10 Years of Brutally Honest Relationship Advice For Men...
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Inside this video: 10 years of brutally honest relationship advice in 20 minutes. These are the 10 laws of relationship game for men. This is how to lead like a man in a relationship. How to get a girlfriend and keep her addicted to you.
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David this video might single handily be the greatest piece of content you’ve released! I’ve been following your content for a decade and it’s been nothing but life changing for me but this right here is truly a gem. 💎 Appreciate your service to humanity brother! 👊🏽💯
Facts !!!
Lit 🔥
“Short term conflict than a long term lie.” This actually saved my relationship. Facts.
The truth is even when both of you weren't as developed as today when you two met, you still fell for each other. This proves that even if you are not at your best or all together at the moment, you are still valuable and you can still find that relationship. you don't have to be at your best to deserve love, you just gotta put the effort in yourself and your partner.
I really appreciate how Julia believes and supports his and somehow their common vision.
Good point - put the work in regardless and you’ll attract what your actions deserve
I could add: getting your finances in order to provide more safety, freedom, and comfort to the relationship.
the fact that nobody talks about Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood speaks volumes about how people are stuck in trance
Shut up
Maybe u are in trance if ur reading all those books and still accomplished nothing
@@unknown00910how can you say something like that to a person you don‘t know? Why don‘t take that advice and look for yourself if it works for you or not? Why not asking for which reason he writes this comment instead of talking bs?
@@deolom1997That’s called projection. Dude must be miserable.
@@ryan99842 comments like these are bots
I'm in a happy relationship but there is always room for improvement, this is one of the best videos of the year for me. I've been following you since the Boston days as soon as you met Julia and your relationship has been inspiring. Thanks for the advice, I wish the best to all of you, Julia, David and baby beast too. Greetings from Venezuela.
Biggest challenge for me was becoming complacent after I thought I had locked her down. My relationship with the same girl ended twice for the same reason. Just got too focused on my career. Good video, helps to hear these things out loud.
"Cut down the hedges and your tree look bigger😂"
When I see my bro's get married I think "Sorry Bro"
My problem with my gf is that there's a never-ending cycle of negativity. I screwed up on something, and now she's mad, I apologize. I want to treat her right, but her attitude takes away my motivation to treat her right, which in turn makes her madder. I dont know how to break the cycle. Our relationship was pretty good at first, but I did ONE thing to piss her off, and it set off a chain reaction.
its up to you to break the cycle. you must bring enough energy to where her negativity doesn't affect your motivation. the more important question: is she really worth that? if it's gonna require you to bring that much extra energy to overcome her negativity it might not be worth it in the long term if she can't make a change after an extended period of time. good luck friend.
I love you bro.. but you keep repeating the same same words... these videos are getting boring
You have to realize that each new video reaches new people. Secondly, men need to be told multiple times on how to attract women because most are too stupid or stubborn to listen the first time. I can almost guarantee you that men who have been subscribed to his channel for years, still don't implement his tips.
Let's go all of these relationships advice is always great to know where to improve in area
My most challenging relationship struggle wasn't actually with a girl, it was with the band I was in. 10 years of being in a band and in the last 4 years of it, really difficult finding a way where I felt valued equally. We started to grow apart and I finally took it upon myself to be on my own and improve who I am as a person. I went from living at my grandparents house, working at Jimmy Johns and being in a band - to being a Muay Thai fighter, freelance copywriter, and being a faithful man that talks to God. I feel so much more capable and confident as a man now, it all depends on thing action and making a change happen for the better
For mine, communication, or a lack thereof has been the biggest hurdle. Be it in the dating/getting to know you phase or even in the relationship itself. I have had relationships end over this very thing.
Bro , I was waiting this video since I started following you like three years ago. Fun fact is that my relationship on that time was terrible, but now I have a really good girl, I fucking love my relation and I want to make it greater each time. Thanks bro! greetings from Colombia
More videos on long term relationships. This was great exactly what I needed to hear ty
Regarding #10..... The real challenge comes in when your parents suffer from a life-threatening illness, injury, or dementia.... You need to prepare for this.... Because your life will not be your own any longer
Most challenging: Knowing when to leave and saying goodbye forever.
Congrats for 8 yrs of marriage David
Bro, you do great stuff, well done and thanks, been following you on and off for a few years now
been with mine for 4 years and married less than a year and facing divorce because a co worker who's on drugs won her over lol The statistics made me laugh but Ive spent these last 4 months leveling up and becoming my absolute best self because after watching this video once I had her on lock I chilled out.
You got this king!
Rise men 💪 you're on the right track
Did she cheat?
Within the first 5 years of marriage, most if not all of the attractions will be lost. This is when the chemicals in your brain seize to fire any longer because it's time to move on to a new partner, hence the highest divorce rate in a marriage. A good relationship is like building muscle and maintaining that muscle. It's a lifestyle. However, there will come the time when you both will fall out of love. I promise you, so be careful when you sign that government contact.
The most challenging thing for me bro has become having the confidence to go up to a complete stranger that I’ve seen multiple times in the gym and ask her out or just simply introduce myself I lack the confidence and I can’t seem to get it back. I can almost say everything in my life is good besides my dating life..
I love the videos you just talking at the camera and not vlogging around!
I’m ready to be in a relationship to have a girlfriend, I’ve been watching your videos since day one u have changed my life bro it’s putting myself out there where I have a little trouble with
The date night thing that you do is thoughtfulness!! Write her notes and leave them in different places. Start off doing it once a month. But keep it the same day every month. You can thank me later! Just a little letter folded that says, I appreciate how you keep our house clean. Or I love how you fold my clothes. Just anything that you see that she does and you appreciate it. I thought I might share some OG knowledge with you, since you have helped me out through a divorce over the last couple of years. Keep up the great work!!!
All facts.,Good shit man!
This is a great video, David! Successful relationships are very demanding on men
This is my favorite video of yours. Also married (on year 2) but we’ve been together for getting to 9 years. Everything you said is spot on. I’d love more content like this. Maybe get your wife to speak on her perspective of how to lead as a man.
❤🎉🎉🎉 Great content. David, it'd be nice in a few weeks if you did mindset perspective changes/roadblocks... 😊 Some of us still have bad habit of pursuing 1 woman not multiple (while she may pursue several) or guilt feelings to put aside. Perspective is everything. A video on this would be valuable
Never been in a relationship in any way shape or form. So I don’t have any understanding on how relationships actually work in real time.
Another video request: Fear of/Managing Rejection - u do good on promoting being rejected. 3 stages - prep / Managing it / overcoming&aftermath. 😊❤😊🎉❤🎉🎉🎉 be great insight. Invaluable and lit
Keep dating is comparable to the great expectation of doing better always. The analogy is a man works for the same company for years because he is advancing to higher levels in the company. Meaning he has hope for the future and expectations for the future. So to keep a gal , the guy has to always be providing that vision of the future the two of you are working for. Is someone else providing hope for the future, no, just you, so her future is with you. That binds the two of you together as a unique unit. Compare the alternate. A company is loosing sales and the end is near. The employees therefore find jobs on their own somewhere new where there is possibility. The guy has to lead with vision and hope for wonderful things going forward continuously. That’s how you sustain commitment.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
welcome
the most challenging part of our relationship that we have faced is we both have gotten bored being in a boring state we've run out of things to do while being on opposite schedules
I don't know if I struggled with anything in a relationship besides trying to understand if someone wants me around or not. I will go if they want me to go or stay if they want me to stay.
For me personally in past relationships, I have found it difficult to get into the sweet spot in the relationship dynamic. In one I simped too hard, in the other I was cold and detached. So I find that part the hardest.
When it comes to making big decisions, do you just say "we're moving" or do you bring the idea of it up, then if she's in to it, you make it happen?
We married out of convenience. I’m more of a sport type a guy, she’s more chill and Netflix.
you know i thought that you when you got in your relationship i thought it would be a terrible idea but know hearing how far you come is making me consider it your advice are solid keep strong G
for all time, women are born with value, men have to earn and create, develop their value. Also, women just have to exist in order to know how to date or just be good at dating, obviously not for men
Genuine question. What is the value add for all this effort? In exchange for all this effort, what am I getting in return?
Great video, definitely want to see more of these marriage advice videos as well
So biggest struggle for me is i am very clean tidy and organised everything had a place where my other half has what she calls an organised chaos whete things are in places where they shouldn't be but she l ows where they are
Dealing with women who have mood swings and cannot appreciate it what you do for them
The number 1 struggle for me is just taking charge and being a leader, only been on 1 date
You don't know your struggles if you have been on 1 date.
That woman could have just didn't make it easy for you to do.
Also, yeah, get some experience. Don't adopt a defeatist mentality.
Look for a good girl, but don't be afraid to date especially out of your main city so you don't have to see them around or same friend circles.
Fresh in the game, brother, get at it, be smart, have fun, and don't take stuff personally.
@@djosserperrah9563 preciate it brotha
David and Julia is awesome people
Great advice and video
I wasn't ready for andrew tates bald head popping up 😂😂
Menopause... It's fucking Evil!!
one of many wery good videos to me...!! thanks HtB
Poor ted😢
I agree with you I every single point. Thank you
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Bruh no hate but how many times are you going to change the thumbnail.
I have a question bro, at what stage or time frame does the girl move in with you? You talked about locking it down after three years and I agree with that. Most people don't give themselves enough time.
David, what i have found to be most prevalent in my relationships, is women who do not want to be lead. Yes the argument could be made that i could be a better leader, however i think it is important to acknowledge the fact the nowadays women have a harder time surrendering to a mans lead. This may be an only me problem, and if thats the case then ik i just have to work harder. However, instinct says that im not alone in this.
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amazing video David. My #1 struggle in my current relationship is that my parents are not accepting of my girlfriend. When I'm on the phone with my parents I'll say "we" but never say my girlfriends name, and my parents never ask about her.
The #1 struggle I face in my current relationship is my parents want me to arrange marry lol and forget about my girlfriend. I struggle to remain objective about "tree habits" if I can live with them or not, can I lead the relationship despite stress from my parents, and can we keep our spark alive long-term. If yes, then I got to be willing to lose my parents.
This guy lost us at "Talking to girls is easy bro "
I ger lazy and stop putting in effort
Always been FOMO for me. At 51 and never married, this has always been a challenge. I've had relationships of varied lengths, but generally reverted to 'single G' as I that is where I am the most at peace. In a relationship now, and we'll see what happens. I move forward with an open mind.
Wait till she gives birth she will not be the same
the fact that nobody talks about Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood speaks volumes about how people are stuck in trance
At times, it can be difficult to not overthink those intrusive thoughts we get when we’re not around our partner. However, if you remind yourself to prioritize your life purpose and take action on it, not only will your partner respect you more for that, you will also constantly be reminded what makes you so valuable (attractive) to the relationship. I love David’s analogy of building life like a cake; your girl (or dating life) is simply the icing and decorations for a delicious dish.
Your very inspirational and bring very good insight and I am very grateful I found your content David. Watching those videos filled those holes of doubt with the answers they been looking for and again thanks. If I ever make it you will definitely play a big role in it🖤💪🏾
True
stuff i struggle with is addiction no matter what i try it always comes back...
Bring it to GOD
@@djosserperrah9563 good idea I guess I do need to prey about it daily to get addiction gone
Got cheated on a few years ago. That sucked. It took years to trust someone again. I actually think that’s why I started watching the channel and going in on the self improvement. Thinking of it now, maybe that pain started the journey I’m on right now 🤙🏽
30 sec gang
Hey David, I think you should make more videos for healthy relationships. I would love to pick your brain more about this topic!
False. I love my chest hair.
Great information man thank you. I recently ended a relationship about 5 months ago and it still hurts but I know I had to because I was not happy with myself and I was too comfortable. I’m only 21 but she is now 26 and I didn’t want to waste her time while I develop myself. Hopefully I’m able to find someone else at some point I have faith in myself and gods plan
Why don't you talk about changing jobs, moving, religion, children during 1st year of dating?
Definitely one of the best videos you put out. A lot of these topics you covered may seem basic but are often the easiest overlooked. I know overlooked them in my last relationship and looking back just hammering down a few of this would’ve changed a lot. Glad this video is out now
This came at the right time. Good thoughts, agree with all of them. Much harder in practice of course, but worthwhile things tend to be so... Happy of your success, keep it up man.
10 Laws Of Relationship Game For Married Folks Who Are About To Start A Family
Thanks for this bro. I watch every one of your videos. But im 33 and been married for 13 years lol i like the relationship ones... I find my wife even more attractive after our children. I dont know what it is .. but definitely feel more passionate the older we get lol. And we feel that "teenage energy" sneaking around our children in the house for sexy time 😂
I just got out of a 6yr that probably turned sour around yr 3 during the bug. Listen up dudes these are the basics. I'm having a lot of success right now because I'm fit and can put aside my insecurities to take the lead.
Needed this today. 🙏🏽
Definitely the tree thing. My girl has this habit of double checking and triple checking out guys while in public. No matter how many times I have the conversation it never changes.
But now I think it’s normal and I even catch myself looking at hot girls sometimes
Ex wife decided that she did not want kids and would no longer considering trying. 35M 41F married just under 2 years
One of your best videos yet! Fun fact: Coach Kyle RAW posted a video (after you did) with the exact same title xD
My number 1 struggle in past relationships was to maintain the feeling or spark between us like the newly couples have in beggening.
BEAST- Thanks for feeding our minds always. 🤜🏽🤛🏽
Great vid David!! Maxx is the goat when it comes to getting thoughtful stuff for his gir. I like that idea of noting it down in your phone. Im going to start doing that.
#2, Thought it was only me who faces that and that if there are such issues as those in the point about trees then my relationship is doomed...I breathed a sigh of relief.
I've been following you for many years and this is hands down my favorite video. Good job and thank you for it!
This was a good one for us married men that enjoy following your content. Nice work!
Great before and after. Y’all are awesome been following since before you met.
My biggest struggle has been maintaining the relationship with a masculain frame.
Julia looked so nice before all of the corrections it's actually mental.
Julia’s dad watching this: “what did I say that pissed David off?”
The number one thing that I’m struggling with is open communication
I rather stay alone i will be always triggered cause im really critical about everything
LOVE THIS VIDEO BRO. how to best still got it 🔥 🔥 🔥
David any recommendations on books that men should read?
Biggest struggle was us being to young/ wanting different things. Wrong stages in life
i'm being doubtful if i should kp sing this girl but i know i'll be ok i can pursue other girls
9:20 funny joke