it 6 times and cackled every single time 😂
I was so confused 😂😂 I thought that someone else was in my room 😭😭
Same. I love that shit.
"That 4:22 a.m. crack pipes hitting a little different today", LOL!
9:03 her using BPD as an excuse is absolutely maddening to me. I have BPD, and the stigma around it is so bad and her doing that shit is exactly why. Yes BPD makes it so we are more sensitive to how people treat and react to us. But that’s how it makes us FEEL, how we ACT is on the human who has the BPD, not the BPD itself. I get *mad* anxiety when I feel like the people I care about are mad or upset with me in anyway, even if in reality they’re not actually even upset. But I check myself and go “it’s fine, just give it time and I’m probably just in my head. And I usually am indeed just in my head. Sometimes if people legitimately do break my boundaries, I go “hey, this wasn’t super cool and this is how it made me feel” but other than that, I can’t imagine doing what she’s doing and putting it on the BPD is abhorrent
Absolutely perfectly said! Could not agree more.
0:38 🚨BURP ALERT🚨
Thanks i got to skip
Ok
You're doing the Lord's work, my friend. 😂 The burps and farts in his videos get me every goddamn time for some reason. Lol
Hi :)- BLERRPPP
I read this comment as he did it
43:54 Charlie not knowing that “;(“ is meant to look like a little tear drop has me rolling 😭
Isn't it also used for wink emoji like this ;)
@ yes, which is why it’s so funny cause I can see his logic
Wouldn't that work better as ); ?
I know it's the opposite direction that emojis typically use, but at least the intended effect of the tear drop would be pointing towards the mouth, rather than somehow gravitating towards their forehead.
“We are over” WE DIDNT EVEN START BRO WDYM WE’RE OVER
The second one is absolutely terrifying. Imagine the worst guy you know literally basically cyber stalks you and begs you to leave your long term partner and continues to harass after being blocked
And spends years creating a whole fantasy in his head then convinces himself its what you would want too. And has to clarify he is NOT a rapist? What the actual fũck
1:04:36 being jealous of a baby is crazy
how small of a man do you have to be to feel that level of threatened by a literal newborn boy
Its almost like he views it as a sexual interaction instead of a bonding between mother and baby
Should’ve watched a little longer lol straight up confirms that’s what he thinks
My dreams have finally come true. I've been wanting full videos of the text threads for SO LONG. And now we get THREE OF THEM?! Fuck yes, I guess patience does pay off sometimes. 😂
8:14 im losing it
A trilogy of cringe I wasn’t expecting but not unwelcomed
There's 8 videos
I used to date someone that got upset if I didn't text back fast enough or immediately. One time they snapped at me because I missed there texts they had spammed to my phone of the course of a couple minutes while I was talking to my mom. I thankfully broke up with them with in the coming week
As someone with BPD, I am appalled by her behavior. I only split when I can’t hold it in anymore and the pressure of being perfectly “fine” can’t be contained. This woman needs mental help. Therapy isn’t cutting it. She absolutely doesn’t need to peruse love as she’s not ready to love herself. That man would’ve been a blessing to her life. He dodged a bullet, on god.
She's so immature. All this talk about being an EMpAth and him being a NoRmIe and her notions of love that are straight out of children's fairytales....
She's not mature enough for a relationship, she needs help
8:17
*Farts*
Oh, oh I am farting.
*Continues farting*
I've known a couple of people with BPD, and I've done a lot of studying on it myself. It really isn't that girl's fault completely. It's good that she's in therapy, and I hope she's still improving with fighting her disorder. It's not an easy thing to deal with, it can make your emotions super extreme to the point that they just take over. Attachments form very quickly and are very intense. It seems to me that she formed an attachment with the guy, and because of the way BPD works, she immediately got super afraid of him abandoning her, hence the stuff about no good morning texts. That probably sent her into an episode, considering they tend to look a lot like how she acted. It's genuinely sad to see people judge her character when it's not something she can control without lots of therapy and, sometimes, medication. I hope she's doing better now.
Of course. It is sad other people have to receive the gravity of it. This girl lacks insight and uses BPD as a shield.
Leaving ya wife for feeding your child is the craziest thing I’ve heard EVER
These kinds of videos are some of my favourite videos with Charlie;
especially when they are like 1-2 hours long like this.
From the perspective of someone with a mood disorder:
The girl with BPD might not be at fault for her condition, but she IS at fault for seeking a relationship and lashing out when she knows she isn't ready for that. Mental illness is only an excuse for bad behavior if you are suffering from genuine delusion that makes it impossible to distinguish belief from reality. This is not that. Your actions are your responsibility. And that's all there is to it.
11:10 so disappointed as someone with bpd i thought she recognized that she was being too intense and tone it down as it seemed like shes aware of how it works for her. I didn't expect her to instantly derail again after seemingly being self aware about whats happening
i do this sometimes. not diagnosed with bpd but i’m still only a couple of therapy sessions in. i struggle with symptoms of bpd so even though im not diagnosed, i take advice and coping mechanisms from people with bpd. i have found it helps a lot but it’s still really hard to stop yourself once you’re in that elevated state. you can recognize it all you want but if you don’t have the self control to stop it when it’s happening, the awareness only goes so far. that’s just something ive been struggling to overcome recently. it felt like i was looking at my own actions through her and it made me very embarrassed.
Always so so very grateful for Charlie being very conscious n' aware of the realities of mental illnesses and/or disorders. As someone w/ BPD, it's nice to hear we weren't demonized; I remember the first time I saw the vid I was preparing myself for it to either be brushed to the side, or worse, "ofc she has BPD" so it was a very pleasant surprise to see he knew that BPD is not just "makes you crazy and needy disease" lol! Anyways, love these compilations sm :>
It isn't hard to recognize that.
@@jgd836correct its not but lots of people dont so see this could be refreshing!!
12:47 scratching his arm while talking about the text messages sounds like the text messages are drags, and he hasn't injected them in a while, so he is itching in that spot where the injection goes (p.s. i said drags so youtube dosent hide my comment)
What do you want from him?? He's only human!
1:01:08 how can a dad have that instinct!?!?!? How is that your insecurity
when he said "ha ha that's crazy" she probably fell deeper for his honesty.
Please more Charlie. Seriously. These are good, invaluable life lessons.
Thank you for handling the BPD story so gently. We are villianized so much online. That woman needs to work on herself a lot before she tries to get in a relationship. Yes it's not her fault that she has these struggles but there definitely are ways to get a little better. It took me years of hard work to progress past the point where that woman is. It is possible. But it's hard.
28:38 when he says "it's everything You've beever wanted" asking why she won't accept his crazy offer/proposition, all he knows about what she wants is from social media which she even says that that only shows a small fraction of herself and her life, he has no idea what she actually wants in life and where she wants to be especially since it seems they haven't spoken much at all nor has seen her at all in like 6 years
I was thinking that too. What if the boyfriend is going to college and she is supporting him through med school. Or she gained weight because she had a baby or a health issue? Goes to show how little the creep knows.
I'm still not buying the breastfeeding story... I didn't buy it when I first heard it, and I still don't. That's so far out of the realm of reality, and the texts are just too squeaky clean and perfectly set-up(minimal cursing, no mistyping, straight to the point), that I just refuse to believe it's real
I hope to god its not real man... i really hope lol
crazy thing is, in this day and age, thats probably not the wildest thing out there
Idk. I have had an ex like that.
It seems that it's actually real however, there is actually a divorce and the mother is currently suing the guy apparently so she can get back one of her kids
@@sydney7532 I have literally heard men say breastfeeding is “gross” and “unnatural” and literally think boobs are for men to look at and are sexual. So, I am not surprised if it is real. And the fact people are saying it’s not real because there is no cussing, no typos, and straight to the point is not an argument for it being fake.
I dated a trans guy with bpd- this was very reminiscent of my expeeicne. The best thing one can do is be aware of it, and make sure others are aware of it while working to curb it and be their best self. He threatened to sue me over me saying to a friend that I saw something thst reminded me of him
Or don't make excuses for people's shitty behavior and avoid dating people who haven't done the necessary work on themselves
@@j-davis7290 No, I gotcha. In reading my comment, I’m realizing it came off as me saying that you should do the work for them. What I mean, is that if your someone with a mental condition that can be impact a relationship, the best thing you can do is be aware of it, and work to curb it while trying to work on yourself. Aka, what I’m doing, and not letting myself or others make excuses for my mistakes
@@j-davis7290 Jesus loves u and can fix and heal all of you, if you guys are truly willing
@@j-davis7290I have signs of bipolar disorder and my texts have been like this - I never meant any of them, it was like venting and not realising I was talking to anyone. I lost empathy in the moment. She’s hurting.
Have you ever thought that a diagnosis isn’t an excuse but a reason?
When that first girl said she had a therapy appointment, I would’ve been like, “ah, okay… is it court-mandated, by chance?” 😳
21:35 “good morning goofball” was absolutely fucking hilarious. Idk why but that made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂😂😂
There's been two times where I didn't take the rejection very well but these messages make me feel way better lol
This is actually my favorite thing.
I live in Florida. My neighbors kids' names are Axel and Jackson. First names. I swear for the first year, I thought he was calling his dogs 💀
i’ve been binge watching these compilations for the past week
25:03 This in particular got me cackling like a witch in the middle of the night
I appreciate your breakdowns of these sad pools Charlie. Especially when you recognize one party or the other is suffering from mental illness. Great takes
It is hilarious how you say lawl instead of L. O. L.
“hi 🙂- *loud burp*”
Charlie talking about cringe is one of my favorite content categories so this is a delight. The black shirt and hair pulled back in some of these clips is bonus points 😂
I use these to fall asleep to😂😂
I love how Charlie approaches BPD, it's really refreshing ❤
40:37 might've been the guy texting the girl (OP being the dude) or maybe two girls because it at one point says "sadie took a screenshot," sadie being the other person, despite all the effort they went through to censor the chats. If you would like more evidence that it simply wasn't stating the person's username (for non-snap users), just check the context or look further ahead where it says "YOU took a screenshot."
I'm gonna start sending good morning texts to the randoms i link up with while gaming lol
13:59 “it’s like an episode of shark tank” 💀
As soon as she shifted the vibe literally overnight from, 'wow I got this amazing feeling about you and can't wait to meet you!' to 'you're so selfish and you hurt my feelings'(by essentially not being able to read her mind) I immediately thought she sounded like she's BPD. And sure enough, she's is. I understand that it's a psychological disorder and she didn't choose to have it, however until she's made a lot more strides in her therapy, she needs to not be trying to get into any relationships. And if you're someone who is ever contacted by somebody who's mood or attitude seems to change quickly and inexplicably...run.
i know the chances of you seeing this charlie are very low, but i want to thank you for uploading these videos. you always joke about when you wanna feel better watch these. but for me thats more of a thing then anyone will ever know. it may seem simple or wimpy to someone. but with the battle i deal with every day these videos genuinly make pushing harder. and i wanted to thank you charlie.
much respect from a northern neighbor. sincerly Skylar White-Nagam
The weirdest thing about the breast feeding guy is that he clearly views it as sexual but does not have concern over the "mol*station" of his son
I dare you to post this in the bpd subreddit with the title "which one of yall was this?" lmao
"You never meet a girl like me..."
"Ma'am....WE HAVEN'T EVEN MET!!!!" 😅😢😢😢
LMAO - that burp in the first few sec 0:37 threw me into a stomach grabbing laugh!! I was NOT ready for that!! omg that was hilarious
Watching this after being rejected makes me feel so much better because at least I'm not like this
It's a big world out there, my friend. You'll find someone in due time
I needed this
The BPD one is so sad. I have BPD and once upon a time I struggled mightily with overattachment/enmeshment. I guess I can be grateful that I knew rationally something was off and mostly just apologized the entire time while people tried to detach from me. I did not want to hurt anyone and I think as a result of that, I was pretty much the only one who hurt. I'm very glad for that AND glad I am better now. Sidenote-the reports of lack of damage inflicted on others came from those people when we spoke later after I recovered.
HAHAHAHA…listening to this, I heard the “Dean Scream”…knew exactly the reference….brilliant!🤣🤣🤣
"what do you mean you're calling the police" lmao 😂
I'm half asleep waking up and for some reason I thought the name for the vid was Charles McWhite
God that first one hate to admit I had an ex girlfriend exactly like that
Wowee I was not expecting 3 magnum opuses in one week.
12:50 That's not BPD. That's a narcissist who has no one else left and they're attacking a stranger.
I'm a single father and I'm happier about it every day, sheesh.
36:03 ''what do you mean you're calling the police?''💀💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭
The names in the "craziest husband ever" story were probably on the dad's part, cause only a dad would come up with those crazy ass names💀 those kids are gonna be bullied so hard when they grow up
i just want to say that i fall asleep to these videos every night
I love this trilogy 🎉
god that first one hurts, i have bpd too and immediately clocked that from that crazy split
When Charlie burps I always look at the screen to see if that's what the person typed. 🙄
So, the last guy is 40 years old and still doesn’t know the difference between your and you’re; there, their, and they’re; to and too; no and know?!
His idiocy is actually astounding.
ETA: Also then and than, apparently.
I'm a little bit of a empath, and I can promise this is not how most of us act. Most of us don't use it to try to get simpathy.
Hate to break the news, but having empathy doesn't make you an 'empath', it means you haven't been ruined by humanity/the internet. Also 'empaths' don't need to say they're an empath and defend themselves 🤷♂️
10:45 schmuck is a word that makes me smile and giggle today
The fabled grey t shirt
Phonecalls from the walls, new genre
1:08:23 someone read way too much in Freud with this theory 😂. Imagine his thoughts towards his own mother 🙃
Charlie the type of guy to put an extra nugget in every box he makes at mcdonalds
what a fella
"an extra chicken nugget in your eight piece box..." Snort-laughing here...
"Uh, oh I'm farting....pft pft"😂😂😂😂😂
I believe illiterate folks use talk-to-text so misspellings are the result of misspelling 😂
Thank you sir
Gnight yall
It makes me happy that charlie acknowledged that bpd made her act like that and not her being a horrible person💗
(I dont have bpd, and please do NOT start a argument that the girl is a horrible person ty💗)
I like peguin0’s content because of the fact that he’s straight to the point
Whenever a girl talks about "spiritual energy", you already know the relationship is a lost cause.
As someone with BPD, I dont act like a fuckwad. Its not hard to accomplish
2:46 just a creep one that will stab you if you give it a chance
I think luce fly was a text to speech problem. My husband is a terrible typer so he speak all his messages. I think he meant a loose fly, like just a single buzzing annoyance
IS THAT A GREY SHIRT? Edit: A GREY AND WHITE SHIRT???
I have some crazy messages. I feel for those getting stalked.