Swirling & The Black Woman's Quest For the Good Man

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 80

  • @marcusfrazier4923
    @marcusfrazier4923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    @15:56
    "That *Nuclear Waste Facility* .....that, whatever that is between these females' legs"
    Damn...I have never heard someone speak so calm and intellectual and be so savage at the same time.
    🤣🤣

  • @gerbilbreathe5321
    @gerbilbreathe5321 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yes it is nurture I'm in Canada we dont have this problem . I think the main problem is money though didn't recall you mentioning it.. Soon as a woman makes more money she thinks she gets to make the rules creates alot of resentment and bad feelings.

  • @deanfambro
    @deanfambro 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brother you went in .... thank you for this video

  • @michaeldavis5662
    @michaeldavis5662 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    excellent video, keep them coming

    • @ShawnSJames
      @ShawnSJames  9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Phil Sketchy New ones are up today.

  • @DJAlisterCrane
    @DJAlisterCrane 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    After going through the comment section, I am not shocked to see that the black women that did respond took your video post personally. If you don't reflect what Shawn James is talking about then why respond in the first place? If you do reflect what he's talking about, what are you doing to change your behavior to achieve better outcomes for yourself?

    • @chevyDboyMike
      @chevyDboyMike 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      these females are so caught up in themselves that they can not remove themselves from the situation to analyze it logically, and give rational feedback.

    • @FirstLast-uk9gu
      @FirstLast-uk9gu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DJAlisterCrane .Go MGTOW

  • @lawrencer908
    @lawrencer908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a breakdown!!!

  • @postmodgent1499
    @postmodgent1499 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i notice that in divorce settlements involving white man/black woman/children the court rarely grants sole custody of children to the black women even if she filed for it with cause.

    • @ShawnSJames
      @ShawnSJames  9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Post Mod Gent Courts are made by White men for White men. In most cases Black women who divorce wind up paying their husbands child support or wind up losing custody of the kids. Courts are made by White men to serve White men.

    • @mercerjones5796
      @mercerjones5796 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +Shawn James Too bad most black women will never this. Not only the courts, But EVERYTHING in America is designed to accomodate white men.

    • @MsEliteForever
      @MsEliteForever 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At least they want their kids vs blk men go into hiding.

    • @RepublicTeaRoom
      @RepublicTeaRoom 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Mercer Jones More shaming tactics against Black women...zzzzzz! Won't stop the ones of us who have agency to expand our options toward real, masculine, protectors and providers.

    • @chevyDboyMike
      @chevyDboyMike 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      more men take care of their children, and or children not their own than those that don't take care of thier children. your situation is just your situation. you fell into trap like most females that get stuck with the children fell for. you chose poorly or immaturely in a relationship.

  • @dionbush5560
    @dionbush5560 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Makes sense. women always learn to late.

  • @loletiaarmstrong8652
    @loletiaarmstrong8652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A lot of black men are looking for mother,s not wives.

    • @ShawnSJames
      @ShawnSJames  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'll concede some are.

  • @roachesratsrepellentpack.9304
    @roachesratsrepellentpack.9304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Classic!!

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree that some Black women emasculate Black men..Ephesians 6 also talks about how men are the head of the women and children..Christ is head of all

  • @eseibio
    @eseibio 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    every black man aint dusty

  • @AddLoveTM126
    @AddLoveTM126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    TRUTH.👑

  • @valuecalc
    @valuecalc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This man spoke very eloquently. I'm sure that he's not afraid of the backlash of controversy that could follow him immediately. Women can be so unreasonable and very unfair to a guy who just wants a simple date.

    • @RepublicTeaRoom
      @RepublicTeaRoom 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No accomplished, articulate, feminine, worldly Black woman should even look a Black males way!! Really!

  • @ericseats
    @ericseats 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great content soldier!

  • @shulrhakyah8734
    @shulrhakyah8734 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im good on BW.
    For BM to be with BW
    bringing order than the
    entire system has to be
    torn down/destroyed BUT
    BW aren't letting that happen.
    They'd rather be un competition
    And trying hard to rule over BM
    just as the WM/WM.
    Today I'll choose a Mexican woman or WW

  • @skipc03
    @skipc03 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GREAT MESSAGE...SHARED IT ON THE BOOK !!

  • @playdate410
    @playdate410 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Of course all black women are not the type he is speaking of. Truth is in my experiences, it is not hard to find a good black man. It is hard to find an attractive good black man. Also, I have yet to find a video of a man speaking to black men about increasing the rates of college graduation, not spreading seeds from woman to woman, following God, and leading the black woman by bible principle. This video would have been much better if it included these points. Black men can change the current state of things if they wanted to by stepping up not throwing up hands in defeat. Just my opinion.

  • @loletiaarmstrong8652
    @loletiaarmstrong8652 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Shawn, what do you think about black who want the woman to be the head of the house hold, because I have seen a lot of that.

  • @tbursee
    @tbursee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    preach brotha!

  • @Lex30911
    @Lex30911 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't think it has anything to do with necessarily the woman is made to support and gender roles what have you. I think the problem is the black woman inheriting power or trying to consolidate power being told by the liberal and the feminist but she doesn't know what to do with that power

    • @Lex30911
      @Lex30911 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      imo feminist don't want equality they want supremacy

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Preach brother preach

  • @RexAllen-ow7tu
    @RexAllen-ow7tu ปีที่แล้ว

    You know Shawn is really true about a lot of black I tried to date and a lot of them is not romantic and if you go to the movies they don't like to share the cost no I'm not seeing all black women like that but they vary and bossy and I think black women are beautifulbut for some reason they have this attitude like they have to take the lead and it's not supposed to be that way man supposed to take the lead like the Bible says

  • @blindianswirltwo2986
    @blindianswirltwo2986 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is comedy to me. Do your research about commenting on black women in IR relationships.

    • @lilpre504
      @lilpre504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wail cash app you $1000 if you can beat this man in a live debate.

  • @ladeeowl
    @ladeeowl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok, please my brother's stop saying that we are feminist you are not us and can not speak on our issues just like we are not men and can not speak on your's, never heard too many Black women speak as a feminist sheesh!

  • @BlacMuva79
    @BlacMuva79 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He is on point.

  • @Monikblessed
    @Monikblessed 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I only listened to the first 10 minutes of this video and had difficulty listening to the remainder of it. First, you are speaking on black women's issues and you are not a black woman. Therefore, you have not lived the life of a black woman, but I have!!! I am a post- civil rights baby, currently 49 years old, and I am telling you that the majority of black men are not marriage material period! I will admit that I waited for a marriageable, eligible, intelligent, desirable, employed, financially stable black man for more years than I can remember, and guess what? He never showed up! Women have a limited number of years in which to have children, and if they want to do it in the Godly way, by getting married first, than they have no choice but to include all races of men in their dating/marriage options. I listened to a few of your previous videos and I thought you had a clear understanding of this. I was obviously wrong. Unfortunately, the majority of black women who desire to be with black men only often end up with child/ren and no husband, and still single. I've heard black men through the years say that they will not bother to commit because there are too many black women to every one black man. So, what are black women expected to do? Some could choose to wait and wait and wait and wait and wait and miss out on their child bearing years, hit the 50 mark and still end up alone. I don't think so!!! Why? When looking for a husband, most other races of women consider all races of men, why can't black women, and why are we berated by black men for doing so?. I am very sorry to tell you this but in this video, you Do Not know what you are talking about. Take it from a sister that has learned more than her fair share of hard lessons by dating black men only! By the way, after all, black men do not hesitate to marry, or date interracially, and again, neither should black women!

    • @Monikblessed
      @Monikblessed 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, Pretty Girl, I am sure that you think you know what you are talking about, but I personally have none of those issues or character traits, and as I said to you before, LIFE
      IS THE BEST CLASSROOM AND TEACHER, so you go ahead and be Ms. Pro-black man, that's your choice! Good luck to you, you're going to need it!!!!

    • @ShawnSJames
      @ShawnSJames  9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +pretty girl Can't disagree with anything you said. I present all these facts to BW on the regular and they just can't seem to process them. It's like it makes their brains stop working when they hear these truths regarding themselves.

    • @Monikblessed
      @Monikblessed 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      To pretty girl, thank you for not responding anymore. Your soliloquy’s are a bit too much and you are disrespectful, and don't know what you are talking about. You laughed at me being 49-years-old, and single and all, but you don't know a thing about me, and you better hope you make it to my age with your mindset! It's a shame that you never caught on to what I was saying, but like I said life will teach you.

    • @eseibio
      @eseibio 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      bull shit thats a lie.

    • @eseibio
      @eseibio 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you talk about financial stability
      ..but you depend on your white daddy

  • @blindianswirltwo2986
    @blindianswirltwo2986 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are speaking gibberish. Men of other races like beauty, race is not a issue if attraction is there....

    • @blindianswirltwo2986
      @blindianswirltwo2986 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +pretty girl Never address me again. Your nothing but a troll.

    • @Monikblessed
      @Monikblessed 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +pretty girl Why are you letting black men fill your head with that bullshit, because that's where it came from? Keep believing that and listening to it and you will be my age and older, and still single.

    • @Monikblessed
      @Monikblessed 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dear Pretty girl, first of all, do not discuss what is between my legs, that is disrespectful and none of your business. Second, you sound very young and inexperienced, and going on information that you read on the internet, or that somebody told you. I will tell you this, life is so much more complicated then that and you will see what I am talking about one day. Now, a little motherly advice, you go ahead and hold onto to your beliefs, I see that you are very passionate and pro-black about everything and let's see how well that serves you in your life. I believe that experience is the best teacher and I am sure that you will learn. Bye, Bye!

  • @FirstLast-uk9gu
    @FirstLast-uk9gu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MGTOW

  • @RepublicTeaRoom
    @RepublicTeaRoom 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Black women...guess what! We are women and these loses are jealous of that...we can still be protected and loved by real men. They are envious of the access that we as women have to powerful competent males. We are the educated, accomplished ilk- Black males hate that. Keep the shady videos coming for all to see. My boyfriend says to me all the time, he could never imagine men of his race dragging their women over the coals and wanting other men to think less of his own women (race)...These are a conquered men, and they know it, but Black women are women and can still find eligible mates...they are ineligible!

    • @governorofthedeathstar1680
      @governorofthedeathstar1680 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, right. It is a fact that black women are the LEAST desired of all women. Do your research!

    • @RepublicTeaRoom
      @RepublicTeaRoom 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +John Williams lies, lies, lies!!! Ask my White boyfriend!

    • @governorofthedeathstar1680
      @governorofthedeathstar1680 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Texas RN FACTS! Another lost black woman. Pathetic! Bye@

    • @RepublicTeaRoom
      @RepublicTeaRoom 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +John Williams nope...found, loved, protected, adored, feminine, and happy!

    • @governorofthedeathstar1680
      @governorofthedeathstar1680 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Texas RN Pathetic and Delusional.

  • @bedwenchingwithbenifits4553
    @bedwenchingwithbenifits4553 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    zzzz

    • @RepublicTeaRoom
      @RepublicTeaRoom 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl, I had no idea they were this delusional and jealous!

    • @rolondabest7500
      @rolondabest7500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please tell him 2 shut the fuck up

    • @rolondabest7500
      @rolondabest7500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RepublicTeaRoom they r pooh.

    • @thecraplordsell4575
      @thecraplordsell4575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Typical, always responds with emotions and not facts

    • @thecraplordsell4575
      @thecraplordsell4575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RepublicTeaRoom It's call constructive criticism! Not JeAlOuSy or DeLUsiONAL

  • @iwhan2bcumamucholuchowr4st56
    @iwhan2bcumamucholuchowr4st56 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    23:25
    Please for the love of God make a video of effeminate men raised by black mothers. Please I need some insight. I am 25 years old and lost. I hate my mother but also love her and hate black women as a whole bc they look and sound and act like my mother I've been watching your videos and it's helping please speak on this! I even went as far as hitting women I am angry and sad please help