These videos are so special. They’re so warm and comfortable. If it’s at all helpful or comforting to hear- I just turned 27 and am actually back in school, finally finding my footing in a career I am excited about. It’s easy to feel like your early twenties are full of these major life points, but I hope you can remember there’s no timeline. Take every day one at a time ❤
Thank you hailey for being so vulnerable with us even thought I know it can’t be easy. You bring comfort to so many people, me included!! I relate to so many things that you said in this video it makes me feel a lot less alone in this world. I hope you’re being kind to yourself in this difficult journey, school can be so very draining and I’m very proud of you for reaching out and getting the help you need. We adore you girl I want nothing more than to see you thrive!! I hope you find peace and you get all the amazing things this life has to offer, you deserve SOOO MUCH❤️🥰🥰
oh hailey! i understand you completely, it's such a normal feeling to have at our age, to be confused and kind of lost it's okay to take things slow, don't burn yourself out and try to get some rest while you can! you're still so young, you still have plenty of time to figure things out and a life ahead of you. i know it can feel like so much trying to understand if you enjoy what are you doing, what do you want to do. you're doing the right thing by talking to someone and trying ti understand, but it's okay if you don't! life is muuuch more than work and school, you're going to be just fine with whatever decision you make! sending you hugs and much love, hope you can feel some well deserved peace ♥
This is such a warm thing to hear. It can be exhausting to feel like I’m making critical choices every waking moment of these days in college, so I’m looking forward to letting myself breathe!!
i just found your channel and you are so insanely talented!!! i’ve been playing your videos in the background all day as i do homework and it’s been the besttt
Very happy that you are getting some help sorting out your thoughts and emotions. You shouldn't stress about finishing in 4 years - it is very common for students to take longer especially if they are still determining what area to focus on. My son started in Biochemistry and changed after a year to political science - then went into law. It's great that you also realize that you need to live too - life can't be all about school - need to balance for your mental & physical health. You are a very smart and thoughtful person - I know that you'll get through this and figure it out 👍👍
Thank you so much. It can be pretty overwhelming to think that everything needs to be sorted all at once, but it’s okay to figure it out along the way and take some extra time. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us haley! These types of videos are the sweetest, it's good to see that you like talking to us, as if it were a diary
I think I finally figured out why I love your channel/your videos so much, besides being so wholesome. 🍁🍂Your content feels like a cozy autumn evening 🍁🍂🥧 ...and that's just simply the best to relax and unwind - thank you 🧡
I hope you find the space to be gentle with yourself or seek out someone that may be able to meet you where you are mentally. I do appreciate you being here and hope you get some good rest today. ❤️
im a soph undergrad and you dont know how relatable this is. i found sm comfort hearing you are working thru this and it gives me the inspiration to keep going. i love your vids
I been loving your videos so much. You’re such an amazing asmr TH-camr and my favorite one so far. Thank you for making consistent mic volume whispering.
This is the first of your chatty vlogs that I’ve watched, and obviously I don’t know you, but I’m 28 and to know that you’re 18 and you’re already so wise & putting yourself first makes me feel proud of you. 💕 I wish I could have taken that approach while I was in undergrad. I was burnt out almost the entire 4 years that I was in undergrad because it was SO much. But I took out government financial aid, so there was more of a time crunch for things. But it is really wonderful that you are already recognizing that while school IS important, your mental & physical health are more important. And that includes your quality of life, your hobbies, your goals outside of school. Keep at it, you are wise beyond your years & it makes me so happy to see younger generations taking care of themselves in ways that I and my peers didn’t know how. 🌷 ☀️
I really loved this video it’s cozy and heartwarming, I’m 19 and I feel you on the things that you’re going through I’m glad I’m not alone. I wish you the best in everything you love to do and keep making these kind of videos thankyou so much
your sweet pupper is absolutely adorable. and don't stress about the four years thing. i didn't start college 2014 despite graduating from high school in 2005, and despite doing online school it STILL took me 6 years to graduate thanks to ADHD and depression. we're not racing against anyone but ourselves, at the end of the day! do whatever is best for you ultimately.
Just found your channel and it's refreshing to hear your approach on life similar to mine. So many people have told me to do certain things but I just love doing my own thing and being on my own journey. I appreciate you speaking so honestly about life, being 20 years old I feel like I have learnt to just do things for yourself and things you enjoy. I'm not really interested in having a big career I just want to get by and enjoy life on my own terms.
I really enjoyed this, Haley. ❤️ I know your channel s mostly ASMR baking content, but I'd honestly like to see more clicky whisper videos like this. 😊 I appreciate you uploading this. 😊 And I'm glad you reached out for help, with things including your stress. ❤️ I hope all's well, Haley. ❤️
Sweet Haley, thank you for being such a beautiful human and for talking about the difficulties and uncertainties of going through your 20s. This might help a lot of people that are going through this regardless of the age. I happen to be one of them, your words really touched me. This really helped to see my insecurities from another perspective and just let go and appreciate life for its wonders. I'm really glad you got the help that you need. Also you're glowing here. Hope suits you the best and that sweater too 🤭 One day you'll find the answers that you're looking for, until then have fun, be kind and trust your gut, listen to your body and set all the boundaries needed to have a meaningful routine. Mental health and resting is really important. Don't take life for granted instead live it fully. Work shouldn't prevent you from enjoying life ideally. Take care Haley and thank you as always 🤎🤎🤎
I always look forward to your comments, you have such beautiful and introspective things to say, and I really appreciate hearing from someone that’s already been through, or even continues to go through, the struggle of the unknown. ❤️ thank you!
Aaww 🤗 It warms my heart that my comments bring you joy ☺️ Thank you for always reading and replying 💖 Have a great rest of the week Haley 🥰 Can't wait for the next one 👼
I always look forward to your uploads, Haley!! as soon as the notification comes through I am so excited for another video, wonderful asmr as always!! 🤎🍂🫶🏻
I’m so glad you’re reaching out to try find peace, please don’t burn yourself out trying to provide for us. We adore your content so we will be here no matter how long you need. I hope the next weeks are a little lighter for you but I 100% know where you’re coming from I’m so lost and don’t know what I want to be or do anymore. It’s an incredibly difficult challenge especially at this young age. We live this life once follow your heart even if your not the best at it, fall in love with life and your job needs to compliment that ( I also do refuse to leave my current course even if I’m not fully satisfied)
This is so beautifully said. Thank you, really, Shannon. I definitely know that I need to find time to rest, so I will keep doing my best to find the balance of work that’s right while still doing what fulfills me in the “creative” sense. ❤️ And, we are indeed both stubborn, but I think it’s helping us stick it out! 😂
@@CalciferASMR I know balance can be very hard but I definitely think the stubbornness is a blessing in disguise sometimes even when it feels like death😂🫣
I really do appreciate the honesty here, both with us and with yourself. I'm glad you're getting some help, some of us strangers started to worry. I relate very strongly to that feeling of being unsure if the current path is the right one, it's a seemingly eternal struggle I hope you manage to break yourself out of. Perhaps it's not as affectual coming from a commenter but, I truly do believe you've got this. The little bits you've shown of who you are (whether it's a hundredth or a thousandth) makes me confident you'll be ok. Thank you for the chat, and apologies if my comment is a little much.
Never “a little much,” I really appreciate hearing this! Thank you so much for empathizing with me, and I appreciate you giving me a boost in my optimism 🧡
I need to catch up on the last two videos but life has just been so busy and exhausting, I really needed this kind of chill chatty video thank youuuu!!! Also this colour looks amazing on you you, super pretty
This is exactly what we needed and, I hope, what you needed Hailey! I’m going to my first therapy session next week and this made me feel less anxious about it 🫶
❤My dear sweet Haley, you are young. It took me 20 years to finally get my Masters, because life kept getting in the way…my advice to you is to JUMP! Live your life now! How many times have I asked you if you’ve find your joy today?? So very soon you will be me, 55 years old and regretting. Do you!!! I know you bring me joy!!! Thank you!!!❤
Wow stumbled on your video, thats a lot, and i can relate, learnt nothing from my degree, now liking my coding job. I like the idea of taking breaks, especially when you are burnt down I got some deep and thought provoking messages Thanks for sharing, was interesting to listen
I love your sharing because what you are saying connects with me. I have struggled with social anxiety, Multiple Neurodivergent conditions. Plus being an abuse survivor I just want to say I get you. You are enough. I will say that again you are enough.
There is no linear time limit to figure out exactly who you are, want to become in 4 years. That’s impossible to ask of people ages 18-22. I’m post grad a few years and I still don’t think I even majored in my ultimate passion- I’ve been growing into various passions long after college. As a former literature major I learnt I enjoy data and now I’m getting an MBA in data science and economics! Over the course of your college years and after, you’ll continue to grow into things and people you never thought you’d become. Enjoy now, later is later. Keep experimenting with your interests, try not to stick to just one subject/area just because it feels familiar. You may learn over time a weakness was just something you never took time to learn! You’re in a busy season of life too, it’s normal to be unsure of many things and the future at this age and time. Boundaries, time management and sleep and nutrition are key. Best wishes ❤
Oh goodness, I’m so happy to have read this. Thank you for sharing that, because it can be so overwhelming to have a mindset where it feels like I’m setting up the rest of my life in these few years. Thank you, later is absolutely later ❤️
No need to apologise! I love this. I’ll sit with you my friend. I’ve been a nurse for 21 years. I have always been good at law and representing people. I’m doing what I love. I was so stressed for so long. I couldn’t afford to become a lawyer when I left uni. You have one life grab it with hands.
When you feel tired let us be *your* cozy corner! 🫶 Always nice to hear from you. Thank you for sharing with us. Also I'm curious, how do you spell Haley? Or Hailey? 👀
Hey Haley I can tell your tired it’s ok to be tired we’re human it’s part of who we are and I love chatting with you but don’t give up keep up the good work I love your vlogs and hearing about your day and just how you connect with us
You seem to be good at feeling out the possibilities. Sometimes every decision we make feels critical, which can be draining. It's just a process of learning to trust ourselves that whatever we decide, it may not be perfect but it will be good enough for our needs.
HEY hope everything is going well !and as much as I keep checking to see if you uploaded please take your time and focus on you first your mental health and physical health🧡 don’t b sad 😔 your videos are missed just so you know ❤
I can imagine this was not your easiest video to film. You had a lot to think about and sort out. If doing it twice made you feel better about it than it paid off. I have never been taught psychology but have learned a lot about it on the go. I have things I have to deal with and virtually everyone around me seems to as well. I am the go to guy at work when someone's world is making a struggle. The human resources person at work has it easy cuz they all talk to me. She asked me why I have her job. I said I should cuz it pays more. :) As far as the camera goes, take your time. You know that people love to see you and hear you and spend time with you. We can do all of the above as things are. Get some good sleep :)
Going over it twice absolutely was a great move for me. I love that though haha, hopefully you being the “go-to” doesn’t ever weigh too heavy on you, though. 🧡
please make Mrs. Bean’s famous nutmeg ginger apple snaps next 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 (P.S. take things slow if you focus on rushing you wont be able to take in the scenery. Stay safe out there)
Sheeeesh, been wondering how long I was going to be waiting for your next clicky masterpiece 🤔😎🤣🤣 Hello beautiful, nice to see you are surviving that torture, aka college and hope you and the family are all well! 🙏🙏 My dear, please ease up on yourself, everyone, even olE fossils like me need to just relax from time to time as we have a tendency to put to much pressure on ourselves.
OMG… thought have you ever thought about doing rp ASMR?!! Sorry I get it would be a bit out there but just a possible vid idea 💛 also amazing video!!! 🙏
On the outside looking in it seems you have several choices. -stick with what your doing until you graduate. - either decrease the amount of hours at your job or decrease the amount of videos on this channel (however that would affect your ability to pay for your degree) -take a gap year -change your degree to something that you have passion for if you don’t have passion for the English degree. - you also don’t need a degree even though you may think you have wasted money and time don’t let your past mistakes affect your future. With that you could still work part time focus more on TH-cam spend more time on hobbies and maybe try to sell cakes and bakery items as I’ve seen many small local businesses promoted via instagram and it’s just one person who makes it.
This is Twelfth Time Leaving a Comment on one of your videos Haley And Overall, This is My One Hundredth Ninty-Third ASMR Video I'm leaving a comment on! But, I'm definitely digging The Cozy Vibes that you are going for when you be doing your Whisper Rambles Most Definitely! And You Look Ultra Cute With Your Appearance in This Video with Your Hair, Make-Up, Smile, And, All Of The Above! Mission Complete on Your Looks Haley! And By The Way, Your Celebrity Doppelganger and Celebrity Look Alike Kind of Reminds Me of My Second Favorite Singer of All-Time of Sabrina Carpenter And WWE Superstar Of This Year's 2024 Women's Money In The Bank Winner of Tiffany Stratton! But, Mission Complete on your part Haley! But, Great Video and This Comment is Finished!🙂😎🖤🖤
I wish your scholarship covered more of the cost of your schooling it sucks that you have to pay out of pocket but you seem smart and productive so I’m sure you’ll be fine
Facts Tomie! I can definitely see on Haley and Mission Complete on you saying that Haley looks like My Second Favorite Singer of Sabrina Carpenter! Mission Complete on your part!🙂😎😎
I started to watch your videos somewhat recently and I felt that there was something so genuine about the human behind Calcifer and her delicious looking baked goods, and this video came to confirm that feeling, thank you so much for sharing how and what you feel with us. 🫂 🧡
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These videos are so special. They’re so warm and comfortable. If it’s at all helpful or comforting to hear- I just turned 27 and am actually back in school, finally finding my footing in a career I am excited about. It’s easy to feel like your early twenties are full of these major life points, but I hope you can remember there’s no timeline. Take every day one at a time ❤
Uhg. Thank you so much, Hannah. I really appreciate hearing from people about their experience. ❤️
I came to say the same thing! I’m 32 and I’m set to graduate university in 2026. It’s never too late to go to school or to change your mind for sure.
Been watching asmr for over a decade now. Your whisper voice is truly top tier imo. Thanks for making videos 🙏🏼
Over a decade hahaha, thank you, my friend🧡
Of course I love all of your content but there’s just something special about these kind of videos that I always enjoy and appreciate 🧡
I definitely think so too, these are always my favorite to film. ❤️
Thank you hailey for being so vulnerable with us even thought I know it can’t be easy. You bring comfort to so many people, me included!! I relate to so many things that you said in this video it makes me feel a lot less alone in this world. I hope you’re being kind to yourself in this difficult journey, school can be so very draining and I’m very proud of you for reaching out and getting the help you need. We adore you girl I want nothing more than to see you thrive!! I hope you find peace and you get all the amazing things this life has to offer, you deserve SOOO MUCH❤️🥰🥰
Thank you so so much ❤️
oh hailey! i understand you completely, it's such a normal feeling to have at our age, to be confused and kind of lost
it's okay to take things slow, don't burn yourself out and try to get some rest while you can! you're still so young, you still have plenty of time to figure things out and a life ahead of you. i know it can feel like so much trying to understand if you enjoy what are you doing, what do you want to do.
you're doing the right thing by talking to someone and trying ti understand, but it's okay if you don't!
life is muuuch more than work and school, you're going to be just fine with whatever decision you make! sending you hugs and much love, hope you can feel some well deserved peace ♥
This is such a warm thing to hear. It can be exhausting to feel like I’m making critical choices every waking moment of these days in college, so I’m looking forward to letting myself breathe!!
The candlelight makes this so brilliant! and yourself of course! the clicky whispers.. thank you, Haley 🧡🧡
I’m glad you like it! I feel like it keeps everything cozy and warm. Thank you Toffi! 🥰🧡
@@CalciferASMR
i just found your channel and you are so insanely talented!!! i’ve been playing your videos in the background all day as i do homework and it’s been the besttt
Thank you so so much! 🥹
I’m so glad you have someone to talk to about how you are feeling. Whatever you choose to do it will be right for you.
Very happy that you are getting some help sorting out your thoughts and emotions.
You shouldn't stress about finishing in 4 years - it is very common for students to take longer especially if they are still determining what area to focus on. My son started in Biochemistry and changed after a year to political science - then went into law.
It's great that you also realize that you need to live too - life can't be all about school - need to balance for your mental & physical health.
You are a very smart and thoughtful person - I know that you'll get through this and figure it out 👍👍
Thank you so much. It can be pretty overwhelming to think that everything needs to be sorted all at once, but it’s okay to figure it out along the way and take some extra time. ❤️
I’m glad you’ve reached out for help. I can totally relate with the feeling of stress and uncertainty. Sending prayers and lots of love!❤
I’m getting there! Thank you ❤️
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us haley! These types of videos are the sweetest, it's good to see that you like talking to us, as if it were a diary
It really is a wonderful thing, thank you ❤️
I think I finally figured out why I love your channel/your videos so much, besides being so wholesome.
🍁🍂Your content feels like a cozy autumn evening 🍁🍂🥧 ...and that's just simply the best to relax and unwind - thank you 🧡
I’m so happy to hear it feels that way, that’s certainly the hope. Thank you 🧡
hi hailey, i wanted to say thank you. Im struggling so much right now and i see no point in living, but your videos make me feel so much better
I hope you find the space to be gentle with yourself or seek out someone that may be able to meet you where you are mentally. I do appreciate you being here and hope you get some good rest today. ❤️
Hold on girl, people love you. don't give up 💖 reach out if you want to chat 🩷
@@CalciferASMR thank you. i really dont feel like living but your videos make me feel so much better❤
im a soph undergrad and you dont know how relatable this is. i found sm comfort hearing you are working thru this and it gives me the inspiration to keep going. i love your vids
Thank you so much! 🥹
I been loving your videos so much. You’re such an amazing asmr TH-camr and my favorite one so far. Thank you for making consistent mic volume whispering.
Thank you so much 🧡
This is the first of your chatty vlogs that I’ve watched, and obviously I don’t know you, but I’m 28 and to know that you’re 18 and you’re already so wise & putting yourself first makes me feel proud of you. 💕 I wish I could have taken that approach while I was in undergrad. I was burnt out almost the entire 4 years that I was in undergrad because it was SO much. But I took out government financial aid, so there was more of a time crunch for things.
But it is really wonderful that you are already recognizing that while school IS important, your mental & physical health are more important. And that includes your quality of life, your hobbies, your goals outside of school. Keep at it, you are wise beyond your years & it makes me so happy to see younger generations taking care of themselves in ways that I and my peers didn’t know how. 🌷 ☀️
I am actually 20, but I think it still remains fairly the same that I’ve got quite a bit ahead of me! 🥹 thank you so so much ❤️
I really loved this video it’s cozy and heartwarming, I’m 19 and I feel you on the things that you’re going through I’m glad I’m not alone. I wish you the best in everything you love to do and keep making these kind of videos thankyou so much
We are totally in it together, thank you so much! 💖
your sweet pupper is absolutely adorable.
and don't stress about the four years thing. i didn't start college 2014 despite graduating from high school in 2005, and despite doing online school it STILL took me 6 years to graduate thanks to ADHD and depression. we're not racing against anyone but ourselves, at the end of the day! do whatever is best for you ultimately.
Thank you so much, my friend 🧡
Love your vids Haley so chill and relaxing hope your having an amazing day
And you too, thanks!
We loves a clicky whisper vid.
Thanks for your efforts
Thank you so much, Andy 🧡
Nothing better than seeing a new video! Hope you are doing well ❤
Thank you so much, you as well. Glad to see you here so early 🧡
Just found your channel and it's refreshing to hear your approach on life similar to mine. So many people have told me to do certain things but I just love doing my own thing and being on my own journey. I appreciate you speaking so honestly about life, being 20 years old I feel like I have learnt to just do things for yourself and things you enjoy. I'm not really interested in having a big career I just want to get by and enjoy life on my own terms.
Yes absolutely, just to be able to live with some peace rather than shoot for the most money or the most busy schedule! ❤️
I really enjoyed this, Haley. ❤️ I know your channel s mostly ASMR baking content, but I'd honestly like to see more clicky whisper videos like this. 😊
I appreciate you uploading this. 😊 And I'm glad you reached out for help, with things including your stress. ❤️ I hope all's well, Haley. ❤️
I’m glad you can enjoy these little chats as well, they’re always nice to make! 🧡
Sweet Haley, thank you for being such a beautiful human and for talking about the difficulties and uncertainties of going through your 20s. This might help a lot of people that are going through this regardless of the age. I happen to be one of them, your words really touched me. This really helped to see my insecurities from another perspective and just let go and appreciate life for its wonders.
I'm really glad you got the help that you need.
Also you're glowing here. Hope suits you the best and that sweater too 🤭
One day you'll find the answers that you're looking for, until then have fun, be kind and trust your gut, listen to your body and set all the boundaries needed to have a meaningful routine. Mental health and resting is really important. Don't take life for granted instead live it fully. Work shouldn't prevent you from enjoying life ideally.
Take care Haley and thank you as always 🤎🤎🤎
I always look forward to your comments, you have such beautiful and introspective things to say, and I really appreciate hearing from someone that’s already been through, or even continues to go through, the struggle of the unknown. ❤️ thank you!
Aaww 🤗 It warms my heart that my comments bring you joy ☺️
Thank you for always reading and replying 💖
Have a great rest of the week Haley 🥰
Can't wait for the next one 👼
I'm 33 and I'm just working to pay bills. I know I'll find something that I love and I know you'll find what you love to do as well. Great video.
Thank you so much ❤️
Omg been watching all of ur other videos all day while working ❤now getting cozy to listen to this whisper 💫love u girly
I’m glad you always enjoy these! Thank you ❤️
I always look forward to your uploads, Haley!! as soon as the notification comes through I am so excited for another video, wonderful asmr as always!! 🤎🍂🫶🏻
Awee thank you girl, I’m glad that you always enjoy them. Grateful to have you here! 🧡
You’re so beautiful, girl❤️❤️ this is my comfort channel😊 always come here when I wanna relax or gts😇
Thank you so much, I’m glad you enjoy ❤️
Thanks for talking with us Hailey. I hope you get to do more of what makes you feel fulfilled!
That’s certainly the hope, thank you ❤️
After the LAST pumpkin cake video...GIRL, I'M HOOKED! SUBSCRIBED! 🥰🤗💖
POOCHIE! 🐶
Thank you! ❤️
I’m so glad you’re reaching out to try find peace, please don’t burn yourself out trying to provide for us. We adore your content so we will be here no matter how long you need. I hope the next weeks are a little lighter for you but I 100% know where you’re coming from I’m so lost and don’t know what I want to be or do anymore. It’s an incredibly difficult challenge especially at this young age. We live this life once follow your heart even if your not the best at it, fall in love with life and your job needs to compliment that ( I also do refuse to leave my current course even if I’m not fully satisfied)
This is so beautifully said. Thank you, really, Shannon. I definitely know that I need to find time to rest, so I will keep doing my best to find the balance of work that’s right while still doing what fulfills me in the “creative” sense. ❤️ And, we are indeed both stubborn, but I think it’s helping us stick it out! 😂
@@CalciferASMR I know balance can be very hard but I definitely think the stubbornness is a blessing in disguise sometimes even when it feels like death😂🫣
Awwwwww, your doggy is so sweet. Precious angel. 🥰 🐕
He is a sweetheart! ❤️
I really enjoyed this, please promise us more 🧡
I will absolutely keep them comin! :)
I really do appreciate the honesty here, both with us and with yourself. I'm glad you're getting some help, some of us strangers started to worry. I relate very strongly to that feeling of being unsure if the current path is the right one, it's a seemingly eternal struggle I hope you manage to break yourself out of. Perhaps it's not as affectual coming from a commenter but, I truly do believe you've got this. The little bits you've shown of who you are (whether it's a hundredth or a thousandth) makes me confident you'll be ok.
Thank you for the chat, and apologies if my comment is a little much.
Never “a little much,” I really appreciate hearing this! Thank you so much for empathizing with me, and I appreciate you giving me a boost in my optimism 🧡
I need to catch up on the last two videos but life has just been so busy and exhausting, I really needed this kind of chill chatty video thank youuuu!!! Also this colour looks amazing on you you, super pretty
Ohh thank you so much 🥹
I think I'm having a mini midlife crisis right now but listening to you for some reason makes me feel better.
I’m glad haha, you and me both ❤️
This is exactly what we needed and, I hope, what you needed Hailey! I’m going to my first therapy session next week and this made me feel less anxious about it 🫶
I’m so happy you’re taking that step, thank you for being here 🧡
As someone who waited until a breakdown to get counseling and knows the school and work struggle, you're doing great
🥹❤️
That dog is sooooo cute lol 😂 the look of terror on your face was priceless
I totallyyy forgot he was there hahaha
❤My dear sweet Haley, you are young. It took me 20 years to finally get my Masters, because life kept getting in the way…my advice to you is to JUMP! Live your life now! How many times have I asked you if you’ve find your joy today?? So very soon you will be me, 55 years old and regretting. Do you!!! I know you bring me joy!!! Thank you!!!❤
I am absolutely going to do my best to just keep living, thank you Paige, so much! ❤️❤️
I do appreciate your baking videos more. 😊
Wow stumbled on your video, thats a lot, and i can relate, learnt nothing from my degree, now liking my coding job.
I like the idea of taking breaks, especially when you are burnt down
I got some deep and thought provoking messages
Thanks for sharing, was interesting to listen
Thank you ❤️
Another great video thank you for posting this. Also hope you are well. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love your sharing because what you are saying connects with me. I have struggled with social anxiety, Multiple Neurodivergent conditions. Plus being an abuse survivor I just want to say I get you. You are enough. I will say that again you are enough.
Thank you for your empathy and kindness, and I appreciate you being here. 🧡
There is no linear time limit to figure out exactly who you are, want to become in 4 years. That’s impossible to ask of people ages 18-22. I’m post grad a few years and I still don’t think I even majored in my ultimate passion- I’ve been growing into various passions long after college. As a former literature major I learnt I enjoy data and now I’m getting an MBA in data science and economics! Over the course of your college years and after, you’ll continue to grow into things and people you never thought you’d become.
Enjoy now, later is later. Keep experimenting with your interests, try not to stick to just one subject/area just because it feels familiar. You may learn over time a weakness was just something you never took time to learn! You’re in a busy season of life too, it’s normal to be unsure of many things and the future at this age and time. Boundaries, time management and sleep and nutrition are key. Best wishes ❤
Oh goodness, I’m so happy to have read this. Thank you for sharing that, because it can be so overwhelming to have a mindset where it feels like I’m setting up the rest of my life in these few years. Thank you, later is absolutely later ❤️
No need to apologise! I love this. I’ll sit with you my friend.
I’ve been a nurse for 21 years. I have always been good at law and representing people. I’m doing what I love. I was so stressed for so long. I couldn’t afford to become a lawyer when I left uni.
You have one life grab it with hands.
Thank you, my friend. 🧡
I love your spirit of perseverance I always say the only way out is through
Absolutely, it’s all we can do! 🧡
my favourite comfort youtuber 💖
Awee thank you ❤️
When you feel tired let us be *your* cozy corner! 🫶
Always nice to hear from you. Thank you for sharing with us.
Also I'm curious, how do you spell Haley? Or Hailey? 👀
Oh thank you so much! And it is Haley haha, thank you for checking! ❤️
Hey Haley I can tell your tired it’s ok to be tired we’re human it’s part of who we are and I love chatting with you but don’t give up keep up the good work I love your vlogs and hearing about your day and just how you connect with us
I certainly won’t give up, thank you! ❤️
I cannot believe how late I am to this… ANYWAYS, I hope your days go amazing and I’m sorry your having a rough time. LOVE YOU
No worries! Glad to see you 🥰❤️
You seem to be good at feeling out the possibilities. Sometimes every decision we make feels critical, which can be draining. It's just a process of learning to trust ourselves that whatever we decide, it may not be perfect but it will be good enough for our needs.
That’s exactly what is it, oh my goodness, I love that I have that in words now lol, “every decision feels critical”. Thank you, my friend.
Perfect as always Hailey🎯💯
Thank you! :)
Insanely Beautiful 😍
Thank you!
HEY hope everything is going well !and as much as I keep checking to see if you uploaded please take your time and focus on you first your mental health and physical health🧡 don’t b sad 😔 your videos are missed just so you know ❤
Thank you so much :) 🧡
Another amazing video 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you so much :)
Can you do positive affirmations and grwm ♥️👌🏼
You are the GOAT preciate the chat awsome videos🧡🧡🧡
Thank you so much! ❤️
I can imagine this was not your easiest video to film. You had a lot to think about and sort out. If doing it twice made you feel better about it than it paid off. I have never been taught psychology but have learned a lot about it on the go. I have things I have to deal with and virtually everyone around me seems to as well. I am the go to guy at work when someone's world is making a struggle. The human resources person at work has it easy cuz they all talk to me. She asked me why I have her job. I said I should cuz it pays more. :) As far as the camera goes, take your time. You know that people love to see you and hear you and spend time with you. We can do all of the above as things are. Get some good sleep :)
Going over it twice absolutely was a great move for me. I love that though haha, hopefully you being the “go-to” doesn’t ever weigh too heavy on you, though. 🧡
please make Mrs. Bean’s famous nutmeg ginger apple snaps next 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 (P.S. take things slow if you focus on rushing you wont be able to take in the scenery. Stay safe out there)
Awee thank you!
ok so like if I really want to unwind and then I hear someone start telling a stressful relatable story it actually just makes me more stressed.
I changed the title. All better. Now you can be stressed while listening to me be stressed (from the heart)!
Be careful with those candles!
Sheeeesh, been wondering how long I was going to be waiting for your next clicky masterpiece 🤔😎🤣🤣
Hello beautiful, nice to see you are surviving that torture, aka college and hope you and the family are all well! 🙏🙏
My dear, please ease up on yourself, everyone, even olE fossils like me need to just relax from time to time as we have a tendency to put to much pressure on ourselves.
Sometimes it can feel a little easier said than done, but I’ll get there! :)
I LOVE YOUR CLICKY WHISPER🫶💖💖💖
Thank you so much! 🥹❤️
Calcifer Beautiful in The Video Been a While Since I Watched Calcifer I Glad She’s Back in My Life in October lol ❤️
Thank you for watching! 🧡
Do not chase happiness.
Try to minimize the pain.
And read Pessoa: The Book of Disquiet.
OMG… thought have you ever thought about doing rp ASMR?!! Sorry I get it would be a bit out there but just a possible vid idea 💛 also amazing video!!! 🙏
I have but am not too sure about taking on that sort of thing just yet, but thank you! ❤️
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On the outside looking in it seems you have several choices.
-stick with what your doing until you graduate.
- either decrease the amount of hours at your job or decrease the amount of videos on this channel (however that would affect your ability to pay for your degree)
-take a gap year
-change your degree to something that you have passion for if you don’t have passion for the English degree.
- you also don’t need a degree even though you may think you have wasted money and time don’t let your past mistakes affect your future. With that you could still work part time focus more on TH-cam spend more time on hobbies and maybe try to sell cakes and bakery items as I’ve seen many small local businesses promoted via instagram and it’s just one person who makes it.
Those are certainly options I can consider, thank you ❤️
This is Twelfth Time Leaving a Comment on one of your videos Haley And Overall, This is My One Hundredth Ninty-Third ASMR Video I'm leaving a comment on! But, I'm definitely digging The Cozy Vibes that you are going for when you be doing your Whisper Rambles Most Definitely! And You Look Ultra Cute With Your Appearance in This Video with Your Hair, Make-Up, Smile, And, All Of The Above! Mission Complete on Your Looks Haley! And By The Way, Your Celebrity Doppelganger and Celebrity Look Alike Kind of Reminds Me of My Second Favorite Singer of All-Time of Sabrina Carpenter And WWE Superstar Of This Year's 2024 Women's Money In The Bank Winner of Tiffany Stratton! But, Mission Complete on your part Haley! But, Great Video and This Comment is Finished!🙂😎🖤🖤
Thank you so much! :D
If you don’t mind answering what’s your major?! Good to know we are on the same boat when it comes to assignments 😅
I am an English major :)
Red is your color Hailey. 💅
Thank you! 🥰
Cool video ❤❤
Thank you 🧡
You're so pretty 🤍🥺
Thank you! 🥹
Trauma?? Oh you mean my lore. 😂
LOL
I wish your scholarship covered more of the cost of your schooling it sucks that you have to pay out of pocket but you seem smart and productive so I’m sure you’ll be fine
Definitely same, but that is okay ❤️
CoCoa!~ 🤣
You are legit one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen
Thank you! :,)
I don’t know what it is but you kinda look like Sabrina carpenter to me 😂
Thank you! :)
Facts Tomie! I can definitely see on Haley and Mission Complete on you saying that Haley looks like My Second Favorite Singer of Sabrina Carpenter! Mission Complete on your part!🙂😎😎
You're so beautiful hope you have been doing well (:
Thank you!
I feel early
Thank you for stopping by so early! ❤️
@@CalciferASMR Thank you! I had an amazing nap
I started to watch your videos somewhat recently and I felt that there was something so genuine about the human behind Calcifer and her delicious looking baked goods, and this video came to confirm that feeling, thank you so much for sharing how and what you feel with us. 🫂 🧡
Thank you so much 🥹❤️