Hello Antonio, I like your videos, your guides and everything you are doing for the community BUT I do feel like I have to tell you about something that is always bothering me. Getting a paid sponsor is surely a great way to pay the bills but every time you do a promotion for you sponsors you look like a clown to me. You are only mentioning how awesome their products are, how you tested it and it works like out of this world but it looks so cheep. I believe you ought to be reviewing the products, meaning giving pros AND cons. Not giving cons of the product feels like you are selling fraud items. You have spent exactly 1:34 min in the middle of your video worshipping the sponsor and agine at the end of the video for another 17 seconds. The ammout of time you have invested in it was what triggered me to write you this message. Saying only good things about the products it most likely part of sponsorship agreement, but you surely have dosens of sponsorship proposals and so you are in the position to dictate what do you do or do not want. I hope this doesn't insult you in any way as it is definitely not purpose of this message. Your follower, MrAlyyk.
You stated "I hope this doesn't insult you" after "you look like a clown to me". Maybe you might want to try a little patience with people. I'm sure you would like patience shown with your shortcomings.
Real Men Real Style I am so happy that this video is finally here! I can't even stress enough the fact that there's a lot of first impression mistakes that I make. Mistakes like the eye contact is something that I struggle alot. But the two monsterous things that I always flaw is telling big stories and remembering people's names. Telling stories to my other ancestors or my friends is something that nearly 96% of the time I fail to do. This is something that I really need a serious habit to have. I mean of course I do tell stories. But yet of course, it's plain rare. So I'm glad that this video is finally out there. It's a massive video tip especially for people who struggles but also wants to have a much better communication skills to other people including his/her friends. In my opinion, being a good listener, good eye-to-eye viewer and good story teller is one of the biggest things to have for our own entire life in the coming future.
You're right in I do have my choice of sponsors - only 1/25 proposals actually make it to video. Thus I choose only items I REALLY like that tie closely to the material we create. But these are paid promotions - not reviews - so hence I keep things positive. If I had a real issue with the product - it wouldn't be talked about at all as it wouldn't make it past my vetting process.
Number 10 shouldn't be underestimated. I recently met someone who was very senior and very successful in a large global company. What struck me was that he instantly remembered my name and dropped it into the conversation several times. It left a lasting impression with me and I now try to memorise everyone's name.
Well if you want to be a narrow sighted person... I don't mind. I think that's not what Antonio was and is advocating here. But you have your right to your insightful opinion! Love you buddy but I do not play games. I'm just in them to recruit people to my or should I say THE team. A wonderful TEAM! and besides, I'm not afraid to ruin(not deliberately, of course, love happens what can I say) your second impression either... whatever it takes to proof to you, you are able to do better. Hate is okay but with a bit of anger towards yourself, you can get over it. Mark me saying anger not hate or harm. Mission accomplished.
Number 9 is super important. Perhaps the most important for younger people like me who are doing college/university/job interviews as we have less experience and we are also more accustomed to using slang. Fellow youngsters, we gotta learn how to correctly articulate ourselves so that we don't come off as less intelligent or lower class.
I am just 24 years old and I've been watching you videos from past 1 year. Love you videos and I've learnt a lot from it. I have applied most of them and guess what all were positive outcome. Thank You so much Sir.
This guy’s charisma and subtle humor is off the roof. You’re really talkative but you’re not annoying. There is something about your blend of eye contact, tone and bodily/verbal expression that would make you dominant in a group of a hundred other “gentlemen”. You’re a true representation of a respectable, believed to be extinct, gentleman concept. You could be talking nonsense and you could get people to listen to you. Everything about you is neither retro nor too modern, neither old school nor brand new, neither hipster nor bland. I have no idea how to describe the feeling you’re giving off except “a mix between subtle, unique and strong”.
Great list. I definetly need to improve on some of these, but shaking hands I have turned into an art-form. It is not only good for first impressions, but it is good for second, third, and every other impression there after. I make it a habbit to shake peoples hands every day. I do this with my superiors, peers and subordinate soldiers. A sincere and strong hand-shake levels the playing field for everyone. Seniors look at you more equally, peers feel truly appreciated, and subordinates no longer feel that they are beneith you. I have integrated this so much into my daily routine, I will often have people come by my desk, or wherever I am, just to get their daily hand-shake. And the most important thing about a sincere and friendly hand-shake is that it gives people a fighting chance to have a good day. I like being able to introduce something positive into someone's day, because life is sometimes rough and unforgiving and something as simple as a hand-shake and a smile might be all it take to change their outlook.
It was pointed out to me years ago, the rule never to offer a handshake to a female. She must initiate it. That rule has worked well for me to practice.
At a career fair prep day someone was asking about what to do if your palms sweat because you’re nervous. I don’t know how helpful it actually is but the answer was that you can keep your arms down right before you go to introduce yourself and shake hands and you can quietly and subtly wipe your hands on your jacket a bit right before you introduce yourself.
You said the magic phrase at 9:44, friend. People spend a lot of time moaning and groaning about how hard it is to be taken seriously, how hard it is to be an adult, to become successful.. but when you really start taking that key word seriously, really assimilate it into who you are, you quickly find yourself well over that hill and halfway down the other side. Then you come to a place like RMRS to put on the finishing touches. Cheers brothers.
There are 2 types of people, however... people who are open for people who are reserved and cold and polite and people who are open to people who speak their mind, hot and honest enough to speak a harsh and sometimes 'rude' truth... I'm the last... I know the last is the least easy way in my opinion but I'm comfortable with the fact that some people want to be handheld their entire life. And on occasion, I will hold a hand either mine or theirs if they just open for that fact and not paint of someone who's 'obstructive' as a crook? Did any of you ever experience that? Then you'll feel right at home at the channel I set out for us. Anyway thanks Antonio for gracious inspiration! I'll hold your hand you sissy ! Ask A what that means!
Antonio, I must say you have studied very keenly about "first impression..." One of the most worth watching videos ever created by you, you have taken yourself to the great height...Keep it up..!!!👍👍👍 🌟Proud to be subscriber..💎
best way for me to remember names is to hear/see both first and last names.. i always forget first names but if im introduced with a first and last name i never forget. i can remember just about everyone i worked with years ago because i made it a point to know first and last names.. also makes a good impression with the higher ups when they find out you know your peers by first and last name, at least it did in my experience.
#10 is my biggest downfall, and it’s not because I’m not paying attention. I’ve suffered from dyslexia and being unable to remember names and dates. I think what has saved me sometimes is being honest and saying “I’m sorry, but may I have your name again please?”
I sweat excessively from my armpit solely and I would always try to think of a solution. I thought of making a shirt with pads at the pit but I wasn't sure if it would work. Interesting to see that there is already a design for such a problem.
Hi Antonio! All the points you brought up were ones that so many of us can subconsciously engage in without knowing. I see them in action so often. The poor body language I spotted my two friends doing just last night when we were at a club. I myself have been guilty of not remembering names right after meeting people. A deal breaker for sure. Being mindful is a priority when interacting either one on one or with a group.
I've been wearing Thompson Tees for over a year. Presently I has 15, but the last five are my favorite, they're bamboo and longer. I normally wear a medium in a name brand undershirt, but went to size small in the Thompson for the fit I like. Great company. I don't work for or have any financial association with Thompson Tee except as a customer.
Thanks for your videos, your advices in this video could seem obvious for some people, but not everyone. so thank you, you're bringing more values to people watching this. Respect.
I am really enjoying your advise. You are providing good info for being a better person and business person. These things seem to be lost in our current culture.
That last one always gets me unless if I already know someone that has that name. If I do then I can just associate those two people by name and I'll often remember. I'll have to try your repetition method out. Great tips like always, Antonio, keep up the good work!
I have a huge problem with eye contact. In a lot of situations with Friends and Family i just don't feel the need for eye contact cause I pay attention anyway, but these people know I'm intelligent and value the content of the conversation or whatever. Problem is, when I meet other people I sometimes catch myself thinking things like 'did I just only look at that guys hand while shaking it?'.
Very useful! I wonder how we can end a conversation properly because when we meet people in the first time it seems inappropriate to end the conversation by ourselves.
You don't have to look directly in their eyes all the time. The triangle between their eyes and nose are more than enough. Look lower to the nose for younger people just slightly up to the eyebrows for peers and older folks.
My lips get chapped easily, especially in the winter. I have this bad habit where I'll rub or "pick" my lips when they're chapped, which only makes it worse. I've become much more aware of it lately, but I still catch myself doing it from time to time.
Add to excessive sweat bad breath. If I can smell your breath when shaking your hand it's a complete and total turn off. Funny you mention handshake and weak body language. Was introduced yesterday to a new co-worker and went to shake his hand. Weak limp handshake and physically withdrawn. Said all the right things but those two things were very telling about future work relations. Oh and humor goes a long way!
I have a work friend who shakes for (no lie) one to two minutes. After 10-15 seconds i limp my arm and he still keeps going. It cracks me up. Also 26hrs with four kids? Where did u fly too? Did you sedate yourself?
Talking about crutch words, equally bad is the current practise of many is " uptalk" or rising intonation. Very common especially with younger crowds and even with some business professionals. You would never hear a politician or a CEO talk like that.
He's right about having a few humorous stories to tell. Asking questions, as Dale Carnegie once recommended, makes people uneasy. They believe you're nosey.
If you are not 7/10 in 2017 dont even try it, its over.Just LOL if you dont look like Sean O'Pry. Just kidding, as long as you are not a 350 pound whale you should be fine.If you are taller then dont even GIVE a shit.
I've got a question. Now I hear you when you made mention about sweating and arriving earlier and staying cool and using product etc. I don't generally have major issues with underarm or hand sweating; for my body, I always wear a light vest or undershirt to avoid sweat prints through my clothes, and I don't really sweat on my hands, but my issue is that I perspire mainly on my forehead, alot, even though I am generally cool. The simplest of actions or movement, the beads start to appear. I always walk with a hand kerchief or a rag and constantly have to dab or swipe to keep it dry and clear, and even though it is, I still do regularly as a precautionary measure. I just always thought my forehead was simply overtly active with sweating. Does that (the constant wiping) look bad and unattractive, and how can I address or alleviate this. Thanks.
Hey Antonio great video! I have solid eye contact and a strong hand shake and many people perceive me as overpowering how should I fix this it is a natural habit I don't really think about it
The ultimate question as far as number #10 (happens to me at large parties and so on or when I rarely see people and then boom - all of a sudden I see them!) is what should one do to avoid it?
Initiating a handshake with the hand in a pronate position indicates you're concealing something [ a bribe for example ] or you're trying to dominate the person. A friendly handshake is extended with a supinated open hand [I am not hiding anything, being transparent, friendship ].
Alternatively, you can ask them how they spell their name. Or if they could say it again. If they know they have a difficult name to pronounce, they will usually be fine with it and appreciate you taking the time to get it right.
I'd like to know: if you want to talk to a group of people who are already in a conversation. Do you just ... barge in and introduce yourself (you can tell I don't like that idea too much) and then listen and participate or do you just listen until you can contribute to the conversation and only after that introduce yourself?
Real Men Real Style the point about the handshake and body language. :) By the way, what I like about your channel is that there's wisdom in it. Keep up the good work, Antonio!
Antonio concerning first impressions, based on the seeming political polarization of America, could my choice of tie color (red or blue)be potentially held against me in interviews? Thanks for your input
Also: being super nice to me, but just a dick to other people (while I'm around). I once met a guy, thought 'ok, he takes some getting used to and he might not be the guy most people want to be around with all the time, but I get along with him.' Then, he was being very rude to a waiter and that stood out to me especially because I was also waiting tables on the side at that time.
Sir I really want to thank you for your content I just want to say something I think might be useful When you say a joke laugh a little (not just simple smile) - like when you said your kids love dirty jokes.
Hi Antonio, love your channel you put out great relevant content every week! My question is, I'm a guy who struggles finding pants that fit, as I am rather muscular and my thighs are larger than normal. Skinny, slim, and straight cuts all look awkward on my frame and relaxed fit are too bulky and not the style I'd like to have. Can you recommend specific brands/products that cater to men in my situation? I am over 6 foot and have a size 31-32 waist, and desperately need slacks, chinos, jeans, and shorts that will fit. Thank you so much for any help.
Eye contact is hard for those on the autism spectrum. I hope you can give tips on eye contact. Additional first impression tip: Watch what you say. Never say that a lady is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt you.
Let's say I'm the case that I forget a person's name. What is the most polite way to ask for their name again? Along a conversation or try to make them reintroduce themselves or what?
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Hello Antonio, I like your videos, your guides and everything you are doing for the community BUT I do feel like I have to tell you about something that is always bothering me. Getting a paid sponsor is surely a great way to pay the bills but every time you do a promotion for you sponsors you look like a clown to me. You are only mentioning how awesome their products are, how you tested it and it works like out of this world but it looks so cheep. I believe you ought to be reviewing the products, meaning giving pros AND cons. Not giving cons of the product feels like you are selling fraud items. You have spent exactly 1:34 min in the middle of your video worshipping the sponsor and agine at the end of the video for another 17 seconds. The ammout of time you have invested in it was what triggered me to write you this message. Saying only good things about the products it most likely part of sponsorship agreement, but you surely have dosens of sponsorship proposals and so you are in the position to dictate what do you do or do not want. I hope this doesn't insult you in any way as it is definitely not purpose of this message.
Your follower,
MrAlyyk.
You stated "I hope this doesn't insult you" after "you look like a clown to me". Maybe you might want to try a little patience with people. I'm sure you would like patience shown with your shortcomings.
Real Men Real Style I am so happy that this video is finally here! I can't even stress enough the fact that there's a lot of first impression mistakes that I make. Mistakes like the eye contact is something that I struggle alot. But the two monsterous things that I always flaw is telling big stories and remembering people's names. Telling stories to my other ancestors or my friends is something that nearly 96% of the time I fail to do. This is something that I really need a serious habit to have. I mean of course I do tell stories. But yet of course, it's plain rare. So I'm glad that this video is finally out there. It's a massive video tip especially for people who struggles but also wants to have a much better communication skills to other people including his/her friends. In my opinion, being a good listener, good eye-to-eye viewer and good story teller is one of the biggest things to have for our own entire life in the coming future.
You're right in I do have my choice of sponsors - only 1/25 proposals actually make it to video. Thus I choose only items I REALLY like that tie closely to the material we create. But these are paid promotions - not reviews - so hence I keep things positive. If I had a real issue with the product - it wouldn't be talked about at all as it wouldn't make it past my vetting process.
I am glad to hear that.
Number 10 shouldn't be underestimated. I recently met someone who was very senior and very successful in a large global company. What struck me was that he instantly remembered my name and dropped it into the conversation several times. It left a lasting impression with me and I now try to memorise everyone's name.
Good example!
tnetroP How do you bring up somebody's name while talking to them?
Practice is key. Always think before you speak.
Absolutely!
Your ears will never get you in trouble.can you hear me :-)
Anger is key, video I did yesterday ;)
Seth Carnett you just ruined your first impression with us...
Well if you want to be a narrow sighted person... I don't mind. I think that's not what Antonio was and is advocating here. But you have your right to your insightful opinion! Love you buddy but I do not play games. I'm just in them to recruit people to my or should I say THE team. A wonderful TEAM!
and besides, I'm not afraid to ruin(not deliberately, of course, love happens what can I say) your second impression either... whatever it takes to proof to you, you are able to do better. Hate is okay but with a bit of anger towards yourself, you can get over it. Mark me saying anger not hate or harm. Mission accomplished.
Number 9 is super important. Perhaps the most important for younger people like me who are doing college/university/job interviews as we have less experience and we are also more accustomed to using slang.
Fellow youngsters, we gotta learn how to correctly articulate ourselves so that we don't come off as less intelligent or lower class.
Exactly!
TheGingerburger it's not right but it happens unfortunately. People will judge you on how well you communicate.
TheGingerburger it's not about who you choose to be around. It's about potentially losing opportunities in life for no good reason.
I'm certain a man like you will become successful!
Bonus tip: Smile!
Always helps :)
How long until it's creepy thou?
Unless you're a defendent in court.
@@tiborklein5349 Correction: unless you are a guilty defendant in court
Trollface Killa based on that rule it’s best to smile as a guilty defendant because no one would expect it.
I am just 24 years old and I've been watching you videos from past 1 year. Love you videos and I've learnt a lot from it. I have applied most of them and guess what all were positive outcome. Thank You so much Sir.
Awesome - thank you!
#2 & #6 is like a reminder to me. I have to really work on those! Thank you, Antonio. Well done!
Super! Glad it helped Gusher.
This guy’s charisma and subtle humor is off the roof. You’re really talkative but you’re not annoying. There is something about your blend of eye contact, tone and bodily/verbal expression that would make you dominant in a group of a hundred other “gentlemen”. You’re a true representation of a respectable, believed to be extinct, gentleman concept. You could be talking nonsense and you could get people to listen to you. Everything about you is neither retro nor too modern, neither old school nor brand new, neither hipster nor bland. I have no idea how to describe the feeling you’re giving off except “a mix between subtle, unique and strong”.
Great list. I definetly need to improve on some of these, but shaking hands I have turned into an art-form. It is not only good for first impressions, but it is good for second, third, and every other impression there after. I make it a habbit to shake peoples hands every day. I do this with my superiors, peers and subordinate soldiers. A sincere and strong hand-shake levels the playing field for everyone. Seniors look at you more equally, peers feel truly appreciated, and subordinates no longer feel that they are beneith you. I have integrated this so much into my daily routine, I will often have people come by my desk, or wherever I am, just to get their daily hand-shake. And the most important thing about a sincere and friendly hand-shake is that it gives people a fighting chance to have a good day. I like being able to introduce something positive into someone's day, because life is sometimes rough and unforgiving and something as simple as a hand-shake and a smile might be all it take to change their outlook.
It was pointed out to me years ago, the rule never to offer a handshake to a female. She must initiate it. That rule has worked well for me to practice.
At a career fair prep day someone was asking about what to do if your palms sweat because you’re nervous. I don’t know how helpful it actually is but the answer was that you can keep your arms down right before you go to introduce yourself and shake hands and you can quietly and subtly wipe your hands on your jacket a bit right before you introduce yourself.
You said the magic phrase at 9:44, friend. People spend a lot of time moaning and groaning about how hard it is to be taken seriously, how hard it is to be an adult, to become successful.. but when you really start taking that key word seriously, really assimilate it into who you are, you quickly find yourself well over that hill and halfway down the other side. Then you come to a place like RMRS to put on the finishing touches. Cheers brothers.
There are 2 types of people, however... people who are open for people who are reserved and cold and polite and people who are open to people who speak their mind, hot and honest enough to speak a harsh and sometimes 'rude' truth... I'm the last... I know the last is the least easy way in my opinion but I'm comfortable with the fact that some people want to be handheld their entire life. And on occasion, I will hold a hand either mine or theirs if they just open for that fact and not paint of someone who's 'obstructive' as a crook? Did any of you ever experience that? Then you'll feel right at home at the channel I set out for us. Anyway thanks Antonio for gracious inspiration! I'll hold your hand you sissy ! Ask A what that means!
Antonio, I must say you have studied very keenly about "first impression..."
One of the most worth watching videos ever created by you, you have taken yourself to the great height...Keep it up..!!!👍👍👍
🌟Proud to be subscriber..💎
You rock - thank you!
best way for me to remember names is to hear/see both first and last names.. i always forget first names but if im introduced with a first and last name i never forget. i can remember just about everyone i worked with years ago because i made it a point to know first and last names.. also makes a good impression with the higher ups when they find out you know your peers by first and last name, at least it did in my experience.
This was very helpful. I feel very confident now, and I can do presentations knowing these tips. Thanks, your the man!!!
wait...so you're saying that i shouldn't have made that fart joke at my recent interview?
coincidentally, i haven't heard back from them yet...
Why tell a fart joke when you can just actually fart and blame it on the interviewer.
@@Only2GendersCommonSense 😂🤣
#10 is my biggest downfall, and it’s not because I’m not paying attention. I’ve suffered from dyslexia and being unable to remember names and dates. I think what has saved me sometimes is being honest and saying “I’m sorry, but may I have your name again please?”
That pocket square amazingly fits your jacket, Antonio
Thank you sir! :)
Great points "a first impression is always a lasting impression" thanks for the usable tips!
I sweat excessively from my armpit solely and I would always try to think of a solution. I thought of making a shirt with pads at the pit but I wasn't sure if it would work. Interesting to see that there is already a design for such a problem.
Hi Antonio!
All the points you brought up were ones that so many of us can subconsciously engage in without knowing. I see them in action so often. The poor body language I spotted my two friends doing just last night when we were at a club. I myself have been guilty of not remembering names right after meeting people. A deal breaker for sure. Being mindful is a priority when interacting either one on one or with a group.
Thanks for your advices, I always welcome anything I can learn and adopt to be better person.
another great and helpful advice video! thanks antonio!
You're welcome!
I've been wearing Thompson Tees for over a year. Presently I has 15, but the last five are my favorite, they're bamboo and longer. I normally wear a medium in a name brand undershirt, but went to size small in the Thompson for the fit I like. Great company. I don't work for or have any financial association with Thompson Tee except as a customer.
Spurs456 who cares, think what you want.
Cool! Thanks for letting me know :)
These shirts are exactly what I need! I'm preparing to move south and need something to help me out until I can adjust to the heat.
Thanks for your videos, your advices in this video could seem obvious for some people, but not everyone. so thank you, you're bringing more values to people watching this. Respect.
This man is a true boss, We should all strive to be like him as men
Antonio, The Fifth has some amazing watches. The New York, Upper East watch is classic and clean. A great watch I'd love to add to my wardrobe.
Yes they are!
Real Men Real Style I can't decide if I like to style of Vincero, or that of the fifth better. Any personal opinion?
I am really enjoying your advise. You are providing good info for being a better person and business person. These things seem to be lost in our current culture.
antinio i think u love this shirt ☺. you've been wearing it for a long time !
That last one always gets me unless if I already know someone that has that name. If I do then I can just associate those two people by name and I'll often remember. I'll have to try your repetition method out. Great tips like always, Antonio, keep up the good work!
I use perspirex for my sweat. Works pretty well
I never really considered purposefully saying people's names to show that I remember them. I'll be sure to keep that in mind for my next major event.
Shake 10 times during the handshake, at variable speeds... then to lock it all in, pull them towards you.
I have a huge problem with eye contact. In a lot of situations with Friends and Family i just don't feel the need for eye contact cause I pay attention anyway, but these people know I'm intelligent and value the content of the conversation or whatever. Problem is, when I meet other people I sometimes catch myself thinking things like 'did I just only look at that guys hand while shaking it?'.
I love the way you do commercials
great tip on the sweat. I'm definitely the sweater. I've been thinking about trying a new undershirt too. def checking out those tees
Great video as always Antonio. 👍🏽
#1,#6,#10 were really helpful to me thanks Antonio love from india.
I always forget the names. I'll try to use cards.thanks
Very useful! I wonder how we can end a conversation properly because when we meet people in the first time it seems inappropriate to end the conversation by ourselves.
If I am leaving a room I just state. "I'm going to leave now" or "I am going to leave people/folks/you be".
These tips may be combined or used separately depending on your situation. www.artofmanliness.com/2013/03/06/how-to-end-a-conversation/
Great content! Really appreciate it
I hate eye contact. I always look at people's teeth. Sometimes I stop paying attention and I just stare into their gums
Don't they notice this?
Real Men Real Style I don't know, too busy staring
You don't have to look directly in their eyes all the time. The triangle between their eyes and nose are more than enough. Look lower to the nose for younger people just slightly up to the eyebrows for peers and older folks.
thats correct....
Which point is your favorite?
Real Men Real Style
Firstly Hand shaking and Eye contact
can you do a separate video on point no.6 ?
Good suggestion Momen Gill. I'll add it to my queue.
Alpha m did it
Antonio great videos man your tips really help the ladies love me and men tremble before me!
Awesome! :)
Really great tips. If we put this into action, it'll definitely better up our lives.
My lips get chapped easily, especially in the winter. I have this bad habit where I'll rub or "pick" my lips when they're chapped, which only makes it worse. I've become much more aware of it lately, but I still catch myself doing it from time to time.
I would suggest to try a lip balm for men.
Very useful Antonio. Thanks. We really appreciate your great job! 👍🤝
I have trouble remembering names. Lol.
It helps if you mention their name during the introduction.
Fantastic Video Antonio I really appreciate you doing this
Being funny is number one for me
Add to excessive sweat bad breath. If I can smell your breath when shaking your hand it's a complete and total turn off. Funny you mention handshake and weak body language. Was introduced yesterday to a new co-worker and went to shake his hand. Weak limp handshake and physically withdrawn. Said all the right things but those two things were very telling about future work relations. Oh and humor goes a long way!
Well said JR!
I have a work friend who shakes for (no lie) one to two minutes. After 10-15 seconds i limp my arm and he still keeps going. It cracks me up.
Also 26hrs with four kids? Where did u fly too? Did you sedate yourself?
Been traveling to Ukraine and Thailand with the family.
That symbol, did you make that yourself or is it of a quilt your grandma sew up for you? I know some history right?
Hey Antonio, can you do a video on the art of the handshake.
The Watcher - Here you go: www.realmenrealstyle.com/handshakes-impressions-persuasion/
Real Men Real Style Thanks Antonio
Talking about crutch words, equally bad is the current practise of many is " uptalk" or rising intonation. Very common especially with younger crowds and even with some business professionals. You would never hear a politician or a CEO talk like that.
Good example Tc!
Thannks
He's right about having a few humorous stories to tell. Asking questions, as Dale Carnegie once recommended, makes people uneasy. They believe you're nosey.
Thompson Tee. Seen this multiple times in many different channels
This video is brilliant. Keep giving great advice.
great advise. thank you
I've got large hands so I definitely have to be careful about crushing other people. Good video
Did you change something about lighting and filming-perspective?
Looks great, keep that! :)
Thank you sir!
These are good tips. Any advice on first impressions when trying to flirt with women?
just noticed how antonio used the first cuff button on his left hand but used the second on his right. Hahaha
1:53 Trump should watch this!
any tips for heavier men with getting into a relationship?
Confidence is key my friend :)
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If you are not 7/10 in 2017 dont even try it, its over.Just LOL if you dont look like Sean O'Pry.
Just kidding, as long as you are not a 350 pound whale you should be fine.If you are taller then dont even GIVE a shit.
how can people say you selled out by getting sponsors?? This is the exact product I needed as I walk to & from the software engineering lab at work!
You can't please everybody.
Excellent....
another awesome Video Antonio! love your vids !!!!!!!
Thanks for watching - what's your favorite point?
Not having a sense of humor is my Favorite point
good one man, thx alot...
I've got a question. Now I hear you when you made mention about sweating and arriving earlier and staying cool and using product etc. I don't generally have major issues with underarm or hand sweating; for my body, I always wear a light vest or undershirt to avoid sweat prints through my clothes, and I don't really sweat on my hands, but my issue is that I perspire mainly on my forehead, alot, even though I am generally cool. The simplest of actions or movement, the beads start to appear. I always walk with a hand kerchief or a rag and constantly have to dab or swipe to keep it dry and clear, and even though it is, I still do regularly as a precautionary measure. I just always thought my forehead was simply overtly active with sweating. Does that (the constant wiping) look bad and unattractive, and how can I address or alleviate this. Thanks.
Rodge B. Wear a dri-fit sports cap to absorb the forehead sweat
This guy is great and a nice guy. Keep up the work
How about a 19 second handshake? I've seen a very high profile individual do it 😉
Hey Antonio great video! I have solid eye contact and a strong hand shake and many people perceive me as overpowering how should I fix this it is a natural habit I don't really think about it
Just make sure you don't hold the eye contact and handshake for more than 2 seconds.
Thanks for making this! This helped me a lot! :D
am not a man but I love listening tu your advice I really benefit
One of your best videos !
Thanks Rick! Which is your favorite point?
The ultimate question as far as number #10 (happens to me at large parties and so on or when I rarely see people and then boom - all of a sudden I see them!) is what should one do to avoid it?
just what i needed.
thx dude
Glad you find it useful!
your video, alpha m and arts of manliness are great videos I always go to for help👍👍👍👍👍
Initiating a handshake with the hand in a pronate position indicates you're concealing something [ a bribe for example ] or you're trying to dominate the person. A friendly handshake is extended with a supinated open hand [I am not hiding anything, being transparent, friendship ].
What do you do if someone tells you their name and its something you cannot say/ didnt hear?
RJ Jones say "i'm sorry, you are..?" then make a gesture showing you din't hear it. then after that say "oh nice to meet" and don't forget to smile.
Alternatively, you can ask them how they spell their name. Or if they could say it again. If they know they have a difficult name to pronounce, they will usually be fine with it and appreciate you taking the time to get it right.
Great clip there.What I did get from the video is how Tomsontee apparel..Is it a T-shirt to be worn on it's own or is worn as an undergarment/best?
Listening is the most important, my personal opinion.
I'd like to know: if you want to talk to a group of people who are already in a conversation. Do you just ... barge in and introduce yourself (you can tell I don't like that idea too much) and then listen and participate or do you just listen until you can contribute to the conversation and only after that introduce yourself?
Good point there!
really liked your channel!
informative video Antonio! Thanks from a female fan
Thanks Mary :) Which point resonated with you?
Real Men Real Style the point about the handshake and body language. :) By the way, what I like about your channel is that there's wisdom in it. Keep up the good work, Antonio!
I dont need none of this, I'm dead.
Pablo Escobar RIP
Pablo Escobar Rip in pepsi
Paradox
Pablo Escobar no you're not
Did you use a double negative on purpose? M.
Antonio concerning first impressions, based on the seeming political polarization of America, could my choice of tie color (red or blue)be potentially held against me in interviews? Thanks for your input
I’m TERRIBLE with names! I’ll remember a face almost forever, but I’ve forgotten names immediately.
Also: being super nice to me, but just a dick to other people (while I'm around). I once met a guy, thought 'ok, he takes some getting used to and he might not be the guy most people want to be around with all the time, but I get along with him.' Then, he was being very rude to a waiter and that stood out to me especially because I was also waiting tables on the side at that time.
Appreciate the subtle USC shoutout :)
sir love your and mayank Bhattacharya videos...... what about collaboration
Real Men Real Style, could you make a video on men's summer fashion trends?
Sir I really want to thank you for your content
I just want to say something I think might be useful
When you say a joke laugh a little (not just simple smile) - like when you said your kids love dirty jokes.
good job
Hi Antonio, love your channel you put out great relevant content every week! My question is, I'm a guy who struggles finding pants that fit, as I am rather muscular and my thighs are larger than normal. Skinny, slim, and straight cuts all look awkward on my frame and relaxed fit are too bulky and not the style I'd like to have. Can you recommend specific brands/products that cater to men in my situation? I am over 6 foot and have a size 31-32 waist, and desperately need slacks, chinos, jeans, and shorts that will fit. Thank you so much for any help.
Major Gentleman - thanks for the continued support. This should help - www.realmenrealstyle.com/?s=muscular
Thank you so much Antonio, really appreciate it
Eye contact is hard for those on the autism spectrum. I hope you can give tips on eye contact.
Additional first impression tip: Watch what you say. Never say that a lady is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt you.
Of course.
Let's say I'm the case that I forget a person's name. What is the most polite way to ask for their name again? Along a conversation or try to make them reintroduce themselves or what?
ask for their name......then they tell their name ...and then u say that u just wanted to know their surname as u have forgotten just their surname