We’re going to have two weddings

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  • We're finally sharing our WEDDING PLANS! 🎉
    After years of silence following my engagement announcement, we're back with a big update.
    0:00 Intro
    0:33 The Engagement Story
    4:27 The toy engagement ring
    5:03 Family & friends reactions
    6:22 Why it took so long
    8:49 The two weddings
    10:53 The date
    12:55 Planning
    15:50 Expectations
    19:24 Outro
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    Hi, I'm Uyen Ninh but please just call me Uyen!
    Originally from Vietnam, I now explore life in Germany, sharing my unique perspective through my videos on my way to be your favorite Ausländer! 😁
    Subscribe to my TH-cam Channel for Videos and Shorts: @uyenninh
    Instagram: uyenninh
    TikTok: tiktok.com/@uyenthininh
    uyen@yilmazhummel.com
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  • @joanasacramento2621
    @joanasacramento2621 หลายเดือนก่อน +1213

    That man is not a green flag, he is the entire forest

  • @tdb7992
    @tdb7992 หลายเดือนก่อน +4270

    It's so nice to see people on TH-cam who are so relatable. Uyen and German boyfriend are so kind and normal. It makes me like them so much more than people on channels who are obsessed with material things and seemingly never worry about anything or feel a bit inferior. They are so genuine, it is impossible to not like them.

    • @user-mz2cz8jz8f
      @user-mz2cz8jz8f หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Agree

    • @xyeonjvnzx
      @xyeonjvnzx หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      German husband soon ❤

    • @piamp1454
      @piamp1454 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      True! ❤

    • @Lacirose88
      @Lacirose88 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree 💯 %👏

    • @Christinasgifts
      @Christinasgifts หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes endearing intoxicatingly funny and true to herself phenomenal woman ❤

  • @fjr4205
    @fjr4205 หลายเดือนก่อน +954

    It's very sweet that German boyfriend is so romantic and wants tweeting birds and sunshine on your wedding day 😭

    • @Anna_65
      @Anna_65 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think so too!

    • @Scarlett.Granger
      @Scarlett.Granger 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Meanwhile Uyen integrated so much she adapted the ultimate German viewpoint: "it's a legally binding contract and that's that"
      Hilarious

  • @lemagefro9719
    @lemagefro9719 หลายเดือนก่อน +306

    It's so good to see people display a healthy relationship model on the internet, where toxic représentations seem to be the norm sadly. You guys are so cute, thank you !

    • @Hi-Phi
      @Hi-Phi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Anywhere, really, not just the internet! They are both such good communicators and there is no egotism. It is lovely to watch.❤

  • @focus7234
    @focus7234 หลายเดือนก่อน +2963

    How he remembered every tiny details and his efforts make him biggggg greeennn flag.

    • @uyenninh
      @uyenninh  หลายเดือนก่อน +633

      Yeb sometimes i feel bad that I couldn’t remember that much like him 😭

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      ​@@uyenninh You're ok! He loves you, flaws and all. 💖

    • @samhartford8677
      @samhartford8677 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      @@uyenninh Don't worry about it. It's the cultural context. People attach different meanings to things, as you said yourself. You said yes, that's all that matters.

    • @kieranmwade1687
      @kieranmwade1687 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      ​@@uyenninh we all show love in different ways 😊 attention to detail is his.

    • @IjeomaThePlantMama
      @IjeomaThePlantMama หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Green like his sweatshirt!

  • @SkyGirl5
    @SkyGirl5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2918

    he proposed with a song and he wrote lyrics? that is TOO ADORABLE 🥰

    • @IndigoFireFandubs
      @IndigoFireFandubs หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      And it was based from the Lava Song?!?! That's the sweetest thing I've ever heard

    • @Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984
      @Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That was really amazing! 😍😍😍

    • @nicossbots
      @nicossbots หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      i dont think hes german at all, german men are way to passive for anything romantic

    • @Katharinacookie
      @Katharinacookie หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nicossbots that's bs
      Stop putting every german in the corner. How narrow midned are you?
      Or course german guys can be romantic

    • @thecheeseduck
      @thecheeseduck หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@nicossbotsthat’s a stereotype, and it’s not a fact that all of them are like that, only common

  • @mossteika
    @mossteika หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    50% of marriages end up in divorce but since you're getting married twice - you're at 100% of making it work! Congrats 🎉

    • @cgygflkj
      @cgygflkj หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That's hilarious 😂

    • @birgitlauten5149
      @birgitlauten5149 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a lovely comment 🙄😶🙄...

    • @mossteika
      @mossteika หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@birgitlauten5149 it actually is. If you want to see something negative in it that says something about you not me.

    • @annoar9776
      @annoar9776 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      this!

  • @yuvra649
    @yuvra649 หลายเดือนก่อน +589

    "really....but I'm not pregnant" is the top most unexpected reactions I've ever heard 😂😂😂
    ❤ You guys!

  • @MudouSarah
    @MudouSarah หลายเดือนก่อน +2510

    "Really?? But I'm not pregnant!!" 😳😂

    • @nicolenox7882
      @nicolenox7882 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

      Best line!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @lam_pions
      @lam_pions หลายเดือนก่อน +241

      Even funnier :"That's not how I pictured it." 😅

    • @RachelLevitte
      @RachelLevitte หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      I laughed so hard

    • @BeautifulEarthJa
      @BeautifulEarthJa หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @PeataPoeet
      @PeataPoeet หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I laughed out so loud

  • @oliviasadler5579
    @oliviasadler5579 หลายเดือนก่อน +1563

    Two weddings is a great idea! I did the same thing with my Czech husband. Our "main" legal wedding was in a cottage in southern Czech Republic, close to his family's village. Only my closest family members came to Europe and they had a great vacation. Then the following week we flew to America and had a 2nd informal ceremony and reception in Ohio. Then we went to Costa Rica for Honeymoon!
    I know Germany has a lot of legal requirements to get married, but since you live in Germany, make the legal ceremony in Germany and it will save you headache and paperwork in the future.

    • @Uir0andspacecats
      @Uir0andspacecats หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      That’s beautiful!

    • @MeiosisMaster
      @MeiosisMaster หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      As a Czech person, this is really heartwarming to read! Hope you’re both doing well ❤

    • @GenXBecks
      @GenXBecks หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I had my reception at a brewery in Prague! I'm American and he's Scottish so our families flew in. Strahov monastery has a restaurant and brewery on site. It was great.

    • @lizf1353
      @lizf1353 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why can you not get a legal marriage in both countries? It's the same person you're married to so why would it matter? I can certainly see wanting the first one to be in the place you intend to live the majority of the time. I just don't see why you could not have a legal marriage in both places?

    • @Saint_Medusa
      @Saint_Medusa หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@lizf1353 probably lack of dual citizenship ?

  • @VeraaVexx
    @VeraaVexx หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    I was the saaaaame. We were engaged for years. Just living our lives. But one day I realized that I did want a chill wedding so our families could meet and celebrate. Of course everything was booked for years to come. Coming off of covid shutdowns, venues were already booked until 2028 in 2023. My now husband had a coworker who had an airbnb farmhouse. We set up right in the garden. We bought a ton of wine, frozen, and premade food from Sams club and assigned cousins/coworkers cooking duty. We played music from my phone plugged in to speakers in the garden for the ceremony and moved them into the house for a family dance party. It drizzled during the ceremony but we didn't mind. We danced in the grass with shoes off and had a great time as a family. Best day of my life.

    • @rianrianhehe
      @rianrianhehe 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      This sounds so lovely and warm! Congratulations on such a beautiful wedding!!❤

    • @VeraaVexx
      @VeraaVexx 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@rianrianhehe thank you!

    • @annoar9776
      @annoar9776 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      this sounds so fun!

  • @yumicharbonneau
    @yumicharbonneau หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    Uyen's smile when German Boyfriend says something sweet is adorable. Congratulations to both of you and best wishes for a long and happy marriage!

  • @thatrandominternetgeek
    @thatrandominternetgeek หลายเดือนก่อน +724

    Anyone gonna talk about how sweet it is that the Lava song from the Pixar short is one they felt really connected to? This couple is the biggest green flag ever and nearly at 2,000,000!

    • @m0llux
      @m0llux หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yeah, that song really fits them really well.

    • @isoleizy
      @isoleizy หลายเดือนก่อน

      U6 2:47 ​@@m0llux2:47 uu

    • @isoleizy
      @isoleizy หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@m0llux2:49

    • @isoleizy
      @isoleizy หลายเดือนก่อน

      533uuiu33u3i44u33u33

  • @deepfriedbrainforlunch
    @deepfriedbrainforlunch หลายเดือนก่อน +645

    Ohhhh, german Boyfriend is evolving into german husband soon

    • @Ph34rNoB33r
      @Ph34rNoB33r หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      Sounds like German boyfriend is a pokémon, and Uyen a pokémon trainer.

    • @jumpinjoint
      @jumpinjoint 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      im so excited to hear her say german husband eek

  • @csc5410
    @csc5410 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    When German Boyfriend said, "the lava song", I immediately started to feel my eyes filling with tears because it is the sweetest song, and my husband sings it to me regularly (and it always makes me cry)
    Also, lava you both from afar.

  • @Pattii248
    @Pattii248 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Uyen theres a castle alternative near mannheim for weddings!! Friends of mine married in the Hochzeitsturm (wedding tower) of Darmstadt. It is an old tower of prinzess and the room is plated with gold. Afterwards we went to a restaurant, because in this location theres only the ceremony. idk maybe it is for you :)

  • @gemeroperiddle9462
    @gemeroperiddle9462 หลายเดือนก่อน +759

    As a foreigner having married a german in Germany too: besides reception planning, I advice to plan the paperwork way in advance for the official registration. I needed to order some of the documents from my home country's government 6 months prior to the wedding, others had to be ordered 3 months prior and still needed to be valid at the wedding day etc. Please get an Beratungstermin at the Standesamt just to ask which documents you need when and make a list.
    Congratulations on your wedding plans and I hope everything goes smoothly for you!
    (fun fact, we also did karaoke at the wedding. Renting a karaoke system is surprisingly affordable and it was tons of fun.)

    • @NilssonHoesie
      @NilssonHoesie หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Excellent advice! We had to go through some weird document requirement processes as well (married outside Germany, both EU-citizens, German authorities acted as we were scheming something really awful). It sure takes a lot of patience to get all the papers in order!

    • @Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984
      @Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      German bureaucracy sounds awful! 😂

    • @mill7319
      @mill7319 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      For anyone still going through this, a lot of foreigners end up going to Denmark to register their marriage to avoid the mountains of documents needed, and the resulting wedding certificate is recognized in Germany.

    • @Jokamba
      @Jokamba หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We have the same trouble with the paperwork. Soon to be husband is Irish, I’m German - the paperwork is insane

    • @kevtb874
      @kevtb874 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@Jokambajust went through this. Irish married a German. Just get the list of what you need and chip away at it step by step. Things take time.
      We had 2 hiccups along the way which meant things had to be redone or sent away again for a special stamp.
      Time is key. Give yourselves loads of time to get things in place. And try to get a preliminary date set with the Standesamt. It was so annoying that documents had to be valid for this 6 month window when your date can't even be set in stone until 6 months before. You want to have things ready but not too early or they are invalid. Not too late and you aren't ready.
      Got there in the end. Amazing day. Great to see all our friends and family together which never happens due to the distances.

  • @smoche
    @smoche หลายเดือนก่อน +546

    18:06 the viet soul in uyen lighting up at the first mention of karaoke is so cute 😭😭
    Also Congratulations guys!!

    • @uyenninh
      @uyenninh  หลายเดือนก่อน +115

      Karaoke wedding!!!

  • @kristaolsen6236
    @kristaolsen6236 หลายเดือนก่อน +159

    I always heard people say that their wedding was the best day of their life. It's an exciting day, but that was not the case for me and my husband. The wedding was good and went well, but we've had many days that have been better than our wedding since then (and it's been 12 years)! I like that you're so chill about your expectations, I think you'll have two fun weddings!

    • @judywe4941
      @judywe4941 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I agree, the weddingday is a beautiful day, but it wpuld be sad, if it was the best day of your live. There should be many more to come that are at least as good.

    • @jct4294
      @jct4294 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was one of the best days of my lives. Nothing sad about that @judwe it's unfortunate you both didn't get to experience it as an extremely joyful day. But that memory will always remain in my heart. Despite being surrounded by so many people i was tunnel vision on my husband and i felt so much joy smiling ear to ear.
      Your comments make it seems like it's strange that people see their wedding day as one of the best days of their life.

    • @suizilla
      @suizilla หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@jct4294i think the point is that it's good when the best days of your life are during your actual marriage 🙂

    • @jct4294
      @jct4294 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@suizilla I am not seeing the point, why can't it be both 🤔 . That day is the beginning of your marriage there is no reason for it not to qualify. By that definition the day i give birth shouldn't be one the best days of my life it should only be when I am actually living it as a parent. That day represents a big change in someone's life.

    • @BrandyTexas214
      @BrandyTexas214 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I got married at the courthouse, wasn’t that big of a day for us either but I’m happy to be married, that’s what I wanted.. not the wedding

  • @marcelhelbig6406
    @marcelhelbig6406 หลายเดือนก่อน +245

    This is a good decision to do two wedding parties. My wife is Japanese and i am German. So obviously we held one in Japan and one in Germany. Because in our opinion not everyone can afford to travel halfway around the world. But we wanted to spend time with everyone. I do not regret our decision. Anyway I wish you both all the best.

  • @gerrymichaud3851
    @gerrymichaud3851 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    My wife and I are very lucky. The timing was perfect. We got married Nov of 2019, I had a knee replacement and covid hit. My wife wasn't working so we stayed home. It brought us closer. You 2 are perfect.

  • @StealthheartDraws
    @StealthheartDraws หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Don’t feel guilty - I also loved quarantine because I was absolutely miserable in high school and my grades were dropping from As to some of them Fs and COVID not only helped me graduate but also introduced me to work for my career (journalism)

  • @claremiller9979
    @claremiller9979 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    A karaoke wedding, at a brewery or otherwise, sounds like so much fun!
    We had no wedding, we bought a house instead and have lived together for nearly twenty years with two kids (and a cat). You are so right, Uyen, that what matters is your happiness together.

  • @Aurriel
    @Aurriel หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    8:54 love that German boyfriend is chiming in with "as always!" but still sounds so so happy about it

  • @DoubleJackChris
    @DoubleJackChris หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    I definitely recommend getting the paperwork ready before planning anything.
    I had a wedding nightmare because of this, since my (finally) husband is also a foreigner.
    We started preparing all the paperwork 3 months before the wedding and 3 days before the final day we found out the embassy screwed up and we couldn’t get officially married (imagine the stress).
    So we had to hold 2 weddings, one “unofficial”, and then 6 months later the official one
    That’s how long it took us to gather all the paperwork again…
    Please remember that gathering paperwork from BOTH sides takes time, that a lot of the papers also needs to be translated, and lastly the processing of paperwork will also take time.
    Yes, it’s a lot of stressful waiting…

    • @Storm-ib7uz
      @Storm-ib7uz หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      So me and my husband are the same nationality and we married in our own country and it took us 1 month of paperwork 😐 so the paperwork part is real. You miss the exact deadlines, tou don’t get married

    • @winstonsgmx
      @winstonsgmx หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Storm-ib7uz really. In Vietnam it took like 20 minute 🤣

  • @Laurenski67
    @Laurenski67 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    He's a keeper! So practical, thoughtful, & romantic. Marriage is hard, you have to choose to stay and work things out when you have problems.

  • @tinalisapattern
    @tinalisapattern หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You two are just so refreshingly "real" people. Not like all these stereotypical, synthethic people, that appear like cloned. People feel. you could just be friends living next door. That and you unique love story along with your funny quirky ways, is what makes you two dear to so many. Your success is more than well deserved. And you know what, not a single person will be jealous but just happy for you two. Always stay as you are and good luck to you both🥰💞💘

  • @radostinazidarova7807
    @radostinazidarova7807 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    I can tell you it is possible to plan a wedding fast in Germany, my husband and I had 3 months from deciding to get merried to the actual wedding day. But we had a small wedding with like 30 people in my in-laws' garden. Even if you both don't like to dance, I can tell you from experience the guests will love dancing and karaoke!
    Make sure to make an apoointment for the legal marriage in the Standesamt well in advance, when one of you is a foreigner, especially non-EU, they require many documents and take a long time.
    Regarding location I think a castle is totally doable and not much more expensive than other locations. And around Mannheim, in the Weinheim area, there are many. Many people also use golf courses as wedding locations, the restaurants normally have good food, scenery is beautiful and you do not have neighbours to compalin about the noise after 22 h. Many wineries have also locations for events and in the Mannheim area there are many.
    I hope you have fun with the planning of your wedding!

  • @brofenix
    @brofenix หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    @12:10 Good impression of German boyfriend~ Incredible. And make your wedding as big as you both compromise to want it. My wife and I had our wedding in my parents' backyard, with only our parents, siblings, 1 friend as a photographer, and our pastors to officiate. In total, we spent $500 on food & decorations :) My wife and I high five every time we reminisce about how we successfully made it as simple as possible and just ate some great food with our family.

    • @japspeedgirl6216
      @japspeedgirl6216 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We did a similar thing, two sets of parents a priest friend and two best friends for witnesses. Then a dinner out with everyone

    • @LoreCatan
      @LoreCatan หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sounds like my dream wedding to be honest. I hate the idea of spending ridiculous amounts of money just for a wedding, or making my friends and family feel like they have to buy expensive suits/dresses when flying over will already be an expensive hassle. And my girlfriend and I have friends from all over the world so I already know getting them all here will be such a headache. Plus I don't even know if I want my family there, and that's a whole nother can of worms.
      I'm very grateful for the fact that I'm still in uni and so is my girlfriend, so I can keep putting off this train of thought for as long as possible. 😅
      I already know I don't want to spend the rest of my life with anyone else, and she knows that too, so in that sense I'm very much like Uyen. I don't think anything will really change, we'll be how we've always been, it's really more just a legal formality and a celebration for our friends and family to enjoy. So whether it'll happen 5 or 10 years from now, to us it's really not that big of a deal.

  • @carmenschnitzer2739
    @carmenschnitzer2739 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Two weddings sounds great! One of my best friends (we're both German) married a woman from Taiwan a couple of years ago - and I was one of the very few guests who attended both celebrations - one in Taiwan, one in Germany. They were very different, but both very special and sweet. (Meanwhile they also have a beautiful little boy. 🥰)
    Lots of love for you! ❤

  • @akirebara
    @akirebara หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I have become cynical about my romantic life but I love seeing you two in a video talk about your relationship. It reminds me that love works for other people & I shouldn't be so cynical. Can't wait for the pics/videos of the 2 weddings! Congrats!

  • @Amelia-pp4wm
    @Amelia-pp4wm 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    There are only three things your guests will remember: the music, the food, and the conversation. We had our reception at a restaurant with good food and sprung for a local (small town) live jazz band - everyone still talks about how much fun they had dancing! I'm sure that if you guys do karaoke, it'll go down in history. :D
    (Also, if you're open to it, having a morning wedding instead of an evening one can be a great way to save money on venues - have a reception brunch/lunch, and then your guests still have the rest of the afternoon and evening to themselves to relax, explore the town, arrange their own extra activities, etc. It's not for everyone, but we loved it for ours!)

  • @secondstar101
    @secondstar101 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    German Boyfriend is such a GEM and I'm so happy that you two are happy together

  • @d.e.7128
    @d.e.7128 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He really is the sweetest man ever and you can tell how much he loves you. You are such a great couple.

  • @dominiquedcosta
    @dominiquedcosta หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The absolute worst part about this video is that because Uyen is so lovely and personable, we're all here waiting for an invite to the weddings because she's just one of our besties 😂 congratulations you two! You are just the cutest! I hope the weddings go wonderfully well!

  • @lee-annegribbon-hartan1782
    @lee-annegribbon-hartan1782 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Planning a wedding in Germany is a full time job! Do not underestimate how much work it is. We had a christmas wedding at Burg Wildeck in Abstatt, about 95km from Mannheim. It was beautiful. Getting married in winter is perfect, it isn't hot and you can plan to have the whole day inside without worrying what the weather will be like. Highly recommend. Also, we used Dein Empfang to help with all the decorations, they are a great team and it was a big help!

  • @scooterllm4398
    @scooterllm4398 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Marriage is intimate, personal, you learn to become an even better listener, negotiator, compromiser. It is about accepting, understanding, gentle side coming out. Stats of successful marriages are just that, stats. It’s what you put into it….my mom once said love and marriage is like a bank account. You have to put in for when you need to take out. If all you are doing is taking out from the account it becomes empty and when it goes into debt that when mutual hurting becomes chronic.
    Love each other…life and love only gets better when you are putting positive energy into it….

  • @user-ql5rv6hx1n
    @user-ql5rv6hx1n หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Really? But I'm not pregnant!" 🤣🤣🤣
    ... And then you forgot to tell your family?!!! 🤣🤣🤣
    That is so incredibly genuine and hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣
    And it is also completely understandable. Covid and the size of the world, and time zones, and your own acceptance of your future plans, all would make it easy to forget you hadn't actually told them. I think it's sweet and adorable, like the two of you. Beautiful and genuine.
    Congratulations!!!🌍🌎🌏🏩
    I'm happy for your summer wedding in Germany, with the birds singing, the sky blue and bright, and the flowers beautiful and new. The local brewery with good food and cheap (good!) beer will be perfect!!! Yes!
    I'm happy for your spiritual wedding in Vietnam, with your ancestors. I know it's a lot to plan, and so many people's needs to consider.
    Good luck on everything! I know you will decide quickly and easily, and everything will go beautifully well. No matter what happens, your wedding celebrations will be perfect, heartwarming, and memorable. As German Boyfriend says, it will be nice if you will both be there, and you will say, "Yes!" Everything else is just detail, lol.
    KARAOKE! 😊
    At both weddings, you will be sure to be cheered and celebrated by fans all over the world, virtual friends you've made, like me. We love you!
    P.S. The word "fiance" is weird, and it's really okay to keep calling each other Girlfriend and Boyfriend. I think it's sweet to always think of you as "German Boyfriend."

  • @michelegeltat356
    @michelegeltat356 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Schloss Boitzenberg is cheap, for example. It’s a castle and hostel, so it can be affordable. Perhaps there’s something like that in southern Germany.

  • @MudouSarah
    @MudouSarah หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    But the plan was so sweet!! 😊

    • @Iflie
      @Iflie หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      German boyfriend is so adorable, messuring her finger to make his ceramic ring because she didn't want a real one, haha.

  • @Letishia
    @Letishia หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    This is what my husband and I are planning! We got married in his country (Guatemala) over a year ago, and we had a big wedding there in 2022, though not all of my family and friends were able to travel to attend it. We are still dealing with the convoluted visa process, but once my husband is able to come to my country (the United States), we are planning to have a second wedding there. So two weddings but they will most likely be 3 years apart. 😅

    • @polinadolgacheva2326
      @polinadolgacheva2326 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hey don't feel weird :) we are doing the same but in reverse, we got married in a small courthouse ceremony during covid first to kickstart my immigration process, and are now doing a large wedding overseas 3.5 years later for all of our friends and both families to attend. Immigration brings extraordinary circumstances, and you shouldn't let them take away from the joy of your wedding celebration:)

    • @monicabarnett9231
      @monicabarnett9231 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Best of luck! The green card process sure is something. I’m headed in the opposite direction, if Switzerland approved our family reunification request 🤞

  • @chiahuei
    @chiahuei หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Honestly, good food and good beer is all you need!!! Add some flowers on the table and it will be awesome 🥹
    My husband and I couldn’t really find any locations in August in Switzerland in 3 months notice (I could not stand planning for longer than that) but we got lucky with a newly “released” forest hut with bbq near his mum’s house. He just ordered skewers for the bbq and other typical Swiss food from a deli, good variety of beer and cider, and the weather blessed us with sunshine and blue skies. His late grandma and other grandparents were first to come at 12pm and last to leave in the evening, and that’s my favourite memory. My only regret was not hiring a proper photographer and my own good camera ran out of batteries since I was too busy to charge it. So don’t forget the photographer as it’ll keep those memories for longer!

  • @thh1494
    @thh1494 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    UYEN!!!! May you both be happy together forever and ever and ever times infinity!!!!!!

  • @user-kt7jr1bv2s
    @user-kt7jr1bv2s หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    The fact that they talk about every step feeling comfortable,is showing how much they love each other ❤✨ a something that myself can never do

  • @tedhart1848
    @tedhart1848 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Whatever works best for you is what matters ❤

  • @izz_eryna
    @izz_eryna 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This couple isn't just a green flag, it's the whole colour wheel! Bright colours

  • @rachaelhoffman-dachelet2763
    @rachaelhoffman-dachelet2763 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My husband and I have been married for 32 years. If I had it to do over again I’d have had a smaller wedding, but that said our wedding was the best party I’ve ever been to! We had a live band and that was great! We spent a big part of our honeymoon in Germany! My host sister was my maid of honor, and my German best friend was a bridesmaid too. It was nice to go see the rest of my host family and German friends right after the wedding. My host mom hosted a lovely brunch for us.

  • @lordmysticlaw1991
    @lordmysticlaw1991 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I think two weddings is SUCH a good idea if you are able to do it!! I have quite a few friends and acquaintances who had two weddings because the couple's families have different cultural backgrounds (and therefore different wedding customs that they wanted to honour) and/or live in different countries.

  • @whatthehelldoyouwant
    @whatthehelldoyouwant หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Congratulations! Wish you two the best❤❤

  • @brandonbaldan1293
    @brandonbaldan1293 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Uyen, I am so glad to see you happy! I wish you all the best!!! I am learning German at school! Bye!!

  • @OuchingTigerLimpingDragon
    @OuchingTigerLimpingDragon 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It went from having no wedding to having two weddings! Also, that impression of German BF was _gold._
    I was doing little happy screams at both the idea and the execution of the proposal. So very sweet! Going to go rewatch the Lava short now 😊

  • @sethmlarson
    @sethmlarson หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Yay! My wife and I did two weddings, vu quy in the morning and a western wedding in the evening. We were lucky to have most of both families being able to travel to celebrate with us.

  • @TrixifromVienna
    @TrixifromVienna หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    congratulations for you two. In June I will be married for 24 years. A relationship with ups and downs but always with solidarity to overcome the obstacles. 💝 Preferably with honesty, humor and always ready to talk about anything.

  • @megumholtz8132
    @megumholtz8132 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys seem like communication is on point! Its so refreshing!

  • @maayeayekhine959
    @maayeayekhine959 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm happy for u two! You guys finally get married. U might not know but I been watching u for last 2 years. But I'm really happy for u both. Congrats u both! Wish u guys a happy marriage!!❤🎉

  • @mothercat6083
    @mothercat6083 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Just got married April 6th and I’m so relieved to watch someone else enjoy it, I’m so exhausted 😂! Congratulations you guys and I can’t wait to see what you guys have in store for your weddings and the rest of your lives ❤❤!

    • @bridgetc7640
      @bridgetc7640 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Great wedding date! Congratulations.

    • @AlexanderSolace
      @AlexanderSolace หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations 🎉

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    In America wedding venues also book even years in advance. My husband was very involved when we planned our wedding too. It is lovely and the grooms day as well not just the bride. Try vision boards each of you, then you can visualize the others expectations? Wishing you well on the planning! 😊❤

  • @Its_me--Boo_Radley
    @Its_me--Boo_Radley หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are both so delightful I'm sure your weddings will be filled with joy and fun. Good luck! We've been married for 57 years ... having been married by a justice of the peace with just two witnesses present.

  • @sinkingwrench
    @sinkingwrench หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m happy I stumbled upon your account a couple of months ago. I was accepted to Masters program and have just arrived to Kaiserslautern, Germany yesterday, but your shorts on daily life already proved useful)) Seeing your journey to get Masters was super reassuring, I’m excited to start my own!

  • @probablyira
    @probablyira หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I've never been so exited for a strangers wedding!!

  • @BenjaminVestergaard
    @BenjaminVestergaard หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Many Germans actually go to Denmark to get married, because all the formalities can be done within a month if you have the documentation ready. But do remember that the foreign documents need to be translated (German, French or English is accepted IIRC) and notarised/verified.

    • @shinyshinythings
      @shinyshinythings หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s great advice it sounds like! Are EU weddings recognized in all EU countries automatically?

    • @BenjaminVestergaard
      @BenjaminVestergaard หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shinyshinythings I don't know if Denmark informs the other countries.
      But if you ask for an international certificate it has translations in Danish, German, French and English and will be universally recognised across the EU.
      So if it takes an extra step to register it locally, that's just a bit of paperwork afterwards... they'll not question its validity.

  • @MommaARA
    @MommaARA วันที่ผ่านมา

    I want to extend gratitude for your channel. Your relationship, trails, and successes have been apart of our relationship. Even with our break up last year we still grew and came back together. We used your videos and shorts as ways to ask questions, communicate, and acknowledge that long distance is hard on anyone if there is no clear goal towards living together and being married. My deepest thanks to your strength in remaining together and working through the tough times and misunderstandings to get to this point. I wish you every good luck, every blessing, and every dream come true. I hope one day we can meet and compare experiences!!

  • @lane95
    @lane95 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You guys work SO well together and i really appreciate seeing your videos. I love seeing a healthy couple just having fun like its ADORABLE and i want to live in Germany so your videos are super useful for me. I hope you guys have LOVELY WEDDINGS ❤️❤️

  • @shidinje
    @shidinje หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Congratulations.
    Uyen really said we have to tell the ancestors. She also said maybe they'll want to come to germany.
    13:23 I agree with Uyen, I want stress-free, low effort ceremony when i can be chilled and happy during the occasion.

  • @GrowingWithFig
    @GrowingWithFig หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This is such an adorable proposal story oh my days. Planned to sing a song he rewrote the lyrics for?? How romantic!!

  • @SheenaReine
    @SheenaReine หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aww you two are so cute! I can feel how much you genuinely enjoy each others company. so excited to see pics and videos of your wedding!
    Thanks for sharing, that proposal story is adorable!

  • @kirstenhipsky1087
    @kirstenhipsky1087 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Heck yeah! Two weddings is absolutely the right idea. Both families can celebrate you in ways that are meaningful to them. You two are so adorable and love each other so much. You'll have a wonderful life together!

  • @kaylavarela7215
    @kaylavarela7215 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He’s so sweet. He really went all out for you 😢❤ I think the making of your ring is the most beautiful thing in the entire world. It’s funny to see how different your cultures are and how differently they responded to your relationship.

  • @rl3810
    @rl3810 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    It's so nice to see a healthy and happy youtube couple.
    I know both weddings will be fabulous ❤
    You two are so great! 🤗

  • @sinkingwrench
    @sinkingwrench หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s so great that you’re doing two weddings for both of your families! Two weddings will need more planning and funds for sure, but the fact that you’ve decided to make your special day accessible to your loved ones is very heartwarming ☺️

  • @t.w.6877
    @t.w.6877 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hofgut Hohenstein, BASF, Schloss Kropsburg, Ladenburg Eichstatt, Weingut Joseph Köhr, Weingut Fritz Ritter, Weingut Dr. steiner, Schloss Auerbach, wachenburg Weinheim, halsmühle Pfalz, Weingut Janson Bernhard, Hotel Freinsheim, alte Pfarrer Pfalz, grenzhof, Knipser, Bürklin-Wolff, Ladenburg rosenhof, molkenkur (wir haben da geheiratet), Weingut Winning, Stiftsgut Keysermühle, goldener Engel-edesheim, ketschauer Hof, Winterstürme Volker Krug, Kloster Heilsbruck, gutshof Bauer schlemmerscheune, europäischer Hof, Landgut lingental….or you ask the guys from the boat in Heidelberg…looks cool

  • @Magentamagnet
    @Magentamagnet หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Been following your journey from TH-cam shorts till now, I wish nothing but the best to both of you. Congratulations ❤❤❤

  • @dorsadinani
    @dorsadinani หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    aww he is so respectful and kind

  • @leaper2294
    @leaper2294 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congratulations!
    Enjoy your wedding party🎉

  • @elizathepainter8604
    @elizathepainter8604 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations!!! Glad you are managing expectations and not letting the wedding planning get overwhelming 👍 it's gonna be so fun! Both weddings :)

  • @Eva-212
    @Eva-212 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    We are so happy for the two of you and your families. 🥰😄

  • @Cloudfive55
    @Cloudfive55 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Uyen is the most lovable, down to earth person on the internet. She's everything!

  • @thetiredworm2100
    @thetiredworm2100 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys are such a comfort, love your videos😊

  • @e.urbach7780
    @e.urbach7780 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Aww, you two are so sweet! Congratulations!

  • @cubesurfer4141
    @cubesurfer4141 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love hearing/seeing you two loving each other. He seems like he's as good to you as you are to him. 🥰🥰

  • @pinkicez
    @pinkicez หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can’t wait to see your wedding outfits ! I’m so happy for you both ❤️ *German BF you are so sweet .. I loved your original proposal plan , and I’m happy it worked out * 🎉🎉🎉

  • @phenomadology23
    @phenomadology23 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a cute stuffed axololt!!! I love what you said about going with the first not-too-bad option. Your attitude is really good!

  • @user-bm8cl6mc9o
    @user-bm8cl6mc9o หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Measuring her ring size while she was asleep! So clever and sneaky of Gbf/Gf!! ❤

  • @xymonau2468
    @xymonau2468 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I think your plans are wonderful, and I know you will both feel an even closer bond after you tie the knot. You have both worked so hard to make your relationship work, and you have been successful, and it's obvious that you love each other. German Boyfriend does not want to lose you! Reassure him! He's a keeper.

  • @vgdkhs
    @vgdkhs หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I find it reasonable for you to not feel a huge change from being together to being engaged, because you moved all over the world, which is a maybe bigger investment. When my girlfriend and I decided to get engaged (and we are both in for a long engagement till my studies are over), it changed something for both of us, especially in our connection to our family, it felt like we made the first step to become a new family plus we bought stuff around the flat differently, talking about the future felt more like it actually will happen some day.
    Congrats to both of you :)

  • @Roygbiv04
    @Roygbiv04 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Planning two weddings is definitely an overwhelming task. I did all the planning for the first wedding and had a big help from my mother in law with the second wedding. I recommend taking all the help you can get from family/friends with the wedding planning. It will make things go smoother for you. And karaoke at a wedding is super fun. I had karaoke instead of dancing and everyone had a wonderful time. They still talk about it to this day! Lol
    I wish you both lots a luck on planning the two weddings and congrats! :)

  • @erin7306
    @erin7306 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was lovely to watch. You both seem like a fun, happy couple. I hope the wedding planning goes smoothly for both weddings.

  • @mom.left.me.at.michaels9951
    @mom.left.me.at.michaels9951 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Aaaaewww proposals never go exactly the way you plan ❤🎉 it's part of the fun. Super glad you decided to have both weddings! I did this in America, a close to home small one on the beach for friends. Then I also had to fly home for a fancy traditional church wedding for my family or they would flip. 😅 Also I would recommend looking over wedding planners (not the people necessarily they are very expensive, but just online guides/checklist). There's a LOT than can go into it, but it can be a simple as you want.

  • @LeandLees
    @LeandLees หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Congratulations! Wish you gus the best! Herzlichen Glueckwunsch! Thank you for sharing!!! I hope one day, I could live in Germany with my wife for few years!

  • @ichigostrawberryzoey
    @ichigostrawberryzoey หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing! ❤ Hope the planning goes smoothly!

  • @kwlee4190
    @kwlee4190 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so freakin wholesome 🥹 thanks for sharing your story with us

  • @Jess-gc9zg
    @Jess-gc9zg หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was like you, I didn't want to be stressed over planning. We booked a venue that took care of everything, they did the food, DJ, table decs, even transport. It was so much easier. I would definitely advise that. X

  • @TastySchu4
    @TastySchu4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love seeing your numbers jump for likes & new subs as im watching you guys. Keep doing you, cuz we all love you!

  • @christinebuckingham8369
    @christinebuckingham8369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh, the Lava song story melted my heart! Love you two sweethearts and wish you two joyous Weddings and a wonderful lifetime together! 🥰💞💞💞🥰

  • @heidiz6084
    @heidiz6084 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had never watched videos about people’s weddings. But I just love these two! I hope your weddings are so much fun and meaningful.

  • @yentran4970
    @yentran4970 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Sister Uyên, I'm so happy to hear about your weddings.
    Btw, it's the first time I heard someone's gonna be married, and be that happy.
    Hooray!!🎉

    • @rrksk
      @rrksk หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are the people you know not that happy about getting married?

  • @kathynguyen6409
    @kathynguyen6409 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Congratulations 👍🎉 I am so happy for you both!

  • @rebeccalalnunfelralsun9078
    @rebeccalalnunfelralsun9078 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG! You sing so well! The key and scale was spot on when you sang, “I found love” ❤❤❤ Tons of love and best and warmest wishes for you wedding! 🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼 Love from India!

  • @MrsNoji
    @MrsNoji หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Uyen you are glowing! So pretty!

  • @ginameronek8068
    @ginameronek8068 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Gosh you two are the best together. Don't worry about aiming for best day, just aim for good day. Best days come as lovely surprises.