Woman Is Scared Of Falling Down The Aisle On Her Wedding Day! | Hot & Heavy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 มี.ค. 2020
- It's nearly Joy and Chris's big day, and they're taking a final look at their venue, where Joy realises that while walking down the aisle she'll have to make sure she doesn't lose her balance in front of all their guests!
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So no one’s gonna talk about the pastor’s mustache? Iconic
Or his sunflower sash
He looks like the guy off of wizard of oz
We stan one (1) icon
The Lorax looks different here
Omg I know
Can we all just respect the manliness of reverend Jim’s mustache
Dat Boi he looks like he should be on one of those dr. Squatch soap commercials 😂
That's what I was thinking. Lol
Dat Boi 😂😂😂
I read this and I looked up and saw his mustache 😂😂
It’s a glorious lip sweater.
To be fair, whoever built those steps has no idea what they are doing.
I would be nervous to take a tumble too down those awkward stairs.
Those are normal stairs.
@@BrilloBrock facts😂😂
@@asiandod325 any bride with a puffy dress would trip down those stairs if she's not careful enough😬
so true!!!!
i'm a healthy weight and i'd be worried about falling down those stairs too😂
Yeah
same
For real! Those stairs are scary lol
Same 😂
uh
TH-cam
Wtf those stairs could take out anyone no matter their size.
Honestly what I was thinking!!! I saw these stairs and instantly knew my ass would tumble down them
Sophia L I’d go ass over teakettle and I’m not heavy.
@Unlabelled Glass Jar your a perfect person, always right and no ones opinions matter except yours.
Sophia L facts! That’s what I said
@Unlabelled Glass Jar lmaoo
Damn, he's fine! Lucky lady!
He is 🥰
Ew
Ria Wally yeaaa where i can found lovely man like this 😂
I think it shows more because he seems like a nice person and he loves her so much.
@L. Wyse108 lolol
Her labored breathing makes me sad. Just walking to the altar took so much out of her ☹️
It was also the most non-elegant way she came down the aisle 😅
Soon she won’t be able to walk anymore. I just watched too much of Dr Now and I always hear his voice looking at her. She should really take care of herself, she won’t get old being like this and having an enabler on her side.
@@SandraNowlookout Seriously she carried her bouquet like it was a shopping bag.
@@HelenaRG71 I totally agree about the walking. Also, look out for diabetes, congestive heart failure, bad hips and Knees down the line, lung problems such as requiring oxygen, and cancers
That’s a huge woman. My god!
As a heavy person myself, I wouldnt appreciate being with a guy who enables me to eat more. I am still struggling but gonna get through my weight loss journey.
Yes I agree. It’s not a healthy relationship.. I am sure that he is one of those guys who would leave her if she looses too much weight
He’s a feeder....it’s more of a fetish which is sad. She’s a beautiful girl and while I do believe all body shapes should be appreciated,there comes a point where it should be concerning...as it’s not healthy. You should be very proud of yourself because it’s not easy to lose weight.❤️
Agreed. I actually struggle with my weight also. But i used to work with a lady who had to sneak behind her husband's back to go to the gym. He wanted her to stay big but she was worried about her health. I will say though, she was probably 400 pounds and he adored her. I wish i had a guy look at me like that...
I agree 100% its more to boost his ego.
I had a boyfriend encourage me to eat badly, and I went from a normal bmi to being overweight. He “joked” at one point that he was glad I gained weight so that he could basically keep me from being with other guys. That’s messed up.
So we’re just going to ignore the beauty of reverend Jim’s mustache.
Autumn C LMAOOOO
Autumn C
😂😂😂
Ikr 😂😂😂😂😂
Majestic
It's iconic
Those steps are horrifying the way they are spaced out, I wouldn’t want to walk down them either..
Yep I would do a front flip for sure lol
It's def easier when you're not the size of a Buick enclave
@Kyril J exactly, only 4 percent of people have thyroid problems that prohibit weight loss, the rest are just last fat poss
Yes
I don’t think anyone could manage those stairs. They looked so uneven too.
The way he looks at her ..... so sweet
Right!!!
He's looking at the money bag👜👜
@@lucindajenkins8693 😂😂😂
He looks at her like a pork chop.
The groom loves his bride so much.. that’s so cute. He would be more than happy to see his bride healthy and happy and always with him!
Será?
The groom is such a gentleman testing the stairs. Nice guy.
Corona getting everyone views😂😂.
I got 10 subscribers in a week because everyone is staying home.lol
Lol thinking the same 😂
Lmbo ...
Let the fools joke
NALOC YKTV Bruhh this is about wedding stuff like why u bring up about the corona
How beautiful her dress choice. Her smile, his tears. How precious when people find their person.
And he has been through her to tougher times. She has cancer
I just hope he doesn't break her heart.She seems so sweet
why is it always "i hope HE doesn't break her heart" it should be "I hope one of them doesn't hurt the other"
She's gonna break her own heart when she has a damn stroke
@@stefs7141 😂😂😂 it’s funny because it’s true!
@@stefs7141 I feel bad for laughing at this.
@@stefs7141 so true
If she can't walk downstairs why have a wedding ceremony where you gotta walk downstairs, to the isle then to her husband? Isn't that a bit silly...
Maybe liked the location or it was cheap
That's what I thought. Not a good venue at all.
Looked very awkward I agree for Anyone.
Drama to see if the fat girl will fall
Gettin BeyWay that’s mean wtf
She needs to lose weight for her health and to live longer. Honestly, if obesity didn’t have a negative side, there would be nothing wrong with being fat.
Rayan Alsharki amen to that if it wasn’t damaging to health then I wouldn’t give 2 shits if people were fat
Miranda Fitch neither would I!! People don’t like people being fat because it leads to so many health conditions and at the end, it’s death
I don’t think most people that are body positive are condoning it and saying there are not downsides, it’s that just because you are obese doesn’t mean you’re not human and don’t deserve to be treated as such. At the end of the day they know what they are doing will kill them and their body hurts, but it’s not my place to make you feel like shit on top of that. I don’t think your comment is disrespectful because I agree it is a problem! There are usually physiological issues that go along with it or past trauma that led to relying on food as a unhealthy coping mechanism so often I think therapy is required before many people can loose weight.
@@colahu111 fat people are evil
rainer winkler they’re not evil. Most fat people have a story. We all do but there’s is different
I mean this in the best way possible, I support body positivity and all that, there’s absolutely nothing with being curvy, some people are just like that. But being obese is completely different, and could bring many life threatening health problems.If doing the simplest of things like walking down stairs is hard, you should definitely try to change your ways, for your own health. And all things aside she seems like a very sweet person.
ItsMickieSis whatever, Just being honest
ItsMickieSis I’m not saying this to tear someone down, I’m saying this because their literal health could be at risk.
Pride Panda I edited my comment because of a spelling mistake, not because I wanted myself to look better. I also edited it before anyone liked or commented on it....
I think you are right. There is a big difference between those two and I'm tired of people being like stop being mean. You're just trying to help them stay alive. My grandfather was like that and he had to have his legs cut and he was blind of one eye. Sadly he died but his death made me more healthy. Being overweight like that can cause you harm or death
It’s not just “obese” people that get tired from walking down stairs. And just because you’re “obese” doesn’t mean you’re not healthy. The people that you see as “obese” or “fat” could be healthier than you ever will be. Weight doesn’t determine whether you’re healthy or in shape, its just a representation of how your body chooses to handle it.
She talks about being fat as if it’s not a choice.
The mother and sons conversations should've been had BEFORE the wedding
It was for TV drama. I'm sure they've had this exact same conversation before.
That mustache is like the most extra n best looking mustache ever I’m not even kiddin
I read this at the beginning of the video and was questioning what mustache??? Then i seen it! It really is tho!!! 😂
Aly B lmfaooo right🤣
It looks like the Lorax’s mustache
Liv M ngl it do
@@arrozynoodleseseverything5461 move on
You know you need to lose weight when you start panting after walking a few feet down the isle
@ItsMickieSis no this is a serious problem
@ItsMickieSis that's not loving yourself, if you did you wouldn't have done this to your body
ItsMickieSis i don’t care, if you have a problem walking down two steps of stairs cause of your weight then theres something serious wrong with you. She doesn’t even have to be super thin, she just has to be a good weight where doesn’t fucking die from high cholesterol you absolute fucking troglodyte.
He said seeing her walk down the aisle took his breath away. In actuality, it took hers away too lol
You know you need remedial english classes when you can’t spell the word aisle
That was so sweet! The way her husband got so excited to see her in her wedding dress! I wish them all the happiness 💞.
Ugh why can’t I find a hot guy
It’s Miah Time I hear you!
Terri g I am fat, but not that big lol... if that’s what’s needed, I’ll stay single ha!
Same here, I’m 30 I’m confident and everything but I haven’t found a man at all😔 I just want a nice decent man and faithful. And now with a pandemic happening in the world I feel like I’ll be single forever 😭
It’s Miah Time JJajaa for real
It’s Miah Time if a woman like HER can get a man, then everybody can.
I LOVE how supportive Chris is! It's so reassuring to know that there are people in the world who will accept you as you are
He’s only supportive and loving until she is the size of an elephant. The moment she starts to loose weight you’ll see he runs off. Look at my 600 lb life and you’ll see numerous guys who see women just as sex objects. The moment the weight is gone they run.
Exactly
You shouldn't feel happy he literally killing her she won't last long and if he really loved her he would help her get healthy
He has a fat fetish.
@@sashamellon822 iuiijijjbbbbbb. Jjjjjjjnnnn.
He is so supportive and handsome! She is a sweet pea and so supportive of him aswell, and she is gorgeous! May God bless these 2 and bind them in Holy matrimony ❤❤❤❤
I feel like a horrible because when I read "hot and heavy" I said, " oh he's hot and she's heavy."
Yeah that’s the point.
@Spike • Oh- I thought it meant she was both hot and heavy ;-;
Can be both hot and heavy
beautiful bride sexy husband and I wish them love forever
She must be very rich
His mother and friend had no right to bring up her weight at their wedding. There’s a time and a place for that but at their own damn wedding?! I mean really, have some class
Well.the whole show is about her being fat...so it was probably scripted to be said
Its probably not the first time. Just like she said now since they are married that is now officially her daughter. No matter how much a over weight person that big tries to embrace their weight it's still unhealthy and will lead to death. If he is truly in love with her and something happens to her he is going to be devastated. Who do you think is going to be there for support his mother and friends. So before things get to bad they are trying to stop it.
She holding her flowers just swinging it around .. SHE has no class
They had the right to do so, that's what freedom of speech is. I don't really think they were coming from a malicious place, her weight is a legitimate cause for concern. However, I do agree with you. They should have brought it up at another time and let them enjoy their wedding day.
Some people don’t know how to be happy for other people.
I didn't know the lorax became a pastor after all his trees died
This comment though 😭😭😂😂😂
10/10
😂💀👏
😹😹😹😹😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This comment took me out faster than I take myself out on trash day
What was the guy's BF saying, "someone so secluded"? Dude, just say what you really mean.
And I get the mom is trying to care, but its the girl's wedding day. Like leave it alone OMG. If someone wanted to talk about my weight on my wedding day, I'd be pissed. Tell me I'm beautiful cause I'm putting money into this day to look good for my man OK👌 groom is a sweetheart for defending his wife!
For real, I understand talking to them about his wife possibly getting the surgery if she wants to, but on their wedding day?! Wtf!
I was thinking the same thing. But then remembered it was a reality TV show and she was probably prompted to do that for "entertainment" or for filming on the day 🙄
Thank you thank you thank you
She’s gorgeous and they are perfect together
Groom: "a lot of negativity"
Camera Man: Pans over to Groom's best friend
Worse Girlfriend I caught that too 😂😂😂 LOL
did him dirty 🤣
Thats something the editor did by the way!
LMFAOOOOO i was dead
Marlene Canales more like accurate lmao
Is no one going to mention Chris’s best friend saying that he thinks their only gonna stay together for 3 years and the mom is a little rude
Amelia World That was so fucked up
The mom was just being a mom i dont think she was being rude
Amelia World right?!?
Chris strikes me as a little sweet, his friend comes off as the bitter side piece, I hope she's not a beard...
ml I thought the best friend was in love with Chris. I don't get gay from Chris... maybe the best friend was hoping
The groom is so handsome, well done girl!!
That’s what I’m saying! I can’t get a date and I’m slim. What am I doing wrong?! Fml...
@@queensheeba7750 you are judgmental, that's what
@@belle3055 never judged anyone nor would I. Get a life.
omg how he looks at the reverend when she is walking to the aisle *-*
The best friend is jealous because he’s in love with Chris
You all got lots of imagination! 😄
@Question Everything Beard? She's his mountain
Yessss she is .
HAHAHAHHAHA good one
I firmly agree with you.
Honestly, shes at a weight that she doesnt have to do crazy exercise to lose weight. Romantic walks with her husband every morning is perfect for her.
From a formerly morbidly obese chick...I can guarantee you that it’s 90% a food issue that she has. People assume that obese people are just lazy and don’t want to exercise and hitting the gym would solve our problems. Though exercise could help when it comes to simply overweight people....usually when people are obese or morbidly obese; exercise would hardly make a dent in the amount of excess calories they’re consuming unless they’re doing it several hours every day. (Which could be easier for thin folks to hop on a treadmill to do after they have a cheat day or a after a weekend eating a lot of excess calories etc...but when regular every day tasks are so difficult for morbidly obese people, that isn’t at all likely/plausible an option...so the excess fat just adds up and continues doing so)
@@twdjt6245 gym it's not always a way but if there work together and walks every morning and night it be good
Are you being stupid. A walk at night or morning won't do nearly enough. She has a long way to go. And THAT is not a bad thing. Don't romantasize it or you'll give false expectations.
@@renfriliddell8551 but it's a good start
Friend Ship of course yes. But how they worded it was wrong
Im happy for her and so proud of him he wanted to love and protect her.
The way he looks at her❤️
they met on a fat fetish website, so I can see why his best friend has his doubts
Yea i can see how he def has a fetish
Where does it say that they met in such website?
why do you think his mom asked him if he'd be okay with her losing weight and having surgery. Cause he has a fat fetish and likes BIG girls.
What?!?!? You get those??? Are you telling me I have been eating healthy for no reason???
She seems like the better person in the relationship, they both are sweet though
“I’m worried I’m just gonna eat it”. Definitely should of used a different phrase
She gonna eat the whole cake is what she meant
😂😂😂
@@funny_dmv5107 she gon eat the whole ass groom
OM to the G!!
Lmmfao😂😂😂😂😂
damn- he’s 100p a feeder. look out for ur health guys! don’t let anyone manipulate u to put your health at risk in any way.
"i have a slight fear iam gunna eat it"
poor wording
Chris’s Best friend: “I give it 3 years.....”
SAVAGE
Well she won't be alive in 3 years if she keeps that weight so...
【ɐpɐɹıP ɐuɐʇıdɐC】 Very True. She is morbidly obese. Her husband has a fetish and is a “chubby chaser” and only is attracted to her because she’s so overweight. I guarantee he doesn’t want her to lose weight nor will he support her in doing so. Such a sad & pathetic situation.
I respect that he’s tryna collect that life insurance tho 3 years chasing that bag
Colossal snail I honestly think that they both are suffering from mental health issues. She is addicted to food and is self medicating most likely to attempt to heal her depression, and he is addicted to obese women most likely to compensate from a previous relationship where he was cheated on or made to feel inadequate and insecure. By being with morbidly obese women he feels safe knowing that they are so “grateful” to be with him - that they won’t cheat and will worship the ground that he walks on. They both need professional mental health care as they BOTH most likely are suffering from some deep rooted issues and low self esteem is just the tip of the iceberg so to speak.
Kate White oh for sure
Love can come in all shapes, color, sizes, races and ages.
Good for them!
hey ya you are right 💗💝... everybody deserves love 💗
Yes❣️
So true! There's so much unnecessary judgememt & negatively towards things ppl don't agree with or simply don't understand. Every kind hearted, good human being deserves to be loved. I'm glad they found eachother
hey ya not all ages
Age, and race are not a choice. Size is a decision
Cris is so handsome and accepting of how she looks,god bless them
Bro this quarantine got me watching literally anything
So awesome that he kindly asked mom to back off yet still stood up for his wife and his marriage.
her fiancé is so supportive
Those stairs are the real mvp
oh look how he gets excited just as soon as she comes out. so cute!
Awww mum is really caring. Her input was kind and respectful.
So is no one gonna talk about how his bestfriend is toxic and seems like he is in love with him? Lol is it just me? Or?
Nope not you 😂
Voice your concerns in private one time, then hold your peace, go to the wedding, smile and support! Anything else is toxic! I also think it’s so ignorant to think that someone couldn’t possibly be attracted to fat people!
Natalie Ruiz girl I thought it was just me
@@juliawincentsoprano5744 Well I hate that people don't get he's gay. Its very obvious and thats OK. They have what they have. But his friend is gay and you can see the frustration with him. Its all so dysfunctional. BTW they aren't having sex... he couldn't find it if he did want it. Just keeping it real.
WHY NOT? I feel like the husband is gay also
I’m sorry but I imagined MYSELF just falling down the stairs on my wedding day and started laughing.
I would definitely trip and fall down the aisle on my wedding day😂
Me too 😂🤸🏾♀️
I was terrified I was going to fall on the red carpet thing at my wedding. I’m clumsy anyway and if my shoe hit wrong, I’d be face down in the carpet
You can tell that they are so in love and it’s so beautiful
He's so incredibly sweet I'd love to have someone like that in my life one day Chris's best friend is really toxic smh
Just the opposite.
I hope she can lose weight for her own health, may god help her doing so
dear my soul agreed 🙌
Yup, she seems like a sweetheart.we need an update.
If they want children she has to lose weight.
*God
Yes🤗, so they can also have kids. I wish them nothing but blessings 🙏🏻💜
The minister's mustache... I have questions. lol
I seen a guy on the bus with his mustache like that give me the creeps I thought it was ugly
Lmao
Von Bismark all over again!
I think its rather majestic.
@@foreverchained9070 that's one mighty kweel stash
Why are people so scared to tell the truth.... she needs help it's "eat to live NOT live to eat!!! It's very sad that she would not get help being so big, he should help her to make there life better for both..
You can tell he loves her!! Awwwwww congrats ❤️❤️❤️
That “best friend” doesn’t seem like a very good friend.. he’s very superficial. Clearly he loves her & she loves him. LET IT BE.
Anyone else notice when Chris said there's a lot of judgment the camera framed back to his best friend?
The editing team is calling him OUT
Halooo.call me just..i like fatte
I like to meet you mail:
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Judgment and negativity
yes i noticed
he self said so and the look on his face couldn't be anymore accurate
Wow this man is handsome like a movie star. It’s so nice to see someone who looks like him with a woman who is overweight.
It would be interesting to have an update 10 years after their marriage. Would like to see how they changed in the growth of their marriage and what changes they made along the way.
She'll be dead. And he'll be rich.
Who else binges on TLC durring quarantine
Looks like Chris’s best friend wants to be marrying Chris. Hater
Ciera Howell haaaaaa yep
Well of course!!! And everyone knows it.
Nah I think he was just skeptical about him being into her cuz you know ..she fat
Hate those types of guys. We have all known one...!
Ciera Howell
He’s toxic af.
I love it that he sees his mothers meddling, and still chooses his wife ❤😊
Why in the world would the mama have this conversation kn their wedding day!!! Smh..he is obviously happy and loves her, smh.
Why do I get the impression that this guy is one of those 'feeders'...
Hannah Almond because he is. He met her on a fat fetish website.
His mom also literally says, “I know you’re attracted to girls like that...” he’s not hiding the fact he’s a feeder.
GROSS
@@jej.claess269 Did you catch what his mom said, that she had bypass surgery so she must have been morbidly obese at one time. I think this guy has a mommy fetish.
Wth is a feeder????
His best friend’s comment may seem mean, but remember he knows things about their relationship that we don’t know.
These 2 are the kind of friends I wish for.
I sweep😂 when they were saying their vows. God bless these couple.
Whoever sits in his house and watches the video because he is obliged not to go out or the so-called quarantine
No i'm actualty in my lunch break....yes no quarantine for us British
@@judgeint don't say that my friend, prevention is better than cure
Why did you describe what I’m doing...
Meryem Sanhaji but they don’t have a cure 😂
Me too
My initial thoughts was he's a feeder.
Surely he is
I have seen enough videos on TH-cam, that show these dudes are fetishists. I feel bad for these women who struggle with their weight, the last thing they need is an enabler.
hold up-
No doubt...
@@residentjess what doesnt help is that the women are indenial and love the attention
that hesitation after the mom asked what he'd do if she loses weight
Reverend Jim is killing it with that mustache!
No one should be okay with being this big. I’m not hating but she should want to be smaller for HERSELF, and her partner / husband. It just isn’t easy to be that big every day. And it isn’t healthy.
I dont think you are hating, you are just speaking the truth. It is super unhealthy, and if he really loved her, he would want the best for her too.
Let's not even start on the health issues that can arise from having overweight issues.
Ya her weight was part of his initial atttaction....i dont believe he wont feel some type of way if she loses weight.
Maybe you should watch the show then she talks about long weight lmao
Why is her weight any of your business?
Have you ever click on a video only to scroll through comments 🤗🤗
All. The. Time. Gives you a good feel for what's going down
I'd be scared to walk down those steps too with a wedding dress!
This man has genuine heart! Where to find this guy.
Omg the groom's face when she walked herself down the aisle. Like, how do you get that lucky! 😢💛
She must have good karma from her past life. She seems like a lovely person and maybe she was in her past life too
I get the feeling that he is a feeder so he loves the way she looks
@@SieMiezekatze He'd have to be and that is NOT caring about someone. You shorten their life because of your fetish.
Right! I think though there is some clue to it when his mama said she had bariatric surgery! It's like freud said men just want their mama's!!
@@sarahbell3038 shut up.
What a lovely husband to help her….true love ❤️
Regardless of anything, Everybody deserves happiness.
She needs motivation and support to make some changes in her life!! Love her personality!
Harbor Anthem yeah I’ve seen so many videos where the man wants to feed his woman more food cause they want their girl to be bigger
What a gorgeous guy an bless her she looks so happy
TLC producers 100% chose this walkway on purpose.
Her makeup is so wonderful omg
The reverend moustache is everything
Is no one else gonna say how excited he got when she started to come he had a little giggle of excitement and everything like they were so excited saying their vows that’s true love right there
A beautiful love not based on superficial appearance's. I hope they will always share this mutual love genuine feelings for one another as they journey through life together.
That moustache is the star of the show.
i love how supportive her husband is, i hope i can find someone like that one day...happy for both of them :)
her personality is beautiful how strong she stays when everyone is so mean to her shes still positive with the right people in her life she will be able to lose the weight quit ragging on her
“seeing joy walk down the isle took my breath away” it also took her breath away
RESPECT!!!! This made my eyes tear up.
Meanwhile I'm fit and healthy and I can't even get a text back. Lmfaooo
it's sometimes about the personality,, i guess
Dude, same... 🥺
Because you're ugly
Cassie Best Ever! Dont worry! You are great, you will find the perfect match
Haha girl it’s better to have to real love and you will find it. It’s a matter of time. But love based on fetichism? That’s depressing, I really hope this is not the case for this couple.
His mom was just concerned about her health. Sure, maybe she shouldn't have mentioned it on their wedding night, but if he loves her he should want the best for her health, too.
U cant accept someone that you love, being so unhealty!
I'm going straight to hell for my thoughts. I will just say this. If your hands can't touch in front of you, you can't walk a few steps without panting, you have no idea If you have the same shoes on. YOU NEED HELP!
Did you hear her when she blamed her dress for being so big that she can’t see her feet? I’m thinking she can’t see her feet no matter what she has on. And at the beginning she was talking about being afraid she was “going to eat it” going down the isle. I thought to myself “I don’t think she’s afraid of eating anything “. I’m going to hell. I feel bad
Respect for everyone who is struggling with weight issues. I went from 650 lbs to 200 and have maintained it for 10 years now! Thanks to Dr. Kumar for helping me in my journey!
Damn! Good for you! Dropping all that weight is difficult but I imagine the REAL struggle is keeping it off & maintaining a healthy lifestyle for the rest of your life. That takes a lot of discipline💯
Congrats
U dropped this I think: 👑👑
@mad Rascal He has passed
Wow, kudos to you! I've been on weight watchers for almost a year. I have lost about 15 % of my original weight and I feel really good. I am still in the obese catagory but I have learned to focus on feeling healthy rather than the numbers on the scale. It took me many years to commit to eating better because I didn't want people to judge me if I tried to diet and failed.