@@cartercarter2837then stop frying the nerds in grade school and they’ll have better self confidence 🤣🤣☠️☠️, this is coming from someone who it didn’t happen to
Good video bro, I was always a black nerd but I never struggled with getting black women. So I never could relate to statements like that... Black women definitely are not a monolith like you said. 💯
I think the thing with that is that black women can sense sometimes that black nerds don’t actually like them. They like what they look like and the physical benefits, but disregard them and what they have to offer.
@ the thing is, the white nerdy guys see them the same way black nerdy guys do. They only like what they look like, but black women would still date a nerdy bird chested white guy before they would date a nerdy black guy.
The conversation needs to be had about confidence. Most black nerdy men (in school) are just not very confident. Men are supposed to be leaders and the heads of the relationship so why then would a woman choose an unconfident man period? Hood dudes have confidence through the roof even during the dumb decision making. Black men don’t want to have that conversation though. I get the sentiments that most black girls in school want the bad boy, but understand it’s immaturity at best .
I always felt that way even back in HS, yall keep saying that no bw want yall but overlook the ones that may like you because we are average (maybe below average) in looks, quiet or fat. But will praise the most basic of basic WGs, fat and all. Want the black girls that look like Meagan Good or Ciara but don’t have the charisma to pull them, so now you dislike all black women. Which is fine because I don’t try to be with people I know that don’t like me or my kind.
Blerd Girls get attention and affection from guys. They just don’t get Acceptance. Blerd Guys don’t get attention, acceptance, or affection. There is a big difference.
Quiet is no problem, fat… I don’t see how that’s the persons fault that they don’t want to date someone overweight. It’s not like you can’t lose weight that’s not a personality trait. Unless he’s fat, in that case he has no excuse. But yea if you’re fat you should expect non fat people to be attracted to you. Sad truth no offense
@ was giving examples of potential reasons why they didn’t choose certain types of girls, which is also funny because they dont want black girls to be fat, but will date a fat average in the face white girl.. hypocrisy at best. I’m fat, I do not mess with men who are not openly attracted to big women. I don’t seek out men who attractions don’t align with who I am, and yet have no problem finding men who are attracted to me and willing to give me what I want and desire. So no man has to even have to waste your time telling me their preferences because I’m already not interested.
We've got BW going on Prison Inmate dating sites looking for a man... and some sisters are getting deleted by their exon boyfriends. (saw that coming) The standards BW have for BM in the dating market is in the toilet. Nerdy BM, keep doing you. Don't change for anyone.
@@cartercarter2837 So you admit BW are followers. Anything dysfunctional WW do, BW want to do it too.. smdh... Wrong is wrong.. Stop putting White folks on a pedestal.
@@cartercarter2837 Nice WW "do it too" deflection. smdh.. I guess you're a follower than, huh..? Following someone doing something dumb at that.. I'd never put these cave devils on a pedestal. Next..
They are only into nerds once she is washed. Im doing well for myself now got Kieshas with two or three kids trying to push up on me like Im a rapper or ball player.
To that effect immature people aren’t particularly into nerdy people period. Immaturity chases popularity so whatever is in is what they are attracted to.
Nerdy BM tend to be more stable and educated. Most BW view them as boring in their youthful years. Only later in life once they accumulate multiple baby daddies and kids, because they looking for a chump to pay their bills and raise another man's kids.
Nah… Generally speaking Black women do NOT like nerdy Black men. They might like you in spite of you being a nerd but they ain’t attracted to it. Which is why fam can’t name one celebrity for nerds to aspire to want. You can’t get Trina or the IG baddies, you get Kim from 3rd period. Not even Megan nerdy ass dates Black nerds.
What part of get who likes you don't you get? Maybe if nerdy black men would stop acting like white boys, they can get more of the black women they want.
Neither do white women. They only marry black nerds after they get rich. White baddies only linking up with black athletes and rappers. Look at rg3, no one could keep a straight face and say a white chick would have dated him if he wasn't a star QB. Especially at Baylor where all the chicks are already rich.
FACTS! I knew of a nerdy black dude who was in the marching band, and he got turned down by both black and white women. A Japanese girl, who was in the marching with him, actually liked him. They clicked and fell in love. And they got married right after graduation.
If not all white women hate black folks, why would you say all black women are not into nerdy black men? I just think it's just a excuse black men to date outside the race because they don't want to admit that they have some self-hatred inside of them. Also, you can have swag but be into some nerdy things, you do not have to act like you are white just because you like nerdy things. I myself like wrestling but that's not all talk about I have other things to talk about.
I have to disagree on this topic. Just because there are BW in the drama club, does not mean they want a drama club guy. Being into this type of stuff is mocked in B culture. You yourself are using the carlton banks label for Russ. Think, why is that even a thing? It's negative. Mocking. So you can be right next to a BW in drama club, but she still wants Tyrese who's the RB on the football team. Also, non blk, males are not called carlton banks, so thats another reason BW easily end up with non blk men into those things. Because the only disclaimer they have to make to friends and family is "oh he's xyz" then nothing else is expected. However, if its a nerdy BM, it's constant mocking forever, because he "talks yt", or has no "swag." Also, the same argument you used to explain why blk jocks think racism isn't an issue, can be applied to you here. Just because YOU had a lot of success as a nerd with BW, does not mean they like them in general. They don't. You're validating BW for poor mate selection. Still agree with your overall message.
More of them might be now, but in the 90s and early 2000s being a nerdy bm was looked at as corny. Most dudes dated white or other chicks back then. Overall i still think that is more the case. You do have black women who like nerds, but i think it's a small percentage
@cartercarter2837 women don't have the same experiences as men when it comes to stuff like this. Granted, I never really had issue when it came to pulling girls, but an attractive nerd chick has it easier if she is decent looking. A "blerd" woman who is unattractive will get overlooked
You are lying. Brother, you know that BW consider any brother who is not counter-productive a nerd and choose to engage in self-destruction with Pookie. For you as a brother to say brothers are holding out for dimes, given the reputation we have for standards is insane
Black men don’t like nerdy women either unless they’re fine as hell 😂
No, no, no Hell No!. I'm and 60 year old nerd they never liked us till you get Rich, still don't like you. Just the money
@@Son-of-Wendu maybe you lack the confidence. A lot bw are drawn to confident men
@@cartercarter2837then stop frying the nerds in grade school and they’ll have better self confidence 🤣🤣☠️☠️, this is coming from someone who it didn’t happen to
Exactly. Like Donald Glover saying black girls didn't want him but also admitting that he didn't wash and had body odor 😂😂😂
That's so fucking funny.
I’m not a nerdy black guy, but I wear glasses and sound white. Black girls aren’t going for that at first. Only later on does that get play.
They only want them after all thugs/hood 🥷’s ran through them already for years
Good video bro, I was always a black nerd but I never struggled with getting black women. So I never could relate to statements like that... Black women definitely are not a monolith like you said. 💯
As a bw I totally agree with everything you said. We are not a monlith just like bm aren't
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Bro, the problem is those black women that don’t go for nerdy black men, WILL date nerdy white guys.
I think the thing with that is that black women can sense sometimes that black nerds don’t actually like them. They like what they look like and the physical benefits, but disregard them and what they have to offer.
@@szasremmurd8002 nonsense, the truth is they view black men in a certain lens
@ the thing is, the white nerdy guys see them the same way black nerdy guys do. They only like what they look like, but black women would still date a nerdy bird chested white guy before they would date a nerdy black guy.
The conversation needs to be had about confidence. Most black nerdy men (in school) are just not very confident. Men are supposed to be leaders and the heads of the relationship so why then would a woman choose an unconfident man period? Hood dudes have confidence through the roof even during the dumb decision making. Black men don’t want to have that conversation though. I get the sentiments that most black girls in school want the bad boy, but understand it’s immaturity at best .
yall confuse confidence with arrogance and attention seeking
I always felt that way even back in HS, yall keep saying that no bw want yall but overlook the ones that may like you because we are average (maybe below average) in looks, quiet or fat. But will praise the most basic of basic WGs, fat and all. Want the black girls that look like Meagan Good or Ciara but don’t have the charisma to pull them, so now you dislike all black women. Which is fine because I don’t try to be with people I know that don’t like me or my kind.
@@dimelachae3463 exactly. They seem to forget that blerd girls go through the same thing. They'll say anything just to be with a yt girl
Blerd Girls get attention and affection from guys. They just don’t get Acceptance. Blerd Guys don’t get attention, acceptance, or affection. There is a big difference.
As a black nerd man that is married to a black nerd woman, I approve this message.
Quiet is no problem, fat… I don’t see how that’s the persons fault that they don’t want to date someone overweight. It’s not like you can’t lose weight that’s not a personality trait. Unless he’s fat, in that case he has no excuse. But yea if you’re fat you should expect non fat people to be attracted to you. Sad truth no offense
@ was giving examples of potential reasons why they didn’t choose certain types of girls, which is also funny because they dont want black girls to be fat, but will date a fat average in the face white girl.. hypocrisy at best. I’m fat, I do not mess with men who are not openly attracted to big women. I don’t seek out men who attractions don’t align with who I am, and yet have no problem finding men who are attracted to me and willing to give me what I want and desire. So no man has to even have to waste your time telling me their preferences because I’m already not interested.
We've got BW going on Prison Inmate dating sites looking for a man... and some sisters are getting deleted by their exon boyfriends. (saw that coming) The standards BW have for BM in the dating market is in the toilet. Nerdy BM, keep doing you. Don't change for anyone.
@@215RANDOM WW are doing the same thing so stop that
@@cartercarter2837 So you admit BW are followers. Anything dysfunctional WW do, BW want to do it too.. smdh... Wrong is wrong.. Stop putting White folks on a pedestal.
@@215RANDOMyou sound ignorant. WOMEN do these things not just bw thats my point. That's BM that put ww on the pedestal I could never
@@cartercarter2837 Nice WW "do it too" deflection. smdh.. I guess you're a follower than, huh..? Following someone doing something dumb at that.. I'd never put these cave devils on a pedestal. Next..
They are only into nerds once she is washed. Im doing well for myself now got Kieshas with two or three kids trying to push up on me like Im a rapper or ball player.
@@purpledrank221 you sound bitter bc there are plenty of BW that are childless. Y'all just look past them
I like how you broke this topic, down..
I have wrestling dvds the whole dbz series and 3 game systems at my house. I aint been with a white girl yet.
To that effect immature people aren’t particularly into nerdy people period. Immaturity chases popularity so whatever is in is what they are attracted to.
They love nerds after 1-2 kids
Exactly!
Nerdy BM tend to be more stable and educated. Most BW view them as boring in their youthful years. Only later in life once they accumulate multiple baby daddies and kids, because they looking for a chump to pay their bills and raise another man's kids.
Nah they tolerate nerds because they need the stability and security that their resources can provide.
Excellent topic and video. Subbed with a quickness.
How many Bruh! Stop it! 70% 304's, 30% 305's good girls, that have no been caught!
@@Son-of-Wendu maybe you need to change your environment bc none of the women I hang around are any of these things like he said bw are not a monolith
Nah… Generally speaking Black women do NOT like nerdy Black men. They might like you in spite of you being a nerd but they ain’t attracted to it. Which is why fam can’t name one celebrity for nerds to aspire to want. You can’t get Trina or the IG baddies, you get Kim from 3rd period. Not even Megan nerdy ass dates Black nerds.
What part of get who likes you don't you get? Maybe if nerdy black men would stop acting like white boys, they can get more of the black women they want.
Neither do white women. They only marry black nerds after they get rich. White baddies only linking up with black athletes and rappers. Look at rg3, no one could keep a straight face and say a white chick would have dated him if he wasn't a star QB. Especially at Baylor where all the chicks are already rich.
FACTS! I knew of a nerdy black dude who was in the marching band, and he got turned down by both black and white women. A Japanese girl, who was in the marching with him, actually liked him. They clicked and fell in love. And they got married right after graduation.
My niece married a guy that's into anime. Got my nephew into it and he's not even a year old. Me, im just doneeeee.
If not all white women hate black folks, why would you say all black women are not into nerdy black men? I just think it's just a excuse black men to date outside the race because they don't want to admit that they have some self-hatred inside of them. Also, you can have swag but be into some nerdy things, you do not have to act like you are white just because you like nerdy things. I myself like wrestling but that's not all talk about I have other things to talk about.
All 100% facts!!! I myself identify as a nerd and had no problems finding Black women to date me and love me for who I am
@@mackavelimillz Exactly, I've had plenty of black women that said I want to chill and watch wrestling with you.
It's 300% cap fr fr. I know plenty of Blerds in their happy relationships.
@@DunYappin💯💯💯💯💯💯
@@jalenwinstead9981 I agree with you????
By brother went to Morgan Park
I have to disagree on this topic. Just because there are BW in the drama club, does not mean they want a drama club guy. Being into this type of stuff is mocked in B culture. You yourself are using the carlton banks label for Russ.
Think, why is that even a thing?
It's negative. Mocking.
So you can be right next to a BW in drama club, but she still wants Tyrese who's the RB on the football team.
Also, non blk, males are not called carlton banks, so thats another reason BW easily end up with non blk men into those things. Because the only disclaimer they have to make to friends and family is "oh he's xyz" then nothing else is expected. However, if its a nerdy BM, it's constant mocking forever, because he "talks yt", or has no "swag."
Also, the same argument you used to explain why blk jocks think racism isn't an issue, can be applied to you here. Just because YOU had a lot of success as a nerd with BW, does not mean they like them in general.
They don't.
You're validating BW for poor mate selection.
Still agree with your overall message.
I’m Gen-Z nd honestly the majority of these GenZ black chicks go for gangsta not all but a good majority
Exactly rather these women grew up rich or poor they will always choose the thug/hood guy sadly this the honest truth
This isn't true at ALL, but keep speaking for us 👏👏👏
How old r u
The fact that you describe them as “black chicks” is a clear indication of why they don’t want you.
More of them might be now, but in the 90s and early 2000s being a nerdy bm was looked at as corny. Most dudes dated white or other chicks back then. Overall i still think that is more the case. You do have black women who like nerds, but i think it's a small percentage
@@primeva7579 you don't think blerd girls have the same experience yet you don't hear them on the Internet saying BM didn't choose them
@cartercarter2837 women don't have the same experiences as men when it comes to stuff like this. Granted, I never really had issue when it came to pulling girls, but an attractive nerd chick has it easier if she is decent looking. A "blerd" woman who is unattractive will get overlooked
@@primeva7579 we actually do maybe worse since theres more women than men
@@cartercarter2837BXTCH 😂We don't have the same experiences 🤡
Nor should you disrespectful azz@@macgoldie7771
You are lying.
Brother, you know that BW consider any brother who is not counter-productive a nerd and choose to engage in self-destruction with Pookie.
For you as a brother to say brothers are holding out for dimes, given the reputation we have for standards is insane