It's so refreshing to hear a man say that he loves God and is willing to honor Him by being a virgin. It's not many men out there willing to boldly proclaim this. I commend you brother. Keep holding on until God leads you to the woman worth waiting for. This is so encouraging to me. I'm 25 and I'm a virgin. I'm glad to see other young people willing to take a stand and wait. #WorththeWait
amen Paige, I'm a 23 year old virgin and proud of it because honoring God is the most important to me. glad to see other young believer's as well walking on this journey for God with me.
+Samaria W that so awesome! This makes me glad to hear this, because the world tries to make you think that no one else is trying to keep themselves and be pure. God is going to bless us for honoring Him. I pray that God will continue to keep you and you do the same for me as well.
I'm 26 and I'll be getting married in March. My fiance and I are both virgins and it's such a wonderful feeling knowing that in 2 more months we can stand before each other knowing that we waited for each other and honored God by doing so!
lol...I said that when I was 26 I won't be single @ 30 and baby i am 36 and still single. But living my best life the lover of my soul. Didn't know there was such joy and peace. Looking forward to my husband every season that ill be blessed with him. But wouldn't change anything about my 36 years of singleness. And if I have to wait until 41 it is will with my soul.
Then, that means a sequel to the “40 year old virgin.” Call it “41 year old virgin.” Lol 😂 I noticed your post is from 3 years ago. Well, I am now that 36 year old who may end up as the next “40 year old virgin.” lol 😂 But I guess that’s ok. Hopefully I can hold another 3+ years. But if not, hopefully, I will be married by the time I give in. By the way, you’re kind of cute. Do you like white guys?
+Yvonne Orji Yes, girl. I thought I was going to be on the 22 plan too. There is no way that is happening cause I am almost 21 and I am so not ready to be someone's wife. It is not about me being selfish or anything, I just like being left alone with quiet and peace. But women have to be made whole, learn how to be a good wife (skills like cooking, cleaning, gardening? sewing, do laundry, drive (Well)), and be able to communicate with men. Being resourceful is going to help a lot. As young as I am I have to have faith that a man will even find me attractive.
This was super encouraging to hear both of y'all are virgins and not just cause but to honor the Lord and your future spouses. I'm 24 going on 25 in April and still a virgin. I've done other sinful sexual immoral things before the Lord saved me , but I'm so thankful for his grace and justification that gives no condemnation! :) God bless you guys and thanks for this!
+Adrianne Chivers Yes ! really respect this man and the wisdom that he even shared in just guarding yourself from where you go example avoiding the clubs etc And being confident in the lord and still having joy and living life in Christ while you wait. Kudos to him! There's hope Lord! Lol 🙌🏾🙏🏾 lol jk
+Gina A. You're welcome. :-) it's truly encouaging to know that they are Brothers and sisters out there who are still doing things God's way. In this sex charged world we are living in, when we tell ppl that we are having sex to honour God, they think that we are from another planet. As long as God gets the glory, it's all that matters.
I love the fact that at 31 I can still find people who are in the same race as me. They are hard to find. God bless you guys and keep it real until that ring.
thanks for sharing.. we are all not alone.. glad we have a support system because we need it. I am a 33 year old virgin, and I'm not ashamed.. I had my hard times... I have to say it was around the age 13/14 is when I decided I want to wait til marriage. it has been worth the wait.. I pass thru those moments when I thought I was ready & I really wasn't.. God has done a great amount of healing in me, molding me, and more. I have learned it's worth waiting for him.. Let the river flow.. in my heart I already feel he's close. in God's timing we will meet.. and now how I expect.. ☺
Lindsay Puello Your comment really spoke to me. I'm 33 also and on the same journey. I trust in the path that God has me on. And I think it's important that we encourage each other. I'm glad this platform is here for us. And I love Yvonne, she's awesome!
It's also important to be content in singleness. Marriage isn't necessarily for everyone. Others will live a single life their whole life. It's good to change the prayer focus from the wait and more to letting the Lord help you enjoy your single life. Learning to love Him first unconditionally (marriage or not). There really is such a thing as a life of celibacy, not just a Catholic thing for priests and nuns.
Yvonne is always hype, energetic, fun and humorous. I don't think she changed her personality. That's who she is. But I can understand if she did have a silent crush for Mr. Wait. I think he's so her type. Her prayers may have been answered. They both like to work out, they love God, their focused, they've waited, the are funny, they both seem adventurous, etc...need I say more ? If he didn't at least ask her out on a date, I'd be disappointed.
queenwithlocs giiiirl I know...like, why not? these men are a trip. they think an angel is gonna come out the sky and a booming voice is gonna say that this is the one. anyway she's live n he seems like a square so he might not be for her
idk why but it seems like it's more acceptable for a girl to be a virgin than a guy. like that's why I'm praying for my two brothers because they have the same convictions but I know it's going to be hard for them. people will make fun of them, people already make fun of my high school brother for being a 15 year old virgin. I'm proud if this guy. God bless.
true that. for both Christian girls and guys, isn't saving sex for marriage common sense or at least the norm? why do we need to be changed by cultural standards?
+tootsieroll3132 I think for most who are serious about their faith, it is common sense. However, I think the the stereotype for the "black church" is that we're mostly hypocritical, and therefore fail in the area of sexual purity. Not sure how true this, however, I'm glad to know a lot of Christians who are keeping it holy for the Lord.
Thank you for this Conversation episode. I am not a virgin but I have been celibate for a few years. I completely enjoy being single. I love going out by myself, movies, restaurant, walks at the park, etc. It does get lonely at times but I remember how it was and what I looking forward to instead and that has worked for me. God has answered my prayer by keeping me and I desire to keep my word to him also. Thank you, thank you @P4CM
I love them both. I'm so grateful that they are authentic and comfortable in their own skin. I thank GOD that they are saving themselves for the mates that the LORD has for them. I'm so proud of them.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Society really needs this. You guys are awesome. I wish I could have seen a program like this when I was young. God bless you and reward you for being true?
I'm just realizing that seen Yvonne here first and now she is on Insecure, Awesome girlie! Continue to honor God with ur body and he will continue to open doors!!!
This is encouraging to see that we are not alone. I believe that there are many of us unashamed to say that we are waiting for marriage and more importantly living in that truth. God bless you both
I really feel that the key to waiting for the woman or man that God has for us is to stay busy. Watching this video only confirms what I've been hearing for some time now: pray and stay busy (work, school, ect.); before you know it that one God has for you will be right there.
and we should be dating Christians, not just people in general... a Christian should understand this when you tell them..if they are a true follower..we should know better
lol. ..I am the same all my close friends are married. But I haven't dated it's just been me and Jesus. Stillness with HIM as He restores my soul. #worththewait #illwaitforyou
GREAT JOB!!! So glad that this topic is being more publicized and a conversation started! I believe that God is raising up bold young people who are able to encourage the masses to be strong in the faith and calling and integrity and standards that HE holds to be TRUTH! P4CM continual to produce substance in your work and Glorify God!!! God's love and blessings!!!
I have to say this conversation made me feel great about waiting. sometimes people make you feel like you are foreign when you say your not about that life and you are waiting. I am 31 years old and waiting. temptation occurs daily however, keeping Christ first and focusing on his word always helps me to stay committed until i am on day married to the right man God has predestined for me. JimDre God bless you and thank you for sharing you story. Yvonne you are so funny and beautiful God bless you as well. :)
This was a great episode! Keep up the great work guys! Today's guest was very encouraging & truthful. Way to walk in the Spirit & be a great example to other young men. Its possible! Thanks for your honesty.
God bless you brother!!!....God is faithful a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him...keep trusting waiting on Him...its definitely a no compromise on this...Wow this restores hope a man with conviction...!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love Yvonne! She keeps it 100 1000% of the time (yes I know that makes no logical sense lol). Says it how it is. She reminds me of some of my greatest and most dearest friends. Love her personality. And if you're reading this Yvonne, I love the way you present; it's interactive, interesting, hilarious, and personable. I was cackling in parts. Keep it up! I look forward to future instalments :)
This is such a beautiful thing, I commend you both for this conversation. Your love and commitment to Christ and staying true to what God has called us to. I love the Lord with my whole heart, body and soul and am staying celibate until married 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
Does it count that I am no longer having sex? I have a 5 year old son, but while I was pregnant with him is when I came to know the Lord as my personal Savior. THIS is the kind of man that I'm looking for!!! Even though I'm technically not a virgin, I'm like a born-again virgin...wish I had waited to be honest....
+Traycee Benjestorf Of course it counts!!! Our God is a redeemer! Yvonne even mentioned that we may no longer be virgins, but we are now celibate, in obedience to our Lord.
+Traycee Benjestorf God is a Great God and although you wished you waited, never forget your son is a blessing and will be to this world in Jesus name. Stay strong!
Kemisha Jack YES....my son is such a blessing!!!! I really don't know where I would be in life without him! God has really used him to reach me and redeem me...PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME!!! Blessings to you both ladies!!!
I’m a 21 year old males college and still a virgin waiting until marriage it’s hard and sometimes my family and friends ask me a lot about my sex life. Which is sad but I am still holding on. And doing God’s will.
+April M +shavon s I agree we fall short sometimes but I think sometimes we fall short because we deny the power of the Holy Spirit to free us from sin. As a 30 yr old virgin I can say that sexuality has been something I constantly have to submit to Christ. The struggle is real, but at least everyday Im in the fight. Some people who claim Christ just say we aint perfect; and dont have any intention of submitting themselves to Christ and putting their flesh and sin to death. If someone tells me they arent trying to wait until marriage, I know we arent reading the same Bible or following the same Lord.
April M You ain't neva lied..lol.. I know plenty of them. I have been celibate for 8 years it can be a struggle at time. I just ask God to keep me strong and I don't put myself in situation that I don't will tempt me. Sex can happen so quickly if a person is put in a certain situation. Before the person knows it, clothes are off and intercourse had began. I believe what LISLOVESTRUTH said about people not submitting to Christ. They half way do it most of the time and think it's enough. It's going to be very difficult at times, but it is soooo worth it.
wow this guy is awesome. God bless him for committing to waiting to find the right girl to marry. I am also 31 years old and still a virgin and waiting until I get married.
Thanks for the video! It's encouraging. I'm a 21 year old male virgin. It's ruff at this age and in this environment. There are temptations every where. It's hard to not be provoked.
Wow what a story. Dope, and encouraging to us single people, showing us that we ain't alone on this. Being patience is definitely not easy, but I think it is rare. Keep it up bro. Grace and peace.
all i can say is there is HOPE!!!!!! you may not be for me brother but if there is a brother out there living the same life Im leaving then it means there are others out there, they just not in the lime light
encouraging to hear...stay away from those "I can break you down women ..." geesh...can you say proverbs 7! may the Lord continue to encourage you both ;)
I don't know who is single or not between the both of you but I feel like you guys make a great match... I love the message you are sharing with us so motivational and inspirational.
It’s great to hear there are still men that value their purity and are not ashamed to shout it out. Praise God. However what cause me some curiosity is why entertain women who don’t share your faith and the testimony of purity; a woman that wants to try and take your purity. So my question is do you date non Christain woman which the bible says don’t do💁🏾
I love reading comments, that's my thing. However, I find it hilarious (and a little upsetting) that most of the comments on here (so far) are trying to hook these two people up. It's just a little tacky and immature. If it happens naturally then God bless them, but goodness gracious, let them breathe. You all are thirsty for them to hook up, and blaming it on Yvonne.
"You all are thirsty for them to hook up, and blaming it on Yvonne." Couldn't have said it better myself. Anybody who ever watches this show can see that this is ALWAYS her! some of these comments are very disappointing!
This was a good conversation, enjoyed this one... But yeah it's a bit surprising that some of the women he's dating attitude towards him waiting is one of "oh I can break him,"and the "what?" mentality ... I mean, is he not dating Christians?😕 and with the whole equally yolk scripture shouldn't you be pursuing a Christian woman?
I just told a fellow usher at church today that I am waiting...she said "girl you are lying, lying is forbidden at church ,no normal lady can be a virgin at 27". I have to bring her here..lol
I think I saw the picture first and I thought... ooo Yvonne. Then I read the caption and was like, they aren't together? but I watch this like... its just about time.. Yeah she likes him... is this Godly flirting? lol but that's none of my business.
I love that the guy was straight up and honest. I also respect that although he kept his body sexually, but he did go out there a little bit in the world with the tattoos. I mean I'm celibate now, but I have no tattoos. It just shows me that every person has their own personal struggles.
It's a blessing that the Christian walk isn't about "keeping score" or "sizing each other up," and carries no "trump cards," especially with external factors. I'm a virgin with two tattoos, neither of those things make me any more or less special than my fellow brother or sister in Christ.
+Yvonne Orji I was not saying it to be rude or judging. I apologize if it came off that way. We're not suppose to pierce our bodies. Just like we're not suppose to have sex outside of marriage. Both are a sin. All I am saying is that there is no perfect Christian. I don't know many Christians with no tattoos and are still virgins too. There probably are some, but that's not common these days. I hope you understand where I'm coming from. Have a great day. 😊
The Bible talking about tats was from pagan purposes and idolatry to the dead if I'm not mistaken, which also included cutting the body if I'm not mistaken
wow! I knew nada bout this dude. I'm 31 as well female. celebic. What he said about actively dating is something that caught my eye...he said to show God he is ready so he ain't just waiting, waiting for God to just drop a woman from the sky for him. So someone please comment cuz I have never understand this. I am ready to date and for a relationship but where I am at they're hardly any guys that are Christian but covering themselves though ..they're all taken..or that's how it seems like and also I have a problem striking up a conversation cuz it usually will be the wrong guy. smh. Idk what I'm doing wrong.😞😔
Hi yvonne, well I haven't thought about that either because I'm kinda nervous about that. You talking about Christian Singles.com? Or you know any other sites. I'm nervous cuz these days anybody can call their selves a Christian. I've talked with somebody for 10 years on the phone and met thru aol. A yr a go I had to cut him off because he just wasn't who he said he was. So I'm a 'fraid to give it another chance. 😞
+nastassia jefferson lots of Christians on other sites (not necessarily targeting specifically Christians), but let wisdom (and Holy Spirit) guide you and your interactions
Replying super late to this because I'm just watching this video lol. But to give you some encouragement, there are genuine God fearing men on dating sites. I actually met a nice Christian guy while I was on OkCupid (spoiler alert, it didn't materialize into anything), but we did go on a date and shared our faith and it gave me hope that there are good faith based men out there. As far as whether they're 'true Christians' or not, trust me you will know. As scripture says, you shall know them by their fruit, people can't hide who they are for very long. Pray for wisdom and discernment.
It's so refreshing to hear a man say that he loves God and is willing to honor Him by being a virgin. It's not many men out there willing to boldly proclaim this. I commend you brother. Keep holding on until God leads you to the woman worth waiting for. This is so encouraging to me. I'm 25 and I'm a virgin. I'm glad to see other young people willing to take a stand and wait.
#WorththeWait
+Paige Thomas Keep it up, and God will honor your obedience sis!
+Adrianne Chivers I will and thank you for the encouragement!
amen Paige, I'm a 23 year old virgin and proud of it because honoring God is the most important to me. glad to see other young believer's as well walking on this journey for God with me.
+Samaria W that so awesome! This makes me glad to hear this, because the world tries to make you think that no one else is trying to keep themselves and be pure. God is going to bless us for honoring Him. I pray that God will continue to keep you and you do the same for me as well.
Paige Thomas unfortunately, no matter what they say, most women don't desire, respect or value, sexual purity in men.
I'm 26 and I'll be getting married in March. My fiance and I are both virgins and it's such a wonderful feeling knowing that in 2 more months we can stand before each other knowing that we waited for each other and honored God by doing so!
+MiriHam010 Thank you so much
Ashley Gates GET BUSY!!!!
Amen!
I like this dude he's comfortable and authentic about himself because of his relationship with the Lord.
lol...I said that when I was 26 I won't be single @ 30 and baby i am 36 and still single. But living my best life the lover of my soul. Didn't know there was such joy and peace. Looking forward to my husband every season that ill be blessed with him. But wouldn't change anything about my 36 years of singleness. And if I have to wait until 41 it is will with my soul.
so awesome to see another woman the same age as me in this singleness stage!
Then, that means a sequel to the “40 year old virgin.” Call it “41 year old virgin.” Lol 😂
I noticed your post is from 3 years ago. Well, I am now that 36 year old who may end up as the next “40 year old virgin.” lol 😂 But I guess that’s ok. Hopefully I can hold another 3+ years. But if not, hopefully, I will be married by the time I give in.
By the way, you’re kind of cute. Do you like white guys?
I love Yvonne and her personality! She's a refreshing ball of energy and always keeps us laughin. Great vid and convo P4CM!
Thanks for watching!! Love you back!
I've found two people I can 100% relate to and I'm 40. Be strong y'all!
"You thought you was gonna be on the 22 year plan. We all did. Jesus, hurry up! Jesus, hurry up!" Hilarious and soo true!
Guuurrrlll that 32-year-and-counting plan is not for the faint of heart! Lol. #HoldinOnnnn
+Yvonne Orji Not at all, lol.
+Yvonne Orji Yes, girl. I thought I was going to be on the 22 plan too. There is no way that is happening cause I am almost 21 and I am so not ready to be someone's wife. It is not about me being selfish or anything, I just like being left alone with quiet and peace. But women have to be made whole, learn how to be a good wife (skills like cooking, cleaning, gardening? sewing, do laundry, drive (Well)), and be able to communicate with men.
Being resourceful is going to help a lot.
As young as I am I have to have faith that a man will even find me attractive.
I thought I'd be married by 20, lol.
I'm finna be 22 and still holding to my innocent
This was super encouraging to hear both of y'all are virgins and not just cause but to honor the Lord and your future spouses. I'm 24 going on 25 in April and still a virgin. I've done other sinful sexual immoral things before the Lord saved me , but I'm so thankful for his grace and justification that gives no condemnation! :) God bless you guys and thanks for this!
+Gina A. Amen to that sister!
+Adrianne Chivers Yes ! really respect this man and the wisdom that he even shared in just guarding yourself from where you go example avoiding the clubs etc And being confident in the lord and still having joy and living life in Christ while you wait. Kudos to him! There's hope Lord! Lol 🙌🏾🙏🏾 lol jk
Keep it up dear... Those who honour God, will be rewarded
+Franck 360 amen! thank you for your encouragement. God bless you! :)
+Gina A. You're welcome. :-)
it's truly encouaging to know that they are Brothers and sisters out there who are still doing things God's way. In this sex charged world we are living in, when we tell ppl that we are having sex to honour God, they think that we are from another planet. As long as God gets the glory, it's all that matters.
I love the fact that at 31 I can still find people who are in the same race as me. They are hard to find. God bless you guys and keep it real until that ring.
thanks for sharing.. we are all not alone.. glad we have a support system because we need it. I am a 33 year old virgin, and I'm not ashamed.. I had my hard times... I have to say it was around the age 13/14 is when I decided I want to wait til marriage. it has been worth the wait.. I pass thru those moments when I thought I was ready & I really wasn't.. God has done a great amount of healing in me, molding me, and more. I have learned it's worth waiting for him.. Let the river flow.. in my heart I already feel he's close. in God's timing we will meet.. and now how I expect.. ☺
Lindsay Puello Your comment really spoke to me. I'm 33 also and on the same journey. I trust in the path that God has me on. And I think it's important that we encourage each other. I'm glad this platform is here for us. And I love Yvonne, she's awesome!
It's also important to be content in singleness. Marriage isn't necessarily for everyone. Others will live a single life their whole life. It's good to change the prayer focus from the wait and more to letting the Lord help you enjoy your single life. Learning to love Him first unconditionally (marriage or not). There really is such a thing as a life of celibacy, not just a Catholic thing for priests and nuns.
Yvonne is always hype, energetic, fun and humorous. I don't think she changed her personality. That's who she is. But I can understand if she did have a silent crush for Mr. Wait. I think he's so her type. Her prayers may have been answered. They both like to work out, they love God, their focused, they've waited, the are funny, they both seem adventurous, etc...need I say more ? If he didn't at least ask her out on a date, I'd be disappointed.
queenwithlocs giiiirl I know...like, why not? these men are a trip. they think an angel is gonna come out the sky and a booming voice is gonna say that this is the one. anyway she's live n he seems like a square so he might not be for her
idk why but it seems like it's more acceptable for a girl to be a virgin than a guy. like that's why I'm praying for my two brothers because they have the same convictions but I know it's going to be hard for them. people will make fun of them, people already make fun of my high school brother for being a 15 year old virgin. I'm proud if this guy. God bless.
true that. for both Christian girls and guys, isn't saving sex for marriage common sense or at least the norm? why do we need to be changed by cultural standards?
+tootsieroll3132 I think for most who are serious about their faith, it is common sense. However, I think the the stereotype for the "black church" is that we're mostly hypocritical, and therefore fail in the area of sexual purity. Not sure how true this, however, I'm glad to know a lot of Christians who are keeping it holy for the Lord.
Amen!
1000%
Yay!!! I'm a 24 yr old Virgin!!! Yay!!! Let's get it #GodFirst
+Marissa Jones Stay encouraged!
22 year old virgin here! Ayyyyeee lets get it!
+kourtney douthard good job! Keep it up sis!
Glory to God! :)
+Marissa Jones I'm a 24 year virgin as well!! God bless!...I'm waiting for God's best!!
Thank you for this Conversation episode. I am not a virgin but I have been celibate for a few years. I completely enjoy being single. I love going out by myself, movies, restaurant, walks at the park, etc. It does get lonely at times but I remember how it was and what I looking forward to instead and that has worked for me. God has answered my prayer by keeping me and I desire to keep my word to him also. Thank you, thank you @P4CM
Enjoyed every moment of this interview. Proud of you both dying to flesh. Glory to our King.
ready like David..and "well-built like Joseph.." #AMEN There's still hope for us ladies...Don't give up.
I love them both. I'm so grateful that they are authentic and comfortable in their own skin. I thank GOD that they are saving themselves for the mates that the LORD has for them. I'm so proud of them.
So refreshing and real.18 yrs and I still do.
I commend him I'm a 26 year old virgin and it's hard sometimes but i know the bigger purpose in my life.
+Afaron Gordon That's right sis! Stay encouraged!!
She is my best friend in my head! Awesome!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Society really needs this. You guys are awesome. I wish I could have seen a program like this when I was young. God bless you and reward you for being true?
Awesome! very Encouraging to know there are REAL men of GOD who are waiting!!
I'm just realizing that seen Yvonne here first and now she is on Insecure, Awesome girlie! Continue to honor God with ur body and he will continue to open doors!!!
This is encouraging to see that we are not alone. I believe that there are many of us unashamed to say that we are waiting for marriage and more importantly living in that truth. God bless you both
I'm shocked. Most christians i knew lost their virginity at 15years old
megen Brown even if they lost their virginity people could be abstinent and still be waiting for marriage
jcanthony16 I don't want to make anyone feel bad so I'm going to respect your opinion.
I really feel that the key to waiting for the woman or man that God has for us is to stay busy. Watching this video only confirms what I've been hearing for some time now: pray and stay busy (work, school, ect.); before you know it that one God has for you will be right there.
Thanks for joining the conversation and leaving a comment!
and we should be dating Christians, not just people in general... a Christian should understand this when you tell them..if they are a true follower..we should know better
amen amen
Amen Jazz, I truly agree with you. I'm a 23 year old virgin and honoring God is most important to me.
+Samaria W so am I :)!! I'll be 24 this year and going strong
Yes I'll be 24 this year as well 😃 wow look at God. Keep on keeping on my sister.
+Samaria W 23 year old virgin??? Congratulations. That's something that should truly be celebrated sis.
The 22 year plan. I can relate. 28 and waiting.
This video is very encouraging, sometimes you feel like your the only guy out there honoring God with your body.
+Stephen Baird Be encouraged bro!
+Adrianne Chivers Yes, thank you!
+Stephen Baird God Bless you brother..keep it up! :)
lol. ..I am the same all my close friends are married. But I haven't dated it's just been me and Jesus. Stillness with HIM as He restores my soul. #worththewait #illwaitforyou
GREAT JOB!!! So glad that this topic is being more publicized and a conversation started! I believe that God is raising up bold young people who are able to encourage the masses to be strong in the faith and calling and integrity and standards that HE holds to be TRUTH! P4CM continual to produce substance in your work and Glorify God!!! God's love and blessings!!!
I have to say this conversation made me feel great about waiting. sometimes people make you feel like you are foreign when you say your not about that life and you are waiting. I am 31 years old and waiting. temptation occurs daily however, keeping Christ first and focusing on his word always helps me to stay committed until i am on day married to the right man God has predestined for me. JimDre God bless you and thank you for sharing you story. Yvonne you are so funny and beautiful God bless you as well. :)
This was very encouraging. It is nice to see both of you not being ashamed of what God has asked of everyone. Hold on to the promise!
AHAHAHAHA at "you so spiritual, what do you Really do?" lol hilariousssssss
I meeeeaaannn REAL TALK! Give the people some tangibles... Pray first... And theeennn??? LOL
This is awesome. He is alert and CLEAR because he doesn't have those distractions.
This was a great episode! Keep up the great work guys! Today's guest was very encouraging & truthful. Way to walk in the Spirit & be a great example to other young men. Its possible! Thanks for your honesty.
Thanks for watching!
God bless you brother!!!....God is faithful a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him...keep trusting waiting on Him...its definitely a no compromise on this...Wow this restores hope a man with conviction...!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
It's tough at times but nice to know other people are living like this!
I love Yvonne! She keeps it 100 1000% of the time (yes I know that makes no logical sense lol). Says it how it is. She reminds me of some of my greatest and most dearest friends. Love her personality. And if you're reading this Yvonne, I love the way you present; it's interactive, interesting, hilarious, and personable. I was cackling in parts. Keep it up! I look forward to future instalments :)
I am reading, and thank you! Truly appreciate it!
@@YveeO I love you❤ you are such a great inspiration to alot of us.. May God bless you
At last, someone that understand the way I feel.
This is such a beautiful thing, I commend you both for this conversation. Your love and commitment to Christ and staying true to what God has called us to. I love the Lord with my whole heart, body and soul and am staying celibate until married 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
Does it count that I am no longer having sex? I have a 5 year old son, but while I was pregnant with him is when I came to know the Lord as my personal Savior. THIS is the kind of man that I'm looking for!!! Even though I'm technically not a virgin, I'm like a born-again virgin...wish I had waited to be honest....
+Traycee Benjestorf Of course it counts!!! Our God is a redeemer! Yvonne even mentioned that we may no longer be virgins, but we are now celibate, in obedience to our Lord.
Thank you La-Aja!!!
+Traycee Benjestorf God is a Great God and although you wished you waited, never forget your son is a blessing and will be to this world in Jesus name. Stay strong!
+La-Aja Hernandez (Laaysiah) Yes God is. Thanks
Kemisha Jack
YES....my son is such a blessing!!!! I really don't know where I would be in life without him! God has really used him to reach me and redeem me...PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME!!!
Blessings to you both ladies!!!
I’m a 21 year old males college and still a virgin waiting until marriage it’s hard and sometimes my family and friends ask me a lot about my sex life. Which is sad but I am still holding on. And doing God’s will.
Stay strong! The Lord will keep you if you're obedient and stand strong! Blessings.
HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH Amen!!!!! Need more men with this commitment so beautiful...Father🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤❤
Why are so many Christians not happy to date people who want to wait? Shouldn't they be waiting also?
+April M That's what baffles me everytime! I don't consider people to be truly Christian if they aren't obeying God with their sexuality.
+April M Those of us who follow Christ fall short just like anyone else. We are not perfect.
+shavon s oh I completely agree, but some Christians I've met thinking waiting is ridiculous. It's just sad t see I guess 😊
+April M +shavon s
I agree we fall short sometimes but I think sometimes we fall short because we deny the power of the Holy Spirit to free us from sin. As a 30 yr old virgin I can say that sexuality has been something I constantly have to submit to Christ. The struggle is real, but at least everyday Im in the fight. Some people who claim Christ just say we aint perfect; and dont have any intention of submitting themselves to Christ and putting their flesh and sin to death. If someone tells me they arent trying to wait until marriage, I know we arent reading the same Bible or following the same Lord.
April M You ain't neva lied..lol.. I know plenty of them. I have been celibate for 8 years it can be a struggle at time. I just ask God to keep me strong and I don't put myself in situation that I don't will tempt me. Sex can happen so quickly if a person is put in a certain situation. Before the person knows it, clothes are off and intercourse had began. I believe what LISLOVESTRUTH said about people not submitting to Christ. They half way do it most of the time and think it's enough. It's going to be very difficult at times, but it is soooo worth it.
wow this guy is awesome. God bless him for committing to waiting to find the right girl to marry. I am also 31 years old and still a virgin and waiting until I get married.
Thanks for the video! It's encouraging. I'm a 21 year old male virgin. It's ruff at this age and in this environment. There are temptations every where. It's hard to not be provoked.
this was great, I love how he is confidently walking in his truth.
This right here just blessed my soul and gave me hope! God is good! Praying for this channel that it continues to uplift Gods children.
Dope hostess!!
Thank you Nathan! We think so too 😉 Thanks for joining the conversation!
This episode is so dope. Just watched it again!
Wow what a story. Dope, and encouraging to us single people, showing us that we ain't alone on this. Being patience is definitely not easy, but I think it is rare. Keep it up bro. Grace and peace.
And keep it up sis.
That is so cool. Thank you Lord. You are not ashamed to practice this.
i looooooovve this host! She is hilarious!
Haha! I'm glad you enjoyed the episode. Thanks for watching!
How many of y'all caught that "keeping it locked til you get that rock" Miss Yvonne always gives a lady a phrase she can live by ! :D
+Pebble$ Blog I know right?! I love that slogan so much! The shirts are amazing too!! Check out the site if you haven't already!
+Adrianne Chivers I'll check it out ! Thanks girl :)
Great interview Yvonne...
Thanks for watching!
all i can say is there is HOPE!!!!!! you may not be for me brother but if there is a brother out there living the same life Im leaving then it means there are others out there, they just not in the lime light
encouraging to hear...stay away from those "I can break you down women ..." geesh...can you say proverbs 7!
may the Lord continue to encourage you both ;)
Im 24 years old and still holding it down. I'm Encouraged. Thanks
But how come there are so many of us waiting, but are still dating people that do not want to wait.
Purple shirt with gold lettering which reads 'Keeping it locked until I get that Rock'
so profound.....I do identify with both of you....so encouraging..God bless you
Guys like him... 🙏🏽😍♥️
So, why aren't the two of them getting together?
I just love Yvonne - shoutout to JimDre too! Ya'll better have your platforms!
I don't know who is single or not between the both of you but I feel like you guys make a great match... I love the message you are sharing with us so motivational and inspirational.
I love the boots Yvonne. Interesting convo. " Break him down" reminds me of the story of Samson and Delilah.
It’s great to hear there are still men that value their purity and are not ashamed to shout it out. Praise God. However what cause me some curiosity is why entertain women who don’t share your faith and the testimony of purity; a woman that wants to try and take your purity. So my question is do you date non Christain woman which the bible says don’t do💁🏾
This is a conversation I needed to hear. It's really not easy.
wooo The Discipline though. WOW!!!!!!! God bless you JimDre.
The discipline is REAL! Thanks so much for watching!
"I'm the only one like me son"...I'm with you girl!
This is great! And the host is incredible!!
I like the tee. I like the message. God bless you sir. :-D
I love reading comments, that's my thing. However, I find it hilarious (and a little upsetting) that most of the comments on here (so far) are trying to hook these two people up. It's just a little tacky and immature. If it happens naturally then God bless them, but goodness gracious, let them breathe.
You all are thirsty for them to hook up, and blaming it on Yvonne.
"You all are thirsty for them to hook up, and blaming it on Yvonne." Couldn't have said it better myself. Anybody who ever watches this show can see that this is ALWAYS her! some of these comments are very disappointing!
Jesus hurry up.... hurry up!!!! 😂😂😂 love her
I've known myself earlier as well...but where are the rest of dudes like him? Lol he is finee
Y’all would make a nice couple I love both of y’all personalities together I think y’all would complete each other😍❤️👍
I loveee Yvonne yes! And her hair
She’s so funny!!! “Girl He gay” 😂
This was a good conversation, enjoyed this one... But yeah it's a bit surprising that some of the women he's dating attitude towards him waiting is one of "oh I can break him,"and the "what?" mentality ... I mean, is he not dating Christians?😕 and with the whole equally yolk scripture shouldn't you be pursuing a Christian woman?
I just told a fellow usher at church today that I am waiting...she said "girl you are lying, lying is forbidden at church ,no normal lady can be a virgin at 27".
I have to bring her here..lol
Yvonne is my spirit animal lol 😂 I loved this video 💪🏾
He is sooo amazing!
Its a wonderful and amazing thing to keep your virginity until marriage its sooooo worth it.
such an inspiration
GOOD FOR HIM!!!
I love her as a host
Yvonne, you are too funny! My heart is hurting... in a good way. lol
Girrrl, you saying it as it is... Do you still do this or something else?
He's the perfect man!
I love this! :) This is so helpful.
I think I saw the picture first and I thought... ooo Yvonne. Then I read the caption and was like, they aren't together? but I watch this like... its just about time.. Yeah she likes him... is this Godly flirting? lol but that's none of my business.
her hair 😍😍
you two are amazingggg
Love both there t-shirts
y'all need to calm down accusing her of having a crush on this guy.., we all know yvette is a hilarious person she's not flirting shes being herself
Hahah let'em kno! (Y'all will know when I'm flirting... I'll TELL you! Lol)
Why don't Jimdre and the hostess just date eachother. They sound like a match to me.
Me too!
I love that the guy was straight up and honest. I also respect that although he kept his body sexually, but he did go out there a little bit in the world with the tattoos. I mean I'm celibate now, but I have no tattoos. It just shows me that every person has their own personal struggles.
It's a blessing that the Christian walk isn't about "keeping score" or "sizing each other up," and carries no "trump cards," especially with external factors. I'm a virgin with two tattoos, neither of those things make me any more or less special than my fellow brother or sister in Christ.
+Yvonne Orji I was not saying it to be rude or judging. I apologize if it came off that way. We're not suppose to pierce our bodies. Just like we're not suppose to have sex outside of marriage. Both are a sin. All I am saying is that there is no perfect Christian. I don't know many Christians with no tattoos and are still virgins too. There probably are some, but that's not common these days. I hope you understand where I'm coming from. Have a great day. 😊
The Bible talking about tats was from pagan purposes and idolatry to the dead if I'm not mistaken, which also included cutting the body if I'm not mistaken
wow! I knew nada bout this dude. I'm 31 as well female. celebic. What he said about actively dating is something that caught my eye...he said to show God he is ready so he ain't just waiting, waiting for God to just drop a woman from the sky for him. So someone please comment cuz I have never understand this. I am ready to date and for a relationship but where I am at they're hardly any guys that are Christian but covering themselves though ..they're all taken..or that's how it seems like and also I have a problem striking up a conversation cuz it usually will be the wrong guy. smh. Idk what I'm doing wrong.😞😔
Have you tried online dating?
Hi yvonne, well I haven't thought about that either because I'm kinda nervous about that. You talking about Christian Singles.com? Or you know any other sites. I'm nervous cuz these days anybody can call their selves a Christian. I've talked with somebody for 10 years on the phone and met thru aol. A yr a go I had to cut him off because he just wasn't who he said he was. So I'm a 'fraid to give it another chance. 😞
+nastassia jefferson lots of Christians on other sites (not necessarily targeting specifically Christians), but let wisdom (and Holy Spirit) guide you and your interactions
+Yvonne Orji 😉🙅👍 thanks yvonne. I'll keep that in mind and with me.
Replying super late to this because I'm just watching this video lol. But to give you some encouragement, there are genuine God fearing men on dating sites. I actually met a nice Christian guy while I was on OkCupid (spoiler alert, it didn't materialize into anything), but we did go on a date and shared our faith and it gave me hope that there are good faith based men out there. As far as whether they're 'true Christians' or not, trust me you will know. As scripture says, you shall know them by their fruit, people can't hide who they are for very long. Pray for wisdom and discernment.
I was inspired by this video, I am still a virgin at 24 but I have performed so many sexual immorality which is hurting me badly
Where can I meet a great good guy like you?