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I don't think I get the reference, you're just quoting a glitch as far as I know, and the first thing in my head was one of these Vinesauce corruption videos going "Pieces of pieces of pieces of one!".
Thank you for confirming that the problem is not my software or my phone but instead somewhere further up the line that is being ignored by management. Too bad we can't threaten that they fix it or we are out of here.
@@Roadent1241 I 'd never blame the poster of such a video because they work too hard to give viewers a good experience. Later on that same day for completely different posters. To me, you are a fine creator and I hope you continue to present interesting videos!
@@deb7122 I'm not convinced these TTS videos are that hard to make, I'm just impressed they ALL seem to have this problem and nobody's sat there for one run through to catch it. I'd do that and edit the audio file for free and they're ignoring the offer XD I listen to my audioplays repeatedly and I STILL miss little things like GLaDOS' VA inhaling when I thought I'd sorted all of it, after it's been up for a year XD Thank you, though I'm not sure what my work personally has to do with anything, especially since I've been making now games than audioplays in the past couple of years.
Yeah, horseshoe theory of open relationships. People who are territorial because they think everyone cheats like they themselves do, and people who want open relationships because they want to field test a future partner before committing to the replacement. There's a good middle ground that is becoming more and more uncommon for people to actually be in
@@pajamas720 The full story is that he wanted me to work days I had school, and I told him that I couldn't since ya know, I had classes. He then told me that ultimatum. You're the first person to tell me that it was illegal, everyone I've told this too told me that it wasn't illegal.
@@corsaircarl9582 ehh, well with that context it depends, if you had your school time blocked out of your work availability, then yeah its against policy and he had no authority to make you work outside your availability. Either way you made the right choice, im trying to get out of my current job position because im just burnt out from it.
I once had an abusive ex (so abusive he put me in hospital on multiple occasions) tell me it was either I ‘make a bigger effort with his Mom’ or ‘I won’t have the same relationship with him’. I had literally gifted her a Tiffany necklace the week prior. But he explained how she took him out on a ‘date’, just the two of them, to his favourite restaurant and ‘cried in his arms’ that her marriage was flailing and he was all she had now, but I wasn’t nice enough to her. 🤥🤢🤮 It was like a flip switched and I walked. It took a bit longer to fully eradicate him from my life, and he crawled back into his Mom’s womb.
Oh honey, good for you for getting away from that... that... UGH. Do what you can to keep getting better, and I pray you NEVER have to meet anybody like that again. EVER.
@@Kelaiah01 Thank you for your kind words💗🙏 That time in my life certainly did a job on me, and it took years of therapy and (a few more toxic relationships), to really learn my self worth. But years later I am married to a wonderful man, pregnant with our first, a home owner, with a good career and doctorate…all things I was taught I’d never amount to with that ex. I’m truly grateful that I didn’t fold to that situation.
@@oceana3070 *hug* That's wonderful that you're doing so much better! In fact, a family member of my own had their own toxic ex who kept telling them things like, "You will NEVER do better than me!" only for said family member to do just that: wind up with somebody better. One thing I've learned from stories like this is to never believe or trust anyone who says things like that. I hope and pray that the rest of your life continues getting better, that your marriage remains a happy one and that your child grows up happy, healthy and good.
@@Kelaiah01 That means a lot, thank you for your prayers and kindness. That’s rare on the internet! I hope you are also content and well. Know that you’ve made my day, kind stranger! Love from Australia 🌊💗
In college I worked in a kitchen in a bar and I saw a stack of applications my boss was looking over to hire for the kitchen. The top of the pile was an application from someone I knew and didn't like. I looked at my boss and said "I'm not trying to tell you who you can or cannot hire, but if you hire that person, I quit". She didn't even hesitate, she grabbed the application and threw it in the trash. I worked at that bar till I graduated.
The Warhammer 40k one is probably the most unreasonable. Dude probably spent hours upon hours painting thousands and thousands of dollars worth of miniatures. So giving up all that and the potential to play more in the future? Ha ha yeah right, dude made the right call.
If they give you the "It's me or the dog" ultimatum, ALWAYS choose the dog. For starters, dogs will never give you that kind of ultimatum. Also, it will not end with just the dog. It's just the first thin on a never-ending list of things you _must_ change in order for the other person to accept you.
@@SylvesterCarl Ofc, but it can be as random as not liking their beard. I have the exact opossite problem: my dog absolutely loves people with poor hygene, many of which give me the creeps; and she can't help but greet them all XD
If my girlfriend ever issues an ultimatum in which I have to either give up something important to me or lose her, I'll go the single route. The choice is not between the item/pet/friend and having a girlfriend. It's "keep what makes you happy" or "lose what you treasure and keep that toxic person who makes such unreasonable demands".
That's pretty much universally true until such thing you love becomes damaging - even if you don't realise it. That's the only thing to look out for. Love video games and play a few hours a night to relax? Unreasonable ultimatum. Love video games and just bought a new console or PC upgrade but now you and your spouse are going to have to scramble for rent money? Reasonable ultimatum.
Exactly. And it never ends with giving up that one thing. It's just the first thing on "The List" of things you have to change or give up entirely for them to accept you. That acceptance gets dangled like a carrot in front of you, but you can never reach it. The point is always control.
Well unless you're that guy who chose the heroine over his girlfriend (twice), or the dad who chose his wife over his daughter who was molested by the wife's brother.
My husband gave me the ultimatum of "its me or the baby". Our baby was 8-months old at the time and she turned 11-years last Saturday - being a single parent is tough but I have never regretted the decision I made in that moment.
If anyone told me i was a silly child who loves animals more than useless disgusting humans I'd agree with them and thank them for actually knowing who i am.
Let's be fair. Without other "useless disgusting humans" there'd be no surgery for injured pets, no medication, no ready made shelters, no food stuffs, no containers to feed them in, no dry foods, wet foods, seeds. Only what you could make, invent, grow or gather yourself. Whether you like it or not, you live in a world where people you have no respect for supply ALL YOUR NEEDS.
Leave anyone that tells you to get rid of a beloved pet. No one that loves you would ever ask you to make that choice. Also do you really want to be with someone that sees a living animal as an object that can be thrown away? A lack of compassion and humanity isn’t a good trait to have in a partner.
"It's either me or the dog!" I have never been given this ultimatum, but if given, it's the dog, because clearly, I got in a relationship with the wrong person. My dog is a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. She loves you unconditionally, no matter how you feel about her. If you hate her enough to want her gone, well then you're not the person I thought you were, and you can get the fuck out of my house and my life forever. She still loves you, even if I don't.
So the one with the guy and 2 female f-buddies...One found out the other was using the OP so her gang banger friends could rob him, calls him up, gives him the ultimatum without the context, and then completely blacklisted him from her friends? OP got screwed over by both women. Hope he's doing better, the thief is in jail, and the other one is miserable.
I can't even fathom her logic it's either "I need to save him from this trashy person who's trying to rob him, but he doesn't need to know she's a trashy person trying to rob him!!" or "I can't tell him why she's a bad person, or she'll retaliate against me". If it's the former, she's an idiot because, why the hell would he stop hanging with the other girl without knowing what's up. If it's the latter, she's an idiot because that chick will still target her for disrupting the friendship.
The extremely generous interpretation is that Mary thought OP was in on Lucy’s criminal activities and was too angry to properly explain herself. Having said that this really feels a lot more like a childish power move. “If you don’t automatically do what I say without needing an explanation then obviously you’re not worthy of me”
Once when I went to a buddy's house he asked me "do you want a meal, a bath, or me?" We both then broke out in laughter. We're still good friends so yeah.
My now husband asked me to rehome my cat. They absolutely HATED each other lol. I didn't because he had some health issues, and he died 2 months after. He later said he should never have asked it of me, that cat was my best friend. I've forgiven him since he realized it was very wrong.
I had 2 close friends who were married to each other. One day, she left him and went states away back home. I knew he had a history of depression so I stayed close to him to make sure he didn't do anything stupid. She began to accuse me of having an affair with him, I was not. He told me that he was thinking about taking her back. I knew how it would play out. She would never let us be friends since she was convinced we were sleeping together (understandable if it had been true). I told him as much. "That's fine, but if you take her back, you know we will never be able to be friends again." I went home and left him to think it over. Honestly, I just wanted them both to be happy. 9 years later, he and I have been married for 7 years and have 3 kids. We are happy, but as far as I can tell (we have no contact with her), she is not.
@J. Martinez Definitely not. I had 0 interest in him romanticly before that. After she left and he and I spent some time. I began to realize he was not only a great friend but also a good man. And since we'd been FRIENDS for 14 years already, we both realized the other was exactly what we needed and wanted. So things snowballed rather quickly.
@Jet I see your point, but we never thought of each other in that light. We were friend zoned, I guess. When we met, I was taken, so I didn't think of him as potential sweetheart material. When I was single, he was married, so I still didn't think of him as potential sweetheart material. When he was going to let her come back, he knew that what I said was true. He then realized he would miss being my friend more than he would miss being married to her. And so he decided to choose our friendship. Only after this process began did we begin to see each other in the light of maybe sweetheart material. And since we'd been friends for so long and had seen sides of each other that are often hidden when dating a person, we knew each other better, and over 14 years of experience we had learned what we REALLY needed and wanted, not what we THOUGHT we needed and wanted. We just hadn't put the pieces together until then. Sure, it's funny how life changes your outlook on things, and even people.
I'm a Christian. Back in 2018 I got my first job as a waiter at what used to be my favorite restaurant. I requested that my days off always be on a Friday and Sunday because those are the days I attend church. The manager told me to choose between work and church. Needless to say I never came in on a Friday and Sunday.
2:24 I had a friend whose girlfriend got jealous of their 4 month old infant baby boy, so when he walked to the shop for 20 minutes, she put him in a big Steel bin on a 34°C day. Was taken off them as a result, A fortnight later he was given a house and told he can only have the child if she doesn't know where he lives. He gets the child, and a week later she is living there. She made multiple attempts to end that boys life. Joshua would be about 22 now but I haven't seen them in 16 years. Lost interest when I started having to pin her down on repeated tantrums, while we waited for the mental health team to take her away. She was also paranoid schizophrenic. Clinically diagnosed. I had enough of the BS, when he got into meht then started accusing me of trying to sleep with her. They both went paranoid.
"Either me or your best friend" and after hearing that I became single again, never regreted a second of my decision, my best friend was going through depression and I was the only person she felt confortable talking to, 6 years later my friend died and my ex came asking forgivness, don't know if it was mature of my part, but I told her to go to hell. No one keeps me from my sister from another mother, hope she is good wherever she is.
"It's either the booze or your kids!" My dad to my mum after the divorce - she had partial custody (every other weekend), but it ended when she was so drunk she could hardly function. They got into a huge fight and he dropped the above-mentioned line. She chose the booze - and we never spoke to her again.
At the end of my military service my wife said don’t re-sign up. My leadership asked why I didn’t want to stay. I told them my wife said no. My first Sargent told me that my wife was destroying my future. One of the Sargent told him “you know that new civilian female doctor that works at the hospital. That’s his wife”.
How can you even be a human being if you logically think that asking your husband to pick between you and the child you gave birth to is okay? There’s too many undiagnosed sociopaths in this world and too many unfit mothers
If a person you’re dating tells you it’s me or whatever little thing you enjoy, pick the thing on the grounds it’s weird they’re asking you that in the first place.
In 2006 I had a gf that tried to stop me being in contact with a few of my exes. We were all totally platonic friends and my gf tried telling me I had no history before her. Told her that if she has problems with insecurities, then that's not my problem and if she tries to get me to choose between her and them, then she will lose on principal. Just because previous relationships didn't work out, doesn't mean people can't still be friends. She found out what it was like because we remained friends for another 14 years till she tried another ultimatum. I live by certain principles and refuse to accept others dictating my life. Never cheated and prefer women as friends rather than men. A neighbour tried getting me into her bed for nearly 4 years, till I had enough and just quit the friendship. I'm asexual and aromatic. My relationships have never been based on sex, and while it may have had some fun aspects, it was more like a chore. Not my fault if people can't think outside their own thick head. Accusing me of intending to cheat is a deal breaker. I've been single and sexless since 2006 and do not miss it. I'd rather be washing dishes.
This reminds me of when I told some of my coworkers about how a family friend's ex's were all still good friends with each other. Everyone looked as if this guy had broken some ancient taboo. People seem to forget that leaving a romantic relationship on good terms is an option.
Knew a girl, we were not even dating. She wanted me to sell my camaro which I had bought less than 6 months before so I could get a big suv. I hate suvs. The reason, so she could take her friends to the mall. Seriously, who goes to the mall all day in 2002/2003? It is me or the car. Didn't look at her, just said, there's the door. Even if I had been dating her I would not have given that car up. Brand new car, 0% interest, and I LOVED that car. Sadly I had it just under 10 years before a mechanic killed the engine.
19:00 I’m sorry, but I can’t take anyone who unironically says “my rivals” about prople they didn’t get on well with in school seriously. That kinda talk just makes me think of Pokémon, and/or how a relative used to claim he had “a rival” in school….in 1st grade…..
Ex wife cheated three times and told me in a big fight. I said “alright you have a choice now, you promise right here and now that I’ll be your only one, and I yours for the rest of our natural lives or I can pack my stuff leave and you’ll see me a max of two more times in our lives.” She said “I’m done” I said “I am too” I packed all my clothes in under an hour went to the pantry and took half of all our food and walked out…
Two years have passed and I’m still happily single and I’m moving in a few months to what’s Idaho it’s known to some members in my church as BYUIdo even though I’m there primarily to do and finish school. Idk if I naturally can trust anyone so it will take a long friendship to have me want to go on dates.
I swear if I ever get myself unstable girlfriend as she tries to make me pick her or something else I like and threatens to kill herself I've been like "go ahead the world can use less people like you" I'm not a emotionless person and if there's signs that say I can fix her then I will pursue it but if she refuses any help I was just simply Let Her Go don't care if she goes through with the threat or not even if it's in front of me it's her problem not mine
yeah that lucy one was screwed up. "I am giving an ultimatum of either her or us! oh by the way just take my word she is bad news but I'm not actually going to say what she's done! don't believe me? well good luck then!" why couldn't she have explained why lucy was no good?
Probably because she's a coward, at least that's what I get from how she worded things. Basically her and her group figured out Lucy was getting close to OP as way to find out if he and his friends have valuable shit so they can fleece them for it. But given the fact of how organized Lucy's group seems to be they are probably violent and will want revenge if they figure out who snitched on them, so Mary decides she doesn't want to risk getting curb stomped by them if she tells OP as they will likely figure out it's her that told him. So instead of growing a spine or actually caring about protecting her friend, she instead calls up out of nowhere and precedes to vaguely allude to Lucy being sketchy without giving context as to why so OP won't leak the info. She then gives the ultimatum to OP thinking that she's given a good enough warning so he'll take the hint and cut her off, that doesn't happen obviously since OP has no context as to whats going on. Realizing her warning didn't work Mary proceeds to then cut ties with OP and gives him another vague warning before throwing him to the wolves and getting his shit stolen, she then blacklists OP and has all her friends do the same so she and them can have plausible deniability but not associating with OP in case Lucy and her crew ever become suspicious. This is just what I think happened given how she worded things, either that or she's just retarded and thought OP would just randomly take her advice for no reason. Either way she's an asshole for screwing him over like that.
Jr high I had 2 friends that didn't like each other. Both told me to chose being friends with one of them and drop the other. I refused, if they didn't want to hang out that's fine, I could do stuff with them separately. Not much later they became friends and dropped me.
@19:07 Mary could have told OP instead of playing mind games. Both Mary and Lucy are assholes. Like she didn't saying or give him a freaking reason just expect him to call off a friendship with no reason and looking like an AH later. Than Mary after giving no info just let things play out still believe she was in the right.
Our dog didn't like my sister's boyfriend. It didn't matter at all what he did for her; she just didn't like him. Turned out he was a selfish a******. Our dog like her current boyfriend, although she (the dog) passed a few years ago. Still, given her judgement on the old boyfriend, I'm inclined to trust her (the dog's) judgement on the new/current boyfriend. She was a breed that regards everyone as a new potential best friend and loves everyone. The fact that she couldn't love this ex BF of my sister was a clue that there was something wrong that only she could detect.
Not always. Some people need to get priorities straight. Ultimatums are an extreme form of relationship management and should only be used for serious things like addictions or someone getting involved in a scam/cult.
@@jimdob6528 true, but realistically nearly any ultimatum is just "we're through" but with extra steps. Exception being to keep them from doing something stupid and spur of the moment, but otherwise theres already baggage and resentment thats not gonna go away easily, or their in whatevers causing the problem way deep.
@@jimdob6528 So, one adult gets to tell another adult how they should live their life? If they want to get addicted or into cult life so much, what right do you have to tell them not to. just messing with ya, someone can end a relationship over everything they want and some people are not good at decision making. Your points are valid.
18:43 well that was kinda dickish. You know she’s a bad person, yet you don’t tell the potential victim about it? Instead you have to be vague and let this guy fall victim when you could have stopped it. She’s as much of a bad guy in this than the actual thieves.
I'm not knocking cat moms or dog dad's. But just because a pet doesn't like someone doesn't mean that person is a bad person? I mean I know some great people who have met pets that don't like them just because for no reason.
Animals are excellent judges of character. Congrats on making the right choice! My husband made a similar choice years ago with his toxic ex that cheated on him. When they were dividing their assets he said I’ll buy you out of everything else - house, car, whatever. But the 2 dogs are mine.
I've been liked by nearly all animals I've come in contact with. Hand fed wild brolgas. Rehabilitated a young eagle. Nursed injured galahs, and released them well into the wild again. All before the age of 10. But there are some animals which haven't taken to me, and sometimes it's not ME but how the owner views me. Dogs particularly pick up on that. If the owner is hostile or doesn't like you, you can bet the dog responds the same way. I prefer cats as domestic pets.
@@oceana3070 youre forgetting pets are their own personality too. Ive had dogs approach me in a friendly way and dogs not wanna approach anyone because theyre just shy or scared. Cats almost never sit down long enough for me to pet them lol.
I'm thinking about giving an ultimatum myself. I (20sF) unwittingly joined a polyamorous relationship, the two I fraternize with most being 48M (my actual romantic partner) and 34 Trans (fem born, masc ID, will go into pertinent detail, will refer to them as they/them ofc). Before I begin, I believe mental health issues are real, and that trauma lasts as long as one is alive. I also believe that it's up to the individual to make sure trauma doesn't dictate their life after it's over. To make a long story short, here are some of their "crimes:" Things they do that terrorize everyone: -alcoholism, with denial of its existence -neglect of their child, with denial of its existence -tantrums over situations of their own making -switching gender to suit their needs (which I think is an affront to all trans ppl, none of my trans friends do this, whether ftm or mtf) -general misery that they drag others into -picking low-iq fights, then twisting to make others seem the villain Things my partner has suffered at their hands -being accused of raep, even though they were the one who climbed on top -verbally and physically assaulted on a regular basis -regular slander behind his back to ppl he may or may not know, made worse by the fact that they accuse him of neglecting them -ruining jobs/job opportunities, and while I was unemployed, he had to push himself to exhaustion to keep us afloat (am employed again myself), made worse by the fact that they wake him up for unimportant reasons almost nightly -cheating on the whole polyamory group, him suffering the worst as calculated -picking low-iq fights, then twisting to make him seem the villain -emotional blackmail, manipulation, abuse Things they have done to me personally: -ageism based jealousy slander, to ppl I also don't know, while acknowledging I'm one of the nicest ppl they know -ageism-based downplaying of my intelligence to go with their (trauma-based) nice equals doormat mindset -Light mistreatment of the household cat (we all call him "mine," since I took up financial responsibility for him) -projection (OOF, the protection) of every possible problem they have onto me (for example, they accuse me of jealousy, but they're smart enough to, for instance, not accuse me of alcoholism cuz that would be impossible as I don't drink often) Things they've done to MY SISTER: -stolen my sister's alcoholic beverages out of her personal mini fridge IN HER ROOM (then tried to downplay it as if it was out of a household fridge in a household kitchen, they were called out on it) -accused my sister of selfishness for not getting door dash/Uber eats for everyone (it's her lunch for work, and even if it wasn't, it's her money) -disturbs her sleep also for stupid and unimportant reasons, which also affects their work performance -it's also surmised, not proven, that they're trying to pit myself, my sister, and my partner against each other in various ways To get into the ultimatum: I've been trying to tell him for months to leave them alone. They clearly don't wish to be a better person, they don't wish to be happier, they don't wish to treat him right, they will not stop. He's been doing this for approx 15 years, it's time to let it go. More recently, I have almost resorted to drastic measures, something I'm not naturally inclined to do. I'm coming out of character, it's not healthy. He and I, though, have a great relationship (which is the basis of the jealousy and projection thereof, and other problems). We take care of each other, help each other financially, and talk about our rare problems like adults, fixing all issues immediately. I respond to his love languages, respect his thoughts and opinions, and do my best to be solace, and he gives the same in return. But, in teaching myself that my needs are also important in response to trauma I've experienced, I'm aware that I deserve peace, respect, and happiness, and am ready to cut off whatever doesn't fit into that. But they and son are a huge part of his life, and I don't want to force him to get rid of that, either. Sorry this is long. As I left out much information, any questions I will answer
I have a kinda sad one. A former girlfriend who I loved and loved me for me was an alcoholic. I was about to break up with her, not wanting to give her an ultimatum because bottom line, a person with an addiction has to quit for themselves. By sheer luck? she was fired from her job and had to move hundreds of miles away back with her parents. She called me a few times from her parents’ house. She did get help eventually and has been sober going on 15 years now. That’s the most important thing. However, I’ve never been able to fall in love again and sometimes wonder what if I’d moved closer to her after she got clean.
Not my wife but her mother told all the men of the family to shave before a family get together for a proper photo I tried to tell her that that was a bad idea She said we all had to just for one year We all received the photo and there I am with my severely scarred up and obviously damaged jaw for all to see. She felt truly awful about it Note: this is the only argument we have ever had, and she was the first person to approve of my wife and I getting married, so no hard feelings
My dad wasn't the best dad- grade a narcist and lies about everything. I have LC with him. However, when my mom was in the process of getting custody of my niece from my half sister on my dad's side who's just as bad as him, he started telling lies to the social worker. Lies that could straight up harm my niece. I called him on the phone and the whole conversation boiled down to this: "Messing with my nieces is an unforgivable offence. It's the one thing I can't look pass unlike all the stuff you pulled during my childhood. I'm an adult now and being in my life is a privilege, not a right. If you keep doing what you're doing, you _will_ lose me over this. And I'm only telling you this to say I gave you an honest warning." Had to go NC for I think 1.5 maybe 2 years. He's earned his way back up to LC.
If someone offers you an ultimatum, you always pick the one they obviously don't want you to. The reason is, if you give in once, they'll give you a second and a third. Never give in to an ultimatum.
Well unless you're that guy who chose the heroin over his girlfriend (twice), or the dad who chose his wife over his daughter who was molested by the wife's brother.
7:00 Animal Allergies === I had to go for an allergic reaction test... the rows of needles OMG the needles didn't hurt the reactions did.... PAIN... The results I am allergic to Dogs and fine with cats... I cannot be around cats, full on allergic reaction... I have lived with several dogs never any reaction... I laughed and told the doc he needs to check his testing equipment as many other test were complete opposites like the cats and Dogs
24:29 so he was part native and bisexual and he cant be racist homophobe? its like saying to african americans that they should stop using n word because its racist
the last story is the one that makes me sad, of course, he must have known that his friend was like that, it seems that he was not a good friend 23 years and now you notice I think you were not a good friend
If anyone tells me there's issues I don't know about a person, but in the same breath tell me they're not willing to tell me what's wrong... yeah, I'm not trusting them.
I have never been given an altimatum. I am not important enough to others for them to find enough value in me to give me any type of choice over them or something else.
16:50 Reddit post:"You can either stop listening to chains of Reddit posts. Or face the consequence of my underwhelmed enthusiasm. You've been warned."
TBH most of these seem like people either already made up their minds, or were trying to controll another person. And I say controll, not change. People that demand unreasonable things don't want you to change, they just want to be able to push you around.
My dad is allergic to cats eyes itchiness the works.... We own 2 cats and he loves his fur babies to death! Everytime he gets put in hospital for health one thing he wants most is his fur babies.. same for mother too
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Recently heard a great expression "Never issue an ultimatum unless you're prepared to face either outcome."
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I don't think I get the reference, you're just quoting a glitch as far as I know, and the first thing in my head was one of these Vinesauce corruption videos going "Pieces of pieces of pieces of one!".
Thank you for confirming that the problem is not my software or my phone but instead somewhere further up the line that is being ignored by management. Too bad we can't threaten that they fix it or we are out of here.
@@deb7122 We have told them to fix it. I've offered to be their proof-listener but nope.
@@Roadent1241 I 'd never blame the poster of such a video because they work too hard to give viewers a good experience. Later on that same day for completely different posters. To me, you are a fine creator and I hope you continue to present interesting videos!
@@deb7122 I'm not convinced these TTS videos are that hard to make, I'm just impressed they ALL seem to have this problem and nobody's sat there for one run through to catch it.
I'd do that and edit the audio file for free and they're ignoring the offer XD
I listen to my audioplays repeatedly and I STILL miss little things like GLaDOS' VA inhaling when I thought I'd sorted all of it, after it's been up for a year XD
Thank you, though I'm not sure what my work personally has to do with anything, especially since I've been making now games than audioplays in the past couple of years.
That one about the open relationship was basically "You either let me cheat on you and be ok with it or im leaving you"
@@TylenOneal239 More likely she had someone lined up, or she was already cheating and didn't want to hide it anymore.
Yeah, horseshoe theory of open relationships. People who are territorial because they think everyone cheats like they themselves do, and people who want open relationships because they want to field test a future partner before committing to the replacement. There's a good middle ground that is becoming more and more uncommon for people to actually be in
Had a boss at Wal-mart tell me to choose between my career or culinary school...
Good thing I'm a chef now!
I hope you got him fired or at least in trouble before you left, what he tried to do is probably illegal or against company policy.
@@pajamas720 The full story is that he wanted me to work days I had school, and I told him that I couldn't since ya know, I had classes. He then told me that ultimatum.
You're the first person to tell me that it was illegal, everyone I've told this too told me that it wasn't illegal.
@@corsaircarl9582 ehh, well with that context it depends, if you had your school time blocked out of your work availability, then yeah its against policy and he had no authority to make you work outside your availability. Either way you made the right choice, im trying to get out of my current job position because im just burnt out from it.
LOL did they REALLY think you would choose goddamn Wal-Mart over culinary school?
What an idiot.
@@82dorrin 20 bucks says he (the manager) did
I once had an abusive ex (so abusive he put me in hospital on multiple occasions) tell me it was either I ‘make a bigger effort with his Mom’ or ‘I won’t have the same relationship with him’. I had literally gifted her a Tiffany necklace the week prior. But he explained how she took him out on a ‘date’, just the two of them, to his favourite restaurant and ‘cried in his arms’ that her marriage was flailing and he was all she had now, but I wasn’t nice enough to her. 🤥🤢🤮
It was like a flip switched and I walked. It took a bit longer to fully eradicate him from my life, and he crawled back into his Mom’s womb.
Oh honey, good for you for getting away from that... that... UGH. Do what you can to keep getting better, and I pray you NEVER have to meet anybody like that again. EVER.
@@Kelaiah01 Thank you for your kind words💗🙏 That time in my life certainly did a job on me, and it took years of therapy and (a few more toxic relationships), to really learn my self worth. But years later I am married to a wonderful man, pregnant with our first, a home owner, with a good career and doctorate…all things I was taught I’d never amount to with that ex. I’m truly grateful that I didn’t fold to that situation.
@@oceana3070 *hug* That's wonderful that you're doing so much better! In fact, a family member of my own had their own toxic ex who kept telling them things like, "You will NEVER do better than me!" only for said family member to do just that: wind up with somebody better.
One thing I've learned from stories like this is to never believe or trust anyone who says things like that.
I hope and pray that the rest of your life continues getting better, that your marriage remains a happy one and that your child grows up happy, healthy and good.
@@Kelaiah01 That means a lot, thank you for your prayers and kindness. That’s rare on the internet! I hope you are also content and well. Know that you’ve made my day, kind stranger! Love from Australia 🌊💗
@@oceana3070 You're welcome, and thank YOU for your own kind words! Love from America! X)
In college I worked in a kitchen in a bar and I saw a stack of applications my boss was looking over to hire for the kitchen. The top of the pile was an application from someone I knew and didn't like. I looked at my boss and said "I'm not trying to tell you who you can or cannot hire, but if you hire that person, I quit". She didn't even hesitate, she grabbed the application and threw it in the trash. I worked at that bar till I graduated.
That boss is an amazing person.
Wow, was that person you didn't like so terrible?
You must’ve been very valued! Good boss
R/ThatHappened
She said “it’s me or the ravioli” and you know what I picked
You chose right, amico. Women are temporary, pasta is forever.
You picked macaroni???
@@cocomo3141 if shes really that jealous or unhappy over pasta, shes too petty to be kept around imo
Ravioli ravioli give me the formuoli
The Warhammer 40k one is probably the most unreasonable. Dude probably spent hours upon hours painting thousands and thousands of dollars worth of miniatures. So giving up all that and the potential to play more in the future? Ha ha yeah right, dude made the right call.
I think that "me or our daughter" is probably, slightly worse.
If they give you the "It's me or the dog" ultimatum, ALWAYS choose the dog.
For starters, dogs will never give you that kind of ultimatum. Also, it will not end with just the dog. It's just the first thin on a never-ending list of things you _must_ change in order for the other person to accept you.
I did. Cookie never lies to me!
If a dog doesn't like someone there are reasons.
@@SylvesterCarl Ofc, but it can be as random as not liking their beard. I have the exact opossite problem: my dog absolutely loves people with poor hygene, many of which give me the creeps; and she can't help but greet them all XD
What if you're severely allergic to dogs?
If my girlfriend ever issues an ultimatum in which I have to either give up something important to me or lose her, I'll go the single route. The choice is not between the item/pet/friend and having a girlfriend. It's "keep what makes you happy" or "lose what you treasure and keep that toxic person who makes such unreasonable demands".
That's pretty much universally true until such thing you love becomes damaging - even if you don't realise it. That's the only thing to look out for. Love video games and play a few hours a night to relax? Unreasonable ultimatum. Love video games and just bought a new console or PC upgrade but now you and your spouse are going to have to scramble for rent money? Reasonable ultimatum.
Exactly. And it never ends with giving up that one thing. It's just the first thing on "The List" of things you have to change or give up entirely for them to accept you. That acceptance gets dangled like a carrot in front of you, but you can never reach it.
The point is always control.
@@gokuxsephiroth4505 Yup, that actually happened with my mate, lol. Things are better now, but yeah, sometimes it's a necessary reality check.
Thing about this ultimatum... ALWAYS choose the thing they want you to get rid of. By doing that you save more heartache down the road.
Well unless you're that guy who chose the heroine over his girlfriend (twice), or the dad who chose his wife over his daughter who was molested by the wife's brother.
Her: It's me or the heroine!
Me: I'm going to save lots of heartache by choosing sweet, sweet, heroine
My husband gave me the ultimatum of "its me or the baby". Our baby was 8-months old at the time and she turned 11-years last Saturday - being a single parent is tough but I have never regretted the decision I made in that moment.
Where did he want her to go
If anyone told me i was a silly child who loves animals more than useless disgusting humans I'd agree with them and thank them for actually knowing who i am.
Let's be fair. Without other "useless disgusting humans" there'd be no surgery for injured pets, no medication, no ready made shelters, no food stuffs, no containers to feed them in, no dry foods, wet foods, seeds. Only what you could make, invent, grow or gather yourself. Whether you like it or not, you live in a world where people you have no respect for supply ALL YOUR NEEDS.
I like the way you think
I'm like 'yea I do' goodbye
Leave anyone that tells you to get rid of a beloved pet. No one that loves you would ever ask you to make that choice. Also do you really want to be with someone that sees a living animal as an object that can be thrown away? A lack of compassion and humanity isn’t a good trait to have in a partner.
My biological father gave my mom the ultimatum it's me or the baby. Being able to share this story should tell you what she picked
Congrats you dodged death before you even know.
@@ceddavis7441 not every dodged death is good. some people would prefer to never be born
@@AlexNona80 you good
@@ceddavis7441 no u
@@AlexNona80 that's not what I meant.
I put the Ultimatum : either you treat me with respect or we're through, so now I'm alone 😁
"It's either me or the dog!" I have never been given this ultimatum, but if given, it's the dog, because clearly, I got in a relationship with the wrong person. My dog is a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. She loves you unconditionally, no matter how you feel about her. If you hate her enough to want her gone, well then you're not the person I thought you were, and you can get the fuck out of my house and my life forever. She still loves you, even if I don't.
So the one with the guy and 2 female f-buddies...One found out the other was using the OP so her gang banger friends could rob him, calls him up, gives him the ultimatum without the context, and then completely blacklisted him from her friends? OP got screwed over by both women. Hope he's doing better, the thief is in jail, and the other one is miserable.
She REALLY should have told him what was going on. If he doesn't believe her and keeps going out with the girl, then it's on him.
@@82dorrin exactly
I can't even fathom her logic it's either "I need to save him from this trashy person who's trying to rob him, but he doesn't need to know she's a trashy person trying to rob him!!" or "I can't tell him why she's a bad person, or she'll retaliate against me".
If it's the former, she's an idiot because, why the hell would he stop hanging with the other girl without knowing what's up.
If it's the latter, she's an idiot because that chick will still target her for disrupting the friendship.
The extremely generous interpretation is that Mary thought OP was in on Lucy’s criminal activities and was too angry to properly explain herself.
Having said that this really feels a lot more like a childish power move. “If you don’t automatically do what I say without needing an explanation then obviously you’re not worthy of me”
Once when I went to a buddy's house he asked me "do you want a meal, a bath, or me?" We both then broke out in laughter. We're still good friends so yeah.
My now husband asked me to rehome my cat. They absolutely HATED each other lol. I didn't because he had some health issues, and he died 2 months after. He later said he should never have asked it of me, that cat was my best friend. I've forgiven him since he realized it was very wrong.
I had 2 close friends who were married to each other. One day, she left him and went states away back home. I knew he had a history of depression so I stayed close to him to make sure he didn't do anything stupid. She began to accuse me of having an affair with him, I was not. He told me that he was thinking about taking her back. I knew how it would play out. She would never let us be friends since she was convinced we were sleeping together (understandable if it had been true). I told him as much. "That's fine, but if you take her back, you know we will never be able to be friends again." I went home and left him to think it over. Honestly, I just wanted them both to be happy. 9 years later, he and I have been married for 7 years and have 3 kids. We are happy, but as far as I can tell (we have no contact with her), she is not.
Sounds more like it was more of a love triangle.
@J. Martinez Definitely not. I had 0 interest in him romanticly before that. After she left and he and I spent some time. I began to realize he was not only a great friend but also a good man. And since we'd been FRIENDS for 14 years already, we both realized the other was exactly what we needed and wanted. So things snowballed rather quickly.
And 14 years was not proof enough? Amazing how the human brain functions.
@Jet I see your point, but we never thought of each other in that light. We were friend zoned, I guess. When we met, I was taken, so I didn't think of him as potential sweetheart material. When I was single, he was married, so I still didn't think of him as potential sweetheart material. When he was going to let her come back, he knew that what I said was true. He then realized he would miss being my friend more than he would miss being married to her. And so he decided to choose our friendship. Only after this process began did we begin to see each other in the light of maybe sweetheart material. And since we'd been friends for so long and had seen sides of each other that are often hidden when dating a person, we knew each other better, and over 14 years of experience we had learned what we REALLY needed and wanted, not what we THOUGHT we needed and wanted. We just hadn't put the pieces together until then. Sure, it's funny how life changes your outlook on things, and even people.
I'm a Christian. Back in 2018 I got my first job as a waiter at what used to be my favorite restaurant. I requested that my days off always be on a Friday and Sunday because those are the days I attend church. The manager told me to choose between work and church. Needless to say I never came in on a Friday and Sunday.
2:24 I had a friend whose girlfriend got jealous of their 4 month old infant baby boy, so when he walked to the shop for 20 minutes, she put him in a big Steel bin on a 34°C day.
Was taken off them as a result,
A fortnight later he was given a house and told he can only have the child if she doesn't know where he lives.
He gets the child, and a week later she is living there.
She made multiple attempts to end that boys life.
Joshua would be about 22 now but I haven't seen them in 16 years.
Lost interest when I started having to pin her down on repeated tantrums, while we waited for the mental health team to take her away.
She was also paranoid schizophrenic. Clinically diagnosed.
I had enough of the BS, when he got into meht then started accusing me of trying to sleep with her.
They both went paranoid.
Always choose the dog/cat over the loser who made the ultimatum.
"Either me or your best friend" and after hearing that I became single again, never regreted a second of my decision, my best friend was going through depression and I was the only person she felt confortable talking to, 6 years later my friend died and my ex came asking forgivness, don't know if it was mature of my part, but I told her to go to hell. No one keeps me from my sister from another mother, hope she is good wherever she is.
"It's either the booze or your kids!"
My dad to my mum after the divorce - she had partial custody (every other weekend), but it ended when she was so drunk she could hardly function. They got into a huge fight and he dropped the above-mentioned line.
She chose the booze - and we never spoke to her again.
“Scott-Free” got me
At the end of my military service my wife said don’t re-sign up.
My leadership asked why I didn’t want to stay.
I told them my wife said no.
My first Sargent told me that my wife was destroying my future.
One of the Sargent told him “you know that new civilian female doctor that works at the hospital. That’s his wife”.
When someone says that for trivial matters it's a deal breaker!
9:22 seems like the dog made the right choice.
She just had to catch up.
Dude, if cats could demand human sacrifice, their owners would totally oblige them.
How can you even be a human being if you logically think that asking your husband to pick between you and the child you gave birth to is okay? There’s too many undiagnosed sociopaths in this world and too many unfit mothers
If a person you’re dating tells you it’s me or whatever little thing you enjoy, pick the thing on the grounds it’s weird they’re asking you that in the first place.
In 2006 I had a gf that tried to stop me being in contact with a few of my exes.
We were all totally platonic friends and my gf tried telling me I had no history before her.
Told her that if she has problems with insecurities, then that's not my problem and if she tries to get me to choose between her and them, then she will lose on principal.
Just because previous relationships didn't work out, doesn't mean people can't still be friends.
She found out what it was like because we remained friends for another 14 years till she tried another ultimatum.
I live by certain principles and refuse to accept others dictating my life.
Never cheated and prefer women as friends rather than men.
A neighbour tried getting me into her bed for nearly 4 years, till I had enough and just quit the friendship.
I'm asexual and aromatic. My relationships have never been based on sex, and while it may have had some fun aspects, it was more like a chore.
Not my fault if people can't think outside their own thick head. Accusing me of intending to cheat is a deal breaker.
I've been single and sexless since 2006 and do not miss it.
I'd rather be washing dishes.
This reminds me of when I told some of my coworkers about how a family friend's ex's were all still good friends with each other. Everyone looked as if this guy had broken some ancient taboo. People seem to forget that leaving a romantic relationship on good terms is an option.
Nah it’s always weird to be friends with an ex. That’s toxic 💀
I'm friends with a few of my exes. Just because we didn't work out romantically doesn't mean I have to hate them.
@@tobisupersmart Why is it "weird" and/or "toxic"?
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My ex made me decide between her or my Nintendo Switch. The choice was obviously the Switch, and I still use that same console 3 years later
Knew a girl, we were not even dating. She wanted me to sell my camaro which I had bought less than 6 months before so I could get a big suv. I hate suvs. The reason, so she could take her friends to the mall. Seriously, who goes to the mall all day in 2002/2003? It is me or the car. Didn't look at her, just said, there's the door. Even if I had been dating her I would not have given that car up. Brand new car, 0% interest, and I LOVED that car. Sadly I had it just under 10 years before a mechanic killed the engine.
My wife told me it's either my car or her. I called her bluff, got to keep both.
19:00 I’m sorry, but I can’t take anyone who unironically says “my rivals” about prople they didn’t get on well with in school seriously. That kinda talk just makes me think of Pokémon, and/or how a relative used to claim he had “a rival” in school….in 1st grade…..
That man saw the Emperor's light.
To be fair I would dump someone for listening to enter Shikari, I wouldn't even give an ultimatum.
Ex wife cheated three times and told me in a big fight. I said “alright you have a choice now, you promise right here and now that I’ll be your only one, and I yours for the rest of our natural lives or I can pack my stuff leave and you’ll see me a max of two more times in our lives.” She said “I’m done” I said “I am too” I packed all my clothes in under an hour went to the pantry and took half of all our food and walked out…
Two years have passed and I’m still happily single and I’m moving in a few months to what’s Idaho it’s known to some members in my church as BYUIdo even though I’m there primarily to do and finish school. Idk if I naturally can trust anyone so it will take a long friendship to have me want to go on dates.
I swear if I ever get myself unstable girlfriend as she tries to make me pick her or something else I like and threatens to kill herself I've been like "go ahead the world can use less people like you" I'm not a emotionless person and if there's signs that say I can fix her then I will pursue it but if she refuses any help I was just simply Let Her Go don't care if she goes through with the threat or not even if it's in front of me it's her problem not mine
Yeah you say you will do that but in reality you will probably not, cause when it boils down to it most people will stay
@@DonutMT true.
@@DonutMT yeah true, id rather not be held accountable for manslaughter, but ill also have long been looking for an out by then.
yeah that lucy one was screwed up. "I am giving an ultimatum of either her or us! oh by the way just take my word she is bad news but I'm not actually going to say what she's done! don't believe me? well good luck then!" why couldn't she have explained why lucy was no good?
Probably because she's a coward, at least that's what I get from how she worded things. Basically her and her group figured out Lucy was getting close to OP as way to find out if he and his friends have valuable shit so they can fleece them for it. But given the fact of how organized Lucy's group seems to be they are probably violent and will want revenge if they figure out who snitched on them, so Mary decides she doesn't want to risk getting curb stomped by them if she tells OP as they will likely figure out it's her that told him. So instead of growing a spine or actually caring about protecting her friend, she instead calls up out of nowhere and precedes to vaguely allude to Lucy being sketchy without giving context as to why so OP won't leak the info. She then gives the ultimatum to OP thinking that she's given a good enough warning so he'll take the hint and cut her off, that doesn't happen obviously since OP has no context as to whats going on.
Realizing her warning didn't work Mary proceeds to then cut ties with OP and gives him another vague warning before throwing him to the wolves and getting his shit stolen, she then blacklists OP and has all her friends do the same so she and them can have plausible deniability but not associating with OP in case Lucy and her crew ever become suspicious. This is just what I think happened given how she worded things, either that or she's just retarded and thought OP would just randomly take her advice for no reason. Either way she's an asshole for screwing him over like that.
"You either give me the last slice of cake or no sex" cake was good.
Jr high I had 2 friends that didn't like each other. Both told me to chose being friends with one of them and drop the other. I refused, if they didn't want to hang out that's fine, I could do stuff with them separately. Not much later they became friends and dropped me.
Me and my pets are a package, if you don't like them, you don't like me
If my boyfriend told me he was a cross dresser, there wouldn't be an ultimatum, I would just tell him to keep his panties, I'm out, easy decision 👍
Given everything I've seen here, i think i will enjoy my fate of loneliness
It's not as bad as people want us to believe it is...
I will choose the same
Cockatiel block! Not cool bro!
"Either 40K or Me" ?
If it was me I'd ask to join
This Sister of Battle is ready to purge some heretics
In the thumbnail pick look at how happy this dog looks 😁😁
@19:07 Mary could have told OP instead of playing mind games. Both Mary and Lucy are assholes. Like she didn't saying or give him a freaking reason just expect him to call off a friendship with no reason and looking like an AH later. Than Mary after giving no info just let things play out still believe she was in the right.
Our dog didn't like my sister's boyfriend. It didn't matter at all what he did for her; she just didn't like him. Turned out he was a selfish a******. Our dog like her current boyfriend, although she (the dog) passed a few years ago. Still, given her judgement on the old boyfriend, I'm inclined to trust her (the dog's) judgement on the new/current boyfriend.
She was a breed that regards everyone as a new potential best friend and loves everyone. The fact that she couldn't love this ex BF of my sister was a clue that there was something wrong that only she could detect.
People that make you pick are people not worth picking
Not always. Some people need to get priorities straight. Ultimatums are an extreme form of relationship management and should only be used for serious things like addictions or someone getting involved in a scam/cult.
@@jimdob6528 true, but realistically nearly any ultimatum is just "we're through" but with extra steps. Exception being to keep them from doing something stupid and spur of the moment, but otherwise theres already baggage and resentment thats not gonna go away easily, or their in whatevers causing the problem way deep.
@@jimdob6528 So, one adult gets to tell another adult how they should live their life?
If they want to get addicted or into cult life so much, what right do you have to tell them not to.
just messing with ya, someone can end a relationship over everything they want and some people are not good at decision making. Your points are valid.
18:43 well that was kinda dickish. You know she’s a bad person, yet you don’t tell the potential victim about it? Instead you have to be vague and let this guy fall victim when you could have stopped it. She’s as much of a bad guy in this than the actual thieves.
Him or the cats. He's my ex now. If your animals don't like the new person, believe them.
I'm not knocking cat moms or dog dad's. But just because a pet doesn't like someone doesn't mean that person is a bad person? I mean I know some great people who have met pets that don't like them just because for no reason.
Animals are excellent judges of character. Congrats on making the right choice! My husband made a similar choice years ago with his toxic ex that cheated on him. When they were dividing their assets he said I’ll buy you out of everything else - house, car, whatever. But the 2 dogs are mine.
I've been liked by nearly all animals I've come in contact with. Hand fed wild brolgas. Rehabilitated a young eagle. Nursed injured galahs, and released them well into the wild again. All before the age of 10. But there are some animals which haven't taken to me, and sometimes it's not ME but how the owner views me. Dogs particularly pick up on that. If the owner is hostile or doesn't like you, you can bet the dog responds the same way. I prefer cats as domestic pets.
@@oceana3070 youre forgetting pets are their own personality too. Ive had dogs approach me in a friendly way and dogs not wanna approach anyone because theyre just shy or scared. Cats almost never sit down long enough for me to pet them lol.
I'm thinking about giving an ultimatum myself.
I (20sF) unwittingly joined a polyamorous relationship, the two I fraternize with most being 48M (my actual romantic partner) and 34 Trans (fem born, masc ID, will go into pertinent detail, will refer to them as they/them ofc).
Before I begin, I believe mental health issues are real, and that trauma lasts as long as one is alive. I also believe that it's up to the individual to make sure trauma doesn't dictate their life after it's over.
To make a long story short, here are some of their "crimes:"
Things they do that terrorize everyone:
-alcoholism, with denial of its existence
-neglect of their child, with denial of its existence
-tantrums over situations of their own making
-switching gender to suit their needs (which I think is an affront to all trans ppl, none of my trans friends do this, whether ftm or mtf)
-general misery that they drag others into
-picking low-iq fights, then twisting to make others seem the villain
Things my partner has suffered at their hands
-being accused of raep, even though they were the one who climbed on top
-verbally and physically assaulted on a regular basis
-regular slander behind his back to ppl he may or may not know, made worse by the fact that they accuse him of neglecting them
-ruining jobs/job opportunities, and while I was unemployed, he had to push himself to exhaustion to keep us afloat (am employed again myself), made worse by the fact that they wake him up for unimportant reasons almost nightly
-cheating on the whole polyamory group, him suffering the worst as calculated
-picking low-iq fights, then twisting to make him seem the villain
-emotional blackmail, manipulation, abuse
Things they have done to me personally:
-ageism based jealousy slander, to ppl I also don't know, while acknowledging I'm one of the nicest ppl they know
-ageism-based downplaying of my intelligence to go with their (trauma-based) nice equals doormat mindset
-Light mistreatment of the household cat (we all call him "mine," since I took up financial responsibility for him)
-projection (OOF, the protection) of every possible problem they have onto me (for example, they accuse me of jealousy, but they're smart enough to, for instance, not accuse me of alcoholism cuz that would be impossible as I don't drink often)
Things they've done to MY SISTER:
-stolen my sister's alcoholic beverages out of her personal mini fridge IN HER ROOM (then tried to downplay it as if it was out of a household fridge in a household kitchen, they were called out on it)
-accused my sister of selfishness for not getting door dash/Uber eats for everyone (it's her lunch for work, and even if it wasn't, it's her money)
-disturbs her sleep also for stupid and unimportant reasons, which also affects their work performance
-it's also surmised, not proven, that they're trying to pit myself, my sister, and my partner against each other in various ways
To get into the ultimatum:
I've been trying to tell him for months to leave them alone. They clearly don't wish to be a better person, they don't wish to be happier, they don't wish to treat him right, they will not stop. He's been doing this for approx 15 years, it's time to let it go. More recently, I have almost resorted to drastic measures, something I'm not naturally inclined to do. I'm coming out of character, it's not healthy. He and I, though, have a great relationship (which is the basis of the jealousy and projection thereof, and other problems). We take care of each other, help each other financially, and talk about our rare problems like adults, fixing all issues immediately. I respond to his love languages, respect his thoughts and opinions, and do my best to be solace, and he gives the same in return. But, in teaching myself that my needs are also important in response to trauma I've experienced, I'm aware that I deserve peace, respect, and happiness, and am ready to cut off whatever doesn't fit into that. But they and son are a huge part of his life, and I don't want to force him to get rid of that, either.
Sorry this is long. As I left out much information, any questions I will answer
It's ether me or the race car,she's a better driver than me,lol,relationship goals.
15:00 That has to be my favorite hands down. Haha
I’m allergic to cats and my bf has two. I take Benadryl before I go over. 😊
"He just got arrested for trying to hire someone to kill his mother-in-law..."
Who hasn't done that at least once?
17:04 Lol robot voice had a stroke
If someone gave me an ultimatum, it's a deal breaker.
He picked the bird, legend
I have a kinda sad one. A former girlfriend who I loved and loved me for me was an alcoholic. I was about to break up with her, not wanting to give her an ultimatum because bottom line, a person with an addiction has to quit for themselves. By sheer luck? she was fired from her job and had to move hundreds of miles away back with her parents. She called me a few times from her parents’ house. She did get help eventually and has been sober going on 15 years now. That’s the most important thing. However, I’ve never been able to fall in love again and sometimes wonder what if I’d moved closer to her after she got clean.
Not my wife but her mother told all the men of the family to shave before a family get together for a proper photo
I tried to tell her that that was a bad idea
She said we all had to just for one year
We all received the photo and there I am with my severely scarred up and obviously damaged jaw for all to see.
She felt truly awful about it
Note: this is the only argument we have ever had, and she was the first person to approve of my wife and I getting married, so no hard feelings
Lol the pulp story .
My dad wasn't the best dad- grade a narcist and lies about everything. I have LC with him. However, when my mom was in the process of getting custody of my niece from my half sister on my dad's side who's just as bad as him, he started telling lies to the social worker. Lies that could straight up harm my niece. I called him on the phone and the whole conversation boiled down to this:
"Messing with my nieces is an unforgivable offence. It's the one thing I can't look pass unlike all the stuff you pulled during my childhood. I'm an adult now and being in my life is a privilege, not a right. If you keep doing what you're doing, you _will_ lose me over this. And I'm only telling you this to say I gave you an honest warning."
Had to go NC for I think 1.5 maybe 2 years. He's earned his way back up to LC.
If someone offers you an ultimatum, you always pick the one they obviously don't want you to. The reason is, if you give in once, they'll give you a second and a third. Never give in to an ultimatum.
Well unless you're that guy who chose the heroin over his girlfriend (twice), or the dad who chose his wife over his daughter who was molested by the wife's brother.
@@dragonlord3376 so it's more specificly "ultimatum over something trivial"
I’d pick my cat every time. 😊
7:00 Animal Allergies === I had to go for an allergic reaction test... the rows of needles OMG the needles didn't hurt the reactions did.... PAIN... The results I am allergic to Dogs and fine with cats... I cannot be around cats, full on allergic reaction... I have lived with several dogs never any reaction... I laughed and told the doc he needs to check his testing equipment as many other test were complete opposites like the cats and Dogs
It's me or the ps5? Now queue up the song!
24:29 so he was part native and bisexual and he cant be racist homophobe? its like saying to african americans that they should stop using n word because its racist
the last story is the one that makes me sad, of course, he must have known that his friend was like that, it seems that he was not a good friend 23 years and now you notice I think you were not a good friend
If anyone tells me there's issues I don't know about a person, but in the same breath tell me they're not willing to tell me what's wrong... yeah, I'm not trusting them.
10:27 He chose the emperor.
With extremely insecure people it is Never Enough... nothing is ever enough.
9:19 if a dog doesn't like you, you're probably a bad person because dogs are amazing judges of character
Here we go
I have never been given an altimatum. I am not important enough to others for them to find enough value in me to give me any type of choice over them or something else.
“Give her money”… why are you paying for some adult women’s shopping?
14:53 that is perobably the most wholeseme story in this video :)
16:50 Reddit post:"You can either stop listening to chains of Reddit posts. Or face the consequence of my underwhelmed enthusiasm. You've been warned."
Okay but 14:55 is cute bc he included her in the other option. Not that this would work with every situation like this.
If a girl ever sais "it's me or the" SHE GAWN!!! Especially if she wants me to get rid of my horror masks and statues
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Mary really should have elaborated a little more, but i suppose it's good she tried to warn him. Sad story
i kept my dog and cat, and she went back to Tucson.
TBH most of these seem like people either already made up their minds, or were trying to controll another person. And I say controll, not change. People that demand unreasonable things don't want you to change, they just want to be able to push you around.
My dad is allergic to cats eyes itchiness the works.... We own 2 cats and he loves his fur babies to death! Everytime he gets put in hospital for health one thing he wants most is his fur babies.. same for mother too
you know.... those are two.
what did you feed your cat to get it to live 26 years
for those that don't know, 26 in cat years is 120
That cat could not have lasted 25 years.
I had one that lived for 20yrs. She was spoiled rotten.
I have a cat, I'm allergic to cats but I'll be damned if I'm going to abandon her. I definitely like animals more than people.
13:38 should’ve picked the fight
17:05 why do these videos stutter? This is far from the first video to do it, and all by the same computerized voice.
The only time when it's me or _______ is appropriate is when an addiction is involved. Such as drugs alcohol or gambling.
17:03
those are two those are two those are two those are two those are two those are two those are two those are two those are two those are two well done!
FIRST! never clicked on a video so fast lol
Damn it
@@LeonJaden :)
it's me or the ps5