I am tired! Opening up about my Struggles

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  • @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK
    @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Doris. I joined you when you were in Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦. It was a country that intrigued me and seeing the country from an African woman was magical! And then came the Tiv Documentary. You are a Documentary Maker Doris. That is the YOU I see and believe you are.

  • @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK
    @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Doris. This is Shumi (Lesson World 🌍) and I just thought of you. Thought to come to your channel, and you are back!! Welcome back Doris. Let me sit down and watch this one.

  • @NaomeeOboyi
    @NaomeeOboyi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My feedback: I think most of your subscribers came from a particular video that went viral, and they're probably expecting you to stick to that niche. That doesn't look like it will be sustainable at this point, especially cos you're currently not based here to create similar videos. I'd say, as a creator who's still growing, please don't be in a rush to niche down - explore as much as possible (I'll need to practice this as well 😂), you'll figure it out. You've taken a great step in that direction by asking us these questions. Also, check your analytics. What do the results show you? How many percentage of your views come from subscribers? Most times, my subscribers form less than 20% of my audience. I'm a huge fan of all you do - I watch every single video from you. Please don't give up. Don't stop.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl!!! Thank you so much for your candid feedback. For being more than a friend and for always ‘carrying my problems in your head.’ 😁🤗❤️

  • @emeraldodi5187
    @emeraldodi5187 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish you all the best. I am sure the views will come. Keep being you.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen!
      Thank you so much.❤️

  • @traveltips_101
    @traveltips_101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You got a new subscriber Doris! Take things easy on your self and i think you should explore more on travel related content and job opportunities within and outside of the Uk.
    10:47

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much for your kindness. I greatly appreciate your gesture and suggestions 🙏.
      I'm thrilled to have you join my community 🤗.

  • @FitAndFine.
    @FitAndFine. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ahhhhh… I just learnt something 😮🙆🏽‍♀️ The part about people skipping through videos just to show support 😢

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It does affect one’s reach greatly.

  • @divineeze1356
    @divineeze1356 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just keep at it and keep tweaking till you get the right content that your subscribers can connect with.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much. I will heed your advice.❤️

  • @sruhamah
    @sruhamah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am here for it all, i mean any content you drop, but that being said, i feel you should take note of what others have suggested, my own no too hard😊...on a normal you be big name🙌

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @big name😁.
      My Gee!👊✌️😘

  • @FitAndFine.
    @FitAndFine. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your vlogs. I don’t know when I’ll go out to see the world myself so I love seeing the world through your eyes.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks a lot baby yo😘🤗

  • @beatriceupuu
    @beatriceupuu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dzwarita2
    @dzwarita2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's well D. I will try as much as I can to encourage and support you

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks a lot, girl. Your support is unwavering! Thank you so much.

  • @mneugans6782
    @mneugans6782 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    don't give up dear, keep pushing u will definitely bounce back

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen!
      Thank you so much, my dear 🤗❤️.

  • @sewueseoosom3435
    @sewueseoosom3435 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Doris. I am your fan and i watch your videos when I get notifications. You are doing a great job. I enjoy your vlogs the most because tells a beautiful story of your journey so far and how graciously you handle motherhood, wifehood and everything. Please don't give up. Challenges are a part of life and what keeps us going is resilience. My son too is behind in speech. I know he will speak with time. What consoles me is that I have not met an adult who doesn't talk except those with a medical condition. Keep being you. You are loved and adored.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much, dear sis. I'm so happy to hear from you🤗.
      Your last sentence is apt! I know this for a fact, it's just a mother's anxiety sometimes. May the Lord continue to strengthen us to be there for them even when they can't express how they feel.

  • @sonterdoreen4500
    @sonterdoreen4500 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Skin so fresh.😌😌😌

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My acne scars are screaming 😂

    • @sonterdoreen4500
      @sonterdoreen4500 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@doristarlumun 😂😂😂
      Nothing spoil my sister.
      My main focus was on the skin alone,it’s giving. 🤣

  • @judithchen5521
    @judithchen5521 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't give up. I always watch your videos. I get notifications each time you post. stay put

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much, dear sis. You're so kind, and I appreciate you ❤️.

  • @ganiyat8220
    @ganiyat8220 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Doris. Regarding your question on the content, I am here for any thing you drop but then I think i like watching vlogs on youtube more. I tend to click on vlogs than any other content.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My Ganiyat, aka Day 1🥰. Thank you so much for your love and support always. I'll post more vlogs😁.

  • @shatersonter6783
    @shatersonter6783 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Giving up is never an option.. great content

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks blood. I love you ❤️

  • @sonterdoreen4500
    @sonterdoreen4500 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your vlogs the most. Keep posting vlogs.❤️

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay. I will. Thanks kiddo 😘

  • @Kwaghdizzy
    @Kwaghdizzy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this won’t be easy, but I also know you’ve got what it takes to get through it

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for believing in me sis🤗❤️

  • @achenyookpanachi6237
    @achenyookpanachi6237 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its good to hear from you dear doris. you are doing well and don't give up!
    you started with Arabia or so, its also good if you can pick up interesting happenings in the uk. life style in your new location.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much my sister from another mother 😁. I'll keep this in mind.

  • @Yuppietee01
    @Yuppietee01 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sis. We love you, keep doing what you know to do best, we love your contents

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This means a lot to me. Thank you very much 🙏.

  • @hilarybosua2442
    @hilarybosua2442 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your content.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks my ever-supportive sis!❤️

  • @tsakernguzan7338
    @tsakernguzan7338 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Give it time.....
    U are doing well

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sis.
      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @ternasally1487
    @ternasally1487 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Giving up is not an option just give it time and it will come through

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen! Thank you so much hun🤗❤️

  • @MoTG_Life
    @MoTG_Life 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I watch you mainly because I love your personality; but I think most people would only watch crazy, extreme, or strange entertainment content or content that teaches them how to achieve their personal material or relationship success.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're right on this! I'll keep pushing, hoping that more people like you will find me 😊. Thank you so much.

  • @julietdooter-cm5eg
    @julietdooter-cm5eg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well done girl. Content creation is not easy especially at the infant stage.
    I want to suggest you go out more to beautiful places and make videos, people love to see the life you live out there
    Secondly, if you're married and a content creator, people love to see your spouse and kids in family vlogs interacting both at home and outside.
    People love to watch your relationship with your spouse and kids.
    Away from family, people love to watch your cook vlogs, dances,
    people basically want to be in your life as a content creator.
    People want to see your spouse being all lovey dovey with you, pleasant surprises, sometimes they want violence😂
    These are the things that interest viewers. If you're married and your partner doesn't get involved in your videos people normally don't get interested. Let your husband join you in some videos.
    Make videos with Lutor too. He's cute, people would love to watch him.
    People don't like long talks in vlogs, I mean data is expensive 😁
    My honest opinion
    Personally I have watched all your videos from Saudi till date. And I usually watch from beginning to the end because I have WiFi at home 😁

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You took time to write this!😢
      This means a lot to me, sis. Thank you very much. I have noted all your points and suggestions. Thank you so much🤗❤️.

  • @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK
    @ShumiraiMazombeZwUK 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please find a way of becoming a Documentary Maker Doris. You have the skills and know how of how you do it. Find stories around and in the UK 🇬🇧, and start sharing them. Find the African Voice if possible. I believe people will watch you also because of your caring personality. May God bring you the right people in Jesus' name.

  • @ternasally1487
    @ternasally1487 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your skin is skinning❤

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the acne scars are scarring 😂😂😂.
      Thank you so much sis. This weather suits my skin.

  • @ternasally1487
    @ternasally1487 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about you do skin care routine since your skin’s really nice and attractive and then probably add vlog

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤔🤔
      Penned down. We’ll see.
      Thank you very much😘.

  • @ReputeCapital
    @ReputeCapital 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I truly understand your struggle, but I still believe you can do it. I suggest you go back to contents that revolve around culture.

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much for your unwavering support. I greatly appreciate you🙏

  • @joycefoday1748
    @joycefoday1748 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Doris vlog is not about people around you so stop sharing to them on WhatsApp,I love watching your vlog I’ve been wondering where you are all this while,and always plead to your viewers to like,share and comment on your videos,stay bless

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🤗❤️.
      I'm highly appreciative of your kind gesture.❤️

  • @dester20
    @dester20 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, Doris Since last year, I have been following you, and you should probably guess which video led me to your channel."Is it True the Tiv Tribe in Nigeria Offer Their Wives to Visitors for Sexual Pleasure?" . That's correct, indeed. I feel you have strayed from being the "storyteller" that you are called to be, but I'm not trying to force my perspective on you. Instead of copying these Vlogs to brag about your travels or anything else, please take the time to write stories and films on the culture of the Tiv people, just like you did before. Tell us about your culture, beliefs, and stories wherever you are. Also, please record live videos and interact with your channel's fans to bring us closer to you. Then, you may conduct interviews on your channel with people discussing subjects like Yoruba, Tiv, Calabar, Russian, UK, and Irish cultures, among others. This seems like your specialty. Again, thank you, and feel free to disregard this as it is only my opinion. Thank you!

    • @doristarlumun
      @doristarlumun  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is premium!😊
      Thank you very much for your candid opinion. I quite agree with you. It was that very video that got me monetized after all. Your points are valid and highly appreciated. Henceforth, I'll strive to not let place and time limit me.
      I greatly appreciate your being honest with me. Thanks again!🙏

    • @ganiyat8220
      @ganiyat8220 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think i like what this person wrote too, you can do this and also include vlogs