Sister Wives Recap Season 19 Ep 8 Pt 2/4

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  • @allisonyoung7604
    @allisonyoung7604 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Every time Kody says someone was not loyal to him or betrayed him I always recognize it as him projecting what he has done to the OG wives and kids. He is the one who was not loyal and who betrayed his family.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Yes! These men are some of the worst projectors I’ve ever seen.

  • @cheyenne_spring
    @cheyenne_spring 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Janelle is direct and to the point. I think she really measures her words. She is my favourite.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She’s my favorite too. I agree with almost everything she says.

  • @LSmith-cu8kv
    @LSmith-cu8kv 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Janelle is Kody’s victim. He stole everything from her. He life. Her love. Her money.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree

    • @janetpipkins999
      @janetpipkins999 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes but remember, she had to have him. She slept in a tent on his father’s land after she divorced Meri’s brother. That’s when she hooked up with Kody. And remember, according to Kody, the woman had to show interest in him first because men aren’t supposed to go shopping for a new wife, according to their church. So she probably pursued him first. And her mother married Kody’s father. So I imagine that it would be difficult to just walk away for her. Also I think that’s why she refuses to say that she is divorced from Kody because that would make divorce number 2 for her.

    • @wallaceshotwell8168
      @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I fear for her resolve to follow through in getting what she’s owed

  • @jenhalpin
    @jenhalpin 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Regarding the victim card, Narcissists tattle on themselves.

  • @LoveAndLight1968
    @LoveAndLight1968 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Cody said that Janelle was mean to Robin in that conversation there was no meanness but there became meanness when she told the story to Cody.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That’s exactly how it happens.

  • @wallaceshotwell8168
    @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Corey is the perfect partner in these chats. I swear just watching his face says more than words would sometimes. Very funny expressive looks.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂 He’s my favorite

  • @michellestreeter0514
    @michellestreeter0514 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    4:54 on the show, Meri paid out of her budget for Leon’s school instead of taking from the family account, Meri paid for her house overages, and Meri also kicked up for Aspyn’s wedding because Aspyn was worried about going over budget. So although she did the same amount, she says that she didn’t tap into the family budgeted money.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      That’s nice to hear. Meri is one of my favorites

    • @maureenmiller-delisle2505
      @maureenmiller-delisle2505 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@NotestoSelf444Meri has always been my favorite

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ I love her too

    • @michellestreeter0514
      @michellestreeter0514 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I definitely have a soft spot for Meri and give her a lot of grace. You can see where she struggles with the religious indoctrination and following her heart. She’s got a strong personality, but so do I, so I get her.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ me too 🥰

  • @Rainbow_Indigo
    @Rainbow_Indigo 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    She’s not playing a victim card he has victimized her taking money that was far and away Hers may be up to twice. And then he has the audacity to say that she looks at him as a resource when she has given everything to the family and sacrificed the most of everybody and if she’s crying some tears over a lost relationship. Then let her it was her life, and this man has blown apart her family. I mean, they may come back together, but it will never be the same without Garrison.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s heartbreaking ❤️‍🩹

  • @janeashley4920
    @janeashley4920 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The “Sacred Cow” will forever live in my brain and make me laugh 😂

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@janeashley4920 it’s such a great analogy

  • @kaymcintyre452
    @kaymcintyre452 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I can understand your anger toward your Mom, but she was taught this was her ticket to heaven. She was a victim of the AUB cult.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Yes, I agree too. As I’ve gotten older I’ve come to realize that more and more. As a younger girl I didn’t know.

  • @KimTapley-m6z
    @KimTapley-m6z 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I think that Cody wanted Janelle to come back to him for his ego, but said it was all a ruse after she rejected him.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think so too

    • @jananderson5712
      @jananderson5712 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I wonder if Kody thought Janelle would just sit in the shadows waiting for him to show her any attention like Meri had done but as soon as he feels Janelle is moving away from the relationship he panics and tries to reel her back in.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So how can these women trust him. He constantly does that. But they’re the betrayers

  • @cheryla596
    @cheryla596 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Love your show and insights. Interesting when you said you were more mad at your mom than your dad. To me, it seems the women are more even more ‘trapped’ and beat down because they are so brainwashed. No power, little or no income, religious threats (no heaven) and been taught since they were young to be submissive and quiet. Doesn’t seem fair to blame the moms more than the men. The whole system is to blame sadly

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, I agree too. As I’ve gotten older I’ve come to realize that more and more. As a younger girl I didn’t know.

  • @bkelleym
    @bkelleym 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks for a nice mix of pointing out some positives about the kids and O3. You have such a unique perspective on the whole thing. ❤😂🎉

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Glad you enjoyed it! Welcome 🥰

  • @Whiskeyriver714
    @Whiskeyriver714 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The grumpy (honest) you is very refreshing to watch. I’m hoping the longer the OG3 is out of this cult, the better perspective they will have.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haha thank you 🥰🥰 I hope they do too.

  • @eydiefalkenhagen4434
    @eydiefalkenhagen4434 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for your honest opinion about Meri's unfair consumption of the family's resources. That has always been my opinion too.
    I guess Robyn followed suit.

  • @cindymartin6739
    @cindymartin6739 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Cory’s comments crack me up. Put it on a sweatshirt and start selling merch.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Haha great idea! We will start with the Lot Lizard 😂😂

  • @anaesquibel4379
    @anaesquibel4379 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My mom tried pounding in my head that people will do to you, what you allow them to do to you!
    Great advice!
    Took me getting into my forties to finally get it through my thick skull!
    She was 100% correct!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love that! It is so true. I am so happy you found that part for yourself.

  • @kalan.4656
    @kalan.4656 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Janelle should have put Kootie on the spot and asked him...why would i want to work it out, when you've told the world you don't love me. What other reason would i want to do it for? For you to save face. . I DON'T THINK SO!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I would love to see a scene like that!

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know. They never come back at him. It must be the indoctrination

    • @lolabunny9013
      @lolabunny9013 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think Janelle refrains becaue she still has money tied up with his finances. If she says the brutal truth he would treat her like an enemy. He got offended she refused so he says I don’t have to and I don’t care., so he will retaliate.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ I think you are spot on.

  • @rickredmon6122
    @rickredmon6122 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Awesome that your Mom watched with you. It adds another layer of validity to help me understand the mindset of this show and the lifestyle.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thanks, she tries to be very supportive. She knows how we all feel & she’s apologetic for the parts she played.

  • @MichelleLeeB73
    @MichelleLeeB73 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just want to thank you for your honesty in these videos. I grew up in a monogamous lifestyle, but I grew up with a narcissistic and abusive stepfather and a doormat mother. I have spent so many years feeling so angry at my mom for what she allowed to happen in our household. It just felt so good to hear someone else who sees where a child could have issues with the person allowing the abuse more than the abuser. I just wanted to let you know how much that resonated with me. Thank you!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m so happy! Thank you for sharing that. Welcome to our channel 🥰🥰

    • @MichelleLeeB73
      @MichelleLeeB73 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@NotestoSelf444 thank you!

  • @kalan.4656
    @kalan.4656 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Everyone complains about Sobyn's eyebrows and I'm sure she has heard, yet she has done nothing different. Makes me wonder if they might be tattooed on. Or maybe she has one of those eyebrow templates and she just colors in the templates.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s crazy to me. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @allisonyoung7604
    @allisonyoung7604 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I am so excited you have your Christmas decorations up already. So are mine and my family teases me constantly. Not going to change🤣❤️. I still celebrate Thanksgiving but it is a day… Christmas is a season. 🙏❤️

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Happy holidays! I totally agree. 🎄

  • @maurymoore1439
    @maurymoore1439 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m so glad I’ve found your channel, thank you so very much for being willing to help us all understand the challenges and difficulties you both personally were raised in and seeing that you broke free and had the ability to choose a different path for yourselves and your family is amazing. There is so much suffering especially for the children and getting to hear the trap of polygamy from you two is very refreshing and eye opening.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you & Welcome 🥰🥰

  • @Nightbird1914
    @Nightbird1914 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Remember Robyn said her mother told her she was the scapegoat of the Brown family.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh brother to that statement by her mom.

  • @jananderson5712
    @jananderson5712 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I watched a video where one of the children said her parents were bad with money, I think she was referring to Kody as I know Janelle was the sensible one about finances.

    • @JMP829
      @JMP829 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Think this kid was talking about Kody & Robyn

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That would make sense

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      How sad is that for your children to have that opinion of you?

  • @kalan.4656
    @kalan.4656 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Divide the family money by the total number of family members. (23) Then give to the mothers accordingly. If a mother has 6 kids and herself, then she gets 7/23 of the money. There is two in Meri's. Then she gets 2/23 . And Kody needs to share is part with each wife equally in some way. After all they are feeding and housing him. He doesn't get his part all to himself.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree. It should be per wife. Thats just not fair.

  • @snappyturtle260
    @snappyturtle260 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I think it was a couch confessional that was later pulled off air that Janelle talked about the house they lived in, in Utah was hers, and she wanted to use that money to open a gym, & Kody was onboard with that as a family business. But Robin wanted her idea of Sisterwives Closet and suddenly that’s what Kody wanted so that’s where Janelle’s house $$ went. That to me was the first concrete example of Robyn’s control/influence over Kody.
    Then when they were trying to get into the Vegas houses Janelle cashed in her 401k to pay off Robyn’s 35k in credit card debt to improve her odds of qualifying for her house. Robyn said this was her ex-husbands debt but the rumors are that it was Target & Victoria Secret credit cards. Which sounds more like where she would be shopping. She also changed her story about why she left her ex. At one point she said it was because he didn’t want polygamy, then it gradually became about his bad treatment of her & the kids.

    • @mackenzie-heathermackenzie909
      @mackenzie-heathermackenzie909 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It was pulled off air?

    • @snappyturtle260
      @snappyturtle260 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ there was a whole tell all pulled from one of the early seasons. Content providers have posted clips but nobody has found the original tell all. I forget what season it was & I don’t have time to go look but I saw the clips where they discussed this & other topics Kody didn’t like

  • @mackenzie-heathermackenzie909
    @mackenzie-heathermackenzie909 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Kody has always had half-cocked ideas about "investments" and "assets". I think he views himself as a savvy investor even though his ideas aren't even clearly laid out. I also suspect that he may have some gambling issue based on how often he's photographed in casinos in Vegas. I also think it's laughable about how Kody talks about school and weddings as most of his kids got scholarships or TLC likely paid the wedding bills

  • @TulipsandCats
    @TulipsandCats 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think a lot of viewers suspected the manipulation throughout the years. Yet we are watching a culture that is unfamiliar to us and sometimes that creates uncertainty to what is acceptable to the polygamous culture.
    I was laughing when you said that your mom left your house when it was decorated for Halloween and came back to it decorated for Christmas. I hope it was a nice visit!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@TulipsandCats haha my mom stays with me frequently since my disabled brother passed. She lives about 2 hrs away from us so she comes up for weekend visits quite frequently.

  • @krnstc
    @krnstc 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    lol The eyebrows are their own character!!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@krnstc yes they really are 😂

  • @Goofy4Goofy
    @Goofy4Goofy 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Browbeaten… I’m dying! 😂

  • @MystycRayne
    @MystycRayne 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Robyn has Kody wrapped around....well, not her finger. But a different body part. 😁😁

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😳😳😂

    • @janeashley4920
      @janeashley4920 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      She carries his balls around in her purse 😂

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@janeashley4920 😂😂

    • @maureenmiller-delisle2505
      @maureenmiller-delisle2505 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@janeashley4920hilarious 😅😅😂😂

  • @NikkiLovesYouLotsx
    @NikkiLovesYouLotsx 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your guys sense of humour 😂 you have me laughing so much

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you 🥰 Welcome

  • @wallaceshotwell8168
    @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Empty nest can be the WORST. Holidays in particular. My kid is very close to us but he’s got his own place now and it’s just not the same. I’ve downsized all my decorations because it was magic I made for him, now it’s all grown up. Love his dog and sit for her but it’s not the same as a “people grand baby “. lol new traditions still in the work in progress stage. Now I’m ready to get the Christmas stuff out.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@wallaceshotwell8168 yea it’s been weird. I’m excited about this next chapter with Cory but I’ve been taking care of children since I was 5-6 yrs old. I’m learning how to spend this extra time I have. I’ve NEVER had free time in my life before.

    • @wallaceshotwell8168
      @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’ll be fine! You guys have found your “thing” together and that’s key. But giving yourself permission to use free time just for you is hard as a mom. I’m just figuring it out. Luckily it seems like we both have good relationships with our kids. Close by and still wanting to come raid my fridge.

  • @maureenmiller-delisle2505
    @maureenmiller-delisle2505 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Janelles 401 K paid off Robyn’s $30,000 credit card debt

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That’s crazy!! And Robyn doesn’t understand where Janelle feels like she would be paid back? Makes zero sense.

    • @maureenmiller-delisle2505
      @maureenmiller-delisle2505 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ Robyn is a taker and not a giver! Nor does she know how to be appreciative, grateful, or thankful! I’ve never once heard Robyn thank Janelle or Meri for helping to pay off her loans so she could purchase home in Vegas and then the down payment for Flagstaff home! She acts like they didn’t helping her in a big way! Makes me sick how she can be so ungrateful

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ I agree

  • @Nightbird1914
    @Nightbird1914 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think Meri’s perspective has changed. She seems to have adapted to small quarters to live in now.

  • @jadap4325
    @jadap4325 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes the equal amount of time is where it started and when Robyn told Kody she didn’t want to hurt the OG3. When he told her that she took it and ran with it. He gave her permission then to do as she pleased and she became even more inconsiderate from then on.

  • @sandragill9916
    @sandragill9916 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Notice robyn had new lashes though

  • @wallaceshotwell8168
    @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    And when she drilled into her kids to call Kody dad/daddy while they were courting. They have a dad and I think that whole thing was just awful

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too. I never told my children they had to call Cory dad.

  • @kaymcintyre452
    @kaymcintyre452 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Be sure to listen to Kate Casey podcast interview with Janelle released today!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I will! Thank you so much.

    • @laurieerickson7205
      @laurieerickson7205 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I was disappointed in the audio quality/phone connection.
      Janelle seems to be lying low regarding K&R - there were a few things she was almost an apologist about them for.
      However, Janelle believed in polygamy as a lifestyle and says she still practices the tenets of the religion. I guess I’d like to hear what other people have to say - I just finished it and maybe Janelle has a reason to restrain her opinion as of this morning, she has always been pragmatic. I heard none of the points she made, like she had on the recent episode..

    • @cynthial.seagren560
      @cynthial.seagren560 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Do you have a link?

    • @laurieerickson7205
      @laurieerickson7205 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ I don’t & usually TH-cam won’t allow it - Google Kate Casey Reality Life Podcast

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@cynthial.seagren560 yea I tried to find it & I don’t see it.

  • @valadia4715
    @valadia4715 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So true!

  • @marybrown2230
    @marybrown2230 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Maybe TLC did her eyebrows on purpose.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That would be so mean. 🤦🏽‍♀️🥺

  • @wallaceshotwell8168
    @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂😂😂🤫 Id bet anything it’s the makeup artist!!!! I hate that I love that so much. I mean I have zero eyebrows so I have no room to talk but I do know that less is more.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Those just look like strips of paint though & way too big for her face. That would be so bad if it was the makeup artists 😳😂

  • @janeashley4920
    @janeashley4920 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So was Kody staying at Robyn’s house every 4th night before they married? I thought that would be a big No No 🤔

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@janeashley4920 I’ve heard he did that too. Thats a huge No No

    • @Sail392
      @Sail392 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      He did that but SHE wouldn’t move in with Jenelle bc they weren’t married yet lol

  • @hollishaley-o5u
    @hollishaley-o5u 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would have told Kody that I would talk about who I wanted to whether he liked it or not. At least Janelle spoke her truth about Robyn. He just didn’t want to hear it.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Janelle doesn’t like confrontation. That’s are the most abused women in this religion.

  • @southerngoddessyall
    @southerngoddessyall 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love yall show you and your husband make me laugh lol ty for that .. i have a question about sw since cody was ex communicated wouldnt that make his other spiritual marriages void ????

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for watching. I don’t think he’s been ex communicated. They just left the church. But yes if he was ex’d then the marriages would be released

    • @southerngoddessyall
      @southerngoddessyall 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@NotestoSelf444 ty so much for getting back to me that so nice of u im trying to start my own podcast about different topics it will be up soon hugs

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ that is awesome! Please let us know when you are up & going & we will check it out.

    • @southerngoddessyall
      @southerngoddessyall 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@NotestoSelf444 i will for sure if i should need any help may i call on you for help im so new to this

  • @lashonda4039
    @lashonda4039 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You made the point that Janelle wasn't raised to know how to be manipulative. Kody was raised to be a ass to his wives and kids either till Robyn came along and said no this is not how you are supposed to act in my opinion she created the monster

  • @theresasmith1911
    @theresasmith1911 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kody doesn't allow Robin to have friends. Her eyebrows use to look even worse.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh wow I can’t even imagine they could get worse.

  • @wallaceshotwell8168
    @wallaceshotwell8168 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What DO women who leave do to start over financially? And honestly that kind of thing isn’t exclusive to a religious cult,it happens all the time to women. Finances cause women to stay in abusive relationships far far more than any of us know.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@wallaceshotwell8168 I worked 3 jobs when I left. I didn’t graduate high school because I got married a week after I turned 17. So I went & got my diploma too. A lot of women heavily depend on family & friends to help them get out.

  • @snappyturtle260
    @snappyturtle260 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Robin talked about the advice her mom gave her to be a happy polygamy wife. Her job is to make everyday feel like they are still on their honeymoon for her husband. If she does that she will always be in favor.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@snappyturtle260 that’s not very good or solid advice

    • @snappyturtle260
      @snappyturtle260 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ No it wasn’t, but I think that became part of her long game to gain influence and control over Kody. Feeding his ego by treating him like the king.

  • @mackenzie-heathermackenzie909
    @mackenzie-heathermackenzie909 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As realtors, wouldn't it have been cheaper for them to pay off coyote pass when Robyn needed a new house and build than to buy a million dollar mansion? Or years later, the two million dollar mansion?

  • @debraearl699
    @debraearl699 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Cody sucks!!!!!!!!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I tend to agree, especially these last few episodes

  • @Nightbird1914
    @Nightbird1914 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do you think the OG3 would have had the courage to leave if there had been no tv show?

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Most women don't. They just learn to live in the abusive situation. I think the show gave them so many more options that most women just don't have.

  • @pyewacketpeggy8329
    @pyewacketpeggy8329 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sorry. I disagree. Christine and Janelle went out and had six kids each they could not afford or nurture. Meri put more miner than she earned than they contributed to her. Christine never really worked. Meri also paid most of Leon's tuition. She does not owe those women anything, especially the way they demeaned her.

    • @Sail392
      @Sail392 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Meri would have had ten kids if she’d been able. She didn’t choose smarter. It’s all one family that provides for the children equally or it’s three families living in one house. Either is fine. But Meri shouldn’t lie about it was one big family when there were three separate families with three separate incomes and three separate standards of living and the kids could see it.

    • @pyewacketpeggy8329
      @pyewacketpeggy8329 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ What has Meri received from this great family? Janelle and Christine have treated her like dirt. Especially Janelle who dumped Meri’s brother and tried to marry Kody on Meri’s birthday.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Great explanation!

    • @Sail392
      @Sail392 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@pyewacketpeggy8329What should they give Meri? She got 1/3 of the money when Christine and Jenelle’s kids were eating stale bread. She wrote in the book that she didn’t shop with them bc she and her child prefer “fresh food” and the others bought a lot of processed food. That’s not a family to feed one child a nutritious diet and 11 other children get Costco chicken nuggets for a fancy meal and stale pastries the rest of the year. Viewed through that lens, Meri was just a lady who lived near Janelle and Christine’s family. They can’t be faulted for not having a close bond with a woman who was ok with their kids having significantly less than hers. She might be a nice neighbor but she’s not their family and it shows in their current lack of relationship.

    • @pyewacketpeggy8329
      @pyewacketpeggy8329 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ Really? I think Christine and Janelle got more in food stamps. Christine had her daughter diagnosed with a disability.

  • @charmingfrock101
    @charmingfrock101 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You don't have to be "happy shiny people" here. It's fine if you are outraged, grumpy, and outraged. It kind of grates when you apologize for being upset. We are processing because WE were taken in as well. Kody, with the help of his wives, lied to us from the beginning. We forgive the wives because they were in survival mode, but Kody can forget it. Grump away. You left the cult and we want you to fully join us !

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you! It does get exhausting trying to stay neutral or happy. This episode pissed me off! 😉

    • @charmingfrock101
      @charmingfrock101 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@NotestoSelf444 DUMP THE CULT! Join the rest of the country posting RANT videos. Rant videos are very popular, you just need to let peeps know that this is a RANT video in the title. You won't believe how much housework I get done watching rant videos and ranting back at them!

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ great idea! I’m thinking there is a rant video coming up soon.

  • @eleanorbarsic8065
    @eleanorbarsic8065 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dark brows are in! Or at least they were last year

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hell I color mine in too. I’m 50 now & those baby’s are fading. Hers just look like caterpillars on her face though 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jennybrzuchowski7362
    @jennybrzuchowski7362 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They did sell their house and the property that they owned (not coyote pass). They sold for 1.9 million.

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That’s crazy 🤯🤯

  • @jananderson5712
    @jananderson5712 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I having only been watching Sister Wives the past year or so, did Robyn grow up in polygamy or did her father just have a second family in another place, as in not polygamy just was cheating?

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, both of her dads were polygamist. It is very common for men to have their wives in different states. Robyn’s mom was not a mistress. This is false reporting

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Had her mom as a mistress. Robyn also said her step father adopted her. But like everything else she lied

    • @jananderson5712
      @jananderson5712 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@laneneal3510 I like to think people don’t lie but twice she said something and you see old footage that proves she lied.

    • @jananderson5712
      @jananderson5712 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      In one episode Kody and Robyn were outside and Kody was discussing about the family going to Meri’s house, Kody was for it as Meri had been following all Kody’s Covid rules but Robyn was absolutely against it maybe saying it was too dangerous, who makes the decisions, that would be Robyn. It also shows Robyn keeping the other wives away.

    • @jananderson5712
      @jananderson5712 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I loved this video, sorry I couldn’t stop commenting. 😀

  • @deemattina6234
    @deemattina6234 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How do you live on potatoes with a food storage?

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@deemattina6234 the food storage was at the favorite wife’s house. That was not my mom.

  • @deemattina6234
    @deemattina6234 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Who's the creator that is trying to speak for you?

    • @NotestoSelf444
      @NotestoSelf444  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@deemattina6234 I won’t name them publicly but they are out there. More of a tabloid channel than anything else. 🥺🥺