I think when you are married you should go out as a couple find friends or married because if you're hanging around with single friends or friends who have different values and using you it will destroy your relationship not just in the Philippines I've seen it happen many many times to a lot of my friends love the videos keep up the good work hopefully people will listen to you guys
Very true about setting boundaries. I have made that mistake with relationships and just bitten my lip, gotten resentful, hurt, jealous, etc when I should have spoken up. But also I have overstepped boundaries too and caused issues in my life. Respecting each other this way, accepting to adapt to each other, which could mean letting go of things that make the other happy - as long as it doesn't mean unfairly changing you into someone you are not.
I am so happy that both of you are back to updating your respective channel - You are my FAVOURITE youtube folks and your content is always informative, balanced and genuine. No relationships are perfect, because no individual is perfect, but its the willingness to put the effort and make sure you find a partner that shares as many of your core values that will enable people to make it through. Those only attracted to how someone looks will be upset when their partner ages because we all do - I love Mia's ways of expressing herself and the way she laughs and covers her mouth makes her so adorable. You guys make a great couple and I wish you both the most happiest time together.
Enjoying your vids more and more Mia. Remember seeing you both at GZero 2 years ago and hoping this reuniting would last and happy to see it has. Paul seems wiser, more relationship focused and considerate, especially compared to the time back in Mactan riding our Covid with Gio. HAPPY NEW YEAR and best wishes
Speaking as a twice divorced man, my observation is that a situation or circumstance changes during the course of the relationship that the woman sees as a bridge of contention. Men, for the most, don't change. What you see is what you get. Women may take a man and hope he changes somewhere during the relationship. Men hope the woman they choose doesn't change. More often than not, she changes, then says she outgrew him, or he was trying to control me, or he was abusive. Men are concerned with the wife's happiness and tries to give her what she wants. Most women won't do the same for the husband. If women take the title of the video to heart, marriages would last. Marriages don't last because someone gets selfish and makes the relationship about them instead of the family.
A night out with the girls is a recipe for disaster. If they’re single, and the drinks are flowing, it’s an almost guaranteed disaster to a relationship. I can see it being even worse if they’re jealous of their friend because she has a foreign bf. I have to disagree with you guys about something. It’s obviously good to be supportive of your partner, but the relationship should come first. If what they want in life isn’t going to be good for the relationship in the long run, that should really be discussed. I’m not sure where you want to work as a nurse, Mia. If it’s the USA though, I don’t think that’s good for the relationship in the long run. Sorry.
Setting boundaries is important, especially when getting married. Taking care of your husband or boyfriend should be the first priority before hanging out with friends. For us women, that's part of our responsibility. I agree with you guys! Sitting like a monkey while eating is something Filipinos are used to. 😅 SS both!!
It comes down to trust ,If you are so insecure that you cannot trust your wife to have a night out separately then ultimately it could lead to resentment.
I don’t look at mistakes or undone things as being a regret because I’m still alive and can still do them. I met a 93 year old man who skydives once a year still
Happy anniversary! I agree. Even though I’m single and never married. I’m saving my virginity for my gift to my future wife after marriage. I’m Andrew. But my Momma and Dad are still married (since May 1980). And my Grandma and Grandpa (maternal grandparents) also showed me that love is a constant decision. And a relationship is work. Spot on. I was always taught happy wife … happy life. As I understand it … women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Communication is key. Sometimes you have chose your 'battles' because you don't have to 'win' all the time. If its not important then who cares which direction it goes. Some people fall in to a habit of trying to get their way all the time which is not healthy for a relationship.
there are philipinas who play the short game in getting resources out of foreign men - and there are philipinas playing the long game ( marriage , even kids ) for them its like showing up to the same boring job they are locked in every day of the week 30, 40 years age gap relations only happen where s a wealth gap
I remember back when you two first dated, Paul had an attitude never to marry again, but you both communicated much better than most. I am many years older than Paul, and I predicted marriage would eventually occur, even during the official breakup. I could not see so much communication fail. 😊😊😊 Most fail to explain, fail to listen properly. Good luck, you two.
Happy Husband, Happy Life? Ofc course. Men love to cite the bible, saying that wives serve their husbands, but conveniently or ignorantly leave out the bible also says husbands serve their wives, and any husband who does not is not fit to serve. Husbands serve their wives and their wives serve them in return. Its about service to one another. Every successful relationship has this quality at some level
Mia so do you think most Phillipina women have the capacity to grow out of Tampo like you did ? I was in a relationship with a Indonesian lady about 8 years ago before l knew anything about Tampo in South East Asia women. She was fine initially very sweet and kind but then packed a tampo one day on me. I told her to pack her bags. My thinking was tampo was something she had ingrained in her and would never change and l did not want to have to deal with that low level of immaturity.
Nope, it's not a demand from him, but rather, this is something that we agreed on before marriage. I honor my husband and our marriage, and I want it to last long.
I think when you are married you should go out as a couple find friends or married because if you're hanging around with single friends or friends who have different values and using you it will destroy your relationship not just in the Philippines I've seen it happen many many times to a lot of my friends love the videos keep up the good work hopefully people will listen to you guys
You're so true. It is important to surround ourselves with the right friends. Thanks for watching my video!
Very true about setting boundaries. I have made that mistake with relationships and just bitten my lip, gotten resentful, hurt, jealous, etc when I should have spoken up. But also I have overstepped boundaries too and caused issues in my life. Respecting each other this way, accepting to adapt to each other, which could mean letting go of things that make the other happy - as long as it doesn't mean unfairly changing you into someone you are not.
Inday, why are chitchatting? Are you done washing the dishes?? Hahahha ..
Lucky guy. So a nice woman. Good luck for you both.
Best video I have watched about westerners in Philippino relationship
Neutering 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's my X wife! I laughed my ass off. Mia is the ultimate Filipina. So cute!
😂😂
Great Video both of you, all of your examples were key points in a marriage.. Thank you so much for sharing..
I am so happy that both of you are back to updating your respective channel - You are my FAVOURITE youtube folks and your content is always informative, balanced and genuine. No relationships are perfect, because no individual is perfect, but its the willingness to put the effort and make sure you find a partner that shares as many of your core values that will enable people to make it through. Those only attracted to how someone looks will be upset when their partner ages because we all do - I love Mia's ways of expressing herself and the way she laughs and covers her mouth makes her so adorable. You guys make a great couple and I wish you both the most happiest time together.
Throughout the entire video, i questioned what is it about him that deserves such a wonderful filipina?? What a lucky guy!
He’s probably a nice guy
WOW!! Congrats on your Marriage!!And many more!
Enjoying your vids more and more Mia. Remember seeing you both at GZero 2 years ago and hoping this reuniting would last and happy to see it has. Paul seems wiser, more relationship focused and considerate, especially compared to the time back in Mactan riding our Covid with Gio. HAPPY NEW YEAR and best wishes
🎉STAY IN PRAYER MS. MIA! LISTEN TO THE WORD OF GOD! HALLELUJAH YOUR BEST AND BRIGHTEST DAYS SHALL BE AHEAD. !!YOU CAN DO IT MS. MIA
It also helps to not lie about things that is a fast way to end things quickly. The truth can hurt but lies will kill the relationship.
On the other hand if you don't lie, you wont ever get a relationship in the first place.
You both hit the nail on the head about marriage and what each person brings to the table and setting boundaries ❤❤❤ wish you all the best in life ❤❤
Thank you!
Sois geniales. Un saludo desde España ❤❤❤
I wish more women were like Mia, she seems so genuine and committed to being a loving supporting partner
Everyday with a blessing. A happy life is the reward of a good husband and wife. Good communication and teamwork.
100%
Love to hear about more of those challenging moments
... AND GOD BLESS YOU MR. PAUL
Thanks! Love you both!
Thank youuu
I love your videos , THANK YOU ! 🌺
Thanks, I appreciate it! 😊
Tampo is a form of communication. It is unhealthy in a relationship. Discussing each other's feelings with love and compassion "is" healthy
Speaking as a twice divorced man, my observation is that a situation or circumstance changes during the course of the relationship that the woman sees as a bridge of contention. Men, for the most, don't change. What you see is what you get. Women may take a man and hope he changes somewhere during the relationship. Men hope the woman they choose doesn't change. More often than not, she changes, then says she outgrew him, or he was trying to control me, or he was abusive. Men are concerned with the wife's happiness and tries to give her what she wants. Most women won't do the same for the husband. If women take the title of the video to heart, marriages would last. Marriages don't last because someone gets selfish and makes the relationship about them instead of the family.
Totally agree been there a few times myself
I give Mia a 10 and Paul a 6. He stated that if his wife crosses a boundary, it is over. When that happens, I am here waiting for you Mia! Haha.
👍👍
A night out with the girls is a recipe for disaster. If they’re single, and the drinks are flowing, it’s an almost guaranteed disaster to a relationship. I can see it being even worse if they’re jealous of their friend because she has a foreign bf.
I have to disagree with you guys about something. It’s obviously good to be supportive of your partner, but the relationship should come first. If what they want in life isn’t going to be good for the relationship in the long run, that should really be discussed. I’m not sure where you want to work as a nurse, Mia. If it’s the USA though, I don’t think that’s good for the relationship in the long run. Sorry.
Great video you two, thanks.
Glad you enjoyed it
Nice couple.
Happy New Year , looks like you respect and are friends also...
Ups and Downs are part of a relationship..
Enjoy
Setting boundaries is important, especially when getting married. Taking care of your husband or boyfriend should be the first priority before hanging out with friends. For us women, that's part of our responsibility. I agree with you guys!
Sitting like a monkey while eating is something Filipinos are used to. 😅
SS both!!
Happy Anniversary 🎊🎊
Thanks!
Smart woman. Good.
It comes down to trust ,If you are so insecure that you cannot trust your wife to have a night out separately then ultimately it could lead to resentment.
❤
Good husband.
He is :-)
I don’t look at mistakes or undone things as being a regret because I’m still alive and can still do them. I met a 93 year old man who skydives once a year still
Happy anniversary!
I agree. Even though I’m single and never married. I’m saving my virginity for my gift to my future wife after marriage. I’m Andrew. But my Momma and Dad are still married (since May 1980). And my Grandma and Grandpa (maternal grandparents) also showed me that love is a constant decision. And a relationship is work. Spot on.
I was always taught happy wife … happy life. As I understand it … women are the gatekeepers of sex.
Me thinketh definitely communication is important., especially with the sunnies........off!@!?🤪😉
First!
Communication is key. Sometimes you have chose your 'battles' because you don't have to 'win' all the time. If its not important then who cares which direction it goes. Some people fall in to a habit of trying to get their way all the time which is not healthy for a relationship.
So true
If the way isn't sorted out openly and discusses and just hidden..it will fester over time .. getting bigger under the surface like an iceberg
Communication is the #1 key
Yep!
Nope, it's at #5 max.
there are philipinas who play the short game in getting resources out of foreign men - and there are philipinas playing the long game ( marriage , even kids )
for them its like showing up to the same boring job they are locked in every day of the week
30, 40 years age gap relations only happen where s a wealth gap
In the west.
No wife, happy life.
I remember back when you two first dated, Paul had an attitude never to marry again, but you both communicated much better than most. I am many years older than Paul, and I predicted marriage would eventually occur, even during the official breakup. I could not see so much communication fail. 😊😊😊 Most fail to explain, fail to listen properly. Good luck, you two.
Thank you. Yah, he was very against the idea of him getting married again. Lol.
You have to have time with your own friends - night out etc . Being together 24/7 is a recipe for disaster in the long term
Why? I don't think so if both are ok and not tired.
Happy Husband, Happy Life? Ofc course. Men love to cite the bible, saying that wives serve their husbands, but conveniently or ignorantly leave out the bible also says husbands serve their wives, and any husband who does not is not fit to serve. Husbands serve their wives and their wives serve them in return. Its about service to one another. Every successful relationship has this quality at some level
Married 33 years I dont tell my wife what she can anx cant do. She does the same She is Japanese which is a dont ask, don't tell culture.
Niceee. Congrats.
Inday, why are chitchatting? Are you done washing the dishes?? Hahahha ..
Mia, what about filipina who wish simple in europe and to have many kids and weekly mass each sunday? Why is as hard to find a wife like that?
You are 30-50 years too late, that i why.
Just wash the dishes keep the house clean do the laundry. Do the shopping. Just do whatever he tells you to do and then you’re a good wife.!!!!!
Paul you are a little young to be retired.
I guess you guys don't have sex and that's why you didn't bring it up, right? LOL It's not that important in a marriage, but is up there with oxygen.
Didn't wanna be the one to mention it 🫣
Mia so do you think most Phillipina women have the capacity to grow out of Tampo like you did ?
I was in a relationship with a Indonesian lady about 8 years ago before l knew anything about Tampo in South East Asia women.
She was fine initially very sweet and kind but then packed a tampo one day on me.
I told her to pack her bags.
My thinking was tampo was something she had ingrained in her and would never change and l did not want to have to deal with that low level of immaturity.
Dude…you couldn’t eat before the vlog….
@@rinphilyou left a good woman because of just one occurrence?
Inday, why are chitchatting? Are you done washing the dishes?? Hahahha ..
I don't want you to go out with the girls alone! Sounds like a demand! Not a request? That you can decide on yourself Mia?
If you want to be a sl*t then go be a sl*t, but i'm not gonna be here when you come back, you'll only find divorce papers.
Nope, it's not a demand from him, but rather, this is something that we agreed on before marriage. I honor my husband and our marriage, and I want it to last long.
Inday, why are chitchatting? Are you done washing the dishes?? Hahahha ..