She works as a long term care nurse... People in long term care often need diapers for incontinence. If she doesn't believe in changing urine-filled diapers on her own child, what does that tell you about the potential treatment of the patients under her care, who also maybe can't speak up? I'm concerned for everyone all around.
I’m sure she does change urine FILLED diapers, she just said she doesn’t change diapers every time they pee. Babies can pee many times before a diaper is full and uncomfortable. Adults are different, we pee a lot.
@@galuxius1861 that’s true, it can, and for those children you use cream and change them more frequently. Children that don’t have as sensitive of a diaper area can stand to go 2-3 hours before a change. Babies pee a tiny bit like every 30 min, they will pee many times before a diaper is full and needs a change.
@aves3901 I can promise you doctors don't fucking agree. Letting a child sit on their mess for multiple hours is abusive. You doing it to your kid doesn't make it okay.
Hey I'm a cna who works with long term care nurses. They are not the ones doing the resident breif changes sjfhshhehrjjd and (on average) they will do everything in their power to avoid helping with 2 assist changes- (I've been doing this for 7 years its an unfortunate pattern)
The other thing with the $35 dollar jacket, is yeah THAT kid might only be able to wear it for a season, but he does have a younger brother who will be able to wear it in a year or so, which drops the price per kid
@@Nike-gs8igI grew up in the 60s, and until we were probably 12, my mom bought gender neutral everyday clothes that were passed along from me to my sister then to my brother. Shorts/jeans and a tee shirt are shorts/jeans and a tee shirt. They were bright primary colors in solids and stripes. Mix and match. Until puberty, boys and girls bodies are shaped pretty much the same. We really only got our own underwear. For dress-up, we had one or two nice outfits that weren't hand-me-downs.
there is nothing wrong with hand me down clothes and it needs to be more normalized. i got hand me downs from my friends as a kid, due to me always being small for my age and so i was the size of a kid a year or two younger than me. my family wasnt even poor and i never questioned it, i was actually so excited to get my friend's old clothes because i thought she was cool. shes dead now :(
i like how shes like "i dont have a diaper genie so i just leave them lying around" have you ever heard of a trash can?? hello?? imagine what that house smells like.
I have a plastic bin w/flip lid from IKEA that I use for kitchen waste that's going into the compost. It cost me less than $5 and is sturdy and easy to clean, perfect for diapers
I use the cat Litter plastic Container that my cats Litter come: in. Has a lid and I have them in my bedroom bathroom and living room. Free and easy makes way more sense than floor diapers
I tossed the diaper genie cause my dog LOVES trashcans that are a challenge to open (have a button) Not a fan of diapers strewn across the living room... picking up diapers is really easy. I've picked up plenty, you just do it. Poodle are great.
I do know religious parents who are very kind and supportive of their kids. My family is atheist but good friends with a Baptist family who have only taken the best teachings of Christ as lessons. But that’s not to invalidate what you said because it’s very much an institutional issue. Big Christian churches enable this sort of behaviour. LDS is especially awful. If you were to speak up you’d most likely be exocommunicated even if you are a devout believer because the organisations are rotten all the way up. It’s awful.
It depends, sometimes young children are on a different meal schedule, but at least make sure your child is fed their meals. Making them skip lunch because "we don't skip naptime" (probably because she wants time to herself) is completely unacceptable.
Even if he already ate you should give him something too if he asks, my child will eat or even refuse food if he sees me eating or his dad eating hell have a fit and I'll have to offer him something himself
@@ville-c4u Bro, how have you been posting “no one cares/who asked” on every comment of this video for a whole ass hour? Why are you literally butthurt and defensive over a negligent mother? Projecting much?
my dad used to get food when me and my bro wouldn't notice. He would use an excuse like we weren't paying attention or something. It was so he never had to pay to feed us and would return us to our mom hungry. She got so mad at him each time and eventually the court ordered he would get in trouble if he did it again.
It's the locking her toddler in their room at night that really upsets me. I have a child with special needs. When they were a toddler, we had to lock them in their room at night due to some serious safety issues. I called the fire department and they came over to help me set up all kinds of stuff so that I could keep my kid safe from the danger they posed to themself without introducing more dangers because they were essentially a prisoner in their room at night. They were so helpful and had thought through a bunch of potential safety issues I hadn't even considered. They set us up with special locks, a camera and intercom. They also helped me with a lot of the things around the house that were potentially dangerous as well. I absolutely did not want to have to lock my child in their room and wouldn't if it had been possible to make my home safe for them any other way. Our pediatrician and the firefighters all agreed it was the best option and we worked together to make everything as safe as possible but I still felt literally sick every night when I locked that door. I do not understand anyone who would do that if they didn't have to. My kid is doing much better now and one of my favorite things is when I wake up in the middle of the night because they left their room for some reason and decided to crawl into my bed for a snuggle instead of going right back to sleep. This woman's kids deserve better.
Anyone else remember the stickers for firefighters on them and said " tot finder"? It used to be a great idea but I imagine people are rightly afraid to identify the rooms their children sleep in these days
I have watched a few people talk about her, and now I can see why there was probably such a high charge on her credit card. She spent $1500 on golf clubs for her husband, but couldn't afford the $35 dollar jacket for her child. It's obvious where their priorities lie in that house.
I thought it was that her husband spent $1500 on hunting gear… she didn’t spend another $1500 dollars on unnecessary stuff, did they?? I hope I just heard wrong and got it mixed up 😭
@ yeah, exactly 😭 and in the same video she made revealing that he spent that 1500 dollars, after she added up every expense of the stuff they were doing, it equaled 500+ dollars in debt… and she looked so annoyed. Like, how about you tell your husband not to waste 1500 dollars on hunting gear!?
my parents used to mock my emotions as a kid and used to laugh at me when i was to cry and still to this day they are the people i feel most uncomfortable about and will never share anything to them , that mom is basically telling her kid to bottle up his emotions and keep secrets from his mom constantly u will NEVER have a healthy relationship with ur kid if u do that
My dad did this to me and now I have horrible emotional regulation and cannot explain how I'm feeling or why.. I just bottle everything up until I explode..
after a certain age (probably 10-11 or so) my parents did kinda the same thing. whenever i'd cry (which happened a lot because i was very very sensitive) and they didn't think i had a 'good reason', my dad would get frustrated and angry and sometimes yelled at me, and my mom would just laugh at me. i love my parents, i do, but this is the reason i never share much with them other than basic things.
Yup. My dad screamed at me whenever I was upset. I cant open up to either of my parents now and don't even like crying in front of them. It makes me super uncomfortable. Like honestly being upset in front of them makes my skin crawl
This is why society really needs to destigmatize being childfree, especially childfree-by-choice. Not everyone is fit to be a parent nor wants to be a parent, and that's 100% OK and good in its own right.
as someone who would love to have children one day, I fully support people just not having kids. I love children but they're a ton of work, and I'm saying this from an outsiders perspective! I also believe this needs to happen along with people recognizing children as human beings and not just extensions/property of their parents. Sure, they aren't able to live independently, but children still deserve basic respect.
100%, but I wonder if it's more a religious thing than them wanting or not wanting the children. I dont know much about mormons, but if they donate so much money to the church alone, I wouldn't be surprised if they had children just for the religions sake, and being against any form of contraceptives.
@@mackereltabbie i found a post on reddit explaining mormons' point of view about kids, and apparently marrying is the only way for young people to have sex (it's forbidden before marriage and treated more strictly than, e.g., christianity), the kids are uneducated about sex life, and religious leaders actively encourages young couples to have a lot of kids. It's not the matter "if you want to have kids, have them", it's more like "you HAVE TO have lots of kids to be a good mormon and serve god, no matter if you want to be a parent".
They're Mormon, as someone who was also raised Mormon they are highly HIGHLY encouraged to have babies as young and quickly as possible. I knew women in the church who were pregnant every year for 10-15 years. Women are cattle to them.
I remember seeing a video about the mean girl to nurse pipeline, and this really proves it. I also had a “friend” who bullied me and my friend group in middle school who, surprise surprise, is now going to medical school and is still a bad person. It’s crazy 😭
As a chronically ill person, I spend a lot of time in hospitals and clinics as a patient. I con confirm this is very true. One time when I was hospitalized I had one of the most amazing nurses. She was so kind and helped me get through the day. However, one time when I needed surgery, I had a nurse that was so mean. IDK what her problem was but she was extremely rude and seemed mad at me the whole time I was there. This was also at the height of the pandemic and she didn’t wear her mask correctly 🙃🙃
As someone who had both parents RNs, I can confirm. My dad was a “let’s have wheelchair races to boost morale in the cancer ward” type of nurse, while my mom was a “I enjoy knowing I decide how long people stay alive” kinda nurse.
That "mean girl to nurse pipeline" is so true. Because there are the ones who go in genuinely wanting to help, and others who do it for money or reputation or another egotistical reason when the crux of the job is to be empathetic and help others.
My dad used to mock me when I cried because he thought I was faking it. It never failed to make me cry more. I still remember how humiliating and upsetting it was
Yo, is that the reason why I don't completely trust some adults in my life? Used to carry on about the "wahmbulence" when I would cry sometimes. I, damn
My mother once told me to “quit pretending to have emotions”. To this day I can’t even cry in my own home in front of my husband bc I had it so drilled into me that showing emotions, ESPECIALLY CRYING, would be met with berating and punishment. I know it’s not like he’s gonna hurt or even judge me, but that childhood primal fear really sticks with you…
The tantrum part makes me so uncomfortable. (Ofc everything in this video makes me uncomfortable). But toddlers throw tantrums when they have emotions they don’t know what to do with. And from the video it rly seems like he just can’t get any of his feelings across and just gets more and more frustrated and hurt
It is actually a technic that parents do not involve the emotion but provide a safe space for their kids came from a shared emotion. However, she should be much more close to shield for that technic and I think it is not usable for this age group. I am a bit happy that this mum is on TikTok tho, I think those videos will be proofs of child neglect when their kids will sue them in the future.
the video of them mocking the child for crying was so triggering cuz that's what my family was doing to me all the time, and it's the reason i am so afraid of showing emotions in front of people and ever talking about how i feel even with my therapist, im basically locked away from my emotions until im in my room all by myself for most of the time, and it also makes it so im afraid of ever advocating for myself because I feel like showing people that I care fr literally anything make me look like a fool and that I won't ever be taken seriously and it's ruining my life.
Yea watching that brought back a memory Ig I repressed because wow that was really traumatizing having my step-dad scream cry in me and my siblings faces when we would cry. I hope we can both grow away from those terrible experiences. We deserve better. Take care of yourself! ❤
I’m so sorry you’ve had such an awful experience, and I seriously hope you’re doing better and that you’ll feel comfortable expressing yourself in the future. These parents should have never been parents
most people do not make anywhere *near* $70 an hour. I’m a grad student, so I make roughly 18/hour from my stipend. That’s not a lot. But it’s better than some, because I can afford to live where I do. Though I do struggle with money at times. Retail places usually pay much less. 15 an hour is becoming more common, but it’s still not universal. And at a lot of retail places, you won’t get enough hours to make as much as you should. Sure having a college degree helps, but most people don’t make over 100k a year… especially not starting out. Nurses don’t typically make that much either, my moms a nurse and she does not earn that much money per year, and she’s been a nurse a long time.
It's well over double what I get in a month. Closer to triple, actually. She's also American and I'm Canadian, so with the conversion it's actually 4x my monthly income in a single week.
Idk how they can laugh at their child having a tantrum, I literally started panicking the longer I heard him cry cause I just wanted to comfort him. That video literally shattered my heart, that poor boy deserves so much better!
Also the way she just dumps the baby bc her husband won’t take him- like WTF?? Anytime I hold a baby I can’t help but feel how delicate they are and feel the need to be extra careful. Like how does she not? Especially being a trained medical professional
@@mackereltabbieEmpathy is not the problem. A person with low to no empathy can still care about another person. It's compassion. Hannah blatantly lacks it since we see her not even care if her children eat. Hell, she doesn't even seem to like her husband and only does stuff if it conveniences her in some way like the birthday sandwich.
If they are too broke to buy the child a meal or a…coat :( Why are they tithing so much? It’s as if she sees herself as relatable-but has no idea that she sounds completely ignorant and is behaving neglectfully.
I feel sick to my stomach watching this. As a nurse and a mother I would throw myself in front of a bus or go without for my child. I cannot even fathom eating if my child was hungry. My kids eat before me. At work, my patients are taken care of before I go to lunch. I am nauseous. People make my blood boil
I'm not a mother, but I'd do the same for my nephew and little infant niece. I'd absolutely give my life to protect them, and they aren't my kids even. That woman not being able to do the same when she has kids herself is horrifying
"Do you know how expensive diapers are?" Do you know how expensive it is to care for a kid? Of course you know, you have two of them, why would you have another kid if you can't afford diapers? Even if it was an accident or forced on you, can't you ask for help from people to buy diapers?
Given she's Mormon, might be religious based. I don't have exact specifics on each one, but a lot of more right leaning religious organisations tend to emphasis having more kids, rather than having happy kids.
7:02 if she is actually a nurse, I'm so fucking scared for her patients. I don't even wanna think about the wounds they could have if she has this mentality with her own damn kids. Our skin is not meant to touch pee and poop, and it will break down and get painful sores. That's why diaper rash is a thing! That's day fucking one of nursing school
The thing that upsets me the most as a survivor of child abuse, is that in this day and age this stuff is online forever. I feel so sad for these babies and the idea that they are going to grow up and see all of this. Thinking about my parents putting my abuse on tiktok and profiting from it, and having to see it everywhere and reading everybody's opinions about it, that's mortifying.
Okay, about the Mormon Church money thing: As an ex-Mormon, they mandate that 10% tithing. It goes pretty deep, but basically they don’t care how broke you are, if you don’t donate 10% then you’re not a worthy member and you lose the ability to go to the temple (like an elevated church-type of building that is not open to the public). Honestly, you should do a video on the Mormon church and ex-mo content creators, that shit is craaaaazyyyy
Yep, and by tithing logic, if you are struggling financially and aren't prioritizing staying current with your tithe payments, you deserve the poverty that prevents you from being able to tithe...it's a truly messed up system of manipulation, especially considering Jesus's views on combining faith and money. That religious organization will literally deny needy families access to their food pantry and other supports unless you've paid them their "rightful due" and can prove beyond a shadow of doubt that you absolutely need the help. No exaggeration - they do home inspections to ensure there isn't food in the house before they will engage in acts of charity to those who have paid to maintain their membership to the club. And it does not matter how much of your life that you've dedicated to the temple, if you aren't paying your 10%, you just aren't worthy.
Except her family is very well off she’s not broke she’s rich. I’ve only seen one person talk about it but she lived in a mansion as a kid. But I do agree Mormon and other similar religions are absolutely crazy. A well known church near me pays for everything so they don’t pay taxes they have to pay it back but it can take them however long they need crazy.
as a mom of a toddler, it's WILD she won't buy a coat for her kid. I will always spend money on my kid before myself. and when I eat, she eats (unless she's actively sleeping but she eats when she wakes). if I buy a treat for myself, she gets one too. or we share one. like does she hate her children??? also I get stuff like winter coats and shoes are quickly grown out of, but that's why you can buy second hand. and often they're in really good condition because other families donate or resell after only a year of use. and she can keep all the clothes she buys for her toddler to use again when her newborn grows into it. like I grew up in a family of 9 kids and 1 income (1 parent worked full/overtime & the other stayed home with us) and they still managed to keep us fed and clothed. it's possible, can be hard but you chose to have kids, you have to take care of them
yeah i got my older siblings clothes, my mums friends kids old clothes, random clothes from women at my church etc. i know that i was lucky but like?? if she bought it second hand she could also use it for her other kid and get even more use out of it!
My dad and step mom used to do the eating thing with me and my sister. Like they would order food for themselves and our step sibling but when we would ask to have something they qould ask of our mom was gonna pay or they would say that we will eat when we get back to our moms house. Lets just say that when my mom found out the cops had to be called.
Even if you don't have a diaper pail, why don't you have a normal garbage can??? Just keep one in the changing room and toss it at the end of the day??? Bruh Lmao Kiwi said the same thing ☠️
Exactly. My friend has mobility issues and a very active one year old. She just immediately throws away dirty diapers in a trashcan. How is it hard to throw then away right away? Why leave them?
I just don't understand how they're all over the place. Who just has a diaper on hand and changes a baby in random spots all over the house? Like in the middle of a hallway and next to the bedroom closet. I would have to go get a diaper so it would be easier to carry the baby to the changing station. I'm by no means perfect and have forgotten a diaper next to the changing pad a few times before, but it seems more like she saved and scattered those all over for content. 🤔
@@PandoraBear357 it feels like she just doesn't care. Just left them wherever she charged them and walked away. She also has videos where she openly admits to not feeding her child and he flinches when she's gets near him. It's not a healthy household or very well crafted rage bait. Either way, she should be kicked off the platform
Not a parent, but I’ve watched babies and changed a few diapers. Can confirm, it’s not that hard to toss one in some form of a container when you’re done.
There is no way in hell that the cheapest toddler jacket she could find in Walmart was $35. That did not happen. She found the most expensive one in the store made a fuss about not paying that much for it and then left without buying a jacket to justify not buying one. I shop at Walmart all the time and I can guarantee that a jacket that costs like 17 dollars is 5 feet away from her. This is a woman who just straight up thinks her child is not worth spending money on, and needs to find ways to justify it. Also the idea that your church tithing is more important than your son having a jacket is nuts.
Why... just why would she leave dirty nappies strewn about everywhere? Why doesn't she just... throw them away after changing them like a normal person? Why the hell would she put this online??? And then go all surprised Pikachu face when people call her out??? SHE'S A NURSE????? Edit: why is she lowkey starving her kid?!
This is my biggest thing like.... I'm not trying to knock a parent with a messy house, taking care of two little ones is a full time gig. But she has trash BAGS, even if she doesn't have a trash can you could have a bag hanging in each room to toss them in. And WHY POST IT ONLINE
I've seen a few videos on this but this is the first time I saw that one where they were mocking their kid's tantrum. That was horrifying. The poor child doesn't know what's going on or how to process his own emotions. Bullying him like that is crazy...
35:51 I genuinely started crying at that because that’s the type of thing my mom did when I cried. It wasn’t to that degree of mockery but her response to me crying was either making fun of me because I apparently “looked cute when I cried” or getting mad that I was crying over something she thought was stupid and generally being dismissive about it.
the fact that shes still paying tithing is telling. I used to be a member (mostly just inactive rn) but the way shes claiming shes struggling means she should be receiving help from the church. that's a good reason why tithing is there. she technically should still be paying tithing but she should then also be getting extra food and supplies (aka DIAPERS) for free from the church. thats what- tithing is for. so she has zero excuse to not be feeding her child the way she is right now. theres also always a big storehouse for food for members of the church and you don't even have to tell anyone. you can just. go and get food
"not biting hard" is also subjective. if i slightly pinch myself, its an inconvenience but nothing id fuzz over. but if i slightly pinch a young kid, theyd probably cry. what may not be hard for the mom could've still been enough to traumatize a kid. same as that their behavior will only be reinforced, which could get them into more (dangerous) trouble if they grow up and don't unlearn that, same as that if the behavior gets reinforced, the circle of abuse never ends since the parents will only take it as another reason to hurt the kid
Countless parents throughout the world and throughout history have eaten less so that their kids could have a fuller belly. This woman and her husband are doing the complete opposite and it's absurd! If you can't even afford to feed your one kid, why do you have two!? Editing to say: This woman makes in a week more than I do in a month. (Or has the potential to? I'm really not sure because she says she gets paid weekly, but also only picks up 5-6 shifts a month? I dunno. My point is she at least has the POTENTIAL to make more.) Now I don't have kids, but I cannot IMAGINE a world where +4x my paycheck is "too little" to buy my toddler kid a happy meal or a $35 jacket from walmart.
even though me parents were horrible in other ways, they ALWAYS made sure we had food. much more than they had because we were GROWING. these kids are going to be stunted if these parents keep withholding food from them, which btw, is abuse.
The fliinching thing made my heart break. Because I know that flinch, I still flinch like that to things. The only things I don't flinch at? My brother and his partners, I know they wouldn't intentionally hurt me so I don't flinch. But most people? I throw my hands up and yelp, because whenever I yelped like an animal, my "father" would hesitate the tiniest bit sometimes, he's where I got the habit of flinching and yelping out of fright from
These poor kids are going to have so many issues later on not being provided food and basic needs having parents tell you can’t eat because they are messy being ignored when you ask for food will mess you up mentally same with the parents complaining about how much you cost being constantly told you cost to much or your things cost to much is so harmful. The older kid especially will grow up thinking they don’t deserve things they will learn to stop asking for things and might start hiding food or other things out of fear of not having it later
I can vouch for the negative influence of being told “you’re so expensive”, even when it’s delivered as a “joke” and especially when it’s paired with other denials of needs. it takes me at minimum a few HOURS to build up to asking for anything, even if there’s no monetary value attached to it bc I’m so afraid of being a burden to others by [checks notes] having basic needs and wants. it took me 3 days to ask a friend to play a game with me because I was scared they’d laugh at me or smth or call me needy/annoying.
@ same I was constantly going into hospital as a kid and being told I can’t have something because I’m already expensive because of that has made me struggle to ask for anything even small
10:10 Wait I had to pause here and read the caption properly - "post 12 hour shift and post CARNIVORE DIET dinner and why I don't get maternity leave" There's just so many things wrong here on so many levels. 12hr shifts just suck period, esp you're a healthcare worker. No maternity leave is also crazy. She (or her husband idk) was on the carnivore diet. AND no food for the child. This is just madness
she's legit at risk for losing her nursing license she's admitted it herself on her own page. she doesn't believe in human decency someone please stop this monster. how many times have we seen those with any amount of power just grind the vulnerable into their graves? there are sociopathic nurses out there, we have countless extreme examples...
Wonder if she mocks her patients who're in pain, the same way she mocks her kid when he's upset? Doubley criminal given they're probably in pain with the pressure ulcers and moisture lesions from her shoddy care.
These videos that you make about bad parents are what made me realize my dad is kinda toxic and my mom is a lot better of a parent than I thought she was, but they're also just very entertaining
the messy eating in the car is so incredibly ridiculous. first of all, toddlers are still actively learning how to eat so of course they're gonna be messy. secondly, if you have a kid you're basically saying goodbye to fully clean spaces. i'm a teenager but i have younger siblings, grew up with younger cousins, and actively see three young kid cousins now. my uncles' and aunts' cars always have a stray peanut or something in them because they have young kids. it's just a part of being a parent
Watching this I'm like 'Oh my god that's horrible' but then the tantrum mocking showed up and I suddenly was reminded of my parents... I remember them mimicking me or shutting down whenever I showed strong emotion. I used to thins it was normal but seeing this as well as other things is making me go 'Wow... That is not okay at all'
I get my kids winter jackets at yard sales in the summer for cheap. Plus places like Carter's has crazy sales where you can get coats for a 2 yo for much less than $35. Just can't fathom. At least bundle that kid up in every sweater you do have
The charity shop in my town just straight up gives away winter coats. Others that aren't huge chains like Goodwill can sell them for under $5. Assuming somebody can make it to such stores, there's no excuse for a child to be cold.
The fact that she is a nurse and doing this to her children is terrifying. She needs to be reported to CPS as well as her boss needs to be informed that she is putting her children in an unsafe environment. If she didn't want to worry about dirty dipers or taking care of the needs of a child, she shouldn't have had any. To me, it comes off as her treating her kids as items she has to show off instead of people she brought into this world & needs to look after their well-being & safety until they're old enough to take care of themselves
Someone said she’s a nurse that takes care of elderly people who may not be able to advocate for themselves. They wear diapers and since she never changes her kids diapers, I can imagine she probably doesn’t change theirs either. I feel bad for both her kids and her patients. 😢
I used to get yelled at for flinching because I really was never hit… but I am very neurotic and the yelling itself always made my ears hurt badly. Edit 2: there’s a better method for teaching a baby not to bite, and it’s to overact how bad it hurts.
You know... The moment I learned that they are Mormon.... it suddenly explained everything about the kind of mother she is. And why she hates her child.
I used to have a friend who left dirty diapers laying around, along with rotten food and half finished sodas. Then she wondered why there were mice everywhere. She had the nerve to get mad when I called her out on it. Yeah, there's a reason she's an ex-friend.
@@hunterkat I feel you completely! That's kinda what I was thinking but didn't want to leave a long story lol. I have had chronic depression my entire life and things can get REALLY bad, but the idea of used diapers strewn around is wild! I don't want have any children anyways and that's kinda one of the reasons
Yeah suddenly the books, clothes and art supplies on my chairs and tables and some empty cardboard boxed I forgot to take to recycling when I took the trash out doesn't feel all that bad.
19:29 ex Mormon here to give a little more context twords her paying tithing especially if money is very tight, in the church they tell you that financial blessings will come if you pay tithing, if you don't pay tithing you literally aren't allowed to enter their holy temple, and you're told that even if it's all you have, you have to pay or you aren't a good enough mormon (compounded by the horrible environment specifically utah Mormons have its even more pressure to pay even when she really shouldnt) I grew up in the church and I personally don't blame her for still paying tithing while being an active member bc you are treated like you're going to hell for being human and not being a perfect mormon
Yikes that’s upsetting! That’s like prosperity gospel no? My church (non Mormon) did the 10% (or what you can offer ) on Sundays but they stressed that if your in a hard spot don’t do it! , you your seeking financial help don’t do it! Those who can do it to help the church , not to make everyone pay up just to be there .
@@Souls-at-zer0yeah my church is the same! only donate if you can and want to!! its not a rule to have to pay, wild bc the church is supposed to care for the poor like jesus did
he played at the park for two hours and youre not giving him lunch?? im going insane omg i did not expect this to be this bad. even this ladys face and the way she talks makes me mad. omfg.
She's got a full face of makeup but can't even spend 35$ on a jacket or ask around at work if any of the other moms have a spare jacket handed down from their kids.
Thank you for especially focusing on the tantrum and her response to it. My abusive father used to do this exact same thing to me through my early teens and it was so frustrating to have my feelings mocked. Going on my 10th year in therapy to undo the 13 years of abuse by him.
I’m not a parent but if I was in a situation where I was taking care of a kid I would ALWAYS feed the kid before myself no questions asked that is absolutely sick
35:23 OOOOOOFFFFF, the amount of ptsd this brought back for me. My aunt and uncle would do this exact thing to me SO MUCH when they'd literally make fun of me, and then mock me when I'd get genuinely upset about it. It's tainted my relationship and view on them to this day.
Rage baiting aside, I was incredulous how someone employed at a nurse could be so lacking in medical knowledge, such as feeding and nutrition, or basic sanitation. But then I remembered, there is rampant cheating going on in a lot of nursing schools. I'm a nursing student myself, and there are draconian anti-cheating measures in place for exams because apparently some students felt it would be easier to whip out their phones, share answers over a chat, or write the answers on their arms; as opposed actually studying or putting in the effort. My professors have caught students cheating, who were mere months away from graduating, and have had to kick them out of the program. I always wondered, even if you get away with it, what if you get into the job and find you don't know any of the skills? What then? Well, I guess you end up like this.
Sometimes when I grab fast food to eat somewhere that my kids don't like their food...I get mine then drive to their favorite place and get what they want. Once you have kids your life is about them.
What does she think a diaper pail is going to do it's not like it has feet and its going to go round picking up the diapers behind her. Also when she eventually change the two year old she could ask him to take the diaper to the bin toddlers love to help. The way they treat that poor baby around food is going to possibly end up with an eating disorder also constantly going on how much everything that poor baby's basic needs cost is possibly going to cause him to be afraid to ask for things that are necessities because he will be afraid it will mean someone in the family will have to go without. I know he's only 2 but even at that age they pick up so much they may not understand but it sticks cps needs to be called I'm not from America I'm from Northern Ireland so I don't know if there's anything I can do from here those poor poor babies x
I've never seen a parent grab a diaper from one location and then bring their kid to random locations all around the house to change them. She clearly doesn't have a central changing station, which likely means that she's having the kid bring her clean diapers and is changing them wherever she happens to be. Loads of parent do that, but what I don't get is why she isn't also asking the kid to throw away the dirty diaper if she isn't wanting to get up to change him?
About the asking the toddler to help thing, my sister will literally change herself if we prompt her, so I'm sure it's not that hard for a literal ADULT WHO'S RESPONSIBLE FOR CHILDREN????
I have 3 kids, 2 with ADHD and a 15 month old. I change nappies in one place and put a bin right there. It gets emptied when full. While you don't usually have to change a nappy literally every time they pee, as little babies usually pee small amounts very frequently, you keep a close eye on that. And even if it's just pee, you change it after 1.5 - 2 hours when it's full. It lasts longer as they get older and the bladder learns to hold it longer. But that usually means that you do have to change it as soon as they pee because it's going to leak otherwise. As for getting kids food, depends on the age. Once on solids it depends how much they tend to eat. Sharing off parents plate is perfectly reasonable if they don't eat a lot. But the kid should 100% be eating when you eat. Also, if you can't afford clothes for your kids new, get from second hand. Kids outgrow clothing so fast that second hand clothes for little kids is basically like new anyways.
Sharing with your kid instead of getting them their own is only okay if you're giving them enough to eat, and it can't be one bite of the bread from your sandwich. If you didn't want to share enough of your meal to fill them up, you need to get them their own meal. There's never an excuse to eat while they just sit and watch, and no nap is so important you skip lunch for it.
@pjaypender1009 I said it depends on age and appetite. Once my kids want about half my meal, they get their own. There are kids who would rather graze than eat large meals, my middle child was nearly 2.5 before he would eat enough in one sitting to qualify for his own meal. But I always have snacks available for him. My oldest was about 18 months when he got his own meals, and my youngest just started getting her own means at 15 months. The baby girl can pack it away 🤣.
My mum would go a whole winter in shoes that have literal holes in them if that meant I went in a nice winter coat, had a hat and gloves and winter boots. I understand that people struggle with money a lot but she's a nurse, she's the daughter of wealthy parents, she's also a manager of her husband's company, and she also gives 10% of her money to the church... for some reason??? But she can't pay for a fucking coat for her child? I thought children are the most important to the mormons? "I don't have any money..." Yes you fucking do. Yes you do, Hannah. You know who will be "blessed" with the hundreds of dollars you give to the church? The pastor or the person that runs your church.
So, my parents basically never ordered me my own meal when I was little, but they would get food that I could share. I totally get it with little little kids - they don’t eat all that much, and it’s good for developing an open mind toward food for them to try as much “grown up” food as possible early. But I would still eat as much as I wanted! They would get more/extra if anyone was especially hungry. It’s not necessarily deprivation, though I do believe it is in this case.
I always did family style with my children but we’d all have a plate with a small portion of everything that was ordered. I personally wanted them to try as many different foods as possible but not giving your child anything but a bit of bread or a fry is insane.
Unfortunately I and many others in these comments were brought back to times when this happened to us.. It's so frustrating and invalidating. I remember feeling confused, hurt, and ridiculed. My emotions are deeply unregulated now as an adult, I cannot properly express myself. I could not imagine doing this to a child ever, it's absolutely ridiculous.
Mocking your kid while crying is SUPER harmful!!! My dad does it, I don’t cry much if at all in front of people, I feel pathetic and stupid whenever I do cry in front of anyone, especially him, I don’t trust him to handle anything I tell him seriously. I have had full blown snot filled breakdowns at 2 am that will last almost 2 hours because all ny emotions finally hit me and I can’t take them anymore, and I have no one to comfort me, and I feel stupid, it hurts to be sobbing alone at 2 something in the morning feeling pathetic and childish for it, feeling worthless and stupid for breaking down.
I understand this. My dad would literally say anytime I would cry or even when my mom cried, that we did it in purpose to manipulate him. Like that's not how this works. I have memories of staying up for hours in my room alone crying as well. Sending you hugs, this is not okay and is not okay.
It’s interesting how she mocks her kid for a “tantrum” (AKA an normal emotional reaction. She needs to ASK him what is wrong) yet I don’t think she would like it very much if we mocked her “apology” video where she is crying! Both her and her husband are evil and shouldn’t have kids
So a couple things: 1. Diaper pails are like $30. Trash cans are $5. Neither is expensive 2. Deli meat during pregnancy is, in fact, fine. That's outdated advice. 3. Eating in front of your kid is absolutely evil. 4. She lives near me. Same city. :( I hate it.
The crazy thing is if she didn't tithe she couldn't complain about struggling, but also because she does tithe she ALSO can't complain about struggling because if you tithe, the church will take care of you. If she needs a jacket she could ask any day she goes to church and, particularly **because she tithes**, she will get basically any help they can provide including something as simple as a jacket for a toddler in 8° F weather. She has a common attitude among middle class mormons, she thinks she's poor but doesn't understand what being poor actually is much less to be poor without community.
She could also just ask around at work. The moms at my job bring hand me downs to work all the time for other moms to take home for free. Hell, I got a sweater once that fit me because I'm 5'5, lmao.
@screamingbegins4688 Whether it's optional or not is complicated. You can attend Mormon church and usually participate in most community events without tithing, but to actually be a "member of the community" you have to tithe. It's almost like a status thing, like if you tithe you're "more Mormon" or somehow a more faithful observer than those who can't, and you have access to more resources and assistance if you need it. I also don't know anyone who's been allowed in Temple (church but extra sacred) without regular tithes, you have to be confirmed separate from that but it's just kind of assumed that if you're allowed in Temple you tithe and otherwise are in with the community.
@screamingbegins4688 I'm not mormon myself so take this with a huge grain of salt but as far as I understand it there is social pressure. Like yeah you can opt out but the community will essentially consider you less devout and make you feel it.
As someone who lives in utah the mormon church manipulates them into paying their tything by saying they'll go to hell if they don't. It's ni excuse for her specifically but it is something to be aware of.
I don’t particularly like kids. I don’t ever want kids of my own. But I would never, EVER treat children the way she does. I wouldn’t treat my family’s kids like this, I wouldn’t treat a stranger’s kids like this- these are her OWN children. That came out of her. Point blank period, she is just a bad person. There is no ignorance, or excuses, she is NURSE. She knows what she is doing is wrong, and she just doesn’t care.
I literally had to skip the clip of her mocking her toddler cause the amount of sadness that made me feel was too much. growing up being treated like my emotions are nothing but a punchline joke to everyone around me has made it so miserable growing up for me, I hope hope hope that kid can grow up to be a confident and emotionally stable person. I wish nothing but happiness for him.. :(
ngl cps has been shit at least for the past years. one of my friends who had to go through alot of physical beating when they were younger whos now 15 has tried contacting cps and theyve never done anything apart from worsening it by cueing parents into the report. Additionally my mom often takes in foster kids, one of them has a kid (teen mom situation), she hit her kid and we reported it, nothing has been done sense.
19:40 I used to be Mormon, and the Tithe to the church is NOT optional. (Always 10% of your income) It is exploitative and preys on families like this, but it is the price members have to pay else they can be shunned by their community. The church also does a lot of charity drives for poor families, so if they’re really doing badly I wonder why she wouldn’t take advantage of free food and clothes
Tantrums are totally normal for a kid his age…. But this is the first time I’ve seen the video of her mocking him while he’s crying…. And the sound of his voice breaks my heart. He’s looking to her to regulate himself… and just hearing him escalate more and more and become more and more distressed…. Is literally gutting me. My son throws “fits” all the time… and they never last more than a minute or two… because i actually help him regulate his emotions… and help him through it so he can learn to regulate himself…. I thought I saw all the horrible nurse Hannah videos but this was the first time I saw that one and it literally broke my heart. 😢
She’s not saying she can’t afford the jacket. She’s saying that she thinks her child is not worth the cost of the coat
100%! She makes $2700/week but somehow can't figure out how to budget for her kids needs ???? That poor kid and those poor children
also even if her kid does grow out of it, she has another child. she can keep the jacket and reuse it anyway.
even puting the grow outt ait excuse is ridiculous you can just buy one size larger so it last longer
She works as a long term care nurse... People in long term care often need diapers for incontinence. If she doesn't believe in changing urine-filled diapers on her own child, what does that tell you about the potential treatment of the patients under her care, who also maybe can't speak up? I'm concerned for everyone all around.
I’m sure she does change urine FILLED diapers, she just said she doesn’t change diapers every time they pee. Babies can pee many times before a diaper is full and uncomfortable. Adults are different, we pee a lot.
@@aves3901 Leaving pee can lead to painful rashes even if it's just "a little pee"
@@galuxius1861 that’s true, it can, and for those children you use cream and change them more frequently. Children that don’t have as sensitive of a diaper area can stand to go 2-3 hours before a change. Babies pee a tiny bit like every 30 min, they will pee many times before a diaper is full and needs a change.
@aves3901 I can promise you doctors don't fucking agree. Letting a child sit on their mess for multiple hours is abusive. You doing it to your kid doesn't make it okay.
Hey I'm a cna who works with long term care nurses. They are not the ones doing the resident breif changes sjfhshhehrjjd and (on average) they will do everything in their power to avoid helping with 2 assist changes- (I've been doing this for 7 years its an unfortunate pattern)
Um...as a teacher who is trained on this stuff ...the diper situation is medical neglect and the food thing is actual abuse
I don't think she's actually not changing them. If she wasn't there's no way she'd go through 17 diapers in a 24 hour period
The other thing with the $35 dollar jacket, is yeah THAT kid might only be able to wear it for a season, but he does have a younger brother who will be able to wear it in a year or so, which drops the price per kid
People need to be more okay with this. I wore clothes of my older brothers and yeah it lead to some confusion (I'm a woman) but it was fine.
@@Nike-gs8igI grew up in the 60s, and until we were probably 12, my mom bought gender neutral everyday clothes that were passed along from me to my sister then to my brother. Shorts/jeans and a tee shirt are shorts/jeans and a tee shirt. They were bright primary colors in solids and stripes. Mix and match. Until puberty, boys and girls bodies are shaped pretty much the same. We really only got our own underwear.
For dress-up, we had one or two nice outfits that weren't hand-me-downs.
there is nothing wrong with hand me down clothes and it needs to be more normalized. i got hand me downs from my friends as a kid, due to me always being small for my age and so i was the size of a kid a year or two younger than me. my family wasnt even poor and i never questioned it, i was actually so excited to get my friend's old clothes because i thought she was cool. shes dead now :(
Blankets are a option. There is no excuse for an underdress kid because they dont have a coat. Use a blanket til you get one.
You 100% have a blanket
There are so many concerning things about these parents here. That little boy appears traumatized-tell me you can’t see it.
i like how shes like "i dont have a diaper genie so i just leave them lying around" have you ever heard of a trash can?? hello??
imagine what that house smells like.
Realll like get a $5 trash can from Walmart, it’s not that hard 😭
I have a plastic bin w/flip lid from IKEA that I use for kitchen waste that's going into the compost. It cost me less than $5 and is sturdy and easy to clean, perfect for diapers
I use the cat
Litter plastic
Container that my cats
Litter come: in.
Has a lid and I have them in my bedroom bathroom and living room. Free and easy makes way more sense than floor diapers
My 2 year old niece knows to throw dirty diapers in the trash or in the box of dirty ones. It's not a hard thing
I tossed the diaper genie cause my dog LOVES trashcans that are a challenge to open (have a button)
Not a fan of diapers strewn across the living room... picking up diapers is really easy. I've picked up plenty, you just do it.
Poodle are great.
Religious people are never beating the allegations lmfao. Especially mormons.
They may not be beating the allegations, but they sure are beating their kids!!
......sorry, I'm speaking from experience 🥲
I do know religious parents who are very kind and supportive of their kids. My family is atheist but good friends with a Baptist family who have only taken the best teachings of Christ as lessons. But that’s not to invalidate what you said because it’s very much an institutional issue. Big Christian churches enable this sort of behaviour. LDS is especially awful. If you were to speak up you’d most likely be exocommunicated even if you are a devout believer because the organisations are rotten all the way up. It’s awful.
Came here to say exactly this! 😂
as a christian i apologize lol 😭😭
who asked
CPS really needs a social media monitoring unit.
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They can't do shit without a direct report. Even then there's so many laws and restrictions that rarely anything happens
@@LazySkeptic23exactly, which needs to change…
That could backfire in a very dystopian way.
@@TamaraDippel yes that also
My dog eats when I eat. So the fact that the kid doesn't eat when his parents eat. Someone call cps
It depends, sometimes young children are on a different meal schedule, but at least make sure your child is fed their meals. Making them skip lunch because "we don't skip naptime" (probably because she wants time to herself) is completely unacceptable.
who asked
Even if he already ate you should give him something too if he asks, my child will eat or even refuse food if he sees me eating or his dad eating hell have a fit and I'll have to offer him something himself
@ville-c4u okay I see, you're coming to the comment section to be a dick to people commenting coolcoolcool
@@ville-c4u Bro, how have you been posting “no one cares/who asked” on every comment of this video for a whole ass hour? Why are you literally butthurt and defensive over a negligent mother? Projecting much?
my dad used to get food when me and my bro wouldn't notice. He would use an excuse like we weren't paying attention or something. It was so he never had to pay to feed us and would return us to our mom hungry. She got so mad at him each time and eventually the court ordered he would get in trouble if he did it again.
I’m sorry you had to go through that
Why do so many dads suck so much.
no one cares
@@ville-c4ub!sh go on somewhere lolll
@ you cared enough to reply, downvote like a normal person
It's the locking her toddler in their room at night that really upsets me. I have a child with special needs. When they were a toddler, we had to lock them in their room at night due to some serious safety issues. I called the fire department and they came over to help me set up all kinds of stuff so that I could keep my kid safe from the danger they posed to themself without introducing more dangers because they were essentially a prisoner in their room at night. They were so helpful and had thought through a bunch of potential safety issues I hadn't even considered. They set us up with special locks, a camera and intercom. They also helped me with a lot of the things around the house that were potentially dangerous as well.
I absolutely did not want to have to lock my child in their room and wouldn't if it had been possible to make my home safe for them any other way. Our pediatrician and the firefighters all agreed it was the best option and we worked together to make everything as safe as possible but I still felt literally sick every night when I locked that door. I do not understand anyone who would do that if they didn't have to. My kid is doing much better now and one of my favorite things is when I wake up in the middle of the night because they left their room for some reason and decided to crawl into my bed for a snuggle instead of going right back to sleep.
This woman's kids deserve better.
Bless you, you're a good mum
it sounds like you did the best with the situation you were in, that's genuinely admirable
Anyone else remember the stickers for firefighters on them and said " tot finder"?
It used to be a great idea but
I imagine people are rightly afraid to identify the rooms their children sleep in these days
I have watched a few people talk about her, and now I can see why there was probably such a high charge on her credit card. She spent $1500 on golf clubs for her husband, but couldn't afford the $35 dollar jacket for her child.
It's obvious where their priorities lie in that house.
I thought it was that her husband spent $1500 on hunting gear… she didn’t spend another $1500 dollars on unnecessary stuff, did they?? I hope I just heard wrong and got it mixed up 😭
I did get the item wrong, he did buy hunting gear. Either way, it's dumb to buy $1500 worth of gear, then complain about a $35 jacket for your son.
@ yeah, exactly 😭 and in the same video she made revealing that he spent that 1500 dollars, after she added up every expense of the stuff they were doing, it equaled 500+ dollars in debt… and she looked so annoyed. Like, how about you tell your husband not to waste 1500 dollars on hunting gear!?
Maybe stop tithing
my parents used to mock my emotions as a kid and used to laugh at me when i was to cry and still to this day they are the people i feel most uncomfortable about and will never share anything to them , that mom is basically telling her kid to bottle up his emotions and keep secrets from his mom constantly u will NEVER have a healthy relationship with ur kid if u do that
My dad did this to me and now I have horrible emotional regulation and cannot explain how I'm feeling or why.. I just bottle everything up until I explode..
after a certain age (probably 10-11 or so) my parents did kinda the same thing. whenever i'd cry (which happened a lot because i was very very sensitive) and they didn't think i had a 'good reason', my dad would get frustrated and angry and sometimes yelled at me, and my mom would just laugh at me. i love my parents, i do, but this is the reason i never share much with them other than basic things.
Yup. My dad screamed at me whenever I was upset. I cant open up to either of my parents now and don't even like crying in front of them. It makes me super uncomfortable. Like honestly being upset in front of them makes my skin crawl
This is why society really needs to destigmatize being childfree, especially childfree-by-choice. Not everyone is fit to be a parent nor wants to be a parent, and that's 100% OK and good in its own right.
as someone who would love to have children one day, I fully support people just not having kids. I love children but they're a ton of work, and I'm saying this from an outsiders perspective!
I also believe this needs to happen along with people recognizing children as human beings and not just extensions/property of their parents. Sure, they aren't able to live independently, but children still deserve basic respect.
100%, but I wonder if it's more a religious thing than them wanting or not wanting the children. I dont know much about mormons, but if they donate so much money to the church alone, I wouldn't be surprised if they had children just for the religions sake, and being against any form of contraceptives.
Yes. I'm 100% certain neither of them like their kids at all, they're just religiously obligated to get married young and have kids
@@mackereltabbie i found a post on reddit explaining mormons' point of view about kids, and apparently marrying is the only way for young people to have sex (it's forbidden before marriage and treated more strictly than, e.g., christianity), the kids are uneducated about sex life, and religious leaders actively encourages young couples to have a lot of kids. It's not the matter "if you want to have kids, have them", it's more like "you HAVE TO have lots of kids to be a good mormon and serve god, no matter if you want to be a parent".
They're Mormon, as someone who was also raised Mormon they are highly HIGHLY encouraged to have babies as young and quickly as possible. I knew women in the church who were pregnant every year for 10-15 years. Women are cattle to them.
Nurses only come in two flavors:
Amazing and dedicated to helping people
Or
Literally the worst people you will ever meet
There's no in-between.
I remember seeing a video about the mean girl to nurse pipeline, and this really proves it. I also had a “friend” who bullied me and my friend group in middle school who, surprise surprise, is now going to medical school and is still a bad person. It’s crazy 😭
As a chronically ill person, I spend a lot of time in hospitals and clinics as a patient. I con confirm this is very true. One time when I was hospitalized I had one of the most amazing nurses. She was so kind and helped me get through the day. However, one time when I needed surgery, I had a nurse that was so mean. IDK what her problem was but she was extremely rude and seemed mad at me the whole time I was there. This was also at the height of the pandemic and she didn’t wear her mask correctly 🙃🙃
As someone who had both parents RNs, I can confirm.
My dad was a “let’s have wheelchair races to boost morale in the cancer ward” type of nurse, while my mom was a “I enjoy knowing I decide how long people stay alive” kinda nurse.
That "mean girl to nurse pipeline" is so true. Because there are the ones who go in genuinely wanting to help, and others who do it for money or reputation or another egotistical reason when the crux of the job is to be empathetic and help others.
My dad used to mock me when I cried because he thought I was faking it. It never failed to make me cry more. I still remember how humiliating and upsetting it was
I still remember being mocked for crying because I didn’t have enough tears, so I must be faking. It was humiliating. Completely agree.
Yo, is that the reason why I don't completely trust some adults in my life? Used to carry on about the "wahmbulence" when I would cry sometimes. I, damn
My mother once told me to “quit pretending to have emotions”. To this day I can’t even cry in my own home in front of my husband bc I had it so drilled into me that showing emotions, ESPECIALLY CRYING, would be met with berating and punishment. I know it’s not like he’s gonna hurt or even judge me, but that childhood primal fear really sticks with you…
The tantrum part makes me so uncomfortable. (Ofc everything in this video makes me uncomfortable). But toddlers throw tantrums when they have emotions they don’t know what to do with. And from the video it rly seems like he just can’t get any of his feelings across and just gets more and more frustrated and hurt
no one cares
@@ville-c4uwhy are you in every comment being a weirdo? Hannah? That you?
@@daffodil8465 its a bot
It is actually a technic that parents do not involve the emotion but provide a safe space for their kids came from a shared emotion. However, she should be much more close to shield for that technic and I think it is not usable for this age group. I am a bit happy that this mum is on TikTok tho, I think those videos will be proofs of child neglect when their kids will sue them in the future.
@@daffodil8465 it’s a bot. Report it for spam and don’t reply, it’s a waste of time and they’re not gonna see it
the video of them mocking the child for crying was so triggering cuz that's what my family was doing to me all the time, and it's the reason i am so afraid of showing emotions in front of people and ever talking about how i feel even with my therapist, im basically locked away from my emotions until im in my room all by myself for most of the time, and it also makes it so im afraid of ever advocating for myself because I feel like showing people that I care fr literally anything make me look like a fool and that I won't ever be taken seriously and it's ruining my life.
Yea watching that brought back a memory Ig I repressed because wow that was really traumatizing having my step-dad scream cry in me and my siblings faces when we would cry.
I hope we can both grow away from those terrible experiences. We deserve better.
Take care of yourself! ❤
I’m so sorry you’ve had such an awful experience, and I seriously hope you’re doing better and that you’ll feel comfortable expressing yourself in the future. These parents should have never been parents
I forgot this even happened to me until I watched that clip…UGH that brought back some emotions… and I struggle with similar stuff as an adult
Excuse me? A WEEKLY pay check that’s $2780??? I make only $500 more than that in a MONTH. 18:36
that's $69.50 an hour similar to what a Boston police Officer with a College degree receives per hr. my dad retired 8 mos. ago
i had to rewatch that several times because *surely* she was saying monthly. that's more than i make in a month, working full time.
most people do not make anywhere *near* $70 an hour. I’m a grad student, so I make roughly 18/hour from my stipend. That’s not a lot. But it’s better than some, because I can afford to live where I do. Though I do struggle with money at times. Retail places usually pay much less. 15 an hour is becoming more common, but it’s still not universal. And at a lot of retail places, you won’t get enough hours to make as much as you should. Sure having a college degree helps, but most people don’t make over 100k a year… especially not starting out. Nurses don’t typically make that much either, my moms a nurse and she does not earn that much money per year, and she’s been a nurse a long time.
I make $300 less than that a month!
It's well over double what I get in a month. Closer to triple, actually. She's also American and I'm Canadian, so with the conversion it's actually 4x my monthly income in a single week.
Idk how they can laugh at their child having a tantrum, I literally started panicking the longer I heard him cry cause I just wanted to comfort him. That video literally shattered my heart, that poor boy deserves so much better!
Also the way she just dumps the baby bc her husband won’t take him- like WTF?? Anytime I hold a baby I can’t help but feel how delicate they are and feel the need to be extra careful. Like how does she not? Especially being a trained medical professional
It's easy when you lack empathy
@@mackereltabbieEmpathy is not the problem. A person with low to no empathy can still care about another person. It's compassion. Hannah blatantly lacks it since we see her not even care if her children eat. Hell, she doesn't even seem to like her husband and only does stuff if it conveniences her in some way like the birthday sandwich.
A former friend spoke out about this situation. Hannah is married in the temple, the church absolutely would help her out because she's so devout.
who asked
I think they just mean if they were in need, they could find help.... maybe ask for clarification intead of being rude? @ville-c4u
@@ville-c4uit's relevant information dude
@@ville-c4ushe did, she complains about not having enough money (if this was meant as financial help)
If they are too broke to buy the child a meal or a…coat :(
Why are they tithing so much?
It’s as if she sees herself as relatable-but has no idea that she sounds completely ignorant and is behaving neglectfully.
I feel sick to my stomach watching this. As a nurse and a mother I would throw myself in front of a bus or go without for my child. I cannot even fathom eating if my child was hungry. My kids eat before me. At work, my patients are taken care of before I go to lunch. I am nauseous. People make my blood boil
I'm not a mother, but I'd do the same for my nephew and little infant niece. I'd absolutely give my life to protect them, and they aren't my kids even. That woman not being able to do the same when she has kids herself is horrifying
Literally, like even my cat if I know she's hungry ill feed her before I sit down to eat. It just feels wrong otherwise.
"Do you know how expensive diapers are?"
Do you know how expensive it is to care for a kid?
Of course you know, you have two of them, why would you have another kid if you can't afford diapers?
Even if it was an accident or forced on you, can't you ask for help from people to buy diapers?
she's probably wasting money on stupid shit and then complaining about not having money for diapers.
She has other vids talking about how they make like 6k a month, she has money for diapers, she just doesn’t want to spend it for some reason
Given she's Mormon, might be religious based.
I don't have exact specifics on each one, but a lot of more right leaning religious organisations tend to emphasis having more kids, rather than having happy kids.
@jampine8268 Why are right leaning religious people so obsessed with reproducing?
The Earth ain't got no more space, our species will not vanish
7:02 if she is actually a nurse, I'm so fucking scared for her patients. I don't even wanna think about the wounds they could have if she has this mentality with her own damn kids. Our skin is not meant to touch pee and poop, and it will break down and get painful sores. That's why diaper rash is a thing! That's day fucking one of nursing school
Exactly
The thing that upsets me the most as a survivor of child abuse, is that in this day and age this stuff is online forever. I feel so sad for these babies and the idea that they are going to grow up and see all of this. Thinking about my parents putting my abuse on tiktok and profiting from it, and having to see it everywhere and reading everybody's opinions about it, that's mortifying.
Yeah, this is just rage bait. She says the 17 diapers were from one day, but also she only changes diapers when they poop? PICK ONE.
That's what I thought! No way did 2 kids produce 17 poopy diapers between them in a day. The math's not mathing...
Yeah I thought that was an obvious lie.
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@@miram.7374 especially if she isn't feeding them regularly lol.
Everything she says feels like such blatant rage bait.
Okay, about the Mormon Church money thing:
As an ex-Mormon, they mandate that 10% tithing. It goes pretty deep, but basically they don’t care how broke you are, if you don’t donate 10% then you’re not a worthy member and you lose the ability to go to the temple (like an elevated church-type of building that is not open to the public). Honestly, you should do a video on the Mormon church and ex-mo content creators, that shit is craaaaazyyyy
Ex JW Panda Tower has great videos about the Mormon Church as well as Jehovah's witnesses/Watchtower
@@VeggieGirl07 Alyssa grenfield is ex mormon too ^^ she shows a lot of stuff they don't show to thr public (sos if i misspelled her lastname)
Yep, and by tithing logic, if you are struggling financially and aren't prioritizing staying current with your tithe payments, you deserve the poverty that prevents you from being able to tithe...it's a truly messed up system of manipulation, especially considering Jesus's views on combining faith and money. That religious organization will literally deny needy families access to their food pantry and other supports unless you've paid them their "rightful due" and can prove beyond a shadow of doubt that you absolutely need the help. No exaggeration - they do home inspections to ensure there isn't food in the house before they will engage in acts of charity to those who have paid to maintain their membership to the club. And it does not matter how much of your life that you've dedicated to the temple, if you aren't paying your 10%, you just aren't worthy.
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Except her family is very well off she’s not broke she’s rich. I’ve only seen one person talk about it but she lived in a mansion as a kid. But I do agree Mormon and other similar religions are absolutely crazy. A well known church near me pays for everything so they don’t pay taxes they have to pay it back but it can take them however long they need crazy.
as a mom of a toddler, it's WILD she won't buy a coat for her kid. I will always spend money on my kid before myself. and when I eat, she eats (unless she's actively sleeping but she eats when she wakes). if I buy a treat for myself, she gets one too. or we share one. like does she hate her children???
also I get stuff like winter coats and shoes are quickly grown out of, but that's why you can buy second hand. and often they're in really good condition because other families donate or resell after only a year of use. and she can keep all the clothes she buys for her toddler to use again when her newborn grows into it. like I grew up in a family of 9 kids and 1 income (1 parent worked full/overtime & the other stayed home with us) and they still managed to keep us fed and clothed. it's possible, can be hard but you chose to have kids, you have to take care of them
Literally the only reason I can imagine her doing these things is she actually does hate her children
yeah i got my older siblings clothes, my mums friends kids old clothes, random clothes from women at my church etc. i know that i was lucky but like?? if she bought it second hand she could also use it for her other kid and get even more use out of it!
My dad and step mom used to do the eating thing with me and my sister. Like they would order food for themselves and our step sibling but when we would ask to have something they qould ask of our mom was gonna pay or they would say that we will eat when we get back to our moms house. Lets just say that when my mom found out the cops had to be called.
They seem like two people who absolutely did not want and were not ready for kids, but still had them because they thought they had to.
Yeeeeah
Considering they are Mormons it makes sense.
She puts 600$ into her savings every week when her kid doesn't have a jacket or a clean diaper...
Even if you don't have a diaper pail, why don't you have a normal garbage can??? Just keep one in the changing room and toss it at the end of the day??? Bruh
Lmao Kiwi said the same thing ☠️
Exactly. My friend has mobility issues and a very active one year old. She just immediately throws away dirty diapers in a trashcan. How is it hard to throw then away right away? Why leave them?
I just don't understand how they're all over the place. Who just has a diaper on hand and changes a baby in random spots all over the house? Like in the middle of a hallway and next to the bedroom closet. I would have to go get a diaper so it would be easier to carry the baby to the changing station.
I'm by no means perfect and have forgotten a diaper next to the changing pad a few times before, but it seems more like she saved and scattered those all over for content. 🤔
@@PandoraBear357yeah a few when you’ve been rushing and busy I can see but that many and so easily accessible is insane and genuinely a health risk
@@PandoraBear357 it feels like she just doesn't care. Just left them wherever she charged them and walked away. She also has videos where she openly admits to not feeding her child and he flinches when she's gets near him. It's not a healthy household or very well crafted rage bait. Either way, she should be kicked off the platform
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Not a parent, but I’ve watched babies and changed a few diapers. Can confirm, it’s not that hard to toss one in some form of a container when you’re done.
There is no way in hell that the cheapest toddler jacket she could find in Walmart was $35. That did not happen. She found the most expensive one in the store made a fuss about not paying that much for it and then left without buying a jacket to justify not buying one. I shop at Walmart all the time and I can guarantee that a jacket that costs like 17 dollars is 5 feet away from her. This is a woman who just straight up thinks her child is not worth spending money on, and needs to find ways to justify it.
Also the idea that your church tithing is more important than your son having a jacket is nuts.
Why... just why would she leave dirty nappies strewn about everywhere? Why doesn't she just... throw them away after changing them like a normal person? Why the hell would she put this online??? And then go all surprised Pikachu face when people call her out??? SHE'S A NURSE?????
Edit: why is she lowkey starving her kid?!
I hate how she has them ON TABLES!
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That’s GOTTA be rage bait
This is my biggest thing like.... I'm not trying to knock a parent with a messy house, taking care of two little ones is a full time gig. But she has trash BAGS, even if she doesn't have a trash can you could have a bag hanging in each room to toss them in. And WHY POST IT ONLINE
I've seen a few videos on this but this is the first time I saw that one where they were mocking their kid's tantrum. That was horrifying. The poor child doesn't know what's going on or how to process his own emotions. Bullying him like that is crazy...
35:51 I genuinely started crying at that because that’s the type of thing my mom did when I cried. It wasn’t to that degree of mockery but her response to me crying was either making fun of me because I apparently “looked cute when I cried” or getting mad that I was crying over something she thought was stupid and generally being dismissive about it.
I had a gut reaction to that part too. My parents did exactly that to me all the time to the point of all my siblings joining in on it.
My patents either outright ignored me, or just straight up threatened me and hit me.
@@alexjewett7455yeah my dad and grandma used to threaten to strand us outside, like theyd put us in the car, get onto the highway and then pull over
the fact that shes still paying tithing is telling. I used to be a member (mostly just inactive rn) but the way shes claiming shes struggling means she should be receiving help from the church. that's a good reason why tithing is there. she technically should still be paying tithing but she should then also be getting extra food and supplies (aka DIAPERS) for free from the church. thats what- tithing is for. so she has zero excuse to not be feeding her child the way she is right now. theres also always a big storehouse for food for members of the church and you don't even have to tell anyone. you can just. go and get food
"not biting hard" is also subjective. if i slightly pinch myself, its an inconvenience but nothing id fuzz over. but if i slightly pinch a young kid, theyd probably cry. what may not be hard for the mom could've still been enough to traumatize a kid.
same as that their behavior will only be reinforced, which could get them into more (dangerous) trouble if they grow up and don't unlearn that, same as that if the behavior gets reinforced, the circle of abuse never ends since the parents will only take it as another reason to hurt the kid
in addition on the jacket point what happened with kid number ones likely jacket, handmedowns are essential for family budgeting
Malnutrition in children is extremely damaging to their development, this woman is permanently scarring her children.
What a monster.
Countless parents throughout the world and throughout history have eaten less so that their kids could have a fuller belly. This woman and her husband are doing the complete opposite and it's absurd! If you can't even afford to feed your one kid, why do you have two!?
Editing to say: This woman makes in a week more than I do in a month. (Or has the potential to? I'm really not sure because she says she gets paid weekly, but also only picks up 5-6 shifts a month? I dunno. My point is she at least has the POTENTIAL to make more.) Now I don't have kids, but I cannot IMAGINE a world where +4x my paycheck is "too little" to buy my toddler kid a happy meal or a $35 jacket from walmart.
even though me parents were horrible in other ways, they ALWAYS made sure we had food. much more than they had because we were GROWING. these kids are going to be stunted if these parents keep withholding food from them, which btw, is abuse.
13:21 his LUNCH?? NO MA’AM give that kid the whole thing and YOU can have a tiny piece of
The fliinching thing made my heart break. Because I know that flinch, I still flinch like that to things. The only things I don't flinch at? My brother and his partners, I know they wouldn't intentionally hurt me so I don't flinch. But most people? I throw my hands up and yelp, because whenever I yelped like an animal, my "father" would hesitate the tiniest bit sometimes, he's where I got the habit of flinching and yelping out of fright from
That's fucking shit, I'm sorry
These poor kids are going to have so many issues later on not being provided food and basic needs having parents tell you can’t eat because they are messy being ignored when you ask for food will mess you up mentally same with the parents complaining about how much you cost being constantly told you cost to much or your things cost to much is so harmful. The older kid especially will grow up thinking they don’t deserve things they will learn to stop asking for things and might start hiding food or other things out of fear of not having it later
I can vouch for the negative influence of being told “you’re so expensive”, even when it’s delivered as a “joke” and especially when it’s paired with other denials of needs. it takes me at minimum a few HOURS to build up to asking for anything, even if there’s no monetary value attached to it bc I’m so afraid of being a burden to others by [checks notes] having basic needs and wants. it took me 3 days to ask a friend to play a game with me because I was scared they’d laugh at me or smth or call me needy/annoying.
@ same I was constantly going into hospital as a kid and being told I can’t have something because I’m already expensive because of that has made me struggle to ask for anything even small
my parents did this shit and now i have an eating disorder lol
For real. My parents did that and now I have anxiety issues. It fucked me up
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10:10 Wait I had to pause here and read the caption properly - "post 12 hour shift and post CARNIVORE DIET dinner and why I don't get maternity leave"
There's just so many things wrong here on so many levels. 12hr shifts just suck period, esp you're a healthcare worker. No maternity leave is also crazy. She (or her husband idk) was on the carnivore diet. AND no food for the child. This is just madness
I will readily admit that I have hoarding tendencies.
Ma’am why not have a bag with you to put the diapers in it.
my bet is in 18 years they'll be asking themselves "why don't our kids talk to us?"
Unless they get brainwashed into their church. They will than thinks this is normal and the cycle will continue
she's legit at risk for losing her nursing license she's admitted it herself on her own page. she doesn't believe in human decency someone please stop this monster. how many times have we seen those with any amount of power just grind the vulnerable into their graves? there are sociopathic nurses out there, we have countless extreme examples...
Wonder if she mocks her patients who're in pain, the same way she mocks her kid when he's upset? Doubley criminal given they're probably in pain with the pressure ulcers and moisture lesions from her shoddy care.
@crazyratlady3115 ehw, i didnt even consider that. gross that it's even a possibility
These videos that you make about bad parents are what made me realize my dad is kinda toxic and my mom is a lot better of a parent than I thought she was, but they're also just very entertaining
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the messy eating in the car is so incredibly ridiculous. first of all, toddlers are still actively learning how to eat so of course they're gonna be messy. secondly, if you have a kid you're basically saying goodbye to fully clean spaces. i'm a teenager but i have younger siblings, grew up with younger cousins, and actively see three young kid cousins now. my uncles' and aunts' cars always have a stray peanut or something in them because they have young kids. it's just a part of being a parent
It's part of just being AROUND kids for an extended period of time, TBH. So cute, but such hellions 😅🥰
Watching this I'm like 'Oh my god that's horrible' but then the tantrum mocking showed up and I suddenly was reminded of my parents... I remember them mimicking me or shutting down whenever I showed strong emotion. I used to thins it was normal but seeing this as well as other things is making me go 'Wow... That is not okay at all'
Me too!
"How we save money on vacation! Just don't feed our kids!"
I get my kids winter jackets at yard sales in the summer for cheap. Plus places like Carter's has crazy sales where you can get coats for a 2 yo for much less than $35. Just can't fathom. At least bundle that kid up in every sweater you do have
The charity shop in my town just straight up gives away winter coats. Others that aren't huge chains like Goodwill can sell them for under $5. Assuming somebody can make it to such stores, there's no excuse for a child to be cold.
The fact that she is a nurse and doing this to her children is terrifying. She needs to be reported to CPS as well as her boss needs to be informed that she is putting her children in an unsafe environment. If she didn't want to worry about dirty dipers or taking care of the needs of a child, she shouldn't have had any. To me, it comes off as her treating her kids as items she has to show off instead of people she brought into this world & needs to look after their well-being & safety until they're old enough to take care of themselves
Someone said she’s a nurse that takes care of elderly people who may not be able to advocate for themselves. They wear diapers and since she never changes her kids diapers, I can imagine she probably doesn’t change theirs either. I feel bad for both her kids and her patients. 😢
I used to get yelled at for flinching because I really was never hit… but I am very neurotic and the yelling itself always made my ears hurt badly.
Edit 2: there’s a better method for teaching a baby not to bite, and it’s to overact how bad it hurts.
Maybe for a NT baby, but my sister growls, laughs, and bites HARDER-
You know... The moment I learned that they are Mormon.... it suddenly explained everything about the kind of mother she is. And why she hates her child.
Yep, she didn't have kids because she wanted to, but because the church told her it was her duty.
Ah f**k
And it also explains why she has this useless husband.
I sometimes feel like I'm really messy, buuuttt the diaper thing! 😱🤮 Nothing that's a biohazard DAMN
I used to have a friend who left dirty diapers laying around, along with rotten food and half finished sodas. Then she wondered why there were mice everywhere. She had the nerve to get mad when I called her out on it. Yeah, there's a reason she's an ex-friend.
@@els1f I get super depressed sometimes and stuff does pile up and get really gross. But that’s on *me*. I don’t have children I’m taking care of!
@@hunterkat I feel you completely! That's kinda what I was thinking but didn't want to leave a long story lol. I have had chronic depression my entire life and things can get REALLY bad, but the idea of used diapers strewn around is wild! I don't want have any children anyways and that's kinda one of the reasons
Yeah suddenly the books, clothes and art supplies on my chairs and tables and some empty cardboard boxed I forgot to take to recycling when I took the trash out doesn't feel all that bad.
Mormans, abusing children? Say it isn't so!
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ex Mormon here to give a little more context twords her paying tithing especially if money is very tight, in the church they tell you that financial blessings will come if you pay tithing, if you don't pay tithing you literally aren't allowed to enter their holy temple, and you're told that even if it's all you have, you have to pay or you aren't a good enough mormon (compounded by the horrible environment specifically utah Mormons have its even more pressure to pay even when she really shouldnt)
I grew up in the church and I personally don't blame her for still paying tithing while being an active member bc you are treated like you're going to hell for being human and not being a perfect mormon
Cant this classify it as a cult?
@2ndperky it a thousand percent is a cult yeah
Yikes that’s upsetting! That’s like prosperity gospel no?
My church (non Mormon) did the 10% (or what you can offer ) on Sundays but they stressed that if your in a hard spot don’t do it! , you your seeking financial help don’t do it! Those who can do it to help the church , not to make everyone pay up just to be there .
@@Souls-at-zer0 yeah the mormon church is really really scummy in a lot of ways
@@Souls-at-zer0yeah my church is the same! only donate if you can and want to!! its not a rule to have to pay, wild bc the church is supposed to care for the poor like jesus did
he played at the park for two hours and youre not giving him lunch?? im going insane omg i did not expect this to be this bad. even this ladys face and the way she talks makes me mad. omfg.
She's got a full face of makeup but can't even spend 35$ on a jacket or ask around at work if any of the other moms have a spare jacket handed down from their kids.
Thank you for especially focusing on the tantrum and her response to it. My abusive father used to do this exact same thing to me through my early teens and it was so frustrating to have my feelings mocked. Going on my 10th year in therapy to undo the 13 years of abuse by him.
I’m not a parent but if I was in a situation where I was taking care of a kid I would ALWAYS feed the kid before myself no questions asked that is absolutely sick
She seems like she absolutely wasn’t ready to have children
35:23 OOOOOOFFFFF, the amount of ptsd this brought back for me. My aunt and uncle would do this exact thing to me SO MUCH when they'd literally make fun of me, and then mock me when I'd get genuinely upset about it. It's tainted my relationship and view on them to this day.
Rage baiting aside, I was incredulous how someone employed at a nurse could be so lacking in medical knowledge, such as feeding and nutrition, or basic sanitation. But then I remembered, there is rampant cheating going on in a lot of nursing schools. I'm a nursing student myself, and there are draconian anti-cheating measures in place for exams because apparently some students felt it would be easier to whip out their phones, share answers over a chat, or write the answers on their arms; as opposed actually studying or putting in the effort. My professors have caught students cheating, who were mere months away from graduating, and have had to kick them out of the program. I always wondered, even if you get away with it, what if you get into the job and find you don't know any of the skills? What then? Well, I guess you end up like this.
Sometimes when I grab fast food to eat somewhere that my kids don't like their food...I get mine then drive to their favorite place and get what they want. Once you have kids your life is about them.
I remember as a young child people doing this exact thing to me, and now I'm afraid to have low moments that'll cause me to be loud 35:31
Jfc that's fcking EVIL. What the hell is wrong with these ppl?? 👀
You’ve heard of 7 rings by Ariana grande now get ready for 17 diapers by this lady
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Good one😂😂
How are there people living on minum wage with multiple children loving and taking better care of their children than a nurse.
What does she think a diaper pail is going to do it's not like it has feet and its going to go round picking up the diapers behind her. Also when she eventually change the two year old she could ask him to take the diaper to the bin toddlers love to help. The way they treat that poor baby around food is going to possibly end up with an eating disorder also constantly going on how much everything that poor baby's basic needs cost is possibly going to cause him to be afraid to ask for things that are necessities because he will be afraid it will mean someone in the family will have to go without. I know he's only 2 but even at that age they pick up so much they may not understand but it sticks cps needs to be called I'm not from America I'm from Northern Ireland so I don't know if there's anything I can do from here those poor poor babies x
I've never seen a parent grab a diaper from one location and then bring their kid to random locations all around the house to change them. She clearly doesn't have a central changing station, which likely means that she's having the kid bring her clean diapers and is changing them wherever she happens to be. Loads of parent do that, but what I don't get is why she isn't also asking the kid to throw away the dirty diaper if she isn't wanting to get up to change him?
About the asking the toddler to help thing, my sister will literally change herself if we prompt her, so I'm sure it's not that hard for a literal ADULT WHO'S RESPONSIBLE FOR CHILDREN????
if she can treat her child like this how does she treat her patients?
I have 3 kids, 2 with ADHD and a 15 month old. I change nappies in one place and put a bin right there. It gets emptied when full.
While you don't usually have to change a nappy literally every time they pee, as little babies usually pee small amounts very frequently, you keep a close eye on that. And even if it's just pee, you change it after 1.5 - 2 hours when it's full. It lasts longer as they get older and the bladder learns to hold it longer. But that usually means that you do have to change it as soon as they pee because it's going to leak otherwise.
As for getting kids food, depends on the age. Once on solids it depends how much they tend to eat. Sharing off parents plate is perfectly reasonable if they don't eat a lot. But the kid should 100% be eating when you eat.
Also, if you can't afford clothes for your kids new, get from second hand. Kids outgrow clothing so fast that second hand clothes for little kids is basically like new anyways.
Sharing with your kid instead of getting them their own is only okay if you're giving them enough to eat, and it can't be one bite of the bread from your sandwich. If you didn't want to share enough of your meal to fill them up, you need to get them their own meal. There's never an excuse to eat while they just sit and watch, and no nap is so important you skip lunch for it.
@pjaypender1009 I said it depends on age and appetite. Once my kids want about half my meal, they get their own. There are kids who would rather graze than eat large meals, my middle child was nearly 2.5 before he would eat enough in one sitting to qualify for his own meal. But I always have snacks available for him. My oldest was about 18 months when he got his own meals, and my youngest just started getting her own means at 15 months. The baby girl can pack it away 🤣.
He didnt flinch, he cowered in fear. he held his arms up to shield his face
i think 35 dollars is reasonable for a winter coat...
My mum would go a whole winter in shoes that have literal holes in them if that meant I went in a nice winter coat, had a hat and gloves and winter boots.
I understand that people struggle with money a lot but she's a nurse, she's the daughter of wealthy parents, she's also a manager of her husband's company, and she also gives 10% of her money to the church... for some reason??? But she can't pay for a fucking coat for her child? I thought children are the most important to the mormons?
"I don't have any money..." Yes you fucking do. Yes you do, Hannah.
You know who will be "blessed" with the hundreds of dollars you give to the church? The pastor or the person that runs your church.
So, my parents basically never ordered me my own meal when I was little, but they would get food that I could share. I totally get it with little little kids - they don’t eat all that much, and it’s good for developing an open mind toward food for them to try as much “grown up” food as possible early. But I would still eat as much as I wanted! They would get more/extra if anyone was especially hungry. It’s not necessarily deprivation, though I do believe it is in this case.
8:33 YES! im a cloth diaper mom and honestly it’s 10000% worth it. you get used to washing them and you save SOOOOO much money
I always did family style with my children but we’d all have a plate with a small portion of everything that was ordered. I personally wanted them to try as many different foods as possible but not giving your child anything but a bit of bread or a fry is insane.
I feel like some people don’t actually want kids, they just desire the aesthetic of having a family. If that makes sense
They are Mormons, so that is there duty basically. They are not having children because they want them, but because that is expected of them.
I can’t imagine what it must feel like to have big emotions as a child and be mocked and laughed at during it
Unfortunately I and many others in these comments were brought back to times when this happened to us.. It's so frustrating and invalidating. I remember feeling confused, hurt, and ridiculed. My emotions are deeply unregulated now as an adult, I cannot properly express myself. I could not imagine doing this to a child ever, it's absolutely ridiculous.
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Mocking your kid while crying is SUPER harmful!!! My dad does it, I don’t cry much if at all in front of people, I feel pathetic and stupid whenever I do cry in front of anyone, especially him, I don’t trust him to handle anything I tell him seriously. I have had full blown snot filled breakdowns at 2 am that will last almost 2 hours because all ny emotions finally hit me and I can’t take them anymore, and I have no one to comfort me, and I feel stupid, it hurts to be sobbing alone at 2 something in the morning feeling pathetic and childish for it, feeling worthless and stupid for breaking down.
I understand this. My dad would literally say anytime I would cry or even when my mom cried, that we did it in purpose to manipulate him. Like that's not how this works. I have memories of staying up for hours in my room alone crying as well. Sending you hugs, this is not okay and is not okay.
@ I once was gripping my hair, sobbing trying to back away from him, and he told me to “stop the crocodile tears”???💀💀
I hope you are doing well:)
@@AlbertWeskersLittleManI’m so sorry. Your dad is awful. You’re not childish for having emotions! You’re human!! Sending hugs ❤
It’s interesting how she mocks her kid for a “tantrum” (AKA an normal emotional reaction. She needs to ASK him what is wrong) yet I don’t think she would like it very much if we mocked her “apology” video where she is crying! Both her and her husband are evil and shouldn’t have kids
So a couple things:
1. Diaper pails are like $30. Trash cans are $5. Neither is expensive
2. Deli meat during pregnancy is, in fact, fine. That's outdated advice.
3. Eating in front of your kid is absolutely evil.
4. She lives near me. Same city. :( I hate it.
My family treats our dog better than she treats her kids. My parents literally bought my dog a jacket
literally! my dog gets hella cold and we have a shit tone of coats and jumpers for him cus hes tiny.
That's what it's like picking up after my infant in the Sims 4
Throwing the diapers on the floor and they get smelly and the sims complain 💀
The crazy thing is if she didn't tithe she couldn't complain about struggling, but also because she does tithe she ALSO can't complain about struggling because if you tithe, the church will take care of you. If she needs a jacket she could ask any day she goes to church and, particularly **because she tithes**, she will get basically any help they can provide including something as simple as a jacket for a toddler in 8° F weather. She has a common attitude among middle class mormons, she thinks she's poor but doesn't understand what being poor actually is much less to be poor without community.
She could also just ask around at work. The moms at my job bring hand me downs to work all the time for other moms to take home for free. Hell, I got a sweater once that fit me because I'm 5'5, lmao.
so its not true thats its not optional?? bc the comment below urs says its not optional and idk anything abt mormans
@screamingbegins4688 Whether it's optional or not is complicated. You can attend Mormon church and usually participate in most community events without tithing, but to actually be a "member of the community" you have to tithe. It's almost like a status thing, like if you tithe you're "more Mormon" or somehow a more faithful observer than those who can't, and you have access to more resources and assistance if you need it. I also don't know anyone who's been allowed in Temple (church but extra sacred) without regular tithes, you have to be confirmed separate from that but it's just kind of assumed that if you're allowed in Temple you tithe and otherwise are in with the community.
@screamingbegins4688 I'm not mormon myself so take this with a huge grain of salt but as far as I understand it there is social pressure. Like yeah you can opt out but the community will essentially consider you less devout and make you feel it.
Damn you released this while I'm working and looking for videos to play in the background. You're the MVP
She can't afford a $35 coat for her toddler but donates like $200 every week to the church?!
And can afford a 65$ date
As someone who lives in utah the mormon church manipulates them into paying their tything by saying they'll go to hell if they don't. It's ni excuse for her specifically but it is something to be aware of.
The correlation between mean girls/terrible people in general being nurses needs to be studied
I don’t particularly like kids. I don’t ever want kids of my own. But I would never, EVER treat children the way she does. I wouldn’t treat my family’s kids like this, I wouldn’t treat a stranger’s kids like this- these are her OWN children. That came out of her. Point blank period, she is just a bad person. There is no ignorance, or excuses, she is NURSE. She knows what she is doing is wrong, and she just doesn’t care.
I literally had to skip the clip of her mocking her toddler cause the amount of sadness that made me feel was too much. growing up being treated like my emotions are nothing but a punchline joke to everyone around me has made it so miserable growing up for me, I hope hope hope that kid can grow up to be a confident and emotionally stable person. I wish nothing but happiness for him.. :(
19:18 Pink piggy plushie was so flabbergasted she forgot she wasn't supposed to be sentient
I can’t wrap my head around why the CPS haven’t done anything yet
ngl cps has been shit at least for the past years. one of my friends who had to go through alot of physical beating when they were younger whos now 15 has tried contacting cps and theyve never done anything apart from worsening it by cueing parents into the report. Additionally my mom often takes in foster kids, one of them has a kid (teen mom situation), she hit her kid and we reported it, nothing has been done sense.
19:40 I used to be Mormon, and the Tithe to the church is NOT optional. (Always 10% of your income)
It is exploitative and preys on families like this, but it is the price members have to pay else they can be shunned by their community.
The church also does a lot of charity drives for poor families, so if they’re really doing badly I wonder why she wouldn’t take advantage of free food and clothes
19:28 in mormonism i think it's considered sinful to not give your 10% tithings to the church
They won’t let you into the temple if you don’t tithe. Plus you’re a bad person, bad Mormon, going to hell, etc. Very manipulative and sad.
Understandable on why she does so then
Flinching is natural to an extent and that kid didn’t just flinch, he full on embraced for impact which says everything.
Kiwi video while im sick is the only thing giving me a will to stay awake and not just sleep all day lol
Aw that sucks, hope u get well soon!! Resting is the best thing for u sometimes ☺️
2:18 solo parent doesn’t stop you from, laying baby down, changing the diaper, and carrying baby and diaper to the kitchen or bathroom trash….
love videos you do about shit parents/insane parents- helps remind me why i chose to stay in care 😭
You just know she's not washing her hands after changing those diapers. And as a nurse, makes me wonder how often she washes during her work days too
Tantrums are totally normal for a kid his age…. But this is the first time I’ve seen the video of her mocking him while he’s crying…. And the sound of his voice breaks my heart. He’s looking to her to regulate himself… and just hearing him escalate more and more and become more and more distressed…. Is literally gutting me. My son throws “fits” all the time… and they never last more than a minute or two… because i actually help him regulate his emotions… and help him through it so he can learn to regulate himself…. I thought I saw all the horrible nurse Hannah videos but this was the first time I saw that one and it literally broke my heart. 😢