This came out at the perfect time! I feel the shorter days and dark nights are getting to a lot of people. :( I’ve found socializing a bit (even when I don’t feel like it) and focusing on creative passions helps a lot. Thanks for all you do!
I think a lot of people become entitled to other people’s lives and forget that you are a person too with your own struggles ups and downs and they should be happy that you make stuff for us, not demand it that takes the joy away so please everyone let’s be kind to each other ❤
hi haley! I’ve been a fan for a few months now and watching your videos has become my favorite part of the day, I watch them while studying and before I sleep everyday. you’re so beautiful inside and out and your presence is truly comforting, I appreciate all the work you put into this and I love all sorts of content that you make, especially the ramble videos because hearing you talk about random things is so nice while I’m doing other tasks, I also realized that I relate to you tremendously and coming from a person who’s dealing with similar things, I really hope that you go easy on yourself and prioritize your comfort, you’re doing your best and that’s what matters. thank you for sharing little parts of you life with us♡
i relate so much. the piling deadlines and projects got me into such a depressive slump that i neglected myself terribly. hygiene. diet. everything. i was stressed constantly and actually still need to regulate my nervous system from that chronic stress. i finally got out of it once i finished the assignments, but i kept telling myself "time will pass anyway" and tried to remember that so much stress wasn't worth it. thank you for sharing and being open !
I relate to this so much. Anytime I get overwhelmed, I just shut down. I stop taking care of myself, I lose the motivation to do anything, I would rather sleep the day away than do the things I need to do, or even the things I usually enjoy. I'm really trying to be more mindful when I start feeling like this, and I try to push myself out of the slump. I sorta try to "force" myself to do things I enjoy in hopes that it makes me feel a little better, because otherwise I literally just end up lying in bed all day. But i'm happy you took this little self-care moment. It’s definitely motivating me to do the same, because I know I have had a rough last few weeks. Also, please don’t stress yourself out about posting videos or anything like that. The people who genuinely care about you understand that you have your own life, with its ups and downs. We’ll always be here for you whenever you feel ready to post. Just take care of yourself, you’re an amazing person, and you truly deserve it. 💖
This is the first video of yours I'm watching and it almost feels like I was meant to see it. Wishing you and everyone who's going through a similar time well ❤
I understand, this hits deep for me. I struggle so much with procrastination and always have. The struggle with anxiety, depression makes it so hard to function. In these situations all we can do “self care.” Sending lots of love and a massive hug your way. I am proud of you. 🫶💜
The shorter days are so hard on the soul sometimes. I really hope this was healing for you and you’re getting out of your slump. Finish the semester strong and take care of yourself in the ways that feel right for you! 🤍
I'm so sorry you had such a hard week 😢 It's ok to not feel ok. It's crucial to not feel any shame or guilt during tough times outside daily obligations. I'm glad you took time to take care of yourself! I am also experiencing Impostor Syndrome and this vlog felt like a warm hug! Your videos are always so hopeful and inspiring. They really mean a lot. Thank you for being so kind and positive! I hope that you feel the same about them! Have a great week sweet Haley, take care 🧡🍀
What you had to say about self care and the true depth of depressive episodes feels like you were inside my head! As hard as it is to show this side of life to a public audience, I feel like myself and so many others resonate with it-we’re all trying our best to get through each and every day, and I weirdly think that has the capacity to bring so many people together, so thank you. You’re right, we’ll all get through it!
I'm so glad you felt this process with me. It really can be so overwhelming, but we do what we can to push through, and that is okay. Thank you so much.
Don’t be too hard on yourself. Sometimes we can only do what we’re able to with the resources available. I was in a slump for many, many years before I finally connected with a therapist that actually made a difference in my treatment and finally found the correct medication combo for me!
Please don’t think you owe us any explanation, we understand how much stress and pressure you’ve been under, your mental health is very important and I’m so glad to see you doing the little things to help lift your spirits ❤
I’m in the same slump too, unfortunately I failed my classes this semester because of it. I’m slowly getting my room in order but as for grades they are long gone! If you haven’t already a good self care day (everything shower) and some fresh sheets with a candle always makes me feel better. It’s easier said than done but i’m going to try to aim that for myself soon. I hope you are doing better hun! 🤍
I can relate to this. But the important thing is to not let that prohibit you from trying again. Failure is a part of progress. For all students: “Maslow before Bloom”
Ooooh the beauty of an everything shower and clean sheets. A literal breath of fresh air. I hope you are pushing forward and being kind with yourself, we are not in a race, though that is a difficult concept to hold on to for myself as well. Thank you so much, I hope the absolute same for you.
My sister had my son over for the night last night and I took an everything shower. Even did my nails and watched movies which I rarely get time for. I woke up feeling so refreshed and rejuvenated.
Thank you so so much Calcifer for Another Amazing and Beautiful ASMR Vlog.Thank you for always being such a Beautiful, inspiring,and wonderful TH-camr.I will always support you so so so much 🥹🥹💗💗
One of the things that I realized recently was that something that was not modeled to me when I was growing up was how to love myself. I feel like I learned deeply how to do the opposite. I know well how to abuse myself through my thoughts and behavior patterns, but really loving myself seems like such a foreign idea. I was told recently that the more I learn to love myself, the easier it will be to create the life I want. So my new quest is to find out what loving myself really means and how to accomplish it. I think the more we take care of ourselves, the more love we are showing. Your videos are inspiring.
This is such a lovely video! I too get in depressive slumps(A LOT) and this is very encouraging. I’m glad you’re doing better and hopefully the rest of semester isn’t too bad!
Haley! I haven’t commented in a while but 100% been going through these same 20’s struggles, I appreciate your insight and relatability! There’s a book called Make Your Bed, some schools made us read it but I think that book goes well with the topics you’re speaking on with motivation and how the little things go a long way…keep pushing and being a rockstar per usual 🎉
Life has been crazy busy lately with me, but I wanted to stop by and tell you that you’re amazing, life will get easier (for both of us) and you will come out on top!! Keep being amazing and true to yourself. Well wishes from Pennsylvania!
uhg such a great video! we all struggle from time to time and it's always nice to see that we're not alone! good to see you're taking care of yourself, because you deserve it and inspire a lot of people by doing so much love my girl ❤
Haley there are times in everyone's life when you have to focus on oneself. Not selfish at all. Everyone does it. I have been through many semester endings, and they were never fun. I used to roll home from college about 5 days before Christmas and crash right into my job and was exhausted when everyone else was much more lively. People who truly enjoy your company are going to miss you when you are gone for several days but are also going to understand the need. Those assignments are crucial to your grades and what you have worked so hard for. Life happens. You have to remember the ones who send barb comments at you have taken all of 5 seconds out of their life to write their "expectations". You are the one who has to invest the time to make it happen and if you have important things you need to get done like final projects, work, studying for finals, you have to put that on the front burner. I love to see you when I can. I get it. Hang in there Haley!
Hello my dear, please ignore the trolls as all they have to do is take cheap shots at people who are actually trying to make other people's lives better! It is self hate and loathing that drives them to do it, so don't even give them the time of day! Thank you for another excellent video ❤️ 🤗
Thank you for this...I've been on an ADHD slump lately and today I kinda managed to do some stuff. Somehow it makes me feel less alone in this situation. Thank you so much. Really
Had a day off, and my shift starts in 4 hours from now, this shall help to get some sleep for sure, glad you posted at perfect timing as well, greetings from Serbia, 2 AM atm ._.
What really bothers me about academia and the university system is that it robs young people of their motivation and sense of wonder, while making them feel like it’s their fault. As an older “nontraditional” student who is dealing with the same thing, I can only imagine how daunting the process must be for people recently out of high school.
This came out at the perfect time! I feel the shorter days and dark nights are getting to a lot of people. :( I’ve found socializing a bit (even when I don’t feel like it) and focusing on creative passions helps a lot. Thanks for all you do!
I’m so glad to hear that, thank you so much! 🧡
I think a lot of people become entitled to other people’s lives and forget that you are a person too with your own struggles ups and downs and they should be happy that you make stuff for us, not demand it that takes the joy away so please everyone let’s be kind to each other ❤
This is so kind of you to say. The empathy we all need haha. Thank you, really, I appreciate you.
Totally agree ❤
hi haley!
I’ve been a fan for a few months now and watching your videos has become my favorite part of the day, I watch them while studying and before I sleep everyday. you’re so beautiful inside and out and your presence is truly comforting, I appreciate all the work you put into this and I love all sorts of content that you make, especially the ramble videos because hearing you talk about random things is so nice while I’m doing other tasks, I also realized that I relate to you tremendously and coming from a person who’s dealing with similar things, I really hope that you go easy on yourself and prioritize your comfort, you’re doing your best and that’s what matters. thank you for sharing little parts of you life with us♡
i relate so much. the piling deadlines and projects got me into such a depressive slump that i neglected myself terribly. hygiene. diet. everything. i was stressed constantly and actually still need to regulate my nervous system from that chronic stress. i finally got out of it once i finished the assignments, but i kept telling myself "time will pass anyway" and tried to remember that so much stress wasn't worth it. thank you for sharing and being open !
I relate to this so much. Anytime I get overwhelmed, I just shut down. I stop taking care of myself, I lose the motivation to do anything, I would rather sleep the day away than do the things I need to do, or even the things I usually enjoy. I'm really trying to be more mindful when I start feeling like this, and I try to push myself out of the slump. I sorta try to "force" myself to do things I enjoy in hopes that it makes me feel a little better, because otherwise I literally just end up lying in bed all day. But i'm happy you took this little self-care moment. It’s definitely motivating me to do the same, because I know I have had a rough last few weeks.
Also, please don’t stress yourself out about posting videos or anything like that. The people who genuinely care about you understand that you have your own life, with its ups and downs. We’ll always be here for you whenever you feel ready to post. Just take care of yourself, you’re an amazing person, and you truly deserve it. 💖
This is the first video of yours I'm watching and it almost feels like I was meant to see it. Wishing you and everyone who's going through a similar time well ❤
Thank you so much for stopping in with me, I appreciate you!
I understand, this hits deep for me. I struggle so much with procrastination and always have. The struggle with anxiety, depression makes it so hard to function. In these situations all we can do “self care.” Sending lots of love and a massive hug your way. I am proud of you. 🫶💜
The shorter days are so hard on the soul sometimes. I really hope this was healing for you and you’re getting out of your slump. Finish the semester strong and take care of yourself in the ways that feel right for you! 🤍
I'm so sorry you had such a hard week 😢
It's ok to not feel ok. It's crucial to not feel any shame or guilt during tough times outside daily obligations. I'm glad you took time to take care of yourself!
I am also experiencing Impostor Syndrome and this vlog felt like a warm hug! Your videos are always so hopeful and inspiring. They really mean a lot. Thank you for being so kind and positive! I hope that you feel the same about them!
Have a great week sweet Haley, take care 🧡🍀
What you had to say about self care and the true depth of depressive episodes feels like you were inside my head! As hard as it is to show this side of life to a public audience, I feel like myself and so many others resonate with it-we’re all trying our best to get through each and every day, and I weirdly think that has the capacity to bring so many people together, so thank you. You’re right, we’ll all get through it!
I'm so glad you felt this process with me. It really can be so overwhelming, but we do what we can to push through, and that is okay. Thank you so much.
Best whisper voice and calming videos on TH-cam. Thankful for you and your natural approach of you being you. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!
Don’t be too hard on yourself. Sometimes we can only do what we’re able to with the resources available.
I was in a slump for many, many years before I finally connected with a therapist that actually made a difference in my treatment and finally found the correct medication combo for me!
I think I am slowly beginning that process with a counselor I've connected to, so I am hopeful. Thank you so much.
Please don’t think you owe us any explanation, we understand how much stress and pressure you’ve been under, your mental health is very important and I’m so glad to see you doing the little things to help lift your spirits ❤
I’m in the same slump too, unfortunately I failed my classes this semester because of it. I’m slowly getting my room in order but as for grades they are long gone! If you haven’t already a good self care day (everything shower) and some fresh sheets with a candle always makes me feel better. It’s easier said than done but i’m going to try to aim that for myself soon. I hope you are doing better hun! 🤍
I can relate to this. But the important thing is to not let that prohibit you from trying again. Failure is a part of progress.
For all students: “Maslow before Bloom”
Ooooh the beauty of an everything shower and clean sheets. A literal breath of fresh air. I hope you are pushing forward and being kind with yourself, we are not in a race, though that is a difficult concept to hold on to for myself as well. Thank you so much, I hope the absolute same for you.
My sister had my son over for the night last night and I took an everything shower.
Even did my nails and watched movies which I rarely get time for.
I woke up feeling so refreshed and rejuvenated.
Thank you Haley for being so authentic and human.
Thank you so so much Calcifer for Another Amazing and Beautiful ASMR Vlog.Thank you for always being such a Beautiful, inspiring,and wonderful TH-camr.I will always support you so so so much 🥹🥹💗💗
One of the things that I realized recently was that something that was not modeled to me when I was growing up was how to love myself. I feel like I learned deeply how to do the opposite. I know well how to abuse myself through my thoughts and behavior patterns, but really loving myself seems like such a foreign idea. I was told recently that the more I learn to love myself, the easier it will be to create the life I want. So my new quest is to find out what loving myself really means and how to accomplish it. I think the more we take care of ourselves, the more love we are showing. Your videos are inspiring.
im most definitely in a slump rn, mainly because of losing a very close loved one recently. this video is encouraging
This is such a lovely video! I too get in depressive slumps(A LOT) and this is very encouraging. I’m glad you’re doing better and hopefully the rest of semester isn’t too bad!
You are so special , keep up the amazing work 🫵👸👸👸
Love you. I'm just grateful for any posts. Please don't make yourself poorly trying to please people. 😘😘😘
Haley! I haven’t commented in a while but 100% been going through these same 20’s struggles, I appreciate your insight and relatability! There’s a book called Make Your Bed, some schools made us read it but I think that book goes well with the topics you’re speaking on with motivation and how the little things go a long way…keep pushing and being a rockstar per usual 🎉
Life has been crazy busy lately with me, but I wanted to stop by and tell you that you’re amazing, life will get easier (for both of us) and you will come out on top!! Keep being amazing and true to yourself. Well wishes from Pennsylvania!
I suffer badly with anxiety and panic attacks alot an ur videos help so much thank you ❤
uhg such a great video! we all struggle from time to time and it's always nice to see that we're not alone! good to see you're taking care of yourself, because you deserve it and inspire a lot of people by doing so
much love my girl ❤
You are so sweet, thank you so much. I'm really happy you enjoyed this.
Haley there are times in everyone's life when you have to focus on oneself. Not selfish at all. Everyone does it. I have been through many semester endings, and they were never fun. I used to roll home from college about 5 days before Christmas and crash right into my job and was exhausted when everyone else was much more lively. People who truly enjoy your company are going to miss you when you are gone for several days but are also going to understand the need. Those assignments are crucial to your grades and what you have worked so hard for. Life happens. You have to remember the ones who send barb comments at you have taken all of 5 seconds out of their life to write their "expectations". You are the one who has to invest the time to make it happen and if you have important things you need to get done like final projects, work, studying for finals, you have to put that on the front burner. I love to see you when I can. I get it. Hang in there Haley!
Hello my dear, please ignore the trolls as all they have to do is take cheap shots at people who are actually trying to make other people's lives better! It is self hate and loathing that drives them to do it, so don't even give them the time of day!
Thank you for another excellent video ❤️ 🤗
You talk so lovingly 💜would you do a video on giving motivation for those who are feeling lonely and unmotivated
You are enough, I will say it again You are ENOUGH! You are loved and you are important.
Thank you for this...I've been on an ADHD slump lately and today I kinda managed to do some stuff. Somehow it makes me feel less alone in this situation. Thank you so much. Really
Had a day off, and my shift starts in 4 hours from now, this shall help to get some sleep for sure, glad you posted at perfect timing as well, greetings from Serbia, 2 AM atm ._.
Right there with you girl. 🥹
I loved the video ❤so relaxing also i love your hairs
Thank you so much! 🧡
Your videos are amazing Haley thank you for making my days better hope your having a peaceful and relaxing day Haley 😊
Today has been quite peaceful actually, thank you so much.
@ Atc Haley I’m really happy to hear that I know you gonna do awesome in your finals
Just when I need you most 🤧
So glad this came in time for you!
I love your videos, so does my girlfriend, and my dog!
Love the vlog type videos sister 💯
You so real for this one 🫂
She is, it's so comforting to see it.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it, my friend.
seeing we have the same yeti tumbler really struck a cord with me that i need to do the dishes
Small Asmrtist here 🎉😢🎉😢
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 stay amazing women😊, thanks 4 all your effort Haley
Hi Haley I hope your doing well I hope your family Is doing good as well and I hope you have a wonderful thanksgiving
This week without you posting has felt long! This video feels all the more special though for your return
I think so too, it has felt like forever to me. Thank you so much for stopping in with me, regardless.
Uni sounds really busy Hailey! If you need time to focus on your studies, then it’s completely reasonable to prioritise that.
Great video as always :)
Thank you so much, my friend. When needed, I absolutely will.
Hi happy Sunday ❤❤
Wonderful relaxing!!!!!! :)))))
I hope you always have a beautiful day Queen
Thank you so much beautiful!
I hope you’re doing ok missed your videos for sure but you being in a good place is more important
I've missed making them, for sure. Thank you so much for stopping in to watch.
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What really bothers me about academia and the university system is that it robs young people of their motivation and sense of wonder, while making them feel like it’s their fault. As an older “nontraditional” student who is dealing with the same thing, I can only imagine how daunting the process must be for people recently out of high school.
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The crazy thing is we only exist in these comments for you. 8 months ago I didn't even exist, I'm just a concept fr. 🐬