This is a little deep, not sure if you'll talk about this topic or have ever gone through this topic, BUT My husband has struggled with p*rn his whole life, and unfortunately has brought it into our marriage. He has completely opened that part of him to me and he hates that part of him, but it's an addiction for him. Now, me as a wife, I struggle with my insecurities thinking "I'm not good enough" but he constantly reassures me it's not me at all, it's something he's struggled with since 13. Hes gotten incredibly better with watching it but it still creeps up every once ina while. How can I get over myself and my feelings and be his supportive wife who believes God will take care of it and help him break out of these chains? What can I do besides pray??
How to date for marriage without getting discouraged? I often find myself talking to men and after a while it seems pointless to talk anymore due to lack of efforts. It’s easy to walk away if a man doesn’t take time to know what makes me happy /sad, fav food that makes me dance 😂, my values, etc. I have been single for 6 years now and I have a good head on my shoulders just focusing on my career and seeking answers. I’m just not having any luck.
OMG I saw your video reacting to movie argument scene and I thought you were amazing. You have a brilliant way of seeing things!!! I'm definitely going to subscribe to your channel❤ and we have something in common already lol!!! WE BOTH LOVE ADRIENNE😆❤
NOTICE SHE SAID HUSBAND! Don't give your all to your boyfriend or crush! Make them upgrade to the Wifey package! You truly are the sexiest to men when you leave somethings for them to literally imagine!
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone my advice is enjoy your experiences to the full weather it be your boyfriend or a crush who knows probably this was the energy he needed to take it to the next level / marriage
I was married 30 years. We did the till death model. We lived we fought we had kids we made love and yelled and held hands till the day he died. So i kind of feel like in an expert on my marriage. Marriage is hard. Real work to make it work. Therapy does work. Before it gets to dividing the property and child custody, get counceling. Even if you feel like everythings ok, go. Ok works but it can so much better than ok. Learn to fight fair. Dont take that kill shot. Its not worth the deep scars those leave. Figure out their love language, i know thats sounds dumb but we each love in our own way. Mine is validation. I liked him to notice just how much i did in a say. His was physical touch. That took time to figure out, because we didnt know to ask. ...and talk. A lot. Be your partners best friend.
Omg…..the question “how did you become comfortable with sex as a strong Christian woman”…I’m so happy you answered this. Because I’ve been struggling with this my WHOLE life. 💜 I almost got emotional and felt almost freed hearing you say that the idea of sex is bad is a lie.
Hello, Love! If I may, I would also encourage you to read the Song of Solomon in the Bible and also look up what some of the verses mean. The book is quite “spicy” lol and it shows the passion that two lovers and soon to be spouses have for each other. God ordained sex and it is only the wrong teachings of people which makes us believe otherwise. I pray this helps and that you are able to live fully and freely. Be blessed ❤️
Another thing that could help a couple is to know that there is a difference between sex and intimacy. Often times the focus is on the sex part only. What is intimacy to you? Do you feel that you have reached that deep level of comfort and communication with your partner? Does he understand your fears about sex in a non judgemental manner? Do you put up a show just to please him? So many things to unpack. Sex is beautiful. All the best dear.
I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 years old and we are going on 22 years of marriage. I needed this video to spice it up! Thank you for sharing this! 🔥
Watching Adrienne since I was 3 with the Cheetah Girls, she taught me how to be myself and be kind to others and now at 22 she’s teaching me sex tips💀😂 Grateful for Big Sister Adrienne🤍
Adrienne’s answer to ‘Can exes be friends?’ - Omg she talks all the time about her parents/stepparents coparenting beautifully!! You can absolutely be friends with someone you were involved with, especially once time has passed and you have a greater purpose for this like your kids.
@M. I feel like the definition of friends is the tricky part. Like chips you see them meeting someone else, falling in love, treating that other person great? Would it be fair to ask them to do the same? Could it lead to temptation? How would your spouse feel? I think that’s a good limit test.
@@jessicaevans2564 The stepfamilies situation I described, they go on vacations together and hang out closely all the time. So yes, safe to say as former lovers they have gone through everything you’re talking about with no issues.
That comment on being grateful for just being a wife is so true I am also grateful for knowing myself through the past 5years before getting into marriage. Blessed to be single
I swear you are my sexuality twin! Lol I love your confidence and your love for sexuality and sensuality. I also think being sensual is a great and a necessary quality to have as a wife. It allows husbands to know they’re loved and genuinely desired and it is also great and beneficial for women to be able to let go of their inhibitions. This was awesome, Adrienne. Keep them coming 😘
I definitely forced a relationship that wasn’t the best for me because I desperately wanted the relationship and wanted to be married. I had to have a tough conversation with myself and with him and I ended the relationship. Looking back now I realized we shouldn’t have been a couple in the first place. We were better off as friends. This was a great video. Keep them coming!
I am so comforted hearing you say that while you want to be a mother, you have also come to realize that you've enjoyed being Israel's wife. I completely feel you on that! I've been married 5 years with my hubby too, and we've had a tough fertility journey, but just about a month ago I told him, honey while I love that we want to have our kiddos, I'm realizing that I'm grateful for these last 5 years that we have gotten to learn each other better through it all, and enjoyed each other's company as a twosome. We're still on our journey, and trusting God's process, but I'm truly grateful for this time of "us." Love this video so much!!! You're a blessing, and so is your husband. 💜
I love hearing all the advice. I have been married almost 18 years and i am sucking up all the advice and pointers because after years of marriage you kind of forget or need some ideas to spice up the marriage, so this video was awesome.
I appreciate this video. I've been with my man for 10 years now and I forget how to be sexy sometimes. Being a mother all day and then transforming into a sexy woman for him is difficult. Oh but do I want to 💘 this gives me a little bit of a push to not be so scared 😅 love you always girl!!
I’m a 24 year old fan and my entire family knows just how much I love you!! These videos along with The Real have helped me enter into adulthood ♥️♥️ from Alana to now you’ve been my favorite celebrity 🥰🥰
About feeling tired, it’s addressed in the bible, about not denying your spouse. So you may feel tired but you make the sacrifice, marriage is about you both serving each other
I understand what you’re saying. 😂 I don’t think anyone is turned on by that. I’m just saying, I’m sure there are times when its vice versa. It’s all about serving
Loved the vulnerability and transparency in your answers! It's great to know we all face similar issues in relationships. Thanks for the advice!! Besos xoxo
This was so helpful, I’m married 23 and am the oldest never really had an older sister to speak to and this was perfect. Gracias Adrienne, mucho amor para ti y tu hermosa familia ♥️
You are literally my “Salma Hayek”. I loved this video and I wanna be like you when I grow up!! 😩😩 I mean I’m 23 but I wanna grow into my sexuality as a Christian woman and not feel shame or guilt and I wanna exude the sensuality and sexuality that you do. This was awesome. I also super appreciate the transparency of the real feelings bc I was convinced y’all were perfect 😅
LMAO at the halfway through “yes I’m doing this” 😂😂😂 totally true. Perfect correlation. This place is such a safe haven. I’ve loved you ever since I was a pre-teen watching Cheetah Girls 😘
I love the transparency in this from the sex and intimacy positivity to you sharing about your argument. As I navigate my own romantic relationship, it’s hard to tell what healthy disagreements and arguments are these days as IG warps our perception of love and what we should expect from our partners. This video is so affirming. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
She said she would have sex every day before marriage but they aren't having sex every day. I agree with being intimate with your hubby every day. All the ladies said that so the ladies were right..and she doesn't have kids yet. I have been with my husband for 10 years we have 2 kids and intimacy is a priority but sex isn't always gonna happen especially with kids around all the time.
I remember you mentioning on the real that you and your husband decided to wait till marriage regardless of past relationships. Could you give some advice on how to get this topic about, temptations, etc Would really appreciate it 💕
@@Bubbles0011 LOL........as if they really did. Y'all BELIEVE anything. Even her twisted lies and stories about how they came to be She never was a Christian wandering around with Kardashian brother those other men. Unbelievable how many LIES SHE HAS BEEN caught in and yet YALL STILL FIND reasons to worship her. Lol. Ignorant
Girl I loved all of it. The gym analogy took me all the way out, I was screaming!! My hubby and I will be married 12 years, I especially loved you letting people who may think that you and Isreal are "relationship goals" that every relationship is different and setting priorities for your individual relationships. Keeping the lines of communication open talk about everything!!! The comfortable and the uncomfortable. You are amazing!!
Adrienne, I really appreciate how open, honest and vulnerable you are with your viewers. As a Christian woman, it's a breath of fresh air to hear another Christian woman normalize sex and sexuality, and intimacy within a marriage. I think that many of us were taught that sex is bad and that experimenting or trying new or different things within the marriage is a sin. Thank you for being so open with your responses, I think you have helped a lot of women including myself.
She is not Christian Far from it and what is weird is that many so called CHRISTIANS who knows her and ISREAL history THINK THEY ARE TOO.... HE IS AN ADULTERER that married another worldly woman who LIES and make people think she is godly. Joke
I love watching you! I have been married for 32 years , married when I was 20 and he was 32. We are both still very attracted to each other, keep being sexy and keeping him interested 💕
Great conversation! The key take away: Sexual Intimacy WITHIN the marriage covenant is a BEAUTIFUL Thing. God designed sex as a gift to be enjoyed completely and freely between a husband and a wife. This conversation should be normalized and had more often within the Christian community.
honestly , you just made me think 🤔 I love God and I love my boyfriend. I think we should take sex off the table until we’re married. We’ve been doing it wrong for so long and I think we can do well by just doing it the right way. It’s never to late & I know he will be on board with it . Sometimes sex blind and complicates things so thanks for reminding me that we need to get back to being friends like best best friends and following Gods commandment!
@@michellement2158 Praise God! What a beautiful outcome. It is never too late and you can be assured that if you and your boyfriend follow God’s way, HE will never disappoint you and you both will be so blessed for your obedience to HIM. ♥️💯👏🏾🙏🏾
Amen!! That's a word from above! Even Jesus talked about sexual immorality and how marriage should be! If the Lord said it, then we should belive and follow it! God bless.
That was very profound. Adrian is a different type of person she does not fight back her emotions like people fight back tears she left her emotion dictator how she behaves not saying she's not calculated but I think her emotions get the best of her for the most part
Can you do maybe a round table with similar questions? I'm curious how having children would change your answers. Maybe have your sister or other moms you are close to chime in? That would be great!
I always wish I had sisters or even cousins to ask questions like this, so thank u so much for always keeping it real even though ur a celebrity. I love these type of videos!!
I am one of those folks dealing with the guilt and shame in my marriage. It’s like I was brainwashed that intimacy was a bad thing. I’m thankful for your boldness, Adrienne. I don’t see many Christians talking about this. It’s refreshing to see how comfortable you are. Definitely a goal of mine. ❣️
I love love loveee that you talked about something that you and Is went through.😉 That shows that you are not only talking about what you heard or read, but about your own experiences. Love that👌🏾👌🏾
My husband and I were married for 5 years, before we had our daughter. We had a challenging fertility journey, but during that time we traveled, slept in, and had a great time as husband and wife. And Adrienne is me about the picking her up late feelings! That’s me with my husband! I am you, you are me!
I loved every minute of this. On the Real, you mentioned being intimate every day. And you discussed it today, recently i also brought that up to my partner. Intimacy is not just sex and i told him that. for me ive been increasing my cuddling, kissing, hugging and it has been so great for my relationship. ❤
I love the fit, I love the jewelry, I love the slick bun, I love the classy sassy face beat , I loved your answers, and appreciate you for having this convo with us.
I can absolutely relate to love being a wife and also wanting a family. Being married for almost 4 years. Couples therapy is very healthy and smart of you!!!
Oftentimes it feels like celebs are just saying whatever they have to to get views/likes and it doesn't feel genuine. I see so much content from the same people because they're who I love to surround myself with like you and Jeannie. Thank you for opening up on this episode and being real about the genuine dynamics of life. People don't want the highlight reel, they just want real. I appreciated this one more than I have others in a minute. Thank you!
I love love love this. I think this should be a series on your show. I have been married for almost 16 years and you advice has help me see in a different light. Muchas Gracias. 💜
I recommend marriage counseling even beforehand marriage because marriage is hard. It’s not easy. Its a lot of give & take. I wish we had some counseling before getting married. I’m still married 23 years later but still would help. If I’m honest in some marriages or situation sex isn’t everything in a marriage, because sometimes couples deal with issues like health problems or not being able to satisfy your partner. Then you honestly don’t have a choice but to deal with it. Trust me. These issues exist. So please make sure , your relationship is solid besides the fact of having relations.
I love that I've been able to grow up with you Adrienne ❤ I could relate to you when I was young & as an adult too - thank you 🌹😊 Such a warm & beautiful woman 💐
You’re changing the GAME in this video Adrienne! I love how you dealt with the Christian and sex stigma, and the idea of using sex toys. Yes, yes, and yes! I sent this video to so many people! Thank you!! All of it is needed!
Adrienne, you should talk more about sex and being sensual, sexual, feeling female. A lot of us need women like you, to listen to and learn from, cause of horrific experiences in life
Adrienne, I love you soo much! And I see you as my sister. I wish I can just sit down one day and just vent and cry to you about marriage. I love your honesty, I love how you are very transparent and your humbleness. Much love 😘
Loved this!! Mahalo for sharing, Ade!! Would love for you to do a chat about blended families, being a stepmom with adult stepchildren, being a second wife, being in an age gap relationship, etc.
Adrienne, I was so happy to actually heard you talking about how you got mad at Is, sometimes I feel that you are such a perfect couple, like you guys never get angry, but by hearing you saying this made me feel so identified with you. SALUDOS DESDE MÉXICO 🇲🇽♥
Thank you for staying real! I think and understand that so many celebrities try to keep their lives private, but it helps us see that you guys have real problems too. It helps us not have unrealistic expectations
Adrienne!! I have a question I’ve been wanting to ask you and I hope you see this and hope it’s answered on your next question video but.. I really REALLY want to know how you learned to trust Israel. If there were certain things you had to get over or get through to trust. If there was a moment that made you really realize “wow. I can trust him 1000% to never hurt me.” Or if it just came naturally and you never had to have a talk about trust or you never had doubts/jealousy/insecurities. I HOPE YOU ANSWER THIS QUESTION! Love you A 🤍
I agree that there should be a lot and a lot of conversation about the type of marriage, what you like , what you don’t like, intimacy and all things marriage. As a married person, I can truly say that to not have a lot of conversation around marriage is a huge mistake.Thank you so much for this video! Blessings and peace to you and your family! 🙏
You’re just so honest, I love listening to you. On the real on your channel it feels like you’re a friend. Stay true may gods continue to bless you and your family.
I know everyone is saying this but this video was absolutely amazing, well said and appreciated!!! I love all of your videos but I REALLY appreciate and enjoy your shift in content. It feels very authentic and warm. Thank you ❤️
Dios mio. Ur my fav celeb since Cheetah Girls and to see u walking with God and being so real and open about things like this it makes my heart so happy and blessed to see you this way. I’m 18 almost 19 and I’ve always looked up to you and so glad u made a video like this. Made me open my eyes more and be more mature about these topics. Thank you so much. God bless you always love 💕
This is absolutely one of my favorite ATA episodes!!! Definitely got me thinking. You and Israel are relationship goals 💕 praying to the Lord that I have that one day 🙏🏽
I love when she said it’s like going to the gym you’re all tired once you get there but once you’re there it’s like why have I’ve been doing this the whole time😂 awesome advice And yes I want to continue being my husband of 17 years fantasy girl Doesn’t have to stop just because we’re getting older❤️
I agree that what you make a priority is what will come through but if I remember correctly, one of the biggest hurdles was after having kids. I think that should be noted as well cause it isn’t as easy when you have babies around. HOWEVER, I still think if you prioritize it, it can still happen. Maybe just not as often but more often than you think if that makes sense.
What other questions or topics do you want to hear more about?
About self care (in the house ) . More make up tutorials. Books that changed your mindset. Love you A, eres de lo mejor !!!!
First, I love everything about you! I also wanted to ask, if you haven't answered it yet, where is your gorgeous robe from? Thank you
This is a little deep, not sure if you'll talk about this topic or have ever gone through this topic, BUT
My husband has struggled with p*rn his whole life, and unfortunately has brought it into our marriage. He has completely opened that part of him to me and he hates that part of him, but it's an addiction for him. Now, me as a wife, I struggle with my insecurities thinking "I'm not good enough" but he constantly reassures me it's not me at all, it's something he's struggled with since 13. Hes gotten incredibly better with watching it but it still creeps up every once ina while. How can I get over myself and my feelings and be his supportive wife who believes God will take care of it and help him break out of these chains? What can I do besides pray??
For us women who are curious or uncertain... what’s is like being married to a man who has children by other women?
How to date for marriage without getting discouraged? I often find myself talking to men and after a while it seems pointless to talk anymore due to lack of efforts. It’s easy to walk away if a man doesn’t take time to know what makes me happy /sad, fav food that makes me dance 😂, my values, etc. I have been single for 6 years now and I have a good head on my shoulders just focusing on my career and seeking answers. I’m just not having any luck.
Adrienne, I’m a marriage therapist and I absolutely love your responses. I’m even taking notes for myself and clients! Great video ♥️
i love your videos !
OMG I saw your video reacting to movie argument scene and I thought you were amazing. You have a brilliant way of seeing things!!! I'm definitely going to subscribe to your channel❤ and we have something in common already lol!!! WE BOTH LOVE ADRIENNE😆❤
Hi Steph Anya. All things Adrienne is great!
I’m a therapist too and I literally take Adrienne’s wisdom with me when I approach my clients :)
That would be smart
Do you realize that you're like a big sister to all of us? 🥺 Please make more of these A.
Ikr... in my head shes my BF lol
I love that you said, “as your wife I still want to be your fantasy . “
I think there should be a part 2. ☺️
Totally agree! 💛
Yes!!!
I concur 💯
💯 yes!
Yes we need a part 2
“As your wife you should want to be your husbands fantasy’s” 📝✅✅✅✅ Adrienne you’re dropping gems !
NOTICE SHE SAID HUSBAND! Don't give your all to your boyfriend or crush! Make them upgrade to the Wifey package! You truly are the sexiest to men when you leave somethings for them to literally imagine!
Agree 👏👏👏
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone my advice is enjoy your experiences to the full weather it be your boyfriend or a crush who knows probably this was the energy he needed to take it to the next level / marriage
If you love your boyfriend or crush and wanna do it then do it.
But this is NOT HER HUSBAND. Yes she been comfort with her sexuality cause she has never waited. she STILL waiting cause HE IS NOT HER HUSBAND
@@Rio_Monique yes do it and go to HELL For free
Cause it is sin FORNICATION.
I was married 30 years. We did the till death model.
We lived we fought we had kids we made love and yelled and held hands till the day he died.
So i kind of feel like in an expert on my marriage.
Marriage is hard. Real work to make it work. Therapy does work. Before it gets to dividing the property and child custody, get counceling. Even if you feel like everythings ok, go. Ok works but it can so much better than ok.
Learn to fight fair. Dont take that kill shot. Its not worth the deep scars those leave.
Figure out their love language, i know thats sounds dumb but we each love in our own way.
Mine is validation. I liked him to notice just how much i did in a say. His was physical touch. That took time to figure out, because we didnt know to ask.
...and talk. A lot. Be your partners best friend.
This is beautifully written.. Thank you.
So sorry for your loss 😌🙏🏽
I love this. Thank you for sharing and sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
Ok this is gooooddd
Thank you ! You are blessed ♥️
Omg…..the question “how did you become comfortable with sex as a strong Christian woman”…I’m so happy you answered this. Because I’ve been struggling with this my WHOLE life. 💜 I almost got emotional and felt almost freed hearing you say that the idea of sex is bad is a lie.
❤️❤️❤️
Hello, Love! If I may, I would also encourage you to read the Song of Solomon in the Bible and also look up what some of the verses mean. The book is quite “spicy” lol and it shows the passion that two lovers and soon to be spouses have for each other. God ordained sex and it is only the wrong teachings of people which makes us believe otherwise. I pray this helps and that you are able to live fully and freely. Be blessed ❤️
Another thing that could help a couple is to know that there is a difference between sex and intimacy. Often times the focus is on the sex part only. What is intimacy to you? Do you feel that you have reached that deep level of comfort and communication with your partner? Does he understand your fears about sex in a non judgemental manner? Do you put up a show just to please him? So many things to unpack. Sex is beautiful. All the best dear.
She is not no Christian women at all
@@Cslojasmin who are you to determine if she’s a Christian woman
She even matched the outfit. The effort and time she invested. I can't with her at the beginning 🤣
" If a man loves you, you will know. If he doesn't, you will be confused " 6:57
This was wonderful! Btw, therapy while things are great for maintenance is a BRILLIANT idea!!!
Girl, you don’t know how many people you’re helping with your beautiful and genuine advice right now. I am one of them and thank you!
I’ve been with my husband since I was 17 years old and we are going on 22 years of marriage. I needed this video to spice it up! Thank you for sharing this! 🔥
Before i watch this, i just wanted to say: Adrienne has been GLOWING lately 🥺
2022 is definitely her year ✨
do this kind of videos more OFTENNNN u re like a big sister to everyone here
YESS
@bluee fairy WHERE ?
Watching Adrienne since I was 3 with the Cheetah Girls, she taught me how to be myself and be kind to others and now at 22 she’s teaching me sex tips💀😂 Grateful for Big Sister Adrienne🤍
Literally same here!
Adrienne’s answer to ‘Can exes be friends?’ - Omg she talks all the time about her parents/stepparents coparenting beautifully!! You can absolutely be friends with someone you were involved with, especially once time has passed and you have a greater purpose for this like your kids.
@M. I feel like the definition of friends is the tricky part. Like chips you see them meeting someone else, falling in love, treating that other person great? Would it be fair to ask them to do the same? Could it lead to temptation? How would your spouse feel? I think that’s a good limit test.
@@jessicaevans2564 The stepfamilies situation I described, they go on vacations together and hang out closely all the time. So yes, safe to say as former lovers they have gone through everything you’re talking about with no issues.
Adrienne you are your own sex therapist. Well said 🙏🙏❤
That comment on being grateful for just being a wife is so true
I am also grateful for knowing myself through the past 5years before getting into marriage.
Blessed to be single
Loving the Single Season .Amen. its beautiful 🙌🏽
I swear you are my sexuality twin! Lol I love your confidence and your love for sexuality and sensuality. I also think being sensual is a great and a necessary quality to have as a wife. It allows husbands to know they’re loved and genuinely desired and it is also great and beneficial for women to be able to let go of their inhibitions. This was awesome, Adrienne. Keep them coming 😘
She is no wife or true CHRISTIAN.
Keep believing her lies
She doesn't know what the armor of God is and she doesn't have the HOLY GHOST. LIES
@@TriciaRP The Song of Solomon is way more “x-rated” than anything Adrienne has ever said 🤷🏾♀️
I definitely forced a relationship that wasn’t the best for me because I desperately wanted the relationship and wanted to be married. I had to have a tough conversation with myself and with him and I ended the relationship. Looking back now I realized we shouldn’t have been a couple in the first place. We were better off as friends.
This was a great video. Keep them coming!
I am so comforted hearing you say that while you want to be a mother, you have also come to realize that you've enjoyed being Israel's wife. I completely feel you on that! I've been married 5 years with my hubby too, and we've had a tough fertility journey, but just about a month ago I told him, honey while I love that we want to have our kiddos, I'm realizing that I'm grateful for these last 5 years that we have gotten to learn each other better through it all, and enjoyed each other's company as a twosome. We're still on our journey, and trusting God's process, but I'm truly grateful for this time of "us." Love this video so much!!! You're a blessing, and so is your husband. 💜
I love hearing all the advice. I have been married almost 18 years and i am sucking up all the advice and pointers because after years of marriage you kind of forget or need some ideas to spice up the marriage, so this video was awesome.
I appreciate this video. I've been with my man for 10 years now and I forget how to be sexy sometimes. Being a mother all day and then transforming into a sexy woman for him is difficult. Oh but do I want to 💘 this gives me a little bit of a push to not be so scared 😅 love you always girl!!
I’m a 24 year old fan and my entire family knows just how much I love you!! These videos along with The Real have helped me enter into adulthood ♥️♥️ from Alana to now you’ve been my favorite celebrity 🥰🥰
About feeling tired, it’s addressed in the bible, about not denying your spouse. So you may feel tired but you make the sacrifice, marriage is about you both serving each other
I understand what you’re saying. 😂 I don’t think anyone is turned on by that. I’m just saying, I’m sure there are times when its vice versa. It’s all about serving
Loved the vulnerability and transparency in your answers! It's great to know we all face similar issues in relationships. Thanks for the advice!! Besos xoxo
this slick hair is everything. such a beauty😍
This was so helpful, I’m married 23 and am the oldest never really had an older sister to speak to and this was perfect. Gracias Adrienne, mucho amor para ti y tu hermosa familia ♥️
Can I just say, you’re so inspiring, insightful and I’m so glad you’re also on TH-cam. Thank you for being you! 🌞
You are literally my “Salma Hayek”. I loved this video and I wanna be like you when I grow up!! 😩😩 I mean I’m 23 but I wanna grow into my sexuality as a Christian woman and not feel shame or guilt and I wanna exude the sensuality and sexuality that you do. This was awesome. I also super appreciate the transparency of the real feelings bc I was convinced y’all were perfect 😅
Do part 2 but with ur husband 🙂🙃 it could be second opinion! 🥰
We definitely need a part 2. This was Educational
Honestly I appreciate your vulnerability and authenticity it’s admirable 💕
LMAO at the halfway through “yes I’m doing this” 😂😂😂 totally true. Perfect correlation. This place is such a safe haven. I’ve loved you ever since I was a pre-teen watching Cheetah Girls 😘
I love the transparency in this from the sex and intimacy positivity to you sharing about your argument. As I navigate my own romantic relationship, it’s hard to tell what healthy disagreements and arguments are these days as IG warps our perception of love and what we should expect from our partners. This video is so affirming. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
She said she would have sex every day before marriage but they aren't having sex every day. I agree with being intimate with your hubby every day. All the ladies said that so the ladies were right..and she doesn't have kids yet. I have been with my husband for 10 years we have 2 kids and intimacy is a priority but sex isn't always gonna happen especially with kids around all the time.
I feel as though if you have sex everyday, it gets boring. I like the idea of yearning and distance and mystery. I feel that keeps it spicy.
Love the vulnerability and noticing the difference in answers single vs married A. Growth 👏🏽👏🏽
I love when she shares her personal stories.
I remember you mentioning on the real that you and your husband decided to wait till marriage regardless of past relationships. Could you give some advice on how to get this topic about, temptations, etc
Would really appreciate it 💕
You're probably talking about Tamera
@@lorenag1781 I’m pretty sure it was A! She very briefly mentioned it in one of the videos after their wedding that she waited with Israel
@@Bubbles0011 yes she did
@@Bubbles0011 LOL........as if they really did. Y'all BELIEVE anything. Even her twisted lies and stories about how they came to be
She never was a Christian wandering around with Kardashian brother those other men. Unbelievable how many LIES SHE HAS BEEN caught in and yet YALL STILL FIND reasons to worship her. Lol. Ignorant
Loved this segment so honest and transparent. I'm engaged and a Christian woman too so really appreciated the space to hear these topics.
Girl I loved all of it. The gym analogy took me all the way out, I was screaming!! My hubby and I will be married 12 years, I especially loved you letting people who may think that you and Isreal are "relationship goals" that every relationship is different and setting priorities for your individual relationships. Keeping the lines of communication open talk about everything!!! The comfortable and the uncomfortable. You are amazing!!
Adrienne, I really appreciate how open, honest and vulnerable you are with your viewers. As a Christian woman, it's a breath of fresh air to hear another Christian woman normalize sex and sexuality, and intimacy within a marriage. I think that many of us were taught that sex is bad and that experimenting or trying new or different things within the marriage is a sin. Thank you for being so open with your responses, I think you have helped a lot of women including myself.
She is not Christian
Far from it and what is weird is that many so called CHRISTIANS who knows her and ISREAL history THINK THEY ARE TOO....
HE IS AN ADULTERER that married another worldly woman who LIES and make people think she is godly. Joke
I love watching you! I have been married for 32 years , married when I was 20 and he was 32. We are both still very attracted to each other, keep being sexy and keeping him interested 💕
Great conversation! The key take away: Sexual Intimacy WITHIN the marriage covenant is a BEAUTIFUL Thing. God designed sex as a gift to be enjoyed completely and freely between a husband and a wife. This conversation should be normalized and had more often within the Christian community.
Amen 🥰🙏🏽
honestly , you just made me think 🤔 I love God and I love my boyfriend. I think we should take sex off the table until we’re married. We’ve been doing it wrong for so long and I think we can do well by just doing it the right way. It’s never to late & I know he will be on board with it . Sometimes sex blind and complicates things so thanks for reminding me that we need to get back to being friends like best best friends and following Gods commandment!
@@michellement2158 Praise God! What a beautiful outcome. It is never too late and you can be assured that if you and your boyfriend follow God’s way, HE will never disappoint you and you both will be so blessed for your obedience to HIM. ♥️💯👏🏾🙏🏾
Just wait 6months that’s enough…
Amen!! That's a word from above! Even Jesus talked about sexual immorality and how marriage should be! If the Lord said it, then we should belive and follow it! God bless.
I love this so much! I’m still a virgin and not married but these videos definitely give amazing tips for that next stage in my life!
Tears (touched) while listening to you speak about dropping on your knees as well when Israel proposed. Beautiful.
That was very profound. Adrian is a different type of person she does not fight back her emotions like people fight back tears she left her emotion dictator how she behaves not saying she's not calculated but I think her emotions get the best of her for the most part
I like that Adrienne covered so many topics and answered so many questions. ❤
Can you do maybe a round table with similar questions? I'm curious how having children would change your answers. Maybe have your sister or other moms you are close to chime in? That would be great!
I love how authentic and transparent you are, Adrienne! 💕
"Lanaaa, Rayyy, mom, daddd?" 😭 I love you
Yassss Ade! Come through with the experience. You answered each one thoughtfully. And you look beautiful in that black dress ❤️
Love her do NOT trust her husband for a New York minute.
@@mariapadilla7501 Oooooh, tell us moreeeee….
I love this video and I love how feminine yet confident and bold A is. She really inspires me 💖 I hope we get a part two!
I always wish I had sisters or even cousins to ask questions like this, so thank u so much for always keeping it real even though ur a celebrity. I love these type of videos!!
Spot on with everything you said. It’s always key to live YOUR life the way YOU intend it to be.
I am one of those folks dealing with the guilt and shame in my marriage. It’s like I was brainwashed that intimacy was a bad thing.
I’m thankful for your boldness, Adrienne. I don’t see many Christians talking about this. It’s refreshing to see how comfortable you are. Definitely a goal of mine. ❣️
I so appreciate how you kept all the answers real and fun.
I love love loveee that you talked about something that you and Is went through.😉
That shows that you are not only talking about what you heard or read, but about your own experiences. Love that👌🏾👌🏾
My husband and I were married for 5 years, before we had our daughter. We had a challenging fertility journey, but during that time we traveled, slept in, and had a great time as husband and wife.
And Adrienne is me about the picking her up late feelings! That’s me with my husband! I am you, you are me!
I loved every minute of this. On the Real, you mentioned being intimate every day. And you discussed it today, recently i also brought that up to my partner. Intimacy is not just sex and i told him that. for me ive been increasing my cuddling, kissing, hugging and it has been so great for my relationship. ❤
This episode is everything 💕 I’d love to see a video with Adrienne and Julissa about this topic 💃🏽🎉
I love the fit, I love the jewelry, I love the slick bun, I love the classy sassy face beat , I loved your answers, and appreciate you for having this convo with us.
I can absolutely relate to love being a wife and also wanting a family. Being married for almost 4 years. Couples therapy is very healthy and smart of you!!!
Oftentimes it feels like celebs are just saying whatever they have to to get views/likes and it doesn't feel genuine. I see so much content from the same people because they're who I love to surround myself with like you and Jeannie. Thank you for opening up on this episode and being real about the genuine dynamics of life. People don't want the highlight reel, they just want real. I appreciated this one more than I have others in a minute. Thank you!
I love your transparency especially as a Christian woman. It’s inspiring and admirable. Love you and Israel!
Wanting and desiring ones partner after yrs together is the greatest gift you can honor them with...great video...Love you two together ❤
I love love love this. I think this should be a series on your show. I have been married for almost 16 years and you advice has help me see in a different light. Muchas Gracias. 💜
I agree. This segment should definitely turn into a series ❤️
Adrienne treats Iz like he is so hot...you have to give it to her.
Picturing all this in my head was crazy.
I love y'all together.
I recommend marriage counseling even beforehand marriage because marriage is hard. It’s not easy. Its a lot of give & take. I wish we had some counseling before getting married. I’m still married 23 years later but still would help. If I’m honest in some marriages or situation sex isn’t everything in a marriage, because sometimes couples deal with issues like health problems or not being able to satisfy your partner. Then you honestly don’t have a choice but to deal with it. Trust me. These issues exist. So please make sure , your relationship is solid besides the fact of having relations.
Agree! 🙏🏽
Absolutely loved the honesty 🥺🥰. Hopefully you do this more often. Love you Adrienne ❤️❤️❤️
I love that I've been able to grow up with you Adrienne ❤ I could relate to you when I was young & as an adult too - thank you 🌹😊 Such a warm & beautiful woman 💐
You’re changing the GAME in this video Adrienne! I love how you dealt with the Christian and sex stigma, and the idea of using sex toys. Yes, yes, and yes! I sent this video to so many people! Thank you!! All of it is needed!
Adrienne, you should talk more about sex and being sensual, sexual, feeling female. A lot of us need women like you, to listen to and learn from, cause of horrific experiences in life
I can listen 👂🏾 to Adrienne talk all day her voice is soothing yet commanding of your attention
I absolutely love you, the transparency and honesty you deliver every single time. God bless you and your family ❤
Adrienne, I love you soo much! And I see you as my sister. I wish I can just sit down one day and just vent and cry to you about marriage. I love your honesty, I love how you are very transparent and your humbleness. Much love 😘
Loved this!! Mahalo for sharing, Ade!! Would love for you to do a chat about blended families, being a stepmom with adult stepchildren, being a second wife, being in an age gap relationship, etc.
I love these conversations- I feel like you are so real clear and helpful in advising people to have conversations or expectations
Adrienne, I was so happy to actually heard you talking about how you got mad at Is, sometimes I feel that you are such a perfect couple, like you guys never get angry, but by hearing you saying this made me feel so identified with you.
SALUDOS DESDE MÉXICO 🇲🇽♥
I really loved how sincere and honest adrienne answered the questions
I love Adrienne's genuine energy so much!!! Ever since 3LW, "Blue Mascara", Empire Girls she's been Top 5!! 😍😍😍
Only Taina fans will catch that little part lol
@@kaylaburse6319 hahaha MVP status only :D
Thank you for staying real! I think and understand that so many celebrities try to keep their lives private, but it helps us see that you guys have real problems too. It helps us not have unrealistic expectations
Adrienne!! I have a question I’ve been wanting to ask you and I hope you see this and hope it’s answered on your next question video but.. I really REALLY want to know how you learned to trust Israel. If there were certain things you had to get over or get through to trust. If there was a moment that made you really realize “wow. I can trust him 1000% to never hurt me.” Or if it just came naturally and you never had to have a talk about trust or you never had doubts/jealousy/insecurities. I HOPE YOU ANSWER THIS QUESTION! Love you A 🤍
“Do you praise the lord for that?” 😂😂😂😂😂 that blessed meeeee 😂😂
I agree that there should be a lot and a lot of conversation about the type of marriage, what you like , what you don’t like, intimacy and all things marriage. As a married person, I can truly say that to not have a lot of conversation around marriage is a huge mistake.Thank you so much for this video! Blessings and peace to you and your family! 🙏
You’re just so honest, I love listening to you. On the real on your channel it feels like you’re a friend. Stay true may gods continue to bless you and your family.
I know everyone is saying this but this video was absolutely amazing, well said and appreciated!!! I love all of your videos but I REALLY appreciate and enjoy your shift in content. It feels very authentic and warm. Thank you ❤️
I love that u said sex is a priority in ur marriage and u prioritise that in ur marriage. Beautiful 😍
You did a really good job with such a sensitive topic to some. Such class!
You are sooooo relatable💕💕💕💕. Very genuine, kind, and REAL.
I literally felt like I was sitting with my bestie. Loved the feel of this video
Dios mio. Ur my fav celeb since Cheetah Girls and to see u walking with God and being so real and open about things like this it makes my heart so happy and blessed to see you this way. I’m 18 almost 19 and I’ve always looked up to you and so glad u made a video like this. Made me open my eyes more and be more mature about these topics. Thank you so much. God bless you always love 💕
Can this be a series? Or like podcast channel? 😂💕 i love this!!
Honestly I’m so grateful for you. I’m 23, I’ve learnt so much from you and I love how you’re so real and honest!
Question 1 made me smile Soo much. I love this woman ❤️
Wonderful Adrienne, you are so genuinely honest and realistic with your answers. It is extremely helpful to couples in my opinion.
This is absolutely one of my favorite ATA episodes!!! Definitely got me thinking. You and Israel are relationship goals 💕 praying to the Lord that I have that one day 🙏🏽
I love when she said it’s like going to the gym you’re all tired once you get there but once you’re there it’s like why have I’ve been doing this the whole time😂 awesome advice And yes I want to continue being my husband of 17 years fantasy girl Doesn’t have to stop just because we’re getting older❤️
I agree that what you make a priority is what will come through but if I remember correctly, one of the biggest hurdles was after having kids. I think that should be noted as well cause it isn’t as easy when you have babies around. HOWEVER, I still think if you prioritize it, it can still happen. Maybe just not as often but more often than you think if that makes sense.
Omg look absolutely stunning in black. You make everything look more pretty