One of the best feelings is when you're talking with a girl, and the conversation flows naturally and doesn't stop, and it doesn't end until either of you decides to stop talking. Those are the girls you want to date, not those who aren't interested in you and don't want to hold up a conversation with you. Interest and conversation go both ways, and if she's not interested in holding up the conversation with you, she isn't the girl you should be dating. Don't settle for anything else.
Definetly dont be playful and flirty unless you wanna get jumped 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ its high risk high reward and most ppl cannot do it right. Plus if youre ugly dont be playful just rely on being funny. But the rest is really good advice
@@R9naldo anyone with common sense would just make their physique better before trying to get girls, so why are you saying “if ur ugly don’t be playful and just rely on being funny” like stfu 😂
Notes: - admit you often have dry or boring texts with a girl rather than being arrogant. it is always better to accept your flaws and use them to improve than staying in denial where you are - stop asking boring questions - ei: "hey wyd haha?" "hey whats up?" "how was your day?" - be playful, flirty, and s*xual with your messages - ei: instead of says "wyd," say something playful such as "I bet you're stepping on snails right now" *- do not let her burn the conversation to the ground.* *- if she asks you a boring question such as one of the ones listed above, just ignore it and move on to whatever you want to say* *- ei: she might text you saying "how was your day?," and you might respond with "I bet you're stepping on snails right now"* - make her emotionally invested in you - make her think about you, even if it is a negative emotion - the more emotions you can appeal to, the better it will end up for you
its so strange how that stepping on snails line works so easily. it confuses them so they then get more invested in the conversation than they would be with a normal response.
Hes made plenty of videos about that, so yes. Think about it, you wanna date someone who doesn't take care of their health or hygiene? Why should women?
@@louisstout9952 they mean genetically unattractive....what ur talking about is circumstantial unattractiveness. An example is someone whos fat, but if they lost weight would be very handsome/beautiful. But what the person was talking about was a person who is actually unnatractive. No amount of muscle,skincare products will change it
What I've Learned: 1. Always ignore their questions 2. Reply with an accusation. Preferably related to stepbrother porn 2. Make your receiver emotionally distraught. 4. Repeat
I think you misinterpreted it. These are just some ways to tap into other emotions apart from happiness (which literally everyones tries to do). I agree that these example are a little too harsh so I too wouldn't use them.
For having testing this concept just recently. I can assure you that what Hamza states is awfully true. Girls who feel nothing for you, don't even look at you, don't come near you, never text you because YOU, yes YOU, the Supposed to be man, haven't made her feel anything. So you're no one to her. If you can't spark any emotions in girls, you will struggle. Seeing that keeping always the positive mindset didnt work most of the time, I chose the more realistic approach possible. A girl makes you mad, then react. Don't ever be afraid of a girl's reaction. If you're afraid of her leaving, chances are 1000 to 1 against you, that she's just using you or that she couldnt care less of you and you know it but you prefer lying to yourself. GIrls who hate you, will still sleep with you. The most important thing is that GIRLS must speak of you. Girls don't ever talk about guys they aren't interested in. Don't care if it's positive or negative, the fact that they talk about you, means that they acknowledge your existence and if you aren't looking like Gollum. Then you are on the right path. Nothing works for you with girls ? Try the opposite. It has done wonders for me ! Just never go to an extreme.
Everything he said, I look back and also realize is true in this video. All the girls I didnt particularly care for, I treated exactly how he said to do, and they were wayyy into me. But all the ones I was seriously interested in, could not have gave a fuck. The problem for me is getting rid of that disconnect and not caring about the ones im interested in haha
@Gav Liddle that is true but some girls do it on purpose to get a reaction from you. Some girls I had were turned on when I was Mad and angry and when I was cussing at them ... I had a really freaky afternoon just after getting real Mad at one girl and she said those words : "You're so handsome when you're mad" just after finished business. I would have never known this side of girls if I would have forever stayed a nice guy
Hamza, I just wanted to say, your daily uploads keep me going everyday. I have been going through a rough breakup and realized how stagnant in life I have been. I finally began my pursuit of manhood, and I want to say your daily uploads remind me to keep pushing forward. I never comment on videos but I just had to personally thank you on the off chance that you do see this comment.
Damn, I been stagnant for like three years now, and just starting a month after you. More so than Hamza, seeing a person going through same stuff, you are my inspiration bro. I hope you still stay strong.
You literally confirmed what I've been doing this whole time, and a couple days after watching this video I got the girl that I first started my self-improvement journey for... Thank you. Along the way I have gotten way more confident, I haven't felt depressed ever since I got a gym membership, and even if we eventually break up with this girl, I know I won't be broken or sad. Self-improvement is a beautiful thing.
I remember sometime in October I was texting a girl and it was going well then she left me on read for 16 days. When she finally responded and was all like "sorry I took so long, I suck at responding" I didn't say anything to her I just moved on, never texted back and got to a bag 💰. It felt so good.
Man tbh the reason she probably stop responding was because you was just wasting time and texts were reaching nowhere she must have been just waiting to say lets link up on some shi
The most useful thing I did for my texting game was to go on dates in person. Learning how to talk to someone in the most difficult/intimidating way makes easy popcorn conversation like texting so easy.
Something Ive noticed. Chicks are more masculine over text, but as soon as you try a phone call or in person conversation, they shut down. Kinda crazy.
@@50shadesofcerakote yeah they’re used to that dynamic where dudes are too scared to talk and then they want to be cute enough that you’ll be into them
You are a great man Hamza. First time I stumbled upon your channel I was critical like I was with a lot of things. Then I actually took some time to view your videos and I respect you and what you are doing very much. Your content is something many men don't like to hear, but need to.
I wasn't convinced after the video I got to be honest. But after trying it, I couldn't believe how easy that was. The conversation just flowed effortlessly. Thanks Hamza much love.
ever since I started watching your videos, I've been seeing major improvement in my life man. thanks a lot Hamza, you're my lifesaver, that's why I consider you my life mentor. ❤️
This video is helping me connect the dots. Whenever I send random shit whether its offensive or hilarious, I get a response. Never understood why I got responses every time.
secret advice was the best imo, the other 3 I do but realizing I'm not hitting on enough different emotional scales to create that feeling when I'm not around is major key!
Thank you Hamza, my social skills have gone up a lot these last months. I used to be a loner, and. now I have a lot of friends and have been getting more successful with girls
bro, thank you for all these advice vids, I started watching your videos almost 2 yrs ago, I have been with my wife for 2.5 yrs thanks to your vids which helped me fix our relationship. thx much brother
Man I'm really glad that we are getting actionable advice here. Most advice on how to get girls nowadays is to be on your path but what about the guys who have been on self improvement for 5 years and just need the simple behavioural tweaks to start attracting. Thank you for the info in this video Hamza
God damn. I didn't know how bad I needed this added into my self-improvement journey. Still wondering if we can get a Video to refresh our knowledge about Self-Improvement and how to get back on the right track if we failed (because I did and it's wierdly not the same as the point I started). But still a fucking legendary video. Grateful that you exist Hamazaza. ❤
Out of the topic of this video Hamza, I wanted to thank you for every single vid you've delivered. Right now I am a 16 year old, from India. Inspired by examples like you and ICEcold JT, I've come the farthest I ever did on self improvement, it's almost like a spike from a flatline base in the self improvement graph ever since I got into watching you two. The amount of valid confidence I've built over the already existing but kinda invalid one is just absurd. I'm legitimately doing better at studying, at basketball, was already proficient in social interaction but getting even better, getting girls to notice me (not AS important but yeah it's natural for us men to desire that as well) and overall becoming a better person. I saw your "welcome to the cult" vid where you gave the pyramid illustration, and I can proudly say I've recently reached level 3, a bloomer, and huge part of that goes to you. I always had it in me but angels like you and JT have amplified the drive so much more. Thanks a lot, and I'll keep pushing further and further even after this. :)
Thank you Hamza, I've been with a lot of girls in my life, I'm older than you and usually these dating videos aren't super relevant to me. BUT! I've ALWAYS sucked at texting, I don't like it and exactly like you say I've had almost every tinder conversation die out. IRL I'm comfortable and have no problems hooking up because I don't think too much about what I say and why I just do it. But you just taught me why my texting is shit, this was super useful and feels like an eye opener. I'll be implementing these tips, I wrote them down to remember them. Thanks man!
The phone is for setting dates dont overtext and spill all your secrets, have a quick exchange, make an excuse you're busy after a few messages if it drags on and then set the date, works best.
Just started a chat with a girl over IG she complimented my eye colour and now I have nothing to say. And you uploaded this video. Bro you are a G . Thanks
Hamza id dont know how, but in all my time of watching a lot of youtubers talk about getting girls etc, you are the only channel when after watching a video, i have a clear image of what i am doing wrong and how to do it right. Thanks brother
Hamza first of all thank you and love from India and you help millions of teenager to improve their life through self improvement and I'm the one 16 years old working on their dreams who played games all day 2 months before Thank you hamza❤
Hamza your channel has been a saviour for many people including me brahh, I started hitting the gym, I meditate every day, I journal and Life is going only up from now on ❤️❤️
Oh my god I'm so glad I don't use tinder Texting tech support BC u got dumped just made my day But now you are a leader Hamza You yourself said to learn from your mistakeful past Never stop improving Kings!
8:44 had me rolling, that is so accurate 😭 I just realized how boring it is when a girl leads the convo after you talked about your tactic, I'm gonna use it when I get the chance.
Most people dont operate at a higher level spiritually thats why most women need this "bad boy" persona to keep her busy with dopamine or seeking another kick. Its for low quality people. Ive dated women who did not need this superficial bs. Sadly rare to find these kind of people.
In this context yeah it's a video game. In the real world, when you're trying to make actual friends and connect with them, is when you wanna take interest.
I'm a G and I still know I can ALWAYS improve my masculinity and how I present myself to others. Not just for dating but for every aspect of life like business, family, etc. I want to be the master of my own reality. Full self control and discipline is pure masculinity.
I will say, these tips imply that its the guy still chasing. I would rather promote ATTRACTION tips so the girl is doing the pursuing and you've baited her interest in. Chasing women is the worst downhill slippery slope that men don't even realize they're slowly becoming the submissive chaser without realizing it - just ramping up in pursuit/chase every time they talk to a new girl.
Self improvement has helped me with girls, and I can confidently say there are girls going crazy for me. I'm so thankful for discovering Hamza because my life is so much better now.
It’s also important to understand that a playful approach won’t always work either even if you’ve matched. I sent the same message to 2 different girls and 1 wanted to meet up and the other unmatched me.
I've never talked to a girl but landed on one that I really like. I have no idea why but we've been talking almost everyday. But of course doing that I felt that we are slowly losing emotional interest with each other and it doesn't help the fact that I suck with social interactions. I love these videos please give more. I'm basically a robot with no social abilities installed on my software.
Hello sir ( Anyone reading this please reply) This is my daily schedule 7-8:30 - Yoga, and preparing for office. 8:30-10 - Travel to office 10 - 6:30 - office 6:30 - 7:45 - travel back home 8 - 9 - Gym 9 - 9:30- Prepare dinner 9:30 - 9:45 - dinner 9:45 - 10: 30 - video editing 10:30 - 11:00 - learn new songs on guitar/record vocals 11 - 11:30 - read book Sir how should I get more time as I am unable to get success and still struggling. How should I get success faster and escape this 8-8 job loop. Please help as I am suffering this since 3 years and people behind me came forward and are successful.
1.5 hour commute... see if there's a way you can work remotely, or find a job closer to you. You can also same time on prepping for dinner by cooking a week's worth of meal at once, separating it into tupperware, and keeping it in the fridge/frozen until you're ready to eat it.
I don’t know how helpful this will be but a few weeks back I saw a video to save up enough money for atleast a few months of living expenses so you can quit your job and learn to make money instead Goodluck 😅
Hey Hamza, could you make a video on how people younger than 18 can start to improve their relationship with girlfriend/friend and how to make a move. Thos would mean the world to me as I'm struggling. Cheers.
Honestly texting is so frequent and accessible now I think it's a moot point to try to build any engagement over text and to build it in person. Sure text them back to make plans and such but keep your personality for in front of someone until you build a relationship with them. This goes for dates and friends as well imo - I prefer to be on my phone less now and build relationships in front of people. When professionally networking, text properly and be necessarily verbose. But with women and friends, the best connections are built with in-person time
100% agree , once i started texting my girl more and complimenting her more via text and replying faster, she would give me dry responses and didn’t seem as interested in me- the times she seemed most intrested was when i didn’t answer her texts for some time funny how that works
@@ghost0861 The weird thing is i accidently used the not reply tactic involuntarily with my now ex-girlfriend and i didn't even realize i was doing it bruh no wonder
Hey! Need answer ASAP... Should i firstly go and talk to the girl in direct conversation in person or to message her via IG? We had a whole week of just looking at each-other from distance, like keeping eye contact for 5-6 seconds a few times when we see each other on bus... (btw i am 16, and also i never had gf before)
@@borutotwobluevortexx Man okay well I would suggest you try and talk to her direct but I feel the others might have better advice but I personally think direct should be the best
@@borutotwobluevortexx bro talk to her in person first. From the way she replies and talks to you, you'd get to know if she is actually into you or not. Starting a conversation with a girl for the first time via text makes her think you lack confidence. Hopefully this helps
Any time I send out a text message to a chick I get a panic attack because I’m literally putting myself out there to get ghosted. Texting is a scary world, man.
Hey Hamza, I'm pretty good in texting and also actually talking. But the issue is exactly what you said, most girls are completely boring, and I can't get my head around the "one night stand" culture anymore. It's okay for some time, a year or two, but then it's literally impossible to maintain even a short-term relationship because no matter how atractive someone is, they can prove to be the most uninteresting and uninspiring human being. I get so excited to talk to a new beautiful girl sometimes that it's actually heartbreaking. Anyone else gets this feeling?
Western women don't value virginity or families, alot of jacked guys and guys who have money are going overseas to countries where women are still feminine and traditional for marriage. Where you don't need to text her to start a relationship.
Yup everything he said is true. Hamza just summarised everything I subconsciously learned in two years after a heartbreak. I do not consider myself a player or fuckboi but like he said emotional investment is very important. When a girl is emotionally invested, it doesn't matter if you say positive or negative things because the difference between two starts to fade. The more you confuse her, the more she finds you interesting. Everyone who sees this video needs to understand that the secrets he told are not magic tricks but practiced methods. Some learn it naturally while others need a wake up call.
When i talk to a girl i do these secrets but not in a conscious way. Like i can speak to girls using the secrets you talked about its really easy and the conversation doesnt die out. I also do that to some of my friends and they will be confused as hell. They said im the most undriest person to speak to and its quite nice that you, Hamza, do the same
A follow up vidoe to this should be…once you’ve texted, secured the date or whatever, then what? So you don’t come across dry in person, you can continue the fun!
HAMZA! Theres this girl thats into me and I didn't want to fumble, so I did the thing where you ignore her dry question and respond as if she never even asked and bro it actually works shes been complementing me and all sorts of stuff! THANK YOU HAMZA legitimet advice
If one thing is certain, these are very VERY effective tactics, I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks and she always seems eager to talk to me, several convos happened in real time, and she's always quick to respond to me ASAP.
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I swear I don’t even text anymore, it makes real life interactions 10x better
saame
Yah
GOAT
King shit
True
One of the best feelings is when you're talking with a girl, and the conversation flows naturally and doesn't stop, and it doesn't end until either of you decides to stop talking. Those are the girls you want to date, not those who aren't interested in you and don't want to hold up a conversation with you. Interest and conversation go both ways, and if she's not interested in holding up the conversation with you, she isn't the girl you should be dating. Don't settle for anything else.
you are a total Jeffrey bro!
@@dabocousin bro exactly I was abt to say the same thing, he a whole npc 😭😭
He has typed this 3 times before
No hate guys 🤣
So true mate
1) stop asking boring ass questions
2) be playful and flirty
3) do not let a conversation burn to the ground
Definetly dont be playful and flirty unless you wanna get jumped 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ its high risk high reward and most ppl cannot do it right. Plus if youre ugly dont be playful just rely on being funny.
But the rest is really good advice
@@R9naldo only use text to set up video calls and you can be flirty all you like + you can't get screen shotted
@@wxntta good advice right there brother
yeah man we have seen the video.
@@R9naldo anyone with common sense would just make their physique better before trying to get girls, so why are you saying “if ur ugly don’t be playful and just rely on being funny” like stfu 😂
Man it's embarrassing how many times i come back to this video
It's ok, idk how to text either, there is no face to face, it's weird
Your not the only one man
Real
Our IQ got depleted due to things we eat and drink. Avoid fluoride and start drinking water without them
Notes:
- admit you often have dry or boring texts with a girl rather than being arrogant. it is always better to accept your flaws and use them to improve than staying in denial where you are
- stop asking boring questions
- ei: "hey wyd haha?" "hey whats up?" "how was your day?"
- be playful, flirty, and s*xual with your messages
- ei: instead of says "wyd," say something playful such as "I bet you're stepping on snails right now"
*- do not let her burn the conversation to the ground.*
*- if she asks you a boring question such as one of the ones listed above, just ignore it and move on to whatever you want to say*
*- ei: she might text you saying "how was your day?," and you might respond with "I bet you're stepping on snails right now"*
- make her emotionally invested in you
- make her think about you, even if it is a negative emotion
- the more emotions you can appeal to, the better it will end up for you
its so strange how that stepping on snails line works so easily. it confuses them so they then get more invested in the conversation than they would be with a normal response.
@@redssign does it have a meaning i don't know or it's just random nonsense ?
@@gougouga it's just random stuff that makes no sense but it will get an emotional response out of that girl.
@@Octaviusss808 how do you get into a convo with that??
@@haydenlee4804did u not watch the vid? It’s just a convo starter to replace “how are you” or other simple stuff like that
FYI, this only works after step 1 & 2.
Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Don't be unattractive
True 🤷🤷
If you’re unattractive and trying to catch a girl by being sexual in texts, the only thing you’re gonna catch is a court date.
Hes made plenty of videos about that, so yes. Think about it, you wanna date someone who doesn't take care of their health or hygiene? Why should women?
Then what's stopping you from being attractive, Jeffrey? Too afraid to put in the hard work?
@@louisstout9952 they mean genetically unattractive....what ur talking about is circumstantial unattractiveness. An example is someone whos fat, but if they lost weight would be very handsome/beautiful. But what the person was talking about was a person who is actually unnatractive. No amount of muscle,skincare products will change it
What I've Learned:
1. Always ignore their questions
2. Reply with an accusation. Preferably related to stepbrother porn
2. Make your receiver emotionally distraught.
4. Repeat
I think you misinterpreted it. These are just some ways to tap into other emotions apart from happiness (which literally everyones tries to do).
I agree that these example are a little too harsh so I too wouldn't use them.
Sir, my daughter hasnt came out of her room for an entire week. And all we hear is intense crying, what have you done
@@FFFr3sHHH lmfaoo
lmfaoo
Still better than my texting
Secret to make a girl obsessed with you:
make her think about you all the time
🤯🤯🤯
was this before you were famous?
kaiguy LOL
You are me but Kai
i never expected to see kaiguy here LOL
It’s kaygay 😮😮😮
For having testing this concept just recently. I can assure you that what Hamza states is awfully true.
Girls who feel nothing for you, don't even look at you, don't come near you, never text you because YOU, yes YOU, the Supposed to be man, haven't made her feel anything. So you're no one to her. If you can't spark any emotions in girls, you will struggle.
Seeing that keeping always the positive mindset didnt work most of the time, I chose the more realistic approach possible.
A girl makes you mad, then react.
Don't ever be afraid of a girl's reaction. If you're afraid of her leaving, chances are 1000 to 1 against you, that she's just using you or that she couldnt care less of you and you know it but you prefer lying to yourself.
GIrls who hate you, will still sleep with you.
The most important thing is that GIRLS must speak of you. Girls don't ever talk about guys they aren't interested in. Don't care if it's positive or negative, the fact that they talk about you, means that they acknowledge your existence and if you aren't looking like Gollum. Then you are on the right path.
Nothing works for you with girls ?
Try the opposite. It has done wonders for me ! Just never go to an extreme.
W comment bro
Everything he said, I look back and also realize is true in this video. All the girls I didnt particularly care for, I treated exactly how he said to do, and they were wayyy into me. But all the ones I was seriously interested in, could not have gave a fuck. The problem for me is getting rid of that disconnect and not caring about the ones im interested in haha
@Gav Liddle that is true but some girls do it on purpose to get a reaction from you. Some girls I had were turned on when I was Mad and angry and when I was cussing at them ... I had a really freaky afternoon just after getting real Mad at one girl and she said those words : "You're so handsome when you're mad" just after finished business. I would have never known this side of girls if I would have forever stayed a nice guy
Thank you, May God bless you and everyone. ❤
Gollum?
Hamza, I just wanted to say, your daily uploads keep me going everyday. I have been going through a rough breakup and realized how stagnant in life I have been. I finally began my pursuit of manhood, and I want to say your daily uploads remind me to keep pushing forward. I never comment on videos but I just had to personally thank you on the off chance that you do see this comment.
Stay strong bro
I feel you mate, don`t give up
Your a real man already 🫡🗿
Damn, I been stagnant for like three years now, and just starting a month after you.
More so than Hamza, seeing a person going through same stuff, you are my inspiration bro. I hope you still stay strong.
My friend is in jail after watching this video
My friend died after watching this
You literally confirmed what I've been doing this whole time, and a couple days after watching this video I got the girl that I first started my self-improvement journey for... Thank you. Along the way I have gotten way more confident, I haven't felt depressed ever since I got a gym membership, and even if we eventually break up with this girl, I know I won't be broken or sad. Self-improvement is a beautiful thing.
I remember sometime in October I was texting a girl and it was going well then she left me on read for 16 days. When she finally responded and was all like "sorry I took so long, I suck at responding" I didn't say anything to her I just moved on, never texted back and got to a bag 💰. It felt so good.
Any bitch that doesn’t respond like that and then makes an excuse is even worse bro 😂 good stuff
Good job 👍
Man tbh the reason she probably stop responding was because you was just wasting time and texts were reaching nowhere she must have been just waiting to say lets link up on some shi
Chad
@@SJTheGiant could be could be not
The most useful thing I did for my texting game was to go on dates in person. Learning how to talk to someone in the most difficult/intimidating way makes easy popcorn conversation like texting so easy.
Something Ive noticed. Chicks are more masculine over text, but as soon as you try a phone call or in person conversation, they shut down. Kinda crazy.
@@50shadesofcerakote yeah they’re used to that dynamic where dudes are too scared to talk and then they want to be cute enough that you’ll be into them
You are a great man Hamza. First time I stumbled upon your channel I was critical like I was with a lot of things. Then I actually took some time to view your videos and I respect you and what you are doing very much. Your content is something many men don't like to hear, but need to.
I already know this advice will work even before trying it. Thank you so much for reaching me what nobody else will.
The stepbro line was outta pocket 😭
Way outa pocket lmao
I don't think I ever saw Hamza broke the flow of the intro. That was a nice change of pace. Keep up that authenticity Hamza! ❤
I wasn't convinced after the video I got to be honest. But after trying it, I couldn't believe how easy that was. The conversation just flowed effortlessly. Thanks Hamza much love.
The timing on this is absolutely perfect thankyou
ever since I started watching your videos, I've been seeing major improvement in my life man. thanks a lot Hamza, you're my lifesaver, that's why I consider you my life mentor. ❤️
Man I was successful in secret number 3
Hamza!!! I have to thank you. For my whole life I’d never thought it’d come true, but it finally has. Ty so much for your advice.
This video is helping me connect the dots. Whenever I send random shit whether its offensive or hilarious, I get a response. Never understood why I got responses every time.
secret advice was the best imo, the other 3 I do but realizing I'm not hitting on enough different emotional scales to create that feeling when I'm not around is major key!
thank you hamza for saving my life
Thank you Hamza, my social skills have gone up a lot these last months.
I used to be a loner, and. now I have a lot of friends and have been getting more successful with girls
Hell yeah
honestly same. i wasn't horrible before, but ive noticed my social skills skyrocketing.
U hitting the gym yet?
Wish I could get there too man! Good job 👏🏻
Hell yeah bro
bro, thank you for all these advice vids, I started watching your videos almost 2 yrs ago, I have been with my wife for 2.5 yrs thanks to your vids which helped me fix our relationship. thx much brother
Hamza you changed my life bro thank you so much you are a real life saver
Definitely needed this a few months ago. Gonna nail it for the next one. Now we grind.
Everything you do for the community is amazing and I hope you’re enjoying Dubai as much as I am.
By far one of my favorite Hamza video, not only was it good but it was hilarious and I was invested the whole time. 💀
Dude, you really build really good tension for your 3.advice!!!
bro u just saved a conversation with my crush rn amazing timing with the upload
Keep up the great work man! The societal impact of this content on humanity is huge! 🏆🥂
Facts
Its really good to see that hamza is becoming a real youtuber
Man I'm really glad that we are getting actionable advice here. Most advice on how to get girls nowadays is to be on your path but what about the guys who have been on self improvement for 5 years and just need the simple behavioural tweaks to start attracting. Thank you for the info in this video Hamza
Really needed that! Thank you!👍🏽
God damn. I didn't know how bad I needed this added into my self-improvement journey. Still wondering if we can get a Video to refresh our knowledge about Self-Improvement and how to get back on the right track if we failed (because I did and it's wierdly not the same as the point I started). But still a fucking legendary video. Grateful that you exist Hamazaza. ❤
@@dale2283 Definitely man. I’m back into it, it’s time we succeed. 💯
@@ordinaryasian_ watch the video 'never get complacent' by hamza.
Hamza is like the big brother we've never had, even if we are supposed to be the big brothers
Out of the topic of this video Hamza, I wanted to thank you for every single vid you've delivered. Right now I am a 16 year old, from India. Inspired by examples like you and ICEcold JT, I've come the farthest I ever did on self improvement, it's almost like a spike from a flatline base in the self improvement graph ever since I got into watching you two. The amount of valid confidence I've built over the already existing but kinda invalid one is just absurd. I'm legitimately doing better at studying, at basketball, was already proficient in social interaction but getting even better, getting girls to notice me (not AS important but yeah it's natural for us men to desire that as well) and overall becoming a better person. I saw your "welcome to the cult" vid where you gave the pyramid illustration, and I can proudly say I've recently reached level 3, a bloomer, and huge part of that goes to you. I always had it in me but angels like you and JT have amplified the drive so much more. Thanks a lot, and I'll keep pushing further and further even after this. :)
Thank you Hamza, I've been with a lot of girls in my life, I'm older than you and usually these dating videos aren't super relevant to me. BUT! I've ALWAYS sucked at texting, I don't like it and exactly like you say I've had almost every tinder conversation die out. IRL I'm comfortable and have no problems hooking up because I don't think too much about what I say and why I just do it. But you just taught me why my texting is shit, this was super useful and feels like an eye opener. I'll be implementing these tips, I wrote them down to remember them.
Thanks man!
So you're good talking then..
The phone is for setting dates dont overtext and spill all your secrets, have a quick exchange, make an excuse you're busy after a few messages if it drags on and then set the date, works best.
Very Helpful Hamza Gives The Most Realistic Advice
Just started a chat with a girl over IG she complimented my eye colour and now I have nothing to say. And you uploaded this video. Bro you are a G . Thanks
"Alright then let me and you link up so you can get a chance to stare at my pretty eyes as much as you want" or something like that
Hamza you are leading such an amazing cult dont stop! You have saved tens maybe even hundreds of thousands of people's lives... Thank you
hamza is fr saving my life rn
Hamza id dont know how, but in all my time of watching a lot of youtubers talk about getting girls etc, you are the only channel when after watching a video, i have a clear image of what i am doing wrong and how to do it right. Thanks brother
Hamza first of all thank you and love from India and you help millions of teenager to improve their life through self improvement and I'm the one 16 years old working on their dreams who played games all day 2 months before
Thank you hamza❤
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@@ishaan6621 yeap bro🗿🤜
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Hamza Has honestly changed my life.
I can't describe how my life has changed from watching your videos, thank you!
I attempted Tip #3 and it worked flawlessly!?!? Ty Hamza the big brother I never had
Hamza your channel has been a saviour for many people including me brahh, I started hitting the gym, I meditate every day, I journal and Life is going only up from now on ❤️❤️
Oh my god I'm so glad I don't use tinder
Texting tech support BC u got dumped just made my day
But now you are a leader Hamza
You yourself said to learn from your mistakeful past
Never stop improving Kings!
I’ve seen one of this guys videos on tik tok and followed his advice and it worked so I think that deserves a subscribe
Love this man❤
God bless you☦
The bit of dating advice that changed my approach to dating is: change her feelings, not her mind
Keep encouraging the young men of our generation 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
im going to watch this video every day man
8:44 had me rolling, that is so accurate 😭
I just realized how boring it is when a girl leads the convo after you talked about your tactic, I'm gonna use it when I get the chance.
Hamza, the value you put in your videos is 10 out of 12.
So basically anyone who wants to text genuine and nice and take an interest in her are gonna end up alone, great message
That's 20s dating for you.
:( oh but she wants a nice guy
Most people dont operate at a higher level spiritually thats why most women need this "bad boy" persona to keep her busy with dopamine or seeking another kick. Its for low quality people. Ive dated women who did not need this superficial bs. Sadly rare to find these kind of people.
HATE THE GAME NOT THE PLAYER
In this context yeah it's a video game. In the real world, when you're trying to make actual friends and connect with them, is when you wanna take interest.
this is actually really true and all he is saying is facts no cap bro fr keep it up my man cheers
Thank you, May God bless you and everyone. ❤
I'm a G and I still know I can ALWAYS improve my masculinity and how I present myself to others. Not just for dating but for every aspect of life like business, family, etc. I want to be the master of my own reality. Full self control and discipline is pure masculinity.
I will say, these tips imply that its the guy still chasing. I would rather promote ATTRACTION tips so the girl is doing the pursuing and you've baited her interest in. Chasing women is the worst downhill slippery slope that men don't even realize they're slowly becoming the submissive chaser without realizing it - just ramping up in pursuit/chase every time they talk to a new girl.
Facts
Self improvement has helped me with girls, and I can confidently say there are girls going crazy for me. I'm so thankful for discovering Hamza because my life is so much better now.
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A simple “Guess” changed my life, thank you Hamza
Love this dude bruh thank you deadass, bro really sparked my drive again.
It’s also important to understand that a playful approach won’t always work either even if you’ve matched. I sent the same message to 2 different girls and 1 wanted to meet up and the other unmatched me.
From watching pewdiepie back in the day with meme review and giving us a bonus meme to watching hamza and giving us bonus secret tip....PROGRESS
I NEEDED THIS
Thanks bro I needed this
I've never talked to a girl but landed on one that I really like. I have no idea why but we've been talking almost everyday. But of course doing that I felt that we are slowly losing emotional interest with each other and it doesn't help the fact that I suck with social interactions.
I love these videos please give more. I'm basically a robot with no social abilities installed on my software.
self depreciation is a no go. Build confidence. your are the prize.
Hello sir ( Anyone reading this please reply)
This is my daily schedule
7-8:30 - Yoga, and preparing for office.
8:30-10 - Travel to office
10 - 6:30 - office
6:30 - 7:45 - travel back home
8 - 9 - Gym
9 - 9:30- Prepare dinner
9:30 - 9:45 - dinner
9:45 - 10: 30 - video editing
10:30 - 11:00 - learn new songs on guitar/record vocals
11 - 11:30 - read book
Sir how should I get more time as I am unable to get success and still struggling. How should I get success faster and escape this 8-8 job loop. Please help as I am suffering this since 3 years and people behind me came forward and are successful.
Dude... U r waisting so much of time... And not even getting enough sleep
1.5 hour commute... see if there's a way you can work remotely, or find a job closer to you. You can also same time on prepping for dinner by cooking a week's worth of meal at once, separating it into tupperware, and keeping it in the fridge/frozen until you're ready to eat it.
I don’t know how helpful this will be but a few weeks back I saw a video to save up enough money for atleast a few months of living expenses so you can quit your job and learn to make money instead
Goodluck 😅
@@KG-sy5go please provide the link
Have exercise and yoga in one session.
I'm 'bout to change my life with these tips. This is a good starting foundation for me. Thanks man
One player to another your a legend ..
bro hamza deadass your so funny bro, i love you no homo
Hey Hamza, could you make a video on how people younger than 18 can start to improve their relationship with girlfriend/friend and how to make a move. Thos would mean the world to me as I'm struggling. Cheers.
Barely watched 30 mins of this guy and I already know all his advice is good
Love you Brother.
Honestly texting is so frequent and accessible now I think it's a moot point to try to build any engagement over text and to build it in person. Sure text them back to make plans and such but keep your personality for in front of someone until you build a relationship with them. This goes for dates and friends as well imo - I prefer to be on my phone less now and build relationships in front of people.
When professionally networking, text properly and be necessarily verbose. But with women and friends, the best connections are built with in-person time
100% agree , once i started texting my girl more and complimenting her more via text and replying faster, she would give me dry responses and didn’t seem as interested in me- the times she seemed most intrested was when i didn’t answer her texts for some time funny how that works
@@ghost0861 The weird thing is i accidently used the not reply tactic involuntarily with my now ex-girlfriend and i didn't even realize i was doing it bruh no wonder
Hey! Need answer ASAP... Should i firstly go and talk to the girl in direct conversation in person or to message her via IG? We had a whole week of just looking at each-other from distance, like keeping eye contact for 5-6 seconds a few times when we see each other on bus... (btw i am 16, and also i never had gf before)
@@borutotwobluevortexx Man okay well I would suggest you try and talk to her direct but I feel the others might have better advice but I personally think direct should be the best
@@borutotwobluevortexx bro talk to her in person first. From the way she replies and talks to you, you'd get to know if she is actually into you or not. Starting a conversation with a girl for the first time via text makes her think you lack confidence. Hopefully this helps
Any time I send out a text message to a chick I get a panic attack because I’m literally putting myself out there to get ghosted. Texting is a scary world, man.
Thnx hamza for making me better
Omg bro this the best timing😩😩
Hey Hamza, I'm pretty good in texting and also actually talking. But the issue is exactly what you said, most girls are completely boring, and I can't get my head around the "one night stand" culture anymore. It's okay for some time, a year or two, but then it's literally impossible to maintain even a short-term relationship because no matter how atractive someone is, they can prove to be the most uninteresting and uninspiring human being. I get so excited to talk to a new beautiful girl sometimes that it's actually heartbreaking. Anyone else gets this feeling?
Yeah… they all kind of blend together
Western women don't value virginity or families, alot of jacked guys and guys who have money are going overseas to countries where women are still feminine and traditional for marriage. Where you don't need to text her to start a relationship.
Yup everything he said is true. Hamza just summarised everything I subconsciously learned in two years after a heartbreak. I do not consider myself a player or fuckboi but like he said emotional investment is very important. When a girl is emotionally invested, it doesn't matter if you say positive or negative things because the difference between two starts to fade. The more you confuse her, the more she finds you interesting. Everyone who sees this video needs to understand that the secrets he told are not magic tricks but practiced methods. Some learn it naturally while others need a wake up call.
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These videos are gold
Thanks hamza I'm really grateful to you ❤
"obviously dont go to jail "
when heard that i genuinely laughed so hard for no reason there lol
I love how he mentioned not to get in jail
Hamza as always on point
Bro thank you man this is going to help a lot
Thanks for this video Hamza I'll try these tips out
When i talk to a girl i do these secrets but not in a conscious way. Like i can speak to girls using the secrets you talked about its really easy and the conversation doesnt die out. I also do that to some of my friends and they will be confused as hell. They said im the most undriest person to speak to and its quite nice that you, Hamza, do the same
Damn really whatd you say to start the conversations
Could you give any examples what to say instead of these boring questions?
Ayo bro don't ditch the boys man 😂
A follow up vidoe to this should be…once you’ve texted, secured the date or whatever, then what? So you don’t come across dry in person, you can continue the fun!
wwww advice hamza it makes a lot of sense, definitely implementing it
HAMZA! Theres this girl thats into me and I didn't want to fumble, so I did the thing where you ignore her dry question and respond as if she never even asked and bro it actually works shes been complementing me and all sorts of stuff!
THANK YOU HAMZA legitimet advice
So basically say something funny that makes you laugh and have conversation that actually is fun for you
Exactly
If one thing is certain, these are very VERY effective tactics, I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks and she always seems eager to talk to me, several convos happened in real time, and she's always quick to respond to me ASAP.
Yo amigo gimme some tutorial on how to start the conversation?
needed #3 man
hamza u the best You got my whole respect