Sounds like a typical guy with money who wants a combo maid/Barbie. Go and get a career and earn your own money, I love looking around my home and all my luxury items proud that I paid for it. Also death or divorce could have a detrimental effect on your lifestyle at any moment and it’s best to be as self sufficient as possible.
Since we never know what the future holds would not want to be dependant financially by a man. Should you wish to leave the marriage you would have a harder time if you don’t have your own money. Also I would have a hard time looking past the power dynamic if one brings in all the money. But maybe this is my perspective from Scandinavia and it’s different in other countries and cultures. Just be careful and prioritise yourself.
I’ve learned in my relationship with God, which requires Faith in Him to follow Him and trust in Him when He lays things on my heart that the same is true with my husband. A marriage requires faith, and walking in the the decisions (made together or by him alone as leader of the home) takes trust in knowing what God is doing in you both. There is so much peace when walking in “order”, the more relaxed you are the more comfort you bring to the home. There’s nothing more precious than each person stepping into their natural creative role and we as women have so many opportunities in the home. Thankful you and your husband are walking according to God’s ways vs the ways of the world or the fear of man. ❤️
All glory to Abba, I’m always here if you need some encouragement to keep walking in the Faith. It’s what my husband and I do. Melissa 💕 Melofirebee at ya hoo
I've gotten A LOT of pushback from my family as well for making decisions that went against their beliefs (going away for college, living abroad alone, being in my 30s unmarried and with no children.) You have to do what's best for you at the end of the day. You are very lucky to have such a supportive husband. In the USA we have a saying that goes, "Teamwork makes the dream work." I hope your marriage continues to embody that :)
Het is ieders recht om zijn levenspad te kiezen, maar het is belangrijk om dit zonder religie als excuus te doen. Het idee om "thuisblijfvrouw" te worden vanuit een zogenaamd "christelijk perspectief" voelt als een terugval naar middeleeuwse opvattingen en lijkt eerder luiheid te rechtvaardigen dan een bewuste keuze. Veel vrouwen balanceren werk en huishouden succesvol. Het tegendeel beweren ondermijnt niet alleen het intellect, maar ook de lange strijd voor vrouwenrechten. Zoals Margaret Thatcher zei: "If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman." Vrouwen hebben bewezen dat ze in staat zijn om beide rollen te vervullen. Als je kiest om thuis te blijven, is dat je recht, maar gebruik geen religie als dekmantel voor luiheid. Dat doet afbreuk aan je argumenten en geeft een verkeerd beeld van wat geloof werkelijk inhoudt.
Hey keyboard warrior, who’s identity is clearly not a secret, lol. Just in case you missed the message of the video, the only opinions that matter to us are ours. I was and still am the main motivator behind my wife pursuing this path. But thanks for the comment anyway, it keeps up the engagement.
Sounds like a typical guy with money who wants a combo maid/Barbie. Go and get a career and earn your own money, I love looking around my home and all my luxury items proud that I paid for it. Also death or divorce could have a detrimental effect on your lifestyle at any moment and it’s best to be as self sufficient as possible.
A two hour commute is definitely not ideal. Could you make a video about working at Hermes?
I will, have some planned that are coming up
Since we never know what the future holds would not want to be dependant financially by a man. Should you wish to leave the marriage you would have a harder time if you don’t have your own money. Also I would have a hard time looking past the power dynamic if one brings in all the money. But maybe this is my perspective from Scandinavia and it’s different in other countries and cultures. Just be careful and prioritise yourself.
I’ve learned in my relationship with God, which requires Faith in Him to follow Him and trust in Him when He lays things on my heart that the same is true with my husband. A marriage requires faith, and walking in the the decisions (made together or by him alone as leader of the home) takes trust in knowing what God is doing in you both. There is so much peace when walking in “order”, the more relaxed you are the more comfort you bring to the home. There’s nothing more precious than each person stepping into their natural creative role and we as women have so many opportunities in the home. Thankful you and your husband are walking according to God’s ways vs the ways of the world or the fear of man. ❤️
This is the most beautiful thing I've read this week so far. I feel the same way, thank you for sharing!
All glory to Abba, I’m always here if you need some encouragement to keep walking in the Faith. It’s what my husband and I do. Melissa 💕
Melofirebee at ya hoo
I've gotten A LOT of pushback from my family as well for making decisions that went against their beliefs (going away for college, living abroad alone, being in my 30s unmarried and with no children.) You have to do what's best for you at the end of the day. You are very lucky to have such a supportive husband. In the USA we have a saying that goes, "Teamwork makes the dream work." I hope your marriage continues to embody that :)
You are 100% right, I feel the same way. Wish you a lot of courage and strength on your journey!
@@dalia_elise Thank you!
Sounds like a fun new adventure! Now that you are no longer working there, can you share some more reflections about what was like?
I will! I already have a couple videos planned
Love your mindset
I appreciate that a lot!!
Feel free to ignore this question if it’s too personal, but, have you and your husband talked about having kids? I’d be curious to know your thoughts.
We do :-) We are seeking God's will in this!
@@dalia_elise that’s great! Wishing you the best 🙏
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Het is ieders recht om zijn levenspad te kiezen, maar het is belangrijk om dit zonder religie als excuus te doen. Het idee om "thuisblijfvrouw" te worden vanuit een zogenaamd "christelijk perspectief" voelt als een terugval naar middeleeuwse opvattingen en lijkt eerder luiheid te rechtvaardigen dan een bewuste keuze.
Veel vrouwen balanceren werk en huishouden succesvol. Het tegendeel beweren ondermijnt niet alleen het intellect, maar ook de lange strijd voor vrouwenrechten. Zoals Margaret Thatcher zei: "If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman." Vrouwen hebben bewezen dat ze in staat zijn om beide rollen te vervullen.
Als je kiest om thuis te blijven, is dat je recht, maar gebruik geen religie als dekmantel voor luiheid. Dat doet afbreuk aan je argumenten en geeft een verkeerd beeld van wat geloof werkelijk inhoudt.
Hey keyboard warrior, who’s identity is clearly not a secret, lol.
Just in case you missed the message of the video, the only opinions that matter to us are ours.
I was and still am the main motivator behind my wife pursuing this path.
But thanks for the comment anyway, it keeps up the engagement.
Hi! Where do you live?
I'm based in Belgium at the moment!
@@dalia_elise thank you!