All Things Adrienne 1-Mami always told me to love someone who loves you more, 2-let them show you they love you, not just tell you they love you. 3-Observe how they treat other women in their life ie. Mom/sisters 😘
Best advice from my mother when I first started dating and about posting pictures on Instagram... your relationship is between the two of you don't let outsiders project their opinions on something they're not involved in, share some of your happiness but don't forget to focus on each other not the "people" trying to tear you apart with their negativity🙏🏽✌🏽❤
My first boyfriend and I started dating when we were both 13 years old. We dated for 8 years. Then we got married young at the age of 21. We had our first child age 23. We both graduated from college. We have four beautiful babies and we became homeowners. We've been married for about 9 years and still going strong. 😉❤😁
Don’t listen to them girl! That’s actually very beautiful and I’m so impressed and proud you for being with your husband for that long not many people experience that with their first love. Congrats on your 4 beautiful babies wish the best and may God let you be together and happy for many more years 💕💕💕💕
I had this boyfriend who when went to his parents house wouldn't call me for a month, yes a month and i would put up with that. We broke up after 8 yrs and thank god we did
The best advice that I got about Love was that "Love Is Patient" from our heavenly father, True Love Is Worth The Wait & Let God Write You're Love Story
Lol my brother actually had the biggest crush on you Adrienne. He put me onto 3LW & then there was the Cheetah Girls, your reality show with Julissa & now there's The Real. Damn girl you've grown & it's so incredible that I got to see it all. ❤ Stay blessed.
Communication and forgiveness 😁 I was heartbroken over my ex boyfriend of almost 2 years!! I remember crying in my dorm room for months, my mom told me to NEVER give up on love.. focus on yourself and make yourself happy.. which is what I did I graduated from college :) got good grades than a friend of mine revealed his feelings for me :) im so much happier in this relationship! and he doesn’t cuss at all compared to my ex always cussing up a storm
Girl same! I was so heartbroken over my ex, it also took me almost 2 years to fully and completely heal from it. But I have and honestly am so happy that I dodged a bullet lol
After only a minute I'm already snapping giving you a "Yes girl!" I personally relate to your situation with your first boyfriend and wondering how a guy can like me but his "type" is everything but me... but as you said HE BUGGIN! lol
I'm a young mom of 4, one being a teenager. Sometimes, it's easy to get sucked into life's routine, work, home, school, homework, cooking, cleaning, etc. Sometimes by the end of the night, my husband and I look at each other for what seems like for the first time. There are challenges but we do love hard and we also take time to "cheat on the kids" where we take off when they're in school. It's important to make time for each other to unwind and get back to the basics before children. 😘 Love your channel.
I actually started dating at 15 years old, and i dated the guy for almost two years. Then we separated because we needed time to know who we were and, 7 years later boom 💥 now we are together again and planing to probably get married and start a life together.
I give thanks to all of you lovely girls for the love. It surely was a very bumpy ride but, i got to where i have to be and it was better then i ever hoped for. The wait was truly worth.
I can’t relate because I to have been with my boyfriend for 24 years and he’s also never called out my name either and your husband is a good man your a lucky women
Harjot Kaur so true . I’ve had some of the most gorgeous men and they were very boring. And I’ve also had some of my best lovers be not physically attractive. Now... can I have both ?! Lol
Nope. They're both equally important. I don't see the point in being in a romantic relationship with someone in not even physically attracted to. I have had romantic encounters with guys who's personality I like but I know if I were to marry them and be intimate with them it wouldn't feel right lol. And looking back I definitely know I settled.
Tianna Miller I always say this . You have to be physically attractive and mentally . If you like their personality that’s important but also how they look you have to also like it . But everyone has different taste just making sure you feel that connection overall .
I started dating at 18 and he was my first love. When we broke up I thought that I would never get over it. I met my husband a few years after high school. But didn't get married until a few years after that. Been married now for 15 years! I love the fact that you and Israel won't spend more than one week apart. That's soo smart for your marriage and relationship! 😘💕💝
I fell in love for the first time with my current bf at age 25. I always thought I'll end up alone but little did I know someone amazing will come along. The feeling of being in love is priceless!
Iqra Axmed I could give so many but a big one is: Don’t settle! Is not worth it. At first you might feel happy because it’s just a new relationship but a few years into the marriage and you’ll regret it.
90's Nostalgia I literally left someone a month ago because he stopped making any effort (we were together for 5 months but it was my first proper relationship) with me and I confronted him about his inconsistency but he wouldnt change n i realised I deserved so much better so I left (hurt extremely badly but I still did it) n blocked him off everything. he texted me on monday begging for a second chance but I blocked him again. I really pray I get the kind of consistency in a man I want and deserve
however what hit me hard and was difficult to admit is to know when you are not someone priority. it s not that they are busy or tired or wtv . you just not top priority and that does not mean that something is wrong with you are that you are not valuable. Someone will come and show you what it s really like
Marriage certainly looks good on you. Thank you for your pearls of wisdom. I truly believe my true love is out there. I'll be 45 on Thursday and my only birthday wish is that I find my Mr right.
First let me say that you and Israel's performance on The Real last week was so good! I've been married over 20 years and we've had our ups and downs, but I believe that what brings everything back into perspective is the foundation we've built together. Marriage is work and the dynamic is constantly changing. My first real love was in college, and we even got engaged a few years after, but our life goals were on two totally different levels so that breakup was my first real big heartache.
Adrienne you are an inspiration. I really needed this video today, as I am going through the motions of a 6 yr relationship. You’ve really put a lot of things in perspective for me, and really has me thinking what I truly want. Thank you for opening up to all of us and sharing your thoughts on various topics. I always look forward to that notification on Tuesdays ❤️ keep doing great things. Lots of love (love, love) - Tabatha
Best advice from my grandma: “Don’t date anyone from your neighborhood bc you’ll never leave.” That resonated with me bc I wanted out of my hometown and I listened! :)
So happy to see you in a place of JOY Adrienne. Often the hard lesson, heartbreak and struggles lead you to acceptance and value of self. When we become whole we attract someone whole. Blessings to you girlie ......in love, life and building your family. You're a good example of what fostering high standards look like. Thanks for sharing. I'm so proud of you!!
Girl, you hit the nail! Falling in love with yourself first is so important! Only when you love yourself and realise your worth will you be able to let someone else love you the same way! I’m 19 and still single, and I have had two crushes, both which were never reciprocated. Painful, but it taught me to put myself first. I’m now focused on working in myself and loving myself, so that when the time comes, I’ll be loved the way I ought to be. Thanks for this video, I really needed this! 😍❤️❤️
I loveeee videos like this from you!! I see myself in you so much, it's crazy! I can especially relate to your past experiences.. Thank you for this video Aid, love you xoxo
The point you made about not being apart for more than a week is so special. It's amazing that you both have this level of communication. I pray that your love lasts a lifetime. Best wishes to you both!
Seriously my favorite TH-cam channel your content is so refreshing and real! I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 first love 💕 He is always traveling due to his service to our country but we make it work. Communication, trust, respect and food lol is how we make our marriage work! Can’t wait till we have more time to spend together and grow our family.
One of the things I admire so deeply of you and Israel is your love for God. I truly believe relationships work and get thru it all if you put him first. Love you guys and this video girl ♥️
I know this is a year old video Adrienne made but I admire and look up to her level of happiness. You can tell how in love she is and all the qualities she explained she looked in a man were exactly of mine. I've made a lot of quick decisions which basically left me break broken. But someone like Adrienne I have seen on television for years and it's good to see so much happiness come in her life and now she can sit and make a video about it. Teaching the rest of the single girls out there, your time will also come. Love you Adrienne!!
Your eyes really lit up when you spoke about your dreams of touring with your hubby n kids. You truly inspire me, that's the kind of love I need in my life. A man of God, a Leader, protector .....😍😍😍😍😍
This was refreshing to watch. I couldn't agree with you more when you say "A person can only treat you the way that you ALLOW them to treat you!" You may not be able to change the way a person speaks to you, but you sure as hell can bounce up outta that relationship. On a completely different note, can we be expecting a HighLow Fall Outfits/Lookbook video soon? I hope so. ❤
Cassie J I was clapping when she said that! I have a friend who has a boyfriend who treats her HORRIBLE. Calls her out of her name, disrespects her in front of his friends, hits her! And it’s because she allows him to do that and then praises him when he does one good thing 🙄 so annoying
For real Adrienne I’ve never even met you but your advice on your Chanel and your talks on the real with your girls have really gotten me through some shit thanks for being real girl and putting yourself out there ❤️ you’re so strong and independent and you make me want to thrive to have that same independence and strength. You have such a great view on the present , the past and the future and just life in general like wow girl ❤️❤️
4:18-5:20 spot on I hate when I get into a disagreement with a bf and they cut you off, call you out your name, plain rude and then be like why are you so mad. I had an ex like that and thank God I'm no longer with him. If you're with and emotionally abusive person run as fast as you can.
Iv always been in love with the idea of love. I just personally never believed people who would say I’m in love with my best friend. But here I am today dating my high school sweetheart of 6 years and I am so blessed to have found him at such a young age. Before dating we had been friends for 2 years and I couldn’t imagine him and I would ever date but I’m so thankful we did. I wish everyone the best in their love life. There is someone out there for everyone truly. ❤️ remember love is patient
Yay, wonderful advice. Honesty, Trust and Laughter, totally agree, I trust hubby to be honest and vice versa. We also love to travel together and we just enjoy helping people, I'm so proud when I see him offer help to people or organize an event for people, it just makes us happy.
Omg Adrienne ! My parents been together for 24 years & what you said on 5:10 is the same thing what my mom always says! It’s crazy how I’m 23 years old & still single because I think exactly like actual adult. Still, I am young & going to enjoy my 20’s ! Amazing advice ! Much love ❤️
This was awesome. Its amazing how two people from different worlds can fall in love. The week apart is a great idea. Cant wait til i can finally see my live again being in two different countries is super hard. Keep up the great work love
There are so many good nuggets that you have given. I have been thinking that I was ready for a relationship, but I realized that I am still learning and discovering myself. Adrienne you said something so important about how being in space where you are defining yourself and bringing someone into the relationship that is defining you as well, like that makes so much sense to go ahead and know who you are, learn, discover and define yourself. It is best to learn yourself, love you first, get to know yourself you know it's great. Though there is a desire and getting to know who you want in your life because getting to know guys is okay along the way, it is just so great to have that understanding. I also liked the fact that Adrienne you said that you love your husband for who he is. I am realizing how right now it is so easy to see potential and to fall in love with potential of man, especially one who is growing and discovering who he just like I am. I never want to fall in love with man's potential. I always want to fall in love with who a man is. I have discover and fall in love with who I am first though. It is all a process for sure. Writing notes, writing notes! lol
Im waiting for the video on when you discuss your journey on getting back to singing. Making that video would be so important to me bc when you discussed why you stopped singing on the real i literally cried with you. Please speak on the advice you received and what ever else you believe people need to hear.
Great video Adrienne ❤❤❤ I also wanted to share an experience that happened to me recently (since I never comment but I felt the need to because it's so important). So I dated this guy that I knew 3 years ago this year and I broke up with him. Because he wad broken. Because no one showed him what real love looks like. What respect looks like. What being grateful feels like. Him and I are completly different people but I went past my judgements but today I realize how thankful I am to have listened to my intuition. I had SEVERAL red flags about it but choose to ignore it because I had low self esteem & he was my first experience ever with a boy in my entire life. I will say that this gave me a wake up call, that just because I've been single for 21 years doesn't mean that I should jump on whoever gives attention to me. Patience is everything. Was I sad at first? Yes and no. More like confused. Especially when you recognized that verbal abuse is real even if it doesn't look like it from apparences, I was starting to become miserable. A controlling partner is the worse thing anyone could have. So today (after 3 months of breakup) I am still healing from all that stuff but I am in a much better place & I know that I deserve better & that person will come in God's timing. Never lose hope ladies, love yourself & the most important thing : GUARD YOUR HEART & SPIRIT. ❤❤❤❤
Hi Adrienne, i think that you are a very smart person with a lot of experience. I really like to listen to you, you are like a big sister to me and i really try to take ur advices. I never had a good experience with a man and sometimes i do think im gonna end up alone but listening to you really gives me hope. Keep being you and thank you ❤
I love this video,I have been this person,20's are totally the time to go out with the bad boys!!🤣🤣I'm 33 and I have just met my true love,we have now been together 2 1/2yrs,I was single for 3 years before I met him and that was the self-loving time,I upped my game,I purchased my own house,own car and flourished in my career,when I met my man (david) i always say to him that I'm sooo blessed,he did NOT complete me,I did that,he was an amazing blessing to my life,god give me a bonus,everyday I'm grateful for him&our relationship!!thank u for this video,I love that it shows that women CAN have it all!!!
Hi Adrienne! I am in my 60s but I love watching your videos! You are a ray of sunshine and always have such a positive attitude on everything!!! You are truly a joy to watch!!
I totally agree about the points you made about cussing/yelling at each other in moment of discord. You and your partner can disagree but it doesn't need to resort to name calling and shouting. Points can be made without all of that disrespect. And in my experience, once you cross that line, it's really hard to go back. I also loved your comment about laughter being intimate. I totally agree. A guy who can make me laugh is so attractive and is more interesting than someone who just looks good.
I never liked the phrase, "They treat you with what you let them get away with..." because it seems to take responsibility from the abuser/toxic person.
Brownwoman ofGod we can't change a person so all we can do is control how we react. If you dont accept a certain behavior it let's the person know to change and if not you leave. If you put up with it anyway then you just sending the person the message that you'll stick around and they dont have to change. The responsibility is for each person to make that decision. Dont settle either way.
Well you do have a responsibility to respect yourself at all times. Staying with someone who is abusive says a lot about how you see yourself and the worth and respect you give yourself. So that phrase is still very true.
I agree with you because what people need to know is with abuse is also Psychological warfare someone viciously screwing with your mind until your so confused you don't even know how to defend yourself.
Same. I don’t trust someone whose only boundaries or moral compass is led by something or someone else. If they don’t internally feel uncomfortable treating people poorly and displaying abusive behavior, Run! I don’t ever want to treat someone like crap, regardless of what they allow to happen.
Adrienne, first of all your videos have been nothing but so positive! 😁 So happy for you! 😁 Isreal definitely treats you so good you can see that. Love how you both are as husband an wife! So beautiful.
OMG the farting!!! HAHA I love humor and kindness in a guy. Im 25 no where near to marrying and im so in love with myself and have such high standards that i havent ever felt the need to just settle for a blah and bad guy for me just because im lonely, i did that when i was 21 and my fear came true and was heartbroken again. Now i just love myself so much and im ok with just flirting and dating multiple guys within my boudanries because its going to take someone extremely special to really capture my attention! thanks adrienne
My first actual serious relationship started at the age of 14 and I am still with him today (currently 18) I guess many could say that we started dating really young, but I’m glad it happened. We are literally best friends and the cutest thing is that the whole family has seen us grow up which I love.
100%% agree you have to love YOURSELF first, that's the most important relationship to have, when you love yourself you don't look for relationships to define you, you are not dependent on someone else making you feel good or beautiful and that allows you to give each other space and truly love each other for all the things that make you an individual and not a COUPLe.
Adrienne, I have seen you in the media over the years and I must say that from where I am sitting you have blossomed so beautifully. I really enjoy your vlog and the variety of topics you share. God bless you girl. May the Lord’s plan for you and Israel be fulfilled for His glory as you both continue to thrive.
I Love how real and pure your marriage is, y'all truly love each other and y'all have a healthy marriage unlike other people marriages when they curse each other out and lying and all that mess I like how y'all marriage is full with love, honesty and laughter. I Love You Adrienne your my idol I hope you see this comment
You show someone how to treat you is so important!!! I learned that the hard way now I'm divorced! I'm not ever, ever, ever going to make that mistake again
I had a virtual relationship yet it really affected me. I was jealous, he was possessive and there was no trust. At the time of today I do not know if I still love it. Even if we are more in touch, I sometimes think of him and imagine a continuation of our story. Yet I know he will not come back.
This honestly made me cry at some of the topics you were talking about just because I’ve been through a lot in my marriage and I believe in everything that you said honestly you couldn’t of worded it any better you had the perfect words. Also Adrianna you are so special and Israel is so amazing to you you are some one I look up to you’re so genuine and you put God first my favorite thing that you mentioned in this video was how you love you don’t just love how he treats you or what he does for you, you love more than that you love the person he is that hit me hard core I love you girl
I just came across the movie I’m in love with a church girl ... it’s an old movie but I found it amazing that your husband was the executive producer . God already had him in your path then and u didn’t even know .. amazing !!
You guys remind me of my husband and I. Respect is key in a relationship. I love how you guys are so in love it's so adorable. God first always! Btw you are beautiful I love ur style.
Omg I been wanting to ask you for a while if you can recreate your wedding makeup look. Your makeup was so beautiful. Is there any way that you can do it pretty please 🙏😍
Happy for you!!! That’s awesome that you and your husband prioritize each other and how you won’t stay away from eachother more than a week. I think I seen a clip of Kim K crying saying that she finally admitted how she doesn’t want her husband living in a whole different state which led her to not want to be with Kanye anymore. I can see the difference between your marriage and hers. Hope to find my love who will prioritize me and US 💕
What is the best piece of advice you've ever received on love? XO, A
All Things Adrienne I totally agree I had a heartbroken and I’m glad I’m not dating and I love ❤️ myself
I love your channel !!!👋👋👋
Never “settle” because a guy is cute. Don’t let those love goggles fog up your judgement!
All Things Adrienne 1-Mami always told me to love someone who loves you more, 2-let them show you they love you, not just tell you they love you. 3-Observe how they treat other women in their life ie. Mom/sisters 😘
To not go out with anyone in the same culture as You, you never know if later on you found out y'all are cousins or some like that lol
Best advice from my mother when I first started dating and about posting pictures on Instagram... your relationship is between the two of you don't let outsiders project their opinions on something they're not involved in, share some of your happiness but don't forget to focus on each other not the "people" trying to tear you apart with their negativity🙏🏽✌🏽❤
My first boyfriend and I started dating when we were both 13 years old. We dated for 8 years. Then we got married young at the age of 21. We had our first child age 23. We both graduated from college. We have four beautiful babies and we became homeowners. We've been married for about 9 years and still going strong. 😉❤😁
Mandy Chang so you’ve never had the time to know who you are without the presence of a man? Wow... that’s sad.
Wow that's pretty young...
@@Tam... I agree with you too but that's okay. I wouldn't change anything.
@@Kufo-Oriji4632 okay.
Don’t listen to them girl! That’s actually very beautiful and I’m so impressed and proud you for being with your husband for that long not many people experience that with their first love. Congrats on your 4 beautiful babies wish the best and may God let you be together and happy for many more years 💕💕💕💕
She seems so mature and happy in love. Those are actual goals.
Jean Pérez YES💕
Is it just me or Adrienne really has a very refreshing personality that radiates!! ♥️♥️
It's not just you!
“If you go ghost on me, I’ll go Casper on you” I FELT THAT SIS😭🗣
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I had this boyfriend who when went to his parents house wouldn't call me for a month, yes a month and i would put up with that. We broke up after 8 yrs and thank god we did
I literallly went casper for a hole day on my husband MY HUSBAND!! yesterday lol
And he ignored my need of hug for a looong tekst
The best advice that I got about Love was that "Love Is Patient" from our heavenly father, True Love Is Worth The Wait & Let God Write You're Love Story
Yessssssss
Amen!!!!!
I may not always comment, but I never miss a single video. I can't get enough of you beautiful Adrienne!!!
Me too
Yes!!
Lol my brother actually had the biggest crush on you Adrienne. He put me onto 3LW & then there was the Cheetah Girls, your reality show with Julissa & now there's The Real. Damn girl you've grown & it's so incredible that I got to see it all. ❤ Stay blessed.
Communication and forgiveness 😁 I was heartbroken over my ex boyfriend of almost 2 years!! I remember crying in my dorm room for months, my mom told me to NEVER give up on love.. focus on yourself and make yourself happy.. which is what I did I graduated from college :) got good grades than a friend of mine revealed his feelings for me :) im so much happier in this relationship! and he doesn’t cuss at all compared to my ex always cussing up a storm
Bri Russ lol good for you baby girl😂😂💞☺️.
Girl same! I was so heartbroken over my ex, it also took me almost 2 years to fully and completely heal from it. But I have and honestly am so happy that I dodged a bullet lol
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After only a minute I'm already snapping giving you a "Yes girl!" I personally relate to your situation with your first boyfriend and wondering how a guy can like me but his "type" is everything but me... but as you said HE BUGGIN! lol
God! Having God as number one is the most important, if He’s number one, everything else will fall into place.
Carolyn Paulino yessss!
That is one thing she forget to mention!
Preach sister👏👏👏👏👏
Amen!
Yes Amen🙏
I'm a young mom of 4, one being a teenager. Sometimes, it's easy to get sucked into life's routine, work, home, school, homework, cooking, cleaning, etc. Sometimes by the end of the night, my husband and I look at each other for what seems like for the first time. There are challenges but we do love hard and we also take time to "cheat on the kids" where we take off when they're in school. It's important to make time for each other to unwind and get back to the basics before children. 😘 Love your channel.
Cynthia Cardona Love your comment, thanks
Thank you so much for this❤ needed this!🌹
SO true honesty, trust, laugh,yes !! and respect for each other, I have been married 41 years and happy
I actually started dating at 15 years old, and i dated the guy for almost two years. Then we separated because we needed time to know who we were and, 7 years later boom 💥 now we are together again and planing to probably get married and start a life together.
Tianny Lugo congratulations
Congratulations !!
Congratulations so happy for you. You deserve the very best in life and I hope you get everything that you want and ask for. I love seeing true love.
Congrats
I give thanks to all of you lovely girls for the love. It surely was a very bumpy ride but, i got to where i have to be and it was better then i ever hoped for. The wait was truly worth.
My man has never called me out of my name as well in the last 24 years! You have a good man Adrienne. And I do too!! ❤️
I can’t relate because I to have been with my boyfriend for 24 years and he’s also never called out my name either and your husband is a good man your a lucky women
a olivestone you mean can?
relationship goals 💯
Definitely personality over looks, Adrienne. Who agrees? 💕
Harjot Kaur so true . I’ve had some of the most gorgeous men and they were very boring. And I’ve also had some of my best lovers be not physically attractive. Now... can I have both ?! Lol
Lookers sometimes turn out to be abusers, and killers, and the ones not lookers the best man in the world.
Nope. They're both equally important. I don't see the point in being in a romantic relationship with someone in not even physically attracted to. I have had romantic encounters with guys who's personality I like but I know if I were to marry them and be intimate with them it wouldn't feel right lol. And looking back I definitely know I settled.
Yes, but people of the world stuck on looks. Been that way since Biblical times. Either way God got to be in everything we do.
Tianna Miller I always say this . You have to be physically attractive and mentally . If you like their personality that’s important but also how they look you have to also like it . But everyone has different taste just making sure you feel that connection overall .
I started dating at 18 and he was my first love. When we broke up I thought that I would never get over it. I met my husband a few years after high school. But didn't get married until a few years after that. Been married now for 15 years! I love the fact that you and Israel won't spend more than one week apart. That's soo smart for your marriage and relationship! 😘💕💝
I fell in love for the first time with my current bf at age 25. I always thought I'll end up alone but little did I know someone amazing will come along. The feeling of being in love is priceless!
Falling in love with yourself first! Ohh if I only understood this in my 20s 😢
90's Nostalgia never too late. im 23 now, any advice?
Iqra Axmed I could give so many but a big one is: Don’t settle! Is not worth it. At first you might feel happy because it’s just a new relationship but a few years into the marriage and you’ll regret it.
90's Nostalgia I literally left someone a month ago because he stopped making any effort (we were together for 5 months but it was my first proper relationship) with me and I confronted him about his inconsistency but he wouldnt change n i realised I deserved so much better so I left (hurt extremely badly but I still did it) n blocked him off everything. he texted me on monday begging for a second chance but I blocked him again. I really pray I get the kind of consistency in a man I want and deserve
Iqra Axmed ohh yes girl you’ll get that kind of man for sure because you know exactly what you want and won’t lower your standards for anybody 👌
90's Nostalgia YESSS ❤️
I started at 14! Just got out of a 9 year relationship!
I definitely agree that you can not love someone else until you love yourself.
however what hit me hard and was difficult to admit is to know when you are not someone priority. it s not that they are busy or tired or wtv . you just not top priority and that does not mean that something is wrong with you are that you are not valuable. Someone will come and show you what it s really like
Marriage certainly looks good on you. Thank you for your pearls of wisdom. I truly believe my true love is out there. I'll be 45 on Thursday and my only birthday wish is that I find my Mr right.
seek God everything else will b added unto you
First let me say that you and Israel's performance on The Real last week was so good! I've been married over 20 years and we've had our ups and downs, but I believe that what brings everything back into perspective is the foundation we've built together. Marriage is work and the dynamic is constantly changing. My first real love was in college, and we even got engaged a few years after, but our life goals were on two totally different levels so that breakup was my first real big heartache.
Adrienne you are an inspiration. I really needed this video today, as I am going through the motions of a 6 yr relationship. You’ve really put a lot of things in perspective for me, and really has me thinking what I truly want. Thank you for opening up to all of us and sharing your thoughts on various topics. I always look forward to that notification on Tuesdays ❤️ keep doing great things. Lots of love (love, love) - Tabatha
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Best advice from my grandma: “Don’t date anyone from your neighborhood bc you’ll never leave.” That resonated with me bc I wanted out of my hometown and I listened! :)
So happy to see you in a place of JOY Adrienne. Often the hard lesson, heartbreak and struggles lead you to acceptance and value of self. When we become whole we attract someone whole. Blessings to you girlie ......in love, life and building your family. You're a good example of what fostering high standards look like. Thanks for sharing. I'm so proud of you!!
Communication is very important. Don’t forget
Girl, you hit the nail! Falling in love with yourself first is so important! Only when you love yourself and realise your worth will you be able to let someone else love you the same way! I’m 19 and still single, and I have had two crushes, both which were never reciprocated. Painful, but it taught me to put myself first. I’m now focused on working in myself and loving myself, so that when the time comes, I’ll be loved the way I ought to be. Thanks for this video, I really needed this! 😍❤️❤️
I loveeee videos like this from you!! I see myself in you so much, it's crazy! I can especially relate to your past experiences.. Thank you for this video Aid, love you xoxo
The point you made about not being apart for more than a week is so special. It's amazing that you both have this level of communication. I pray that your love lasts a lifetime. Best wishes to you both!
Seriously my favorite TH-cam channel your content is so refreshing and real!
I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 first love 💕 He is always traveling due to his service to our country but we make it work. Communication, trust, respect and food lol is how we make our marriage work! Can’t wait till we have more time to spend together and grow our family.
Honesty, Trust & Laughter. I agree 1000%... took the words right outta my mouth.
Adrienne coming through with that bomb advice I love this ❣️ this will help me out in the future ❣️ I love love love this thankyouuu QUEEN 👑
Yesss, girl! Love yourself when going through heartbreak.
One of the things I admire so deeply of you and Israel is your love for God. I truly believe relationships work and get thru it all if you put him first. Love you guys and this video girl ♥️
I know this is a year old video Adrienne made but I admire and look up to her level of happiness. You can tell how in love she is and all the qualities she explained she looked in a man were exactly of mine. I've made a lot of quick decisions which basically left me break broken. But someone like Adrienne I have seen on television for years and it's good to see so much happiness come in her life and now she can sit and make a video about it. Teaching the rest of the single girls out there, your time will also come. Love you Adrienne!!
Your eyes really lit up when you spoke about your dreams of touring with your hubby n kids. You truly inspire me, that's the kind of love I need in my life. A man of God, a Leader, protector .....😍😍😍😍😍
I so feel you on being a passionate person. It can be such a beautiful quality but can be a weakness in the wrong relationships
You hit everything on point. You are awesome and I just love love your videos. ❤️
This was refreshing to watch. I couldn't agree with you more when you say "A person can only treat you the way that you ALLOW them to treat you!" You may not be able to change the way a person speaks to you, but you sure as hell can bounce up outta that relationship.
On a completely different note, can we be expecting a HighLow Fall Outfits/Lookbook video soon? I hope so. ❤
Cassie J I was clapping when she said that! I have a friend who has a boyfriend who treats her HORRIBLE. Calls her out of her name, disrespects her in front of his friends, hits her! And it’s because she allows him to do that and then praises him when he does one good thing 🙄 so annoying
❤️❤️🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Tuesday with Adrienne Day
We've been married for 26 years and we had a nice talk last night. I'm so thankful for your wisdom. May God bless you Ms Adrienne
Feels good to be married an in love no matter the situation 💖💖💖💖 my husband an I are the happiest!!
For real Adrienne I’ve never even met you but your advice on your Chanel and your talks on the real with your girls have really gotten me through some shit thanks for being real girl and putting yourself out there ❤️ you’re so strong and independent and you make me want to thrive to have that same independence and strength. You have such a great view on the present , the past and the future and just life in general like wow girl ❤️❤️
A lot of what you said I’m currently learning the hard way lol. I’m glad I watched this, the advice was sound 👌🏽
4:18-5:20 spot on I hate when I get into a disagreement with a bf and they cut you off, call you out your name, plain rude and then be like why are you so mad. I had an ex like that and thank God I'm no longer with him. If you're with and emotionally abusive person run as fast as you can.
You don't know how much your advices mean to me A !😭💯💜
Iv always been in love with the idea of love. I just personally never believed people who would say I’m in love with my best friend. But here I am today dating my high school sweetheart of 6 years and I am so blessed to have found him at such a young age. Before dating we had been friends for 2 years and I couldn’t imagine him and I would ever date but I’m so thankful we did.
I wish everyone the best in their love life. There is someone out there for everyone truly. ❤️ remember love is patient
Adrienne been sounding the same forever lol this girl dont age
I just turned 21 and I am so happy I stumbled upon this video. I love how open you are😭💕
Just realized how much I like Adrienne ☺️
Yay, wonderful advice. Honesty, Trust and Laughter, totally agree, I trust hubby to be honest and vice versa. We also love to travel together and we just enjoy helping people, I'm so proud when I see him offer help to people or organize an event for people, it just makes us happy.
“I’m gonna go Casper on you, oh wait, Casper is a friendly ghost, I have to find a real ghostexample. “ 😂😂😂
Omg Adrienne ! My parents been together for 24 years & what you said on 5:10 is the same thing what my mom always says! It’s crazy how I’m 23 years old & still single because I think exactly like actual adult. Still, I am young & going to enjoy my 20’s ! Amazing advice ! Much love ❤️
This was awesome. Its amazing how two people from different worlds can fall in love. The week apart is a great idea. Cant wait til i can finally see my live again being in two different countries is super hard. Keep up the great work love
"I love him for who he is." WOW. So simple yet profound. I want the same A.
I love how she shouted out Hector! Hahaha!
There are so many good nuggets that you have given. I have been thinking that I was ready for a relationship, but I realized that I am still learning and discovering myself. Adrienne you said something so important about how being in space where you are defining yourself and bringing someone into the relationship that is defining you as well, like that makes so much sense to go ahead and know who you are, learn, discover and define yourself.
It is best to learn yourself, love you first, get to know yourself you know it's great. Though there is a desire and getting to know who you want in your life because getting to know guys is okay along the way, it is just so great to have that understanding.
I also liked the fact that Adrienne you said that you love your husband for who he is. I am realizing how right now it is so easy to see potential and to fall in love with potential of man, especially one who is growing and discovering who he just like I am. I never want to fall in love with man's potential. I always want to fall in love with who a man is. I have discover and fall in love with who I am first though. It is all a process for sure. Writing notes, writing notes! lol
Going through a heartbreak right now. Needed this today, thank you!!
Aw it was so amazing hearing you say your dream is touring together!!!! The power of manifestation 👌🏻😌
Im waiting for the video on when you discuss your journey on getting back to singing. Making that video would be so important to me bc when you discussed why you stopped singing on the real i literally cried with you. Please speak on the advice you received and what ever else you believe people need to hear.
Ma you deserve all you got, im sure it wasn’t easy but having someone so special it was all worth it... God bless you and God bless your Family
Great video Adrienne ❤❤❤ I also wanted to share an experience that happened to me recently (since I never comment but I felt the need to because it's so important). So I dated this guy that I knew 3 years ago this year and I broke up with him. Because he wad broken. Because no one showed him what real love looks like. What respect looks like. What being grateful feels like. Him and I are completly different people but I went past my judgements but today I realize how thankful I am to have listened to my intuition. I had SEVERAL red flags about it but choose to ignore it because I had low self esteem & he was my first experience ever with a boy in my entire life. I will say that this gave me a wake up call, that just because I've been single for 21 years doesn't mean that I should jump on whoever gives attention to me. Patience is everything. Was I sad at first? Yes and no. More like confused. Especially when you recognized that verbal abuse is real even if it doesn't look like it from apparences, I was starting to become miserable. A controlling partner is the worse thing anyone could have. So today (after 3 months of breakup) I am still healing from all that stuff but I am in a much better place & I know that I deserve better & that person will come in God's timing. Never lose hope ladies, love yourself & the most important thing : GUARD YOUR HEART & SPIRIT. ❤❤❤❤
Honesty , truth and laughter is what I deff agree with !!!!
Oh please don't ever disappear Adrienne, Besos!!
Hi Adrienne, i think that you are a very smart person with a lot of experience. I really like to listen to you, you are like a big sister to me and i really try to take ur advices. I never had a good experience with a man and sometimes i do think im gonna end up alone but listening to you really gives me hope. Keep being you and thank you ❤
The best piece of advice I’ve received is make sure the person you’re dating respects you but also your family!
I love this video,I have been this person,20's are totally the time to go out with the bad boys!!🤣🤣I'm 33 and I have just met my true love,we have now been together 2 1/2yrs,I was single for 3 years before I met him and that was the self-loving time,I upped my game,I purchased my own house,own car and flourished in my career,when I met my man (david) i always say to him that I'm sooo blessed,he did NOT complete me,I did that,he was an amazing blessing to my life,god give me a bonus,everyday I'm grateful for him&our relationship!!thank u for this video,I love that it shows that women CAN have it all!!!
You look gorgeous!!! Love your channel so much!! Your the best girl 💗💗
Hi Adrienne! I am in my 60s but I love watching your videos! You are a ray of sunshine and always have such a positive attitude on everything!!! You are truly a joy to watch!!
I personally like being single... relationships come with a lot of stress sadly.
Girl , I agree with you
I agree too
I totally agree about the points you made about cussing/yelling at each other in moment of discord. You and your partner can disagree but it doesn't need to resort to name calling and shouting. Points can be made without all of that disrespect. And in my experience, once you cross that line, it's really hard to go back. I also loved your comment about laughter being intimate. I totally agree. A guy who can make me laugh is so attractive and is more interesting than someone who just looks good.
I never liked the phrase, "They treat you with what you let them get away with..." because it seems to take responsibility from the abuser/toxic person.
Brownwoman ofGod we can't change a person so all we can do is control how we react. If you dont accept a certain behavior it let's the person know to change and if not you leave. If you put up with it anyway then you just sending the person the message that you'll stick around and they dont have to change. The responsibility is for each person to make that decision. Dont settle either way.
Well you do have a responsibility to respect yourself at all times. Staying with someone who is abusive says a lot about how you see yourself and the worth and respect you give yourself. So that phrase is still very true.
I agree with you because what people need to know is with abuse is also Psychological warfare someone viciously screwing with your mind until your so confused you don't even know how to defend yourself.
@@frenchvanilla7109 Exactly
Same. I don’t trust someone whose only boundaries or moral compass is led by something or someone else. If they don’t internally feel uncomfortable treating people poorly and displaying abusive behavior, Run! I don’t ever want to treat someone like crap, regardless of what they allow to happen.
"That you will always be together" - How beautiful is that.. This is what I want for my life, to have someone that is so committed.
Adrienne, first of all your videos have been nothing but so positive! 😁 So happy for you! 😁 Isreal definitely treats you so good you can see that. Love how you both are as husband an wife! So beautiful.
I agree that it is very Important to know who you are before you allow someone else to try to influence how you see and love yourself.
OMG the farting!!! HAHA I love humor and kindness in a guy. Im 25 no where near to marrying and im so in love with myself and have such high standards that i havent ever felt the need to just settle for a blah and bad guy for me just because im lonely, i did that when i was 21 and my fear came true and was heartbroken again. Now i just love myself so much and im ok with just flirting and dating multiple guys within my boudanries because its going to take someone extremely special to really capture my attention! thanks adrienne
Very real down to earth love advice. Time is another factor. If a guy does not spend sufficient time with you, move on!!!
Fall in love with Jesus first... Let Him teach you what love is, how to love yourself & how to love others.
My first actual serious relationship started at the age of 14 and I am still with him today (currently 18) I guess many could say that we started dating really young, but I’m glad it happened. We are literally best friends and the cutest thing is that the whole family has seen us grow up which I love.
“There is going to be farts in life” 😂😂😂
Dairy-State Vegan I saw this comment the moment she said it 😂😂
HAHA!
LOL so funny!! And I thought it was me who did not hear right LOL
@@lujainmustafa20 mee too!! And I'm here laughing 😂😂🤣I just love Adrienne
100%% agree you have to love YOURSELF first, that's the most important relationship to have, when you love yourself you don't look for relationships to define you, you are not dependent on someone else making you feel good or beautiful and that allows you to give each other space and truly love each other for all the things that make you an individual and not a COUPLe.
You’re so real . I love your advice ! 💕
Why did I feel like you are hugging me the entire time I was watching this video! You are literally my mom 💜 luv you
a guy who broke my heart a few years ago remembered the details of our date and i doubt he cares since he did hurt me emotionally
Adrienne, I have seen you in the media over the years and I must say that from where I am sitting you have blossomed so beautifully. I really enjoy your vlog and the variety of topics you share. God bless you girl. May the Lord’s plan for you and Israel be fulfilled for His glory as you both continue to thrive.
Love all things Adrienne ❣️
I Love how real and pure your marriage is, y'all truly love each other and y'all have a healthy marriage unlike other people marriages when they curse each other out and lying and all that mess I like how y'all marriage is full with love, honesty and laughter. I Love You Adrienne your my idol I hope you see this comment
Love your videos Adrienne!!!! So authentic ❤️
You show someone how to treat you is so important!!! I learned that the hard way now I'm divorced! I'm not ever, ever, ever going to make that mistake again
I had a virtual relationship yet it really affected me. I was jealous, he was possessive and there was no trust. At the time of today I do not know if I still love it. Even if we are more in touch, I sometimes think of him and imagine a continuation of our story. Yet I know he will not come back.
This honestly made me cry at some of the topics you were talking about just because I’ve been through a lot in my marriage and I believe in everything that you said honestly you couldn’t of worded it any better you had the perfect words. Also Adrianna you are so special and Israel is so amazing to you you are some one I look up to you’re so genuine and you put God first my favorite thing that you mentioned in this video was how you love you don’t just love how he treats you or what he does for you, you love more than that you love the person he is that hit me hard core I love you girl
You look amazing! Great video with nice gems.
I just came across the movie I’m in love with a church girl ... it’s an old movie but I found it amazing that your husband was the executive producer . God already had him in your path then and u didn’t even know .. amazing !!
One of my favourite episode. Thank you queenie ❤️
You guys remind me of my husband and I. Respect is key in a relationship. I love how you guys are so in love it's so adorable. God first always! Btw you are beautiful I love ur style.
Omg I been wanting to ask you for a while if you can recreate your wedding makeup look. Your makeup was so beautiful. Is there any way that you can do it pretty please 🙏😍
Happy for you!!! That’s awesome that you and your husband prioritize each other and how you won’t stay away from eachother more than a week. I think I seen a clip of Kim K crying saying that she finally admitted how she doesn’t want her husband living in a whole different state which led her to not want to be with Kanye anymore. I can see the difference between your marriage and hers.
Hope to find my love who will prioritize me and US 💕
Girl you made my day with this video..I hope one day God sends a good man my way.
Paused this at 8:40 and I am soooo lucky to be one of those people that truly have their best friend as their lover!!!